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Maybe men are treated like shit and learn to be less nice as a result of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 09:24 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women_are_wonderful_effect
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 09:19 AM
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Yeah, it's not your problem that life is easier for you. So insightfull
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 09:13 AM
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Yeah the absolute upper limit of what is considered 'a healthy weight'. That's what they call chubby. A bmi of 26.35 is FAT. 10 more kg and you are OBESE.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 08:48 AM
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Modern society values feminine traits (beauty, socializing) while male traits (physical strength, leadership, teamwork) aren't worth much anymore. The result is that is much easier to be a 'high value' woman than a 'high value' male in modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 08:45 AM
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This right here. Lonely and socially deprived men are being exploited en masse in this society, but that's the natural order of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 08:36 AM
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According to the typical asexual PPD woman here, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 05:47 PM
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Yeah, it would've been an extremely shit deal. Literally born and raised for a shit deal then. brutal. Glad I found red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 10:58 AM
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Yeah and inceldom was 'invented' by a woman. If you look at real life speed-dating data, it's all just as shallow with the more attractive men having a very high positive response rate compared to unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 10:57 AM
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Spoken by someone who uses tretinoin 0.05%, moisturizes daily and uses suncreen every day. My skin looks worse than that of people my age (24yo) because I have a genetically wrinkled forehead and genetic nasolabial folds. Maybe my skincare will pay off in the very long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 10:55 AM
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There's a difference in being attractive/arousing despite certain (beta) behavior/character traits, or being attractive because of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:39 PM
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Sure, but that also works both ways. I have gotten right swipes from girls that later said they thought I looked different on snapchat photos or in real life than I did on my OLD photos and then still rejected me based on my looks later.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 08:51 PM
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Good looking and charismatic are mostly the same thing. Humans like good-looking people, I agree and that's 80% of dating and social relations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:40 PM
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Oke cool, sounds like an age difference. Most women my age except the guy to escalate to sex after a few dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:39 PM
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Humans are a cooperative social species. Genes for social skills, charisma, emotional iq, and the ability to climb social ladders and convince and influence other people are important. The most important social 'skill' is an attractive face with tall height. My jokes became twice as funny after I lost 30 pounds, who would've thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:34 PM
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You don't have to fuck before the third date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:26 PM
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30% of young men are sexless. Another 30% is barely getting by. Those are facts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:10 PM
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/doubt but sure, whatever makes you feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 06:49 PM
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They don't, but then you end up incel. Beggers can't be choosers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 06:34 PM
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Women caring less about looks and more about personality = lower n-count
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 06:00 PM
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Like I said, right now it's women that are the gatekeepers of relationships, because they are selecting on personality while men are more like 'Let's try, see where it goes.' If men are going to select on personality aswell, you are going to see LESS relationships, not more. I am extremely skeptical that the higher quality of those few relationships are going to go offset the extreme drop in relationships that are being tried at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:56 PM
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Most mens attitude seems to be: we are physically attracted to each other so let's get together and see whether or not we work out. That's because men don't have the privilege to judge for personality traits like women can. Most men struggle to get dates with women they are physically attracted to, if they are going to judge on personality on top of that you would see inceldom rise to 80% easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:47 PM
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Looks and first impressions come first everywhere in life. Or do you walk around in the real world with a mask on your face? Utter nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:27 PM
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I have no clue. My parents told me looks don't matter and I should focus on academia and carreer and that I would be rewarded in the end for not being so shallow and instead having focussed on the long term. All it ended up doing was me ending up as a highly achieved STEM nerd that was a kissless virgin will into his twenties. Literally 0 reward for my effort, while I missed out on what life is about entirely. As a young man you have 0 role models and society is constantly trying to sabotage you…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:32 PM
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It's not a threat and I am not blaming women. Women have their natural urges that causes them to only have sex with the top 20% of men. That's just life. But don't be suprised when an increasing number of young men have 0 stake in society anymore and wouldn't mind watching it burn down.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:00 PM
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Women in real life aren't much less shallow than on online dating platforms at my age (24yo). How old are you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 12:41 PM
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No, I live in a socialist state in the Netherlands. 1/3 is in a relationship, 1/3 is completely incel, 1/3 gets lucky every once in a while and gets into a relationship every once in a while. Basically, half the men my age (24yo) are not getting any to very little romantic experience whatsoever. Women here would rather be a sidechick/fwb to a really good-looking guy, than have a relationship with a worse-looking guy. Alternatively they just stay 'single' since young women earn more money and hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 11:54 AM
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History is irrelevant to modern times. Women weren't employed 100 years ago, there were no online-dating apps and society in general was more dangerous/naturally selecting. Physical attractiveness has never been more important than in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 11:46 AM
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What do mental health issues have to do with being considered too ugly/low value for women to want to associate with you? That's just victim blaming. Therapy isn't going to help you grow taller, get your hair back or get a more defined jawline. And yeah, they will go to jail or dropout of society. And once enough young men do that, society will collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 11:28 AM
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Humans exist on a hostile, dangerous planet. Where? I live in a rich western country, not in a third world shithole. The environment is extremely safe here. Not only is nature extremely dangerous but so are other tribes. What are you even talking about? What other tribes? eugenically create the most fit and healthy offspring; with weak genes we are really only ever one invasion or one bad pandemic away from extermination. Being tall and physically attractive in no way prevents you from being kil…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 11:19 AM
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80/20 female/male ratio sounds ideal. Dan bilzerian also talks about this that he tries to have 10-20 girls for every guy at his parties, so that women start approaching guys and there isn't this constant huge competitive stress on men to get a girl. Most cities however, have waaaay more men than women in their bars/clubs, which is why there's no point in going out as a guy unless you are really good-looking or just having fun with friends. It's basically the same as tinder here: Don't bother if…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:29 AM
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Clubs are mostly college people, colleges are only slightly skewed towards men here, maybe 60/40 at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:18 AM
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Medium city in the netherlands with 50/50 gender ratio, but then all the clubs/bars are mostly male anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:11 AM
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Must be heaven for those few men, here it's the opposite and half the men are incel here. Absolutely over for my location.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:02 AM
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Dating apps aren't much different than clubs/bars at all. If you remove the women that are not open to men and only there to have fun, you would also get 80/20 statistics. Not to mention that most clubs/bars are sausagefest nowadays anyways. The ratio is probably pretty close to 80/20 already in actualy numbers lmao. Women don't go out much anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 09:57 AM
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??? It is known. Go to a random bar/club and ask men if they hope to meet a girl tonight, most will say yes. Ask the same to women and they say nahh, only here to have fun with friends. Maybe if the right guy comes along.. maybe.. Women simply don't care as much about men as the other way around, which is why men do 90% of the approaching, seducing, flirting, etc. All the heavy lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 09:53 AM
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asexual
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 09:51 AM
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Yeah it is, but most ppl will not and should not care about spinsters having such issues. If 30% of your young men are completely sexless, there's a large problem brewing that people should worry about though. Young angry men tend to become violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 09:49 AM
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No it doesn't. All it shows is the fact that women have a much lower sex-drive and lower interest in relationships and sex than men. Slightly less than half the interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 09:48 AM
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OLD was made for women, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 09:46 AM
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Not having your sexual meets met is oppression under any definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 09:44 AM
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You don't get gorgeous skin with skincare routines, you get it by having proper genes. Skincare routines are mostly for healing/preventing below-average skin quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 11:41 PM
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Not in the netherlands. Women rarely work full-time here, mostly part-time fucking around at the cost of full-time workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 11:40 PM
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https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-are-really-hot-you-are-probably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a This means that the Tinder economy has more inequality than 95.1% of all the world’s national economies. In addition, it was determined that a man of average attractiveness would be “liked” by approximately 0.87% (1 in 115) of women on Tinder. Just keep sticking your head in the sand bro. Fucking idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 10:18 PM
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I have no idea how men can over-estimate their physical attractiveness. Every single young man has tried online-dating at least once, and the average man there gets absolutely obliterated. How can you still delude yourself thinking you are physically attractive? Meanwhile it's the opposite for women: Make a tinder and even the ugliest women will get hundreds of messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 09:59 PM
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Exactly. I don't know why this is though. Why would families sabotage the lives of their male children while trying to improve that of their female children?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 09:57 PM
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Because giving a women attention and compliments won't make her any more attracted to you. You are decreasing your value in her eyes and digging your own grave. Simping for a woman you are in a relationship with and fucking leads to deadbedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 09:56 PM
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Most men get the girl they want with effort and most importantly making her feel special: Date nights, compliments, communication, attention, being loving, etc. Bluepill overload. This is not how the real world works. Giving a women attention and compliments won't make her any more attracted to you. That's called simping and being an orbiter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 09:28 PM
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Man here. I was raised by my parents and family to be an ugly beta-provider. Consistently told my looks don't matter and I need to focus on academia and carreer development. It's weird to realize that your own parents have done the best they could to sabotage the chance of you reproducing and obtaining life quality. Very counter-intuitive and I will never forgive my parents for that. My female cousin was constantly praised for buying fancy clothes, doing her make-up, etc. Meanwhile as a guy I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 09:25 PM
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Someone's mad that he's not getting any
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:22 PM
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Women don't need to orgasm to enjoy sex and the female orgasm is much more intense than the male one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:59 PM
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And sex feels less good or is more effort for women than for men? If you answered yes, then you are asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:33 PM
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I will never date a woman that thinks having sex with their SO is a sort of 'payment' for emotional effort. Typical for so many PPD women that are asexual in reality. Asexuals should just get off this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:19 PM
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Nice troll post. The bottom 80% of men don't have any commitment power.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:00 PM
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Women don't do any more child-raising than men beyond the age of 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:45 AM
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Privileges of being female
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 12:13 AM
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Depends on age ofcourse. Girls I am dating will be ~20yo. In which case: Low (preferable): 0-2 Medium (expected and assumed): 3-6 High (indicator of personality flaws, disorder / major red flag): 7+
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 12:01 AM
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Theres lots of asexual women on purplepilldebate. Don't think they are anything close to a representation of the women you would meet in your daily life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 11:30 PM
