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Vofz/r/askMRP17/01/23 03:49 PM
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Basic QuestionVofz/r/askMRP20/04/23 10:45 AM
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Vofz/r/askTRP23/11/20 09:16 PM
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"She emasculates her men" That's the word I was looking for. Suspected that she's trying to emasculate and humiliate me like she does to her bf, she might have a thing for doing that. I always thought "shes just a plate, I just fuck, who cares". But getting emasculated obviously should never be tolerated, no matter what.
/r/askMRP17/01/23 05:58 PM
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Yes I know that, and that's the point. She can do her thing and I'm fine with being a side guy/plate. But I can't stand that shes telling me unnecessary lies and think she's playing me.
/r/askMRP17/01/23 05:16 PM
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It's true that I care about what others think, which is a horrible trait. But it's also true that no one likes to get possibly cucked so I had to get out of it.
/r/askMRP17/01/23 04:42 PM
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True, at first I didn't care since the one getting cheated is her bf and what she does isn't my problem. What triggered me was thinking she might think she's laughing at me and playing me like her bf. I don't know if I was wrong about that assumption but I rather be wrong than have some ho think she's cucking me like she was the shit.
/r/askMRP17/01/23 04:36 PM
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Great advice, thank you. I definitely struggle with putting myself first and saying no sometimes. Will read and work on it.
/r/askMRP17/01/23 04:24 PM
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I don't want anymore that's why I dropped her like that. At first like an idiot I thought I could ignore all the red flags until it got too annoying, not worth the fucking I have a lot of guilt though, she said she caught feelings and would leave her bf for me (Id have to be damn near insane to make her my gf) so I feel very guilty for dropping her like that. Most of her texts are telling me she's feeling horrible. But who can trust a serial cake eater cheater
/r/askMRP17/01/23 04:06 PM
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Broke #7 rule for sure. Prolly more
/r/askMRP05/11/22 08:09 PM
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Im sorry it read that way. I admit I was excited and shookd last night cause I wasn't expecting things to turn in my favor like that but the situation is garbage like you said. Now thinking more clearly about it I did a lot of dumb shit like spending too much time with her after fucking treating her like a gf and talking too much.
/r/askMRP05/11/22 07:11 PM
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That's what I thought at first. But knowing how vindictive and petty she was after the breakup, I'm not sure if its just a bait to make me thirsty so she can reject me since I had the final word in the breakup and I know she hated that. I don't know if I'm being paranoid though, it's hard to trust that hoe.
/r/askMRP04/11/22 06:12 PM
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She already cucked her bf with those texts she sent me and she calls him the love of her life. She's that type of crazy. Not gonna lie tho she's a lot of fun although goofy af. And she's a sex addict, there wasn't a time where I didn't fuck or at least got my dick sucked when we saw each other. We were fwbs for 4 years on and off but then we got serious and I dumped her and she has been on revenge mode since then. Hope she gets over it soon.
/r/askMRP04/11/22 12:27 PM
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Bruh I had her blocked since the breakup. I already dated other women and my ex knows about it. Shes the one that contacted me from a fake number. Why shes trying so hard to get a reaction from me when I just been ignoring her ass and she has a bf (clearly her plan worked. Ill admit that). But well at least I resisted responding. I felt too tempted to say something humiliating and make fun of her for contacting me from a fake number while having a bf. But youre right I shouldnt care, back to not…
/r/askMRP04/11/22 04:54 AM
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That's your insecurity talking. You don't feel enough for her so you think you have to be a dancing monkey to get her attention Guess what? There are guys who she'll be into from the very start, and they don't have to put any effort. She's just atttacted to them. If you aren't one of them then don't waste time and focus on yourself. Simps don't understand this and think they have to try harder. That shit is emasculating. If a chick isn't into me from the start I move on. Already learned the less…
/r/askTRP20/05/21 12:18 AM
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I didn't say that. The shit you're doing is feminine as shit tho You don't have to show affection and give free validation when you haven't even fucked her. That's what beta orbiters do. Keep doing that and you'll just friendzone yourself. How do you show affection? By giving her some of your time and attention, but so far she hasn't even earned that. Just set a date and stfu, you don't have to do extra shit. If she's attracted she'll follow regardless, if not then move onto another bitch.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 11:43 PM
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Whatever bitch. Stop compromising your manhood and frame for some bitch, they just get turned off.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 11:19 PM
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"Pistol whippin these simps for being petrified and lame. Disrespecting the game, praying for punishment and pain". - 2Pac U gotta be trolling bitch.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 10:53 PM
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I believe so. If you lack empathy like that, how is she going to feel safe with you? Unless she's incredibly confident and independent (and maybe a bit masculine), I don't see how a bitch would stay with a guy that shows 0 empathy.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 09:33 PM
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That bitch doesn't want to fuck you. This happened to me exactly with a bpd chick She's just lovebombing you (telling you whatever you want to hear and sending nudes, etc) to manipulate you so you stay orbiting her All that body image shit is just excuses to not fuck you. That bpd chick used to tell me "I really want to be with you but I don't feel I'm good enough for you. Just let me get my self esteem right" It's all bullshit. She sounds like she has bpd
/r/askTRP19/04/21 08:17 PM
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They're not a lot tbh. Some came back within the first 3 months. 2 came back after a year.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 01:12 PM
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"I feel like she's going to think that I really don't care" That's exactly what you want when she mentions other guys or tries to make you jealous. If you show jealousy, she's going to get worse with the shit tests Why do you want to prove this woman that you care about her? You're just going to fuck your frame up doing that. Never compromise your frame. Your frame and manhood is always #1, no matter what. And I don't think your response was good at all neither, made you sound insecure imo. I wo…
/r/askTRP17/04/21 08:33 AM
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My nigga Bette never left.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 10:28 AM
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I only ghost women who play games or are disrespectful. Ghosting for no reason is shitty as fuck imo, just cancel the date
/r/askTRP07/04/21 10:18 AM
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Why is it better though?
/r/askTRP05/04/21 04:34 AM
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In my case this is what happened Typical shit, caught feelings and started acting beta and she obviously noticed and took advantage of it. I ghosted her and she came back telling me she wants to see me and that this time itll be different and whatever By this time I was feeling like a retarded orbiter for tolerating all the disrespect so I thought what's more important, regain your power and balls by rejecting this bitch or her pussy? So I told her I'm no longer interested (even tho I still was)…
/r/askTRP05/04/21 04:27 AM
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Didn't do it for attention or as an ultimatum. She disrespected me so much I felt that telling her to fuck off or rejecting her was the only way to regain my balls and dignity. Thats how I felt at the moment, Idk anymore
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:14 AM
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Right, I absolutely hate burning bridges but she did some more shit that I was already compromising my self respect too much. I was feeling like a legit orbiter and couldn't trust her for shit anymore. Felt like the only way to regain my respect and dignity was to reject her or tell her to fuck off. Not trying to vent but when someone is abusive and makes you feel like that it's better to burn the bridge no?
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:06 AM
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It will pass, those mistakes don't define you. Guys with oneitis tend to act super creepy and needy because they're in their feelings and are too emotionally invested in that girl. Be thankful now you're more mature and self aware. Now focus on self improvement and raising your SMV and stop giving a fuck about what people think of you.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 11:40 PM
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No bro but my question still stands as a general RP question regardless of what chick
/r/askTRP28/03/21 01:57 AM
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Already stopped bro. Thanks.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 12:58 AM
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I'm trying to be cold like you bro I appreciate it
/r/askTRP04/03/21 08:16 PM
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I used to orbit haarrd. Now she mad because I stopped and is doing this to put me on orbit again. I am waking up, brotha.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 06:33 PM
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Havent even fucked tbh. Shits pathetic I know
/r/askTRP04/03/21 06:05 PM
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Havent fucked lol. Sorry to disappoint
/r/askTRP04/03/21 06:04 PM
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Why would a chick disqualify herself and reject a guy with high SMV (or rising SMV as you said)? Not saying you're wrong, but it sounds interesting.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 07:06 PM
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Examples of healthy carbs? Srs question, I'm shit at nutrition. Thanks
/r/askTRP28/02/21 03:18 PM
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Gotchu brotha thanks
/r/askTRP28/02/21 07:26 AM
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All I'm going to say is they are unbelievable. It took me 1 year to recover my self esteem and confidence after dating a narc. If you fall in love with a narc/BPD it's going to drive you insane.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 07:12 AM
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Don't be too nice to cut off an insecure narcissist. His friendship doesn't benefit you at all.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 09:23 PM
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You're probably depressed or have low testosterone levels tbh
/r/askTRP16/02/21 07:29 AM
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Didnt read but nofap doesn't work for everyone Recently I did nofap for 2 weeks and the second week I wasn't getting erections and feeling like absolute shit and my balls got smaller, like my testosterone levels dropped hard. I stopped nofap and everything is back to normal after a few weeks Not saying I'm against it, I've heard it has the opposite effect on others, I'm just spreading awareness that it can go wrong for some like it happened to me.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 07:56 PM
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Watch AMS video "never let your kindness be perceived as weakness" He talks exactly about this
/r/askTRP07/02/21 08:06 AM
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Not just that dude, theres a lot of other factors, believe that
/r/askTRP30/12/20 12:08 AM
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You already fucking, why send nudes? Just so she can compare when someone with a bigger cock sends her a dick pic? Think long term, youll regret that shit
/r/askTRP29/12/20 11:51 PM
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Fuck no bro, her BPD is what made me dump her. I don't miss being treated like shit at all. Really I don't wish a BPD chick on my worst enemy. How did you know she has BPD tho. Didn't even mention it
/r/askTRP24/11/20 10:39 AM
