Men basically realized that women, when left alone to choose, are way to powerful, and the men came together to fix it with things like purity culture & arranged marriages. Religion
I do not think your traits deserve to be passed on. 😂😂😂 You belive passing genes is some kind of victory that he will miss out on ? Sluts should be manipulated into relationships and then should be cheated on.
Men who sleep around are not being traditional either. Perfect Apex male fallacy. Even if you say that most men would sleep around outside marriage, why shouldn't they as it is almost impossible to find virgin wife to marry? Men encourage sleeping around outside of marriage, even if it's do as I say, not as I do, they pushed it far more than women So do you say sexual revolution was spear headed by men? The minority of men who supported sexual liberation was top 10%, again Apex fallacy. RP men a…
It’s anti-healthy relationships & anti- traditional community If most women were virgins before marriage, rp wouldn't exist. Rp is reactionary. It's a response to hookup culture. It's hookup culture that is anti healthy relationships redpill is a reaction to it.
I seriously don't expect my wife to serve me, she's my partner not a servant. She has equal rights as me but I'm not comfortable marrying a women who has casual sex. That's my only point.
Do you say, "you only care about monogamy because gonds insecure that a woman will judge you based on your lack of experience and your inability to satisfy a woman sexually" after cheating on him?
So much pussy compared to other men of my age. Most parents here don't let their daughters alone. They have to go to college and return home within 5 pm and being absent in college will be promptly notified to the parents. Which country are you from? As soon as they finish college they're taught how to cook and keep the house clean and then they're married off. Happy husband :)
😂😂😂 times of india, yeah great source bro. And a study made by an extra marital affair app that no one ever heard of. You have no idea about India, a significant percent don't even have internet access, let alone an extra marital affair app.
Women's rights and health... Not so bangin' Only difference between western women and Indian women are there are far less number of sluts here. They've all rights and health is on par with men's health. And I'd start advocating for less rights since I could see how women behave when they're given more rights. Seeking knowledge from all parts of earth to build a better India :)
Congratulations Thank you :) I have never had sex, does that mean I must be equally attracted to all people in the world. No it means you're a lieing slut. "Birth controls" and "vaccines" in India? We do, infact we don't have anti vaxx here and we have something else too, chaste women.
Hey your boyfriend was okay to be in a relationship with a slut, do you think he'll object if we bang? I'll let you record it if you want, you can show him later. Or better he can sit in a corner and watch.
Nobody can hurt me, I'm thankful to be born in India, so many virgins to choose from. And some sluts to fuck. I just feel bad for my western brothers :(
Man i wish I don't give as much importance to virginity but i can't help. Hey but have you thought that being okay with sex in a relationship is the gate way for casual sex. It's like once the line is crossed, they won't stop with that alone.
So you would blame women for having casual sex but you won't stop having casual sex ? If that's your mindset don't expect women to restrain themselves from pleasure
Well I'm Chads younger brother in my country, no trouble getting sex, find virgin wife is getting a bit harder, the chances are still atleast 50 percent tho. How did you learn they'd care where your clit is before sleeping with them ? And if there's chad and an average guy would you choose the average guy to have sex with?
How do you believe west will fall, the richest, technologically most advanced and with the mightiest military, west will never fall. People will be less happier tho.
I'm from a rural village in Tamilnadu and i believe there's atleast a 50 percent chance of marrying a virgin 😂😂😂. Most people I know are virgins and I'm slut shaming all the non virgins. Doing my part to make our country a better place 😂😂😂😂
Firstly stop saying "your wife" and not attracted to "me", I'm from India and I can easily get a virgin woman to marry. Not indulging in casual sex is a proof that she's as attracted to you as she's to any other man she slept with. If you want to be a slut so badly, deal with single mother hood and hpv. : )
I'm not religious too and believe me societal cohesion without religion is impossible to achieve. When religious morals are removed people act only on what benefits them not seeing the bigger picture. So it's advisable to choose a religion of your liking and practice it.
It just shows that every man has to invest equally to be with his woman. Men are okay if women choose men for security and company but only if she holds same standards for all men. If she has sex with chad the day she met him but makes rule for him, it just means she's not as attracted to him as she's to chad.
The reason a lot of guys don't want to be in a cuckold relationship is because they are insecure in their own sexual performance and don't want to feel inadequate to whatever dick she has access to. If they reframed it in a way that a hotwife will be almost always a better lay than a monogamous woamn and made sex about actual pleasure ratehe than some weird ego insecurity thing, they'd be much better off. Hell, they may even learn a thing or two in bed. Not every man wants to be your cuckold hus…
Hey, I'm from a rural village in Tamilnadu, nothing discussed in PPD actually happens here but just participating to know how our countries future will be in the dating department.
You can have all of these and also have ONS occassionally. Like being on a diet and working out but having a piece of chocolate once in a while. Its not default hedonism but ocassional enjoyment of pleasure
Pre marital sex without contraception = more chance of getting pregnant. And the father might not marry her so the child becomes a burden. Contraceptives negate this .
Why every civilization ever built started off patriarchal? Pregnancy and childbirth takes a lot of time and energy off of women's prime years. Mosy jobs then needed physical strength. Why did they diminish in military importance when they became more egalitarian. An example? Why women's sexuality is restricted in every one of these societies? Lack of reliable contraceptives made sex a very big deal than it is now. I'm not trying to dismiss your claims but i want to know what's actually true and …
men in patriarchal societies are more motivated to build and compete than the men in matriarchal societies. Do you believe muslim countries can ever compete with the technological advancements of the west? Technology in west is still rapidly improving. Men are competing in the west. Your hypothesis is completely wrong.
