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| 3 | CMV: There are far more “Amber Heard’s” out there than women let on.If Woman were as physically strong as Men domestic violence cases would be through the roof! I am not saying Woman are actually more inherently violent than Men. They aren’t. There is no denying that Men are fundamentally the more aggressive gender due to increased levels of testosterone. Woman aren’t starting wars and committing the bulk of murders. This is also why Men by in large have much higher sex drives. Testosterone drives much of the fundamental differences between the sexes. However th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 02:57 PM |
| 3 | “Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountableUnless one is a misandrist who believes all Men are inherently “bad”; if one keeps picking “bad” Men it’s likely that these “bad” men are not in fact the problem. The common dominator is the person picking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 03:19 PM |
| 7 | Q4W: How does women being able to"smell misoginy" line up with women who end up being in abusive relationships?Practically every woman with a dating history claims to have had an “abusive” partner at some stage. Either the vast majority of Men in existence are indeed “abusive”, “toxic”, “misogynistic” and “narcissistic” or these have simply become exaggerated buzzwords that a large swathe of Women kind use these days to describe a parter that has become somewhat disagreeable. This is not to say that genuinely abusive relationships -and Men- don’t exist. Just that they are much much rarer than posts like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Why is there a discrepancy in what men believe how women respond to men crying in relationships compared to what women believe how women respond?Most Woman will never admit-maybe not even to themselves- but they are hard wired to feel disgust at overly emotional Men. It’s not because they are hypocrites or emotionally selfish or because of outdated societal norms. It’s just inherent biological evolution at work. Up until very recently in our biological history Men have been the protecters and providers to Woman. Being strong both physically and emotionally were an absolute necessity in attracting a partner. Woman didn’t want Men in touch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 06:11 PM |
| 0 | Does a guy wanting to sleep with his female friend make the friendship less legitimate?It doesn’t make it less platonic. It means it’s not platonic at all. A lot of people just don’t seem to understand what platonic means. If they did the notion that heterosexual Men and heterosexual Woman can actually have truly platonic friendships wouldn’t be so prevalent. Don’t get me wrong. Men and Woman can have legitimate friendships that never actually get physical but it is almost never “platonic” in terms of the actual meaning of the word. Most so called “platonic” friendships between Me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 11:22 PM |
| 16 | Women who have careers and RP mindsetThere is a misnomer that the average guy somehow finds a well educated well paid partner a turn off. Woman often say Men are intimidated by such Woman. This is pretty ridiculous. The average guy-just like the average Woman-is not some high flying CEO with money to burn. He is somebody who is working hard to build a stable life for himself and his family and obviously wants a partner to be able to contribute as much as he is. A Woman with a good stable income is very attractive to most Men as bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Women ‘initiate’ 70% of divorces because women do most of the households admin tasksWe can speculate the reasons why most divorces are initiated by Woman but where one stands on this debate will largely depend on one’s gender. Men will say Woman are largely responsible and Woman will say it’s Men’s fault. What’s interesting though when it comes to the debate about the massive gender disparity in divorce initiation is that people rarely speak about who initiates the majority of marriages in the first place. While it is obvious that Men are doing the vast majority of proposing it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Are most hot women boring as fuck or have I just been unlucky?This all stands to reason and is not gender specific. The more physically attractive somebody is the less they have to worry about cultivating their personality and or intellect to attract a mate. | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 11:59 AM |
| -3 | Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men?A think there are likely a number of reasons for this. 1: The average Woman has a significantly lower sex drive than the average man. Lots of Woman on here will disagree with this but there have been countless studies done on this subject concluding the same thing. This stands to reason given the direct correlation between libido and testosterone levels. Of course unlike the average man the average woman can easily obtain regular sex outside of being in a relationship if she so wants to. Most me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 08:22 PM |
| 1 | If there is a very high chance that a woman will divorce you in marriage is there any reason for men to get married anymore?Given there is now very little social stigma to cohabitating and starting a family outside of marriage; any man choosing to do so in this day and age has to be pretty crazy. The advantages to getting married are so outweighed by the negative consequences of divorce for most men that is baffling it has still yet to die out completely. The reason it hasn’t died out of course is because Woman are keeping it alive. Not because Woman believe in the intuition of marriage in genuine sense( as illustrat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man?Generally speaking Men have more to lose when it comes to the breakdown of a marriage. Both financially and regarding access to children. If a relationship isn’t working and the Women is not the breadwinner there is no incentive for her to stay but every incentive for her to leave. Woman also have a much easier time finding a new relationship than Men. Not a long term substantial relationship necessarily but certainly a casual rebound relationship. Practically any Woman can jump on OLD and have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see?This depends on what you define as “attractive”? I’m guessing this post is a response to the common narrative that most average Woman don’t find average Men attractive but most average Men do find most average Woman attractive. Hence the massive disparity in the dating market. This disparity though doesn’t stem from Woman or Men on average being more or less attractive than the other. There is no objective way to measure that. It stems from Men having significantly higher libidos than Woman and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 09:49 PM |
| 2 | The “Limp D-ck” male wall counter argumentTaking away that Viagra is a thing everybody ages and so Men of course eventually “hit the wall” just like Women do. However because a Man’s attractiveness in the eyes of a Woman is not simply based on his looks and youth in the same way it is for Woman the general perception is Men “age better” than Woman in terms of the sexual market place. Of course this is not true when it comes to obtaining casual sex. A 60 year old who dove head first into “the wall” 30 years ago will still find it signifi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Is there ever a point when finding a sexual partner is easier for the average man than for the average woman?Maybe when the average Woman hits 80… in comparison to the average guy who’s 21. However even that’s debatable! Remember even Woman that don’t put up any profile pics get more matches than most guys when it comes to OLD. Of course OP is talking about sex and not long term relationships. In this scenario even the “average” Woman can rack up a higher body count than a Hollywood actor. Finding a sexual partner is the easiest thing in the world for the most average Woman. Of course unlike most men; … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Is chivalry dead and did Woman kill it?What’s an example of modern chivalry? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 11:11 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on the “Karen” phenomenon?I’m being pedantic about the correct use of the term Karen only because you decided to send me the reductive and condescending claim of “I don’t think you know what a Karen is” while contributing nothing else to the discussion. I then found it amusing that you happened to be the one defining the term in a manner most people would in fact find incorrect. My question above is designed to prompt debate. I am not making an assumption of fact which is why it is presented from two very different angle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 01:02 AM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on the “Karen” phenomenon?With respect I think it’s you who doesn’t know what Karen means in terms of it’s usage in popular society. While it is yet to have an official dictionary definition there is a whole Wikipedia page on the societal phenomenon which is a pretty good indication on how it is used and accessed by society at large. Feel free to take a look. The pejorative Karen is very much gender, age, race and class specific. How you would personally like a term to be used is not the same as how society at large have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 12:39 AM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on the “Karen” phenomenon?What do you think I think a Karen is and what is the correct definition of a Karen according to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 12:21 AM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on the “Karen” phenomenon?Of course there are. There are antisocial and unpleasant people of every gender, age, race, socioeconomic class. Being entitled and insufferable is no way exclusive to middle class, middle aged white woman. The question is why has this specific subset of people garnered such a derogatory term and why now in particular if these types of people have always existed? Is this a display of sexism? Classism? Agism? I personally don’t have the answers but it’s fascinating to watch a new negative stereot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Are standards “too high” if they are met?If a person’s standards are met than of course they aren’t too high in that instance. When people say a Woman’s standards are too high it’s usually in response to her complaining that her standards not being met but that she will “never settle” as if she is inherently superior to all those people that find her attractive but that she doesn’t find attractive in return. It’s simply calling out entitled delusion and arrogance. Somebody having their standards met( no matter how high) is clearly not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 11:44 PM |
