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So... are they going to stop using Tinder? Doubt it.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 11:59 AM
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There are a lot of doomsday types here, but I disagree with the sentiment. I have seen great gains in the past 10 years for men's rights in certain aspects. First, there is far less tolerance for female perpetrators of sexual violence. While feminists might stand up for and enable them, society in general and the court systems have been coming down on them hard. The male mental health crisis is getting more attention. Boys falling behind in school is getting more attention. More MRM-sympathetic …
/r/MensRights10/01/23 04:44 AM
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I think practically all white people have Native American DNA so I just choose that. It worked for Elizabeth Warren 🤷‍♀️
/r/MensRights09/01/23 05:17 AM
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And feminists defend that treatment of men. Well some men are predators so it's reasonable for us to err on the side of caution! Men commit the overwhelming majority of crimes. A lot of women have trauma and you're being insensitive to that. My favorite is when they compare men to vermin like mice carrying Lyme disease.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 04:32 AM
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I'm happily married. Mostly happy in any case - it's hard to gauge whether I'd be happier alone. If I were to find myself single, I would not get married again. It's not that I think there's anything wrong with women or marriage in general. It's more about the risk/reward aspect of getting married. I lucked out with a good, mentally stable woman. A lot of men in my inner group didn't. I like to think that my wife lucked out with me. A lot of her friends didn't luck out with their spouses. Despit…
/r/MensRights08/01/23 07:57 AM
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I don't understand people's fascination with them. Yes it's primarily 30 to 40 year-old women writing shit so inflammatory about them that 4chan would wince, but you have to admit that they're pros at their craft of appealing to a certain demographic.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 04:04 AM
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So I guess you would say ... they were manterrupting? 👀
/r/MensRights07/01/23 02:53 PM
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At the very least the other women were giving her "WTF is wrong with her?" looks the whole time. Going to go out on a limb and say that it wasn't really a psychological experiment for her. I'm fairly sure that she was more concerned about having her heart broken, and so she just told herself that she didn't really like him much in the first place.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 03:06 AM
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The MRM is, as a whole, more concerned about the rights of trans women and trans men than the feminist movement. Remember that some of the earliest and most vocal opponents of trans people's rights were feminists. In 1973, during the West Cost Lesbian Feminist Conference, trans woman Beth Eliot gave a guitar performance. The feminists in the audience began threatening her, and then resorted to physical violence against her and people protecting her. In 1979, radical feminist Janice Raymond, a pr…
/r/MensRights07/01/23 12:07 AM
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Yeah we should definitely imitate the year 1600 when 60 out of 100 children died before reaching adulthood.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 05:52 AM
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I'm not going to say bad things about your S/O. She gave birth three weeks ago, and postpartum depression can be severe. Throw this onto the fact that the baby is waking up every 2-3 hours for feeding, that you're first-time parents, and that you're both quite young, and you have a recipe for a lot of arguing. My wife and I had a wonderful relationship before we had our first, and for the next six months it was very hard. She absolutely flipped her lid after giving birth. It was a borderline men…
/r/MensRights02/01/23 01:15 AM
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"Almost never" is still an extreme phrase.
/r/MensRights31/12/22 11:17 AM
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Survival sex exists, primarily among homeless youth. I would be very cautious about making a blanket statement like they "almost never have to do it."
/r/MensRights31/12/22 09:56 AM
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They're just trolling. UN Women did the same with their tweet: Of all journalists killed in 2021, 11% were women. In 2020, this was 6%. On the International Day to #EndImpunity for Crimes against Journalists, let us say out loud: STOP TARGETING WOMEN JOURNALISTS Of course they understand that it's incredibly insensitive to look past all the male journalist deaths and act as if the women's deaths should be front and center. What they want to do is bait men into responding so they can use that as …
/r/MensRights31/12/22 07:47 AM
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The answer to the whole "if men disappeared" scenario is "panic." OP's explanation only scrapes the tip of the iceberg. I had this discussion with a woman on TwoX. She kept insisting that women would "pick up the slack," and that it would be "worth it" because they could apparently walk alone at night. She ... didn't seem to understand that the entire power grid wasn't a set-it-and-forget-it type of thing like her oven, or that her pumpkin spice wasn't magically transported to her local Starbuck…
/r/MensRights31/12/22 07:32 AM
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Everything that Tate says that has any value whatsoever has been said by many men who also do not spew the vitriol he does. None of his commentary is insightful enough to excuse the terrible things he has said and done.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 04:56 AM
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For the feminist lurkers: No, this is not a pro-Tate post. People here dislike Tate because he preys on vulnerable young men. This is against body shaming, which Greta straight-up did. Until you hold yourselves to the same standards that you hold men, your movement is a joke.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 03:48 AM
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In all likelihood the men in their lives would agree with them. Male disposability is upheld by both men and women.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 02:13 PM
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A poster in that comment section had this to say: "I need you all to know that a gentle, kind, loving and sincerely good man has been destroyed by one unfortunate night. It really is unfortunate!" Yeah... that one line immediately makes me think that something else is going on here Yes, you see, as a man, if you deny an allegation and say you would never do something, well, it means that obviously you did do something! On the other hand, if you're silent, oh we know you must have done something …
/r/MensRights27/12/22 01:49 PM
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Testosterone = the rage/anger/aggression hormone is such a stupidly bad misunderstanding of biology that it makes my head hurt.