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Most men never have women attracted to them, so it's whatever really. Whether you hit on 20yo's when you are an ugly 25yo man or ugly 45yo doesnt really make a whole lot of difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 11:29 PM
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Incels getting absolutely 0 sex and female validation are expecting their lives to be a pornographic movie. Alright makes perfect sense. Another lunatic feminist to add to my ignore list.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:55 PM
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I hate her. She emotionally abused my dad throughout my youth but played the victim at the same time. Eventually divorce-raped him. Took out her frustrations on me, raised me to become a betabitch and sabotaged the relationship between my dad and I. Absolute worst possible example and has had severe impact on my relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:52 PM
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water wet groundbreaking news OP. here is your nobel price
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:22 PM
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https://youtu.be/gOyrYThlOag?t=89 First video, that black guy that grabs the guy from behind at 1:29 . Those are the most disgusting men, absolute beta simps. Thinking they can get some pussy or validation points for 'protecting my lady'. Hope he meets the wrong man and gets his face beaten up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:27 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 06:35 PM
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Yeah so I think I look slightly better than him, just slightly. Average height/posture. But I consider him very much average and therefore rate myself slightly above average. Average woman for me is: https://thumbs.dreamstime.com/b/pretty-girl-outside-headshot-teen-35975463.jpg I would see this girl and the guy I linked earlier in a relationship together and would think they are an average couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:45 PM
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slightly above average, I would say I dont look worse than this guy: https://www.reddit.com/r/GaymersGoneMild/comments/9377w8/just_a_shoutout_to_this_sub_for_making_even/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:33 PM
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Would you drink piss from a cow? If not, why do you think women like to eat microwaved lemons?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:11 PM
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Imagine thinking lower taxes and more self-responsibility is about pushing women down. Are you saying women can only act irresponsible?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:07 PM
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Someone failing with women also realizes they genuinely do not care or have any empathy for unattractive men?!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:06 PM
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The youth already gets completely screwed over by boomers though. If you are going to put the minimum voting age to 30yo, you shouldnt allow anyone above the age of 65yo to vote either. Those people have no stake in society anymore and just want to fuck over the rest during their retirement untill they die.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:05 PM
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Realizing how bitter men get over not being able to fuck a woman Who are you talking about? Not incels since they want love, not sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:03 PM
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female worship, wouldnt swipe right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:32 PM
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Went through the exact same transformation as you. The left generally favours women and attractive men. As an ugly man you are the least likely to profit from a wellfare/socialist state, whilst contributing the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 02:05 PM
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It's over for the US, so many fat subhumans in your country
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 01:37 PM
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You have very low standards tbh. You can see very easily that she's fat/chubby, that's an automatic below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 01:29 PM
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I am also talking about all the rest that society provides, such as food, police/army, utility work, education, healthcare, etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 01:12 PM
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The female imperative is providing her offspring with a stable and safe environment for them to thrive in. A strong, high-earning, high status male used to be a requirement for creating such an ideal environment. Now? Women have their imperative fullfilled by the state the moment they are born and don't need a man anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 01:03 PM
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Oh yeah I feel you. Women have it a lot easier in that regard, they just have to be skinny. Men have to be skinny + have muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:30 PM
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Yup. I personally think that not being fat is an acceptable 'minimum' for a seat at the table of dating. You don't even need to exercise to be have a normal healthy BMI, just eat less for an extended amount of time. But more than that shouldn't be an absolute requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:18 PM
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That's deformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:15 PM
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Using filters and looks fat. Below average
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:13 PM
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Clearly below average
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:13 PM
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Maisie Williams is below average. Just lol @ the female worship here. I consider not being fat an absolute requirement to even begin rating someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:12 PM
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https://thumbs.dreamstime.com/b/pretty-girl-outside-headshot-teen-35975463.jpg Average girl, middle class, netherlands.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:11 PM
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Just get a top 0.1% income bro, women love it. Oh you're a silicon valley computernerd earning only 100k/year? That's only like top 1%, women aren't impressed. Try harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:42 AM
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As a guy, unless I initiate physical contact or escalate physical contact, nothing will ever happen. When I started dating (as a virgin) I didn't initiate and that extended my period as a virgin by atleast a year. Women will not initiate sexual contact (often not even when you are already in a relationship) and expect men to do it. If after 2-3 dates you still haven't made out, they will tell you that 'they don't really feel the spark' and then it ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:36 AM
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Can we really say a guy is involuntarily celibate if he has never went to the gym consistently for at least 2 years? That brutal conclusion that the standards for young men are so high nowadays that you are considered a 'voluntary celibrate' if you havent been on a disciplined workout + diet routine for at least 2 years. And they say beauty standards for women are high, lmfao. It's over for many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 11:41 PM
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Yeah a receding hairline looks like shit, and shaving it all bald is not a good fucking look for a 25yo. Idiots need to stop coping. I am 24yo and already popping finasteride like it's fucking candy. If I lose my hair it's fucking over. Only option then is hair systems and those are expensive asf. (500 dollars + 50 dollar/month maintenance and full replacement every 2 years or so).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 11:14 PM
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Idk where this idea comes from that ugly people find other ugly people attractive lmao. Relationships between ugly people are sexless and passionless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 10:57 PM
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Why is it a bad analogy? Are you working 60 hours a week, have no pets, don't smoke, don't buy anything fancy, dont buy new clothes, buy the cheapest food, live extremely small and cheap, never go out, no holidays and saving as much as you can for at least a year? No? Then you are poor by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 10:51 PM
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counteract the negative experiences with what, more negative experiences? I have no idea why you think an ugly guy will ever have success approaching women lmao. At best he will get have some girl write down a fake number or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 10:49 PM
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it's totally ok that I don't cum and yet they try so hard anyway - because they're doing it for themselves, they don't care what I want. It's strange that you interpret the male reaction in such a negative way. I actually had a hookup tell me this exact sentence when I was fingering her to try and get her off and I took it as a: 'Hey it's okay if you don't want to put in the amount of effort to get me off. You don't have to.'. So I tried harder and went on longer because I didn't want her to fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 07:25 PM
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In recent years, the idea of female orgasm has become popular, many men make it a goal to bring a girl to orgasm. However this is not because they care about the girl genuinely. It's either 1) they want her to come back so they can fuck her again or 2) it's an ego thing, they feel like they're less of a man if they can't do it. It's sad how many men get upset at a girl for not cumming like it's some kind of intentional thing done to slight them. In other words, you can not do good as a man. Not …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:40 PM
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How many people are voluntairily poor? If you are only working 40 hours a week, why not work 60 hours a week instead if that's what you need to get out of poverty? Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:25 PM
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How many times do you have to be laughed at in public and rejected before you stop trying? Also cold-approaching is a meme. Most guys approach a girl that is giving signals and shows open body language. You have to be an autistic retard to approach a girl and try to win her over with 'game' when her whole demeanour is showing 'leave me alone'. That's called sexual harassment/being a creep. Whenever I am in a club/bar with friends and we fancy some chicks, you can literally tell within the first …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:43 PM
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Blackpill: -Only 2 of the best-looking guys from our friend-group had success with women, the rest were virgins into their early 20s. Despite all of us having mostly similar personalities/hobbies. -Usually at least half the girls in my class were solely swooning over the 1-2 hot guys in my class, the rest of the guys were invisible or fighting over lesser half of the women. -My first girlfriend was already sexually active since 14yo and exclusively had relationships with tall, attractive men. In…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:08 PM
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??? Betabux is the most pathetic type of 'relationship' there is. At that point it's preferable to be single and fuck hot escorts on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:41 PM
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You should be doing all of that anyways. I have NEVER seen a young woman swoon over a bald guy. Guys like jason statham start becoming attractive to women from their mid 20s and later only or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:37 PM
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Unless you have an extremely masculine skull-shape, it's going to knock 1 or 2 points off your sexual market value easily. And most guys can't compensate for such a SMV hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:30 PM
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Yeah I date 18 year old women aswell and they are addicted to it, but is it better or worse than current 14yo's? I refuse to LTR any woman that has ever tried online dating before.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:15 PM
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Betabuxing with resources, a stable career, etc is not 'dating'. It's pathetic. Best age for dating is 14-21yo. Women are less bitter about men, less arrogant and aren't as addicted to social media attention yet. People are the most physically attractive at this age, when you are bald it's over. Love is still real and emotional at that age, instead of transactional/rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:01 PM
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It has become socially unacceptable to approach girls in public. Only tryhard PUA's and social rejects do it nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 10:03 PM
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Over. Looksmaxing truly is the only way to get what you want then. Gotta be the best looking guy she can ever hope to get to make sure she doesn't leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 08:40 PM
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Yes, because if not then they will keep voting for whatever politician is the most socialist and brings in the most BBC immigrants.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 08:30 PM
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The best things in life don't cost much money. If I am in a relationship with a woman that makes a lot less money than I do, then I will live more frugally, work less hours and retire earlier in life. Maybe spend some extra on my own hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 08:28 PM
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Maybe if you can make her wear a burqa?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 08:27 PM
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Nah. A 9/10 is going to be horrible at relationships because there's so little guys at her level, so she's basically always dating down. Ideally you want a 9/10 that's still very young/virgin and have her before she realizes her true value. Once an attractive woman installs an online dating app it's basically over tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 08:03 PM
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I mean you can make an exception for people under the age of 30, but after that it shows very low IQ or exceptionary circumstances to not have your financial shit in order.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 08:00 PM
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PPD Today: having your own money is irrelevant to men. It's irrelevant for both genders. Where do you live where it's not normal for adults to pay their own bills? PPD yesterday: why these bitches always using me for my money? Happens when you are trying to compensate for your looks with money. Best thing you can do in that scenario is invest your money in plastic surgery tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:26 PM
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Yeah that's what im saying. The average guy being rich, famous or a cartel member, sure he would do well. For the ugly guy? It would still be over for him tbh. He would have to Weinstein his way into women. Inject T is very legit theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:31 PM
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Why do you not want to be treated like a diseased tramp?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:30 PM
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I can't wait till genetically engineered designer babies tbh. It's a dystopic certainty at this point. Once the first 6'8 tall gigachads start appearing, every family will be forced to pay companies to modify the genes of their unborn babies. What other option will they have? Your 5'9 average looking son will stand absolutely no chance and will be treated by society like we treat diseased deformed tramps today.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:23 PM
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I've gone on a dates where a purposely pick a guy who is 5/10, in hopes he won't be some sort of Chad. And these men, somehow, do think they are Chad! What I am literally reading here is that you are dating Chads mostly, but one time you give this average looking guy a chance and it didn't workout. So now you blame your typical date's behavior, those dates with Chad, on your average guy. What I am betting on is that you are average looking, but you want an above average looking man. That's fine …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:14 PM
6