| 7 | What are your thoughts on the “Karen” phenomenon?I think there is a notion that “Karen’s” start to manifest in middle age because this is when Woman start to become sexually invisible for the first time since they hit puberty. They have suddenly lost the ability to receive validation through their sexually and now have trouble navigating a world where people( men especially) are no longer nice to them simply because of how they look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 10:12 PM |
| 6 | What are some dating hills that you will die on?Anybody who is actively looking for a relationship but finds themselves perpetually single has unrealistic standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 11:25 PM |
| 2 | What constitutes a 'bad boy'? A lot of posts have been about bad boys recently.A “bad boy” is simply an attractive and charismatic guy who priorities his own pleasure and desires (sexual or otherwise)over that of his partner. How much of a “bad boy” this person is can range from somebody who leaves the toilet seat up to being a serial killer. The relevant thing is that he is sexually desirable and very confident because of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Why do some women still choose to be stay at home parents?The question should really be why wouldn’t a Women choose to be a stay at home parent if the possibility is available? Surely being a parent and bringing up your own child should be seen as a more desirable life than whatever wage slave “career” the vast majority of people endure. It’s interesting that we as a society have evolved whereby we now think a Woman being chained to a desk for 60 years of her life is somehow more noble and fulfilling than staying at home to raise the child she has deci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 06:31 PM |
| 1 | The idea that Will Smith is a "beta male" is ridiculous and shows how delusional the manosphere isEverything is relative. In comparison to the vast majority of men Will Smith is astonishingly attractive and charismatic. He’s one of the most successful and until very recently admired movie stars of all time. He’s likely to have slept with literally hundreds of super model level Woman including Margo Robbie. On a surface level he’s probably had one of the most blessed lives any human being has ever lived. This though is precisely why so many people see him as a “beta male” when it comes to his… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Men "riding the pussy carousel"? (my mum seeing men in their 20s that way)You’re Mum-like most Woman-is fixating on the top 20 percent of Men that actually have the ability to pull this off. The other 80 percent of Men are invisible to her and herein lies the problem for most Men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: does it bother you when you see a 30+ women settle down with a HVM?Why would it bother anybody? Good for anybody who finds a partner they are happy with. I’m assuming the point of this post is to somehow negate the RP idea that woman over the age of 30 are delusional if they can think they can attract a “HVM”. Whether this is truth or not I think you seem to be automatically conflating high earning with HVM. Having a lot of money certainly increases your attractiveness significantly to a lot of woman but it doesn’t automatically turn you into Casanova. This is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 10:49 PM |
| 11 | The Facts on the Ground: What is Really Going On?Men will continue to be more sexually and socially isolated. This is often attributed to the raise in OLD and the huge disparity between male and female users. While this is undoubtedly a massive factor I also think as porn becomes ever more mainstream so does the practical desire to seek out real life sexual partners. There is a narrative that men will “sleep with anything” but the mainstream accessibility of porn has given a lot of men unrealistic standards in the same way social social media … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 10:14 AM |
| 7 | “Lower you standard”, is the worst possible advice a person can get, when it comes to datingNobody should ever “settle” for anything or anyone. You get one life and if you ultimately prefer to spend it alone than to be with someone you feel like like you have “settled” for than that’s absolutely fine. Everybody is just doing whatever they think is best for them. Reality check though; nearly every single person in a relationship has “settled” to some degree. Everyone wants Henry Cavil or Margo Robbie or whoever their “ideal” sexual partner might be. 99 percent of people will never achie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 11:50 AM |
| -7 | Do older men really find younger women attractive or try to get with them?There is a lot of data that males( regardless of of whether they are 13 or 80)find woman between the ages of 18-24 the most attractive. This stands to reason given this is when woman are at there most fertile. “Simple” biological evolution. It is also where the whole “woman hit the wall at 25” things stems from. In answer to your question; yes Men overwhelmingly find younger woman( 18-24) attractive. In answer to the second part of your question: do they “try and get with them?” the answer is ge… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/22 12:59 AM |
| 7 | Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting marriedI very much doubt Will Smith actually cares about his wife banging other Men on any personal level. They have supposedly had an open relationship for years and in all likelihood he has been sleeping with 100’s if not thousands of the most attractive Woman on the planet throughout their relationship. What he cares about is the undeniable perception in the world that he is a “cuck”. You can be great looking, you can be talented,you can win an Oscar for your craft, you can have hundreds of millions… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting marriedRegardless of being one of the most famous, successful, attractive, high status men on the entire planet this is the culmination of literally 100’s of millions of people seeing you as a cuck. Everybody has a breaking point. It’s unfortunate for him-but entertaining for much of the world-that he had his breaking point in front of hundreds of millions of people. Really funny thing is there is going to be lots of people in the mainstream media saying this is how “real men” defend their Woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Do overweight women struggle attracting men?Struggle attracting men? Very attractive men obviously. Men in general? Of course not. Remember we live in a world where even Woman without profile pics will get matches on online dating sites. Beyond the very real epidemic of Sugar addiction one of the reasons there is so many overweight Woman is because being such has very little consequence to their dating prospects. Don’t get me wrong it is undeniable that if they lost the weight they would up their SMV massively. However if being a fat fema… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 08:28 PM |
| 9 | Do overweight women struggle attracting men?Sugar is a hell of a drug. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: In your experience, what's the best place to meet virgin/low body-count women?Church? But even then I don’t like your odds if you are over 16… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 03:56 AM |
| 7 | Women who say the want a "HVM", why don't you all ever mention what YOU bring to the table other than "WAP"- which is standard on all women?Neither men or woman are “original” in our ideal preferences. Woman’s preferences are just as predictable. The problem is these “preferences” are not the same for both genders-which seems to be a cause of annoyance on both “sides” as it means we are not necessarily looking for the same things or able to provide the same things. I also think it annoys both genders that there is a significant disparity between the ability to increase one’s SMV. Men are annoyed that Woman have so many “unrealistic”… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 03:07 AM |
| 3 | can men and women be friends without attraction?All depends how you are defining “friends”. It’s entirely possible for a man and woman to be friendly and enjoy a genuine emotional and intellectual connection without being in a romantic relationship. It is however very very difficult for said relationship to ever be completely platonic on both sides. Chances are one side( usually male) will very enthusiastically jump into the bed with the other as soon as the green light is given. Is this is a true “friendship”. All depends on how you define t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 11:54 PM |