/r/MensRights25/12/22 05:21 AM
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The only people I've ever seen have a problem with me dating an Asian woman were white women. Maybe they were simply the most vocal about it. Maybe they were the only ones I really noticed. My older sister told me at least that a lot of her friends were ticked off about the Asian women "stealing" top-shelf white men. Chris Rock had a pretty hilarious bit about how Black women see Black men in relationships with white women and go off. Perhaps it's the same for Asian women when a successful Asian…
/r/MensRights24/12/22 12:48 PM
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I am a rare case because I am a white man who has only ever dated Asian women. I have dated (casually and seriously) a couple dozen women, all but one of whom were Japanese. The last one was Korean. The general reaction that I get from white women is that either [1] I have a fetish, or [2] I can't get a white woman so I settle with Asian women. The fact of the matter is I honestly could not give less of a shit what white women think about who I choose to date. I have never seen a single Black wo…
/r/MensRights24/12/22 09:39 AM
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If we live in a patriarchy, there cannot be misandry. We live in a patriarchy. Therefore, there is no misandry. This is called an argument from false premises. The first statement is untrue in two ways: [1] is the assumption that we live in a patriarchy, and [2] is the assumption that under a patriarchy, a man cannot be discriminated against. Arguments from false premises are incredibly common from feminists.
/r/MensRights23/12/22 10:31 PM
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A whopping 63% of men said dating helps them be a better version of themselves, but only 46% of women said the same. And 44% of men said dating over the last year helped them grow and improve as a person. Just 35% of women had that same sentiment. Why are men leaving dates more self-actualized than women? Perhaps because they are using their date as free therapy. That's not what the study says. There's a whole range of ways that dating leading to personal growth. The writer of this article inter…
/r/MensRights23/12/22 03:30 AM
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Just gonna throw out that I've seen four women assault men physically in my life. [1] My stepmother physically assaulted my sister's boyfriend. They were arguing, and my stepmom, drunk, walked up and immediately punched him. He left, and then she immediately said "he was dragging her around by her hair and I'll tell that to the police if they show up." He had not laid a finger on her. [2] My stepmother (again) threw a vacuum cleaner at me and it hit me in the shin. She immediately told me to "ge…
/r/MensRights19/12/22 07:18 AM
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women hate me/all men I didn't say women. I said the women on TwoX hate you/all men. Are you legitimately this illiterate or are you just being disingenuous?
/r/MensRights19/12/22 03:12 AM
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Man, you really check off every box, don't you? ✔️ Responding to every comment obsessively. ✔️ Comebacks taken from pop culture. ✔️ White knighting for women who would cross the street to avoid walking near you. Like, you do realize that most of the women on TwoX absolutely hate you as a person, even when you try to defend them, right? You are nothing but a useful idiot to them.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 01:23 AM
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Modern cinema has more egregious power fantasies than any male power fantasy that ever existed before it. They're just female power fantasies now. Rey from Star Wars. She shits on people who have had a lifetime of force training. Practically perfect in every way. Her main flaw is like the kind of flaw that you cite during a job interview: she was "too loyal" to the family that abandoned her.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 06:15 AM
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Working with women who have embraced feminism seems absolutely exhausting. Having any difference of opinion with her is mansplaining, not caving to her every demand is "being difficult," and liking something that she doesn't like makes you an "addict." The Witcher had everything going for it. The actors and actresses were all brilliant, most of all Cavill. The sound team was fantastic. The world was already established and beloved by millions for fucks sake. Costume design, set design, everythin…
/r/MensRights18/12/22 06:11 AM
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If you're under 18, this isn't a place for children. If you're over 18, grow up a bit.
/r/MensRights17/12/22 12:31 AM
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That sounds like an innocent joke? If this is your idea of widespread misogyny I wonder how often you call out misandry on TwoX. I can find worse in literally 30 seconds.