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Not oneitis, I literally finally feel at peace and like I moved on. I just wrote all that stuff because I got asked but like I said in the op, I didn't want to go into all those details
/r/askTRP23/11/20 11:16 PM
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Cause we have friends in common and I have her on whatsapp. I didn't mention this because I didn't want to make this all about "why she isn't blocked?". Cause that's exactly what she wants. She wants me to block her to feel like I'm hurt and she won. I've been completely reactionless since day one I used to call her ariana as an inside joke (no one else calls her that). Recently I posted a story and right after she saw it, she got as profile pic a picture of ariana grande blowing a kiss with the…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 09:37 PM
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What does "chill" mean in this context? That she was cool/mature about it or that she was cold and vindictive? English isn't my first language my bad
/r/askTRP07/10/20 01:12 AM
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Because I wanna know if I don't care due to being clueless and autist but in reality I'm supposedly a loser for getting played? I know how annoying a question like this sounds
/r/askTRP18/07/20 06:04 PM
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Demislayer?
/r/askTRP18/07/20 12:14 AM
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An ex.. best option? What tf are you smoking
/r/askTRP18/07/20 12:09 AM
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I'm trynna fuck bro
/r/askTRP17/07/20 02:41 PM
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2 months though lol. She'll keep asking
/r/askTRP17/07/20 06:12 AM
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Bad trolling
/r/askTRP27/06/20 01:16 AM
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I know this is the best thing to do I'm aspie and start overthinking trying to understand what tf some of these hoes actions actually mean. I just want to know what she's trying to do and move on
/r/askTRP26/06/20 11:15 PM
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If she get attached then I'm goin on the run - Future
/r/askTRP26/06/20 03:32 AM
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I get butthurt when I get ghosted too, but that's my point Why do we care? That's just ego. Why do you care a bitch doesn't care about you? Unless you have oneitis for her A girl thinking she won hurts you so bad?
/r/askTRP25/06/20 03:48 PM
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Why do all that instead of just ghosting her? Isn't that something women would do just to protect their fragile ego? It may even sound try-hard and butthurt. I'm just wondering though. Your method might be legit and my assumption wrong, I don't know
/r/askTRP25/06/20 03:42 PM
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This. She went from wanting to get fucked to wanting to be saved as soon as she saw you have money. She wants you to see her as wife material instead of the hoe she is. Feel.bad for the captain save a hoe simps that fall for that shit
/r/askTRP25/06/20 12:28 PM
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She lives like just 10 minutes drive away lol Why?
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:59 AM
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The fuckdd up part is that I'm not even thirsty but I can see how it can seem that way It's just that we have been talking for a long time. Just wanted to tell bitch whats the point of texting if we aint gonna meet?
/r/askTRP25/06/20 08:17 AM
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Thanks dude And yea I think the profile pic is actually a good sign. If she didn't care why she has had that pic for 2 days now lol. She mad and trying to call my bluff I think
/r/askTRP25/06/20 08:05 AM
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Bro we have been talking for a long time, she even has flaked on me. She has told me she can't meet me because she doesn't feel enough for me or because she has low self esteem (basically "it's me, not you") She has told me multiple times to please give her more time Isn't that playing games?
/r/askTRP25/06/20 07:04 AM
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Honestly I thought the same way as you bur I saw this fucking StephIsCold video where he says to straight up telling bitches stop wasting my time when are we going to meet up? Smh
/r/askTRP25/06/20 06:30 AM
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If she doesn't respond I can't text her again after telling her there's not much to talk lmao Really may be a huge shit test? She also changed her profile pic to a pic of Ariana Grande blowing a kiss. (i call her ariana. Inside joke ). I know it's directed at me like telling me fuck you. Which means I probably hurt her ego or at least is mad which means she cares
/r/askTRP25/06/20 06:02 AM
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What if we have been talking for a long time? Felt like shit was a beta bait just to keep me orbiting
/r/askTRP25/06/20 06:01 AM
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I don't know what you mean (I'm kind of aspie tbh) But I know this hoe, she's really good at manipulation and throwing beta baits. I thought she wanted me to tell her "oh I'm going to text you more often from now on" or something like that
/r/askTRP25/06/20 05:48 AM
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Lol most dudes have fucked an ugly bitch. Stop being so sensitive Arnold Schwarzenegger is the ultimate alpha and he impregnated an ugly ass bitch while being able to get 10's
/r/askTRP25/06/20 01:05 AM
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Why do you say that?
/r/askTRP23/06/20 06:37 AM
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In high school looks don't get you anywhere? Lmao In HS looks alone can get you lots of pussy.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 02:30 AM
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"like you’re bitter that your ex and her bf hooked up" Lmao so what? Is he supposed to feel nothing just because he's redpilled?
/r/askTRP22/06/20 08:01 AM
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I would do it, who cares fuck it. But who knows, if his game is as good as you say, she'll probably stay with him lol
/r/askTRP22/06/20 06:36 AM
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I didn't see it as a weakness but now that I think about it she definitely could see it as one and use it against me, you're right. Thanks
/r/askTRP21/06/20 08:08 AM
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Yep . Thanks
/r/askTRP21/06/20 07:09 AM
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Everything you said sounds legit but I was thinking maybe shit wasn't that bad since I've fucked her lots of times so I wasn't just a fuckless orbiter
/r/askTRP21/06/20 06:39 AM
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How do men get "alpha widowed" by females (apart from being the hottest girl they had or losing virginity to them)? I'm asking because I've seen lots of dudes here that have oneitis for girls they haven't even fucked. Or guys that have oneitis for girls that aren't the hottest girls they've fucked.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:40 AM
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Couldn't agree more. I tend to overthink and go full aspie with the hottest girls I can't think clearly and get in my feelingz. I'm sick of that shit tbh
/r/askTRP15/06/20 11:04 AM
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I know I thought the same thing but said fuck it I'm gonna test her (mistake cause it's online) but the thing is I already fucked up, so I can't go back and tell her "Noted". Now that I done goofed what should I do?
/r/askTRP15/06/20 08:58 AM
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Yea op sounds like one of those depressed incels
/r/askTRP02/06/20 08:45 PM
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Not trying to insult you but this is the most pathetic shit I've read. Shit you sound like an insecure woman
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:40 PM
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Okay sugar
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:29 PM
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AMS MJ Getright and StephIsCold are great channels too, they helped me cure my oneitis srs.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 03:18 AM
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That text screams cringe and butthurt. Holyshit save yourself the embarrassment please
/r/askTRP02/06/20 03:15 AM
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Look up in the sky it's a bird it's a plane What's that niggas name? Captain save a hoe mayne More faster than a speeding bullet to put on his cape
/r/askTRP02/06/20 01:54 AM
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Telling sarcastic jokes on text can easily be misunderstood. I would avoid that unless I really know the other person. You definitely put her on a pedestal and treated her like she's the prize, that's why you're saying all that crazy shit trying to impress her. You don't see yourself as the "prize", that's your problem. Been there when I had low self esteem. Work on yourself.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 06:59 PM
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Bruh You apologized Told her you're thirsty Validated the fuck out of her 3 big beta mistakes Wtf were you expecting from that? You're just putting yourself in the orbiter zone. Also, making jokes on text don't work most of the time, especially sarcasm. Don't do that.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 06:29 PM
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"when you first start to draw boundaries and practice selfishness after several years of being programmed towards people pleasing and codependency, you will be triggered to experience feelings of guilt or the "villain" archetype. Ignore it and proceed anyway"
/r/askTRP01/06/20 02:55 PM
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"and now you think you can save face by keeping her around. This is all ego." On point. That is all. Be careful op, obsessing/overthinking about shit like this can lead to getting oneitis.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 02:42 PM
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If she was so offended she would have blocked you immediately. That bitch just wants drama. She can't do shit. Just ignore her completely, don't even block, nothing.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:32 PM
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That break affected your game and/or your social skills. You'll get it back with time.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:18 PM
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She won't initiate shit even if she's interested. For her to initiate she would have to be very attached to you or desperate. Ask her out or don't text her at all. Why you trying to be her texting girl friend for?
/r/askTRP31/05/20 06:15 PM
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Texting kills attraction faster than a beta ready put on his cape to save a hoe.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 10:40 AM
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I've double texted some lil' hoes and I ended up fucking. But then they assume you're always going to double text them like a beta so they start playing games with that shit so I don't do it anymore. Treat her like a queen and you shall be left on seen.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 10:34 AM
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Lmfao. Ahhh the Brad Pitt test.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 10:30 AM
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Any man that catch feelz is going to do retarded BP shit. I've done way, waaay worse shit. "I couldn’t believe that I was so forthright and kind, and still got disrespected like that by a girl that I cared about." You were being a nice guy. What did you expect? They're repulsed by nice guys. Treat her like a queen and you shall be left on seen. Oneitis is a mans #1 enemy when it comes to this shit, always remember that.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 10:25 AM
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In english I can see it looks butthurt but in spanish I said "Si no puedes darmelo, no hay nada de que hablar por aqui" In spanish it doesn't sound like that butthurt srs Edit: and it wasn't even an ultimatum, it was more like if we aren't going to do what we have talked about, then what's the point of keep texting? There's nothing else to talk about. Just being honest, no butthurt ultimatums
/r/askTRP31/05/20 05:57 AM
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I mean she has told me she wants to suck my dick and very explicit stuff. I heard Patrice Oneal and Mj getright that you should be direct with this shit but Idk, just feel like experimenting since I have no fear of taking an L here
/r/askTRP31/05/20 03:21 AM
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You think he has no game but he most likely does The reason he gets laid more than you is because you ask questions like these and he doesn't, aka he don't give a fuck
/r/askTRP31/05/20 01:13 AM
1

