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You don't say how often you smiled at him. You don't tell us how you react to 'finding him attractive' when he ddoes those things. Do you smile and wink? Do you thank him while lightly touching his wrist? I want to know more of your actions not just your thoughts. Nobody can see your thoughts, but they can see your actions. I can't tell if you were just staring blankly at him the whole time or if you giggled at his jokes.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/18 08:15 PM
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And your average man is a fat neckbeard guzzling beer & energy drinks while playing video games 6+ hours a day with no ambition.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/18 05:16 PM
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she wants you to orbit her i think
/r/askTRP18/09/18 08:24 PM
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For a man, having a high powered career driven woman is like a woman having an psudo-celebrity instagram model boyfriend who is always obsessed with their followers, likes, wearing perfect clothing and posing in perfect pictures, updating it constantly throughout the day. Imagine going out for coffee with your boyfriend and he pauses every 10 mins to update his profile, take selfies, or comment to their fans. At first it might seem kinda cute, but it all feels so unnecessarily annoying. Better t…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/18 04:27 PM
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Volunteer your time without telling anyone. Go serve food at a soup kitchen anonymously and without telling anyone or posting on social media. Do things for others and you'll start to even out the balance.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 06:08 PM
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The truth is that probably both the boys in your story were not good choices. The fact that your high school sweetheart wants you back probably signals that he's still kind of low-value without any options. nun mode for a bit then re-evaluate what you really want out of life.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 06:05 PM
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SO have you had this conversation?
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/18 10:30 PM
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So you'd want him to move in with you at some point? How does he feel about that?
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/18 09:56 PM
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If you want to phrase minor suggestions better, phrase it as a question: "Are you still coming, or were you thinking about just coming tomorrow?"
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/18 02:06 PM
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Do you know about his career plans? About plans to buy a house maybe? About his aspirations? What DO you know about him? When he tells you these things about himself, it's a perfect time to ask "Do you see me in that house on the hill with you? I'd want a house with rooms for 3 kids"
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/18 02:04 PM
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That sounds pretty innocuous to me. His over-reaction is definitely a red flag. You need a guy you can rely on to be an emotional rock and not fly off the handle at minor things like this. I don't know if this person will be that for you. That being said, don't try to problem-solve for guys, they don't like it. My advice is mixed, so you may need to think about it some more.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/18 09:36 PM
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You should have found out his plans on starting a family by the 4th or 5th date. This is part of vetting. You've left it way too long, probably in the hopes that he wasn't driven away, but now you've procrastinated so long that this has become a big issue. Yes your conversation is way overdue, but do you have any idea of where his life is going? If not, then you've done yourself a terrible dis-service and you haven't vetted very well. Do you know anything about his future plans for his life? If …
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/18 07:56 PM
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First of all, about his rant at you? Terrible behavior. Was he drunk? This sounds awful. I cannot give you advice to change him, it can't be done. You will have to weigh whether or not you want to be with someone like this. Now, for the second part, the part you CAN control is this: Last night is an example. Last night he was supposed to come see me. He was helping a friend and it ended up going longer than he had expected. They were working approx 40 minutes from my home, and his friend lived a…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/18 07:53 PM
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I don't know, i mostly feel bad for this poor misguided naive lady. Throwing herself at a guy that is too high above her league to even be considered? It's just sad really. I feel sorry for her more than anything, she sounds pathetic. So sad she has so little worth that she has to give her miserable self away for scraps of attention. :(
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/18 06:07 PM
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Sometimes men need space to figure things out. Sometimes they need a jolt to get in gear. Do you have any relatives you could stay with for a month or two? That could help. "I love you, but i think you need some time and space to get your life in gear, and a 2 month old and breastfeeding wife will get in your way"
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/18 03:54 PM
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He's orbiting her, no question about that. I don't have the solution, but... I've seen guys who orbit girls simply "forget" about these girls they orbit when they get more things going on in their lives. It often happens when they either get new girlfriends or their girlfriends treat them so well they totally forget all about the other girls. Step up your girl game and this problem might solve itself. If it gets worse, then i'd consider bailing.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/18 05:17 PM
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My wife and I had sex on the 3rd date. Dates were spaced about 5-7 days apart, after solid texting in between. Good dates too, not just 'go for coffee' or 'go for a drink'. I remember one thing that stood out on those two dates. When i dropped her off at home, she stood at the door and turned around and Waved+Smiled to me. That made me feel special.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/18 05:08 PM
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Good for you for being honest. I don't think your honesty should be downvoted. It is however the obvious reason. You are still way too fat. A healthier weight should be around the 135-140 range. After that you can tweak it a bit more, but get to 140 first.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/18 05:06 PM
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If you're working and making more money, you are NOT a "housewife".
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/18 09:19 PM
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Find a co-ed hobby or sport. Plenty of mixing to be had.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/18 03:35 PM
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