| 13 | Dating in North America vs EuropeBroadly speaking modern day dating cultures and expectations in North America and Western Europe are the same. We after all have the same type of OLD Apps, similar sexual mores and are exposed to similar media. One significant difference I have noticed however is that “dating” multiple people at the same time seems to be a uniquely American phenomenon. This is not to say Europeans aren’t just as sexually promiscuous. If anything they are even more “sexually liberated” and likely to engage in cau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 06:15 PM |
| 1 | What is your personal definition of “cheating” in a relationship?I’m not disagreeing with you. Everybody has their own definition of cheating that is completely personal to themselves. That’s why it is such an interesting question. Some cultures believe merely observing a woman’s hair is an act of infidelity if it’s not that if their partner. Others believe you can sleep with as many different partners other than your own and it’s not “cheating” if they are aware of it. I’m just curious if you hold the same standard of cheating to yourself as you do to your p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | What is your personal definition of “cheating” in a relationship?A person they are interacting with in real life or just any other person in general? If they have a crush( sexual desire) on a celebrity would you consider that cheating? Do you ever have any sexual desire to other people outside of your relationship? What if you have sexual desire towards somebody else but never act on it? At what point does it become cheating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 03:11 PM |
| 4 | How common is it for women to stop having sex with their husbands after marriage?Humans have evolved to seek novel experiences. Having sex with the same person year in year out is going to get mundane at some stage regardless of how much you love that person. In any long term monogamous relationship there will always be a trade off between the sexual variety most humans seek and being with somebody you have a deep emotional connection beyond simple sexual gratification. You’ll have to choose what is more important to you. Practically all marriages( or long term relationships… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 01:20 AM |
| 2 | The ManChild is brough up as an Insult, Articles are written for Women to avoid him. Yet those ManChildren are prevalent and evidently score relationships. What are their benefits?The type of Woman that uses terminology like “Man Child” to shame his “lack of ambition” would equally describe a 45 year old meth head who spends his days hanging out with 13 years at the local skate park as a pillar of society and a great provider if he happened to have a large enough trust fund. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Why should women partner up with their equal, where did that rule come from?In the gender debate it’s curious that many men persistently point out the inherent biological differences between Men and Woman and as such it is absurd that society ever strives for equality of outcome. All we can do is make sure “sexism” doesn’t exist within law and than allow natural biology to determine trends rather than social engineering. For example woman shouldn’t complain there aren’t enough highly paid CEO’s or engineers in the world. There is no structures( in the western world) sto… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 02:05 PM |
| 4 | Why should women partner up with their equal, where did that rule come from?The crux of your post is completely correct. Two people-and who they find attractive or unattractive is ultimately nobody else’s business. At the end of the day “leagues” are indeed just arbitrary constructs and consenting adults can do whatever they please with whoever they please. Nobody is not actually going to not date somebody because some random internet stranger they will never meet might have an opinion on it. The dating market isn’t “fair” just like life isn’t “fair”. It doesn’t mean ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 12:59 PM |
| 19 | The ManChild is brough up as an Insult, Articles are written for Women to avoid him. Yet those ManChildren are prevalent and evidently score relationships. What are their benefits?“Manchild” is just an insult Woman throw around to describe men that don’t meet the materialistic expectations they have placed on him. These same Woman would also describe Van Gogh, Franz Kafka and Edgar Allan Poe as “Man Children” for pursuing a life that wasn’t solely geared towards a corporate job and obtaining a 6 figure income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsOr there is a significant difference between a “cry for help” and actually being determined to kill yourself. In the context of this thread this actually displays an apt correlation between Woman seeking help and being encouraged to be vulnerable( even by the very extreme means of a suicide “attempt”) and men being so ashamed about doing the same thing that even an actual “suicide attempt” will be judged as a sign of weakness if it results in failure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsThere is some data to suggest that Woman actually “attempt” suicide more than Men. However why do you think men are 3 times more likely to “successfully” commit suicide than Woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Has there been any adverse affects to female sex positivity in your opinion?The access to causal sex for Woman has indeed never been greater. Make no mistake though the “stigma” Woman face regarding causal sex hasn’t gone away and- whether we like it or not- never will. There is a prevailing belief among promiscuous, sex positive Woman that if they are “slut shamed” it is because of “sexism”, “double standards” and the “patriarchy”. On a surface level you could argue that this is all true. However if you reduce things down enough and actually question why this “sexism” … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 11:49 PM |
| 6 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsJust because somebody doesn’t agree with you it’s not cool to accuse them of being “condescending” or an “incel” but fine. No disagreement that there are “tons of stereotypes that just aren’t true” or at least justified. I was simply stating that all stereotypes emerge from somewhere( justified or not) and was questioning whether you agreed that one existed regarding Woman not actually knowing what they want when it comes to dating? Or that you genuinely thought it was something I just made up o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 11:14 PM |
| 7 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsI didn’t say Woman don’t know what they want. I said the cliche that woman don’t know what they want exits because of confused double standards such as this. Are you saying that this cliche doesn’t actually exist? I’m not asking whether or not the cliche/ stereotype is fair or not just that there is one in the first place. If you acknowledge that the stereotype exists where do you think it comes from and why do certain people hold this view? Because they are “incels” is probably not a good answe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 10:06 PM |
| 8 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsThat’s kind of like asking for a citation for the assertion that the earth is round. At this stage we have at least 150 years of study into human evolution and as to why certain traits are deemed attractive- and unattractive- to the respective genders. My assertion is simply a logical extrapolation of the millions of words written into why common masculine traits such as confidence and stoicism is more attractive to Woman than vulnerability and emotion. So you don’t accuse me of not being able t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 08:23 PM |
| 11 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsThe assertion that Woman are generally more attracted to confidence and stoicism in a partner than they are to overt emotional vulnerability? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 06:33 PM |
| 0 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelings“I am the way I am”. I must admit that’s about the most refreshingly honest and clear cut response one can hope to get on a discussion thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsThere are of course exceptions to every rule. As a generalisation though it’s not controversial to state that Woman are not sexually attracted to overly emotional and vulnerable men in the same way they are drawn to stoic and confident men. Why is “Man Up” such a common insult used by both genders? What does this phrase mean to most Woman who use it? Why isn’t there a female equivalent of “Woman up?” Men and Woman are simply very different in terms of what we find attractive and unattractive in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsWhy do you have to be in sexual relationship to open up to somebody? Do you have to be banging your therapist for therapy to be effective? My point is that there is a double standard in society. While Men should absolutely be more vulnerable in general trying to do so with their romantic interest often has the opposite results to what was intended. I.E it doesn’t bring them closer together but rather it diminishes her sexual attraction to him. This is of course not a good thing. But it is a thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 05:43 PM |