What did you do that you had to apologize? Right now I'm in a situation where I feel like I have to apologize to a chick but I feel that my need to apologize is because I'm still a bluepill nice guy
/r/askTRP29/05/20 03:43 PM
1

Lmaoo them oneitis cases. Shit sad bro. At least you fucked her. A lot of guys have oneitis for girls they have never fucked, now that is sad as hell
/r/askTRP28/05/20 06:56 AM
5

I know how it feels, you can't even recognize yourself. You're still depressed. As long as you're depressed and have low self esteem, you're going to feel lost. And yes, "it" will come back dude
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:42 AM
2

I went cold turkey on some girls 27 days ago, including my oneitis. The first weeks it was hard as fuck, I was worried and scared as shit Now I don't care if all of them lose interest. Doing this made me realize I can be much more stronger than I thought and I'm feeling more confident than ever.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:02 AM
0

Does it seem like I'm also dramatic and playing games or are you just talking about her? I'm a bit aspie, my bad
/r/askTRP27/05/20 01:10 AM
13

"So i tell her { I owe you a hug , I could see that you got upset yesterday } . She responds with { Ye , you were so mean to me } . So i give her a bear hug and lift her up. I look deep in her eyes and say { I know you want me }. She responds with semi - irony { Ye , you have me easily } . Then she says that I am scaring her like that ( common pussy tingles shit test ) to which i respond that she should be more afraid of what i am going to do to her later." Idk man.. for some reason this made me…
/r/askTRP21/05/20 03:45 PM
4

What are you smoking son
/r/askTRP21/05/20 12:05 PM
9

Juicy J - Funds up (this song is literally nothing but red pill after red pill non stop. Most RP song ever imo) J Cole - No Role Modelz Freddie Gibbs - How we do Too Short - Blowjob betty Aaron May - Im good luv, enjoy UGK ft Outkast - Intl players anthem Eminem - Superman AMG - bitch betta have my money
/r/askTRP21/05/20 11:54 AM
4

Girls cheat on guys they're really into too. It's bluepill to think otherwise. A woman can "love" you and still fuck a high SMV guy that made her pussy tingle on the side. That's one of the reasons most RP guys aren't into LTRs. It is what it is.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 01:28 AM
4

No one is stopping you from being a girls' girlfriend or gay best friend, go ahead if it's fun for you dude
/r/askTRP19/05/20 11:50 PM
3

"Rodman experienced an unhappy childhood and was shy and introverted in his early years. After aborting a suicide attempt in 1993, he reinvented himself as a "bad boy" and became notorious for numerous controversial antics. He repeatedly dyed his hair in artificial colors, had many piercings and tattoos, and regularly disrupted games by clashing with opposing players and officials"
/r/askTRP19/05/20 09:48 AM
2

How is that a comfort/shit test when you said she kept flaking and lost interest? If anything that was a beta bait and you fell for it.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 03:00 PM
1

Wait, did you even fuck her?
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:22 PM
3

You pimp. You can't take it back now so just own it and act like you don't give a fuck.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 12:57 PM
1

Nvm, I misread your post and thought you had acted butthurt. She'll definitely come back around.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 12:44 PM
1

It's not that bad, you can easily recover from this. But yea, oneitis is going to keep fucking your shit up. I act like an insecure weirdo when I have oneitis.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 12:13 PM
20

Because your situation is unbelievable to hear for any man that has self respect.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 12:08 PM
13

Most dudes will cheat with a hotter chick given the opportunity, especially if that motherfucker has high testosterone (which every man should have). Don't lie to yourself.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 11:52 AM
3

Lol you're overthinking this
/r/askTRP18/05/20 06:25 AM
2

Coronavirus isn't an excuse to become an orbiter. My oneitis texted me 17 days ago and I haven't responded and I won't until I can ask her out. You ignore her and call her when you can meet. Are you scared she'll lose interest if you don't give her your non sexual attention on the phone like her orbiters?
/r/askTRP17/05/20 10:27 PM
1

You went wrong when you put yourself in the orbiter zone. Why are you talking on the phone knowing you can't meet? Fastest way to friend/orbit zone yourself.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 10:22 PM
4

Maybe if you had already fucked her. But you haven't so you're just an orbiter and what she's doing to you is disrespectful.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 06:59 PM
2

I've done it but eventually fucked it up because I couldn't control my emotions with her. How I did it was by improving my SMV and acting indifferent/aloof, she literally started chasing me but I was faking all that acting-aloof shit and eventually started feeling insecure/emotional again and ruined it. I've been ghosting her for 2 weeks now and my feelings for her are going away. I plan to text her when quarantine is over, let's see what my ghosting did. As for now, ghost her and improve your S…
/r/askTRP15/05/20 11:16 PM
2

"However, where as YOU are nothing more than a fleeting nicotine kick from a single drag on a Newport, Chad Thundercock is a black tar dopamine rush straight into the veins." Why don't you just tell him he's an orbiter lol. Some of you guys sound like yall have cuck fantasies and could write novels about it.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 11:11 PM
7

Dude all I see is motherfucking red flags. You need to dump her NOW. Fuck your feelings for her, you need to have self respect and dignity, this shit is just sad. Listen, even tho she already has done a lot of fucked up shit, you still can walk away with dignity but you have to do it NOW. Just dump her before she cucks you and dumps you and you become extremely depressed and feel like the biggest bitch ever. When this happens your self esteem is going to be 0 and it's very hard to recover. Do yo…
/r/askTRP15/05/20 07:54 AM
7

Lol what. I thought tiktok is some irrelevant ass shit? It's not like it's onlyfans.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 06:32 AM
37

This nigga said "my mortal enemy", I'm crying. I'm sorry op, not making fun of you.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 04:27 AM
1

I don't know if this helps but this happens to everyone. Even AMS (alpha male strategies on youtube) talks a lot about mistakes he did in the past that made women lose interest in him You take it as a lesson and move on.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 12:56 AM
21

Let's just be friends.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 12:20 PM
3

How are you going to cut her off for something like that? Lol that's nothing. She probably felt disrespected and wanted an explanation (obviously don't give one now) The fact you're here asking means you like her a lot. If you cut her off for something so stupid, you're going to regret it a few days later
/r/askTRP14/05/20 01:26 AM
1

I thought tren would make you feel more confident and DGAF mentality. You're getting jealous for no reason imo
/r/askTRP13/05/20 07:36 AM
11

So you think she's losing atrraction because she forgot to text you good morning and didn't call you tonight? That's all you said lol. You sound needy mayne
/r/askTRP13/05/20 07:25 AM
2

What disrespectful things she used to say to you?
/r/askTRP13/05/20 01:56 AM
3

Man that was beautiful, I'm going to screenshot this as a reminder. You're 100% correct
/r/askTRP13/05/20 01:03 AM
12

This happens to me when I have low self esteem, I can't even recognize myself Also when I isolate myself too much I start feeling like that, even though I like being alone I don't know what may be causing you this, maybe you're stressed the fuck out. Working out it's a must if you aren't already. Also meditate. Laughing/doing fun shit helps a lot too.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 01:23 PM
3

Send her flowers every week and text her everyday you can't wait to see her. Make sure your texts make her feel special so she doesn't forget about you. Nah, so you're talking about a tinder match? You don't even know these hoes lol. Simp.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 10:06 AM
9

Of course he's not alpha, but he wants to make sure YOU are alpha so he can submit to you. But like I said before, I can tell you're already in your feelings, so yes, unfriend him everywhere and ignore him. If he comes back begging, just tell him you're not interested but be polite so you don't sound butthurt. Game other guys to create abundance and forget about him.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 10:00 AM
19

He's shit testing you trying to figure out if you're alpha enough for him but it sounds like you're catching feelings already. You're developing oneitis for him. Hard next.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 09:31 AM
24

Captain save a hoe
/r/askTRP12/05/20 07:37 AM
30

Only if she knows it's not true. Example: you're too unavailable or blatantly ignoring her ass and she confronts you about it, you tell her some like "come on you know I miss you". Feed her scraps. But if you have oneitis and just want to dry some pussy up, go ahead and be emotional with her. Tell her you miss her like a nice beta guy.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 04:37 AM
1

Some girl string me a long for a long ass time by telling me she doesn't feel enough for me and my blue pill ass believed all that shit. Only reason I believed her is because I have way higher SMV than her and she knew I can do better tho
/r/askTRP12/05/20 04:07 AM
3

It's hard isn't it? I have oneitis too, it sucks But this is what it's all about man. Telling her your feelings = taking the blue pill Moving on = taking the red pill Do what you want man but if you take the blue pill you are probably going to feel worse than you feel now, but that's just my opinion
/r/askTRP11/05/20 06:03 AM
1

Bro I already was doing that texting game but it gets old and boring after a while and she just kept making excuses I couldnt keep doing it forever, I felt like a simp orbiter
/r/askTRP11/05/20 05:16 AM
7

Yea I know exactly you mean bro. I asked because all my oneitis have been toxic bitches. Now I wonder if that toxicity is what makes us obsessed
/r/askTRP11/05/20 04:35 AM
1

Of course I like her and she tells me she likes me too. The thing is we haven't even fucked and she keeps telling me to wait for her because she has low self esteem and she's afraid she's not "enough" for me (my SMV is higher than hers) If I continue to text her basically I'm her emotional tampon/orbiter on my way to the nice guy friendzone. At least this is what TRP says, no?
/r/askTRP11/05/20 04:22 AM
-1

Because I fucked up or because she's a waste of time?
/r/askTRP11/05/20 04:12 AM
1