Yeah well, my definition of 'doing well with women' is not 'get into a LTR with an obese girl'.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:05 PM
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https://i.imgur.com/oRXgPsi.png someone like this will NEVER be doing well with women, no matter his status, money or 'game'. It would be a real miracle if I ever see this. https://www.reddit.com/r/GaymersGoneMild/comments/9377w8/just_a_shoutout_to_this_sub_for_making_even/ Some average guy like this doing well with women? Unlikely and would be surpised, but happens sometimes yeah I can believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:53 PM
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Wanna bet that the only important difference is that the guy in question is ugly and Henry is good-looking? I have literally never met an ugly guy that did well with women or an attractive guy that did poorly. It's simply impossible and the reason why you get situations like above as with henry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:26 PM
0

You can like a girl as a person, be looking for something more than a hookup, but still not going any further with her after having had sex with her. Those things arent mutually exclusive. Your argument only makes sense when you are very conservative and traditional and think any relationship should have marriage as the ultimate goal. That's only like 5% of the population at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:06 PM
3

What does 'using for sex' mean? Sex is an enjoyable activity for both participants in normal cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 01:46 PM
2

Well first of all the fact is that if you can easily get casual sex, you will get into LTR's for sex much easier aswell. So women and attractive men have that advantage aswell. It's a huge privilege, one of the largest there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 01:35 PM
4

male giving tips to young females: Literally do/say anything instead of just laying there and letting the guy orchestrate the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 11:50 PM
1

I would consider him high testosterone with an extremely healthy sex-drive. What a sexmachine. Fat, smelly, fishy vagina? He dives right in there. What a man. Respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 11:46 PM
2

Sounds good, I assume these rules come from past experiences though and not only from overthinking or reading bullshit online. Because apart from the marriage and children part, most of these things seem pretty harmless to atleast try out if the opportunity occurs. If you don't like it, you can always leave/stop. But hey, maybe there's a chance you get some new insight or a new perspective that helps you improve your life. Why not take a small chance. Best of luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 11:25 PM
5

Maybe when I am 50 years old
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:38 PM
22

No, because chad fucks her for free in the alley next to the club. Imagine doing this knowing chad didn't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 03:09 PM
3

30 something year old women aren't attractive, or not attractive for much longer in any case. Any respectable man would pass on an offer like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 02:48 PM
1

Are poor people more accepting of are they simply more desperate for shitty degrading low paying jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 02:05 PM
5

Sex with a woman ends when you get married/settle down. Settling down is never good if you are a guy unless you are planning on having escorts/sugarbabes on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 01:07 PM
2

Thanks for proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 05:43 PM
28

Guys socializing with women and flirting with them? RRRREEEE! you would fuck everything, do you have no standards? Go away creep, stop seeing women as sexual objects. Guy stops socializing with women and flirting with them? Loser neckbeard, no wonder you are a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 05:34 PM
13

Thanks! Yesterday I adopted an alpha mindset and I already regrew my hairline, became 5 inches taller and now have a much sharper, more defined jawline! Girls are swooning.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 05:23 PM
4

You want people to stop being poor and making bad choices? Give them access to a decent education and jobs with some level of security. https://sciencenorway.no/childlessness-fathers-forskningno/a-quarter-of-norwegian-men-never-father-children/1401047
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 05:22 PM
1

Why are sexually succesfull people so extremely selfish and narcisistic? They already live a much more fullfilling life than people like me ever well, but now they want my money so their kids can go to school and live better lives? How about go die in a ditch?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 05:02 PM
2

I still don't understand if you had experience with only two girls who were practising casual sex, how do you make an assumption that women, in general, find casual sex validating? Because female anatomy is mostly the same across different women? Why would an orgasm feel good for one woman, and bad for another? Why would cuddling and kissing feel good for one woman, but bad for another? Not every woman is the same, but we are all human with similar instincts and similar tastes. That's atleast my…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 04:01 PM
0

All of that stuff is simping if the woman is not returning the favor and in most cases: women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:07 PM
8

Only fun when you are good-looking. The uglier you are, the more rejection you will face till the point where your odds of success are so incredible low that lottery tickets start have better odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:04 PM
1

Doesn't even have to. Do it a few more years, put the money aside in investments and you can probably financially retire at 35 yo or so.
/r/MGTOW12/04/20 12:17 PM
5

This sub isn't real life. Most of the opinions here aren't mainstream and is the reason why we are here to discuss them anyways. Hell, a lot of redpill/blackpill ideas/subreddits are quarantined,banned or removed even here. Gl talking about it IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 11:28 AM
1

