VitalSynthax Archive

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1	How do men benefit from women in relationships? I think assuming that romantic relationships are mostly about the pragmatic / mechanical aspects of having certain practical / economic benefits or the strict mechanics of raising a family or other similar lines of thinking, is a fundamental misunderstanding of what romantic relationships are fundamentally about. The way I see it, we are very deeply hardwired to seek out romantic relationships and there is a certain hole in our hearts that can't be filled by anything else. There is nothing that …	/r/MensRights	11/06/25 07:09 AM
1	Does "hookup culture" benefit men more? Honestly, it doesn't really. I've met, in my entire life, a grand total of one woman who was not into that. Regardless of what kind of relationship they want out of the bedroom, pretty much 99%+ of women like dominant, confident men in bed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/21 06:36 PM
1	Does "hookup culture" benefit men more? Say you are a 4/10 girl. Your overall experience would be way better hooking up with a 5/10 guy who cares about giving you a good experience, as opposed to a 7-8/10 who will have you suck him off and kick you out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/21 01:40 PM
3	Does "hookup culture" benefit men more? I think it boils down to "it benefits the people who have good hookups" so really high value men and the women that sleep with them. Men who are attractive, funny, charismatic, great in bed, etc generally keep girls around for more casual sex. He's happy cos he has an abundance of interesting, fun, attractive women in his life. The women are also happy because kinky sex, cuddles, good conversation and splitting a nice bottle of wine with an attractive man and potentially enjoying a nice dinner w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/21 07:30 PM
1	Just be nazi theory Funnily enough, it kinda is his personality that makes him attractive	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/21 07:12 AM
6	See what happens when you stop the self pity and actually try? Minoxidil, finasteride, microneedling till your whole scalp is covered in blood. Problem solved. Stop self pitying	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 12:39 PM
1	CMV: no one is sexually attracted to money, accomplishments or intelligence. Money and accomplishments? Maybe, but personality traits and intelligence absolutely people are attracted to those. And the conspicuous absence of the first two usually also indicates some deficiency of character	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 08:45 PM
1	Do men make terrible friends? Why is there a dependency on women fixing their loneliness? Yes. Men make terrible friends There is a catch-22 though. You can only really get that emotional support with women but you can't get women consistently if you try to show that emotional side. Hence an epidemic of men who either don't get women or content themselves with unfulfilling relationships because those are better than being alone. I reckon the solution is simply what's always happened. Men have to deal with their own problems as they always have and we should stop misleading them into …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/21 06:32 PM
1	RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with? I'm not sure TRP suggests there is a decline. It just explains what the world is like without passing a value judgement on it. If anything the conclusion I walked away with is "this is how things are, this is how they've always been, no point in trying to get mad about it, just gotta make the most of it" And really, if most of the idiots who are stuck in RP circles bothered to talk to their dads or granddads or just men who are successful with women in general they'd realise that nothing TRP tea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/21 02:05 PM
1	[Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs? Among the true elite, the 0.01% for whom money is no object and the wife having a career would have no impact on the quality of life, yes, most are housewives. But that's obvious, if working is not helpful in any way of course you won't work. Most rules don't apply to the ultra rich though. Among the generally well to do, the upper middle class that earns in the high 6 digits, low 7 digits, the plastic surgeons, CEOs, commodity traders, etc you'll not find many housewives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/21 09:26 AM
1	[Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs? The mother will have paid leave for a while and then usually grandparents take over until it's time for kindergarten. Otherwise it's daycare. Once they're in kindergarten it's a combination of grandparents, babysitters, the house maid and the parents after they get home. The women that are willing to give up their career to stay home with a kid aren't determined enough to have a real career in the first place. You don't stumble into being an investment banker, you have to dedicate yourself 110% …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/21 09:20 AM