/r/MensRights17/12/22 12:28 AM
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Yeah, it always fucking mystified me so much too. There is something that women could do to improve the pay for female athletes: turn on the TV during their sporting events. You don't even have to watch. Despite my opinion being the same as the news anchor's, the difference between them and I is that I actually watch women's sports. I watch women's tennis and I watch women's powerlifting. I believe that women's sports are criminally underrated and can provide a ton of entertainment value, but th…
/r/MensRights17/12/22 12:26 AM
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Well, I guess this conversation is impossible past this point. I have told you again and again that the ICMI and its speakers are not representative of my values, nor are they indicative of the values of this community. After a Google search looking for discussions about it here, I have found exactly two posts, neither of which received any attention. In addition, it's kind of funny to even call it the ICMI, seeing as many of the speakers do not even identify as MRA's. So, again, if your argumen…
/r/MensRights15/12/22 11:58 PM
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One of my favorite posts ever on TwoX was during last year's holiday season. The OP wrote this long-winded post about writing all the holiday greeting cards herself, going to four different stores to find appropriate wrapping paper, and wrote a Christmas jingle to perform for her in-laws while her husband did "nothing." Nobody fucking sends greeting cards out anymore, wrapping paper is wrapping paper and anything works, and the fact that she spent hours writing a stupid cringe Christmas jingle m…
/r/MensRights15/12/22 01:56 AM
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This is fake as shit.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 01:49 AM
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No need to apologize. It can be hard to tell. To be fair, there's no such thing as natural or non-natural leagues in powerlifting. There's only tested and untested 🥲
/r/MensRights15/12/22 12:43 AM
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Yep, and that's what I'm against. There are scenarios where women's sports bring in more viewers than men's sports. IIRC, women's volleyball is more popular than men's volleyball, which to me means that female volleyball players should get paid more. Of course, what's ironic is that men's volleyball is less popular because the players are stronger. From my understanding, the error rate is higher because the first smash simply ends the point, meaning that the players have to serve far harder. Thi…
/r/MensRights15/12/22 12:40 AM
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There are a lot of untested leagues. The one that you linked is untested. I mean, if you look at those women's Instagrams, they're practically walking pharmacies.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 12:33 AM
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The pay that athletes receive should be based exclusively on how many viewers they attract, not on their level of athleticism or ability to beat a member of the opposite sex. In some sports, the discrepancy is smaller than others. Obviously the NBA vs. the WNBA has a massive difference. In tennis, the ATP and WTA are far closer relatively (although the revenue from the ATP dwarfs that of the WTA). WTA players should make more money than WNBA players, and if one day they attract a higher viewersh…
/r/MensRights15/12/22 12:25 AM
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So yeah, a small event with attendance of what seems to be <100 people and very little attention on the most major MRM communities does not speak for the MRM in general. Just as it would be wildly unfair for me to label literally every feminist as a TERF, and as I would never expect non-TERF feminists to take responsibility for the words of those TERFs, saying that we all associate with this ICMI you incessantly bring up is ridiculous. Read people's comments before you post.
/r/MensRights14/12/22 12:51 PM
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The Western erasure of the men killed in the Iranian protests is unbelievable. Even Time Magazine named Women of Iran the 2022 Heroes of the Year. Here's a message from one of the prominent Iranian protesters: Shima*, 32, works in the male-dominated fields of finance and economics. "I am proud of myself and my country’s women who stand up for their rights in a braver manner than any man in the world," she says. "I refuse to wear hijab in public places and at work; I think it is the best way to g…
/r/MensRights14/12/22 08:17 AM
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First off, I have absolutely no idea what the ICMI even is. I've never attended it and never considered attending it. After a cursory glance online, it seems to be a primarily pro-life movement. Their 2016 conference is up on YouTube, and it has 4,000 views. So yeah, a small event with attendance of what seems to be <100 people and very little attention on the most major MRM communities does not speak for the MRM in general. Just as it would be wildly unfair for me to label literally every femin…
/r/MensRights14/12/22 02:01 AM
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Denying that there isn't a fair amount over overlap between the two is no less disingenuous than denying that The Gay Rights Movement hasn't had a fair amount of overlap with The Far Left. This is a ludicrous statement. No, the MRM does not have the same overlap with the alt-right as the LGBTQ movement has with the far left. You cannot make that kind of statement, try to associate us with people like Molyneux, and then expect to be taken seriously.
/r/MensRights14/12/22 12:51 AM
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Because the market is so oversaturated with psych degrees that you basically need to have a Ph.D. in it for it to mean anything whatsoever. I would probably put it in the ten most useless things to study, up there with women's studies, gender studies, and sociology.
/r/MensRights14/12/22 12:49 AM
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level III reiki master Unironically her most impressive qualification smh
/r/MensRights13/12/22 12:10 AM
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Was this comment written by an AI or something? You went on several bizarre tangents with little relevance to the MRM, and even posted this kind of drivel: Today's MRM has gradually also been importing lots of Alt Right hysteria unrelated to men's issues into it's ranks since about '17, when ICMI began rolling out the red carpet for the godfather of White Genocide theory Stefan Molyneux. This trend become noxiously apparent at ICMI '19, when they invited proponents of The Great Replacement nonse…
/r/MensRights13/12/22 12:09 AM
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They altered the contents of the study. When women do more household labor No, when women perceive themselves as doing more household labor. This study did not measure how much household labor the women actually did; it basically asked them "Do you feel like you put more into the house than your partner?" Some women will legitimately fuck around on their phone for two hours, do the dishes, and then call doing the dishes a two hour and fifteen minute job. (Note: some men will do the same. I'm sim…
/r/MensRights12/12/22 11:16 PM
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Do you have her name or a link to the story?
