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Let's see one with boys rule. I'm guessing the outrage would be heard by the penguins in Antarctica.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/06/26 08:24 AM
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Yes, how can a movement that claims to be about equality call itself "feminism" which immediately suggests it's purely about dealing with inequality females suffer. When they claim feminism is about equality, it's not, it's merely about addressing things that women see as an inequality which doesn't benefit them. When an inequality benefits them then "crickets...". Rank hypocrisy IMHO.
/r/MensRights30/05/26 05:40 PM
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And yet a man walking alone late at night is more likely to be a victim of random violence (look at the stats). Hated being made to feel like a potential rapist. It's grim.
/r/MensRights09/05/26 01:56 PM
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Don't forget if they live some distance away, the venue always has to be in their neck of the woods too. Travelling 90 minutes for desultory conversation and being judged. Fuck that noise.
/r/MensRights09/05/26 01:53 PM
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I agree with you though recently I was thinking about Facebook and that place is horrendous. I'm not surprised by how bad FB is but even so it's incredible some of misandrist BS that gets spouted there at the merest hint of something to do with gender. Reddit on the whole is my sanctuary from the toxic nonsense (not just misandry but other nonsense was well).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/26 09:33 AM
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Yet when women openly express their misandry e.g. "a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle" etc etc, saying they're happily divorced and would never be in a relationship with a man. The supportive comments "You go girl!", "Strong Women!" etc. Nobody calls this WGTOW misandry, it's celebrated. No one seems to have an issue with MGTOW when the genders are reversed.
/r/MensRights17/02/26 10:15 PM
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Ditto, I got banned as well. Absolute BS.
/r/MensRights04/01/26 01:55 PM
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"It just feels like so many women (not all) love being loved, not actually loving the man. I've always thought women were romantic, but on social media, they want it to be a one way thing. Why do we normalize this. I simply would despise a woman who wants to be loved by me but doesn't love me. It feels so fake and dismissive of my need for love. It seems like the man is there to serve her. How would I even love her if that's the case." This describes the vast majority of relationships I've been …
/r/MensRights22/10/25 07:58 PM
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When I've compared my experiences of healthcare with female friends it made me realise that men are treated less favourably than women. For example when a man has some health issue that affects their appearance, they're expected to just deal with it and dismissed. Misandry in healthcare is so predictable and despicable.
/r/MensRights19/10/25 10:30 PM
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Standard practice in Spain. Woman just needs to allege domestic violence and the man will be arrested and put behind bars while investigations are carried out. Even when released he cannot return even if it's actually his own property and effectively made homeless. Many laws there are actually misandrist.
/r/MensRights23/09/25 08:53 AM
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Reminds me of my ex girlfriend. She was doing this to me in the street in France (we met up in Lyon) and all the passersby were asking her if she was ok as she was shouting at me, shoving me in the street, grabbing my clothes to stop me walking away. No one asked me if I was ok. Same thing happened in a couple of airports. She was even worse if there were no witnesses. She knew full well that was the man I'm the one who isn't going to be believed.
/r/MensRights16/08/25 11:34 AM
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Very big in UK now
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/25 09:28 AM
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Just read Bettina Arndt's Substack post about this. Absolutely disgusting! I will not be supporting any of of Movember's activities at all in future.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/25 07:26 PM
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You can't win the victim Olympics when you're playing against professionals
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/25 07:27 AM
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Yes the STEM subject gap which ignores Medicine, Neuroscience, Biology and other subjects because allegedly they're not sciences (WTAF!?!) but coincidentally are ones where women dominate and if they were included as STEM subjects then once again women outnumber men overall, as they do in higher education overall. Obvs I'm a misogynist incel for pointing this out /s
/r/MensRights01/07/25 09:39 PM
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I saw this at the cinema when it came out (yes I'm old), it was packed and there's a bit where Kate Winslet's character says "You don't know how hard life is for women", she's being laced into a corset. I literally shouted out in disgust at this blatant nonsense "Yes but who gets the lifeboats later on!?!", people in the audience turned to look at me and some blokes laughed. It's just a movie but the character's statement just struck me as so obnoxious considering we all know what happened to th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/25 12:12 PM
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Infanticide, in the UK, is legally defined as the killing of child under 12 months old and yes women commit the vast majority of infanticide and thus aren't included in the murder stats on UK.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/06/25 07:23 PM
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That and because the authorities don't believe them anyway, which would make your think, what's that point of reporting it.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/06/25 07:22 PM
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Yeah but the backlash of they'd said no would have been unpleasant and I've no doubt would have lead to further problems. I can understand why they caved. I mean, women live longer than men and for many years no one batted an eyelid that women were legally entitled to receive their pensions 5 years earlier than men. And yet men have been told to "check your privilege" when in fact the reality was women were and are privileged in many ways themselves.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/25 04:25 PM
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Churches may or may not be better at this but if you're not religious and/or actively dislike religion then it's not going to work for those people and here in secular UK that's going to be a problem. I'm not particularly religious myself and I'd definitely avoid anything like this organised by a church as I'd assume they're going to expect that I go along with/agree with their religious doctrine.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/25 04:20 PM
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Men aren't allowed to have anything that's male only. For fuck's sake. Why can't they set up their own "Women In Sheds". Is it so difficult?
