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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | Plate ghosted me and texts me two weeks later - what's the appropriate response?I mean I'm spinning 4 other plates right now so this isn't a huge deal to me. More so just wondering how to not walk into her frame | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Need feedback: Where did I go wrong with my first plate?Yeah after plating two other girls, I realized the first one was by far the easiest, meaning she probably found another person pretty fast. My only question is why she went from showing incredibly high interest to 0 at lightning speed. I fail to see any egregious holes in my game that made it happen. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 04:52 AM |
| 3 | Need feedback: Where did I go wrong with my first plate?Yeah so we haven't texted at all in 4 days. I'm hunting for other plates in the meantime. I'm just going to forget about her unless she texts me | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Despite focusing on myself, how do I prevent girls from shattering my frame and achieve abundance mentality?This is great, thanks. I think I'm going to uninstall the apps for a week and try not to care about my plates do/say. I think my big concern and also the biggest driver here is that I also have an extremely freakish sex drive, so I'm kind of concerned about the effects there haha but we'll see | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Despite focusing on myself, how do I prevent girls from shattering my frame and achieve abundance mentality?I think my ex was the wrong woman, she had way too many issues and I spent a significant amount of my effort trying to fix them. I wonder where I'd be if I focused all of that energy on myself. I guess my question is how do I build outcome independence? I agree I'm very much hooked to the idea of matching, meeting, and fucking the next woman off these apps. Dating apps are really my only way of meeting women, which I guess I should fix, but I live in an area where it's actually the go to way to … | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Despite focusing on myself, how do I prevent girls from shattering my frame and achieve abundance mentality?Yeah people kept telling me I'm overdoing it so I've dialed it back; I think I was doing it primarily to stop thinking about my ex. But now I can't help but think more about my plates and even my ex. It's this weird mental state that I'm uncomfortable with, where I feel like I just need to be truly happy by myself (abundance) but I can't yet. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 04:26 AM |
| 1 | How to maintain interest from plate after a few dates?I'm one month out of a 4 year long relationship so I'm pretty new to this right now. I'm spinning 3 other girls I've fucked so far, I don't think I have time for any more. I've read that you still need to keep plates interested in you, or they will get bored and move on. I'm wondering how to do this. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 03:35 PM |
| 1 | How to invite plate who's DEERing me over for sex without triggering ASD?It goes more like she would text me about something, and I would just try to move to making plans since I don't really want a texting buddy. She's definitely into the sex, considering she's texted me how badly she wants me after every fuck. But yeah, she said "maybe I can drop by after work one of these days", and I left it at "sounds good to me". Just going to focus on getting more plates | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 07:36 AM |
| 1 | How to handle comfort tests from girls early?I'm okay with the girl(s) catching feelings as long as they stick around, I mean just more for myself since traditionally I've only been in relationships before. I'm seeing enough other girls and focused on myself where I don't think this will be an issue. My goal is essentially not to be an emotional tampon while still being able to keep her around. I guess the question is how do I do this. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 03:51 AM |
| 1 | How do I make it clear that I'm a sexual person/make women want to have sex?Where can I learn more about leading and escalating? | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 08:08 AM |
| 1 | How do I make it clear that I'm a sexual person/make women want to have sex?I have a tough time gauging what my sex appeal is like. I have around 70+ dating app matches in the span of 10 days so that tells me I'm attractive. I dress well, am well groomed, have an interesting life (lots of adventuring and hobbies). Do I instead push my hobbies and adventures more in conversation? The conversation usually goes like this: tell her I'm not sure if she's as cool as she looks, make her qualify. She asks me questions, I give hints about my travels/my hobbies, but try my best t… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Girl didn't put out on the second date so I made her sleep on the couch. Right move?Good advice, thanks. We were talking about our sex lives a lot (mostly her, I didn't say anything about mine), and she kept mentioning how she found me "very attractive". When it came time to escalate, she was very adamant about not budging, which kind of made me struggle with my frame, so I wanted to make sure I didn't end up pulling a beta move and let her sleep next to me without fucking. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Girl didn't put out on the second date so I made her sleep on the couch. Right move?Good mentality. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 05:50 PM |
| 11 | Girl didn't put out on the second date so I made her sleep on the couch. Right move?After trying to escalate for almost an hour (I tried to escalate for like 3+ hours last date), I told her I'm tired and she should go home. She asked if she could sleep over and I straight up told her I don't feel comfortable having her sleep in my bed. If she doesn't want to have sex I can't see her any differently than any of my normal friends, so I figured she goes on the couch like the rest of them | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 05:48 PM |
| 5 | Girl didn't put out on the second date so I made her sleep on the couch. Right move?First she said "I want no clothes coming off because I don't want anything to happen", and then she mentions her period much later, hinting to me that it was just an excuse. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 05:45 PM |
| 0 | Girl didn't put out on the second date so I made her sleep on the couch. Right move?I said I didn't mind, she said she wasn't comfortable. I thought talking about sex was a good thing? Brings the thought into their mind, makes them more comfortable with the thought of it etc | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Girl didn't put out on the second date so I made her sleep on the couch. Right move?She definitely wants a third date, but I don't want to invest a lot of time into it (already spent like two full days with her. They were fun but don't want to invest anymore time without sex). Is inviting her over for Netflix too low effort? | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 10:20 AM |
| 1 | 22M third first date ever as an adult - high interest but no f close. Advice?I know everybody's fucking around but I don't feel the need to mention it within the first 30 minutes | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 04:41 AM |
| 1 | 22M just had my second date ever as an adult. What did I do right/wrong?If there's no response to kino well into a date, should I just leave asap? | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 07:29 PM |
| 1 | 22M just had my second date ever as an adult. What did I do right/wrong?I guess the issue is that I don't really know how to flip things around and do things the other way i.e. make the girl qualify herself. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 07:15 PM |
| 1 | 22M just had my second date ever as an adult. What did I do right/wrong?I've been told that getting the kiss out of the way is a good way to gauge whether or not there's any interest. If there's no response to kino, what should I be doing? Just ditching the date right there? | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 06:54 PM |
| 1 | 22M just had my second date ever as an adult. What did I do right/wrong?Yeah I realize this now. Still learning | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 06:31 PM |
| 1 | 22M just had my first date after a 4 year long relationship. What did I do right/wrong?How do I roll with the no's? After the first one I was just like "okay no problem" and that was that. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 08:42 AM |
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