/r/MensRights12/12/22 12:33 PM
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Woman writes article speaking over men. Other woman claps and cheers, saying that men are wrong to disagree with the message. 10/10, would read again
/r/MensRights12/12/22 02:52 AM
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There is no ‘war on men’ – we now know feminism is good for boys Laura Bates Wow, I sure am glad that this woman who knows exactly what it's like to be a man showed up to tell us what's best for us! The idea that white, working-class boys are neglected and “failing” is “both manufactured and actively misleading”, the report states. White boys are in fact less likely than Black Caribbean, Black African and Bangladeshi students to claim free school meals, and less likely to be excluded from school…
/r/MensRights12/12/22 02:51 AM
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It's funny what you're doing. I'm laying out why you were derailing, but in every post, you repeat the same exact topic point: male violence is worse. You repeat it, nearly word for word, every single time you comment. It's not even about the discussion we're having. You're deliberately repeating it because repetition is an excellent way to reinforce propaganda. You believe that saying the same thing over and over again will further deflect away from the original topic. Again, this is how people…
/r/MensRights11/12/22 11:58 AM
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Saying women are hospitalized more so that male-on-female domestic violence is worse is only derailing the discussion that this post is about. It is already a notoriously under-discussed point that women are every bit as likely as men, if not more likely, to physically assault their partners. It is such a common misconception that there is an entire model of domestic violence (the Duluth Model) based upon it. You charged into the post to say that men's domestic violence is worse. You didn't like…
/r/MensRights11/12/22 11:22 AM
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I didn't reject anything. I like how at least you're not pretending anymore. Well, the thing is you kind of did reject it. After decades of feminists rejecting the female-on-male domestic violence existed in the first place (while many of them were perpetrators in their own interpersonal relationships), now your argument is "Well it's worse when men do it!" People like you do anything to enable female abusers.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 10:54 AM
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Yeah see, it's not relevant to the point though. You didn't just give "the facts"--you twisted a discussion about one thing into something that suits your own agenda. I think you need to have a second of introspection. Why was your first reaction to the fact that women are more often the aggressors in domestic violence than men to say "...But male on female domestic violence is worse!"? Why did you immediately feel the need to change the discussion into something that you can handle more on an e…
/r/MensRights11/12/22 10:37 AM
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Don't you know? Men aren't allowed to say a peep about women. Anything a woman wants to do she is entitled to do. Our job is to shut up and listen. Women are encouraged to say anything and everything about men, because that makes them empowered. Our job is to shut up and listen when women talk over us.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 09:52 AM
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In a very unintentional way, you've made a great point. You see, the post is discussing hard-to-swallow pills, and how one of those might be that women are every bit as physically abusive as men, if not more. The first thing you did was reject it on an emotional level because you didn't want to acknowledge that fact, and then you tried to reason it away with "...but men commit more severely violent acts!* You are exactly what we're talking about here. Go eat your vegetables.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 09:51 AM
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Some parents wouldn't even let a male teach their child in elementary school. Like, it's fucked up because kids desperately need more positive male role models in their lives. When Dad is #1 (if he's there) and #2 is Thor or some shit, you know it's a pretty bad situation.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 09:46 AM
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Yeah, like Bryce from 13 Reasons Why, right? He was totally considered the good guy of that show right? It was portrayed as a funny little thing that he did and totally justified right? I mean, the media is full of funny little examples of women being raped and the audience always gets a chuckle out of it. There's even a joke for it: don't drop the soap! ...Guys? Right?
/r/MensRights11/12/22 12:48 AM
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I think my favorite example of this is Beyonce's Run the World song. It's a song about female empowerment and how great women are. Beyonce's clothing brand uses sweatshops, with primarily female employees. As American women dance and cheer to Beyonce being a symbol of empowerment, she is making a fortune off of poor women in developing countries.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 12:47 AM
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Studies estimate that 4-6% of the people incarcerated in US prisons right now are actually innocent. The majority of these people are men, as men make up the majority of people in prisons. Not being believed is not a problem only women experience.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 12:36 AM
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On a related note, a male comedian as chronically unfunny as Amy Schumer would not be getting work.
/r/MensRights10/12/22 03:08 AM
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My opinion is pretty contentious, but I legitimately think that the women who complain about shitty men should probably just stop fucking shitty men? Like, it has literally never been easier to fully vet someone. 20 years ago you had to hire a private investigor. Now you can just check their social media. For men who complain about shitty women, this is exactly the same. Don't stick your dick in crazy. Don't let crazy stick its dick in you.
/r/MensRights10/12/22 02:39 AM
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I'm pro-choice in principle, but I've simply walked away from the discussion until they start arguing for equal rights for men. A few years ago I figured that was next on the pro-life vs. pro-choice agenda, but feminists have taken a complete 180 and are now arguing that men are responsible for all pregnancies. I have never heard a feminist agree that men also deserve the right to walk away from an unwanted pregnancy. In that case, he has to shut up and pay up. Instead of including men in the de…
/r/MensRights10/12/22 02:31 AM
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It's really a peak example of what I like to consider salad bar feminism. At the salad bar, you browse through what looks appealing and take only the items you want. Bit of lettuce, no tomatoes because you don't like them, but hell yes you'll murder that salad with croutons, bacon bits, and dressing. This is basically the same as feminism. Autonomy for women? Hell yes. Autonomy for men? Wait just a second. High-paying jobs dominated by men? We need to increase the number of women in them. Low-pa…
/r/MensRights10/12/22 02:20 AM
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It's kind of weird how you're defending the incarceration of an American citizen being held in Russia on clearly made-up charges because you just want to argue with people on MensRights. Is that what feminism does now? Agree with Russia and defend its penal colonies just to spite men?