| 27 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsObviously no Woman wants to date a complete emotionless robot. However it’s a balancing act and one a lot of Woman don’t realise they are engaged in until the scales tip the wrong way. The cliche that Woman don’t know what they actually want when it comes to finding a partner exists for reasons like this. When Woman say their guy is “emotionally distant” what they really mean is that that their guy is “emotionally distant” only when it comes to engaging in their emotions and problems. They want … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsAgree with you completely. Men do need this regardless of relationship status. Truly platonic relationships between heterosexual men and woman are so rare however that other than their being exceptions to every rule-you could say they don’t exist at all. If a guy has a female “friend” 99 percent of the time it’s because he has some level of romantic interest in her and is hoping to be taken out of the “friend zone”. Nothing will keep a guy in the “friend zone” quite like actually behaving like a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 03:30 PM |
| 61 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsOne of the biggest lies Woman tell Men(and themselves) is that they want their parters to “open up” and be more “emotionally vulnerable”. They absolutely do not. Maybe they think they do but they certainly don’t once it actually happens. Nothing dries up a Woman quite like a Man’s tears. Displaying any kind of vulnerability is almost always the worse thing a man can do if he wants to retain his partners attraction to him. Woman are biologically programmed to be repulsed by “emotional” guys in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Hollywood is guilty of influencing men to bend over backwards for women who aren't that into themMost mainstream movies are “aspirational” and are cynically tailored to fit whatever demographic happens to be their target audience. If the audience is predominantly teenage boys then the female love interest is likely to look like a fashion model whereas the male lead is comparatively “Everyman”. If the target audience is female divorces in their 40’s it’s the same principle-only their love interest not only happens to be a a step above the female lead in the looks department but also a multim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 01:06 PM |
| 2 | There’s no reason why a woman shouldn’t be promiscuous nowadays if they want toYou’re right “there’s no reason why a woman shouldn’t be promiscuous nowadays if they want to be”. We live in a free society and any woman should be able to do whatever she wishes with her own body if it isn’t hurting anybody else. However this doesn’t change the reality that the majority of men are repulsed by female promiscuity. This in itself shouldn’t stop woman being promiscuous if she so chooses. Just that most men will make a judgement on her if she is. It is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Is having a "hoe phase" important for maturing ?It’s hilarious that there are actually people equating the most base human desire to bang as many bodies as possible as being “important for maturing”. Like taking 300 cocks is some noble rites of passage necessary to reach true enlightenment. 😂 The question should probably be reframed as is having a “hoe phase” important to having a fulfilling life? Lots of people believe “variety is the spice of life” and is why so many of us( male and female) seek sexual gratification from as many different p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Why are you interested in a relationship/sex?As I said all sexuality exists on a spectrum. Being “asexual” is not some perfectly defined label just like being heterosexual or homosexual isn’t. Somebody can and might identify as being homosexual rather than bisexual even if they have also had heterosexual encounters in thier life. At the end of the day these are just terms made up by human beings in an attempt to categorise things for the sake of efficient communication. The specifics of your sexuality is unique to you just as mine is to me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Why are you interested in a relationship/sex?Sexuality like anything else exists on a spectrum. You say you are not completely asexual but if you have “no incentive” to act on your sexual desires than you certainly don’t have what most people would consider a typical libido. Most peoples desire to have sex derives from the simple biological urge to procreate and propagate the species. Of course while procreation might be the fundamental reason sex exists-in actuality it is not as “simple” as that. Evolution and biology is not some clear cu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 04:25 AM |
| 1 | TRP and FDS subscribers: Is there anyone of the opposite sex who you respect/admire?It’s a misnomer that subscribing to TRP and FDS automatically makes you a misogynist or a misandrist. Now I am not naive enough to say that there aren’t many subscribers to TRP and FDS that are fundamentally these things but at their core TRP and FDS is about acknowledging that men and woman are very different in terms of the dating market place. One isn’t more or less “toxic” than the other. They are just “toxic” or “admirable” or “shallow” or “substantive” in different ways. I can respect and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Would you go out of your way to talk to a woman you had no sexual attraction towards?There is a difference between simple common curtesy( which has nothing to do with attractIon) and “going out of your way” to talk to somebody. If a guy is “going out of his way” to talk to you than 99 percent of the time it’s because he is attracted to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 11:26 PM |
| 9 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?It’s quite simple. Toxic masculinity: Masculine men who Woman don’t find physically attractive. HVM: Masculine men who Woman do find physically attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Is the Women are Wonderful effect becoming stronger? weaker?Depends what on what you mean by the “long run”. I’m no authority on evolutionary biology but would guess you’ll need at least a hundred thousand years of natural selection for something as fundamental as the testosterone disparity between the sexes to even itself out- and thus make men and woman equally aggressive and nurturing ect…Of course this level of speculation is science fiction and at this stage two separate genders might not even exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 12:58 PM |
| 6 | Is the Women are Wonderful effect becoming stronger? weaker?The WAW effect will always remain because relative to men women will always be the “gentler” sex. This is in no way to say they are more moral, virtuous, kind ect… just that they are undoubtedly more nurturing and less aggressive than men as evolution( and being the child baring sex) has made it so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | What benefit do women have being more emotional than men?As with most things related to gender politics Men and Woman are very similar but very different at the same time. Men are just as “emotional” as woman. They are just “emotional” in different ways. Anger is an emotion and one that men typically experience and display more than woman due to having more testosterone. I suspect by “emotional” you mean woman are likely to react to a stressful situation in a less practical and analytical fashion than that of a man. Crudely put a man will take action … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Q4All. Do you really believe there's a link between women having casual sex and societal decline?The only way to attempt to properly answer this is to have a definition of “societal decline”. Society and “morality” is constantly evolving but one persons “decline” is another persons “ascent”. Some will argue that female promiscuity is a wonderful consequence of sexual liberation and should be celebrated as a sign of a progressive society unshackled by sexist repressive values. Others will argue that it represents a breakdown in traditional family values and structures and is indicative of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 04:24 PM |
| 3 | What solutions would you guys propose?I know this question is directed at men but the “solution” is just as relevant for woman who may be able to obtain sex at the drop of a hat but complain about never being able to find a man that wants to commit to them. If you are perpetually single( but genuinely don’t want to be) than you need to do what pretty much everybody says you never should: LOWER YOUR UNREALISTIC STANDARDS. It sounds trite but there really is somebody for everybody. The problem is not that nobody finds that dateless pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 01:12 AM |
| 5 | What solutions would you guys propose?“Dating” apps are only good for two sets of people. 1: The very small percentage of extremely photogenic guys that pretty much have their pick of all female users. 2: Woman( conventionally attractive or otherwise) that are only interested in casual sex. Unless you fall into the above categories than the solution is to simply get off the apps and start meeting people the old fashioned way. People complain about how “shallow” everybody is these days when it comes to dating but that is hardly surpr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 11:54 PM |
| 14 | Women settle for psychopaths, they never seek themWe often talk about the idea of woman being attracted to “bad boys” in the context of gender politics. The truth is though that human being in general( regardless of gender) are attracted to charismatic, dominant and sociopathic people that are ultimately detrimental to their own well being. You only have to look around at the state of the world and the leaders we vote in to rule over us to see how evident this is. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/22 05:21 PM |
