VirtuosoZollo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Is there any value in following up with a girl that likely lost interest? I do state my boundary plainly. Most men I have encountered have the mentality that women just need convincing or wearing down to get what they want And yeah I try to frame it that way, but it’s hard to not see it as a reflection of myself when that’s how most men see or treat me	/r/seduction	08/12/25 09:33 PM
3	Is there any value in following up with a girl that likely lost interest? If I communicate to a man that I do not engage in casual sex and then they try to make sexual advances despite knowing my morals and boundaries, I feel absolutely disrespected and objectified. It makes me wonder why I was perceived as a liar and just a sexual pursuit to conquest when I just want to be seen as a true romantic option :(	/r/seduction	08/12/25 06:46 PM
2	Is there any value in following up with a girl that likely lost interest? Antibiotics do take two weeks. But if you guys dated for more than two weeks then maybe lied	/r/seduction	08/12/25 06:00 PM
3	Is there any value in following up with a girl that likely lost interest? Even if you stated that you were inviting her over just to hang out, she most likely thought you were trying to have sex. Personally, as a woman who doesn’t have casual sex, I have had several men lie to me and say they are not inviting me over to fuck then they will try to make a move on me. Now I don’t go over to a guys place at all because it’s not worth the headache of rejecting them and it always makes me feel bad about myself If she had a UTI, her negative / not fun mood might have been be…	/r/seduction	08/12/25 05:48 PM
12	Is there any value in following up with a girl that likely lost interest? Is she into casual sex or sex before an official label? She communicated to you that she wanted a serious relationship. Then on the third date you intentionally made it boring then invited her into your place to have sex, which may have made her believe you weren’t serious about her and just wanted to use her for sex	/r/seduction	08/12/25 05:20 PM
2	She seemed interested at first, now she’s pulling back-what should I do? Do you know if she engages in casual sex? And what type of hang out did she invite you on? I would guess that no the possibility of fucking is extremely low or impossible. If you two haven’t even made out or even hung out outside work yet, getting her to fuck seems impossible	/r/seduction	08/12/25 05:02 PM
1	She seemed interested at first, now she’s pulling back-what should I do? She may just like to flirt but doesn’t want to take it farther. At this point I would advise giving up and just treating her as a friend	/r/seduction	08/12/25 04:53 PM
-2	Ladies, how do you like to be flirted with? I don’t date assholes so	/r/seduction	08/12/25 06:56 AM
18	Ladies, how do you like to be flirted with? Polite and nice. Just a simple introduction. No perfect pickup line would make me interested in a guy I am not attracted to. So if some unattractive guy approaches me, I rather it is a polite introduction because it’s less awkward than a a weird sexual one. I have found a lot of nerdy gamer guys try to do - sassy sarcastic and demeaning type flirting that just makes the whole situation super awkward and uncomfortable	/r/seduction	07/12/25 08:27 PM
1	What’s the sexiest hairstyle a girl can have? Depends on your race and location. Generally, long hair in a blow out - think Victoria Secret model blow out hair runway hair. After that, straightened long hair, ponytail with face framing, pigtails, fun braids, etc.	/r/seduction	06/12/25 03:38 AM
1	How to filter out gold diggers? All he has to do is not date his so-called “friend” lmao	/r/seduction	12/11/25 09:59 PM
3	How to filter out gold diggers? Why is he focused on one specific woman’s behavior instead of things that actually has happened to him?	/r/seduction	12/11/25 08:23 PM