How does she treat you?
/r/askTRP11/05/20 03:22 AM
-13

Oneitis didn't read
/r/askTRP09/05/20 05:41 AM
4

If you're " emotionally disconnected" to her as you said, then why you wrote all that and asking for advice. Sounds like you got bored of her and dumped her. What else? I don't know what type of advice you're looking for
/r/askTRP09/05/20 05:15 AM
1

It could be a tease or she could see him as an orbiter
/r/askTRP08/05/20 05:16 AM
2

You sound butthurt as hell, especially if you tell her that "No wonder you're single. So needy" shit
/r/askTRP08/05/20 05:03 AM
1

Being left on seen isn't disrespect. Sometimes it's just a shit test
/r/askTRP08/05/20 04:15 AM
1

You have a lot to learn dude. You're just going to embarrass yourself like a pathetic butthurt beta bitch. Move on, why the fuck you care so much.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:52 AM
1

Why do you feel bad? Lol wtf you should feel indifferent, not bad
/r/askTRP07/05/20 02:34 AM
3

The thing about just texting is that you're just giving all your non sexual attention for free and that can put you in the friend/orbiter zone real fast. Texting kills attraction fast especially if you haven't even fucked her. I would wait Edit: the IOIs and flirting you mentioned don't mean shit, she could be saying the same shit to other guys just to entertain herself and keep orbiters around. Please don't fall for the beta bait, it's embarrassing.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 12:46 AM
3

I cringe when dudes say shit like this on here. Simp
/r/askTRP06/05/20 09:18 AM
0

Gotdamn have some self respect dude. I've done it tho.. now I know better.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 04:03 AM
1

There's always going to be someone "bigger, smarter, richer, funnier than you.". What's your point? You don't know the guy or his SMV. I don't know why some of you always try to put guys down saying passive-agressive shit.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 03:18 AM
3

Sure simp
/r/askTRP03/05/20 10:36 PM
9

Lmao can you imagine acting beta as fuck and the girl still want to be with you? Is that even possible? Unless you're a millionaire or a 10 I guess
/r/askTRP03/05/20 09:47 AM
0

What beta things exactly you do or say?
/r/askTRP03/05/20 08:17 AM
1

Act butthurt or complaining. I always feel extremely embarrassed when I do that.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 07:41 AM
1

Really I sounded feminine? Shit that's embarrassing. Won't even bother trying to recover frame
/r/askTRP03/05/20 07:22 AM
1

Haaaahaa you like shemaleeees
/r/askTRP03/05/20 07:16 AM
1

Doesn't telling her you don't want to waste time make you look butthurt? I just told some girl "You're just playing and I don't have time for that" and I instantly regretted it. Feel like I got into her frame, shoulda just ghost.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 06:31 AM
3

19, catholic. México.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 06:26 AM
2

Yea just told her she's just playing and I don't have time for that, which I regret telling her since I looked butthurt, should had just ghost.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 06:06 AM
5

Heavy facts x2 I do believe lil' hoe is a virgin as bluepill as it sounds but still fuck her wanting to make me jump through hoops and shit like she's above me.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 05:30 AM
1

I'm not interested in taking someones virginity but her being a virgin made me think she needs comfort or reassurance that she isn't going to be a pump and dump
/r/askTRP03/05/20 04:01 AM
20

Because betas allow it.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 03:51 AM
18

She was trying to be funny and failed but that was all. Yes you should had treated it like a joke.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 07:17 PM
1

Shit tests are really nothing dude come on. Now if you were talking about tolerating the slightest disrespect then okay
/r/askTRP02/05/20 06:19 PM
2

Whats wrong with reciprocating to your ltr? I mean I'm not saying one should go full beta but aren't you treating her like a plate? I thought that isn't good for ltr.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 09:30 AM
4

Bro I hope you're trolling. Just know that shit was never going to work anyway, it doesn't matter if you did everything right. Those goofy online relationships always end like that. Lesson learned now time to move the fuck on.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 08:40 AM
6

Do what you wanna do dude, just don't fall for any validation seeking beta bait.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 05:59 AM
2

What she said? Have you fucked her? If not most likely she wants to know if you may be interested in being her orbiter.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 05:56 AM
1

Simpin' ain't easy.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 05:54 AM
11

This. Imagine being an orbiter in 2020. Ain't that sad.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:47 AM
1

You initiated your post responding to your question lol Simps simps simps.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:31 AM
5

Ams says to send that "have a productive day" text but he's like 40 . Don't say stuff like that if you're younger imo
/r/askTRP01/05/20 09:57 PM
2

Why would you reach out to her only to tell her you don't want to see her again? Lol that just screams butthurt and it won't work, matter of fact you'll only look worse to her if you do shit like that. Just move the fuck on dude
/r/askTRP01/05/20 08:56 PM
1

I mean with girls that still show interest I move on. Had they lost all interest then it's much easier to just say fuck it.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 08:39 PM
1

Loooool
/r/askTRP01/05/20 04:11 PM
5

He asked how to do it over phone or text during lockdown, so I assume he ain't fucking.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 11:01 AM
-1

Cringe dude. Don't you see it was a beta bait? I could see it a mile away. Why the hell would I entertain her which is what she wanted.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 05:18 AM
5

Sounds legit but you contradict yourself. First you say "never validate her", then you say "one day you love her".
/r/askTRP01/05/20 02:53 AM
26

I'm the same. The difference between a high interest and a medium interest girl is crazy. I can't be fucked with non high interest girls anymore. They also gonna play a lot of games, flake, make you wait like an orbiter, etc. It's not worth it imo.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 01:16 AM
18

What gives, literally another girl just did the same thing "Her: Hola de nuevoo (hi again) Have you missed me? Jajaja" LOL I can't believe it. I guess quarantine got these hoes thirsty as fuck for validation. I won't even open the message and leave her on read.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 12:20 AM
3

Don't apologize to women, they don't even give a fuck, trust me. I've done it thinking they would appreciate it and they don't give a flying fuck, they actually take it as weakness.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 12:14 AM
1

That was just great
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:14 PM
3

Nothing wrong with feeling happy if a girl you like text you. Redpill doesn't mean you have no feelings When a girl I like text me I'm happy, but I'm not going to tell her that, I keep that emotional shit to myself. A bluepill nice guy would text her back "I'm so happy to hear from you!! " Or some corny shit that is going to scare her away. Unfortunately you can't be that nice with women, unless you want to be friendzoned or become an orbiter.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 09:01 AM
8

Nah man you're acting like this shit should be easy. No one here says that just because you read about TRP now you're automatically redpill or alpha. It takes balls and a lot of work to kill the beta side of you. It's up to you. Most people don't want to put in the work, it's much easier to stay bluepilled.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 08:16 AM
9

Lol that's some fucking bullshit. You just don't have any balls. Go send that bitch a needy text.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 07:47 AM
14

Lol you're fucked. Everyone knows you should have a masculine frame even when you're sleeping. Hell, even when you're taking a shit you should hold masculine frame. You're a weak bitch. Nah, it's normal and most of us lose frame from time to time even knowing all this RP shit. Just don't do it around women you want to fuck.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 03:48 AM
2

It's not about being detached or being cold, it's about having abundance mindset.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:05 AM
3

Some chicks are really good at manipulation. If they are interested in you, just know they'll try anything to get that validation from you. Some manipulation tactics these hoes have used on me: Are you mad at me? You don't like me anymore?:( What are your intentions with me? You know what? I don't like you anymore Or send you selfies where they look hot as fuck Everything is just fishing for validation. The moment you give it to them, they'll start treating you like a beta bitch. Your bluepill s…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 12:12 AM
2

Do those people you ghost ever contact you or they just move on?
/r/askTRP29/04/20 11:55 PM
3

When texting I treat everything she says as a beta bait, and I don't fall for it. Which means I won't be giving validation or compliments over text at all. The only thing I take serious when texting is when we make plans to met. Anything else is a beta bait to me or an attempt to make me an orbiter.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 11:26 PM
4

There you go. Not gonna lie tho the joke made me lol
/r/askTRP27/04/20 07:30 AM
2

Sup 21
/r/askTRP27/04/20 07:23 AM
6

Sounds like you got salty. What's up with that playa? And tbh there's nothing wrong with what she did, that shit is called 'next', and we do it too. You should be glad she didn't try to waste your time like you were an orbiter.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 07:19 AM
1

This def helped me. Thanks dude
/r/askTRP27/04/20 05:58 AM
9

What?
/r/askTRP27/04/20 05:57 AM
1

Great advice tbh. Is it still corny if I just say "Nahh but you're just playing and no one got time for that"? I mean I'm not even trying to sound alpha lol, that's just how I feel about it
/r/askTRP27/04/20 05:12 AM
-2

What? I call every girl a hoe, and sometimes they need to get checked or they'll keep doing their fuckery or lose respect
/r/askTRP27/04/20 05:06 AM
-1

Funny but it won't work if you knew the whole context. This hoe needs to be put in place without looking butthurt
/r/askTRP27/04/20 05:03 AM
12

She sends those nudes to other guys, she even told you that. Good riddance, she most likely wanted validation or make you an orbiter.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 11:06 PM
1

What a great post, had to screenshot it
/r/askTRP26/04/20 10:07 PM
1

Really? Do you think you can develop oneitis from needing approval from a girl that destroyed your ego or something like that?
/r/askTRP26/04/20 08:54 AM
1

Damn brotha that was beautiful
/r/askTRP26/04/20 07:20 AM
1

Forget my advice since it got downvoted. Since you're fucking her and she's showing good behaviour give her a little more attention and feed her scraps.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 04:10 AM
2

This lol. If you keep doing that she'll want to seek validation from someone else.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 02:00 AM
2

Too much porn or low testosterone or maybe you're gay or asexual
/r/askTRP26/04/20 12:17 AM
-1

