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I guess I stopped watching with that transition. Looks like they have varied opinions: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=LVdu74BYTwQ
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 10:22 PM
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No, they don't like Red Pill at all.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 07:50 PM
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Mental health and therapy are proven methods to help all sorts of people heal and become better, not just women. Not even close. My Husband became an amazing man with therapy that was geared toward helping men. It absolutely exists, this I know. There are many action-based methods that exist. You may just need to look harder. Regardless, men still need to learn how to address their feelings, so they can process all their thoughts more effectively. These are methods that come from an understandin…
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 07:41 PM
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I mean, you're bang on here. Your energy is precious and limited. If what you believe is true, spend time working out, building your career, work on creating rock solid budgeting and financial skills (arguably some of the best skills to have this day and age), learn about biases and cognitive distortions, and fix them to become a rare man that all the straight, single ladies will want. You spent hours here when you could have been taking that time to learn how to build your credit, learn how to …
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 07:05 PM
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😂 "Catfishman has gone to jail quite a few times. In his chronological order of previous jail visits: restraining order and domestic violence, protection order violation, and cyberstalking." Domestic abuse charges on his record is pretty bad. Yeah, totally won't hold up. Damn, you're spending a lot of time trolling and you could be working on yourself. I thought you were Red Pill.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 06:25 PM
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Your dissonance is mind boggling.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 06:17 PM
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Yes, they are. They're hate crimes against a subgroup of people. You're luring people out under false presences so you can record and publicly shame them for something they consent to with other consenting adults after posting their private info online without their consent.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 06:16 PM
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Bro, the women you're interested are willingly consenting in this. You're still mad at what they're doing. If she's not a single monogamous person, then why aren't you staying in your own lane?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 06:04 PM
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You know these are crimes, right?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 06:02 PM
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I'm a firm believer everyone should at least do shrooms. It 'cured' me from all the shit my family indoctrinated into me. I'm a believer it can fix a lot of society's issues. It's beautiful stuff.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 05:58 PM
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These are crimes in a lot of areas. Good luck with that one.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 05:54 PM
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Bro, there are hundreds of comments to quantify your dysfunctional, gatekeepy thinking. Still a you problem.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 05:52 PM
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If you're trying to date Polyamorous people, shouldn't you be the one staying in your own lane?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 05:52 PM
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So again, you seem to be sexually attracted to Polyamorous people. Still a you problem.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 05:51 PM
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Why do you need someone else to do your dirty work?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 05:49 PM
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This was how my marriage was at first too. It's sad watching everyone suffer because this stuff is banned or society doesn't want to talk about it. They all deserve to know what's going on with them. They deserve to be happy too.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 05:45 PM
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I think OP needs to try shrooms. 😄 I would pay to watch him come down from all his dissonance and hypocrisy. lol Now that would be a show.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 05:43 PM
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If monogamous people are a majority and personality is a meme, then why are you struggling so much?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 05:32 PM
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Pretty sure it's just your personality and beliefs, bro. We've gotten a pretty clear look at them lately...
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 05:27 PM
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Again, I'm not "you people". The men I date have been exclusively monogamous, straight men. They don't date other people, I do. They've all been okay with that. They don't date my spouse, I do. I'm Poly, they are not. There is a huge difference that you clearly are not seeing. All the men who I've dated are business men who often don't have a lot of time to dedicate to a relationship. This works for them because they still get the perks of having a girlfriend, but they're not forced to fully ent…
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 05:24 PM
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Again, this appears to be an issue with who you're attracted to. If people are lying on their profile and not telling you in advance they're not monogamous and single, that's a totally different issue than Polyamory. Polyamory is basically just a flavour of ice cream. There are multiple flavours, but you absolutely do not have to eat the ones you don't like. ;) Here's how your black and white thinking is hurting you: https://www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/black-and-white-thinking
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 05:10 PM
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Then don't. Nobody is forcing you to. If they are really forcing you, then yeah, there is a problem. So far I haven't seen you address actual problems.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:57 PM
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What's harmful about it if it's not hurting anyone? Are "harm" and "hurt" the same? The only perceived hurt comes from selfish people who think others shouldn't participate in what makes them happy simply because there isn't enough for you. That's forcing someone to do something they don't want to, just like a rapist, no? Just like an abuser, no? You're choosing to be irrationally upset at people who are knowingly consenting to their relationships, just like monogamous people. It's a choice they…
