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Sue her for lying to hr which got you fired. Do it please.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 06:57 PM
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No advice for you OP, just wanted to say fuck yeah I’m happy for you even though you’re an internet stranger. Awesome accomplishments, hope you enjoy the fruits of your labor.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 03:43 AM
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That’s awesome. So you’re halfway there. So lift, eat, and sleep and let nothing else matter. If you have the money hire a good personal trainer to get you some momentum.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 08:27 AM
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I think a post outlining your progress and story would be well received. I’d certainly enjoy reading it. Thanks for the insight.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 08:24 AM
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You can’t change the fact that you’re balding. You can treat your scalp with chemicals that’ll mess with your hormones or surgery which may or may not fix your problem. I think surgery may not be a time sensitive thing as it just moves healthy hairs to the top, so you can worry about that later. But in this very moment you can’t do either of those. What you can do is shave your head or get buzz cut and see how you feel after. You can always grow it back. If you’re a guy who’s got low BF and musc…
/r/askTRP25/02/18 08:16 AM
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Buzz your head to a zero or a one with the clippers. As soon as you do it you won’t care about your hair anymore. After you shave and finish grieving, have yourself a nice workout then a medium rare porterhouse Pittsburg style, with a side of steamed buttered broccoli and asparagus. Then call your family and check in as they won’t be around forever.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 07:57 AM
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I just lost a dog, he was above all, a good boy. We (mostly me) decided to put him to sleep while he was in a lot of pain and required a surgery which was expensive and didn’t have a high likely hood of success. The best I can reason is that we tried our best to save him with the knowledge and resources we had at hand, and you can’t expect anymore from yourself than that. Dogs live in the present, they don’t care about living another year or month or day; they only care that they’re a good dog t…
/r/askTRP25/02/18 01:50 AM
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I’ll start hitting up girls I’m not that into that have given me IOI in the past when this happens. But as soon as I nut I regret it.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 03:07 AM
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Give her pink eye.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 02:50 AM
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Curling with a flat bar made huge difference on my biceps and forearms. Just don’t be that guy in the gym using the squat rack/bench press for curls. I go slow on downward motion explosive on upward. And don’t swing your body to get it up.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 02:31 AM
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I think after enough time your gut bacteria adapt and you stop craving sugar as much. Also your body becomes less dependent on glucose which is good. Good job on the weight loss.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 07:29 PM
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It’s tough but if you can manage keto for a while then slowly transition to fasting it’s doable.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 05:56 PM
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If you can manage keto and intermittent fasting you’ve got my respect.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 05:36 AM
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We texted each other daily over the break then I was rejected afterwards when school started. If you are gonna talk a lot over the break I recommend calling rather than constant texting.
/r/seduction09/12/17 11:17 PM
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The human body is pretty resilient and can overcome a lot assuming you corrected the issue of being obese.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 05:49 AM
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It’s addictive and gave me constipation, don’t do it.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 01:42 AM
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Read the book 10-15 times.
/r/seduction01/12/17 12:50 AM
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You mention that the window can close fast. You’re definitely right, that’s why lately when these situations happen to me I instead say to myself “she likes me in this moment”.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 04:40 PM
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Don’t compete, don’t chase, just be you and do what that other guy recommended. But do it soon.
/r/seduction27/11/17 04:50 PM
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Don’t compete, don’t chase, just be you and do what that other guy recommended. But do it soon.
/r/seduction27/11/17 04:44 PM
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Don’t contact her again, just wait, but I’d just move on. But here’s a good rule, always watch your drinking and be sure she’s drinking more than you. You probably acted stupid without realizing.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 07:25 AM
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Yeah wait till she initiates before setting anything up again.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 10:46 PM
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There's always someone else she's talking to even if you are official. Stop worrying about it and only focus on enjoying your time together. Never bring up being official again imo that should be the girls job.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 02:07 PM
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Yeah that's why I said to ghost.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 01:59 PM
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So many people just say to give up and ghost, she may actually have been busy with stuff. Look when a girl won't agree to meet just tell her to get back to you when she's not slammed then ghost forever unless she contacts you.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 01:14 PM
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What's her mom look like?
/r/askTRP21/11/17 07:04 AM
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That's correct.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 02:46 PM
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She's trying to qualify herself. Keep doing what you're doing, don't get jealous, just associate yourself with fun and confidence. Keep setting up dates and sleeping with her.
/r/seduction14/11/17 09:32 PM
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Lost 100 already with fasting, it's so easy.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 07:04 PM
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Yes! You're right, thanks.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 07:03 PM
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Thanks for the advice and kind words Matty. I'm really excited to drop the rest of this weight. Need to get my discipline in order first.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 04:02 PM
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It's gotten a lot better since I've been losing weight. At this point my not starting back up again has mainly been a matter of laziness. I'm working to get my diet consistent then will start a consistent weights regiment. Baby steps.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 03:54 PM
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Stupid question and I'm sure I'm over thinking this, but how exactly do you scoop em? I hug girls all the time but I'm way taller than them so how exactly do you do it?
/r/askTRP12/11/17 03:01 AM
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Use this pain to make lasting change in your life. Last time this happened to me I lost 100lbs.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 12:12 AM
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I wish I quit in high school. Do it dude.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 11:45 PM
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. This girl wanted you to make a move, you didn't but she still seemed into you. Now you're being indecisive and making shit awkward. Good grief dude cmon man. Next time she initiates texting you setup a definite time and place for you two to meet up, no "maybes" or "something's", be decisive and pick something, act like a man. And next time she invites you to her house, puts her legs on you, and let's you touch her legs, please for gods sake kiss her.
/r/seduction05/11/17 10:10 AM
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She did make it known by her actions outlined in his post, and most girls won't go much further than she did when they like you. You said she doesn't like him because she would of made it known. Do you expect girls you like to ask you out, to flirt with you first, to kiss you first? Girls rarely are going to be overt with their intentions, sure they'll lay hints which OPs girl did, but they're not gonna hang a neon sign around their neck saying " I like you please ask me out". It's up to you as …
/r/seduction02/11/17 05:16 PM
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Okay so she's young and immature and doesn't know how to attract quality guys. So only way for you to cut through the BS and find out for sure is to be decisive and ask her out. Take her somewhere at night and do something active if she can't drink. You have to be the one to ask her out, you have to be the one who goes for the kiss. If she rejects you fine, it's a lot better than wondering where you stand with her. STOP TEXTING HER unless it's to setup a date. Stop talking about negative overly …
/r/seduction02/11/17 04:53 PM
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You say you don't want to be her emotional pillow yet you ask if she wants to discuss her baggage later? Dude your behavior is turning her off. She said sorry for leading you on probably because she felt rejected. Girls won't make overt moves on you, at best they'll drop little hints and you missed the hints. You must be decisive and when a girl acts like this assume attraction and ask her out. You're behaving like a boy not a man. You must stop all contact with her and reset, after a week or so…
/r/seduction02/11/17 02:39 PM
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Fat ugly land whales get hit on, it's nothing special. Maybe she's trying to qualify herself. Hard to tell.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 05:55 AM