Isaac Newton died a virgin. He contributed a lot to the society. And men are getting into LTR with high n women. So, Family is not the only motivation. Men are still having family and children.
Judgement and shame are healthy if it is directed towards actual vices, like cheating in a relationship. Inter racial relationships were judged and shamed earlier.
I said I'd prioritise. They're not mutually exclusive but a lot of studies corelate high n count with infidelity and divorce, hence the priority. A person who believes sexual pleasure is so important and sex is like a hobby to have it with anyone will be tempted to stray.
It clearly bothers you that a woman was less upset with a break up than a man. Why? 😂😂😂 Why would it bother me? You're projecting your own experiences onto other people Yes, i was a bad person in my teens and I'm ashamed for that but the probability of what I said earlier being true is high.
Our expectations from a relationship are quite different, I'd prioritise a stable family life, with two kids, I'd marry an asexual, if i liked her character and would never cheat on her. That doesn't mean i don't enjoy sex, if the girl i marry can please me in bed great! If not, that's not a big problem for me if she has qualities i look for.
But do you test drive every potential boyfriend? If That's the case a lot of men won't have problem with it. I have different preference, and i hold myself to that standard.
A profile of women without any photos of her will get more matches than the hottest man on planet earth can get. A gay guy will get more matches than a staright male model can ever get.
so much of it No, they don't have so much casual sex, most women have body counts less than 50. Do you think they can meet only 50 Chads? With OLD ? if women treat their husbands like shit, it's bad but most women don't do that.
Even if Chads remain Chads, sex frequency will reduce, it's not just for women, it's for men too. I'll agree that dead bedrooms are a problem, but that does not prove that the wife hates her husband because he's a beta. There can be so many reasons.
I'm from a very, very rural area in india, most people are trad here but i could see some of my school mates being extremely woke. And they're all mentally struggling. That's why i made this point. And in the west, mental illness is increasing along with suicide rates and drug abuse - perfect sign of unhappiness.
I still have lots of casual sex Not to sound creepy, but knowing the following might change my perspective, How'd you describe your looks? ( Especially height) And what's your body count ? How old are you ? Where do you meet women?
Lol I'm new here and I've already planned to get out soon after making one last post tomorrow. This place is not good for mental health, and I'd suggest you to leave too. Good night from a red pill man probably from other side of the earth. : )
I'm a red leaning man but still feel like some men here talk very rudely. Just don't give them your time. Replying to them encourages them to talk like this to others too
Just as reasonable as a married man saying, i give my wife stability and money but once in a while i bang prostitutes. Seems perfectly reasonable to me.
I'm guilty of doing this, the sweetest girl that loved me was not good looking, i vibed so well with her, i was extremely attracted to her but didn't pursue it as i felt my friends and family would think i settled for her. Now, i regret not pursuing.
Hey, I'm not looking for statistics, I just wanted to know other people's views so that I can understand flaws in my views. No need to be harsh man. English is not my first language so "refute" might not be the right word here
The problem is when a woman would have rejected her ltr partner for casual sex. I was saying that the man wouldn't have rejected his ltr partner for casual sex.
My dating strategy is to have sex only in realtionships, sometimes i was tempted by casual sex offers but was able to successfully maintain my values. I want a women who also has the same values and it seems like it's impossible to find one
Damn i think i just proved you're right Its okay, I'm still not completely convinced on what to believe, you can see that I've accepted comments that seem to be against what I've said in the post. I just wanted to know the errors in views I held. Some of the comments are good but some are just rude. Thank you for taking time to reply tho. ☺️
If men are actually using those women for sex, it's worser but most women engaging in casual sex are not looking for ltr. And why would a girl knowingly let a guy use her ?
As i said in earlier comments, I'd also choose Emilia Clarke if she was interested in me but that doesn't mean Id say no to casual sex with average looking girls. The problem is when a girl would've rejected her husband in her hookup days.
I didn't mean this post to be this serious. Chill, you don't have to be harsh on me. I just asked about personal opinion based on life experiences. I still haven't took any pill 🤣
Yeah I'm not at all saying men men don't prefer the best looking women. But then again I think dating on tinder is by and large a mistake. Right but it seems like the number of people using OLD is increasing everyday
do all women choose who to have sex with by photos and text messages? Does an OLD profile reflect reality? I don't have any evidence for the percentage of women using tinder but i believe significant percent do. Am i wrong here?
Yes, but not necessarily random ONS with strangers they just met. This is not in contradiction with my claims. And I'm not sure about the other two points, guess i gotta socialise a lot more and find out for myself. Thanks for the input 😊
Sometimes there are no attractivean person available to have casual sex with. Tinder ? Why would someone marry the hottest person available? Not marrying the hottest person is not the problem, my doubt is does she find her husband attractive enough to hookup?
Yeah I'm not talking about hypocrites. I declined every casual sex opportunities as i believe sex is something to be had only in relationships and i won't marry someone who has a different view and Evey time i said this I've been called insecure.
a group cannot grow exponentially if it is being bombarded with negativity and hate. There is hate towards rp but may be it's because rp ideas are very radical and not in sync with most people's reality ?
what do you mean by af/bb? Af/bb is the claim that most women ride the cock carousel only with Chads later on settling with a beta guy for money. Awalt? All women (most) do af/bb. Redpill? An ideology that believs in af/bb. Mainstream? From Oxford dictionary : the ideas, attitudes, or activities that are shared by most people.
Even if it is a supressed truth, only thing an average man has to do is look around him to know the truth, i don't think most men are that naive to not know something that's obvious.
