Vishousbudz Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
31	Wife originally told me she wanted a divorce because she is not “feeling” it anymore now she is saying she wants space and wants to hold off on the divorce	Need Support	Vishousbudz	/r/Divorce_Men	11/08/24 01:37 PM
22	I go by the water everyday for 15-20 mins before work right after the gym and just let the emotions come before I get into robot mode for the day	Need Support	Vishousbudz	/r/Divorce_Men	20/11/24 02:39 AM
12	Just got hit with the “i want a divorce” how should i feel rn	Need Support	Vishousbudz	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/24 03:55 AM
7	Need some advice from yall. I find myself very angry in general cursing alot getting mad at people	Need Support	Vishousbudz	/r/Divorce_Men	11/01/25 06:34 AM

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3	Ex wife divorced me. I feel so lost with no purpose in life. Im 31 too bro these are actually supposed to be some of the best years of our lives, they wanna let go at this time for whatever bullshit they cook up cool. Promise you , you and I will only come out stronger from this. Hit the gym, surround yourself with people your trust and confide in and talk too about your feelings , get a therapist , hit the gym , take a trip go travel, set small goals for yourself live in the day to day not to far back and not far forward be in the present. Hit the gym an…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/02/25 11:37 PM
1	On my way To getting divorced It’s tough being south asian and vetting divorced. Im India Punjabi/Sikh to be specific I’m The first person in my family to get divorced. Take it slow, use this situation to find out what you need to do to better yourself learn how to be alone was something I really needed to do. Hit the gym grow your muscle if it’s meant to be someone will come into your life dont go out looking rn cause either you will get hurt more or you’ll hurt others.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/01/25 05:18 PM
2	How to go about it? I took an international trip with my ex a couple of weeks after she told me she no longer was happy. Thought it would help it didnt im even more salty about spending money on a trip to have her run to her mothers house literal days after we got back	/r/Divorce_Men	22/01/25 11:16 PM
4	Need some advice from yall. I find myself very angry in general cursing alot getting mad at people No children luckily	/r/Divorce_Men	11/01/25 05:38 PM
8	Didn’t want the divorce/ blessing in disguise I hated this phase man hold in there	/r/Divorce_Men	10/01/25 05:15 PM
3	Sunday sermon . I needed to hear that too	/r/Divorce_Men	11/08/24 11:54 PM
4	Wife originally told me she wanted a divorce because she is not “feeling” it anymore now she is saying she wants space and wants to hold off on the divorce Bipolar disorder I stand corrected its borderline personality disorder	/r/Divorce_Men	11/08/24 04:00 PM
5	Wife originally told me she wanted a divorce because she is not “feeling” it anymore now she is saying she wants space and wants to hold off on the divorce Shes 29 and im 31 years old. Most if not all of the issues we have are caused by family drama on either side. When you to the core of it we dont have that many actual issues of our own	/r/Divorce_Men	11/08/24 01:40 PM
3	What’s the best place to spend a week worth of vacation during a divorce? Amsterdam	/r/Divorce_Men	11/08/24 12:53 AM
16	Any happy stories of reconciliation later in life Dont let yourself be someone’s second option friend you have value. Value yourself	/r/Divorce_Men	08/08/24 04:15 AM
2	Final steps Just checking in my dude keep it going	/r/Divorce_Men	07/08/24 01:49 AM
2	Final steps What area are you in go to some aa or na meetings	/r/Divorce_Men	07/08/24 01:48 AM
9	Is your new girlfriend way better than your ex wife? Comparison is the thief of Joy my friend	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/24 03:35 PM
3	Final steps Get to some meetings i just started my first one last week youll find sober people there	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/24 04:54 AM
8	Final steps Stay sober bro !!!!! Im sober from heroin for 8 years now got clean for my wife currently whom will be my ex soon we are just getting started on our wonderful journey of divorce together. Sobriety is one thing no one can do the work for us only we can dont let her take that from you	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/24 02:51 AM
2	Being alone is hard! Ive been considering fostering a dog to see how itll go too this is a good rec for sure	/r/Divorce_Men	03/08/24 12:54 AM
1	I’m done!!!!!! With the spousal support!!! I woulda left the states shit	/r/Divorce_Men	02/08/24 03:48 AM
1	Please leave your best advice here for any fellow divorced man who may need it the most! It just sucks im indian so when we get married its not just us getting married its families getting married and divorce rates are so low that its almost taboo. I dont think my parents or hers understand they look at it in the old Indian born mindset whereas me and her have a more americanized view. I mean we kinda talked to maybe well try to see someone like counselor because we did identify all the stuff that was kicking shit up between us and it was all external third person drama and bullshit…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/24 03:06 AM
3	Engagement Ring Man im going through something similar just started talking about divorce i got my wife same 10 k engagement ring with a 4k band and a emerald and diamond bracelet (im indian so there is alot of jewelry giving in weddings not dowry im talking gifts we dont do dowry in my family tradition) i was making $600 biweekly when i started saving for the ring. It stings but she said she doesn’t want anything from me financially. All my shit is in my moms name always has been that way	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/24 03:00 AM
2	Please leave your best advice here for any fellow divorced man who may need it the most! I love you bro my wife and I just had the talk as I type this im trying to figure out how to tell my family	/r/Divorce_Men	31/07/24 11:09 PM
1	Just got hit with the “i want a divorce” how should i feel rn Yea i have been clean this long without NA i think i should head into the rooms since i dont have friends or family i had my wife cut everyone else off for her now im assed out	/r/Divorce_Men	30/07/24 07:38 PM
1	Present your self as the prize fellas Yea im here with your right now brother havent slept for a month or so properly just been packing her stuff up today in the house we bought well i paid for	/r/Divorce_Men	30/07/24 04:06 AM
1	Just got hit with the “i want a divorce” how should i feel rn None im 31 shes 29 neither of us wanted kids	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/24 01:26 PM
3	Just got hit with the “i want a divorce” how should i feel rn I dont have one	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/24 01:22 PM