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This is what I'd tell my 19 year old self. This is the time for investment, investing in yourself. Lift, focus on having a strong, lean, healthy body. Learn as much as you can, pick whatever drives your interest and absorb it daily. Learn some skills, again find something that interests you and stick with it. Limit video games to a few hours a week and only if those hours involve playing with quality real life friends. Invest in your education or chosen trade, treat it seriously and become a pro…
/r/askTRP09/10/17 01:20 PM
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Take some initiative, a guy who's been rejected will back off usually indefinitely, assuming he has any self respect.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/17 01:31 PM
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Friends and orbiters ask her to play video games, ask her out.
/r/seduction23/09/17 02:56 PM
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She has really high level of interest. Text her and setup a definite date soon. Never beat around the bush.
/r/seduction23/09/17 02:40 PM
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Do girls normally not hold eye contact unless they're interested? I'm a 6'2 300 lb fat fuck and most women will still hold solid eye contact with me. Start small, baby steps. I'm on mobile so can't get you the link but google Corey Wayne social skills. He's got some videos on where to start if you're a newby.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 02:34 PM
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She's acting disrespectful man. I think you should get some distance and only go out once a week.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 08:11 PM
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You must make definite plans. If she's not sure of her schedule tell her you guys can do something another time and try again in a week. Your time is valuable, you're a busy guy who prefers to make definite plans. If same result after waiting s week walk away.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 05:14 AM
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Apply to your undergrad college. It's easier to get it if you're an alumni.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 10:59 PM
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Oh true. He should get braces and stop being a fatty.
/r/seduction16/09/17 10:15 PM
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Yeah depending on how overweight someone is, you may have no clue how attractive they could be. Help that fucker lose weight, maybe he's better looking than you.
/r/seduction16/09/17 09:52 PM
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So he's fatter than you or uglier and fatter than you? Has he even been in the same shape as you in his adulthood? If not how do you know he's ugly and just not ugly because he's overweight?
/r/seduction16/09/17 09:27 PM
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Also, no girl friend zones you, you friend zone yourself. You are not entitled to her affection, as is she not entitled to your friendship. Can you handle being just friends? Would you be okay hanging out with her and her new boyfriends? No? If not and you want out of friend zone then stop being her friend. If she asks just say you're not interested in being only friends and she should get in touch if she feels differently.
/r/seduction15/09/17 09:55 PM
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The whole purpose of dating and spending time with a woman on a date is to build intimacy, comfort and increase her level of attraction to you. In a group she may not feel comfortable getting close to you. It also gives off a friendly vibe which you don't want.
/r/seduction15/09/17 09:26 PM
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Don't do any of this OP.
/r/seduction15/09/17 09:11 PM
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Next time ask the girl out sooner than 2 months. You'll get your answer faster and avoid all this stress you're going through. Don't ask her to homecoming, use this newfound courage and obsession you have over her to ask another girl you like to homecoming. Don't supplicate, don't become weak, she knows you like her and you won't win her over by kissing her ass. Continue to be funny and sweet but move on to new girls. You know what I'm talking about, there's always that girl you think is kinda c…
/r/seduction15/09/17 09:06 PM
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I meant what was the story on how and where you met.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 09:02 PM
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Ok, girls have lives also and can't always drop what they're doing to see you last minute. Ask her what days she's free over the week to meet up. If she gives you several options then simply pick one and offer to pick her up or have her meet you there. Set a definite date, time, and location. Do it at night, do it alone, do something active. I recommend you do mini golf then go to a bar/restaurant close to one of your houses. Don't tell her all your plans fir the night. And limit texting to sett…
/r/seduction15/09/17 09:01 PM
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Never do group dates, at least not until you're in a ltr. Don't do this op.
/r/seduction15/09/17 08:56 PM
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Where'd you meet this girl? How'd it go originally?
/r/askTRP15/09/17 08:38 PM
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You may have felt slightly butt hurt, that's okay but never ACT out of butthurtedness. If that's the case it's good to wait to respond and clear your head. I had the exact same scenario happen to me the other day only to realize she did actually want to reschedule after I went to gym for an hour before responding. If a girl texts you and you don't know how to respond. Respond how you would if you were texting her laying in your bed next to two other naked girls. For me, that's in a way which is …
/r/askTRP15/09/17 07:31 PM
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Your response should of been; " no worries, we can do this another time. What's your schedule look like for this weekend/following week?". Then you leave it and see what she says. If she's giving a maybe I'm free Saturday or sounds flaky still then ghost. If she's absolutely free on a certain day setup a DEFINITE day and time for reschedule. You gotta look at how they're flaking on you. If a girl apologizes, explains why she is canceling, offers a counter day to reschedule, and seems eager to re…
/r/askTRP15/09/17 07:23 PM
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I'm on the path of losing 200lbs which I've lost 100 of already. I've been obese all my adult life and I may do this when I'm finished as I'm sure most people in my past will never see me as the man I'm trying to become, especially the women I've been "just friends" with over the years.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 05:32 PM
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Do this OP. I was in LJBF situation a few months ago and didn't reject it, now I'm stuck in the odd limbo where I just ghost her. I wish I told her no thanks back then, would've saved me a lot of frustration.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 06:19 AM
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Ask for her availability. If she gives shitty answer or maybe this day try again in a week. If she says she's free Monday and Wednesday then say "let's meet Wednesday". You can't just expect her to drop her plans if she's legitimately got something going on the day you demand to go out.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 05:27 AM
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Do exactly this .
/r/askTRP12/09/17 05:22 AM
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I think you've got a lot bigger issues than your dick size.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 04:57 AM
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She's got that pussy hostage.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 05:56 PM
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80% of life is simply showing up.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 12:37 AM
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What sucks is I don't know how much of it's my inner game, or outer game, or looks, or if I'm just shit at flirting and can't detect when they're interested vs. not interested. So I don't know which aspect I should be fixing first. Obviously losing weight is key but if I can fix something minor so I can get laid while losing weight I'd be thrilled. I guess I'm stuck just losing weight and ignoring chicks.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 11:28 PM
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Just go buzz cut 0 or shave it and stop worrying about it.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 05:39 PM
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Thanks for putting the time into this response. I've lost 100 lbs in the last 6 months and when I'm finished I'll need surgery also. I'll keep at it!
/r/askTRP10/09/17 12:56 PM
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Just from a strength perspective.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 12:50 PM
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Yeah oneitus is right, I thought I moved on but apparently not. Gonna ghost unless she's pursuing stupidly hard.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 10:40 PM
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No! Don't do things friends would do, take her out at night and have fun.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 10:32 PM
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"Alright, get in touch when you're free". Then don't text again, wait.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 10:27 PM
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She offered a counter day, which is good, you fucked it up by mentioning that party. If you cannot do Sunday make offers for another day later in the week, you can't expect them to go so far to reschedule. For now I'd say give her some space and reinitiate Monday to get her availability for following week and weekend. Oh and stop fucking texting.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 10:24 PM
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We've known each other a while, she rejected me 9 months ago. I ghosted and stepped back while losing 100lbs. She periodically initiated contact but I didn't bite until recently. I think she was in a state of indecision, assuming any attraction was there to begin with. I did try to force things and was disappointed when she didn't want to leave, "I never agreed to go anywhere, just hangout". But I'll let it go as you said, go back to ghosting, and work on myself.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 10:17 PM
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She was talkative but at same time seemed tired or on her period, like she enjoyed talking with me but at same time didn't want me there. I couldn't get us out of this non sexual, boring, and catching up type conversation. I tried to take on a fun easy going frame but she didn't take. I think I need more of a IDGAF attitude with her while challenging her shit more. She once responded well to me playfully calling her a bitch when she was spewing utter nonsense.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 06:00 PM