| 4 | Do you think women are having fewer kids now because of preference, economics or irresponsibility?There are lots of reasons woman( and people in general) in the west are having fewer kids. Financial: It’s never been more difficult to raise a middle class family on what was once considered a middle class salary. Practical: The average household typically now needs both parents to be working full time just to survive. The days of the stay at home mother are gone for the average family. “Family life” is not what is was even a couple of generations ago. Social. While being completely child free … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 03:07 PM |
| 1 | What do you realistically bring to "the table"?When it comes to actual genuine romantic relationships-rather than business contracts- there is no objective table. It’s not about what somebody brings to THE table. It’s about what somebody brings to the object of their affections table. It’s for partner to judge not the individual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4All - What does everyone thing about the Harry Met Sally-esque “men and women can’t be friends”?Can heterosexual men and woman be friends? If by “friends” you mean caring for somebody and liking their company than of course they can. Anybody can be friends or friendly with anybody else regardless of age, gender, class, race, nationality ect… if you click with somebody you click with somebody and become friends. Can heterosexual men and heterosexual woman have a completely platonic friendship? There is an exception to every rule but this is very very very unlikely. All those woman that imme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Russia vs Ukraine Mega-ThreadThey might not open their doors to Taiwanese refugees but the eyes of the Western world would suddenly be even more focused on Taiwan then it is currently-and understandably-focused on the Ukraine. An invasion of Taiwan will represent a march towards a world wide Nuclear conflict even more so than the current events in the Ukraine. Currently NATO don’t have to “legally” do anything to directly assist the Ukraine against Russia. This is the main reason why the world hasn’t yet descended in World … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 11:04 PM |
| 10 | If men are the problem in western dating then why aren't women leaving the country to find other men?Because unlike most men; the vast majority of Western Woman have zero difficulty in getting laid by men in their own country. The idea that Western men are uprooting their lives in pursuit of more virtuous foreign Woman so they can have meaningful long term monogamous relationships that Western woman won’t provide is absurd. Sure this might happen on occasion but let’s face it the motivating drive is sex not relationships. Western woman don’t have the same motivation as they have sex on tap alre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Russia vs Ukraine Mega-ThreadGetting more attention where online? Reddit? Reddit is a Western website. I don’t know the stats but I assume the majority of users are Western. It stands to reason that a Western platform is more likely to cover a Western conflict. All human beings are tribal. This is why wars unfortunately exist in the first place and is also why people gravitate to media that most focuses on their own ‘tribe’. You are not wrong to suggest that there has been a shocking under reporting in the West to the horro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 01:28 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Every person should aim for the best that they can get and go for it and there's nothing wrong with that.Anybody can have whatever standards and preferences they want. These can be the most unrealistic ludicrous list of requirements you can think of. It doesn’t matter. If that’s what that individual wants that’s what they want. Whether they get it or not only ultimately affects them. Apart from maybe parents desperate for Grandchildren nobody actually gives a flying fuck about other peoples sex lives and romantic relationships. They can do-or not do-whatever the hell they what. What annoys people-i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 12:53 PM |
| 3 | Men are a lot hornier than women, and this is the root cause of all of the issues in dating and gender relationsMen as a whole are certainly a lot hornier than Woman. There have been lots of studies into libido disparity between the genders proving this. While there are different factors at play the prevailing reason is the difference in testosterone levels between the sexes. I’m not sure however why this “is the root cause of all the issues in dating and gender relations”. If anything if Woman where just as horny as men dating and gender relations would be even more problematic. You would have an even gr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 01:18 AM |
| 1 | What’s this obsession with 18-19 year olds?I’ve already mentioned my source numerous times in this thread but I am assuming you have missed it. Read ‘A Billion Wicked Thoughts: What the worlds largest experiment tells us about human desire’. It’s 400 pages so hopefully constitutes a “wealth of data” for you and everybody down voting the demonstrable realities of human biology 👍 | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/22 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Do women feel insulted if a man expresses that he wants to hookup?Unless you look like Henry Cavil this is not going to work for you. Even Woman that are ultimately just after casual sex themselves want the illusion that they are not just being used for their body. You have to remember that Woman and Men are not the same when it comes to sexual desire. A man will happily sleep with just about any Woman if she straight up asks for nothing more than sex. No courtship required whatsoever. A Woman-no matter how promiscuous-nearly always wants to feel like she is b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 06:43 PM |
| 0 | What’s this obsession with 18-19 year olds?No I don’t have a BS in sociology. I just have the basic reading comprehension required to process very simple information. I don’t need a BS in sociology to read and understand concepts published by sociologists like yourself. I’m fascinated that you have an actual BS in sociology but commented “lame” on my post outlining widely accepted concepts in your own professional community. Why do you(an actual sociologist) disagree with that I( and most of your peers) are saying exactly? Or are you sim… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/22 07:36 AM |
| 0 | What’s this obsession with 18-19 year olds?I’ve already mentioned the source a couple of times in this thread already. It’s a 400 page book called A Billion Wicked Thoughts: What the worlds largest experiment reveals about human desire. Hopefully 400 pages is a comprehensive enough source for you and everybody downvoting me 😂 | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/22 06:45 AM |
| -1 | What’s this obsession with 18-19 year olds?Most accepted sociological theories are derived using sample sizes( if we are lucky) in the thousands. This is even true for scientific studies with actual serious practical applications like pharmaceutical drug testing. Either you are trolling or you don’t comprehend just how signifiant a sample size of a just a million people would be-let alone a Billion-in the context any sociological study. If however you are implying that the only way the scientific community can use data to predict sociolo… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/22 05:17 AM |
| 26 | Q4All, what makes some people say women being promiscuous is a catalyst for societal collapse?I’ve never heard somebody speaking so hyperbolically as to actually claim female promiscuity is a catalyst for societal collapse. This seems quite the exaggeration. What they are probably getting at is that female promiscuity will naturally lead to a decline of the traditional two parent family unit. This in turn will result in more children being brought up by single mothers. All the data suggests that children of two parent households are significantly less likely to participant in a life of c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 11:50 PM |
| 0 | What’s this obsession with 18-19 year olds?I’ve already posted in this thread why Men’s sexual preference for Woman between the ages of 18-24 is demonstrably true. If you haven’t seen this post I will simply say read ‘A Billion Wicked Things’ and appreciate that the conclusions reached comes from a sample size of literally BILLIONS of unwitting participants. I concede that the data studies into female age preferences when it comes to sexual attraction isn’t quite as clear cut and watertight as that of men. This is simply because across p… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Why is everybody's Ex 'abusive'?Everybody in relationship forums seemly have had an “abusive”, “toxic” or “narcissistic” ex because language is constantly evolving and these have simply become buzzwords for this generation that no longer hold the same meaning that they once did. Sociopaths, Clinical Narcissists and Abusers do of course exist in society but thankfully they are very rare. Reddit however would lead you to believe they exist at epidemic levels- either that or everybody is dating the exact same 3 percent of the pop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 01:54 PM |