/r/MensRights09/12/22 02:21 AM
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Huh, I didn't know he was being charged in Russia for larceny while in the Marines! /s Nah, that's not relevant. Grimer actually committed a crime in Russia. Her incarceration was absolutely ridiculous, but the espionage charges against Whelan are completely made up.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 01:25 AM
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Vice covered male rape statistics Wait what? Why would Vice, a feminist-run publication, do someth-- 6 years old Oh. Yeah.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 03:34 AM
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I honestly believe that if the average feminist approached the MRM with an open mind like Cassie Jaye did, she would at the very least come out the other size sympathetic. At the very least, she would probably learn that your average MRA does not want to enforce so-called "traditional gender roles." That is completely off the radar of the MRM. One of the things they like to do most is try to turn us into tradcons, but I would assume that the majority of us strongly dislike tradcons.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 01:01 AM
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women Nobody here is afraid of women. We disapprove of the effects feminism has had on society. Not all women are feminists. Not all feminists are women.
/r/MensRights06/12/22 12:33 AM
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They don't have any reason to believe you hate all women. They don't care. They see it as a convenient way to delegitimize your argument and are happy to lie. Because their goal is to turn you into a feminist fever dream MRA. A man who believes all women should be subservient to men. A man who believes women should have no rights. A man who believes WoC are subhuman filth. When they do that, their misandry looks tame by comparison, or even justified.
/r/MensRights06/12/22 12:31 AM
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Men are more likely to be the victims of violent crime. Men are far more likely to be targeted by random acts of violence. Violence against women is such a common phrase that if you type "violence ag" into Google, it will suggest this phrase immediately. But men commit more violent acts! Relevance? Like, feminists literally cannot reach orgasm without bringing up this argument. But it's completely irrelevant. We're talking about safety outside, and generally speaking, it is argued far more often…
/r/MensRights02/12/22 11:39 PM
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Something something patriarchy something something toxic masculinity made her do it
/r/MensRights02/12/22 11:17 PM
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I never understood why people found it so bad to not want a promiscuous partner. Like, let me get this out of the way first: I have had sex with more women than I even know. I know it's over 50, but probably not over 100. For me, sex can be totally casual and no-strings-attached. But many people don't consider sex the same way that I do. Their values are different from mine. There is nothing wrong with that. Both men and women are free to choose who they want to share a bed with. There are also …
/r/MensRights02/12/22 12:24 AM
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The wording there bothers me. 'cruel, manipulating' side If there is credible evidence for these accusations, which there seems to be, why is it called a 'side' of a feminist icon? Why is it a sidenote, as if they're acknowledging she was otherwise OK? Nobody says that Harvey Weinstein or Jeffrey Epstein had a 'cruel side' to them. People recognize them as monsters.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 03:41 AM
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This has been happening in tennis for a long time. Male and female tennis players have the same prize pools at Grand Slams despite viewership being dramatically different. One of the non-grand slam tournament chief executives, Raymond Moore, said in 2016 that the female players "ride on the coat-tails of the men." Another of his comments: "They are very, very lucky. If I was a lady player, I'd go down every night on my knees and thank God that Roger Federer and Rafa Nadal were born, because they…
/r/MensRights01/12/22 03:29 AM
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“This has been the worst experience of my life, but I’m grateful that I had it, because it has changed me so dramatically to the core,” Quackenbush said at her sentencing. “Sometimes hard lessons are the best lessons.” What the fuck was hard about this lesson for you? You're not the one who got shot, you fucking idiot. Melton and Quackenbush got into a heated argument, during which the woman allegedly asked the man if he “wanted to die tonight.” Quackenbush then got back in her Porsche and drove…
/r/MensRights30/11/22 11:56 PM
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I don't know if you've seen it, but Marriage Story had a great scene about this. Months into the proceedings, the two people getting divorced were sitting in court as their lawyers battled it out. The lawyers were totally into it, fighting for every scrap. The divorced couple were sitting in the court looking at each other, clearly having lost their thirst for blood. They had spent hundreds of thousands of dollars on lawyers and court fees and realized finally that everything could have been tak…
/r/MensRights30/11/22 11:49 PM
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I think the best way I can describe the difference between the female and male experience in developed countries is that during normal times, it's highly similar. Yes, there are small differences, where at certain times it's worse to be a woman or worse to be a man. The biggest differences come during abnormal times. When proverbial shit hits the proverbial fan, there is nearly no situation in which it is better to be a man. Wartime circumstances. Men get drafted and die, women are displaced. Be…
/r/MensRights30/11/22 06:52 AM
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There's something to understand about online spaces in general, but especially those related to relationships. Women in general do not understand consent the way that they promote it. They understand their own boundaries and consent very well, but when it comes to their partners', all of that goes out the window. If you ask 10 women if they've ever asked a man for consent in the way that they expected to be asked for consent, some will say no, and the others will lie that they have. As a mid-30s…
