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Though I have some overlap with some opinions that fall under that umbrella, let me be clear that I do not subscribe to the label. Having said that, an overt difference between the two is that one is attempting to change things politically/legally/whatever. The other is simply people taking their metaphorical chips off the table and walking away. EDIT - additionally, I’m not sure how successful such an idea would be in the reverse, given the way the incentives are. Sure, some women may be amenab…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:50 PM
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There is also the broader general trend (and it’s just a trend, obviously this doesn’t apply to everyone) that as intelligence goes up, number of children tends to go down. Not saying that is good, bad or otherwise. Just saying that it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:42 PM
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Male.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 07:07 PM
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Oh let me be totally clear. For those rare women right at the bottom of the 1-10 scale who genuinely have trouble getting anything at all (and I mean getting nothing, not simply not getting exactly what they want) in terms of male attention, I have the utmost sympathy for. Any human being who cannot in anyway sate the desire for companionship and romance/attention/whatever is hurting, and often far more than others not in that position realise. This is simply a question of emphasis, given that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 07:04 PM
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Again, some agreement that men should exercise firmer standards. But that is awfully easy to say for someone like myself (who does not desire it anymore), or for an average woman who in the modern day generally speaking has far more options if she chooses to put herself out there. People like myself and many average women aren’t exactly in a “starvation” mindset when it comes to sex/relationships/attention, and thus it’s far easier for people in that kind of position to tell those who are that T…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:51 PM
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Some truth to that. Absolutely men should also be more cautious of who they choose to engage with. However, some consideration should probably be given to the fact that generally speaking, average men are not the party with an abundance of options compared to the reverse. It does not absolve them of their responsibility, no question. But let’s not pretend the base conditions for both sides are even remotely comparable in the aggregate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:45 PM
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I’m sure there are other factors too, obviously. But let’s not pretend that the vast majority of women seem to prefer and seek out men who have some degree of success with women. Very few women want a guy that nobody else seemingly does.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:39 PM
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Not to say that you’re entirely wrong, but I think the mentality you refer to could be more accurately summarised as “if you insist on choosing questionable partners where you had ample information to know or suspect this ahead of time, don’t expect much sympathy when you decide to cry about the consequences later” This can be applied to men too - I would say the same to a guy who insists on getting into relationships with women with a ton of overt red flags. But given that broadly speaking, men…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:36 PM
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This is all very well and good. And I would say that if what you say is accurate, then that is probably a good thing both for yourself and the hypothetical other person. But I would also argue that you don’t seem to be putting yourself in OPs shoes so to speak. That’s all fine and well that you claim you would act as such, but in your own words, you have never been so lonely that you would exploit someone’s love and admiration for you. Whilst not claiming that is what he is saying, he is clearly…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:10 AM
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This will vary from person to person, but there is an argument to be made that it could very well result in woman b being more interested rather than less.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:20 AM
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One of those responses where one can never be entirely sure if it’s a genuine expression of what they actually think or not. People cannot be this silly, can they? EDIT - oh wait. I was slow to appreciate the sarcasm. At least I hope that’s right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:29 PM
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Whoa calm down. This is far too reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:49 PM
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“Who wants to sign up to be married to a man who can’t pay all the bills? Why that sounds like slavery” Just for a second, apply some of that female empathy we often hear about yet rarely see in action, and ask yourself what the inverse of that statement looks like from a male point of view. Anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:50 PM
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Okay there is simply too much nonsense to untangle re: your presented sources, and I don’t think that this exchange will be fruitful anyway, so I will limit this response to the first link presented. Aside from a comment elsewhere dealing with one of the other sources, and the suspicious use of the phrase “fathers who aggressively pursue custody”, as opposed to simply “fathers who pursue custody” without ever defining what that variable of “aggressively” actually means (on top of no way to verif…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:40 PM
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Right. I am pressed for time, so this response will only address the first part of what you said. Besides, I doubt you and I are even remotely going to see eye to eye here. As for that first part of your response, holy shit does objective reality disagree with you on almost every point. Granted, there are inevitably some women who get the short end of the stick here and there (and notice I am in no way defending that - unfairness is unfairness no matter who is on the receiving end). Men who show…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:55 AM