They both broke from me, reasons: who knows really? They are both dating guys that are objectively better looking than me now though(still check their instas from time to time) so I can only assume my looks were a big part of it. 1 girl told me that while she really liked me, I wasn't her ideal guy and she was 'still too young to settle already'. (19yo). 1 girl (20yo) was coming up with all kinds of weird reasons/explanations(Like different political views, different taste of music) of why we di…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 11:25 AM
1

I bet I have more sex than you. Maybe it's you who asexual? It's called being a man. 5% of young woman who had emotional trauma in childhood, being depressed and suicidal and used for sex by vultures. cope. I've had 2 girlfriends with large n-counts that had great childhoods, were happy and I had loving relationships with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:54 AM
2

Yeah, asexual is what I thought. The average young woman having plenty of casual sex disagrees with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:32 AM
2

The answer is a clear yes. Most PPD women seem to be asexuals, proven yet again. A guy, often above her lookslevel, putting in the effort to make her laugh and feel comfortable, cuddling, kissing and having the sex she likes with her, is definitely validating. You would have to be asexual to think it isn't. I feel bad for those women since you will never experience such nice warm feelings like most women do then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:01 AM
1

Mhmhmm, if you are in the top 30% and you make it a priority in your life (many men think its a waste of effort), you can get fwb's and regular hookups. But I agree with you that relationships are preferable for most men by far. It gets kinda sad though when even in a relationship you are barely getting any sex, like /r/deadbedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:13 PM
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Beyond the absolute basics of life (health, food, shelter) it's one of the most important.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:17 PM
8

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:20 PM
151

'Just have girls asking you for 3somes, why isn't every guy doing this?'
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 03:15 PM
8

Proves my point. An average guy is supposed to look in the ghetto for a drug-addicted crackhead, most likely with all kinds of nasty diseases, that's also likely to rob him, to get sex. Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 02:58 PM
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Why should I be embarrassed for men not being shallow and not having high looks-standards when forming intimate romantic relationships with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 02:48 PM
6

How is that amazing? It's awful. Just lol @ thinking that a woman can't install tinder any time she wants and have an atleast reasonable looking, non-fat guy at her house the same evening. Ofcourse it's voluntary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 02:14 PM
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The bottom 27% get ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. NADA. What comes after that? A desired man that can have casual sex every once in a while and/or has a qt gf? NO! It's a guy that 'gets lucky' once or twice a year while drunk, but is BORDERLINE INCEL. He's the type of guy that will eventually settle down in his late twenties with the first girl that shows him love in his entire life. The 'betabux or never have sex'. At this point you are already covering the bottom half of the male population.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 02:12 PM
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Yeah I agree with you, 'just be above average' is enough to get sex in a LTR. Means it's pretty fucked up for the bottom half of the male population though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 02:03 PM
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Because female sexlessness is voluntary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 02:02 PM
11

Deep down, all the statistics show that literally 30 FUCKING PERCENT of the male population is INCEL. You can keep acting as if the average man is getting his dick sucked by Becky every once in a while, but in reality the only chance he has to have his dick sucked is removing 4 of his ribs and doing it himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 01:44 PM
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This. Being a man is simply shit, because having average looks means you are unattractive and invisible. Unlike for women where just being average already makes you valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 01:33 PM
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Those nerdy guys aren’t dating women from poor communities. Right, because they are incels and can't get anything. On the rare occasion they do you all lose your shit about how she’s BBing him. I don't see looksmatched girls even going after looksmatched nerdy guys. It's literally more attractive as a guy to be a deadbeat than have a good stable job. Guess we don’t need them either. That's right. It truly shows how useless and irrelevant most jobs are. At the being of this crisis I was optimisti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:54 PM
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Yes, some children will be like that, but the overall amount of children being born to single moms would decrease as a result. There would be new charities created aswell and being a single mom would be shamed again since you are bringing a lot of misfortune and abuse onto your kid when you do it. The negative consequences would be manageable and probably cost less than single moms and their children cost now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:14 AM
1

This so much. A world without hierarchy will make this world even more hypergameous, with a few men having all the women, and even more sexless unwanted men at the bottom that have nothing to offer since they weren't born 6'2 and attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:07 AM
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And in many cases it’s women deciding that they still want to be mothers and shouldn’t have to forgo it just because there are are so few marriageable men available to them. Points at all the nerdy/beta guys with (future) stable jobs, very suited for marriage and children, but that get 0 attention whatsoever from women. Making sure your children have a stable environment to grow up in is very low in the priority list for the typical woman in this day and age. As far as I am concerned, poor/dumb …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:04 AM
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Most men don't want casual sex, but a qt gf, because they know they don't stand much of a chance of obtaining casual sex regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:59 AM
2

This. I was much more easily aroused and fell in love much harder when I was younger, so the most attractive woman I've ever met was 15 years old when I was 15yo myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:50 AM
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It's over for many men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:49 AM
1

? Women would become more responsible and there would be less single moms. Or are women so hearthless and unempathic they would keep becoming single moms en masse despite there being such harsh consequences for their children?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:15 AM
1

Facts only that you can not dispute, which is why you dont even true
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:13 AM
5

A lot of women on purplepilldebate are asexual. They keep saying utter nonsense like preferring masturbation over sex, or not enjoying sex at all, etc. This is in stark contrast with my exes and the women i've had in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:12 AM
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What negative consequences does single motherhood have? As long as you don't become fat, there will still be plenty of men willing to wife you up even if you have kids. Should you choose to still desire a man at a later time. The state takes care of the education, health and safety of your children no matter what. You don't need a man and his income, because you can get his income through the taxes he is paying (and alimony/child support aswell potentially).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:37 AM
1

This is the only right answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:28 PM
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I thinks it's given then a skewed view of what women like during sex and I think it's bad for theor self esteem and image. I agree. I was very suprised that the average woman likes it way more rough than I expected based on the porn I watched. The slow sensual romantic sex is more of a male fantasy than a female one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:56 PM
2

Same here man (24yo). Only recently cut loose my abusive family and still dealing with the aftermath. It isn't our fault that our lives are shit, but it's our responsibility to fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:36 PM
7

Ofcourse, I agree. But it's a terrible start to life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:30 PM
6

Being able to get physical intimacy and get into relationships atleast makes it easier to stay mentally healthy A fat man is expected to do everything on his own. Same with men that have mental issues. I suffered from depression myself and the common theme in group therapy was that the 'depressed' women had supportive boyfriends, while all the depressed men were incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:20 PM
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Aggressiveness is punished extremely hard in classrooms where male children are expected to sit still and shut the fuck up all day. And if they don't they get drugged down for having 'adhd'.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:59 PM
2

I agree, socializing is definitely a class issue aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:57 PM
1

Nah, you can see this even in modern society where women are completely free and encouraged to do whatever they want. They simply refuse to go into STEM or other high achieving sections of life and refuse to work long hours. So even today you will just keep seeing men doing great things, while women rely on gender quotas and diversity hiring to get into high positons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:36 PM
1

It is if they made you look less attractive as a kid and therefore made you go through way more negative experiences than your typical peer. Parents of fat children should be in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:43 PM
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Not that black/white, but having female children is a lot easier I agree. Modern society is more geared towards girls/women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:42 PM
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They’re content to let devices raise their kids. Same thing happened with my parents. 'School would take care of teaching what I needed to succeed in life' And school/uni is very, very, very ill-suited to teach boys and men what is necessary in life. It's a low responsibility/low reward and low value environment where you are trained to sit and listen to authorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:40 PM
2

His hair transplant and jaw surgery definitely did him some favors. He looks decent now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:22 PM
4

Yeah because I see women swooning over Zuckerberg, Bill Gates, Elon Musk and Jeff Bezos? So much for women 'liking' money, ambition, confidence and intelligence. It's all fake. All the women are swooning over justin bieber, one direction, henry cavil, that guy from aquaman, and that guy from love actually. Good looking men that are popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:10 PM
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I am fine with this. As far as I am concerned, women do whatever they want, as long as taxes are cut 90% so that I as a man can keep my money instead of seeing it dissapear to societal bullshit that mostly benefits women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 02:47 PM
12

This. If you can afford to select on most of the things, you are already doing pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:21 PM
3

Study isn't peer-reviewed. Bluepill remains correct. Try again next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 10:49 AM
1

So many asexual women on this subreddit, its unbelievable. Guess what, not every woman is asexual any many enjoy most sex. In fact many women have told me they don't have to orgasm to enjoy sex and they prefer non-orgasm sex over self-pleasuring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 10:44 AM
1

might be over for men then, the future is female
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 10:53 PM
0