/r/MensRights25/04/25 04:10 PM
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Try reversing the genders. "Young girls refusing to talk to men teachers" No one cares or more likely male teachers would be criticised and an attempt would be made to understand why young girls don't want to talk to male teachers, probably blaming the "patriarchy".
/r/EverydayMisandry21/04/25 07:58 AM
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Your mother is deluded. People suffering from delusions are difficult to get through to.
/r/MensRights02/04/25 04:56 PM
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And the highest rates of DV too.
/r/MensRights29/03/25 08:44 AM
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Hypocrisy
/r/EverydayMisandry29/03/25 08:28 AM
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Yes, way worse. A woman can accuse a partner of domestic violence and he'll be arrested and put behind bars whilst the police investigate. He will then be unable to enter their own home until the police say it's ok. No evidence required. Men literally forced out of their own homes based on a partner's accusation and made homeless. Needless to say if the situation is reversed a woman will not be out behind bars or forced to leave their home. I'd say that's worse than UK, Australia and Denmark.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/03/25 05:43 AM
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Lol - any kind of rational/logical argument is going to get shot down in flames. Frankly I keep my head well below the parapet and try to help my friends/family that are struggling as much as I can. Getting into public spats with irrational individuals isn't worth the energy/grief.
/r/MensRights19/03/25 08:12 AM
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You're entitled to your opinion but I disagree. Hence why mens' life expectancy in developed countries is significantly lower than women's.
/r/MensRights16/03/25 11:13 AM
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And yet in the UK, breast cancer research funding has historically been significantly higher than that for prostate cancer, with breast cancer receiving more than double the annual research spend per case diagnosed.
/r/MensRights15/03/25 01:50 PM
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Well said.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/02/25 08:56 AM
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3 months is a joke.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 10:20 AM
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Men are only loved conditionally! Surely not. I'm shocked and appalled! /s
/r/MenSupportMen01/02/25 10:03 AM
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I recently got permanently banned by /r/interestingasfuck automatically because I commented on a post there and because I've commented here, boom automatically permanently banned. That was surprising and somewhat disappointing but merely confirms why this sub is needed.
/r/MensRights19/01/25 07:06 PM
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I'm going to take educated guess. Lol. No.
/r/MensRights14/01/25 11:34 PM
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I'm a very sensitive to things in this way and things get me emotional ridiculously easy. It's just the way I am and I've been like it for decades (nearly 60 now). Just been to a music concert and the music made me tearful, I was tearful because it was so beautiful and also I know my late father would have absolutely loved the music (he died nearly 20 years ago) and strongly associate the music I heard with him (big band jazz/swing). My last GF mocked me because holding her in my arms, dancing c…
/r/MenSupportMen22/12/24 11:19 PM
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Retirement in UK was equalised between the genders not because of concerns for equality but purely because of the financial costs of the state pension. It was all about saving money and nothing to do with gender equality. I never understood why women were allowed to retire at 60 when they lived longer anyway. Literally discrimination against men.
/r/MensRights19/12/24 08:06 AM
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She seems nice... /s
/r/MensRights22/11/24 01:26 PM
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I've had various therapist including one that used cognitive based therapy but I personally didn't find CBT helpful.