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Don't text too much, establish rapport and setup a definite date quickly. Ask her if she's free this weekend to meet up. If she is then offer to meet her or pick her up and go to a restaurant/bar close to your crib to have a few drinks. No daytime coffee meets, don't do things a pal would do like lunch or coffee, nighttime activities that could lead to sex only. Make sure you set definite plans with definite time and place, no maybes or we'll sees, or call me to confirm BS, you must make definit…
/r/askTRP08/09/17 05:34 PM
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I may just wait for her to contact me on second thought. She rejected me LJBF 9 months ago which I didn't accept via ghosting. She started hitting me up a lot recently so I figured I'd give it another go. For me, after a girl rejects me she should do 100% of the initiating afterwards. Thanks for your advice though.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 05:16 AM
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Yeah I need to change how I behave from the get go immediately set the frame, you're absolutely right. I was a bit nervous at first tbh. At first I was sitting in that interviewer position but sat next to her after a bit, but she wasn't having it. I'm not sure she's shy but probably insecure. I need to work on setting and maintaining frame, specifically the charisma aspect of it.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 01:54 AM
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Good advice man. So at this point wait for her to contact me before setting anything up again?
/r/askTRP08/09/17 12:21 AM
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This is my problem, I'm good at getting them to do 80% of the talking and opening up and I'm good at listening and finding good follow up questions but flipping her words, being sarcastic, and goofy banter doesn't come easy. It's usually rare and doesn't escalate or returned by her in kind, I usually just get a look while I hold eye contact and smirk.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 04:02 PM
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You're still her backup. After inviting her 3 times don't do it again. Next time she texts be nice but quickly end it, she'll get the idea that if she wants your attention it's gotta be in person. Stop giving her your attention, it's too valuable to waste.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 03:50 PM
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Don't agree to LJBF OP. If you get that reject it.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 03:46 PM
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Stop texting her, next time she initiates Invite her to have drinks and dinner at your place, make her bring the wine. The only effort you should be putting in here is walking to your front door to let her in. Only way to be sure she isn't waisting your time is to invite her over and escalate till you get an answer.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 03:44 PM
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Thanks, I agree.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 03:34 PM
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I sat next to her once because she wanted to show me something but she got up after and didn't sit next to me again. (Action of disinterest or being uncomfortable). After she got up she started talking with roommate. I left soon afterwards as they were both giving me hints that they're tired and want me gone. I made offer to get food early after arriving and drinks down the street, she declined. "I never agreed to go anywhere, I'm tired, busy all day, want to stay in". ( another action of disint…
/r/askTRP07/09/17 03:20 PM
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Alright I'll wait. Actions over words is odd here, as in my experience girls who aren't that interested will flake when given enough time to do so, that's why I give 3 days at least. Her actions were to not cancel yet she was also boring. Maybe it was just tired/pms or awkward around roommate, I won't rationalize it and just pull back and wait for her to initiate.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 03:02 PM
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For sure, and doing just that has had me lose the first 100lbs and I feel fucking great. She's the one getting into my orbit, and frankly I'd like to get some ass while I'm losing weight.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 01:34 AM
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LJBF, even though it was 9 months ago, and I was a 100lbs heavier, it is the biggest problem. If I had said "no thanks, but if you ever feel differently get in touch" then I'd be set right now.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 01:05 AM
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" I'm not interested in being only friends with you so we cannot continue texting or seeing each other. If you feel differently in the future feel free to look me up." If you have no interest in ever fucking her then just ghost with no explanation, block her if you really mean it. But if you don't want to burn that bridge then send that response. After you send that text you need to walk away and mean it, do not contact her for any reason EVER. If she ever reinitiates contact assume attraction a…
/r/askTRP04/09/17 03:23 AM
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You're full of shit, you still care otherwise why would you be posting here? Stop lying to yourself.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 03:14 AM
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No, men are like dogs, whatever you do to them they will still love you.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 02:57 AM
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Care to elaborate? Curious on your methods.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 01:20 AM
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Stop saying the word "try".
/r/askTRP03/09/17 11:24 PM
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At least she was honest. If you're cool with her fucking other dudes keep her around as a friend, maybe she can make a good wingman. If not then hard next block never talk to her again phantomzone. If you do end up hooking up she must never exceed plate status. She will never respect you if you left her get ltr after leaving you to ride the cc.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 11:23 PM
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Don't like or comment on any of her stuff, her orbiters can handle that just fine. If she asks about it tease her for getting jealous and setup a tine to meet, preferably at night, with boos, and something fun to do close to your or her house.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 11:19 PM
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No. Go learn welding or fishing or basket weaving or something that won't be a useless skill in the next 5 years after that video game's community has died out.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 11:15 PM
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Don't ask if there's "someway" you can see them again. Simply make it clear you enjoyed talking with them, and ask for their phone number.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 11:13 PM
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"Hey it was great chatting with you but I've got to run. I'd love to see you sometime, what's your phone number?" Then go back to stacking fruit or whatever the fuck you do until you get fired fir hitting on customers.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 11:11 PM
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Can you rephrase your question please? I don't follow. Yes, I'm on my third read through at the moment.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 11:08 PM
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Best answer right here.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 11:06 PM
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How come you didn't like my post? I don't spend much time on FB. But you liked X,Y,Z's posts? Aww are you getting jealous? Her behavior is childish, treat her like a bratty little sister.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 10:55 PM
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He shouldn't be taking her to a dining hall in broad daylight.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 10:51 PM
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Ok you need to do things with her that a lover would do not a friend. Would a lover take her to dinner in a dining hall at 630pm? Perhaps, but more likely he'd take her out someplace in the evening perhaps fir drinks. It's your job to lead the interaction to sex, and meeting in a dining hall in daylight isn't a good idea. If things are going good at dinner take her someplace else with alcohol close to your place. From how she responded I'd say she has low interest and may flake. Don't set a date…
/r/askTRP03/09/17 10:51 PM
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I don't think she's serious, just major shit show test. I guarantee she will be back if you keep doing what you're doing. But do you really want someone who behaves in this fashion to come back?
/r/askTRP03/09/17 10:41 PM
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I don't spend much time on FB.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 10:39 PM
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Don't apologize for being cold either. If she mentions it during a date then address it honestly and in person, but don't bring it up unless she does. If you're rejected twice in a row after two weeks of trying to set dates then ghost. If she reinitiates contact then try again but less eagerly. But at that point she is probably just fucking with you. NEVER act cold, it's just butt hurt. You should make your interest clear but at same time you need to come across to her that her rejecting you isn…
/r/askTRP03/09/17 10:23 PM
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You acted butt hurt, girls aren't stupid they pick up on that. It's a sign of weakness and neediness and a huge turn off. Stop texting unless its really short and ends with you setting a definite time with which to meet. Texting kills attraction and is a major source of miscommunication. Do not text her at all for the next 4 days, if she texts you be sweet, fun, and positive. Keep it short and attempt to set up a definite date at either of your places. If she doesn't text you then initiate in 4 …
/r/askTRP03/09/17 09:52 PM
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I have no advice , but shouldn't you always lie about experience when you're inexperienced?
/r/askTRP31/08/17 08:12 PM
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I highlight usually.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 01:39 AM
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Make time don't find it. Wake up earlier Nd cut useless things.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:02 AM
1

