VodkrSodr Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Beware of the man with a female friend/female friends Out of the dozens of straight male friends I’ve had in my life only 2 of them didn’t shoot their shot. They both have a type that I am not. I think that is the only way it can work. They need to have a type and most men don’t . Or they do but they can overlook it when convenient sex is available. Out of those dozens of male friends, a solid 90-95% of them were just keeping me in their orbit. Then went on their way once they shot their shot or I entered a relationship. As for the cool-girl one of…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/22 06:17 PM
165	Beware of the man with a female friend/female friends Exactly. She thinks she the hot vixen when really she is the woman that they will tolerate having sex with when there is nothing better around. Then probably bond with their bros over making fun of her.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/22 05:48 PM
31	Is chasing unnatural beauty standards making women more vulnerable to unhealthy emotional states? Have you experienced this? Please discuss This reminds me of a tiktok I saw. Essentially, criticizing and policing every square inch of your partner’s body is almost exclusive to males in heterosexual relationships. Often bi women notice that their female partners are way more accepting and won’t criticize, or even really notice a little extra weight, c-section scar etc.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/22 05:27 PM
48	I lost track of how many red flags I heard. Dudes really out here thinking we don’t have access to money. If you’re worried about a $50 dinner date, then you are too broke to be in the dating pool. He is in no shape to be in a serious relationship where finances are combined. He is a liability who will need to be carried financially. Broke 👏 ass 👏 bitch 👏	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/22 11:28 PM
24	Straight from the horse's mouth 🗣️ You know, I’ve never had this issue with attractive dudes. They don’t have this complex that they need to bed the hottest woman possible for validation. They don’t have to PROVE themselves to anyone.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/22 11:16 PM
19	Straight from the horse's mouth 🗣️ Most men have dehumanized women in their minds. As you see, there is no real empathy. Not because he is incapable of empathy. Just incapable of empathy for women. Dating/fwb/marriage ALL OF IT, for your basic dude, is just about bedding the hottest woman possible. That’s it. Women are interchangeable to him. He would have been happy to switch his girlfriend out with someone else from the wedding party. He couldn’t, so he flew home in a huff.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/22 11:07 PM
54	The truth about "the wall" 5 years ago I was living in a shack with 4 roommates and shitty towels. Now im pricing out a 4 bedroom house in a high income area, to buy. Definitely do not want to trade places with 23 y/o me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/22 05:44 PM
13	NVM is caught watching porn. Fiancée calls the wedding off and he’s worried about not getting the deposit back. Scrotes and pickmes come to his defense 🤡 It’s projection. They are insecure about their sexuality and performance thus why they watch porn. Buuuuutttttt porn also makes them more insecure because they compare themselves to the actors. The resulting porn addiction makes them unable to perform. It’s a catch-22.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/22 03:33 PM
7	Are most high value women “doomed”? The women who choose to be in relationships that don’t serve them are the one’s who are doomed. If you don’t currently have a have a partner and you want sex, you can always get a fwb. Now, I’ve never done that and I’m sure it comes with a lot of risks. My point being, I see too many women settle into relationships because they wanted a sexual partner. You can have a consistent sexual partner without having a full blown committed relationship where you’re doing wifey shit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/02/22 05:58 PM
71	"sleeping with his best friend is not revenge, they're going to make fun of you" Exactly. They’re criticizing every inch of your body and making their friendship stronger.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/22 09:06 PM
24	You will KNOW when a man wants you as his everything. Because HE KNOWS right away. Although I agree with you, be careful for love bombing. Not all men that “know immediately” are safe options.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/22 12:43 AM
1	The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 47 - CATFIGHT!!! Overcoming Conflicts With Other Women This was a really good episode. I had very similar experiences in the workforce.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/22 12:38 AM