/r/MenSupportMen21/11/24 10:40 PM
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Yup. It's basically gaslighting men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/24 11:14 AM
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Lol - I'd have to block so many people.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/24 11:12 AM
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I had no idea. I would share the International Men's Day poster on Facebook with friends and family but I remember all the shit I got (exclusively from women) for doing it, "Every day is men's day!" etc. etc. <sigh...> It sucks!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/24 08:30 AM
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I've seen a few therapists/counsellors over the years and honestly, they made very little difference. When I had to pay for it (I've had it free a few times because I'm in the UK and sometimes you can get it for various reasons - these days it's seems to be impossible), I felt I was just basically paying someone to pretend to care, to pretend to be a friend. No startling insights, no feeling of improving or making progress. Just, basically, telling a stranger my problems and wasting my time. I'd…
/r/MenSupportMen19/11/24 08:19 AM
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I've dealt with Relate twice (here in the UK they provide relationship counseling), both times they were appalling. It was expensive too. Never again.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/10/24 12:20 PM
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She'll be out in 18 months.
/r/MensRights05/10/24 05:42 AM
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The push for more women in STEM subjects, which actually defines biology, neuroscience, medicine and nursing science as not sciences but only because women are already the majority of students in those areas. So they target areas where there's still a majority of male students. No similar push for gender balance in other academic subjects that are heavily over subscribed by women. I wonder why....?
/r/MensRights03/10/24 02:10 PM
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IMHO I think it's more that those that currently benefit from their privileged status are unwilling to let that go. So men will continue to be gaslit that they're the privileged ones and nothing will change. It's depressing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/24 07:50 AM
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All out no holds barred monkey sex is for her lover, hubby gets starfish sex if he's lucky, the planets align, special birthday etc etc
/r/MensRights24/09/24 12:06 PM
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In other news, Pope is Catholic.
/r/MensRights21/09/24 07:21 AM
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I'm in UK and in my experience the situation is reversed, women's health is taken more seriously than men's. Obviously this is just based on personal experience and those of my male and female friends. However if you look at the statistics presented by William Collins in his book "The Illustrated Empathy Gap" he shows that expenditure on cancer treatment and research is skewed against men.
/r/MensRights19/09/24 07:03 AM
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My ex-GF elbowed me hard on the face whilst I was sleeping and on a previous occasion kicked me as hard as she could. Both times no apology and said it was an accident. After she elbowed me I had concussion and my left eyebrow was swollen and sore. A couple of other times she "accidentally" tried to push me down the stairs of my own home, fortunately I managed to get a decent grip of the bannister both times. Some women are crazy. The woman in the article is described as manipulative, a liar and…
/r/MensRights14/09/24 08:09 AM
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Expressing emotions - like most boys I had that tendency beaten out of me. Misandry starts young in schools: "What are little girls made of? Sugar and spice And all things nice"
/r/MensRights12/08/24 04:57 PM
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Definitely. I used to go to a local gym that was male only Tuesday, Thursday Saturday and female only Monday, Wednesday, Friday, Sunday. If you were wanting to see the facilities before joining you (as a male) had to go on a male only day. However when I was a member there, they often showed women around on male only days. It was misandrist and they even showed them the lockers and you were berated if you hadn't covered up when they turned up unannounced with potential members passing by the ope…
/r/MensRights06/08/24 09:46 PM
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I broke up with my long term partner 18 years ago and since then I've just had awful relationships where I was the one who wanted something substantial and they didn't but wouldn't be honest about it. It's been over a year now that I've been completely alone. I have no family, my parents have both been dead many years now, have no siblings and honestly, few friends. It sucks and it's not how I imagined my life would pan out. No kids, no family, no company, nothing. I'm due to retire soon (I disl…
/r/MenSupportMen06/08/24 07:06 PM
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Yup. Chile is rapidly becoming very misandrist.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/07/24 11:05 AM
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Spain. Everywhere else is bush league in comparison.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/07/24 07:59 AM
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My ex-GF had collar length hair and only washed it once a week, it stank. I know it takes women longer to style their hair after getting it wet but if you're being active and getting very sweaty then your hair is probably going to need washing. I've had other partners who had longer hair and they washed theirs more frequently. My hobby is dancing and there's a stereotype about sweaty guys on the dancefloor but in my experience lots of women sweat too and can smell pretty bad.
