Vohsrek Archive

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1	If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more? TL;DR being nice isn’t the sole factor in “winning” or “losing”, it’s the bare minimum, and there exists a happy medium between “nice guy” and “bad boy”. Dating bad people isn’t a women specific problem, and authenticity is the best form of courtship. I see what you’re saying, but there’s more nuance to the discussion than just “nice, timid guy” or “confident bad boy”. In your example, the nice guy isn’t “losing” because he’s nice; he’s losing because he’s not being genuine and he’s making choic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/24 10:17 PM
0	If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more? Capable of fucking up another guy ≠ violent. Is every 6 ft+ guy violent for his size advantage in a fight? There are women who want to be with a 6’5 270 lb guy because it makes them feel secure, knowing his size and gender alone is a deterrent to assault. It’s adjacent to buying a large dog breed without training it in bite and protection work - your Doberman would probably ask an intruder to be pet, but most people aren’t willing to take that risk. I don’t think any sane, rational woman is choo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/24 09:29 PM
3	If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more? I don’t believe those two sets of characteristics are opposite or can’t exist in a person simultaneously - in fact, I’d say it’s a combination of both that makes a guy more attractive. Being nice, inoffensive and respectful are the bare minimums of being a decent human being. Having confidence and knowing what you want in life are markers of a successful, stable individual. Unafraid to take risks and being prone to risky behavior can mean very different things - are we talking making big investm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/24 09:09 PM
3	If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more? “No wonder women are assaulted by their partners, they choose violent men!” What an asinine and out of touch statement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/24 08:51 PM
3	Men are having less sex, but women are somehow contracting more STDs That’s a really interesting theory. In 2018 I was a senior in high school, and the biggest intimate fear for kids my age was getting pregnant. Honestly sexually transmitted diseases weren’t even on the radar; we knew what they were, we knew unprotected sex spread them, but it wasn’t an immediate boogie monster like teen pregnancy was. I have vivid memories of the intensely dramatic pregnancy scares my friends and I went through, but didn’t know a single person who admitted to having/knowing some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 04:55 AM
1	Women posting about hating short men on social media. Why does the mainstream ignore this? Hopefully ex-friend!	/r/MensRights	17/01/24 06:04 AM
5	Women posting about hating short men on social media. Why does the mainstream ignore this? “Fewer natural predators” haha everything about this comment is gold. The way you worded it made me chuckle	/r/MensRights	17/01/24 06:02 AM
1	Change my mind: Child support is a wealth transfer from the subordinate parent to the dominant parent https://www.usda.gov/media/blog/2017/01/13/cost-raising-child https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-true-cost-of-raising-a-child https://www.investopedia.com/articles/personal-finance/090415/cost-raising-child-america.asp https://www.bankrate.com/insurance/life-insurance/cost-of-raising-a-child/ Are you willfully ignorant? All this without explicitly taking into account the hidden cost of sleep deprivation, all the lost wages and lost opportunities of having to take sick days in order to care for sick …	/r/MensRights	12/01/24 11:06 PM
2	Most men cause their dating issues Spot on. The last few decades have begun a domino effect breakdown of social structures, support networks and family units. Our money is worth less, we are more isolated than ever, people are depressed, anxious and hopeless. We can’t afford to live and can’t afford to die, and best of all more and more of us are doing it all alone. Not only in the romantic sense; we are spending less time with friends, our social circles are shrinking, and our ability to connect is atrophying. The U.S. Surgeon’s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 07:25 AM
2	Most men cause their dating issues The increase in loneliness in society, the rise of anxiety and isolation - which has become increasingly pronounced in men and men’s mental health - is not the fault of individuals. No man or woman is wholly responsible for the difficulties they face in the dating world - they can only control themselves and their reactions. We have to stop pointing fingers at each other: telling men that their endemic loneliness and depression is their own fault, blaming women for being “too choosy” or generali…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 07:14 AM
2	I asked the women at my work what they think of the rise of AI girlfriends and they’re all supportive of it Geez. It’s disturbing to me that so many dejected and lonely men unload the responsibility onto women. We can acknowledge there is a problem without making up fantastical claims.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 04:46 PM
2	I asked the women at my work what they think of the rise of AI girlfriends and they’re all supportive of it How is that toxic? If a woman wants a relationship bad enough, and their expectations are barring this, then she will eventually compromise because her desire for intimacy has proved to be more important than what becomes unimportant details. If she would rather be alone than compromise, then so bet it, she will be happier aligning herself with her values. Nobody should “settle”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 02:22 AM
3	I asked the women at my work what they think of the rise of AI girlfriends and they’re all supportive of it I hope you don’t genuinely believe this. And if you do, perhaps consider that a woman’s pleasure during sex has historically been ignored or, like you’re doing here, straight up erased. Direct your attention to the party responsible for reciprocating pleasure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 02:14 AM
