VisibleConcentrate77 Archive

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5	Has anyone here had plastic surgery? After my surgery I realized all the advice woman give for dating is 100% nonsense I don't know. My experiences have been the opposite. Age plays a big role. Young people of both sexes tend to be stupider and shallower then after they have lived life some and often ignore perfectly acceptable people chasing better looking ones. Young men have it the hardest because they are in the fiercest competition with men who have already built themselves up whether position, income, experiences who desire women who are chronologically your age. Women as they age become less sought and wh…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/10/23 01:29 AM
15	"Men's greatest fear in pursuing relationship with a woman is that he will be laughed at or rejected. Women's greatest fear is that she will be physically harmed-raped-killed." -Thoughts? If a women is legit thinking this she needs to ask herself some hard questions. Why the hell am I so afraid. Or what is wrong with me that I would date men who would do this to me. Because contrary to what feminist believe murder, rape and domestic violence aren't typical masculine behavior. Far from it.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/09/23 08:57 PM
19	"Men's greatest fear in pursuing relationship with a woman is that he will be laughed at or rejected. Women's greatest fear is that she will be physically harmed-raped-killed." -Thoughts? Best answer.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/09/23 08:52 PM
3	The Supposed "Patriarchy" is a Coping Mechanism for Ancient Matrilineage and the Survival of the Fittest I am glad that there are people like you willing to speak truths people might not want to hear so it doesn't become a female bashing echo chamber. Your entirely right, if anything in earlier times more individuals had a role in parenting including men participating in ways that would seem non traditional to us.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/05/23 02:54 PM
2	The Supposed "Patriarchy" is a Coping Mechanism for Ancient Matrilineage and the Survival of the Fittest I think what is he is arguing is that in raw life expectance we have only surpass our hunter gather ancestors in the 1800s which is a fact.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/05/23 02:16 PM
4	The Supposed "Patriarchy" is a Coping Mechanism for Ancient Matrilineage and the Survival of the Fittest As someone very deeply interested in anthropology I have to disagree. Those societies which are closest to matriarchy are not hunter gatherers but rather robust material developed ones with a strong concept of property. Indeed engagement of men in long distance trade seems to be a factor in shifting of society in matriarchy directions. Also anthropology very much is against using any society as "living fossils". All societies change and are effected by those around them and are poor windows to p…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/05/23 02:10 PM
8	Why is it so hard to discuss men's issues in left spaces? Because a lot of people are campist and concerned with appearing ethical and progressive without actually being motivated to actually be so. They are the leftists who view inverting the system as the goal rather than creating a new one.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/03/23 05:38 PM
3	Sexual politics is damaging young men The sad truth is people men and women both are more responsible to people who aren't invested. Because people as a whole suck they don't want someone who makes them self conscious they want to feel led on an not responsible because sex is so stigmatized. It sucks and causes so much harm especial to the sensitive and authentic.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/03/23 02:15 AM
2	How to distinguish pathologization of male sexual desire from victim-blaming in the topic of clothing moderation? I don't have any answers but you are correct men biologically programed to look for such signals. We see it in a the animal kingdom (and Vic versa with females to men). Now this has become very politically incorrect to say. Of course this is by no means meant to exempt men from acting responsible but women should be aware and combine this with drinking, spaces of more liberty of interaction and your going to get behavior some aren't going to find comfortable. I think mutual honesty would help, r…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/03/23 07:23 PM
5	Men who date younger women not more likely to be abusive, studies show While the elderly are made to feel entirely worthless because self value is tired to economic productiveness. Very shitty at both ends.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/02/23 04:34 AM
7	Men who date younger women not more likely to be abusive, studies show Not totally related but agism is a much neglected prejudice that is seldom called out.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/02/23 03:31 AM