/r/MensRights21/07/24 06:50 AM
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She's not from the UK. Saint Petersburg was in Russia the last time I checked.
/r/MensRights19/07/24 06:01 AM
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Orwell spoke from experience of war, so personally to me, his words would carry more weight than Britain's. He'd fought in the Spanish Civil War.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/24 12:54 PM
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That's a fantastic intelligent, analytical and cogent reply. Thanks for posting that.
/r/MensRights23/03/24 04:03 AM
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Ditto. I'm late 50's and many ladies my age are obese, drink too much and are just basically very inactive and unhealthy. That means of those that are fit and healthy only a proportion of those would be someone I'd click with (similar aspirations, likes, dislikes etc). Plus of these only a fraction would be interested in me (lots of women in their 50's like to have boyfriends who are younger to make themselves feel more attractive). So if it's even 1% of the women my own age I'd be attracted to …
/r/MensRights21/03/24 10:42 AM
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No worries. I wish I was 17 again! The decisions I would make this time round with what I know now. Also the plot of one of my favourite books, "Replay"by Ken Grimwood
/r/MensRights13/03/24 10:00 PM
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I'm not 17, I'm in my late 50's but I've lived alone for 17 years. Sorry if I was unclear.
/r/MensRights13/03/24 09:48 PM
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Every time I've tried online dating it's been utterly soul destroying and I'd never encountered so many rude, entitled and at times downright unpleasant people. The remote, arms length nature of online dating seems to give some people licence to just be horrible. Needless to say I've had zero success and the few people I did meet didn't amount to anything at all other than an awkward meal or coffee somewhere that naturally, as the, man I was paying for and had usually had to travel some distance…
/r/MensRights13/03/24 09:30 PM
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Not all of them by any means but some and some men are too.
/r/MensRights07/03/24 11:37 AM
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That's hilarious! She looks so angry and pissed off. She's beside herself with bottled up rage and frustration. "Y ya, está!" Lol!
/r/MensRights07/03/24 04:35 AM
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Hahaha! This is the South Park episode where Cartman declares he's a girl to get his own bathroom, made real. Hilarious.
/r/MensRights07/03/24 04:25 AM
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Parasite.
/r/MensRights07/03/24 04:02 AM
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Signed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/03/24 05:12 AM
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Lol. She's female, she's unlikely to get locked away for the rest of her life.
/r/MensRights02/03/24 04:50 AM
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Wow! Just read the article. What a gold digger. Unreal. Self proclaimed feminist but wants her man to pay for everything including renovating her apartment. She's offering relationship advice as well. Amazing. I note there's no evidence she's successfully managed to find a relationship for herself.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 09:57 AM
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Imagine the outrage if the book was exactly the same but about women...
/r/MensRights31/12/23 08:49 AM
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I have personal experience of the UK immigration system and trying to obtain "leave to remain" for a foreign born spouse. It's not that easy at all even if you're married. It's expensive and time consuming. We could have had 6 kids together and she still wouldn't (or the kids too) have the right to join me in the UK. There's' a lot of hoops to jump through to get UK citizenship. Things were somewhat easier for EU citizens prior to Brexit. This is, as I understand it, unlike the US where essentia…
/r/MensRights21/12/23 08:53 AM
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Hahahaha - the "let me catch my breath" just killed me. Thank you for cheering me up today, I needed it.
