VivoPerStylo Archive

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6	Tea Time My 7 year old is sick and my 1 year old is cutting 4 molars, both have decided the only way they will rest is by laying on me. It's a typical Texas June day and I'm already sweating my butt off and it's not even 9am. Reminding myself that these boys are a blessing even when they don't feel like one.	/r/RedPillWives	05/06/22 01:59 PM
28	I (M) will be having a baby daughter any day now... First piece of advice, take a deep breath and soak everything in. I have 2 boys (6y and 1y), but if you play your cards right you have AT LEAST 5-10 years of just letting them be children before the outside world starts to sneak in. The best thing you can do for your child for now is to radically love them and lead by example; if your daughter sees a loving, stable RP household, then that's what she'll want when she's grown.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/04/22 06:15 PM
8	My husband and I are getting divorced... I’d love some advice on healing. Take time for yourself and whatever self care uplifts you; do your makeup, sew something/complete a project you've put off, read that book that you bought forever ago but haven't had time to start, write in a journal. Even if you only dedicate 1 hour a day, take that time for you to propel your healing.	/r/RedPillWives	27/03/22 04:38 PM
15	What are the qualities in your man that make him a high value man? My husband works his ass off making 6 figures for our family, going on long business trips and working insane hours; and still finds the energy to give our boys and family farm the energy needed to keep things running smoothly and support me. This is a man who can fly in from another state and land at 1am, then be up bright and early to build a barn or till and plant crops.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/02/22 04:43 AM
2	Working woman vs a stay at home mom I'm a SAHM working towards a "mild" career(studying to become a doula), and it's my opinion that unless you plan to homeschool or give birth to double digits amount of children, you will eventually have an empty home for 180 days out of the year. I have a 6 year old and an 11 month old and plan to have 4 children (3 if fate/God gives me another boy), and one day they will all be in public school and independent enough that domestic duties will not fill my whole day, so my hope is to build a care…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/02/22 02:53 AM
5	Tea Time I mean, yes, but he'd take a substantial hit to his income and he's very close to advancement in this company; he's worked there for over a decade and I'm just trying to be encouraging when it comes to his career.	/r/RedPillWives	17/09/21 07:56 PM
5	Tea Time I hate that my husband has to start going on business trips again, and the kind of mindset it's regrowing in me. Before the pandemic my husband's job would require he go on 2-3 multi-day business trips a month from practically the end of May till the first half of November. One notable instance ending in me having to drive 3+ hours to Dallas in the middle of the night with our then 4 year old 2 days before Thanksgiving because of a flight delay. This non-stop travel made it hard for us to spend …	/r/RedPillWives	15/09/21 08:30 PM
1	Does anyone else worry they’re infertile? That sort of specific symptoms regarding your ovulation would be something to discuss with your gynecologist, but the tests are like $20 for 100 of them on Amazon(which is almost 2 years worth) if you wanted something to pee on to give you peace of mind.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/12/20 03:22 AM
5	Does anyone else worry they’re infertile? I mean, there is, kind of, an at home method to see if you're making all the right hormones(if you're not on birth control). You can purchase ovulation predictor kits otc for not that much money, these measure Lutenizing hormone, which makes your ovaries spit out an egg. If you use a calendar app to track your cycle, you can just pee on an opk a day from cycle days 11-15 and confirm at least one small part of your fertility(that you're ovulating every month). You're 21 though, the likelihood tha…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/12/20 01:41 AM
6	Baby fever... Do whatever you and your partner are ready for and tell the naysayers to jump in a lake! Though please, do not worry yourself about "losing eggs", it's astounding how many we have; my husband and I started treatment for "unexplained secondary infertility" about a year ago(We succeeded! Due 04/2021), and I asked the doctor if my taking clomid to produce more eggs would result in an earlier menopause. She assured me that no, an average woman has about 100,000 ovocytes(immature eggs) by the time th…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/08/20 04:50 PM
61	"Where can you lead me? Not up." I saw the whole exchange on Facebook, it is GLORIOUS!!! She is killing it in her community, supporting local businesses and mentoring kids and young adults; and this NVM is like, "I have a penis" and she just INSTANTLY shuts his ass down. It was... -chef's kiss- Magnifique!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/08/20 02:17 PM
2	Scared to have kids? It's so, so true, it sometimes feels like I was magically gifted a better behaved child than the rest of society, even though logically I know that is not the case.	/r/RedPillWives	08/02/20 12:25 AM
1	Help. I hate cleaning I don't know about your little one, but mine was a clinger, I could not walk 10 feet away from him without him full out screaming; made cleaning a nightmare. If that's part of what plagues you I definitely recommend baby-wearing, I loved the mobi wrap, and for the first 6 weeks of his life it event doubled as a modest shirt(Texas is hot!). Something that also really helped me was to take a "before" and "after" picture with my phone, it worked wonders to give me a sense of achievement when it cam…	/r/RedPillWives	08/02/20 12:21 AM
1	How to show appreciation for hard work? Love notes is my go to, when my husband goes on business trips(which is a lot), I pack a little hand written love note on pretty stationary in his suitcase. If you have to you can of course post it, or just find a good time to slip it in a suitcase or briefcase when he's not looking, it will be a nice surprise.	/r/RedPillWives	24/03/19 11:00 PM
2	Clothing question I know as of late, I've found that with H&M I am in this weird size limbo, where a size 2 is slightly too big but I am far from a 0. I take advantage of this though, because I just crack out thw ole sewing machine and put good quality seams in there. Better fit and it lasts longer!	/r/RedPillWomen	21/11/16 01:29 AM