/r/MensRights28/11/22 11:38 PM
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I can chime in on this. Yes, I am pro-choice. I have been for as long as I've held an opinion on the topic. Women should have the fundamental right to decide what they do with their bodies. Forcing a woman to carry a pregnancy to term is cruel. From a utalitarian perspective, I agree with you as well. We do not need more stress on social systems.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 02:59 AM
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Hello Seagull. It takes a special kind of insecure little man to immediately assume someone who disagrees with you does not support men’s rights. How are men's rights concerned anywhere in this article? Just another opportunity for men to shit on women with no valid reason. This subreddit is a joke. Yes, this is truly an individual who cares deeply for the Men's Rights Movement. By calling its major discussion forum a "joke." With that said, not only is what the above poster posted a complete de…
/r/MensRights26/11/22 02:51 AM
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Hello, adjective_noun_number poster. I believe I explained this to you before, but since there are so many adjective_noun_number posters around here, it's hard to keep track of you all. MensRights as a community has been around for 14 years, and during that time we have discussed an enormous range of topics. I understand that you relevanceposters absolutely love to interject your opinions on whether something is pertinent to the advancement of men's rights, and while I appreciate your concern (d…
/r/MensRights26/11/22 12:51 AM
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Every feminist turns into Ben Shapiro when the topic is men. No matter what the issue, their views immediately take a complete 180 from their progressive and liberal stance into something Shapiro would say. Condoms cost 35 cents. Contraceptives are completely available in the United States. Abandoning a child is not the solution to you making bad sexual decisions. The unsuccessful decision that you made was to have sex and get her pregnant. That decision is not alleviated by you abandoning your …
/r/MensRights25/11/22 10:09 AM
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I read the front page of TwoX every day. It doesn't bother me. It's basically entertainment. I've seen their worst. You have to realize something when you read TwoX: the overwhelming majority of the content there is fake. The open letters. Oh god, the open letters are so stupid. Every story should be punctuated with "and then everybody clapped" at the end. The situations about them giving verbal beatdowns to men. The claims about incel culture on reddit. "Reddit loves watching women get beat up …
/r/MensRights25/11/22 12:15 AM
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I lol'd. She really speedran that whole fucking mental disorder 😂
/r/MensRights24/11/22 08:23 AM
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I'm a simple man. If someone crosses a line with me, I am more than happy to cross that same line. My first girlfriend started calling me fat one day because when I laid on my side, I had semi-cleavage. It was primarily skin, as I was 6'5 210 pounds. I simply responded that her gut had grown consistently since the day we started dating, which was true. She became "anorexic" for the next twelve hours, and then proceeded to devour an entire carton of ice cream. What a trainwreck that relationship …
/r/MensRights24/11/22 12:06 AM
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Once you realize that feminists don't really believe in anything that they promote, and the movement is just an excuse to attack men, it makes a lot more sense.
/r/MensRights24/11/22 12:04 AM
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A while back reddit suggested that a man about to get a divorce visit every lawyer in his area for a consultation in order to close off legal representation options to his wife. He updated like a year later about how he did so, and that the judge looked upon that very harshly. It affected how his divorce went significantly in her favor. Moral of the story? Don't take legal advice from a bunch of anonymous strangers online. Telling a woman to start hiding money from her husband before she divorce…
/r/MensRights23/11/22 12:47 PM
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I rather like edgy politically incorrect jokes and all, but she's not really funny. Interviewer: (Asks a question) Julia Fox: (Gives a non-answer with shock value) Interviewer: Wow. So I looked her up and why she's being called iconic, and apparently she dated Kanye West. So we have this woman, who was in a relationship with Current Public Enemy #1 (don't get me wrong, as the dude's a total asshole), trying to disassociate herself from him afterwards. Apparently he was "normal" around her. Yeah,…
/r/MensRights23/11/22 11:08 AM
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You seem like a reasonable man making a reasonable decision to me. It's clear that you don't hate women. You hate how society will always take the side of women. You hate how any negative interaction you have with a woman will be interpreted as entirely your fault, no matter how much you plea your case. Johnny Depp had everything going into his fight against Amber Heard. He was one of the most beloved men in America. He had audio evidence of her claiming that nobody would ever believe him. Yet s…
/r/MensRights22/11/22 10:56 AM
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Yes, I am aware. It's simply a dogwhistle for "men don't matter unless I can use them to push a narrative" (see: BLM).
/r/MensRights18/11/22 09:52 AM
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I've mentioned this to a feminist before. She responded with: Well men commit more crime and therefore have more interactions with police! Every feminist turns into Steven Crowder when the topic is men.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 07:54 AM
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Hence why so many women are so hopelessly addicted to Instagram and other image-based social media. It allows them to live out their fantasy of being models.
/r/MensRights17/11/22 11:57 PM
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AITA frequently does this to male posters. They'll agree that it was your right to act a certain way, but tone police you for the way you said it in an attempt to discredit and delegitimize your feelings.