0	Older men hitting on younger women is not harassment, nor immoral, nor illegal Slander!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 09:32 PM
6	Was r/FemaleDatingStrategy stolen? I notice basically 1 person posting the majority of the time for the past 4-5 months when there used to be tons of posts daily Woah what post?	/r/PussyPassDenied	23/09/22 10:46 PM
1	Kick rocks, lady. He wouldn’t if he put a height preference. Weight/build to the extent it determines how attracted you are to someone is easily visible to swipe left/right on, so putting it in one’s bio would be a dick move.	/r/PussyPassDenied	19/09/22 10:21 PM
1	Kick rocks, lady. Race is clearly visible from profiles, height isn’t. B4 “wah you can’t tell race from a picture” to the extent it would matter for preferences, yes, you can.	/r/PussyPassDenied	19/09/22 10:14 PM
1	Sexual ignorance is better for long-term partnerships What?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/22 02:34 AM
1	Sexual ignorance is better for long-term partnerships Uh, duh? I think the word you’re looking for is sexual compatibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 06:54 AM
5	Women are emotionally driven and live for emotional validation It is so confusing. I can’t tell if it’s a super red pill woman meets FDS as in “Men are nothing but sex driven monsters who can be easily controlled if you reign in your feminine emotions”, or a mega pick-me who likes to validate woman-hating rhetoric in search of special privileges. Or just a troll lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 02:21 PM
1	Women are emotionally driven and live for emotional validation They stated they were a woman in previous comments. Unfortunately.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 01:57 PM
0	Women are emotionally driven and live for emotional validation Woman, unfortunately. Check their comment history	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 01:56 PM
-1	Women are emotionally driven and live for emotional validation Woman. They’ve said so in previous comments	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 01:56 PM
4	Women are emotionally driven and live for emotional validation And the sky is purple. See? Anyone can make absurd claims, that doesn’t make them true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 01:51 PM
7	Women are emotionally driven and live for emotional validation 🥹🥹🥹	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 01:45 PM
2	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell Sheeesh take it easy, came out swinging with that one	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 08:04 PM
2	To men who want biological children: It might be better to pay a surrogate than to have children with a woman. What do you think? Not preemptive action, paranoid action. If you live your life in fear and anger, you’ll fall directly into those same divorce statistics you cower from. You have a choice and an influence on how your relationships play out - vet your partners, make sure they share your values, actively work towards a successful relationship. Your life doesn’t have to be hostile forever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 07:41 AM
10	To men who want biological children: It might be better to pay a surrogate than to have children with a woman. What do you think? This seems more like a “I can’t imagine not hating my future partner” problem. It seems like you aren’t scared of marriage, you just come off as a hateful person who knows himself well enough to know he has to do anything to avoid a healthy, loving relationship. If you are so certain that you will hate the woman who vows herself to you and bears your children - then yes, please, for the good of everyone (except your future children, they’re fucked) just use a surrogate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 11:31 PM
5	Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of men Take from a mostly blue pill woman: I’ve never deliberately formulated a plan to delay intimacy with men I want to pursue romantically as opposed to strictly sexually. I’m very very picky with who I sleep with or date, not because I think I’m a prize but because I have a lot of options and don’t connect on a mental level with most people. With my ex, we were friends and study partners for about a week before a late night study session turned into an all nighter at his house where we realized we …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/22 11:00 PM
9	Most girls are conditioned to think that what's most important about them is how they look. My exact face	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/22 08:26 PM
1	Discussion : Women moving on faster than men. Hm, maybe I had a knee-jerk reaction and judged too quickly. As someone with many close male friends, I’ve clashed with former partners over it and thus such sentiments “trigger” me, I guess you could say. If you’re upfront and not bringing it up once you’re already in the relationship, I guess that filter will bring people who share your values - and there’s nothing necessarily wrong with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 12:14 AM
3	Discussion : Women moving on faster than men. Yep. The big benefit of being the one to leave is having closure; your partner still around, still communicating, still loving you, while you process the emotions and are gently let down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 03:10 PM
1	Discussion : Women moving on faster than men. Wtf lol, insecure projection	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 03:07 PM
4	Study: female sexlessness is also rising: I think the person you responded to is suggesting many users on this sub are pro life, so he doesn’t want to discuss his opinion of being pro-choice here	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 08:50 PM
2	Men are way hornier than women, and this is the cause of everything being discussed here. The fact that this is even disputed is proof that women are unable to have an honest discussion about dating and gender relations. Are you deliberately being obtuse? That’s a bold claim to make with no reasoning or evidence to support it. What exactly is the alternative? Polygamy? It would follow that you also don’t support the nuclear family, then? Monogamous marriage hasn’t been successful on every corner of the earth for no reason. I would assert that people unable to function in a long-term monogamous relationship are the exception, not the rule.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/22 05:53 PM
