Visenya98 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	22 yo virgin, advice?		Visenya98	/r/askFDS	04/01/21 01:27 AM
4	Literature for seduction?	Fundamentals	Visenya98	/r/seduction	30/01/21 02:07 AM
1	22 yo virgin, how avoid being taken advantage of?	SEX STRATEGY	Visenya98	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/21 03:08 AM
1	How to get some female support?	MINDSET SHIFT	Visenya98	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/21 05:17 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
41	Pregnant feminist who makes way less than bf will "pay for herself" in the name of equality This is the German culture! They think 50/50 is equality, German girls criticize me for wearing heels and make up. Men expect to be approached. Very sad, I love Germany, but I do not like the dating culture, such a pity.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/06/21 03:06 PM
33	How to get over the guilt of being groomed by an older guy I am sorry to hear that, I do not think that there is any fast way to cope with that traumatic experience. But certainly you have no fault in being groomed by someone older and in a power position, who took advantage of you, even though you were 18, it does not mean you were a fully developed adult. If the shame comes from feeling guilty for letting it happen, maybe you have to start forgiving yourself first. You do not have to feel bad about your first sexual experiences, there sure will come m…	/r/askFDS	10/06/21 10:57 AM
10	What do you do when you’ve compromised your own value? As already adviced please prioritise mental health to dating, you do not have to force anything. I have a similar symptomatic and I can assure you, any move you try currently will end up in you feeling feeling desperate and ridiculous. We as woman have to discard that blue prince fantasy who is going to help us to build up our confidence, that level of love and support takes years, and you are not going to get that type of relation with a bad self-esteem, I know it is hard but you have to get ov…	/r/askFDS	04/02/21 04:33 AM
21	Single LVM expects to be married by doing the bare minimum. The audacity. No girl, those men are rare, my father is not a bad guy and I love him very much, but since he was a spoiled kid with a mother who took care of every one of his needs, he never grew up. Also his self-steem was on lower side, allowing a lot of emotional abuse to him and to me. Many errors I have comitted come from listening from his needy perspective. It is very difficult to learn that you can just trust your own criteria as a young girl (mommy is not in the picture). With a strong man as parent,…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/21 04:02 AM
68	Single LVM expects to be married by doing the bare minimum. The audacity. Could you please borrow me your dad for a while? I highly need a strong oppinionated man as parental figure right now. You are lucky girl! Those men raise good kids. I hate cry baby men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/21 03:20 AM
16	Ladies, don't be a FWB Thank you, I learnt a lot! I am young and always had mistrust, you confirmed all my suspicions.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/21 09:25 AM
1	How to be seductive? Unfortunately I do not like girls.	/r/seduction	30/01/21 02:02 AM
1	22 yo virgin, advice? Not really, I am very unskilled I think, you know what I mean. I know there are toys and so, but I was raised Christian and did not got myself to buy one without feeling dirty, I know it is dumb, but I need time to process everything.	/r/askFDS	27/01/21 03:29 AM