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You can have the most average even down right horrible personality, but if you've been blessed from the start dating will never be an issue for you That's why they brought up Rodgers, his example exactly disproves this. He was conventionally attractive, and wealthy (blessed from the start), yet struggled with dating due to his dogshit personality. He thought that all he had to do was show up looking good with the right status accessories (cars, clothes, etc), and women would just throw themselve…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:54 PM
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Geez, a guy offers to keep you warm, and this offends you? There's just no winning with you people.... /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 10:29 AM
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Well, at least anecdotally, I would disagree, because as a man, The fact that you have to even ask that question shows how dire things are out here. has been my takeaway from this conversation: that we're having it at all. It's an absurd question, because we currently find ourselves in such an absurd situation that such conversations arise. If we lived in a healthier world we wouldn't need to ask such a question because the answer would be readily obvious that anyone would rather encounter a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:59 PM
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"I wouldn't want to marry anybody who was wicked, but I think I'd like it if he could be wicked and wouldn't.” -Anne of Green Gables (Anne of the Island)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:59 AM
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Should we tell OP about "Sister Carrie"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:04 PM
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I think I understand the sentiment you mean (and I share), but considering how that film turns out, I don't think the reference works quite as you intend. At least... dear god, I hope not....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:37 AM
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Hey now, those aren't the only reasons. I'm happily married over ten years, but I'm also an actor who plays a lot of assholes and fools, so I lurk here to get some clues on the specific mental gymnastics required to keep these people functioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:21 PM
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More and more, I'm finding phrases like, "It's not big science," or more commonly, "It's basic (scientific field)," to be strong indicators that said person has little to no expertise in (scientific field).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:40 PM
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Because red pill is, and pretty much always has been, about selling shit to vulnerable people, chummmmmmmmmmmmp.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:44 PM
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Where's The Deep when you need him?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:21 PM
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This doesn't sound like an issue you're ever possibly going to have to deal with. Or even have the option to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:16 PM
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Yes, or at least I think so (can't ask him, but big enough fan to feel safe to say that's the interpretation). He said it to a live crowd, and I believe what he was saying was essentially, "Everyone here is wearing clothing that they picked to convey a message about themselves, whether you think are or not." I first heard that in high school, and at first I thought, "Well, not me. I just grab the first pair of pants and t-shirt on top, I don't care about clothes, I'm super casual." Until it hit …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:56 PM
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"Everybody in this room is wearing a uniform, and don't kid yourself." - Frank Zappa
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:20 AM
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When I posed the above question you referenced, I was speaking as myself, a guy, and a separate third party from the above hypothetical couple. So you are saying that I as an uninvolved party have MORE responsibility for the financial support of a stranger's child than he does? (I doubt you are saying this, I think you may have just missed the context of my question.) As to the middle part, perhaps my little bullet points lacked nuance (or you may simply disagree). As I see it, by having sex you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:50 AM
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Somebody has to pay for the kid so it can have food, and shoes, and go to school, and not become feral. So who pays? Me? I don't even know either of the people involved, and had nothing to do with the result of their actions. Would you argue that the guy who actually did the act of impregnation somehow shares less responsibility for the existence of said child than I do, and therefore it should be me (along with everyone else) who should pay for the consequences of his actions? The reason it's "…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:23 PM
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National Left Hand of Darkness Week!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:53 AM
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Yes, happily married 9 years. No. RP is essentially designed to sell people shit. It presents itself as some sort of secret code (kind of reminds me of "The Secret"), but none of its ideas are exactly novel. All of its "positive" points were already long old when the oldest person's here grandparents were born, and beyond that the misogyny is really all it has to distinguish itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:40 PM
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I hope it's okay to respond here, but I just wanted to say that when we decided to seek couple's counseling I was admittedly nervous, but my wife had a really great way of putting it that really helped the perception. She said, "We're not necessarily going to fix something that's bad, we're going to make a good thing better." And while that may have been her being a bit overly gracious, I also think it was mostly true, because the fact was that we did mostly have a very good relationship, but ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:34 PM
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Where do the kind of women that you are typically attracted to hang out/frequent? That was my general strategy back when I was dating. Here you go, specific, real world example. Now this is just me, so try to take what I'm going to say and apply it more specifically to you, but the kind of woman that I am typically attracted to tends to be on the more intellectual/nerdy/artistic side. I'm typically far less interested in trying to date a stereotypical "whoo!" girl, not trying to be judgmental, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:45 AM
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It's the last part that is most accurate. What seems incredibly obvious to me is that TRP is a marketing strategy more than anything else. The basic self-improvement advice its adherents constantly point to as being "what it's all about" (commonly to distract from its misogynistic overtones) are all decades old. Get in shape, observe women in what they do and say (yes, "say" is also important here, unless you happen to believe that women are too stupid/conniving to honestly represent themselves,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:14 PM