/r/MensRights17/11/22 04:19 AM
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When I was in junior high school, a girl was browsing through the yearbook and she found my picture. She decided I was the right guy for her, and so she decided to pursue me. I did not feel the same way about her, as I was not really yet into girls, and therefore she made it her life mission to make my time at school as horrible as possible. She claimed that I had pursued her, that I was creeping her out, and that I wouldn't leave her alone. Eventually this turned into a pretty serious problem w…
/r/MensRights17/11/22 04:16 AM
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You hit the nail on the head here. What so-called weaponized incompetence generally is is women assuming that they are authorities of all household related objectives. Men require women to swoop in and save the day lest they have a fatal malfunction while washing the dishes. I've lived with three different women long-term, and every one of them was exactly the same in this regard. When I did the cleaning, "No, not that way, this way." When I loaded the dishwasher, "No, not that way, this way." W…
/r/MensRights17/11/22 02:59 AM
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I watched the Heard defenders during the trial. It was insane. Heard, Depp, or a witness would say one thing, and they would refuse to interpret it in any way that exonerates Depp or implicates Heard. They would take a statement from a witness as fact if it lent credit to Heard's accusations but then take another statement from the same witness and say it was calumny if it lent credit to Depp's.
/r/MensRights17/11/22 01:17 AM
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It doesn't really help to be a woman there Yes it does. There was recently a post from a lesbian complaining that she was getting heavily downvoted when she mentioned the words "my wife." The users just assumed she was a man and without taking what she wrote into account downvoted her. Hilariously, her conclusion was that TwoX is unfair to lesbians, and people shouldn't assume they're men for having a wife. Everyone applauded and cheered for the observation, not realizing that they acknowledged …
/r/MensRights17/11/22 12:58 AM
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Never forget that TwoX posters sent themselves rape and death threats after it went default. They didn't want the community to be visible because they wanted their misandry hidey-hole, and so when reddit admins made it default, they responded by claiming they were getting harassment. The admins looked into it and didn't find harassment. What they found was a bunch of users claiming they were harassed, but who had never received a single private message on reddit. Some users went through the trou…
/r/MensRights17/11/22 12:56 AM
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People completely underestimate how harmful hateful rhetoric against men is. It radicalizes the posters there and conditions them to hate men. They spend an overwhelming amount of time reading such posts, many of which are based off of fabricated stories. This is going to have an effect on how they treat men in real life. This is going to affect their personal relationships. TwoX and similar communities harm men far more than the posters there are willing to acknowledge.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 01:57 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss. If it makes you feel any better your comment makes me want to be a father for my son like yours was for you.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 11:33 PM
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It's no real surprise about that last one. The women will post Ukrainian flags, statements in support of Ukraine, and messages about how the war affects women. Hopefully in the near future this conflict will be over and Ukraine will be liberated. But when it is, they'll go back and treat the men who fought for it with derision.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 11:30 PM
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Feminists will argue till they're blue in the face that suicide rates are on men. If you think about it, it makes a lot of sense. Their hypothesis of toxic masculinity enables them to give the impression that they care and want to propose a productive solution. It gives them plausible deniability when they're accused of ignoring men's issues. Yet at the same time, it costs them nothing. It's an easy way for them to say "get over it" to men without actually saying so. It's a way of taking a highl…
/r/MensRights13/11/22 11:40 PM
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Weird comment but OK. Supply/demand. That's all. Men are willing to pay X amount of dollars for sex, so sex workers will charge X amount of dollars for sex. If in my profession I could charge 1000 Euros for five minutes, I'd happily do so. But nobody's going to pay me that much for what I do. Since escorts are often completely booked and require a reservation weeks in advance, I would say it's not ridiculous in the slightest that they would charge that much. On a personal level, I don't blame th…
/r/MensRights13/11/22 11:23 PM
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I've always hated the word "ally" as well. I think the reason why feminists favor it is because feminism is extremely hierarchical in nature. At the very top of feminism you have rich white women. Under them are WOC, followed by trans women under them. Finally you have the men with poor judgment who decide to align themselves with feminism, and they're delegated to the "ally" status. It's the "other" group, a side table where they're told to nod along and take all abuse hurled towards them. The …
/r/MensRights13/11/22 11:18 PM
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I became so jaded with online dating over time that I eventually started doing sugardaddy stuff. You want to know the fucked up thing? When it was a straight-up pay for play type of deal, the pressure I felt in terms of spending money on my date dissipated greatly. Sugarbabies were less demanding and upfront about money than the average woman I went out to dinner with in traditional relationships.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 12:57 AM
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/r/awfuleyebrows Go read some of the comments there. It's not men tearing women down about their eyebrows. The biggest overlapping subreddits are thegirlsurvivalguide, instagramreality, and makeupaddiction.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 12:55 AM
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Remember though, generalizing men as a whole = fair point, true. Generalizing men from a non-Western culture in which rape is far more tolerated = racist, untrue. I'm not saying that one is good or one is bad. I'm saying that both are bad, but the latter at least makes some degree of sense.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 10:50 PM
