Vladimir_Poontang24 Archive

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1	The number one thing you must do from here on out if you are serious about changing your luck with women. I can tell you that even having those conventionally attractive features my dating life sucks because I let my ego get in the way of basically every facet of my life for a long time. Right now I'm just doing my best to feel confident enough in myself to go out and make connections doing things I enjoy. No matter what gifts you have or don't have you're never going to make progress unless you're real about where you're at and what you can do to better your own situation.	/r/seduction	14/09/22 04:33 PM
2	Easily bored by everyone I meet I feel like this sometimes too but when I look deeper it's because I'm scared of taking those next steps growing. It's easier to say everyone doesnt meet my standards in my head instead of admitting to myself I'm not in the place I want to be and need to keep working on myself. Ego protection is a deceptive mf'er	/r/seduction	14/09/22 12:21 AM
1	medication to help talk to girls? If you want to try a method that can help now cbd is a good way to go, just find the dosage that works best for you. For a longer term solution and if you feel ready to do so, I would suggest seeking help/therapy. I dealt with emotional and sexual abuse as a child and there's no way in hell I could develop relationships really in any real capacity without working on myself first. It's one of the toughest things I've done but also the most gratifying and fulfilling. I'm not going to be able to at…	/r/seduction	31/07/22 02:12 AM
1	Are we as men working too hard to get women? Reading through this sub I definitely had a notion that I need to go out and cold approach, but that always seemed like too big of a jump for me with the exception of those rare days I felt amazing. I've toned it down and am taking smaller, more comfortable steps like joining fitness classes, playing softball, etc. and talking to people if I feel like it. When I'm not taking too big of a step and being very forgiving of myself it doesn't feel like work, and I dont fixate on things like the syste…	/r/seduction	15/06/22 06:02 PM
1	7 Things Women Secretly Desire In The Bedroom (BUT Are Afraid To Say) This is great info but the whole "You have to penetrate her mind before you penetrate her pussy" is giving me serious Russ vibes	/r/seduction	23/05/22 04:38 PM
3	I am a giant pussy and I need advice I'd say work on changing your mindset first. -You said the first time was kind of depressing, it wasn't you made progress. -The second time you said you felt like a huge pussy. You're moving out of your comfort zone and talked to more people. Even if you didn't initiate you did more than last time. It's easy to expect huge progress, especially with social media but it's not like that. Be proud of the little steps. You're gonna make mistakes and that's just part of growing. It's easy to overanaly…	/r/seduction	20/03/22 09:37 PM
1	Why is it so hard to believe girls like personality? Personality matters but there's gotta generally be some sort of physical attraction there too. If you're borderline on the physical then sometimes personality can be a tipping point but I believe for the vast majority of people some sort of physical attraction has to be there, then the other stuff really matters.	/r/seduction	12/03/22 10:27 PM
2	Do women treat men with no confidence like shit in general? Unfortunately if a person has no confidence that means that they don't have any love/respect for themselves. It's hard to give someone love/respect when they can't give it to themselves. Also someone with no confidence isn't showing who they truly are so it's hard to trust them. From what I've seen most/all women have had experiences with dudes being crazy and jeopardizing their safety. If it seems like you're hiding your whole personality then that's a huge red flag and probably makes them thin…	/r/seduction	28/02/22 03:23 AM
1	I can't do it, I'm giving up, and accepting this as my reality forever. I'm sorry you're feeling this way, I've been there before not thinking I could do any of this anymore. You're not a failure. All you see are others successes and they feel immediate, while you experience your own successes, failures and they all take a lot of time, everything worthwhile does. It takes everyone a ton of time you just dont see that. Please be kinder to yourself, talk to someone, it will benefit your life and will help you to reach your goals with women too. Nothing is immediate, g…	/r/seduction	09/02/22 02:22 AM
2	How would you guys respond to a girl who previously left you on read but now she wants to hang out? Depends on why she left you on read and how long it took	/r/seduction	07/02/22 03:13 AM
3	What do you think is more detrimental to game - porn or weed? I was still able to make things happen with women while watching porn almost daily up through my mid-20's. Then some things felt off and there was just less confidence. Now I'm in my 30's and I just don't really see myself being able to make both work at the same time, it's either one or the other.	/r/seduction	04/02/22 02:23 AM
1	What do you think is more detrimental to game - porn or weed? Porn is way worse. If I smoke worst case scenario I'm just not making moves for a night. Porn throws me off for a week or two.	/r/seduction	04/02/22 02:19 AM
5	Any regular weed smokers here? Nah, weed enhanced the creative side of me and almost never the social side. If I was confortable around her and we wanted to listen to/play music that's one thing but in almost all other situations it would hinder me.	/r/seduction	27/01/22 09:26 PM
10	Do you think it's harder to attract women if you wank reguarly? Porn is the biggest demotivator but taking that out of the picture doing it once or twice a week seems optimal. Don't want to lose all my drive but at the same time I feel like it's healthy to keep the imagination running and understand more about what'd I would like to try when it goes down	/r/seduction	12/01/22 10:52 PM
1	Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laid I find myself fighting with this but that uneasy feeling I get when asked to do something out of my social comfort zone? The vast majority of the time that uneasy feeling is just an indicator that this is something to improve on. I'm not gonna go from 0 to 100 but a gradual jump in comfort is great, and the more intimidating it sounds the more I will probably gain from taking advantage and involving myself in that social thing that's so scary. Hard to keep top of mind but when I do it's signific…	/r/seduction	10/01/22 11:14 PM
5	I gave her my number! Give yourself credit man, it ain't small, you went out of your comfort zone and grew because of it. Well done	/r/seduction	24/08/21 11:35 PM
1	What is the problem with "just be yourself"? Should be probably be changed to "be the best version of yourself"	/r/seduction	19/08/21 08:27 PM