Grit
/r/askTRP27/08/17 11:46 PM
1

Ask quality question and try to get them to talk. Let them do 70+% of the talking. Tell them very little about yourself.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 11:42 PM
1

It used to work like that when you could see how many times they played your story. I know girls that watch every story on their snap so it doesn't mean anything anymore. But using story can be useful for showing your value.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 11:38 PM
1

Almost forgot the cardinal rule, good thing I didn't ask. Thanks.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 11:12 PM
3

Here's a comment I wrote on my thoughts behind hair loss from r/tressless. You may find it useful. "Balding can be a turn off, bald or shaved rarely is imo. If you're good looking with hair, odds are you will be without. What can be unattractive is your insecurity about it. The tough part for me was deciding to try and fight for it with fin, min, transplants etc, or accept it and let it go. I respect others decisions in this community but I decided to let it go. The way I see it, at best the med…
/r/askTRP27/08/17 10:52 PM
1

Can you describe ways in which you messed up?
/r/askTRP27/08/17 12:22 PM
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I think it best to answer these in person.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 12:20 PM
1

That's a shitty mission man. Find a better one worthy of your efforts. From what I'm learning, quality women are a result of living an interesting and good life.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 03:55 AM
1

I think the "don't worry someone will come along for you" speech. No, no girl will just come along, you must put in effort and take the initiative.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/17 01:33 AM
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Man stop being a bitch and shave your head, don't get transplants. I can tell you won't look terrible. Just accept you're gonna be bald eventually and get a personal trainer.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 02:23 AM
1

Love that book
/r/askTRP25/08/17 11:29 PM
1

Can you please go more into girl code with examples? Thanks
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 06:38 PM
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Vomit feelings on a girl.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 11:09 PM
1

I can tell you that when on a cut mine gets destroyed even semi ED issues. But it comes back with vengeance a few days eating maintenance. But I have no answer to your original question.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 10:49 PM
1