/r/mgtow
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 10:21 PM
1

Cope, my mother never wanted us. She always said how having children ruined her life. Women don't even love their own children, motherly instinct is bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 06:57 PM
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Because expectations of wives’ homemaking may have eroded, but the husband breadwinner norm persists. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/fwlvdl/harvard_study_expectations_of_wives_homemaking/ Women expect men to be less involved in their child's lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 05:13 PM
1

In most relationships the woman is the primary caretaker while the man rakes in most of the money
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 05:01 PM
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If you are going to marry poor/third-world women, you have to move to their country. If you bring her to yours, she's very likely to cheat and not appreciate you tbh.
/r/BlackPillScience09/04/20 04:39 PM
0

Most men don't try because they know they stand no chance to get custody over the kids. My mother was a crazy bitch and my dad would've been right in divorcing her and taking full custody, but sexist divorce courts and custody laws would've never let that happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 04:34 PM
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Imagine thinking that when men talk about men's problems they are talking about male sexual assault. Do you have a working brain?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:34 PM
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Oke cool, I don't know a single man for which sexual assault plays a role in his life, even if he has been sexually assaulted in his life. I do know many many many many men that struggle to build intimate relationships with women though and for whom this is a serious issue in their life. I don't care about irrelevancies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:25 PM
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oke cool, but that never happens
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:03 PM
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Sexual assault is not a male issue. How many posts have you seen here about men complaining about sexual assaults, or cougars hitting on them when they were teenagers, etc. ? It's such an irrelevancy holy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 02:33 PM
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I don't really see how you think this would work. You want me to critique murderers and rapists? As if I know any in person? I don't associate with scum. As far as I am concerned we just execute those kind of people, perhaps punish their direct family and (girl)friends aswell for associating with them and supporting them. Considering we are talking on purplepilldebate, a lot of men's issues are about their relationships with women. As a man you are competing heavily with other men to get with wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 02:14 PM
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Instead of men taking responsibilities for atrocities or violence comitted by other men, they should stop taking credit for good things other men are doing and have done. Make the world a little bit less crazy, instead of even more crazy?! 99.9% of men will never rape a woman, and 99.9% of men will never create a ground-breaking innovation. So let's stop blaming or praising individual men for things they have no part in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 02:04 PM
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Sorry to hear that, but I have the opposite experience. My mother emotionally abused my dad and my brother and I, terrorizing our household. She manipulated most family members and friends into thinking that she was the victim. My dad was a beta simp that let her do this and kept trying to 'solve issues' instead of kicking her out of the house like the trash she was. (Which would've ofcourse triggered the government, divorce laws, alimony laws, child custody, etc to ALL favor her, just because s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:56 PM
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Ofcourse it is, but it's just a stupid argument you are making. If you are going to blame individual men for something their 'gender' (lol) is responsible for, we can bring in a whole lot of other stupid arguments. Like an individual man taking the praise for men making 95 out of 100 inventions in life, solving so many of the issues in the world, taking praise for another man setting the first step on the moon using a male invention, etc. Inb4 'women were never allowed to do these things BY MEN'…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:30 PM
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Because men don't make a big deal out of it when they are sexually assaulted since it doesn't matter usually. We have much bigger issues so we don't care about things like that. It's a bad example since it affects so little men and so little.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:24 PM
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All violent men are literally created by women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:14 PM
1

Male sexual assault is not really an issue to most men. Male friendships being less intimate, yeah you are right and it is a major issue. I am not really sure why this is and who 'caused' it though. Maybe there's not much we can do about it? I do agree with your statement that a person's issues are up to that person to fix. As with any issue in your life, it's always your responsibility to fix it (no matter whose fault the issue even is).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:04 PM
3

No guy is going to enter a club and have women fawning over him immediately. I see you have never been friends with GL men. This happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 09:53 AM
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Because you are a woman. Men are way more likely to be victims of violence than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:50 PM
6

'Just go to the hood and get robbed+shot' - theory. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:36 PM
5

I wish women would find a larger variety of men attractive and fun to socialize with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:35 PM
10

says blackpillers are retarded confirms the blackpill in every way JFL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 11:33 AM
2

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:12 PM
4

A large part of men get beta-fied into what are basically male worker drones though. I feel that just because I was an ugly kid, i was very much pushed into this direction to compensate for my lack of physical attractiveness. I put all my energy into academic excellence and it got me nothing and nowhere obviously, maybe in the past it would've, but a nuclear physicist is in no way attractive whatsoever (and the salaries are pretty shit aswell). Might be a generational issue where in the past suc…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:31 PM
3

The percentage is actually even lower. There's not a single woman that seeks a fat man, but there might be one that will settle for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:12 PM
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It's a bit of privilege yeah sure I agree. Video game addiction is probably the least destructive and cheapest hobby/addiction you can possibly have though. All you need is a small room that can be anywhere where living costs are low, shared kitchen/bathroom/shower, a desk, cheap computer and an internet connection. Combined with a minimal amount of food or anything else. Extremely sustainable lifestyle, very good against climate change and global pollution aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:49 PM
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Regardless whether you want to admit it or not, but subconsciously a lot of things that you do every day, you do because you get social validation from it. Again why bother working full-time and getting a big house? Men tend to have less materialistic needs than women, see the difference between how the avg man decorates his room and the avg woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:46 PM
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I feel bad for ~40-50 year old women losing their looks and the privileges that come with it. Must be a much bigger mental shock compared to the typical aging man, that generally never has much privilege from their looks anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:41 PM
2

Yes ofcourse they are intertwined. If you are an average-looking (aka sexually attractive to a lot of men) woman, you are receiving dozens of requests to date and do fun activities from men. Men doing you all kinds of favors and trying to make sure you feel comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:35 PM
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I know plenty of men that get depressed and start playing videogames 24/7 because they don't feel valued and never had even the slightest chance at romance in life. Why work full-time and get a mortgage, if you are going to be single and childless?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:32 PM
17

I agree. I have more empathy for very ugly women as their lives are more similar to that of an average man in a lot of regards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:30 PM
5

Punished by who? Slutshaming is non-existant in modern culture and there's 0 consequences for doing so. You can become a single-mom and leech off the state if you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:23 PM
17

so should low value women
/r/BlackPillScience07/04/20 11:48 AM
1

The wall doesn't exist. Women always hold more power in relationships than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 11:07 AM
1

Yes, the laws in my country are misandric, pro-female and anti-male. But the ruling class in my country is feminist, anti-male and argues there's sexism against women, in favour of men. Argueing against this has you labeled as a sexist, racist, misogynist alt-right fascist nazi. It can mean the end of your carreer and social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:30 AM
1

You are argueing that male thirst is a conscious decision, instead of the result of testosterone and built in instinctive behavior that causes us to treat women better socially. The 'women are beautifull' effect exists everywhere. For example: A female carjacker will get less punishment than an equivalent male carjacker, and that's not because the judge wants to get in her pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:05 AM
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The point is that women are being given free stuff, because there's a lot of men interested in getting close to a woman. On the contrary, men and women are less interested in getting close to other men, so my point stands: Women have it easier in life, because they hold more value due to their gender and more people are interested in them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:46 AM
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Thats the decision of whomever pays, not hers. How convenient that people do that for you when you are female then, but not when you are male. Aka life on eaysmode.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:27 AM
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Her male equivalent could very well be an involuntary virgin tbh. He would get 0 matches on tinder that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:23 AM
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This is already happening... 6SMV men are pairing up with 4-5 SMV women. Now who do 4-5 SMV men pair-up with? Nobody, they become incels. Dumpsterdiving only makes the problems in the SMP worse.
/r/BlackPillScience07/04/20 09:17 AM
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Somehow the highest concentration of virgins and romantically unsuccesfull people can be found among high achieving male university students and high achieving carreer fields. Your entire mindset rests on the assumption that somehow women aren't shallow beings, just like men, that simply want to have some fun in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 10:20 PM
1

Those 'skills' are a road straight to /r/deadbedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 10:18 PM
3

Average men don't have casual sex, especially not at clubs. Those are more hypergameous than dating apps even.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 10:01 PM
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Most people don't get value out of their degrees. It tends to be only seen as a waiver that allows you to get a job with 95% of the things you learned in university to never be used again. Just because a job requires a degree, doesn't mean it's actually of any use. This is such an unbelievable collection of poorly thought out assumptions. "Yeah I fucked some people, definitely helped the world a lot more than a doctor" 'I brought a lot of joy, happiness, self-esteem and motivation to people, esp…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 10:00 PM
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Arguments, where? The only one trolling here is you. I made a good case and you are not refuting jack shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 09:40 PM
1