11	[Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs? I think the view that high value men like housewives is a huge myth. I work in a lucrative field with a lot of other careerist and high achieving men and most of us want to date people with similar values and lifestyles, I.e other high achieving careerist types. I urge you to look up the wives of CEOs, investment bankers, hedge fund managers, etc. You will find close to zero housewives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/21 05:48 PM
1	Women control the entire relationship realm, men have no say in anything. Probably 90 - 10, maybe 85 - 15. This is not something new though. It's how the world has always been	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/21 05:25 PM
1	Women control the entire relationship realm, men have no say in anything. Does this apply to average men? Yes. Does it apply to most high value men that actually get into relationships? No. If anything, these days, it's even easier for most of those men. I know plenty of them who even get tacit approval to cheat from their girlfriends/wives who'd rather tolerate infidelity over ending a relationship or marriage with a great guy simply because they are so difficult to come by.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/21 11:00 AM
2	Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic? Younger women PREFER older men, it's not something we push. Don't believe me? Go through your friends' Tinder, see what her age range is set to and then go through your male friends' Tinder and see what their age is set to	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 03:48 PM
1	Why do men take such interest in avoiding child support, but so little interest in avoiding pregnancy? Testosterone is nowhere near effective enough as a contraceptive. In normal therapeutic doses it maybe reduces fertility sufficiently in some 20-30% of people, in higher doses it's more effective but in those doses it thickens blood, causes high estrogen which leads to mood swings and breast tissue growth and ruins your lipids which compromises cardiovascular health. What is fairly promising is 19-Nor Testosterone, a much more highly suppressive synthetic version of Testosterone, which can adequ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/21 07:50 PM
3	Why do men take such interest in avoiding child support, but so little interest in avoiding pregnancy? Male hormonal birth control sort of exists, and you can access it if you know who to ask, it's just not properly approved yet. It's basically the same thing as female birth control and it's essentially temporary chemical castration. Problem is that when you crash a woman's testosterone to 15 from 40 it will slightly lower her sex drive and mood. When you take a man's testosterone from 900 to 15 you're almost guaranteed to cause depression, anxiety, zero sex drive and, since men can only produce …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/21 10:42 AM
3	Q4Men: Would you rather? I'm part Romanian, lived there for a while. You just described my entire dating experience there. You have to initiate everything and expect to pay for dates, although they are not that pricey, but in return she'll be hot as fuck and fuck you like a pornstar. Personally much prefer the dating culture back home and other Eatern European countries like Poland, Hungary, Czech Republic, Serbia, compared to what I've seen in Western Europe	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/21 03:38 PM
6	Q4Men: Would you rather? The first is literally a platonic friend. You're asking would you rather have another female friend or an Eastern European girlfriend...bit of a no brainer mate	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/21 04:56 PM
7	Q4All: How are we supposed to take dates seriously if they're sleeping around? As a guy in group C, there's a simple way to tell if the other person is relationship material because if the two of you have great chemistry you'll just naturally not feel the need to see other people. If you feel the need to fuck other girls, she ain't the one, if you find that you just wanna keep spending time with this one girl then maybe she is the one. The reverse is also true. You can tell by how free she is if she's fucking other dudes, if she doesn't feel the need to see other guys and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/21 12:05 PM
0	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. What the fuck does doing something by deception mean? Are you a mind reader to know what women think when they put on make-up?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/21 10:01 AM
2	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. Impressing and decieving isn't the same. What matters isn't the specific act. If the social norm was to rent a Lambo and lie about what you do on your first date, then it wouldn't be deceiving because people expect it and would adjust for it. If norm was every woman showing up with no makeup then the women that did could be called out for it. The norm is that women wear makeup on 99.9999% of dates so you just account for that when you judge her looks What matters isn't what you do, it's how the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 03:25 PM
1	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. But she's not lying. It's obvious that's not what she looks like. That's what heavy makeup means. If you've been on any dates you'll know that there is an unspoken assumption that you know that the next morning when she's taken her makeup off and you have a coffee or smthn, she will have a belmish or two on her face and her eyelashes won't be as pretty and whatever. Both parties are aware of this and there is no deception. When you come pick up a girl in a rented Lambo, the unspoken assumption i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 02:42 PM