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:56 PM
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I agree, which is why I don't participate in that. The same logic can be applied to you not participating in Polyamory. :)
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:46 PM
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For what? Having consensual relationships with a few people, where everyone in the relationship is okay with what's going on and they agree to it? What exactly are you exposing? 😂 You'd be better off exposing cheaters, grifters like the Red Pill chucklefucks you're listening to, thiefs, greedy CEOs, scam artists, child abusers, rapists, sex traffickers, etc. We're not the same as those sickos. My God, spend your time elsewhere.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:41 PM
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Even the sensual, intimate couples kind? All of it?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:38 PM
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Do you use porn?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:36 PM
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No, that logic doesn't flow at all. Again, I'm not your problem. ENM isn't the same as Polyamory anyways. ENM is an umbrella term you appear to be misusing. https://www.prevention.com/life/a27890891/polyamorous-relationship/ Most of the Polyamory community hates unicorn hunters. It's obnoxious and only makes us all look dysfunctional. Most of the Polyamory community hates when couples try to use the third as some fix to their marital problems. Polyamory comes from the Greek “poly” meaning many a…
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:35 PM
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So you're mad that you're sexually attracted to bisexual woman who enjoy ENM? Yeah, that's a you problem, that's not an ENM problem. They're open to explore who they really are. That should be a good thing if you're truly Red Pill. Otherwise all I'm hearing you say is that you want to force someone into being something they're not so you can be in a relationship with them. Sounds like you need to "stay in your own lane" as they like to say.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:18 PM
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I’m just tired of selfish couples going after the women I’m interested in. Right, but you've done nothing but talk down to me without even learning that I don't date women at all. I have zero sexual attraction to women. I'm straight. I'm PolyAMOROUS (having multiple relationships with the consent of all people involved). Some date women, but I do not. So I'm not even your problem. Also, if the women you're interested in are not the same sexuality as you, that's a you problem, not a Poly problem.…
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:01 PM
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This is all a normal part of growing up. We learn new things, we fit ourselves into boxes that we don't belong in, often due to peer pressure. Sometimes the pressure becomes unmanageable and we leave those groups to find new ones. This isn't a unique experience. If anything, this shows exactly why banning certain knowledge is so detrimental to society. You found who you truly are and are clearly happier because you learned what aces are! Congrats. :)
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 03:55 PM
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He's a troll. You said this perfectly, but this won't get through to him. He's a bigot anyways. We found out further down.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 03:51 PM
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Educating people and converting people are two totally different things. I'm not part of the "you people" crowd anyways. I don't proselytize. I don't engage in any other types other than having consenting long-term relationships with 2-3 men. If anything, I assist in the dating crisis for men. lol If people are monogamous, that's fine with me too. I'm a person who is so far off your radar. It's sad to see you so triggered from consenting long-term, straight love. :/ Sucks for you, I guess.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 03:51 PM
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I'm not proselytizing polyamory. I know it's not for everyone, just like monogamy isn't for everyone. Just like being gay isn't for everyone. Just like flavours of ice cream aren't for everyone. Me enjoying loving up on multiple men as a demisexual isn't at all what you think it is. I don't just go sleep around. You're just assuming based on your hateful mindset. Just because we have laws that force monogamy, doesn't mean everyone will suddenly be monogamous.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 03:19 PM
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He's not poly. 😂 OMG, you're giving me a migraine.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 03:16 PM
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So you're intentionally fucking up the dating struggles and simultaneously believe in Red Pill that talks about dating struggles?! LOLOLOLOL!!
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 03:13 PM
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I've been married for 2 decades. Works just fine homie.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 03:10 PM
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Ohh, there are wwaayy more people than you realize. 😂 You haven't gotten into kinks yet, have you? Lol grow up.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 03:09 PM
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Red Pillers are a vocal minority; you sound stupid. Here we are still trying to help. Work on that Baader-Meinhof issue you're having, then maybe we'll talk.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 03:07 PM
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Society doesn't hate poly people, they hate cheaters. They're different. 😂
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 03:05 PM
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Being poly is gross? lolololol
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 03:04 PM
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You do realize that multiple preferences exist for multiple types of people, right? Your black and white is very clear, most of us can tell. Try to train your way out of cognitive distortions and your world will become so much clearer.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 03:03 PM
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What people here try to explain are things like Red Pill feed very deeply into biases that humans already have. It's a pit for your biases to continue to rule your life. What you're likely experiencing isn't not truth per se, it's one of many. What you should look into is your own thought processes to actually escape it. Specifically for you now would be "confirmation bias" and the "Baader-Meinhof Phenomenon". https://www.healthline.com/health/baader-meinhof-phenomenon
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 03:00 PM
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I completely understand your annoyance!