Shit test, don't fall for it. If it was a comfort test she wouldn't be planning to rent a room for you to fuck her.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 10:03 PM
1

Thanks bro
/r/askTRP25/04/20 09:40 PM
2

Haven't fucked her but she has sent me nudes and voice messages saying some sexually explicit ass shit. I don't know why any girl would expose herself saying shit like that on audio so I'm confused
/r/askTRP25/04/20 09:35 PM
2

Bro you were 100% right, I had to maintain that asshole frame. I felt so guilty that I lost a bit of frame and tried to act too nice to her and now she's bitchy again. Lesson learned, better be an absolute cold asshole than nice.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 06:54 PM
-1

Fuuck she just texted me "so finally you respond" I know u don't give a fuck about that but thanks for checking me about acting like a weak bitch.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 07:08 AM
0

Not apologize for a late reply, but for acting like an arrogant douche like you said. And we can't even met due to quarantine
/r/askTRP25/04/20 06:49 AM
1

Man I have friends that I'm 100% sure they respect me, that make jokes like that or even worse about me and I do the same thing with them and I respect them. You're overreacting.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 05:16 AM
3

Lol bullshit. And yes they would do that on Johnny Depp if he was fucking her but acting like he don't give a fuck about her. Girls do that to guys that don't care that much about them. This girl that was absolutely obsessed with me, extremely clingy and needy was always trying to make me jealous because she knew I don't give a fuck about her. They do that out of desperation for your attention.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 05:11 AM
7

Lmao I don't even think that's disrespectful. Can't you take a fucking joke? Now if they were calling you idiot or shit like that then okay. But they implying you were fapping was kind of funny tbh, I don't see the big deal
/r/askTRP25/04/20 04:04 AM
13

This and nothing else
/r/askTRP25/04/20 03:14 AM
1

Disagree. If it's too much for her and it's actually hurting her, it can get to the point she cheats out of desperation and/or trying to ease the pain.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 07:05 PM
8

Nothing you can do other than pretend it didn't happen, start ignoring her (unless she talks to you obv) and act like you don't give a fuck. You can recover your frame by doing that but still I wouldn't recommend trying to game girls at work. Like they always say here you don't shit where you eat
/r/askTRP24/04/20 05:43 PM
15

Being direct and genuine is the opposite of nice guy behaviour. As far as compliments, they sometimes work and sometimes they don't, at least for me. I've complimented girls and fucked them the same week. I also have complimented girls and they started acting like huge bitches and tried to make me an orbiter.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 03:59 PM
44

There's nothing wrong with your approach and if it works, why would you be missing out on something? I bet that by "nice" you don't mean showering girls with compliments, being too available, being a pushover, etc, which is what acual "nice guys" do.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 03:43 PM
1

Feel you brotha. Oneitis is some sad shit.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 06:36 AM
27

It's much better to have her worried than bored
/r/askTRP24/04/20 05:36 AM
2

Um no, that's smart. Getting mad and insulting him would be weak
/r/askTRP23/04/20 03:33 PM
15

Of course it's good wtf are you smoking But she must be low SMV if she's scarcity? I mean even some landwhales have orbiters and big egos Or maybe you're better than all her other options Either way all hoes are hypergamous so don't get too comfortable and stay on game always
/r/askTRP23/04/20 06:04 AM
2

This or she's trying you to give her validation?
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:09 AM
1

Thanks for clarification bro
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:51 AM
1

What does that mean? English isn't my first language. Didnt get the metaphor
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:42 AM
0

You're saying I acted like I have abundance, or that I need abundance?
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:35 AM
7

To be fair no one said I was right, they just said I got kind of lucky because it could have ended much worse
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:14 AM
4

Yea I'm gonna take it easy from now on. Funny thing is I've pulled back hard before and it didn't work with her. When I did it she actually pulled back harder.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 05:16 AM
1

I guess you didn't watch Narcos México, Rafa Caro had strong oneitis too.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 10:50 PM
1

Thought you were gay Pacho. Does TRP apply to your gay lovers too?
/r/askTRP21/04/20 10:12 PM
4

LMAO She friendzoned your ass and you continued trying to fuck her. That put you in her frame automatically and you looked thirsty and desperate. And don't try to make things sexual over text if you haven't even fucked the bitch, let alone send her nudes, let alone after she REJECTED your ass. The way you deal with the friendzone is by not dealing with it at all, you just move the fuck on.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 07:59 AM
19

THIIIS I caught feelings for an insecure girl and I ended up with low self esteem and became insecure myself They will get defensive for ANYTHING and try to make you feel as miserable as they are. They take everything personal and seek revenge. They are cold and cruel as fuck. TRP don't even work on some of them. Their insecurities makes them act extremely masculine.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 07:32 AM
-1

Her: I'm making brownies!! *Sends pic * You: I don't give a fuck lmao
/r/askTRP21/04/20 04:15 AM
2

Everyone here knows this. The problem is when guys get oneitis they forget everything, shits sad as fuck.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 03:29 AM
1

It's not that hard. Just ask yourself "am I going to say or do this because I want to be liked or because I want to?". Always put yourself first and never compromise your manhood/frame for no one.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 02:36 AM
1

Didn't read everything because it screams oneitis. You think you we're being alpha but you acted like a pussy scared to make a move. What is that shit about "being mysterious with my intentions about her"? This is why she got bored and friendzoned your ass. Also never reveal your bodycount bro. Edit: you didn't even met her? Dude why even bother LOL you can't win online. Even if you do everything right it's not going to work.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 02:03 AM
2

Awww you're her best girl friend now. I bet she badly needed one to entertain herself during quarantine Stop being a bitch and contact her when quarantine is over.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 01:03 AM
2

First you have to make her sexually addicted to you
/r/askTRP20/04/20 02:22 AM
10

Read the sidebar 350 times and lift. And don't you fucking dare to send her a pic of your bottle of wine, she won't give a single fuck. Just thinking about it makes me cringe. Don't even text her.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 12:25 AM
6

So you think what you say doesn't matter at all? Basically you're saying "I'm going to say the most beta, pussy-drying shit I can think of and if she's attracted she'll say yes". Saying shit like that over text can dry a pussy real fast and get you in the orbiter zone. If you haven't fucked then just text for logistics.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 11:36 PM
9

You're telling a bitch you haven't even fucked that you want to kiss her lmao, that's validation If you want to "test" if she's attracted to you, you just ask her out. If she's attracted she'll say yes. No need to be flirting over text to find out if a bitch likes you. We aren't dancing monkeys over here.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 11:20 PM
9

If you haven't fucked you have no business sending texts like that, you'll just look corny as fuck and you're giving her validation without her having not done shit to earn it. That's how you become an orbiter or friendzoned. If you want to know if she's attracted just ask her out and set a date, nothing else.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 11:08 PM
18

"Its going to cost you a kiss to keep sending me these hellos" Cringe at that goofy shit bro. Don't ever say shit like that to anybody, especially if you haven't even fucked her. You'll just look like the creepy thirsty orbiter, which is the worst kind of orbiter.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 10:46 PM
29

My guess you're shy or very serious which makes other people feel awkward
/r/askTRP19/04/20 10:42 PM
1

Hey man this sounds very interesting but could you please explain it in simple terms? English isn't my first language, I'm not good at getting metaphors in english. I'd really appreciate it.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 08:31 PM
1

Cialis is the shit. No side effects and the effect lasts like 36 hours. Surprised you never heard of it.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 06:48 AM
0

Being on your mission is number one priority. But then explain all the guys who are on their shit and still are beta simps getting cucked by losers who don't got shit going. Playing the game and using manipulation just means you understand female nature and use it to your advantage.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 01:00 AM
1

That just means you learned the game and it became natural to you. If you're succesful with women that means you're still on game, otherwise you would be treated as an orbiter or the typical nice guy. And all that doesn't explain why is it "wrong" or "childish" And I said having a mission is #1 priority. No one is denying that.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 12:22 AM
2

Exactly. Lol at the guys saying "I don't play no games". What the fuck? If you don't play games you're fucked. Fucking faghots feeling bad about using manipulation tacticts when that's the whole point about having game. I guess their simp ass don't mind getting played as long as they're being nice honest guys
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:26 PM
1

Why you got butthurt and delete it?
/r/askTRP18/04/20 05:14 PM
1

This. He wouldn't be calling this a shit test if he actually fucked her. He wants to know what to do next time. Bitch probably was screaming in laugher it's small and cute as she was leaving.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 05:11 PM
2

Lol at the amount of guys on here wanting to use the quarantine as an excuse to simp online. Go ahead and game girls online. Just remember you have everything to lose and nothing to win by just texting.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 04:50 PM
2

So you have a creepy past because you looked at some tits?
/r/askTRP18/04/20 08:12 AM
4

Boxing. Burpees. Sprints
/r/askTRP18/04/20 07:55 AM
2

How you were creepy?
/r/askTRP18/04/20 07:18 AM
1

I have a cousin that has noticeable acne scars and always has had fine ass hoes and is very confident. He's been alpha his whole life though.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 04:10 AM
3

It's only confusing and annoying because you caught feelz. And guess what? It's only going to get worse. And guess what else? The more you're available and texting her, the more she'll lose attraction and respect for you. And since you caught feelz you'll start acting like a bitch and fuck everything up. I can already smell the pussy-drying neediness.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 02:38 AM
7

Look up in the sky it's a bird it's a plane What's that niggas name? Captain save a hoe mayne More faster than a speeding bullet to put on his cape Nah, why not keep fucking her? Your situation sounds pretty easy tbh.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 01:36 AM
0

Judging by that interaction you come across as arrogant and annoying imo.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 12:03 AM
1