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Marriage absolutely almost automatically awards women in terms of custody and child support/alimony. In cases where women don’t have custody of their children, they often had to have REALLY fucked up with the law in some way. She sacrificed her career time to start a family? Why is this argument always deployed one way? As though the man isn’t entirely covering her living expenses for what is essentially a lifestyle choice? Nobody is forcing you to have children. Nobody is forcing you to “give u…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:37 AM
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I’m sure there are instances of that happening, not gonna be an idiot and deny that. But generally speaking, I would offer the chance to notice this specific move is one not open in the same way to men. The numbers of men with both custody and who are collecting child support are vanishingly small. EDIT - if I read you correctly above, it’s a little rich to claim these women are rejecting marriage whilst simultaneously collecting a benefit from a prior one which the man is paying for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:35 AM
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I’m confused with the last part. “More women are pricking up their ears and learning from others that men will do this, so they choose not to marry” Even though it will probably unintentionally sound that way, I’m not being facetious and actually asking genuinely due to confusion. Learning that men will do what, exactly? Pay all of the bills, and that they can achieve the same result with not actually having the guy around? Are these women choosing to not marry in the first place, or are they di…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:19 AM
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Never heard that expression before. I’m going to assume it’s self explanatory, ie women simply choosing to not marry? Which is all fine and well if that’s what they have decided. Their life, they can choose to do or not do as they like. Though I am sure there are some doing this, I am incredibly skeptical that any significant numbers of women are actually doing this and will remain consistent with it over time, as opposed to simply claiming it. The incentives for marriage (and the attendant lega…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:03 AM
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Does it? Not trying to dismiss your point for the hell of it, but whilst I’m sure there are a minority of women making a similar reverse assessment, the legal, financial and social risks tend to largely be stacked in their favor. Women generally tend to benefit from marriage (not to mention subsequent divorces) in ways that men do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:53 AM
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For anyone interested, by all means read the exchange yourself and see whether she is accurately summarising what was said, or rather whether strawman manufacturing and wilful misrepresentation is afoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 10:07 PM
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I’m not going to defend the final statement made there. Not for a second. And for the record, I think you would have trouble finding someone who would. Contextually reading that exchange though, everything up to that point seemed as though it was you who was trying to deploy this rape thing as a means of shutting down the counter position. EDIT - having read further, I still stand by what I said but I will concede that there were some things further on that were questionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:55 PM
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I would suspect that an awful lot of men in particular are going to run the cost/benefit of relationships to them, and wisely decide to entirely fuck it off. Which, to my biased eyes already seems to be happening to some degree. I’m sure it’s a small minority, but I’d be willing to bet the rate of growth there is rather alarming.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:39 PM
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Do you have any appreciation for how maddening it is to hear this kind of argument again and again, whilst simultaneously hearing women whinging when men DONT pay attention to them? I have empathy for what is being said in the extreme cases. Nobody should be subjected to repeated unreasonable pressure at all. But come on, a cat call is not making you a victim of anything. You women being so rattled by innocuous and one time expressions of sexual interest is insane. Made more insane when the woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:27 PM
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Watch this. Pay close attention or you might miss it. Ready? Men behave awfully all the time. Men bear their share of responsibilities for relationship and sexually based shortcomings. Absolutely. Notice how so few men (obviously there will be the odd exception) are in denial of this reality, and are capable of self reflection when it comes their own negative behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:34 PM
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I’m not trying to be a dick for no reason, so don’t misunderstand me here. But can you see how both simultaneously held ideas of “men say rapey shit all the time/ several men basically claiming variations of “rape is okay”, and the idea of hiding behind anonymity and as such not actually admitting anything are in conflict with each other? Furthermore, the definition of what constitutes “rapey sounding stuff” nowadays has gotten incredibly stretched and insane. I literally cannot think of a singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:30 PM
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Let’s play a little game called “spot the contradiction”. Your comment I responded to literally said “I’m referring to the godforsaken comment section where several men basically said some variation of “rape is okay”, which certainly wouldn’t be the first time I’ve seen that rhetoric spewed by deranged men here.” I responded (with the focus on this particular part), and your response to that is “what man is publicly going announce that he believes rape is okay?” You just cannot make this shit up…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:53 PM
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I would like you to elaborate on this claim of some variation of the claim “rape is okay” being even somewhat common. I have off the top of my head never seen even the most psychotic unhinged man publicly say this. What I have seen however almost consistently is an almost universal public facing denial of the consideration that perhaps women have any degree of agency and responsibility in anything involving sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:09 PM
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I’m curious. Of the women here, quick straw poll - how many of you put any stock whatsoever in astrology?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:01 PM
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