| -3 | What’s this obsession with 18-19 year olds?What is lame is the predictable downvotes to pointing out simple evolutionary realities. There are countless studies on this that a quick Google search would reveal. However if somebody is interested in a truly comprehensive take on this and one that pretty much moves things away from scientific theory to demonstrable fact- they should read “A Billion Wicked Things: What the world’s largest experiment reveals about human desire”. Unlike most scientific studies done into human sexuality( formally… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/22 01:23 PM |
| -8 | What’s this obsession with 18-19 year olds?It’s an uncomfortable truth for some but there is a wealth of data confirming that the vast majority of men find woman to be at their most sexually appealing during her late teens and early twenties. This is irrespective of if the male is 13 or 80. Who he is most attracted doesn’t change as he ages. It is ridiculous that men are often-including on this thread- shamed for having absolutely mainstream sexual preferences driven by 100’s of thousands of years of evolution. It makes complete logical … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/22 03:05 AM |
| 52 | If women actually believed "only insecure" men care about their sexual history, then women wouldn't lie about itThe reason why woman lie about their sexual history is they know deep down that the vast majority of men( “insecure” or the most confident men in the world) are repulsed by promiscuous woman when it comes to long term relationship prospects. We can debate why most men feel this way till the cows come home. However what is more difficult to debate is that most men do indeed feel this. Woman know this to be inherently true and therefore it makes sense for them to be reluctant to discuss there sexu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Short Woman with height requirements; how tall is your father and brothers?It’s interesting and amusing that the vast majority of replies from short girls in this thread is to point out that while they themselves are short their fathers and or brothers are in fact tall. As such they have no advice regarding the plight of their male kin taken within the context of the modern day dating market. While having a tall father and a tall brother is certainly not a genetic guarantee that you( the daughter) will also be tall( in relation to your gender) it is certainly a massive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 04:20 PM |
| 2 | I'm very new to all these pills but red pill seems very convincing. Can women in this sub refute the following claims ?I assume that in this hypothetical scenario they find their husband attractive enough to have sex with them in their marriage. If so I also presume they would find them “attractive enough” to have sex with them in a causal setting as well. The question though I think you are asking is whether she likely to have causal sex with her husband over all the other more physically attractive options also at her disposal? In this case the answer is no. Why would she if it’s just a body for casual sex? If… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Short Woman with height requirements; how tall is your father and brothers?“Being big and tall is an advantage in actual hand to hand combat with other humans”. Exactly. You’ve made the point yourself. To than conclude that “you don’t think being tall was an evolutionary advantage” is baffling. There is a reason why there are weight devisions( and weight and strength generally-though not always- correlates with height) in professional combat sports. Floyd Mayweather is often cited as the greatest pound for pound boxer of all time. However he would be lucky last a round… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 06:39 AM |
| 2 | I'm very new to all these pills but red pill seems very convincing. Can women in this sub refute the following claims ?1: I’m not sure if there is any hard data on this so would just be speculation. Important to remember Reddit is not representative of any demographic other than Reddit users. “Most” across society as a whole is a very large number. 2: Of course. Why wouldn’t they. This is completely the same for men able to obtain casual sex. The issue many men have with this is that they believe the average Woman is able to attract men for sex way out of her “league”. By contrast the average man can only attrac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 05:43 AM |
| 2 | Short Woman with height requirements; how tall is your father and brothers?“Hopefully something more scientific”. Seriously? Are you honestly asking why being big and tall in a preindustrial environment( I.E most of human history) wouldn’t be an evolutionary advantage and therefore more attractive to female partners? Unless you think evolution itself is just a theory( and I am aware there are some people that do even in this day and age) this is not some obscure idea I am “referring to” rather it is a very basic and fundamental tenet of how evolution works. If you want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 03:09 AM |
| 5 | Q4W How would you react to your SO losing a fight in a really pathetic way?The prevailing RP idea that most woman find a man displaying emotional vulnerability unattractive is unfortunately true despite what you often hear from woman. However I don’t think this particular scenario falls into this category. Engaging in an MMA fight-even if you are completely battered by your opponent- takes an uncommon amount of courage. Most men have never been in a street fight let alone one in a cage. Your hypothetical SO is not going to lose too much “masculinity” points in her eyes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 01:29 AM |
| 44 | Women who do not get abundance of male attention. Why?The commonly held idea that any woman with a pulse gets sexual attention from guys is somewhat of a misnomer. It’s true that the vast majority of woman can easily attract a sexual partner in a way that a lot of men cannot. However there are still woman out there who don’t derive there self worth and life satisfaction from being able to just open there legs and shout “come and get it”. Those woman that lack an abundance of male attention don’t have it because they are seeking something beyond jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Can men and women truly separate love and sex or are we both lying to ourselves?Some can. Some can’t. As a general rule of thumb though it is undeniable that men are more capable of separating sex from emotion than woman are. To be clear I am not saying all men can do this and I not saying all woman can’t. Female prostitutes and porn stars are clearly not catching feels for their clients and co-stars. Unlike men most woman that sleep around though are not just doing it because of the sexual act alone. Of course they want to have sex because it’s pleasurable to do so with so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4M What are your physical preferences and what are your physical requirements?Requirements: A pulse. Preferences: 18, Virgin, Victoria supermodel with a PHD from Le Cordon Bleu and the libido of a rabbit. The problem with the modern dating market and social media driven expectations is that “requirements” and “preferences” have become very blurred for a lot of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Are there any women that really believe they attract the wrong kind of men?What a person says they want and what they actually want at a base level are not always the same thing. Somebody might say they want a safe, stable dependable person who always treats them with respect and consideration but that’s actually boring to many people. Or at least the superficial traits of good looks and status simply trump things like morality and human decency when it comes to sexual attraction for many people. A person like the one referred to by OP simply doesn’t want the things sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 01:18 PM |
| 9 | Are there any women that really believe they attract the wrong kind of men?If a person( Man or Woman) with an abundance of dating options keeps attracting the “wrong person” than clearly the problem is THEY are attracted to the “wrong” person. Visit any relationship forum and there seems to be an absolute epidemic of “abusive”, “narcissistic” and “toxic” exes causing pain and misery wherever they lay their hat. I’m in no way denying that these people exists but if everybody you enter into a relationship with starts portraying these traits it’s because you are attracted… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 11:45 AM |
| 1 | What is the point or purpose of having a hook-up?It’s a simple biological urge. Why do we have sex in general? You can argue that sex plays a complicated and nuanced part in most peoples lives( which I would agree with taken broadly) but at a fundamental level we have the urge to have sex because that is how we procreate. People that have no intellectual intention to procreate and have sex simply because it’s pleasurable still find the act desirable in the first place because Mother Nature has given them a libido so they pass on their DNA. Eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 11:22 AM |
| 6 | In a society where beauty fads come and go, what beauty standards do men actually care about?Female fashion and “beauty trends” are not driven by men. They are almost entirely driven by other woman. Most men couldn’t care less about what a woman is wearing, her make up, her hair style ect… In a man’s eyes a woman doesn’t suddenly have a make over and transfer from some anonymous nerd to a dazzling beauty ala She’s All That or Cinderella. The standard advice offered to many men that they should dress better and get a nice hair cut doesn’t apply to woman. A woman is either genetically hot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you think women should have sex with their SO if they aren't in the mood?Nobody should ever be obligated to have sex with their partner if they are not in the mood. However if your libido’s are so misaligned that one person is regularly turning down the others sexual advances you both probably shouldn’t be in that relationship-or at least expect that relationship to be a monogamous one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 11:38 PM |