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The issue with posting on those communities is they deflect away from your question, attack your motives, and then falsely accuse you of being an incel. They then ban you and continue to badmouth you after you're gone, using their reaction to your question as proof that reddit is a hive of incels and horrible people. It's sincerely a waste of time.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 11:14 AM
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If at all possible, send your sons to all boys' schools, preferably with mostly male staff. I teach at an all boys' school and it is a significantly better climate for the young men than the co-ed schools I have taught at in the past. Older, more experienced teachers who have spent the majority of their careers teaching boys are generally far better. Avoid any schools with feminist buzzwords posted on their websites. None of this is to say there are no good co-ed schools, that all female teacher…
/r/MensRights09/11/22 11:08 AM
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It feels bad that if I'm ever shot by a woman, as I bleed to death, my final thoughts on this earth will be that she'll probably get little to no punishment. Oh, and she'll say she felt threatened by me during the trial.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 02:57 AM
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...So she's saying that male rape victims are responsible for their rapes? Some women who rape men get pregnant as a result. If 100% of all pregnancies are the responsibility of men, does that mean that those rape victims are at fault? Some women who rape underrage boys get pregnant as well. If you rape a child and get pregnant, is it actually his fault? The author of this book believes so. She made that original tweet in 2018, and four years later, is releasing a book about it. There is no way …
/r/MensRights09/11/22 01:23 AM
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This reads like it was written by a woman whose boyfriend just broke up with her because he didn't want to get married yet and she did. I think what a lot of people take for granted is that when you get married, you are, for the first time in your life, choosing your family. It is one of the few decisions you make primarily alone that will dramatically alter the trajectory of your life. Women say men are horrified of that, and I agree with them on that. However, I will also say that men should b…
/r/MensRights09/11/22 12:57 AM
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I can't speak for your upbringing or the social climate you were raised in, but attempting to stop a violent woman as a man is not tolerated in any place I have ever lived. You actually saw a clear case of a man trying to defend himself against a violent woman here, and yet you still believe a bystander stepping in would be OK. How exactly do you envision it going for surrounding men? If a man steps between them, he will become her new target. Women face no repercussions for violence despite bei…
/r/MensRights08/11/22 02:25 AM
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They could easily restrain her I'm not throwing shade or anything like that, but are you a woman? Do you have any idea the repercussions a man faces for laying a single hand on a woman outside?
/r/MensRights08/11/22 02:13 AM
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I would be inclined to agree with you, but keep in mind that the majority of social norms and values about how you act towards others are taught by mothers. Women reinforce the "never hit a girl" rule from Day One of a boy's life and every day thereafter until he leaves the nest. Men stick up for abusive women largely because they were told again and again to.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 01:43 AM
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Someone puts a gun to their head and tells you that if you refuse to forfeit your life savings to them, they will pull the trigger. You don't seem like the type of person with life savings, but humor me here. Is it your responsibility to whip out your bank card to wire them the entirety of your savings?
/r/MensRights08/11/22 01:39 AM
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This really seems to me like a matter of perspective. If you take her list of 11 items as to why commitment to a woman no longer seems appealing and swap the genders on all but #2, it's basically word-for-word what a feminist would write in an article about why women no longer want to be in LTRs with men. For me at least, I've noticed that the women I've dated, even when they did not identify as feminists, were the typical pick-and-choose feminists in all but name. For instance, they'll happily …
/r/MensRights08/11/22 01:06 AM
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Essentially yes. The overwhelming majority of primary school teachers are women. The number ranges from 85% to 92% based on the state, and in other Western countries it is a similar number. It has been shown time and time again that boys will perform better under a male teacher, or even if they have had a single male teacher in their time at school. In education research, the falling behind of boys is seldom discussed. Education as a field is heavily influenced by feminism (I have a master's in …
/r/MensRights07/11/22 02:49 AM
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AskFeminists reported my previous account to reddit administrators for "brigading" even when I didn't link them. I simply mentioned a post I made there in a comment, which got 3 upvotes. It went almost completely unnoticed. Feminists and false accusations go pretty hand in hand.
/r/MensRights06/11/22 08:42 AM
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Suicide rates among men are high for a multitude of reasons. [1] Lower risk aversion than women Men are less likely to avoid risky behavior/dramatic solutions than women. This is a biological difference. Feminists dislike biology in general and using a list of poorly-understood talking points will fight against this until their last breath, but simply put, male suicide rates will always be higher than female suicide rates. [2] Men need more dramatic intervention As male suicide is so much more c…
/r/MensRights05/11/22 06:20 AM
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I agree with you in general, but I think the biggest changes happened at these landmarks: 2014, GamerGate. Yes, I know GamerGate in 2022 is a pretty dead horse, but I really saw a shift in the demographic around this time. It was a front-page topic that ended up being deleted in mass, and then shoved into a separate subreddit. It was banned across reddit which was really one of the first blows to free speech on the site (for reference, even revenge porn wasn't banned until 2015). 2014, the Fappe…
/r/MensRights05/11/22 06:01 AM
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