Any negative effects with that ? Does it impact water weight or anything? I will look into that as even though I'm losing weight like crazy, I can get sluggish at times during a fast.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 08:42 PM
2

I'm not familiar with stacks. I was taking phentermine for a couple weeks but stopped because I felt odd on it. I've been doing keto and intermittent fasting with light walking and calisthenics for the last 7 months. I tried to build muscle while losing but it was too difficult and my fat loss wasn't as fast as I'd need to eat more to get enough energy as I prefer to lift heavy.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 08:34 PM
1

I hope so! I'm working on fat loss now then crazy bulk.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 08:28 PM
1

I'm not a fan of the US meat industry. I'd much prefer to hunt and freeze it for the year.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 03:21 PM
1

Some women get nervous around me. But it's not because I'm some sex god. I'm just tall with a decent amount of muscle, assertive, but also obese as fuck. So it's not nervousness in sense that I have high SMV but rather just a big dude I suppose.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 08:29 AM
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To answer your question, join a sports team. Thank god I did football when I was younger or I'd be a complete lost cause today. Get the fuck out of homeschool. I was homeschooled and it was horrible for me socially. I eventually started attending when I was 14 but by then I had already developed some shitty habits and was behind socially.
/r/askTRP05/08/17 09:58 PM
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Well it may not be for everyone but it's working for me. There is also quite a bit of research that shows contrary evidence to what you're stating. I don't have time to go over it now but if you're interested look into Dr. Jason Fung. He references quite a lot of studies in his talks/books.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 09:49 PM
3

When I say water fasting I am referring to only consuming water and sometimes coffee or tea. Is that what you're referring to?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 09:09 PM
1

Can you go into some extra detail about this friend of yours? I'm losing weight currently but would like to get laid more often.
/r/askTRP05/08/17 06:47 PM
1

Can you explain in what ways you are very masculine? Or in what ways do you think she perceives you as masculine? I am genuinely curious and working to improve myself. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 11:07 PM
1

I'd say I'm in similar situation as you, low SMV, no experience with girls, STEM, shitty self esteem. I'm working to lose weight. I'm fat as fuck at 315lbs 6'2" so I don't know if my face is shit or not. I'm lifting weights but not putting much on now as I'm in caloric deficit. I know how to get big quick so I'll do that once I'm around 15% BF. Keeping myself busy with interesting and useful activities has done a lot to mitigate shitty self talk and self esteem. I don't know if it's just the dis…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 07:55 PM
1

Awesome progress! I'm 26 and in the same boat as you used to be and you're a huge inspiration. I've lost 130 lbs so far with another 100 or so to go. I used to be 450 lbs at 6'2", life was hell. Sometimes I feel hopeless but I gotta keep trucking along. You give me hope man, cheers to your success.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 07:25 PM
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I partake in a keto diet and incorporate intermittent and long term water fasting for weight loss. This shit works, I've lost over 130 lbs since January 17' with little difficulty. If I was at a healthy weight I'd incorporate shorter fasts with more carbs as I enjoy lifting and putting on muscle. It is very difficult to put on mass when water fasting. I would do one meal a day with no simple carbs, I would also do weekend long fasts from time to time to maintain my weight. Look into Dr. Jason Fu…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 11:05 PM
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I'm in the same boat as you but a lot fatter at 320 lbs 6'2" and I've never really noticed any interest from women ever. I don't feel as if I should even bother with women until I'm around 240. Problem is that what if I still feel this way when I'm 240? I think there is a balance between faking confidence and actually knowing you are the shit. I really don't know what else to do right now besides lose weight and read.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 03:52 AM
1

This is the best advice you're gonna get OP. I was in this situation a few months ago and wish I went about it this way.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 10:13 PM
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Being an obese fuck who currently hates life and has no female prospects. That gets me up at 430 am for gym and hiking.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 10:00 PM
1

I'm no expert, but I'd rather have a girl angry with me than bored/indifferent. If she's sending you walls of text she may have caught some feels, but again I'm no expert.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 04:04 PM
2

I've got to handle a nasty case of dermatitis or something I got on my scalp after my last visit to the barber. Once it's cleared up I'm going to go with a buzz cut or clean bald.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 08:17 PM
1

Snap chat and snap streaks don't mean shit, unless she's sending you flirty snaps. The comment on the other hand is something to notice.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 12:39 PM
1

My hair is beginning to thin rapidly and I'm not a fan of those hair loss drugs which may or may not make your dick limp so shaving my head is inevitable. Looking foward to it honestly.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 12:34 PM
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I think you're being childish to ignore. If you ask her out and she gives a maybe kind of answer, just say no worries and for her to hit you up if her schedule frees up. If she contacts you again assume she wants to see you and ask her out again, if she does the same rinse and repeat. If she asks to bring a friend say no, if she says she just wants to be friends say you're not interested in being only friends. I'm no expert but I'm in a similar situation as you and this is what I'm doing. Any cr…
/r/askTRP21/07/17 11:18 PM
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I deleted the apps off my phone and changed the passwords to something long and tedious which I wrote down on paper. I only have one of my computers which I rarely use signed in to social media. It's worked out well for me as I rarely see other people's BS. I generally feel happier as I'm comparing myself to others a lot less, but my monk mode work is slightly less disciplined as I never see my oneitis's posts. But motivation and discipline needs to come from within so I'm working on that.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 05:02 PM
1

This needs to be done asap OP.
/r/askTRP15/07/17 01:29 AM
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Do not ignore her that's childish, but don't be texting her immediately if you're at work or school, appear to have a life.
/r/askTRP15/07/17 01:27 AM
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You might have fucked yourself by looking at your comments. You might be able to fix it if you cut the crappy texting and read the sidebar asap. But it's probably lost cause, but no big deal just move on but be sure to learn from your mistakes (which others have already pointed out).
/r/askTRP15/07/17 01:20 AM
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No don't do that, if she's distant let her be distant, they're like cats. It's gotta be like tennis man, back and forth. Don't ignore her or anything, if she hits you up keep the texting short and try to setup a date.
/r/askTRP15/07/17 01:15 AM
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I was just thinking how r/rateme would give this girl a 7-9/10, that subreddit is ridiculous. I agree with you though.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 06:16 PM
1