You can't be serious. No it's not beta, but thinking like that it's beta.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 12:01 AM
1

I know, I was very aware that it was the wrong move and just had to accept that I fucked up and stfu but I got emo and wanted to save face no matter what LOL. Oneitis. And I don't even have tik tok nor the time to be into that shit. The bitch sent me the video on whatsapp. It's still sad I took the bait tho.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:42 PM
2

And what is the purpose behind this? If it's for attracting hoes online then none of that shit matters, just be attractive.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:48 PM
1

True, it's a very butthurt way to try to recover. But still it was funny to see how she still tried to confirm my validation by asking "So you don't think I look good?". Fucking disgust me how desperate they're for validation.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 03:46 PM
1

"LOL no, I've sent this video to all my orbiters".
/r/askTRP17/04/20 03:27 PM
-1

It was a beta bait. She was acting extremely arrogant after I complimented her, that's why I told her that, not just because she posted my message.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 02:45 PM
16

But what the fuck is the sidebar? The answer is yes, unless you want her to lose attraction and respect for you. This is basic shit. Tell her your feelings and watch how she starts disrespecting you and turns into a huge bitch. This doesn't mean you have to act like a cold sperglord though, just feed her scraps. Save your feelz for yourself.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 08:44 AM
5

Duh
/r/askTRP17/04/20 08:29 AM
11

Duh. Attention and validation. Duh. Duh.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 08:25 AM
1

If you can't achieve your revenge you will become frustrated and obsessed with it and have a harder time moving on. I know it hurts but shits not worth it at all.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:59 AM
110

You're just wondering if your oneitis will care if you ghost her after she disrespected your ass. Don't you.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:22 AM
5

In cases like this you're never direct. You're basically telling her "I'm butthurt because I'm attracted to you and you don't give me the attention I want from you. Please like me more". Withdraw attention and improving SMV is the only thing you can do.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:11 AM
1

Lol I responded with the latex line and she knew I said that playing and not butthurt. Like I'm not going to do what you want but you're still going to suck my dick regardless. She responded with "but I want to play with you :(" The advice yall gave me is legit too though.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 08:57 AM
1

That's black and white autistic thinking.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 06:48 AM
3

Thanks bro, I needed reading something like that right now.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 06:23 AM
1

This one apparently hasn't lost interest yet. But I know it happens. Why is that though? Is it because it makes you look low value or too thirsty?
/r/askTRP16/04/20 06:19 AM
2

True brotha. I recently send some dick pics and I regret killing that dick mystery. Will never send D pics again.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 06:14 AM
2

This. I'm proud of my body too but I never post shirtless pics or wear tight ass shirts. It's much cooler when you take off your shirt and she's all surprised and you act like it's nothing lol.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 06:06 AM
1

We all still take Ls from time to time even knowing all this shit. Now you know what to do next time.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 04:27 AM
4

This is going to sound too simple but everytime I feel like I'm about to lose my frame I tell myself that I don't want to be a butthurt faggot and just based on that I try my best to keep my composure.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 04:07 AM
6

Lol what the fuck? No, you don't have to be a beta simp to be in a LTR, that actually is going to ruin your ltr. You can't treat a ltr like a plate though obviously.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 02:37 AM
4

Sounds good if you're already fucking. But if haven't fucked yet sounds like thirsty validation
/r/askTRP16/04/20 02:18 AM
4

Lol. Was thinking "I hope you like the taste of latex then" basically saying I won't download your stupid game
/r/askTRP15/04/20 11:43 PM
0

Strategy sounds good brotha. They the ones texting me tho. I ain't texting no lil hoe daily.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 08:04 AM
4

"said she expects a text at midnight so Ill do it no big deal. Im gonna text her at like 12:15 to seem like im not waiting for the exact time midnight hits." LOL this dude a troll for sure
/r/askTRP15/04/20 07:36 AM
10

Yes you should. Women don't give iois to men they don't find attractive. Forget them pua faggots and whatever you read.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:34 AM
3

I don't care about seeing some tits and pussy. I explained why I was going to do this experiment in the op. Can't met any girls during this time anyways
/r/askTRP15/04/20 04:42 AM
1

Why not wanting to be an orbiter makes me a simp? My english ain't that great so I don't know if your comment was sarcasm
/r/askTRP15/04/20 04:16 AM
4

Don't do it in front of any women period
/r/askTRP15/04/20 02:37 AM
6

You're wondering if you have oneitis because you've been obsessively thinking about her and what she may be doing? Yes
/r/askTRP15/04/20 02:13 AM
3

Ask her for nudes. This texting-only quarantine I aint playing around, if a bitch don't want to send me nudes I'll assume she wants me to orbit and I'm gone.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 01:18 AM
1

Yes but even if they don't like you they'll still want to be with you. Look at Floyd Mayweather and Dan Blizerian I'm sure some of their hoes can't stand them
/r/askTRP14/04/20 10:38 PM
12

You already know what to do when hoe comes back.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 10:23 PM
4

I may be wrong but the way she responded I think she's subconsciously telling you to please don't become a beta pussy because she actually likes you.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 09:49 PM
1

Dude unless you're embarrassed of what you were doing or it's going to make you look like a fag, tell her what you were doing. It's your ltr ffs. Telling her what you were doing won't make you lose frame. Leave the "don't explain yourself" thing for more important shit. Don't act like a cold ass sperglord over meaningless shit.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 08:37 AM
3

"I don't want to talk a about it" sounds too drama queen and butthurt for such a simple question imo
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:56 AM
1

LOL she is that dumb. She literally thought Future was going to be her beta simp.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:19 AM
3

Disappear and improve your SMV. That's all.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 06:56 AM
1

If you like her, why the fuck not getting iois or having fans would be a bad thing? Are you a cuck trying to get her another dick? You have nothing to complain about from what I see, you're actually lucky as fuck.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 06:53 AM
3

She probably has lots of orbiters sending her nudes and now you're going to be competing with them on some unecessary shit.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 06:12 AM
4

Depends how you begged? Did you say Pleaaase babee don't leave me I need youuuu Or something like that? If you did you're fucked. But if you just told her something like " I still like you and don't want to end things", then just disappear and she'll probably come back And yes frame can be recovered depending on how bad you fucked up though, I've done it more than a few times.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 05:58 AM
4

Freddie Gibbs - How we do AMG - bitch betta have my money Too short - Im a player
/r/askTRP14/04/20 05:37 AM
10

J Cole - No Role Modelz is a redpill anthem Too Short - Blowjob betty Aaron May - Im good luv, enjoy (name of song is what Future texted a model when he nexted her for trying to play him. Look up the screenshot) UGK ft Outkast - Intl players anthem
/r/askTRP14/04/20 05:18 AM
1

I'm so paranoid about beta baits that I'd probably think it's one, but I don't know your relationship with her so only you should know how to respond. Maybe I would have responded "call me when you are in town then" or something like that.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 03:18 AM
1

Lol even ugly women have orbiters online.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 03:10 AM
2

Just keep ignoring it completely.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 01:06 AM
9

Have you been living under a rock? All girls have betas orbiting. Everybody knows this.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 12:55 AM
2

We always talk like that always. We never talk anything serious, just sexual flirting. And she's in fact kind of nuts. Depressive, low self esteem, kind of antisocial (she doesn't party/drink and has a tiny ass social circle) But she's cute and I think she has a cool personality despite all that shit. But still I don't want to be no orbit so I was unsure of saying anything else.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 05:39 AM
2

Doesn't matter if you're quarantined. Talking too much is boring and kills mystery. Give her time to miss you.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 04:49 AM
13

I've definitely recovered lots of times. What I do is just disappear and they come back. But it depends. The way I've broke frame is by being needy, too available, giving unecessary validation and tolerating disrespect (nothing extreme though)
/r/askTRP13/04/20 04:16 AM
49

Damn brotha that was beautiful. I'm going to screenshot this as a reminder.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 04:10 AM
2

I'm like you, still learning, but from what I can see yall are talking too much. You sound too available. 4 hours on facetime? Are you trying to be her girl friend bro? Be more unavailable or become her orbiter. Nudes don't mean shit, in fact some women lose interest after that, it kills mistery and shit.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 04:00 AM
1

Nah I live in a small city in Sonora, which is controlled by a cartel that doesn't tolerate any crime/violence against civilians, so you never hear of cases like that here but still the fear is still there.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 10:28 PM
0

I told her that I deactivated my facebook and that I'm not interested in using it anymore. She sent me nudes last night.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 10:08 PM
3

Your aspirtations and food taste and you haven't even met the bitch? Come on mate When you ask them out and they say no or change the subject, you move on. Don't think that trying to make her like you through text or making them laugh will help. That's actually fucking your shit up. Ghost that hoe.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 08:21 AM
1

Entiendo, entiendo hermano. Muchas chicas pueden ver eso como creepy, es verdad.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 08:14 AM
2

No me gustan las redes sociales, simplemente no es lo mío. Prefiero conocer mujeres en persona y solo dar mi whatsapp. Cuando conozco chicas por internet es cuando me empiezan a pedir toda esa mierda de facebook, etc Saludos vato
/r/askTRP12/04/20 06:41 AM
13

When meeting girls online social media is extremely important where I'm from (México). Shits fucked up here, women and girls getting raped and killed everyday. That's all you heard in the news before the coronavirus, literally every day. Women are scared here, even if your SMV is high I can understand if they don't fully trust you unless you show a lot of social proof and even if you do some of them just don't trust nobody, which is understandable here
/r/askTRP12/04/20 04:26 AM
44