| 21 | What should be the consequence of false paternityThe way to solve this issue would be to simply make paternity testing mandatory at every birth. This is not a expensive or complicated process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?You’ve pretty much already answered this by saying that humans are a product of evolution. Most men have an innate repulsion to promiscuous Woman because it’s been built into them as an evolutionary protection method against raising somebody else’s child. Contraception and paternity testing are very recent developments in human history. In the very recent past if a Woman slept with every male member of her tribe it would be very difficult to determine the father of any resulting offspring. This … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 01:28 AM |
| 4 | What sexualizations of men are straight women attracted to? What do straight women seek out?Typically all Men need is visual stimulation to be aroused whereas Woman need to feel a ‘connection’ beyond just physicality. There is lots of data that backs this up. Not least the vast majority of porn users being male. Do Woman consume porn? Of course but the numbers pale into insignificance compared to men. By contrast the vast majority of erotic literature is consumed by Woman. Woman and Men simply aren’t aroused in the same way. This is not to say that looking at Henry Cavil doesn’t get mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Are women really more shallow than men, or do they just get called out more for it?It depends what you mean by “shallow”? If by “shallow” you only mean physical traits than I would say men( as a generalisation) are more “shallow” than women in that a woman’s looks is pretty much the defining factor as to whether or not a man wants to sleep with her. By contrast there are often other external qualities- namely a guys wealth and status- that make many women wet beyond just his looks. Of course it can be argued that viewing these traits as determining factors in attraction is eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 01:00 AM |
| 9 | Will marriage die out entirely once Woman start to out earn men?What’s ignorant about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 11:50 PM |
| 2 | If you propose to your partner and they say no is the relationship over? Why or why not?Entirely depends on the reason why. Some people simply don’t believe in the concept of marriage( which is entirely understandable given divorce rates) while still wanting to be in a committed monogamous relationship. If they weren’t anti-marriage in general though than declining a proposal 5 years into a relationship would certainly make me question continuing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Do women really find men like MGK and Pete Davidson attractive?Would Pete Davison and MGK be considered “attractive” if they weren’t rich and famous? Probably not but that’s like asking would Brad Pitt be considered attractive if he was also fat and bald. They ARE rich and famous and therefore a significant amount of Woman will find them attractive. Woman are attracted by wealth and status in a way men simply aren’t when it comes to Woman. A woman is “hot” if she is pretty and in shape. Nothing else really comes into it. A guy becomes a hundred time hotter … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 04:28 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]It depends what you mean by attractive? If 20 percent of men are deemed “attractive” by woman I would say men would likely also deem only 20 percent of woman conventionally attractive. If “attractive” means “good looking” rather than “average looking” than it stands to reason only 20 percent( for both genders) would be deemed as “attractive” by the other. Other wise the rules of “average” don’t work. The crucial distinction is just because a guy doesn’t find a woman conveniently “attractive” doe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Is crying a turnoff for you?Crying in front of other people is fine. Bottling up emotion is unhealthy. We have the ability to cry for a reason. It’s cathartic. Cry in front of your friends. Cry in front of your parents. Cry in front of your siblings…. However do not…I repeat…do not cry in front of a woman you are trying to sleep with. Woman that say they want a emotionally vulnerable guy are lying. Unless you have suffered a legitimately tragic event like a death in the family it will be a turn off for the majority of woma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 11:52 PM |
| 2 | If women tend to go for very attractive men how come every where i go I always see a couple of a unattractive man and beautiful woman?The guy has money, status, game and crucially they haven’t met through a dating app where looks essentially rule all else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why do you want a relationship?To want a relationship is something that practically every human being( male or female) desires. We are all social creatures. Even the most misanthropic, anti-social person is still seeking connections with other human beings. It’s just what humans do and is the reason something like Reddit exists in the first place. If you can throw sex into the mix as well than all the better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 04:09 AM |
| 35 | Q4M: Why do you want a relationship?It’s true that most men don’t care about a woman’s job or income. It’s completely false that most men don’t care about a woman’s “personality”. I have very rarely heard this said either in this thread or in real life. In terms of a long term relationship a woman’s personally is even more important then her looks and “willingness to have sex”. When a man says he wants somebody that is “agreeable” and “pleasant” he is of course saying he wants a woman with an agreeable and pleasant personality. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Dating down? Thoughts?That’s great for you but statistically you are very lucky. Especially if you are looking for marriage or a long term relationship. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/22 03:47 AM |
| 1 | If everyone has insecurities , then why don’t women like men with insecurities?I’m not sure who is “blaming” men for their unhappiness on not “opening up” more. Not “opening up” is not the cause of unhappiness but can help relieve it. Communication is cathartic for nearly all human beings. This is not only why therapy exists but most friendships in general. If men shouldn’t “open up” more to other men about whatever it is that is ails them what are you suggesting they should be doing instead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 03:42 AM |
| 2 | If everyone has insecurities , then why don’t women like men with insecurities?So what are these “different solutions”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 04:09 PM |
| 16 | If everyone has insecurities , then why don’t women like men with insecurities?It’s evolutionary. Men and Woman have insecurities in equal measures. However the display of said insecurities( or to put it another way vulnerability) by men is unattractive to woman for primal reasons. Conversely the display of insecurities by woman is neutral- or even attractive to men-as it serves his natural desire to “protect”. Woman of course also have a natural desire to protect( or rather nurture) but the distinction is this is programmed towards her children and not her partner. As suc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 02:33 PM |
| 3 | What do people actually mean by “dating down?”Interesting. I think this illustrates just how differently men and woman perceive attraction in the opposite sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 05:17 AM |
| 4 | What do people actually mean by “dating down?”I agree it’s completely subjective and therefore a pretty nebulous concept. What if the person you find “less desirable” than the majority of people you could “get with” also feels the same about themselves in relation to you? Who in this scenario is actually “dating down”? Can both people be “dating down” at the same time? Also, if somebody could actually “get with” more “desirable” people why would they “date down” in the first place? Surely there are attractive aspects to this person that ove… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 05:13 AM |
| 6 | What do people actually mean by “dating down?”So Amy Schumer would be considered “dating down” if she was dating a 21 year old Abercrombie and Fitch model? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 04:59 AM |
| 0 | Rich Man and "High Value Man" being allowed to CheatDepends what “high value” actually means. If it just equates to being rich than the reality is a very wealthy man will simply have a massive amount of options when it comes to woman wanting to sleep with him. There is certainly truth to the idea that most people are only as faithful as their options. The difference is causal sex to most men is just an elevated form of masturbation. Expecting a guy with a million options not to cheat is not that different( from a male perspective) than expecting … | /r/ExRedPill | 11/01/22 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Dating down? Thoughts?Something that a lot of financially successful woman don’t understand is that the more successful they are the less options that have when it comes to finding a partner. The absolute opposite is true of a equally successful guy. The more financially successful a guy the more options he has on the dating market. The reality is men( especially financially successful men) don’t care in the slightest about a woman’s personal and financial achievements when it comes to attraction. A cute and pleasant… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/22 03:51 AM |