So keep losing weight and not worry much about everything else that needs work?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 09:48 PM
2

Well to forget you could block or remove her from social media. I uninstalled all social media apps and am going off the grid for a while. This helped me feel better but progress has slowed. In a way it feels like running away from my problems but idk what else to do.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 08:47 PM
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I have no advice but am wondering the same thing. On one hand it's a great motivator but on the other hand you feel miserable. The last few months I've been using oneitis to piss be off into losing over a hundred pounds. But now I'm letting go of her, I feel happier but my progress has slowed substantially.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 08:38 PM
3

I've been obese and lifting heavy most of my adult life, obesity is an issue with eating too much not exercising.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 02:06 AM
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In college. Job pays shit and need cash for tuition. There's no issue with the lifting.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 10:24 PM
1

I'm similar. I'm insecure about my body and dick size from being obese. So I tend to only want to fuck my oneitis because my mind hamstered that she'd be more open to accepting my pitfalls than random other girls. This is very BP and I know it's bullshit but I can't control when my dick works. Well I cannot fuck my oneitis so I put her in phantom zone and I just focus on weight loss. So you get the same advice most people on here get, focus on working to improve yourself till you have more optio…
/r/askTRP25/06/17 02:25 PM
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Thanks for the well thought out response, I saved it and will read it when I'm feeling overwhelmed. I had trouble landing a job so I will be instead getting my masters degree. It's a very large campus so this may be good for me to get a second shot in socializing and enjoying the college experience.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 12:02 PM
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Do you have any advice for me OP? I feel like we are very similar but I'm a year behind you. Mid 20's, 6'2", 330 lbs down from 450, just graduated in engineering. I'm terrified of my future and what will come of it. The skin surgery, the weight loss, my career, learning to interact with women after a lifetime of them ignoring me and having zero experience. Some days I just want to die, but I've recognized this is my way of wanting to be a quitter and not deal with my problems. I've got a lot of …
/r/askTRP25/06/17 02:30 AM
1

Sugar is not your best friend if your primary goal is fat loss. If you're bulking that may be a different story.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 09:08 PM
1

Do you mean looking for their unicorn like a ltr? What do you mean by unicorn?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 07:47 PM
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I avoid it because yes I have about 0 SMV being obese and depressed, been overweight/obese my entire life. Im losing weight at a rapid pace but seeing social media just makes me feel like shit so I avoid it. Snapchat, Facebook, instagram, I avoid them like the plague now. It reminds me of the life I don't have with which brings about deep feelings of envy, anger, self hatred, and resentment. I don't know if hiding away from the world while losing weight and working on my mental well being is the…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 12:32 AM
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How bad was it your off year when you were fat? Was it tough to get with women?Did you have much muscle when you were 120kg? I'm the same height as you and weigh 150 kg and dropping at the moment. I used to weigh a lot more but have been losing. Never really bothered approaching women at this weight or higher because I didn't see the point since I was so fat. I'm just curious what your experience was when you weighed 120 kg.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 08:15 PM
1

How big were you in your fat stage? Height and weight or body fat percentage.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 06:15 AM
1

Thanks a lot. I'll look into it. I'm definitely more interested in growing edible plants.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 04:41 PM
2

I've been wanting to do this but my patio in my apartment doesn't get much sun as I'm on the ground floor.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 03:08 PM
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I can't give you advice for how to enter an abundance mindset as my body is fucked from being obese so I literally have zero abundance with women. I started doing this little mental technique that helps. I see negative thoughts about my oneitis like paper in the process of being printed by my mental printer. On the paper are the thoughts and negative feelings associated with those thoughts. But the printer is slow, so I yank that shit out of the printer before it's finished and shove it straight…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 01:52 PM
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How do you take steps to kill your ego?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 03:18 AM
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Thanks for the advice. I agree that a lot of my other issues will be easier to tackle once the weight is off. I will continue with making weight loss my only goal. Perhaps incorporate social activities with new people only if the activity assists with weight loss, like hiking or camping. Did you focus on one problem at a time also?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 12:33 AM
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Is it ok to focus 100% on 1-2 things at a time with which to fix? I have a lot of issues: crappy social circle, lack of experience with women, self esteem issues, minor social anxiety, hiding away in my apartment and not getting out enough, very obese, and some issues pertaining to my future competitiveness career wise. I find it tough to focus on all of these at once so I am putting all my effort into weight loss, exercise, and working on career improvement. I feel these things are the most per…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 12:13 AM
1

It seems like most of the advice given is sound, plus the Internet is filled with good information on weight loss. So I'm going to give you another bit of advice, a bit of a reminder post for myself also. I myself have been obese my whole life. I've missed out on socializing, meeting and dating women, and exploring life in general. I wasted my time living in self pity, playing video games, and eating. I'm 26, and I feel like I've missed out on my teens, and early 20s. I've got no experience with…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 03:44 AM
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I have bad habit of dwelling on negative thoughts. Any tips or recommended reading? Actionable things I can do or techniques.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 06:31 PM
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She's obsessed with getting validated by other guys via snap chat. Even if she did like you that isn't the type of girl you want. Take it from me. I had a friend I started liking, we snapped and texted daily for over a month. When the time came I finally found out she wasn't in to me, even though looking back it was blatantly obvious. Unless a girl is sending you flirty texts or flirty personalized snapchats completely ignore any indications other than those you receive in person. You must meet …
/r/askTRP04/06/17 03:47 AM
2