LOL that's fucking extreme dude
/r/askTRP12/04/20 02:26 AM
7

A girl recentlt asked me for my FB and I told her I don't have and she was like what? Then she asked again, really You don't have one? And I said okay I do have FB but I don't use it. And she's insisting on giving her my fb. Now I fucking regret lying about it. I never give a fuck if they think something wrong because of that but I got weak for this girl and didn't want her to think I'm a weirdo or something. Shit.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 02:11 AM
4

Feed her scraps. Remember being alpha or redpilled is not about being a sperglord robot. Many of us have made the mistake of confusing things and start acting like sperglords thinking we're being cold alphas.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 02:04 AM
2

Already had responded but that will be helpful in the future. Thanks for the advice bro
/r/askTRP12/04/20 12:58 AM
1

Lol I'm too late, already responded this: Let's see if when you have it in your mouth you don't feel like doing more Also quoted her crying emoji telling me it was a joke by saying "Lol don't think I was offended cmon" All in spanish though. Then she asked to set the date and if she can lick my armpits. Da fuck lol Anyways thanks a lot for the advice, reading these harsh comments definitely really helped me. Grateful
/r/askTRP11/04/20 07:54 AM
1

She just contacted me and said she was playing when she called me joto Should I say I wasn't offended and that I was playing too or act like nothing happened? And then she said another thing that kind of sounds like a shit test: "I'll just suck your dick, we won't fuck ok?" (She has told me before she's a virgin. She's 19. Who knows) I think of responding "getting my dick sucked is my favorite thing anyway" I don't wanna sound desperate for pussy.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 05:49 AM
1

She just contacted me and said she was playing when she called me joto Should I say I wasn't offended and that I was playing too or act like nothing happened? And then she said another thing that kind of sounds like a shit test: "I'll just suck your dick, we won't fuck ok?" (She has told me before she's a virgin. She's 19. Who knows) I think of responding "getting my dick sucked is my favorite thing anyway" I don't wanna sound desperate for pussy.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 05:49 AM
1

Feel like there's nothing to win from texting anyways but gotchu brotha
/r/askTRP11/04/20 01:39 AM
1

Agree. Thanks for the reply
/r/askTRP11/04/20 12:37 AM
1

Already l know I fucked up. Was talking about how texting should only be for logistics, at least anything else is unecessary
/r/askTRP10/04/20 11:56 PM
1

Over text both can be the same thing though (beta validation), don't you agree? When texting you don't really have frame and the other person doesn't know your tone no matter how you say it. Now I'm sure texting should only be used for logistics, anything else can be beta bait or end in a shitty misunderstanding
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:14 PM
1

Tru My frame is so weak right now and my self esteem is so low that I feel tempted to double text her to tell her I was being sarcastic and didn't know she was going to take it serious I know that's a bad move but now I feel desperate to save face and not look like a butthurt fag
/r/askTRP10/04/20 04:29 PM
12

Posts like these are a wake up call. This thread made me realize I have extremely low self esteem and that's why I've been actually acting like an insecure faggot and I know that's not me. I'm going to have to recover my self esteem to be myself again.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 03:55 PM
3

Nah I'm so glad I posted this because I feel like this shit woke me up Not long ago I got out of a very toxic relationship which ruined my self esteem, which is what is causing these problems. Before that relationship I never had issues like this because my frame was strong as fuck. The most important thing I realized from all the advice I'm getting is that I need to recover my self esteem to feel like myself again. I can't even recognize myself these days but all I know is I'm not that weak bit…
/r/askTRP10/04/20 03:38 PM
1

Yea I needed some tough love. Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 03:23 PM
6

A few years ago I used to not give a fuck about anything, never get butthurt/emotional about shit and dealing with women was easy as fuck. Then I got in a relationship with an extremely toxic woman and developed oneitis and I let her ruin my self esteem. The way I've been acting with women lately makes me realize I stil haven't recovered from that relationship. Man, interacting with women is a lot of fun and so easy when you have a strong frame. My new low self esteem made me a bitch.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 03:20 PM
-3

And is it a big deal to lose one chick? Her masculine attitude turned me off anyway.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 12:50 PM
3

Submissive feminine women are not that hard to find where I'm from. This is the most masculine girl I've talked to.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 12:44 PM
-8

I know sending nude pics is retarded but I know it's one of the reasons she keeps coming back despite failing several shit tests before. I have her nudes too
/r/askTRP10/04/20 12:20 PM
5

That's what I thought, I mean I didn't say anything passive-agressive or disrespectful to her. I don't see the big deal about how I responded.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 12:08 PM
-6

Had been butthurr I would had insulted her or said something passive-agressive. I was calm telling her to leave that for her friends (she has a lot of gay friends) If I'm not into that faggot calling shit, why do I have to put up with her shit? She has to play by my rules if she wants something.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 11:58 AM
1

Put her in her place sexually via text? There's not much you can do via text other than ignoring, anything else can end in a misunderstanding
/r/askTRP10/04/20 10:38 AM
0

I didn't give her tits attention so I didn't give her what she wanted And is one supposed to laugh at everything? It wasn't even funny to me.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 10:23 AM
-14

She already knew my intentions. She has seen my dick and we have talked about sex before.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 10:09 AM
12

Mkay mkay. Won't let these hoes get a reaction anymore. Thanks brotha.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:41 AM
2

Tbh I wasn't even offended, but my sperglord brain got me thinking maybe she wanted me to put her in her place, like establish dominance LOL. And I tried to do that even though I lost interest almost immediately
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:31 AM
-1

I was going to leave her on read but thought it would make me look butthurt and I wasn't even butthurt tbh, it was more of a turn off.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:23 AM
23

Masculine agressive girls turn me off.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:16 AM
-12

Yea it was a joke but still why faghot ffs. It's not even funny
/r/askTRP10/04/20 06:46 AM
1

Why is overconfidence a beta trait?
/r/askTRP10/04/20 03:33 AM
9

Drake the biggest simp out there. Future is redpilled as fuck.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 03:31 AM
1

I was waiting for some of that tough love brodda She responded well and told me she left me on seen because I take too long to respond (I took 5 days and responded very annoying).
/r/askTRP08/04/20 09:55 AM
15

Already responded in your other thread that you should say whatever the fuck you want to, but you already lost, you care too much, you are scared of the outcome of responding such a shitty question to a bitch that you been talking for 3 minutes on tinder.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 02:45 AM
13

Man say whatever you feel like saying. I've asked questions like this on here before "what do I say?" When it's basic shit Say what you want and learn yourself, don't be afraid of that bitch. You can't be asking random people how to interact in basic conversations all the time, it will turn you into a sperglord robot, it happened to me.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 02:41 AM
9

Having oneitis fucked up my testosterone levels for sure
/r/askTRP08/04/20 02:14 AM
1

I already knew this was the wrong move. Already knew I had to soft next or just ghost her but it's hard when you have strong feelings But like AMS (Alpha male strategies from youtube) once said "none of the shit I'm teaching you guys matter unless you go through it". Don't remember his exact words but thats what he meant
/r/askTRP08/04/20 01:48 AM
1

Yea fuck it, I'll take this shit as learning One can read so much about TRP but I guess some of us have to fail to truly understand it and apply it correctly.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 01:21 AM
3

No shit bro. But tbh I was acting like an uninterested asshole, not sure if she needed some comfort. I only showed interest when she talked about sex and acted like an uninterested sperglord when she talked about some problem she had
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:24 AM
0

The saddest thing is that I already know that it's wrong to do shit like that. I'm blinded by oneitism, it's pathetic. Couldnt resist asking her because I legit get anxiety attacks and can't sleep when I'm not on good terms with her. What a fag I know.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 11:53 PM
1

It's a conversation in spanish. Dude just being nice as hell using a fuckton of emojis.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 09:06 AM
1

Just say you have no clue why she's lying and that you don't even find her attractive tbh.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 07:07 AM
3

Not always lack of abundance or desperation. I've fucked girls way hotter than my oneitis and I still have oneitis.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 06:55 AM
11

Nah fuck that, I'm not going to try to correct her hoe ways wtf I'm not her dad. I'm just being me, she's the hoe.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 05:31 AM
1

That's what I was thinking but I wasn't sure if she was expecting me to say some shit. She's the one initiating, I'm not even trying shit as this is just texting and it may be a beta bait. I'm way more interested in other girls than this hoe.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 05:21 AM
4

How many times are you going to ask this Mr. Oneitis?
/r/askTRP06/04/20 04:25 AM
13

I don't think there's anything you can do about it but it looks normal, don't obsess over that shit.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 01:05 AM
8

She's not necessarily talking to someone else, maybe yall are texting too much and that's fucking boring and annoying. Give her some time to miss you. Wait 1 or 2 days to respond this time. If after that she's still giving you shittt answers then ask her directly wtf is going on Maybe she's just testing you
/r/askTRP05/04/20 11:02 PM
8

Usually you give some solid hilarious advice, what the fuck happened mate
/r/askTRP05/04/20 03:11 AM
1

I'm the same with my exes, not to be an asshole but I don't give a fuck about any of them. It's just indifference, we move on. No reason to do the opposite unless you have kids or some shit.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 12:13 AM
1

She has told she wants to see me and that she wants to suck my dick but actually makes excuses to not see me. She says she doesn't feel enough for me. She has sent me nudes, but when I talk about meeting she disappears. She confuses the fuck out of me. Shows explicit sexual interest, I have her nudes but then she does all that flaky bullshit. I haven't fucked her btw.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 02:18 AM
8

Not an expert but from all I've read from when I was paranoid about stds, from what I know herpes is really not a big deal, you'll most likely going to have a few outbreaks at the beginning and then you won't have any ever again. I remember some dude got it from a hooker and obviously he was depressed as shit. A few years later he said herpes is "literally nothing" and that he hasn't had an outbreak since the initial ones. It's extremely common anyway, you aren't alone. 50 Cent has that shit too…
/r/askTRP04/04/20 01:53 AM
2