| 4 | Why is acknowledging the fact that most men are not physically attractive to women seen as massively controversial and even TRP'rs are in denial about it?The idea that most men find most woman physically “attractive”-in contrast to most woman finding most men physically “unattractive” is a misnomer. There is a difference between “attractive” and “fuckable”. Most men find most woman attractive enough to be “fuckable” by virtue of being more appealing their their own hand. That’s not quite the same as finding somebody “attractive”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Feminism isn't helping women overcome the need for a providerThe reason why you have “a phenomena of financially independent woman struggling to find other halves that can measure up” is because those guys that she believes are actually equal to her( or “measure up”) are actually much higher up than her when it comes to sexual market value. She thinks they are equal but as soon as they are ( in terms of money) they are anything but in terms of the dating pool. Status and money in a partner matter to almost all woman regardless of how much they have themse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 01:52 AM |
| 4 | Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a WomanOn the one hand you are not wrong. Seeking a female partner can seem like you’re a job seeker and they are the employer. However isn’t this just a reality of life? I don’t say that to be flippant or to undermine your feelings on the matter. I say it to try and get you to look at things with a bit of perspective. You have used the job seeking analogy when it comes to dating and you also describe yourself as “successful”. By “successful” I am assuming you mean you have a desirable and well paying … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Do men really want a girl that "fucks like a porn star" or is that just projection from women?Good sex is not being able to “fuck like a porn star”. It’s simply a case of both participants being equally enthusiastic about being there. That’s what both men and woman fundamentally want in a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 11:03 PM |
| 2 | What standards are TOO high?It’s very simple to determine whether or not somebody’s dating and or relationship standards are too high. If they are consistently being met than they are not too high. If they are not consistently being met than they are too high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 03:51 AM |
| 1 | "Women have unrealistic standards" - What makes them unrealistic?Anybody(male or female) who has “standards” that are consistently not being met have unrealistic standards by definition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 01:47 AM |
| 3 | "Women have unrealistic standards" - What makes them unrealistic?Men and Woman BOTH have unrealistic standards-at least when it comes to online dating. The standards though are generally different. Woman don’t have unrealistic standards when it comes to obtaining sex. There standards are whatever they are getting and what they are generally getting is sex on tap with men they are physically attracted to. Woman have very unrealistic standards when it comes to obtaining relationships with these same men they are having sex with. What a lot of woman don’t unders… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 01:24 AM |
| 1 | This one's for all the Redpillers out thereI’m not quite sure what this post is trying to illustrate. The guy on the left is a tall male model. The guy on the right is an average looking “short” guy who has got in amazing shape. Of course the guy on the left is still going to be viewed as more physically attractive than the one of the left. You would have the exact same results if you put a picture of Margo Robbie against a currently slim line Rebel Wilson. No amount of dieting and cardio is going to make Rebel Wilson more attractive tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Women and men can't be friendsThis all depends on how one defines “friends”. If you’re definition of friendship is simply being friendly with somebody whose company you enjoy than of course Men and Woman can be friends. If you think a genuine friendship can’t exist if there is ever any underlining sexual tension than male/female ‘friendships’ are indeed very rare. People who say genuine, utterly platonic( on both sides) friendships can exist between men and woman should just ask themselves this. Would you be completely fine … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 03:33 PM |
| 0 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.I don’t see why people having racial preferences when it comes to dating is usually construed as somehow being racist. Obviously the native populous will lean towards their own race. If the same study was carried out in an Asian country then Asian men would likely top the pole rather than rank at the bottom. Individuals of course have individual preferences but as a generalisation most people( across the entire world) date within their own race. This is after all how specific races and cultures … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 02:45 AM |
| 4 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.Any ethnic minority within any society is going to have less success in the dating market place than their ‘native’ counterparts. Isolating the discussion to minorities living in the west makes it nebulous at best and difficult to reach any clear minded conclusions. Do you think ‘average’ Black and White man living in Tokyo have better dating prospects than ‘average’ Japanese men living in Tokyo? Despite the somewhat common place idea( in the west) that Asian woman fetishise Western men the prac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 02:26 AM |
| 3 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.There are 4.4 Billion Asians in the world. Asian’s are the most populous ethic group on the planet. That’s a hell of a lot of Asian men fucking! This notion that Asian men somehow have trouble in the dating market is hilarious 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 01:53 AM |
| 3 | Q4W What do you think about promiscuous “slutty” women?As long as you are not cheating and are practicing safe sex there is nothing morally wrong with a woman being promiscuous or a ‘slut’. If you love sex and the validation of multiple partners than great. It’s your life. Everybody should be free to do whatever makes them happy( if it’s not hurting somebody else). Sleep with 1 person. Sleep with 10,000 people. Same difference. Whatever floats your boat. However what a lot of promiscuous woman don’t understand( or are annoyed by) is that the vast ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Do men care about how much a woman makes in ltr?I can certainly see some men feeling inferior if their partner made significantly more money than them. Men have evolved to be providers and up until very recently in human history that’s what they were. It’s the same reason that even woman that are independently wealthy still seek out a partner that makes at least as much as them. Again, lizard brain evolution rather than any kind of rational thinking. The crucial distinction between men and woman when it comes to attraction in relation to mone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Women have NEVER "lied" about being attracted to good looking men. But have they arguably been less transparent about AF/BB?Isn’t this the same for the majority of men as well? Men want to have sex and impregnate the most attractive female- and they want the most maternal partner( which usually doesn’t correlate with sexual desirability) to bring up said child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?Most human beings- male or female- don’t have ‘model looks’. Most human beings have ‘average’ looks and attributes. That’s what what an average is. Maybe OP is uniquely attractive and therefore desirable to other uniquely people but chances are she sits in the same spectrum of ‘attractiveness’ as everybody else on this thread. Of course everybody-male and female- lusts after a certain physical ideal but the reality is most of us will never achieve it in ourselves or our partners. This however is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 01:24 AM |
| 1 | How will the dating scene be different in 20 years?Photorealistic sensory VR will probably be here within 20 years. This is will utterly transform the current dating landscape-at least in terms of sexual relations. Either people will actually date for an emotional connection-while having their sexual needs primarily gratified via VR- or they won’t ‘date’ at all and relationships between men and woman will largely become platonic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 02:41 PM |
| 1 | What is dating like for women who aren’t above-average in physical attractiveness, but are above-average in game and personality?Personality( having a pleasant one) is the most important trait for a woman(or anyone) in terms of attracting and ( crucially maintaining) a healthy and sincere relationship. Looks are incredibly important in terms of the initial spark of attraction but it won’t maintain a relationship beyond anything very causal. ‘Game’ or at least what I assume you mean by ‘game’ has no importance whatsoever for woman in particular. Neither in terms of attracting a partner in the first place or maintaining one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 02:52 AM |
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