What makes you think someone wouldnt be able to just pay for the services he/she is using instead of paying taxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 09:38 PM
5

Change attractive to average woman (fat isn't average as much as feminists want you to believe) and my point would still stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 09:33 PM
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Why is that? Why does a university degree deserve praise? Getting a university degree is an extremely selfish activity: You are not helping anyone or being productive in any possible way. You are just solving exercises that already have solution manuals and bothering lecturers with questions. Making yourself as attractive as possible and having a lot of casual sex means you are bringing a lot of joy and happiness to people around you. It deserves praise as you are making the world a better place…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 09:30 PM
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Imagine thinking it's harder to get a college degree than to get casual sex with attractive women. The latter is unobtainable for most men in their entire life, unless they pay for the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 09:24 PM
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Why? A university degree is just slightly above average IQ + a lot of time. ~50% of the population could get it if they wanted to. A lot of casual sex is only obtainable to maybe the top 10-20% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 09:18 PM
1

70% of men are overweight or obese, for example (70% of women too, by the way, but that's another convo). In Western europe, less than 10% of college-aged men/women are obese. Maybe 1/3 is overweight. Not everybody lives in Fatmerica, but young, fit men in western europe face the same issues with getting relationships and casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:53 PM
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Imagine talking about a 'natural' that can easily get with women without effort, but not even once daring to mention the elephant in the room: how he was born with good looks. What a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:51 PM
2

This. I have much more respect for a man being able to get a lot of casual sex than having a university degree from a good school.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:49 PM
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Women and their hypergameous behavior are creating a large group of dysfunctional and emotionally damaged adult men.
/r/BlackPillScience06/04/20 08:04 PM
0