All that shit you're saying just means oneitis dude. I feel the same with my oneitis and I think in your case you'll only get over her if you fuck her.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 06:33 AM
2

Thanks bro
/r/askTRP03/04/20 03:27 AM
2

Getting used for attention and validation, becoming an orbiter and stupid shit like that.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 02:09 AM
64

I don't think some of them would mind fucking Chad with his Covid-19 dick.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 11:29 PM
2

Duh of course, that's what game is all about. And that's why once you get oneitis it's fucking over.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 11:26 PM
5

Is it even possible to not be paranoid in an online relationship? That's one of the reasons you don't get in one. Be ready for more unnecessary paranoia and suffering.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 05:50 AM
1

"You’re in better than you know." My bad but what you mean by that? English isn't my first language.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 04:52 AM
1

Again you're right but I what I did was actually wrong and uncalled for. Should I still walk away even if I know she's into me and it was my fault?
/r/askTRP28/03/20 03:59 AM
1

You're right but she's my best option or at least the one I like more, the rest bore me and don't do much for me.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 03:51 AM
0

I remember a girl on a youtube vídeo saying that she got turned on when a dude checked her for being late to a date. What he said was "it's okay just don't do it again". But wtf do I know, I keep fucking up all the time.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 07:53 AM
2

Are you a millionaire and she knows it? If not, you have nothing to worry about.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 03:47 AM
2

Seducing single mom whales on tinder.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 01:37 AM
1

Yep, I moved on already. I responded very distant and annoying on purpose to her last text and she left me on read.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 08:52 PM
1

I know she doesn't have to be 100% into me, but if the reason she isn't 100% into me is because she's obsessed with other dude, then next, I'm not a second option cuck.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 07:30 PM
3

Decided to next her. Feel like a cuck talking to her knowing she's literally begging to other dude. If that dude came back she would frienzone the fuck out of me.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 09:29 AM
1

What if they just want you to be their "emotional tampon" and not fuck you at all? Do you still listen to them and comfort them?
/r/askTRP25/03/20 08:41 AM
4

If she left you on read it's over unless she texts you back. If you doubletext her and she leaves you on read again, you risk feeling humiliated and full of regret. I've been there and that shit hurts, not because she don't want you, but because you realize what a beta needy bitch you are. You fucked up because you were bluepill and now you learned your lesson, move on bro. We all have been there.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 07:57 AM
4

Been doing 500 push ups a day (I do 100 every 2 hours) for the last week and using some dumbbells + pull ups. Not the same as going to the gym but at least it prevents me from feeling like shit.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 11:01 PM
-29

I know but I kinda have oneitis for her and couldnt move on just like that and already said that shit anyway
/r/askTRP24/03/20 08:08 PM
0

Thank you for reminding me of that beta bait shit. I just responded "thought it was weird you haven't sent me a meme in a long time" ( in spanish isn't that long)
/r/askTRP23/03/20 11:54 PM
0

What would you respond?
/r/askTRP23/03/20 10:22 PM
1

Its in spanish. Makes no sense in my language lol
/r/askTRP23/03/20 10:17 PM
-1

What you mean. Ghost her? Shes shit testing
/r/askTRP23/03/20 10:14 PM
2

Grateful for your advice bro.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 04:44 AM
1

She just responded "omg I fell asleep" And sent me a screenshot of one of her girl friends texting her a lot without no response to prove me that she actually was asleep. What do I even respond to that shit? The screenshot proves she isn't lying And thanks dudes, really appreciate your words.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 03:42 AM
11

No matter what you say, too much texting always ruin everything, in my opinion.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 03:16 AM
1

Already fucked everything up. Just texted her "told you to confirm before night. What happened?" (Some like that but in spanish) I'm already regretting it and having anxiety, but at the same time I would have regretted not saying anything and feel like a doormat. So whatever. I'm tired of this shit tbh.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 02:52 AM
0

Don't wanna cancel, we are supposed to fuck and already took a cialis.. shit
/r/askTRP22/03/20 02:00 AM
2

Lol that would solve everything but we don't actually put an exact hour, we just we're going to confirm before it's night
/r/askTRP22/03/20 01:04 AM
2

Me: confirm before night time Her: I will Me: okay (Conversation was in spanish but it was something like that) Now, here it's not night time yet so I'm thinking what to do before it is. I'm thinking of texting her something like "what did I asked you to do before night time?". Is this bad?
/r/askTRP22/03/20 12:49 AM
-2

Tell her you rather rate her dick sucking skills (not srs)
/r/askTRP21/03/20 01:43 AM
2

This post is gold bro
/r/askTRP20/03/20 05:25 PM
1

Wow man this is exactly the advice I needed right now. She came back and I won't fuck this up this time. Thank you so much
/r/askTRP20/03/20 04:58 PM
1

That's exactly what I thought. She literally just texted me she wants to suck my dick this saturday. I think she was shit testing to see if I was going to double text her like a bitch. Thankfuly I hold frame this time and now shes over me again lmao.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 06:44 AM
9

No fap works for a lot of people, personally it makes me needy and thirsty and I do way worse with women. I just try to fap 1 or twice a week only though. Too much makes me feel like shit. And porn is the worst thing for many reasons.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 01:11 AM
65

Even with all the lifting you're doing you could be testosterone-deficient. Only way to know is to get tested.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 12:53 AM
15

You care way too much, you're already fucked bro.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 12:40 AM
-3

No. I know what everyone is going to say but she's a virgin, never had a boyfriend. She's one of those weird antisocial girls who don't go out and have no friends. Sometimes I think she has aspergers. I know this says more about me than about her lmao
/r/askTRP19/03/20 11:01 PM
1

I was thinking and I don't even know what to respond.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 10:12 PM
2

Just know most of us have been there, you aren't alone bro and you aren't a loser. Sometimes you have to take some L's to learn.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 10:04 PM
1

He did, thats why he said " I wanted to choose my words better" in his other post. His advice is good, I appreciate it
/r/askTRP09/03/20 12:45 PM
1

What would have been the difference between saying no and leaving her on read?
/r/askTRP09/03/20 09:02 AM
3

This is very helpful. Thanks a lot man
/r/askTRP09/03/20 06:51 AM
-5

Exactly man, this is why I'm obsessed with fucking her. I know that this is the only way to get over her, but I'm in a very fucked up position to do so lol. Fuck it I'm going to text her tomorrow and see what happens
/r/askTRP09/03/20 06:21 AM
-11

I agree with the last part, but disagree with the friendzone being for life. A lot of guys have escaped the friendzone. Maybe if someone is friendzoned from the beginning, meaning there was never any attraction to begin with, then yea. But she used to be all over me and found me physically attractive for sure, acted submissive, etc Edit: responded before you edited the friendzone part. If she tries to manipulate me then I'll accept it's over, but I still have this urge to at least try one last t…
/r/askTRP09/03/20 04:35 AM
10

Tldr tbh. You did the right thing in my opinion, unless you were shaking all nervous yelling DRIVEEEE to your gf. And honestly the fact you wrote all that long story asking this shit tells me you were actually low key scared of that guy, I could be wrong though.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 11:30 AM
23

Yes, you did the right thing unless you're James Bond or a drug cartel sicario or some shit.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 06:13 AM
1

I always heard viagra sucks. I've used cialis two times and it's fucking great.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 03:59 PM
4

I actually thought that shit didn't sound right when I sent the text but at the same time I was kind of testing her to see if she wasn't just attention whoring. If she reaally wanted it, would she ghost me just for that? Maybe..idk But yea the advice I got here by everyone is correct.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 06:58 AM
25

She needs to find you attractive first, otherwise she doesn't care about you neither.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 04:32 AM
1

Haha okay I'll update if she ever responds. Why do you think she won't talk to me again though?
/r/askTRP21/10/19 06:53 AM
2

"oneitis, arguably the greatest threat to masculinity." That is so fucking real dude. Thank you.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 11:09 PM
2

Thanks man. I never really complimented her before this, only one time I told her I like her voice. And yea I'm ignoring her stories and everything.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 07:10 AM
2

What pisses me off (with myself) is that I already knew that, but she used to always validate me and compliment me and I got too comfortable. This is a reminder to always play the game no matter what
/r/askTRP20/10/19 06:59 AM
5

Of course, even AMS said it happens to him sometimes, rarely but it can happen even to redpilled alphas.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 06:32 AM
3

You did the right thing. Not harsh at all.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 02:55 AM
1

She has done this before though, for 2 days. I double texted her and she sent me an ass pic that night. Also, this time she called me "daddy" before she stopped responding. Do you call guys daddy and send nude pics to fuck with them? Maybe she thinks I'm going to over pursue because of it? She confuses the fuck out of me.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 10:05 PM
2

I forgot to mention she ignored me for 2 days before and unfortunately I fell for it and double texted and she responded immediately and she sent me an ass pic that night. She never did that before.. Maybe she's trying to see if I'm going to do it again. Usually she takes a few hours to respond but so do I.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 04:42 AM
1

I thought so. Still, is it rare for girls to ignore as a shit test? I don't think I've heard about that type of shit test
/r/askTRP17/10/19 04:33 AM
1

Thanks
/r/askTRP15/10/19 07:43 PM
1

But wouldn't responding like that also sound butthurt and passive agressive, since I was showing very high interest in my previous messages?
/r/askTRP15/10/19 03:24 PM
2

Damn, I needed this. Sounds about right.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 08:17 PM
1

I admit the text thing is the most irrelevant thing and the thing that bothers me the least but it's still a sign of low interest since she's always online.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 07:27 PM
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