1	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. Yeah but we do. Hence why some guys are willing to waste money they can't spare to rent out cars for dates and why they lie about their job. Tough shit. Your job, social status, income, looks, fashion, personality, intelligence, lifestyle. All of it matters. Some of it is in your control some isn't. Get over it. Might as well try to convince dudes that we shouldn't judge girls based on looks. Boo fucking hoo, sucks to be ugly	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 02:17 PM
4	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. It's not misleading because you know you can't judge what she looks like when she's in heavy makeup. It is misleading when you rent out a car because she thinks she can judge your status. You are being deliberately thick if you don't get that	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 02:11 PM
5	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. No because no man thinks that's what she normally looks like when she wears heavy makeup. You know her eyelids don't actually glitter with a shade a dark purple. If you rent out a lambo and pick her up for a date in it, she'll assume that's what you normally drive. It's more dishonest. Body shapers are closer to that type of dishonesty but if you've ever been with a girl that's worn one you'll know it doesn't actually so much. One of my exes would wear one whenever we went to formal dinners or o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 12:53 PM
10	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. When girls wear heavy makeup it's obvious. They're not pretending that's how they look naturally they're showing off how pretty they can make themselves look, I.e showing off a skill. When guys rent out cars they implicitly pretend that's what they usually drive around in. It's more dishonest .	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 07:59 AM
1	When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates. You sound like you've not been on many dates. More often than not, ESPECIALLY if going on a date with a highly educated woman that has or is heading towards a career she'll offer to split. I usually decline because dates aren't that expensive. 1-2 rounds of drinks at a cosy cocktail or wine bar isn't that big of a deal. Also, since, more often than not, I pick/ recommend drinks or bottles of wine and it's a bit shitty to ask the other person to pay when you pick the items. The point of the date …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/21 10:43 AM
1	FDS women want a sexually submissive man with "alpha" traits I agree with what you say about what FDS wants, I think you're wrong in judging who is on there. My guess is a lot of women have bad relationships at least once and at least a couple have only shit relationships. FDS then comes in and promises to teach women how to achieve that, but instead of geniuene advice on what highly attractive men want and how you can become that type of woman, it feeds a cycle of toxicity. You already deserve a great man, you're not getting one cos 99% of men are trash,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/21 11:11 PM
-1	Do some men prefer more average looking women because they're low maintainance? Yes but only for casual relationships. I'm high maintenance and narcissistic enough to want to date someone very similar to me when I eventually settle down. But for casual relationships, I'd much rather have a girl that is a solid few points below me since I know she'll accommodate my schedule and be delighted with everything I do. A girl closer to my league will get mad if I take a day to reply or if I can't do that one specific day on 1 day notice or if something work related comes up even if…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 05:53 PM
4	Men are responsible for women’s alleged “inflated egos” and overvaluing themselves. Based.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 10:08 PM
1	The redpill is not accurately portrayed in this sub There is a line below which you can't improve to the point where you'd be attractive to a decent woman. But that bar is much much lower than most incels seem to think. If you don't have crippling disabilities you're probably fine. A funny, charismatic, 5ft5 guy with an average face (or even below average face if he can grow facial hair) that's well built and earns well will fairly easily find interested women. Most things can also be improved a lot more than blackpillers seem to thing. You're sh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/21 01:17 PM
2	Women Shouldn't Complain About Nice Guys, If They Aren't Honest the women ends up dating the bland and douchey physically attractive guy. You're wrong about the douchey attractive guy. You think he is bland and boring, but really it's the nice guy that's bland. Always being nice and knowing about a bunch of cerebral facts and discussion topics is not interesting, in fact, it's about as bland as you can be. The "douche" gets this, he understands that women want him to be interesting and to give them a range of emotional reactions: excitement, anticipation, va…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 07:35 AM