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 02:57 PM
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queer women mostly find threesomes- especially with men- utterly unappealing thus invitations to them are a bit like invites to hog slaughters for Muslims. LOLOLOLOLOL!!! 🤣 This is so true!!
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 01:58 PM
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Ugh. I'm poly and I can't stand this shit. Just date separately. lol Fixes so many headaches.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 01:57 PM
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If that's what he's doing, then are you here trying to spread your perspectives that are only a small part of what you're seeing? Or are you projecting? Just because one gets more dating choices, does that automatically mean they're all worth it? No. Women have to spend more time sorting through trying to find ones that she can actually get along with, grow with, etc. It's not easier and I wish this perspective would die.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 01:55 PM
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Granted I'm not super educated on evopsych, the biggest glaring issue I see with these guys is they give so much partial info on things that those who aren't educated extrapolate bits and pieces and start putting together these odd ball dating channels and theories of their own. Most of these people have used these things as a way to ABUSE and exploit others. I get that Red Pill doesn't discuss morality and ethics much, but come on. A lot of these bunked out partial theories are actually causing…
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 01:50 PM
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For real, I'm ready for us to get along again. Dating is much better when it's fun, memorable, etc.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 11:57 AM
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Coincidentally that's a pretty common ending to a lot of cults as well: they devour themselves from the inside out, in-fighting starts, they try to fight for top place (usually unsuccessfully because influencers lose crowds as fast as they came in), etc. I'd say they're getting pretty close to imploding.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 12:19 AM
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Damn, former Mennonite?! Everything else is pretty spot on. Sorry you had to go through that. I don't really want anything to do with these types of relationships, but I still do like the trad life IF, and that's a big IF, he's being respectful and whatnot. My current partner is a dream in all that: proudly works and supports us, does electrical, plumbing, and work around the house, let's me do what I'm best at...we just really flow now. 🥰 I would recommend cult reprogramming from a specialized …
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 10:16 PM
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I've done huge moves like this several times. It's very hard as an adult, but some things can make it a bit easier. Use meetup.com to try and find hangout groups of things that interest you. I also try to go to Stoicism-based hangouts (a philosophy I practice) and that can help too (depending on your specific beliefs). LMK if you need other ideas. I've learned a lot with each move. :)
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 05:07 PM
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I say this respectfully as possible, but you seem to be selecting quite specific stats that is only a small fraction of the problem. What about the kids that are latch key? Abused? Dads who left, pump and dumped, etc.? Alcoholics? Addicts? Obese to the point where they're not raising their kids? Women are a large majority of 'care taker' roles, but if masculinity can't be properly taught by women, then it seems men need to step up, but not in a cultish MLM way. There needs to be a good, healthy …
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 04:20 PM
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Yuuuuuup. It was all a very 1984 'but I did follow the rules' feel. That feeling doesn't leave, but we learn to navigate around our "neurodivergent" pathways over time. Mental breakdowns ensued, deprogramming of a fairly significant amount of brainwashing from multiple sources, feeling strong enough to kick abusers out of my life so that I could learn how to be a real person (always felt like a robot with preprogrammed set of commands), etc. Strangely enough, there was an excellent show called T…
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 03:11 PM
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It's exactly what you'd think about with a bunch of Red Pill men creating a sort of dominance/submissive relationship 'style'. I was raised in the church, was a obedient God-fearing woman, and was trained very well to be that sort of woman, but was forced to be a career woman and Mum and wife and housekeeper and chef and nurse and...well you get the picture. I was young, just hit 'the wall' and was convinced all this work and stress in my life was feminism's role in destroying my heart, soul, an…
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 02:29 PM
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We can both cry, Brother. I'm not above it! 🤝🏼 We're right here along with you.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 02:21 PM
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I 100% get it. I've been officially dx'ed as a autistic woman and we face our own sets of discrimination (especially from other women, which can make it even more alienating), so I understand you really well. I got sucked into a Red Pill woman's boot camp of sorts and was very skeptical, but got pulled into the 'community' I lacked growing up "different" than other women. I can't deny that I learned a lot, but the cost was very high. I'm just happy to see so many people finally speaking out and …
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 02:15 PM
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I think these realizations you listed above are massive in everyone's ability to see their own fallibilities and sadly most don't make it to where you have. Society has become mentally lazy and there is no incentive to have this growth as much anymore. I know these things can be hard to take pride in, but I'm proud of you. This movement was so hard for a lot of men to escape and you did it. Congrats!
