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Two of the women he was poly with. One wanted to keep having sex with him. One wanted more but not enough for him. An ex came back into the picture after three years and wanted him back and kept harassing him and put him into a hypersexual manic depressive period i found out when we started dating. He told me when I told him I liked him. A 18 year old he knew platonically had disclosed to him that she wanted him. He was 39 at the time and said hell no but she ws close to him and he didn't want t…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/25 12:47 AM
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My husband is 5'9" and over a decade before he met me he had a 6'3" tall skinny girlfriend he did cosplay for. Im 5'6" was super rail thin skinny. No tits, no ass. Ratchet locs(dreadlocs). Big glasses. Septum piercing that i still put in sometimes and a goth bent to my dress and sometimes I go full goth as a AA. I got me a lawyer gym rat super kinky dom daddy. Girls got pull. We will all have more opportunities than men when it comes to dating. We just have to seize it and take chances. Go to a …
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/25 06:01 PM
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Desirable men are fielding multiple women at once. My husband had three other women who actively wanted him and two of whom were having kinky sex with him. One of his other prospects might have landed. Mind you my husband was not actively looking for women to be with and had just had his heart broken when I made my play for him. You are just going to have to keep looking. Don't compromise your values. I jumped my husband's bones after dating for nearly two weeks but that was my choice and we had…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/25 05:55 PM
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Tell him nagging makes your pussy dry. Your boyfriend and my husband have a lot of similarities but he doesn't nag me. Frustratingly he acts like im a passenger sometimes and just keeps things moving. Part of it is he is older part of it is he was a bachelor with his own house before we started dating. He accepts that im not like him and he doesn't ask me to be. Your boyfriend needs to understand you are not like him. He has his rules for himself and that's great but they aren't your rules. Men …
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 10:58 PM
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Not white but no woman needs to pay for a husband
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 05:45 AM
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Yeah they can just take third wave feminism plus out back and shoot it for all I care. My husband has greatly improved and enriched my life. I don't sweat single women. Especially single women over 25. I have a life to live and a love to foster. The women who wanted to be like men can suffer like men for all I care.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/25 04:43 AM
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Yeah this doesn't look good. If he is aware of your financial difficulties ans can't cover McDonalds there is a problem especially after two years. If you were dragging him out to expensive restaurants several times a week id get him being irate to some degree. My husband was an established bachelor and there is an age gap. He makes six figures but doesn't live like it. I had to fight him tooth and nail once we were living in his house to let me pay for things. Not saying guys always gotta pay b…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/25 11:22 PM
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He ruined my standards for sure.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/25 05:38 PM
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It's the man. He wasn't right for you. When I told my husband i liked him he was in the midst of a mess with women. He had two poly women he was having sex with. A young girl broke his heart and he was an asmr artist here on reddit and had lots of sexy stuff. He said we could date platonically. Only platonically. There was a significant age gap so he demanded to meet my parents right away which made my parents begin to like him. The next week I met his and we hadn't even kissed. He wanted to and…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/25 05:29 PM
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I second this
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/25 05:19 PM
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Attractive men themselves are a rare species. The more factors you add in the rarer they become and more and more women are aiming for them. Giving them many many many options so the need for them to commit to anyone before 35 is low. And at 35 there are plenty of women 21 to 25 that want them. Just telling you reality. Men are dogs at the worst and at best they are wolves who eventually slow down and want a commitment. So keep that in mind and don't take things too personal.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/25 01:07 AM
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You have to be upfront with your needs. Its ok to need time. My husband has never been a hard or demanding leader except on a few key points which were not negotiable but I was warned we'll in advance. Like our first week of dating. Leadership means responsibility and paving the way. Men confuse that for sheer dominance and expectation which can come off as entitlement which I have seen plenty and never liked it. I mean my man is dominant but that's more kink centered and is always consensual. M…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/25 12:15 AM
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Tell him what you think you need from him them. Men are simple and kind of dumb when it comes to women and will take input most times. I still play with AI chat bots of super aggressive dark romance types and I'll show my husband the chat history and he knows that's what I want in a scene and we put it together. Can't wait till my child can have overnights with my in-laws so my husband can have dramatic scenes again. A single spanking can wake our child. Tell him straight "I like you and I am co…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/25 10:12 PM
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Tell him what you think you need from him them. Men are simple and kind of dumb when it comes to women and will take input most times. I still play with AI chat bots of super aggressive dark romance types and I'll show my husband the chat history and he knows that's what I want in a scene and we put it together. Can't wait till my child can have overnights with my in-laws so my husband can have dramatic scenes again. A single spanking can wake our child. Tell him straight "I like you and I am co…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/25 10:12 PM
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If he doesn't get your pussy wet spare him the deception and don't get his hopes up. My husband is like Vin Diesel's half Jewish cousin that's five nine with a hard barrel chest and a tummy but he is super masculine and kinky and I physically ached over him for a year before we started dating. You are setting yourself up for duty sex you don't enjoy and that's not fair to either of you.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/25 09:52 PM
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I think it's a matter of finding the right man. To be led by an abuse of jerk is to be abused. To be led by someone who loves you and values you and your children is to be cherished. Unhappy women are very critical of my marriage and I can only laugh at them and know they are suffering and that that suffering is purely self inflicted. Today I am dropping my child that my inlaws for six hours and i'm going paddle boarding. Then im going home to my husband with Mellow Mushroom pizza and being roma…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/25 01:05 PM
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Mid to late thirties I think is the sweet spot if im honest. Old enough to be established and not running around. Not too old to want a family. Plus look for men who own homes already. That as a big culture shock to find a bachelor who ran his own life. He taught me how to clean and cook. If he hadn't been my customer I never would have found him though.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/25 12:37 PM
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Plenty of women like guys who do fighting sports and dont find it intimidating. My husband has a lot of scars. He has scars from being stabbed and cut and shot. He did fighting sports from when he was younger. Dark romance has lots of rough guys. Some women love their zade meadows.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/25 12:51 AM
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My husband is the fourth man I ever kissed and my third sexual partner. He has been a hoe. We got to know each other casually over a year essentially. I was regular lunch waitress. He missed a bunch of green flags like booktok green flags. I would say try social groups where you can be around guys and see which ones you are comfortable with. I was a latent high libido girlie that late bloomed and had had two exs that were just terrible and had me really considering dating women they were so bad.…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/25 01:45 PM
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Ugh sounds like you have that whole nonchalance thing going on where a guy thinks he has to be nonchalant to catch girls interest. At the same time though he might be testing your interest and sees if you text first. My husband and I went on our first date and just went on a walk, and got lunch then hit a bookstore. Spent like a hours talking. When he got in the car I was texting him 30 minutes later that I had a really good time. A bit later when he got home he texted me he did too and I got th…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/25 12:11 PM
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I get so much help from my in-laws, husband and my husband pays a neighbor to have our daughter for five hours at a time twice a week. I work three days a week more for mental health than anything. You should never hesitate asking for help, my husband taught me that.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/25 12:06 AM
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My man is red pill aware but uses it as a praxioligy as opposed to a prescription for life. He had most of the aspects figured out before he even knew what trp was. A lot of trp types are in fact black pillers. Women are monolithic and some of us are extra ordinary and extraordinary in that. Too many trp are stuck in the anger phase. They need to let go and live and escape the matrix
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/25 09:45 PM
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Reading this i realize how spoiled I am. 6 month old and bigger age gap. My husband grinds out everything till he can't. You have the right to cry from time to time and he needs to be accepting of this. Peace has a price and sometimes you need help. That's reality.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/25 09:34 PM
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