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Who came up with the concept of "women and children first"? (Hint: it wasn't women. Or even children). And while the idea might sound noble and self-sacrificing as a concept, turns out in reality when people are faced with life-and-death situations, self-interest kicks in, and all that shit gets thrown out the window (or overboard, as the case may be). So when you look at the history of who has actually survived shipwrecks over the years, turns out most likely group to survive? The crew, regardl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 04:19 PM
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I'm in 100% agreement with you, sorry if it sounded like I was trying to pull some sort of ethical one-up-manship, or trying to deflect by saying "women are just as bad as men, so it's okay if men are bad" kind of nonsense (pretty common around here). I was more just saying that it seems to me like a vast majority of the topics on here that make claims along the lines of "women/men are all like this" or "women do this, while men don't" and vice versa... I mean, unless they directly have to do wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:20 PM
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I'd say the people that cheat who claim to still love their SO, what they're really saying is that they love how their SO makes them feel about themselves. They want the status a relationship provides without any of its constraints. They like the validation of being loved without the vulnerability of actually emotionally investing themselves in the other person. And obviously anecdotal, but in my experience the recklessness with which someone cheats has very little to do with their gender, and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 08:27 PM
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Gotta love a theory that relies on reducing half the population to a monolith, and then casually dismissing that population as liars. Solid reasoning. I mean, you could have gone with the usual, and actually accurate, problems with studies that use a self selected data pool, but nope, had to go ahead and reveal what was actually going on in that little head of yours, didn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:58 PM
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Well, yeah, it is. The "this" that u/SonicBackScratcher is saying supposedly makes evolutionary biologists cringe is not you, but rather the argument you are making. There might be a bit of Appeal to Authority (loosely asserting that a member of the general public can't know what an evolutionary biologist knows), and if they'd just left it there, you might have a point, but that's hardly the bulk of what they are saying, is it? They go on to point out that your argument relies on comparing human…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 07:39 PM
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Not that I'm aware of, but I don't get around a lot. Sarcasm was intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 10:27 PM
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Ah, yes, the old "you don't need a new boyfriend, you need a revolution" argument, we meet again....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 08:10 PM
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So, despite the fact that it's been repeatedly pointed out that this is something that all human beings do in numerous circumstances, that indeed, no one acts consistently regardless of audience, you still believe this is a gender issue, and not simply an observation of general human behavior? Again, have you seen cases of women acting consistently regardless of audience? Furthermore, why is it that you believe that men only act like their "true selves" around other men? Have you never heard of …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 08:55 AM
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So, have you seen cases where women behave consistently regardless of audience? Have you ever seen anyone do that? Do you think, perhaps, that this isn't exactly a gender issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 04:55 AM
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No, no, remember, it's the FEMALE body that has the ability to just shut that whole thing down. Jesus, do you even science?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:41 PM
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"Because that would just be called dating advice." Exactly. And then it couldn't be marketed as being this magical secret that humans just haven't managed to figure out yet. And then it wouldn't be special in an already over saturated market. And then you couldn't use it to SELL anything. The horse will only stop being kicked when it stops spitting out money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 02:53 AM
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Not OP, and don't agree with him, but I imagine he would say the difference would be the regret factor. Those men don't tend to regret their past.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 04:53 PM
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There's a line from one of the Anne of Green Gables books that states this very nicely (or so said the female friend who introduced me to it) that goes something like this: "It's not that I would want to marry a wicked man, but I think I might like it if he were capable of being wicked, and would not for my sake." Obviously not completely ubiquitous amongst all women, not even all straight women, but certainly enough to say that this is a common archetype. The tender beast. It is... um... a tale…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 08:37 PM
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I'm an actor because I find human behavior fascinating, and because I was too lazy to become a psychologist. I especially enjoy playing bizarre characters with convoluted, myopic points of view. It's interesting to try to get in their heads and trace their disjointed lines of motivations and justifications. This place is a goldmine for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:20 AM
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You surrendered it. (Sorry, knee-jerk American joke. I'm well aware of the circumstances of WWII, and France's long, and largely successful military history.)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 05:29 PM
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Best one I've seen was Contrapoints' video on incels (I'll put link at bottom), and the thing that made me subscribe to her YouTube page. She uses a lot of compassion and empathy as opposed to just straight up ridicule, which is always more effective at reaching people, imo. Plus, as a transsexual woman, she can offer the unique perspective of being able to talk about dating from both the point of view of a MSW, and a WSM. I'm old enough that I never had anything like Tinder around before I met …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 03:50 PM
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Not just online too long, but then getting into the mindset that the internet is a greater arbiter of truth than real life, since "what's painful is true", and therefore opinions expressed in real life that don't align with that are a lie. I think a lot of the folks with the more extreme views do recognize that the opinions expressed online are only being made by a fairly small percentage of people, it's just that then they conclude that those opinions are also "secretly" shared by the rest of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 12:00 AM
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I think you may have to be tried at The Hague for how tortured that logic is. The crux of your argument is based on the statement, “Abusive men keep girlfriends longer than nice guys do.” Unfortunately, that is not a statement of fact, but rather either an inaccurate belief you have or something you entirely made up for the sake of trying to prove your point. You then attempt to use a single anecdote to make said point. Without getting into why anecdotes are not generally regarded as evidence, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 03:00 AM
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