/r/MensRights11/12/23 09:20 AM
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Yeah the number of times, recent romantic partners of mine have said "I've never used dating apps" and then later I've found out or they let slip that yes of course they used Tinder/Plenty of Fish/Bumble etc. It's sad that they feel it's necessary to lie and even sadder that they're lying to me, supposedly at the time, their intimate partner. It just kills any trust I might have had. I don't particularly care whether they used apps or not, just don't bullshit me about it. Sometimes you're not ac…
/r/MensRights02/12/23 12:45 PM
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"Most women my age have done a lot of painful and transformative inner work through therapy, body work or spirituality. We really know who we are and what we want. Most men I meet haven’t done that work. I’m talking about men in their 40s, 50s and 60s flopping around like 15-year-old boys." Hahahaha! Lol! Speaking as someone who dates and has been in relationships with women in the 40's and 50's, I would say men don't have a monopoly on behaving like spoilt adolescents. In my experience a signif…
/r/MensRights25/11/23 08:37 PM
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IMHO they're literally brainwashed from childhood that women are oppressed and are treated badly by society, that men are privileged and run everything. IMHO some white western women are the most privileged people on earth, in the UK until recently literally able to retire earlier (for reasons) regardless of the fact that they have longer life expectancy. And men support and uphold this by pandering to it, saying women are fragile and must be protected at all costs. Men are brainwashed as well t…
/r/MensRights23/11/23 08:10 AM
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I got ghosted once on OLD when during a long convo she asked me what my preferences were (she'd already mentioned 6ft (I am as it happens), homeowner, no ties, secure employment etc) I stated that I preferred to be with someone who didn't weigh more than me (I'm 6ft and at that time 175 pounds - lost mass since then). She said "What do you mean?". I explained that I'm 6ft and weigh 175lb, I would prefer to someone who at least didn't weigh more than that. She called me a misogynist and ghosted m…
/r/MensRights09/11/23 08:08 AM
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No, of course not all women are gaslighters but some are and those that are should be avoided like the plague. Manipulative people of either gender are best ignored and if possible don't have dealings with them.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 10:11 PM
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"Oh my God! I'm supposed to pay for your company. I'm sorry, I hadn't realised you were a sex worker"
/r/MensRights06/11/23 08:17 AM
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"-The financial costs of having a woman on your side is not to be underestimated. Between paying for dates, paying buying gifts, and potentially supporting her financially, it can add up quickly." Not to be underestimated. I've not cohabited with a woman for over 15 years and still dating/girlfriends cost a fortune. As someone once told me (he was married), you always pay for sex, one way or another. Even girlfriends who earned more money than me still expected to comp'd for things like taxi rid…
/r/MensRights05/11/23 07:33 PM
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There's a whole book about it. "The Empathy Gap" by William Collins. A necessary but very long and depressing read.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 10:27 PM
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When I looked more closely at the document it didn't surprise me that this was Spain. What I've learnt about Spain is that it's a misandrist paradise (I've spent a lot of time there and not as a tourist as my GF is Spanish). Misandry is enshrined in law there.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 07:42 AM
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Because they're massive hypocrites...?
/r/MensRights28/10/23 07:07 AM
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No, worse than that. He had an argument with her mother and she cruelly told him he wasn't the father and there was some medical issue which proved he definitely couldn't be the girl's father. The biological father also confirmed that he was the girl's father and that they'd both known about it ever since the daughter was born.
/r/MensRights21/10/23 05:07 AM
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This is a UK lab and in the UK the situation is different. Not the biological father, you're not the father. A former colleague of mine found out, when his daughter was in her late teens that she wasn't his child. It destroyed his life. Real father was the mother's side piece and his best friend. It was too late the damage was already done. As you can imagine, he has issues forming intimate relationships with women now, all the trust has gone.