TIL exercising, taking care of skin and watching what you eat changes your facial bone structure and height, the 2 main things women select for. Nice joke. Just world fallacy to the extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 06:20 PM
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It's a coping mechanism nonetheless though, but I agree with you that the older/more mature you become, the more likely you are to cope with this and accept yourself for how you look. Teenagers/Young Adults still find it difficult to accept that they were born inferior looking to others and being unable to get the girls that they want for example. Which is why so many guys in this 15-23yo age range find incel websites/communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 09:56 AM
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A 'wanna go back to mine?' happens after you've already been kissing. Personally I've never had a girl suggest a date as a response to that question, but just a general dismissal. I can imagine rejecting her proposal of a date though if I already thought she was too ugly for a LTR, but good enough for a ONS, before even kissing her. So I guess you are right. All comes down to looks in the end and interacting with someone from the opposite sex that is objectively better or worse looking than your…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 11:21 PM
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I agree, a little bit of chubbyness gives a bit more body to your frame as a man. Ideally you are skinny+muscled. Or muscled+a bit of fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 10:32 PM
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Disagree, most rejections happen before it is known whether an approaching guy that starts a chat is looking for something like dating or just a quick hook-up. I have never met a man in my life before that has thought of a woman suggesting a date as a sign of disinterest. That would be a MAJOR sign of interest because usually women dont suggest dates at all and the man has to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 10:29 PM
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I have seen absolutely 0 evidence that tinder and real life are somehow separate realities. A person that does well on tinder, aka a good-looking person, will be showered in attention IRL aswell. A person that does shit on tinder, aka an ugly person, will be treated with disgust IRL aswell. I have seen this proven time and time again and I have no idea where people get the idea from that tinder isn't real life. Online dating is the MOST COMMON way of people to pair-up since a few years already. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 01:50 PM
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A lot of men don’t try except for online. Every man does, untill he is tired of being constantly rejected, treated as a creep and looked at with disgust. It's socially unaccepted to flirt with girls except for a few areas like bars/nightclubs. And people are even more shallow in those places than on tinder tbh. Like if you are short, you can get away with it on tinder untill you meetup in person. But in a nightclub you would've been immediately dismissed based off that trait alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 01:36 PM
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Yes, average women are getting constant attention and validation from men, but usually not the type of (good-looking) men they want attention from, aka creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 01:24 PM
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Tinder profiles are the easiest and statistically unbiased way of finding out how attractive you are. Most guys don't stand a chance on tinder and they also don't stand much of a chance IRL either. See ~50% of young men being (borderline) sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 01:17 PM
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'I have no problem with getting women and I don't understand pepole that do.' wow, what a great intellectual insight. Amazing, let's give you a nobel prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 01:13 PM
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Engineers/Med schoolers tend to be uglier people. You need good looks for good pay in business, while you are more judged according to ability in STEM/med school. It's also why you see mostly men in STEM/med school compared to women, especially once you consider the gender biased disadvantage for men in the educational system compared to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 01:08 PM
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Not rare at all, it is a very common coping mechanism among (young) men and women. If you can't get a hot gf, then instead you trick yourself into thinking you don't want it and the idea becomes unappealing. It's where many stereotypes come from like: 'that hot girl is probably a bitch' 'hot girls are shallow' 'her looks is probably all she has', 'i care more about personality', etc. It's very healthy to have coping mechanisms like this, because if you don't, like I and many blackpillers do, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 01:00 PM
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Could be, but it's irrelevant. If he is the type of fatguy that I can make a tinder profile with his photos and get 0 matches, aka the normal for fat men. Then his real life dating life isn't going to be any better. Exceptions to this are extremely rare, irrelevant ~
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 12:57 PM
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What is your age? I feel like many misconceptions here come from age differences. Under the age of 30 you NEVER see a girl with a less attractive man. Fat student with slim girl? NEVER seen before.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 11:43 AM
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Skinny men are not attractive, skinny women are. As a man you can't afford to 'just be skinny' like women can, you need to be muscled aswell or you will look like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 10:39 AM
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Yeah, I do know them because they are my friends and I see their habits and what they eat. 4-6 hours at the gym week, make your own food, and sleep enough this is mediocre effort that leads to mediocre results. Exactly what you are talking about. If you want good results, dont expect anything less than 6 hours of gymtime per week as a minimum. Also not just 'making your own meals' but optimizing macros for growth, every single day. No junkfood at all, no drinking/clubbing. And not just 'sleep en…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:03 PM
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I talked about short dudes aswell. It's not an OR short dudes should be helped, OR bald dudes should be helped. Both should be. , 1-2 hits to your smv is absolutely huge. Yeah it is 'surviveable' to most, but that doesn't mean their lives wouldnt be noticeably better if they didnt go bald at a young age. To make my argument more clear. My government is willing to spend 100k+ dollars per person on 'life extending' cancer treatments for 85 year old cancer patients. They will most likely still die,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:58 PM
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People dying of cancer affects people of all ages and affects family members, friends, workplace productivity thats bullshit and you know it. Cancer among young people is so extremely rare that it is irrelevant. Balding is not and that leads to suicide in worst cases. In no possible world, in any area of the planet in any timeline in this current universe is being bald a worse fate than dying of cancer. No rational person would want to have cancer over being bald. do you completely don't get the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:26 PM
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Women treat unattractive men with disgust or at best with indifference. Good luck making friends from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:18 PM
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My granddad died from cancer, he was 83. If he didnt die from cancer he wouldve died from any other disease within a few years. He didn't do much but sit at home and watch TV at that age. His death being from cancer is completely irrelevant. I don't know a single young person that has gotten cancer since its so extremely rare. Meanwhile I see balding incels everywhere that are suffering and don't have much life quality. Your argument is absolutely trash and it's honestly funny that you feel so i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:11 PM
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myeah I know many guys that do that with little results. You can 'see' they workout and that's it, they dont have impressive bodies at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:09 PM
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Women are the gatekeepers of sex and relationships. If a hookup happens it is because a woman allowed and wanted it to happen. Or do you still somehow think that women are so clueless they don't know what netflix&chill means or what going home with a guy after clubbing entails? Gender that never takes responsibility tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 07:07 PM
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It requires some work and dedication that can more easily be combined with a full-time job. If you are not cruising roids: Good luck working a fulltime job/study while finding the time and energy to workout with max intensity, have a long regular sleep schedule and micro-managing your diet. You would be sacrificing your entire life besides your career for that. Showing up at the gym 4 times/week and having a healthy diet alone is not enough. You would have very mediocre results. Bodybuilding is …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 07:03 PM
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Yeah sure, but the point remains that cruising hard on steroids is the easiest way to get a muscled and ripped body.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 06:41 PM
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well either way that will take too long and cause too much suffering. We are long past the point where natural or sexual selection plays a role in human development. Technology is the key factor now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:25 PM
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And now go to a gym and look at the people going there 3 times a week for years and not making any real progress...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:35 PM
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You mean sexual selection, but yeah it's harsh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:34 PM
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I pulled that number out my ass with a plausible reasoning behind it. Any man that has had sex 1-3 times in a whole year wouldn't be among the 30%, but he is still 'sexless' in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:04 PM
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https://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJM199607043350101 Taking steroids without working out makes you gain more muscle than working out without steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 01:58 PM
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0 arguments. A 20 year old losing his hair has his self-esteem, sex-life and social life significantly negatively affected for the rest of his 60 years on this planet. A 80 year old dieing from cancer has one of the best ways to die naturally. A few months to get everything arranged, say goodbye to his family, do the last few things he still wants to do in his life, and farewell. Balding is a terrible disease that needs to be eradicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 01:53 PM
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Being a betabux to a young attractive woman is better than being betabux to an older and less attractive woman. Who would argue against that lmao. Pointless CMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 01:22 PM
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So you're saying all you have to do is inject steroids and women will swoon over you? Easy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 12:57 PM
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If it was all left to men, society would likely be a much harsher place to grow in. That wouldn't neccesairily be a worse place to grow in. Removing life quality from unproductive people and giving it to productive people would make people in general more productive. Capitalism vs communism. Your wife as an unemployed single mom, having income provided for by the state that takes it from your taxes, whilst having her home and neighbourhood protected by a tax paid military and police force, whils…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 12:49 PM
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More (financial) value has to be given to physical labor and masculinity. Giving men more physical exercise in school and actual challenges and responsibilities, instead of sitting in the bs boring, numbing educational system that is more suited towards women. Stop lieing to men about looks not being important and making grooming habits as important for men as for women. Accepting make-up, long hair on men, etc. Subsidizing plastic surgery and steroid usage. Fixing manletism through surgery, gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 12:20 PM
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Women think they are contributing equally to society as men, despite all the evidence to the contrary. Like even in terms of taxes paid and taxes used the differences are astronomical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 11:46 AM
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I guess if you're going for hot girls, then of course they would have a lot of guys showering them with attention so it probably wouldn't make a difference for them. Lots of average looking girls are being showered by attention. Just have a social-media or dating profile, show a bit of skin or a pretty face, boom you have your validation. I should just be hot and get loads of guys giving me attention just because of looks and not worry about giving them anything or caring about them back or anyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:55 AM
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It's nice to hear that men being kind and affectionate makes them more attractive to you, but you have to have noticed that this is not the case for most women. Or for most of the men that are being kind and affectionate. Most men that find 'the redpill', including myself, were the kind/affectionate type but found that women were dismissive of us and were already being showered in affection by plenty of men. They however never dated these men or us, so we arrive where we are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:56 AM
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Girls don't need guys to go on nice dates. They do that with their female friends all the time. Having an unattractive guy there doesn't add value unless he is paying for all of it. Also the porn argument is entirely irrelevant when you are not even having sex at all. I don't know a single guy that prefers porn over 'mediocre sex'. The only thing it does is give a way to release sexual frustration that could, in some cases, have gone to a desperate attempt at self-improvement/mass-approach inste…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:38 AM
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And the whole reason why we have all these things like redpill, bluepill, mgtow, PUA, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:05 AM
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70% had sex at least once in the last year. How many of those are guys that get lucky once or twice a year? Say another 20%. There you have it, half of the young horny male population is not or barely getting any. Considering that I seriously doubt these men wouldn't want to have sex, but simply find it too difficult to obtain, it is therefore it's normal to be an 'incel' in 2020. As in, half the male population practically is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:04 AM
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Oke, well I didn't know. I don't care what it represents tbh, I have my own issues to take care off and I know for sure that society won't do shit if I complain about them or start a movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 07:02 PM
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Women would open him on Bumble asking him a basic question and he'd ignore their question to force the conversation towards sex. Every. Single. Time. So the guy didn't even want dates, he just wanted instant effortless sex. That doesn't mean girls didn't think he was attractive or that he couldn't get dates if he actually tried to get them. He was probably just fine having hookups once a week with his current behavior instead of pretending to be someone he wasn't to score dates. Ideal situation …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 06:59 PM
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It's called body language and making an effort to get to know someone instead of being dismissive when being approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 06:50 PM
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Nobody takes me-too seriously, everyone jokes about it. If anything it's weird that women aren't more disgusted by these women trading their bodies for roles in movies instead of the men. Imagine being a strong and independant woman, refusing to have sex with Weinstein for a movie role. And then seeing that some slut take it instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 06:47 PM
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Yes that's what I am saying. Male violence is not directed against women though, it's not a gendered issue. Most male violence is directed against other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 05:42 PM
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Well I am not the person saying that. I love it when women want to have sex with me and those women become more valuable to me than strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 05:39 PM
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Yeah I agree with you completely here. I was fooled by my parents and society, molded into a beta provider. The educational system is awfull for men in general. I am happy I came across the red pill and see the world, and women, for what they really are. :) Some have better parents, some are more intelligent than I am. But I am happy I realized this stuff before being a beta ruined my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 05:38 PM
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Is that why we have pro-female diversity hires and matriarchal divorce laws, or law enforcement and justice departements that hugely favor women over men? Whatever woman. I don't care about your justifications. The world is what it is. Call me when women en large start swooning over beta providers and I might change my behavior. Till then I will refuse to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 05:34 PM
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I never said that men are predictable rapists and violent offenders. 99.9% of men will never rape a woman. So I am not sure why I should even take the idea of a man as a stereotypical rapist seriously. All I am saying is that we are capable of rape, it's in our nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 05:31 PM
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Doubtfull, especially since how anonymous tinder is. The idea that most men can afford to look just for fast hookups is also simply satire. That's chad only.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 05:26 PM
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I am for feminism where it benefits me, and against feminism where it doesn't. Same story for men's rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 05:20 PM
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The feminist agenda can have all the ammunition they want, it's not like anyone is expecting female complaining to ever stop. Women have it better than ever before in the history of human existance, especially in the West, but they complain more than ever. Why's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 05:19 PM
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Couldn't have said it better. Homosexuality is a good thing in many ways and definitely in today's world where there is little stigma, it can be a life quality advantage, especially for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 05:15 PM
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Who cares where the money comes from anyways? Girls my age definitely don't and they love me for me, instead of what I can provide. Girls pay for themselves nowadays, hurray feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 05:13 PM
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You have things the other way around, I merely adjusted to the society we live in. I used to be the nerdy, kind, provider type growing up. Women/society hated me for it and I ended up as a 23yo virgin. So now I became the opposite in a lot of ways and women love it. (n-count of 6 so far this past year, with 1 ex girlfriend) This drastic change in my life has left me fascinated with gender relations in general and is why I spend too much time in places like this. I resent my parents and society i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 05:02 PM
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They sure do get hella wet from being under distress then, so I don't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 04:48 PM
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What it implies is that women generally are much less interested in relationships or sex than men. Go to a random bar with a 50/50 gender ratio (good luck finding them, most are sausagefests) and observe how many people of each gender are open to meeting someone from the opposite sex there for something romantic. If it's half the men, and a quarter of the women, which wouldn't suprise me, you are already getting close to those tinder % stats. (Which would be 67% in this case) There being 3 times…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 04:45 PM
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Nah just 24 years old with a good taste for music. Girls from your birth year seem to disagree with you ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 04:34 PM
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It's interesting because every single man I know is disgusted by spineless beta providers. Money for nothing, chicks for free. That's the correct lifestyle of an alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 04:19 PM
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I am not saying it is okay, I am saying it is expected, predictable behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 04:16 PM
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Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 04:13 PM
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As you say yourself, women don't like weak men. A man has to be capable of violence, the threat has to be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 04:10 PM
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I am not assigning any moral judgement to rape. I am just saying that it is natural for some men to rape. It's the biological imperative, just like women have theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 04:09 PM
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It's funny how you come with this biological imperative for women not to follow weak men. You realize that rape is a biological imperative and a valid reproductive strategy in a lot of animal species? This whole 'sexless men is just nature' is bs, because we don't behave like would naturally since a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 04:07 PM
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Women will respect the threat of violence so there wouldn't be any actual violence needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 04:05 PM
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Even the weakest man is physically stronger than the strongest woman. Male bodies were made for fighting, female bodies were not. It's better to be feared than loved if you cannot be both.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 03:59 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 03:21 PM
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The only thing I want society to "do" about it is to cut taxes and remove social welfare so that all the working men, who aren't attractive enough for casual sex, just get to keep their money. This is what we need ASAP. Women can do whatever they want and have children with whoever they want. Want to be a single mom? Great, you go queen! But I don't want to contribute any money past an absolute bare minimum to this society. Taxes and wellfare programs should be cut as much as possible. Education…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 02:11 PM
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Approximately 1 in 5 (21.3% or an estimated 25.5 million) women in the U.S. reported completed or attempted rape at some point in their lifetime Wow the US must be a terrible country to live in. Coming from a Western European country where rape pretty much doesn't exist feels pretty good now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 01:25 PM
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Much better than right now where the government takes money from taxpayers with the threat of violence and gives it to undeserving leeches (single moms and their spawns).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 01:14 PM
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??? Cosmetic surgery is being done every single day on a large scale and it has proven mental health benefits. We just need to go WAY bigger on this and make it a completely normal thing to do for everyone. Genetic enhancements, designer babies, plastic surgery, hormone injections. All of that is still niche/fringe. Imagine the goverment bumping out 10 billion into research that would lead to all men having optimal testosterone levels at all time, which will go together with proper bone and musc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 12:25 PM
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Mass funding of plastic surgery and genetic enhancements to create an equal and attractive level playing field for all people. I don't buy this thing that 'if everyone was attractive, women would still only go for the top 20%' at all. It's complete bullshit. Yeah sure, maybe some women will become even more picky and go for the 6'4 tall jock instead of the 6'3 tall jock. But compare that to what we have now, where we have 5'6 balding guys competing with 6'4 square faced, full haired jocks. It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 12:01 PM
0