Get out, save yourself.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 03:06 AM
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Do what you want man. I'm in same boat with a shit load of weight to lose and I'm doing same as you ignoring the BS. But if a girl was basically throwing herself at me I'd make time. But do what you want.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 12:11 AM
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Oh man, I'm 6'2 and white, got a lot of muscle, but obese as fuck. You give me hope haha. I'll keep losing this damn fat.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 03:39 AM
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I may not be taking the perfect approach but this is what I'm doing. Completely ignored the women whom I've gotten friendzoned by/became an orbiter to. I convinced myself that as I tackle my biggest issues one at a time things will get better, my life will get better, I have faith although I may be delusional. My biggest issue is being obese as I've been obese since I was roughly 11 years old, now mid 20s. This caused me to miss out on many of life's experiences that others take for granted rega…
/r/askTRP31/05/17 04:26 AM
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Ignore cat, lift.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 03:52 AM
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It's taken a lot of self reflecting. I ate to feel better, as emotional crutch. I also discovered that my weight gain started when I was 4-5 years old shortly after a older boy twice my age sort of sexually abused me. He didn't touch me but tried to do some fucked up stuff with me. I always thought it was nothing but during my weight loss I meditated on that and found it still greatly disturbed me. It brought about this feeling of fear and impending doom. I've been meaning to speak with a therap…
/r/askTRP27/05/17 12:26 AM
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If you've already reached out and she's ignored then don't do it again. If she does contact you don't ask her about it. Maybe just plan a meet and watch how she acts. Fuck texting. I think you not contacting her and withholding affection will show how you feel about her behavior. I think a good time to talk about it would be in person not over phone. I mean this is moving into LTR territory so you do actually need to discuss your issues imo.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 12:10 AM
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Dread sounds like a good idea. In the off chance she actually is really busy, stressed, and being overwhelmed by you and life a little time away couldn't hurt. She may just have found someone else, but she also sounds super busy/stressed also. Listen to your gut and watch how she acts around you. What the other guy said about waiting it out and stop contacting sounds smart.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 12:04 AM
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Hey I played football also, I was 290 then 350 lbs when I played. Ballooned up to 450 but back to 350 now, first time in ten years I've been this low. Have you noticed more interest from women who knew you when you were fat who then saw you fit vs women who didn't know you at all and only saw the fit you? My friend had this dumb idea for me to befriend and purposely get friendzoned by as many women as possible now while I'm still obese and in college. To then later have them see me get fit and t…
/r/askTRP26/05/17 11:49 PM
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I really hope so. I hate myself, I hate almost every aspect of myself even though I've come so far and accomplished so many things I never thought I'd be able to. No matter what I do it's never enough, I love very little of myself and I'm trying to change that now while also losing weight.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 11:38 PM
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I agree, I've only done the water fasts a bit but they're a huge help. I think some old scars I had on my leg are starting to fade whenever I do water fasts. I noticed they get easier the more I do them. I'm getting back into lifting even on longer fasts. It's crazy.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 11:27 PM
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Jason Fung is the man. I'm really into IF, water fasts, and keto at the moment. Crossing my fingers this autophagy magic will help with skin.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 04:07 PM
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I'm pretty concerned over the skin issue. It's not as bad yet and I think it won't be as bad as others I've seen, but I'm fairly sure I'm gonna have a lot of it. I'm worried I'll just be trading in one insecurity fir another, something that will be a deal breaker for a lot of women probably. It keeps me up at night sometimes but I'll cross that bridge when I get to it. It can be disheartening to think no matter how much work I put in I may never have a body I'm happy or proud of.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 05:29 AM
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Wow that's awesome! Thanks for the info and congratulations on your progress.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 05:05 AM
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Wow thanks for the detailed response. I know things won't magically fix themselves. I'm worried about my lack of experience with women and flirting. I've tried in the past but it seems like it's not reciprocated so I stop. I don't know if it's because of the low SMV or if I just suck at flirting. Probably both. But thanks for the advice, I'm looking forward to finally getting this weight off.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 04:51 AM
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Open them and not say anything? I personally don't like Snapchat for this kind of stuff and do not respond unless it's a snap directed at me and not all her friends plus the 6 other guys she's currently talking to.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 12:59 AM
1

Now that you mention it, the fit low BF guys can have shitty patchy beards and still get tons of attention. The women even love their patchy beards.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 12:52 AM
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One last thing. I've been the fat orbiter to a lot of girls in the past. Those of which I realized my error and stoped talking to them. Luckily I spot this trend quickly and end it fast, like the girl which my main post was about. I think she was longest I ever orbited maybe a month max. But anyway, I've nailed this whole weight loss thing and am going from obese to normal pretty damn quick. Other women from my past are starting the same shit with initiating texts and what not. Do I just assume …
/r/askTRP21/05/17 02:47 PM
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Thanks man, I think you're spot on with her. Our mutual friends who once thought she was into me now say the same thing, she just wants my attention. I'll go back to the way things were, where we never talked and I just focused on weight loss. Life was more enjoyable then.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 02:35 PM
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So what you're saying is, her trying to reinitiate texting and whatnot after that party may not be a result of her having a good time but rather her checking to see if I'll still orbit after I gave her attention at this party? I mean the party seemed pretty casual, I didn't try that hard I was just hanging out with mutual friends and her. She asked me to bowl so I didn't plan any of this. It all seemed natural. I don't know if you misread but SHE was the one liking my stuff, complementing, hinti…
/r/askTRP21/05/17 02:15 PM
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Thanks man. I ask because I did a similar thing to OP and had same result. I didn't speak with her for a few months now she's coming back around again. I made a post about it if you want details. Although in my case, I had no good examples of her being interested like OP had besides what our mutual friends observed and us texting daily, which means fuck all imo.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 06:11 AM
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You need to put some conscious effort into improving your self worth and self esteem. I say this because I too need to work on this, and I can see bits of myself in your posts. You will be fine dude. Is there anything major you need to work on to improve yourself? For me it was weight loss and improving my career. Find something and look into books about self esteem and self worth. This girl isn't better than you. Also, if she randomly called you, broke up with that guy, and said she loved you, …
/r/askTRP21/05/17 06:02 AM
1