/r/MensRights20/10/23 06:42 AM
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Forgive my crudity, but fuck that noise. Anyone starts seriously hitting me then they get the same back, whether they have a vagina or not. You don't hit someone unless you're willing to get hit in return. Violence isn't acceptable from either sex. I just read in The Empathy Gap that official stats show a third of domestic violence victims are men (UK figure I believe and I'm certain it's underreported because why would you report it when it's clear no-one gives a shit), yet there are virtually …
/r/MensRights15/10/23 07:02 AM
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I did but I was very rarely successful. Fast forward 4 decades and these days I wouldn't have had a chance. The situation seems pretty grim for young men now.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 07:33 AM
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So so sorry you've decided to leave the sub and I think it's a great loss to the sub but I'm following your user account now and I'm already following you on Instagram.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/23 05:15 PM
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Agreed but easy to say when you have had actual experience of sex, I remember being a 24 year old virgin (over 30 years ago) and it was a time of just longing, not just for sex but for an intimate connection with someone. I'd get up early and catch the beautiful early light just after dawn, somewhere in the countryside or on a deserted beach and daydreaming about sharing this experience with a lover was torture. Now as I approach my 6th decade I'm more sanguine about this. I've had my moments in…
/r/MensRights11/06/23 09:50 AM
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The inequitable pension age thing has boiled my piss for decades and now that I'm not far from retirement I couldn't believe women were still bitching about having to retire at the same age men. The sheer arrogance and audacity. Men still can't decide to be stay at home parents without being on the end of unrelenting discrimination. Less parental leave, less parental rights. Basically it seems that being a white female in Western society is life on easy mode.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/23 02:55 PM
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Frankly I love your work but please can we have some UK statistics because as a UK person when I show this to UK people they inevitably go "Oh yeah, that's cos it's America”, as if UK is some kind of paradise for men in comparison.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/23 02:48 PM
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I actually quite enjoy WH and Emma Barnet is a breath of fresh air but it's still irritating that there's no equivalent programme even for 30 minutes once a fortnight to cover men's issues.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/23 03:27 PM
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FFS! This is unreal.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/23 08:41 AM
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Or the continued nonsense that the UK's public service broadcaster (and largest broadcaster) the BBC has a one hour programme daily on BBC Radio 4 at 10am called (un-ironically) "Woman's Hour". Apparently at some time or other someone did ask why there wasn't a "Man's Hour” and the response as you can imagine was scathing and withering.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/23 07:37 AM
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LOL - It's like a Zen paradox
/r/MensRights08/03/23 11:12 AM
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I'm middle aged and I was going through a very difficult time. I contacted my GP who put me in touch with local mental health people and it was all pretty useless. It was so bad a good friend of mine (my ex long term partner in fact) saw what a state I was in and insisted I stay in her spare room for a few days to take the pressure and stress off. She saved my life. The trained professionals mental health team gave zero fucks frankly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/01/23 07:51 PM
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Ditto UK but I've never heard anyone in UK seriously say to a woman "man up"
/r/MensRights12/12/22 09:36 AM
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Which suggests that taking responsibility for things is normally only associated with men. It's specifically being gendered. Rather like supposedly being touch with one's feelings or showing emotion is only a female thing. I rarely if ever hear women being told to "man up".
/r/MensRights11/12/22 01:36 PM
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Not really, just stop paying for everything, bending over backwards to make everything convenient for her, spend less time with her, devote your free time to other things. Assuming you're not living together, reduce communication to the bare minimum, minimal single word messages. She'll walk away pretty quickly.
/r/MensRights08/12/22 07:36 AM
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I shared the International Men's Day poster on my Facebook and got roasted in the comments, by women naturally.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 09:53 AM
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If you're not following TheTinMen on Instagram then you need to, his posts are superb.
/r/MensRights11/11/22 08:18 AM
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Standard behaviour in my experience. The idea that me as a chap, might need a bit of foreplay as well seems abhorrent and incomprehensible to some women. It appears they think I can get tumescent just by willpower, like a light switch, "click" light on and I'm instantly hard and ready to go. Shocker! Some women are selfish lovers.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 08:34 AM
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Spanish law does have some awful examples of misandry, in particular the instant presumption that when a woman says she was abused her male partner can be arrested immediately and must leave the property even if it's his own place. The cards, legally, are stacked against men in Spain, which is ironic considering the Hispanic roots of the term machismo. https://honeybadgerbrigade.com/2016/02/18/spain-gender-laws-a-country-against-men/
/r/MensRights20/09/22 07:29 PM
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Yes, I supposed to feel grateful and realise what a privilege it was being with her.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 08:46 PM
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Yeah I've had an ex-GF complain to me that she had to spend time and money to look good just for me despite the fact that I don't actually like make-up, lipstick and fingernail polish. She would even complain about the cost of waxing down below, saying she'd done it for me (I never asked her to), however I reminded her that she used to do all these things long before she met me and if she didn't want to do it any more then it was fine by me. Personally I don't like hairy legs on women but it's h…
/r/MensRights19/09/22 04:04 PM
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I thought everyone had an ex who thought like this. Mine certainly did.
/r/MensRights18/09/22 04:51 PM
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So much bullshit misandry and it's supposed to be amusing. It's so obvious that a significant number of women (certainly the women writing these books) consider men subhuman. Disgusting.