Sounds good to me. Invest the money that goes to welfare into a brutal police force instead and the whole problem is solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 11:53 AM
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Yeah there's a difference I guess, but I think something like: 'Wow babe you're so hot, come here and let me deepthroat that pretty face of yours.' is not really soliciting either. It's just sexually tinted harassment. Although I guess unattractive people are less likely to be actually flirted with in a creepy/harassing way like having your butt slapped/squeezed etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 09:30 PM
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Because as with most male issues, nobody gives a fuck about them. As a man you are expected to change the status quo by force, which is why every once in a while we have violent uprisings (mostly by young men) when things get too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 07:47 PM
1

Which careers? It is generally accepted that attractiveness is a HUGE bonus in career development in most cases, and at best irrelevant in some others.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 06:52 PM
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Angry and/or suicidal incels/FA's would like to have a word with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 06:51 PM
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Is that harassment if they do it behind her back? Yeah, because more often than not people don't put much effort into hiding this disgust and the victim overhears it or can clearly see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 06:48 PM
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Disagree with literally every single one of those points. lowered chance of sexual harassment As an ugly person you are more likely to be harassed. Sexual undertones/remarks that involve disgust are also often used. (Imagine a fat woman passing by and people making a remark like: 'imagine how much her vagina must smell, disgusting blergh') less likely to have people bothering you lowered unwanted attention in general Again, you are more likely to be harassed/bothered when you are ugly. And when …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 06:27 PM
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Yeah, which is exactly why the average man hates women who like to have sex. Because they are not the ones having it with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 03:35 PM
9

chad humblebrag, out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 11:46 AM
9

Single motherhood is not the result of sluts or FwB's. Those come from shitty relationships that break off. STD's are irrelevant tbh and only a small portion of sluts will ever have serious issues with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 11:18 AM
139

Nah, many men here despise the fact that they are not the man women will have casual sex with when they are horny. They hate slutty women, because they are never slutty for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 10:31 AM
4

women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 11:59 AM
5

It just so happens to be that the psychology student conference is filled with ugly people and the athletes on the stage all have hooded eyes and chiseled jawlines.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 05:52 PM
1

Nah, people tend to go for people slightly above their league, which is why unattractive women tend to approach me since I am average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 05:35 PM
2

I think we have different ideas of what a 9 is. You are probably the type of guy that worships women and any woman that is remotely attractive is already a queen in your eyes. 9's that don't use instagram or have only 100 followers lmao. Doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 04:15 PM
3

I dated a 7 for a while and she was being hit on by guys every single day: being asked out for dates, thirsty comments on her social-media profiles, being asked to do amateur modelling, etc. She would show me all these messages to laugh about. I was pretty much the ugliest guy she dated thus far, barely meeting her cut-off height level (6'1). A month after we broke up she was dating some 6'4 amateur instagram model/musician prettyboy on steroids. But yeah sure buddyboyo. A 9 with at least 10k in…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 04:07 PM
1

5/10. I get approached regularly by chubby or ugly women that I am not interested in. Happy to looksmatch, but my looksmatch would rather be Chad's sidechick than have me as LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 03:52 PM
11

Yeah, i am really going to believe an average reddit user fucks 9's (supermodels) every now and then. Delusion levels off the charts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 03:49 PM
3

So don't have sex without condoms for 3 months untill this corona stuff passes. What is the argument even?!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 11:31 AM
2

life-risking STD's, unwanted pregnancies. Are you from a low-class family in a third world country or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 10:34 AM
1

Regardless of those things, stats don't lie and show that men are at a larger risk of being mistreated. Women are just scared more easily and are less brave.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 10:33 AM
6

This basically. The top 1% male elite has always benefitted from a feminized, gynocentric society. Just like chad benefits from current social dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 09:43 PM
2

I see the argument you’re making and I agree with the sentiment but its incomplete information. That same tax money is being used for the construction of roads, schools, libraries. Those same incels have definitely used a government ran system funded through taxes most likely. Schools and libraries are exactly the things that incels would benefit little/nothing from, but people with kids and therefore also a bigger stake in the future of this world, would. Incels had no choice but to go to schoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 08:21 PM
1

Ofcourse, but there is also value in time, labor and wealth. Some people are born rich, others are born poor. Just like some are good-looking and some are ugly. But poor people also often feel entitled to money and opportunities. When an ugly person goes: 'Oke I am not entitled to sex, relationships or procreation. But people are not entitled to the money I am earning. I only want to minimally contribute to society since I don't reap much of the benefits. Lower taxes and let the poor struggle mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 08:04 PM
6

The problem arises when people have double-standards on when people 'deserve' something and when they don't. For example, it is completely normal to say: 'I worked so hard for this, much harder than xx and yy who did nothing. I deserve this title/job/better grade over them.' But when some ugly guy goes: 'I've been trying to impress and be flirty with several different women and I have always been rejected. Chad has cheated on 3 ex-girlfriends and even beat up one of them, for which he served 6 m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 07:40 PM
2

I agree and I think it's part of the reasons why smart/intelligent/well-educated men do so poorly with women. Women can't control them as easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 11:11 AM
0

let the boomer remover do its job, i dont care
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 11:42 PM
-1

More, there are more women active on tinder which was my primary way of hooking up. While some are hesitant because of corona, most women there are bored and more likely to meetup for netflix & chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 09:54 PM
-3

Giving women rights has made many unbearable, arrogant and unfit for marriage. So it's the only logical thing to do for many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 07:00 PM
2

If a woman is getting upset about her husband watching porn, it's an indication that she's trying to sabotage their relationship. As a father you shouldn't stay in such a relationship as it would be a horrible example for your children to how a man should be treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:46 AM
2

Everybody can have all the rights they want. If a woman wants to get upset about a man watching porn, let her be. Question is why a man would stay with a woman like that. Which is why you also don't ever want to get married so that you have a way out when your woman becomes a nutjob like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 01:42 AM
13

> Men can actually build their value and never have it fade. Wake me up the day that young attractive women are swooning over Bill Gates. And then you are talking about literally the richest and most well known, succesfull man on the entire planet. He could cure cancer and no young attractive girl would give a single shit. So much for being able to 'build your value' as a man. Won't happen, which is why this whole premise is bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 05:10 PM
6

You realize most men don't get to create anything right? This is APEX fallacy at it's finest. Despite having those testosterone levels you are so envious off, most men don't accomplish anything in life. Till just some 60 years ago you were likely to die in some meaningless war and not even live past your 20s. For every sucessfull CEO, there's 100.000 men slaving away at a meaningless job for some above-average salary that means jack shit to women. Money doesn't mean anything to women unless it b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 04:59 PM
10

This is seems like total incel/misogynist content. As if women can't be CEO's or be more than 'something to get off with'. Or as if women somehow have less opportunity of improving their value to the opposite sex than men. The only thing I would agree with is the ability to fight, but we are not cavemen and we have a government with a monopoly on violence. And even then, as a woman you are more likely to receive help and less likely to get into a fight in the first place. (The primary victims of…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 04:40 PM
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