VlElRA Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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29	Is it weird to hook up with your ex? This. There is a huge idea nowadays that you have to share everything because she's your partner. Read Esther Perel's 'Mating in Captivity'.	/r/seduction	23/12/25 01:11 PM
1	I'm getting annoyed with people "framing" Miami as advanced mode when it's basically a clone of Seattle's situation. It's always this debate about which city is hardest. You are talking about huge cities with lots of rotation and unlimited women. All of them are good. I could say that dating in the interior of Portugal is harder than Singapore. Density of high quality women is much lower and if you start practicing hard you will reach saturation point very quickly. Then you have to worry about other things besides game. Obviously it is not a proving ground. On the other hand, if you start gaming in some of Sin…	/r/seduction	23/12/25 11:42 AM
2	Is there anyone here with a 4/10 physical appearance who manages to date women (regulary) with a 7.5/10 or higher physique? What’s your secret? TLDR: You can and should fix your nose and your physical attractiveness if you think that will improve your life but let me just tell you that after a month or two those things will become old and you'll find other flaws. It will just be temporary confidence. You have to fix your inside. I started training karate and kickboxing at 7, a guy broke my nose with a kick and I didn't realise until I was 15 when I changed the spot where I trained. The first thing the new coach told me "You are not new …	/r/seduction	24/04/25 12:57 AM
5	Get your shit together before you start doing "game" and cold approaching women. We have a saying in my language that closely translates to "Neither 8 nor 80" This means you have to be balanced. You have 24 hours/day if you don't waste them you can do a lot. We all know people with kids, sick mothers, jobs... and they still have time to do other things. We also know people that do nothing and they never have time for anything. Don't wait until you have other things in order to start. Start seducing tomorrow, you will never have everything fixed. But also start studying, work…	/r/seduction	19/07/23 12:15 AM
–	Dissapointed in Models by Mark Manson Man... I mean whatever works for you. We have different views on seduction, I enjoy the hunt and the rollercoaster of feelings that comes from it. It means sometimes I have sex after knowing the girl for 10 minutes other times it means talking all night with no intention of having sex. It feels like you just enjoy the fuck part. Have fun!	/r/seduction	17/04/19 09:04 PM
–	Dissapointed in Models by Mark Manson That's where you're wrong. You're assuming things. I agree with you and think direct is by a large margin more effective. That's not even a debate these days. Last time I read this book was 2 years ago and I just went to see the chapters. What I don't see is where in the book he tells you to hide your intentions. What he tells is the best way to show your true intentions. For example I have friends that when they tell me a story I get bored to death. It has nothing to do with the story but the w…	/r/seduction	17/04/19 08:44 PM
–	Dissapointed in Models by Mark Manson I never said honesty is the product. You are the product. You can fake and still get it. But if you did this before or read enough you know the cons of faking it. What I said is second part is important because even if your product is good you still have to know how to sell it to get maximum profit.	/r/seduction	17/04/19 08:18 PM
–	Dissapointed in Models by Mark Manson I understand your point but I don't agree with it. Imagine you have a product. Your product is very good but there are hundreds (in this case millions) of products just like yours. You can't just let the possible buyers discover it by themselves, you have to KNOW HOW TO SELL IT. You didn't need the second part if your product was the cure for cancer. Translating this, if you were a rockstar or a famous actor, I believe you could just say, hey come over I want to see you naked. The problem is the…	/r/seduction	17/04/19 08:03 PM