/r/MensRights18/09/22 08:16 AM
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"I don't need a man to take care of me" Exactly what my ex-GF said while her estranged husband was looking after her kids at the drop of a hat (despite literally living in a different country) and funding her international nomad lifestyle (tough luck for him if he wanted to see his kids and she'd moved to another timezone/continent). Like the commenter's example she too was in her 50's and dragging 2 children all over, changing schools, homes etc every year. As I say her ex was funding all this …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/22 02:53 PM
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I've thought of another woman who has done an immense amount of work of benefit to men: Bettina Arndt https://www.youtube.com/user/bettinaarndtaus
/r/MensRights14/09/22 10:35 AM
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Much more likely to get an interview - this sounds like actual privilege...
/r/MensRights13/09/22 05:48 AM
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https://youtu.be/xDI4F7eWu7k
/r/MensRights09/09/22 01:31 PM
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"She did more good for men in general than any person I can think of." Cassie Jaye is definitely a woman who has done a lot for Men.
/r/MensRights09/09/22 10:43 AM
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As far as I can tell he couldn't follow his own 12 rules, got depressed because his wife was very seriously ill, became hooked on prescription drugs and then went to Russia to get a quack cure and nearly died as a result. Rules for thee, not for me. For me personally he lost a lot of credibility.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 01:30 PM
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Dislikes: judgemelntl Then gives a nice list of judgemental opinions of people she won't date. Cognitive dissonance intensifies...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/22 07:39 PM
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My ex-GF was proud of her previous cheating and anonymous sex, I didn't judge her because, as I said to her at the time, I cared less about what she may have done in the past but I did care about what she was doing now when she's in a relationship with me. Obviously she reassured me that our relationship was serious and she cared about me. Yeah, you can guess how that worked out. The warning signs were obvious, who boasts about having one night stands and anonymous sex? She was merely reminding …
/r/MensRights25/08/22 12:40 PM
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You don't get Olympic golds in athletics for being entertaining. Football teams have to win matches. Golfers have take less strokes. Many sports stars earn top dollar for being objectively better not because they're entertaining.
/r/MensRights21/07/22 01:03 PM
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It's "intramural" and 6ft 2 inches isn't short.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/22 06:46 AM
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But if there were just one tournament instead of separate ones for each sex then if a woman were capable of winning say Wimbledon or scoring as many goals for Barcelona as Messi then they would/could earn as much as men. But they can't so why would they deserve the same rewards...?
/r/MensRights20/07/22 11:00 AM
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Female athletes generally get paid less than men because they're usually simply not as good as men. Tennis, cycling, athletics, golf, football etc. Men get paid more because they're objectively better when the sport relies on physical prowess.
/r/MensRights20/07/22 08:42 AM
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A similar thing happened to me, I had a telephone consultation with a psychologist and told her my concrete plans for suicide (method, materials I'd collected to do it etc.). The psychologist's response (they were female) "Oh dear, I hope you don't do that but if you do feel that way, try calling the Samaritans". My ex (we're good friends) saw what a horrendous state I was in and basically insisted I stay at her place for a few days. This gave me the breathing space to relax and to put the stres…
/r/MensRights20/07/22 08:37 AM
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Pretty standard in my experience (I'm in UK).. Not just mental health but physical health too. It's disgusting. Seems it's often the case that the attitude is that women are seen as delicate and needing more support, whereas men just need to "man up". I'm so sorry you went through this and I sincerely hope you're in a better place now.