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 02:05 PM
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This is a natural occurrence of those who abuse. It's extremely common for those who abuse, I even dare to say abusive "influencers" to get validation from others while openly abusing those ignorant of them. The Manosphere is FULL of them who are pretending to 'help' these disenfranchised young men who are ignorant to what they're really being taught. It's sooo easy for someone younger and less experienced to get caught up with these beliefs because they haven't yet developed that 'grey area' th…
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 01:25 PM
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Damn fine answer, good sir!
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 12:56 PM
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Huzzah! I love hearing stuff like this!! 🤍
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 12:54 PM
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Holy fuck, this is glorious.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 12:52 PM
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Yeah, I learned from my therapist proxy recruitment is a huge thing within cults. The 'leader' gets his little henchmen to join, then they're incentivized to get some to join, and so forth, like an MLM. It's sad to watch honestly.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 12:45 PM
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Funnily enough, Dark Triad teachings helped me avoid falling for those guys. No Red Piller ever got a dime out of me. It was almost the same with me, but I thought it was worth $250 to find out what cult they were trying to recruit me into. Turns out that was the right move. Some of these guys are insane and they get praised for it. It's wild.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/23 09:43 PM
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Totally agree. I'm just a humanist that believes we should all be getting better chances at things. We have so much potential when we work together, but we're just stuck in a loop of squandering it for money, useless and temporary external validation, etc. We spend so much time elevating bad guys and filthy rich CEOs for what? It's all ridiculous. Best thing I learned was to literally go my own way (as a woman), but still love up on men who respect me back. We both (sexes) deserve so much better…
/r/ExRedPill15/06/23 04:50 PM
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I like it here. Nice balance of accepting what was, but there are also a lot of men eager to learn better, mature things that actually help relationships instead of perpetuate trauma loops and keep men stuck and pushing intimacy away.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/23 04:44 PM
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Pearl is just cringe to watch honestly. lol I laugh at the chronically single 20-somethings giving relationship and marriage advice. I've been married for nearly 20-years and most of us that are the same just laugh at all of them. I feel bad for the ones that trust them.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/23 04:42 PM
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Well, to be fair, there was a funner more consenting seduction that I learned in my woman's Red Pill boot camp shit. It wasn't all bad, but yeah, the snakes definitely consumed and took over the fun one. It's all stupid. lol
/r/ExRedPill15/06/23 04:40 PM
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I wonder if it was ever a place for men to help with emotional processing, abuse recovery, and all the stuff that was actually needed. It did become a hate machine. It was ugly to watch and even uglier to have to kick really toxic and bitter men out of my life over what it became. It's wild to think mass shootings were actually connected to all that too. It was crazy.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/23 03:42 PM
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Kink shaming is so upsetting, especially for us that were raised in church. It's so hard coming out of your shell that way. PUA stuff was a massive grift too. I can't believe that was ever a thing. Sucks so many guys got swept up into seduction that way. Seduction is so fun outside of creeper PUA stuff.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/23 02:34 PM
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The "cuck" one a lot of people laugh at Red Pill for because there are A LOT of men that love doing that stuff, surprisingly. Minus toxic masculinity BS, most of the manly men I've been with are kinky that way. It's stupid to have a seemingly sexually-open "movement" privately shame men (and women) for being sexual people with dumb terms. I'm a woman and personally love sex with my partners, and we just laugh at stupid shit like this. 😅 Red Pill has gotten so weird over the years.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/23 01:59 PM
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When they become mainstream online and people who have never heard of Red Pill use them, it defeats the purpose. That's one of many issues that ended up killing the Manosphere (and one of many things that helped me determine which friends to remove from my life as well). To each their own.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/23 11:17 AM
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Red Pill has the stupidest dog whistles. lol
/r/ExRedPill15/06/23 11:04 AM
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Not everyone understands dog whistles.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 11:50 PM
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OMFG, I'm so glad others remember all this!!
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 02:29 PM
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It wasn't the movement the men made, but there was a lot of boot camp type stuff for women's improvement, learning how to serve our men better, etc. It wasn't anti-feminist per se, but it was more geared towards willing submissive women.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 12:32 AM
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You're definitely not alone. I had several just trying to undo that initial programming I had too. Mental breakdowns suck and they do so much damage to our lives. I hope you're doing better now. 🤍
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 06:08 PM
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I got sucked into the woman's version because I was raised around shitty behaved women, with questionable morals, abusers, not self-aware, and I desperately wanted to be better and different than them and what they were teaching me. I wanted to be good at relationships, communicating, finances, cooking, and aLL tHe tHiNgs, so I put myself through a high-value woman's boot camp of sorts. Then I got coerced into a Red Pill woman's group for a couple of years. I did become pretty great and I actual…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 05:55 PM
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