What would have been proper way to handle this?
/r/askTRP21/05/17 12:31 AM
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Ghost and work on yourself. I'm in similar situation. Good chemistry with this girl, get along great, used to be each other's emotional support. I wasn't good enough, I saw the types of guys who were and it pissed me off to no end. I started losing weight and cutting contact. I've lost a lot of weight and she is trying to get back into my life but I don't want her to, at least not like before. On one hand seeing her reignites that fire to lose weight but on the other hand I feel like shit when I…
/r/askTRP20/05/17 03:18 PM
1

I still have at least another 100 to lose so I don't think she was attracted physically, maybe impressed but not attracted. I'm 6'3" and lost the first 100 in ~4.5 months and expect to lose the next 100 in about 4-7 months. I'm just going to keep doing what I'm doing. Talking to her pisses me off and motivates me to lose weight but it also messes with my head and makes me feel like shit. Thanks for comment.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 09:36 AM
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I've been fat or obese all my teenage and adult life so I've never experienced mutual interest from a woman. I'm currently losing weight and excited to experience this for the first time, but at the same time I'm also very pessimistic that it'll ever happen (fat guy syndrome). Can I ask you a couple questions? What's you height and starting/current weight? How heavy were you when you began noticing interest or changes in how woman interact with you? Any advice for someone who's got a long way to…
/r/askTRP14/05/17 12:26 AM
1

I've been the orbiter before but also similar things happen to me. For example I asked out this girl I knew for a while, she said no and I moved on. But out of the blue she'll start snapping me and commenting on my stories and next thing you know we're texting again and have a dumb snapstreak. I will catch this and stop myself. But it's a similar situation, if you're not interested in me then why do you keep trying to initiate these pointless interactions? Wanting to hangout would be a different…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 11:48 PM
1

It looks proportional to your body to me and girth is average to above average I think. I think you're fine dude. How long is it bone pressed? Just out of curiosity, how tall are you?
/r/askTRP13/05/17 08:24 PM
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Thanks a lot! I will knock this weight off in no time, but I'm pretty worried about the almost guaranteed loose skin. I don't want to trade one insecurity in for another one.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 08:10 PM
2

Can you explain in a bit more detail what about the first guy set you off so much? Simply curious.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 06:32 PM
3

Oh definitely the latter, I'm fat as fuck and invisible. I'm mainly only focusing on weight loss while learning as much as I can on here in the mean time. But thanks for detailed response.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 06:15 AM
2

What if you never get shit tests? SMV too low?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 12:41 AM
1

This is something I have been trying to figure out for some time. I go through the sidebar on a regular basis but I sometimes wonder if I should be doing more proactive learning or if I should wait until more weight comes off (I.e. finding new friend groups and meeting new women even if only platonically). It's difficult to be social sometimes when my self esteem is in the shitter. What I'm trying to say is that I don't know how I should be balancing my life right now, at the moment my efforts a…
/r/askTRP12/05/17 11:09 PM
1

Same here about five months now, except she was a friend first and is somewhat still in my life. I tried to remove her out of my life but she has honestly only brought good to me, done lots of favors, been positive, that sort of thing. It's tough because she hasn't done anything wrong and is as far as I can tell a decent person, all these negative feelings are on me. I know this is a result of not having an "abundance mentality" but there isn't much I can do about going out and getting laid bein…
/r/askTRP11/05/17 08:14 PM
1

Yeah man, fucking 370 down from 450 in January. I'm not really pursing women atm, I don't see the point when I'm so obese. I'm focusing all my efforts on weight loss. I can get away with teasing as I dont really give a shit because I don't think I have much chance at my current weight. It usually results in a smirky fuck you or I hate you but they're not serious. I never get any kind of returned kino or arm punching when giving girls shit so the physical attraction is the issue. I think I'm buil…
/r/askTRP06/05/17 10:16 PM
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I agree. But at what point do you know when looks are "fixed" or at least as good as it gets? I've got a long way to go personally regarding weight loss and self improvement. Just keep working till at 15%? Also, what weight do you guess I should be at for 15%BF ? I'm 6'2", big frame, not sure how much muscle I have but bench around 300, military press 170, I have only gone up to 250lbs on deadlift since it's tough to do when I weigh 370lbs.
/r/askTRP06/05/17 08:36 PM
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Thanks for sharing. For me wanting to change stemmed from rejection and health issues both of which are attributed to me being very very obese. So for next 8 -12 months I'm focusing almost entirely on weight loss. Hoping this will help break the cycle.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 10:22 AM
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I'm 6'2" and went from 450 to 375lbs in under 4 months doing keto diet and intermittent fasting and walking occasionally. I have done a couple long fasts but most were 24-48 hours. Longest I've done is 6 days water fast and Ive done this twice. I wasn't losing strength until I stopped lifting. I'm starting up weights again to see if I can still maintain my pre weight loss strength. You will not gain much strength when at a serious caloric deficit but I believe you can mitigate the losses. For re…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 05:26 PM
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Thanks! It wasn't hard once I put my mind to it. I'll keep at it!
/r/askTRP02/05/17 04:47 AM
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So I should continue to lose weight but escalate and actually attempt kino prior to being morbidly obese? Low self esteem associated with physical appearance has stopped me from progressing further than basic teasing or arm jabbing sort of interactions. I just can't convince myself they'd be into it and not disgusted this fat fuck is hitting on them. Perhaps I should be looking for signals of disinterest rather than the opposite, assume they're open to it. I know this is all sidebar material. Th…
/r/askTRP01/05/17 07:28 PM
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Okay god. Stop pursuing her 100%, no texting or anything and read the side bar asap. You need time to reset after the fuckup. Stop texting her and talking over the phone so much, stop spewing your emotional garbage at her. Your interactions should be fun and lighthearted. Text her on Friday and ask her what days she is free to get together during the weekend or following week and setup a definite time to hangout. If she initiates prior to Friday then ask her then. If she says no or maybe then tr…
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Wait what happened? Did you end up sleeping with her? 3 inches from skin or three inches when you press down to your pelvis bone?
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I notice this also. What's your height and build? Got a beard? I'm starting to notice a pattern with what the fat girls are drawn to.
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