/r/MensRights20/07/22 04:09 AM
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Thank you
/r/MensRights19/07/22 08:16 PM
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As regards sexual politics and gender equality Spain is an utter dumpster fire IMNotSoHO
/r/MensRights07/07/22 01:42 PM
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"Women Underground, Again Women were not allowed to work underground in mines until the Employment Act of 1989 replaced sections of the Coals Mines Act 1842 and the Mines and the Quarries Act of 1954 (which also prohibited this type of work for women). 150 years after their ban, women were once again allowed to work underground" https://www.mrsl.co.uk/news/women-mining-then-now#:~:text=Women%20were%20not%20allowed%20to,again%20allowed%20to%20work%20underground.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 09:39 PM
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Posting on the old MGTOW subreddit got you automatically banned from participating in the AskMen subreddit. So this is definitely a thing.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 07:41 AM
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In the UK, to work down mines and in quarries. Though after 150 years this was changed in 1989. Back in the early 1980's I was considering a career with the National Coal Board and getting sponsored through an engineering degree by them. This wasn't open to women as it was actually illegal for women to work down mines.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 07:39 AM
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Sex, lots of it. She's into it. LOL no, she's a nightmare She's a black hole of neediness and a desert of empathy. Nothing exists except herself. My money is her money and her money is none of my business. Always complains about not having money but 8 holidays (most of them foreign) in the last year says that's bullshit. LOL! I don't bother telling her about any of my concerns or issues because she simply doesn't care or merely compares herself e.g. Me: "Sorry got to say goodbye I'm having a mig…
/r/MensRights23/06/22 03:03 PM
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Slash S absence gets me every time
/r/MensRights07/06/22 07:13 AM
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Which woman? I have plenty of female colleagues who earn more than me. We have pay scales and they're the same regardless of gender.
/r/MensRights07/06/22 06:11 AM
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Never been married and posts like this harden my resolve to avoid it although that's a moot point at my age (late 50's). After 15 years of living alone I'm only now starting to realise that this is bliss and a lot less drama than being in a relationship. Sex is fun but all the associated grief tarnishes that somewhat.
/r/MensRights01/06/22 11:10 AM
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As a white male I wonder what sentence I would receive if I got into an argument with a 58 year old woman and punched her and then she subsequently died...? Anyone think it would be 6 months or less...? By the way I think your analysis is entirely correct.
/r/MensRights04/04/22 05:17 PM
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probably why he doesn’t want to be alone with this kid. It saves him from any malicious false allegations. I'm a single man who lives alone, never been married, no children of my own/family at all. A very good female friend warned me to never be alone with someone's child whose under 16. It's just not worth the risk. In such cases "innocent until proven guilty" gets conveniently forgotten and you stand a good chance of your life being destroyed. Sad but true. Society appears to view men and in p…
/r/MensRights31/03/22 07:20 AM
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Often some women say they want honesty and strait forwardness until it conflicts with what they desire. This is something that struck a chord with me and some relationships I've been in. Some women definitely say one thing and do the opposite when it suits them. It's basically just lying and deceit.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 07:05 AM
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Yes I only use my ironing board to get really crisply ironed shirts for job interviews/weddings/funerals. Ditto, polishing shoes unless it's to protect them from weather. Haven't used my iron in years now. Folded laundered t-shirts look fine out of the drawer and jeans just get hung up or folded when dry.
/r/MensRights18/03/22 07:14 AM
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My ex-GF (54) has 2 teenagers and they're a nightmare - lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 07:12 AM
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UK resident here - teenage mothers are very common. Ex partner was a midwife she'd seen and delivered plenty of schoolgirl mothers including a 13 year old. I think UK leads Europe in teenage pregnancy rates (or at least we used to). Teenage mums are not pariahs here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 04:06 PM
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Men can work down mines in UK, it was (is?) illegal for women. This might have changed now but certainly was true when I was considering mining as a career.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 05:11 AM
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Superb website. Just bought his book from Amazon now. Thank you for sharing this link.
/r/MensRights23/12/21 05:31 AM
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Exactly. My last GF (53 years old), started having sex at 15 and in all that time had never gone more than a month without sex. She couldn't comprehend how I'd spent periods of my life without sex for months and years. Perhaps I'm too fussy in my choice of partner but I think it's more likely that as a female there's more opportunities. Men approach/chase women and rarely do women ever need to approach/chase a man. OLD is a smorgasbord of opportunity for ladies and IME an utter barren desert for…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/21 08:25 AM
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To be fair she's almost unrecognisable without her make-up so publishing what she probably looks like 95% of the time makes sense.
/r/MensRights27/10/21 08:16 AM
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Why would you pay for it when free porn is everywhere on the internet. I find it bizarre. Is there some extra thrill because you can ask them to wear/not wear certain clothing or adopt certain poses? I'm genuinely baffled why people pay.
/r/MensRights02/08/21 04:52 PM
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