1	CMV: Red pill is just mostly scammers who are trying to take advantage of down on luck men I agree and disagree. Yes a lot of the "mainstream" redpill stuff is toxic and full of scammers but once you get into the some of the smaller game communities where it's just a bunch of guys on messenger chats talking about how their date wants or how to reply to texts or what to post on Instagram, etc you'll find that there are loads of circles that promote geniuene self improvement. It's been a couple years for me since getting into these groups and I went from a loser whose girlfriend left hi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/21 04:30 PM
1	Men don't age like wine. They hit the wall at the same exact time women do. Kinda true, I'd say most men are also kids until say 25 ish. Please argue what's wrong specifically. You can't just day it's false narratives and call that a counter argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/20 06:04 AM
1	Men don't age like wine. They hit the wall at the same exact time women do. Most men are more attractive at 30 than they were at 20. At 20 you're basically still a kid fresh out of puberty, even if you worked out like a madman since 12 you're not gonna have a build comparable to a fully grown man. At 30 you're fully developed, your testosterone is peaking, provided similar dedication to being fit your build is miles ahead of anything a 20 year old could get. Your facial hair will be better, you won't have acne, and this is just the physical traits. We're not even talkin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/20 08:07 AM
1	I think the men on this sub over-idealize virgin women This is a bullshit karma farming account. Just look at the post history. It's all low effort bait	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/20 10:26 AM
2	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread I think you're overstating the time and money aspect. I go to the gym 3x a week for an hour each time. Add in another hour for walkibg to and from the gym (I don't have a bike), packing bags, showering, etc. That'll cost you around $100-200 a year depending on your gym and 6 hours a week. Fashionable clothes are not that expensive. H&M and other fast fashion brands have trendy clothes for really cheap, can easily buy 5-6 stylish outfits including a pair of trendy looking sneakers from a place li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/20 12:47 PM
2	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread You know what? I actually would tell the black guy facing mad racism exactly that. It's pointless wasting your time with questions of how the world ought to be and what a fair society would be like. World's not fair, society's not fair, people are dealt uneven hands and some people are dealt terrible hands. It sucks. It's unfair. And you're not gonna change shit about it. You can try to tell women to change but that's not gonna get you far. Focus on what the world is like and decide if getting g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/20 12:38 PM
1	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread I guess it boils down to the idea that until you've made the most out of all the factors in your control you don't get to complain. For most incels it seems to be down to a combination of ugly face, short stature, race and class but all of those things have exceptions to them, tons of unhandsome, short, poor, Indian guys get laid. And even then, those things are not the only ones determining your SMV. Race you have almost no effect on but clearly no one race is excluded from the dating pool (but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/20 08:35 PM
1	Realistically what's the lowest you'll go in terms of a woman's looks? Probably a 3-4	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/20 12:44 PM
1	Why do men lose respect for women who have casual sex with them? Depends on the guy. I don't , I judge strictly based on how good of a time I have with the girl both in and out of bed and in general I'll lose interest if she tries to play hard to get. There are guys that do and they have their reasons, some more valid than others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/20 08:50 AM
5	Realistically what's the lowest you'll go in terms of a woman's looks? For a hookup, 4-5 if I'm really desperate and really horny. So marginally below an average looking girl. For a girl I'm seeing regularly a 7 is a minimum simply because that's the standard I'm at, if I'm regularly seeing 7-8s I'm not gonna make time for a 5. Marriage wise the same applies but the standards for everything else go up as well. So make it an 8 on looks but I expect more in terms of personality, career ambition compatibility etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/20 08:44 AM
1	Guys who got fit/muscular, how did that help your game? My standards have deffinitely risen. But it feels good to know I can go to the club and reliably pull girls I think are cute based mostly on my looks. It's a big confidence boost	/r/seduction	09/12/19 03:32 PM
3	Guys who got fit/muscular, how did that help your game? It helps. Girls that I would've killed to get with before nw tell me I'm super hot and how I'm way out of their league. It's worth it	/r/seduction	08/12/19 08:20 PM
1	Let's get YOU a wingman! Cambridgeshire, EN	/r/seduction	22/09/19 06:50 AM