1	Patriarchy or Matriarchy? And yet often they have no opportunity to utilize those degrees.	/r/MensRights	08/02/23 04:33 AM
1	Patriarchy or Matriarchy? And equally so are female workers on top of gender bias, plus sexual violence.	/r/MensRights	08/02/23 04:30 AM
2	Patriarchy or Matriarchy? You are right but unlikely going to receive much agreement here. Unfortunately so may people here are carried away by their emotions they are going to act jut like their feminist counter parts, which is a shame as it destroys the creditability of the Men's Rights movement.	/r/MensRights	08/02/23 04:27 AM
3	Patriarchy or Matriarchy? This is ideology speaking not sense. Yes there have been patriarchal societies and if you cannot see that then you have blinders very on. There have been societies that wives were murdered when their husbands died. There have been societies that gang raped a woman when she refused to have sex. There are societies that killed women so men could have a ghost marriage. There were societies that crippled their daughters deliberately. There are societies were fathers/husbands could use their spouse a…	/r/MensRights	08/02/23 04:22 AM
7	A lot of "left wing" people revert to "bootstraps" mentality when it comes to men and dating. Has anybody else noticed this? I suspect a lot of guys can relate to everything you said. I know I can.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/01/23 07:14 AM
18	A lot of "left wing" people revert to "bootstraps" mentality when it comes to men and dating. Has anybody else noticed this? Hyper-agency, I never thought about men being viewed from that specific skewed lens. Thanks, that makes much sense out of the unrealistic perspectives directed at men.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/01/23 06:33 AM
1	Radical feminists treat men exactly how Conservatives treat minorities Except to the bigot Muslim is an essentialist identity. All the incidents of violence done to Sikhs in the mistaken belief they are Muslim because region isn't important, being brown, bearded and from west/south asia is. Which shows bigotry is usually all about creating boogiemen to other and actively be ignorant of.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/01/23 03:59 AM
4	Radical feminists treat men exactly how Conservatives treat minorities This is so true. It is very important rebuke people using the same behavior as their ideological opponents. It feeds into notion of power politic and it it is a zero sum game. sort of reasoning we need to be on the top of pile so we are the one kicking them down rather than them to us.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/01/23 03:52 AM
33	Vaush’s commentary on men’s issues: “How The Left Made Andrew Tats Popular” I agree. A lot of people are way over eager to pat him on the back when he perhaps as taken a couple of steps in the right direction. Also I don't find Vaush particularly sincere. It is still all a battle over followers to him (from what I have seen), rather than altruism.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/01/23 05:59 AM
11	Has the political left failed men? And I think it is important to remember leftist in earlier times ignored certain minority voices until they became more enlightened. We are at another hurtle we need to help the left get over and embrace their empathy for men.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/01/23 05:18 AM
5	Has the political left failed men? Leftist spaces are diverse and need to become even more so. It is on leftists to correct themselves for not extending the same empathy and to apply the same standards of systemic abuse to men. Leftism isn't flawed, leftist are in their inconsistency. But that isn't new, groups have been exclude from enfranchising, labor rights etc. But things change and understanding can grow. And that is what we here are busy working at.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/01/23 03:26 AM
3	The Dancing Boys of Afghanistan To do so gets into a wider discussion of colonialism. Because that is what addressing this is means to a degree. Like a lot of subjects that is very complex but I do think it is something the left should be more comfortable looking at not just the negatives but the positives. No one should minimalize people Najibullah and other who observe the injustices of their society but also it is true many local reformers only historically have gained traction with the help of foreign powers and bodies. It…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/12/22 05:52 AM
2	The Dancing Boys of Afghanistan Is that truly true? I don't believe so. I think is is more a matter of not caring at all because it is my feeling that the situation hasn't changed much as the Taliban strikes me as very hypocritical. Plus the culture is hyper masculine. In many cultures in the region it used to be a compliment to tell a women she was beautiful like a boy and partly why child marriage was/is a thing in the middle east because she had yet to develop the pronounced feminine sexual characteristics so is more boyish…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/12/22 05:23 AM