2	Men are way hornier than women, and this is the cause of everything being discussed here. The fact that this is even disputed is proof that women are unable to have an honest discussion about dating and gender relations. What do you mean by one woman can not sexually satisfy one man?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 06:53 PM
0	For those of you 30+, do picky people really start to settle? So what are your beliefs about the dating dynamics/market between men and women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 07:30 AM
2	Men are way hornier than women, and this is the cause of everything being discussed here. The fact that this is even disputed is proof that women are unable to have an honest discussion about dating and gender relations. What?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 07:27 AM
5	So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible? That makes sense. Thank you for explaining! My stepdad is born and raised in a bumfuck town; sometimes he says things that are definitely racist, and it always throws me off as he’s otherwise such a gentle, loving soul who hires and works with people of color on the daily. It’s good to be cognizant of your biases - and you’re right, I do think everyone has them. I’ve certainly been guilty of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/22 05:01 PM
14	So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible? “Despite being pretty racist myself.” Bro what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/22 04:18 PM
1	Red Pill is the way and it is brutal for a very good reason. Bro sometimes I see posts like this here and I think, “does this guy just straight up hate women?” It’s crazy bc TRP is like streamlined dating where the final objective is being in a successful relationship - do they not realize that after that they have to at least enjoy their partners presence?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/22 12:12 AM
4	anyone here that generalizes a gender is wrong The golden rule should be to approach PPD from your experience, without making assertions or stating opinions as fact. “The rise of online dating makes me feel less than human. I deserve to be loved unconditionally just as much as everyone else. I shouldn’t have to submit headshots for women to browse through - one among hundreds, thousands - and be judged valuable or worthless by an apathetic jury. It’s infuriating to me the obstacles I have to navigate as a man that women don’t have to overcom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 11:56 PM
1	Is it actually unreasonable for men to politely decline friendship with women who reject them romantically? This is my experience, through the lens of a conventionally attractive woman. Beginning in highschool, after puberty blessed me, I found it very difficult to hold onto female friends. Although not outright bullied, there was a lot of hostility and icing out, gossip and accusations. I was homeschooled up til then, lived in the country with all sisters and only my mother, so this was a big culture shock for me. As a result, most of my friends and closest relationships were with men - in my mind, w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/22 10:44 PM
3	Men depend on individual women more, while women depend on collective of men more Touché 😭😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/22 01:38 AM
1	This “small subset” of women who claim to be struggling could hop on Reddit right now and have their pick of the litter but they won’t do it. That’s an option most men will NEVER have The issues are not parallel. Here, we have men struggling with serious mental health issues stemming from extreme and prolonged isolation - some of which have gone a decade or more without meaningful familial, romantic or sexual physical contact. We also have women who are unfulfilled romantically, who have had cyclic experiences with predatory men, who have never struggled with isolation. I truly feel that there is no real comparison between the two sides, as one is much more desperate and damn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/22 01:30 AM
2	Is dating actually fun for you? Looked through your profile a bit, hope that doesn’t feel too intrusive. I’m pretty introverted but always enjoy learning about new people, hit me up if you ever want a benevolent acquaintance or friend down the road	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/22 09:02 PM
1	Curious - how do RP/etc theories perceive lgbt relationships? I think the whole idea of every relationship constituting a “feminine” and “masculine” role is more about completeness and less about dictating societal norms. At its core, every relationship is built upon some basic foundations: shared responsibility, financial and emotional support, mutual love and nurturing. Historically, men have shouldered a specific set of these responsibilities and women the other - now referred to as masculine and feminine gender roles. I don’t think it depends so much o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/22 09:31 PM
1	Women say that the bar low for men? Is this really true? What they mean by “the bar is low” is often times emotional labour. You often see this type of comment on videos of boyfriends bringing flowers, texting good morning every day, unloading the dishwasher, so on and so forth. It’s a sentiment shared by many women that their current or prospective partners are not emotionally available, compassionate, or investing in acts of service/quality time/words of affirmation in the way they want. It extends beyond dating into long term relationships as a who…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/22 05:58 PM
6	Is dating actually fun for you? I understand what you’re trying to say - I see you. People tend to react aggressively with “well you’re just not trying hard enough”, or “women aren’t obligated to find you attractive/date you” to comments like yours - which, sometimes, is valid. But I don’t get the vibe from your comments that you’re just some hateful incel bitter at the world and wanting to see everyone burn. You seem sad, and lonely. Confused, maybe - frustrated, hopeless. The whole red-pill idea of maximizing yourself in ord…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/22 09:52 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Here’s to all the depressed asf m’fckers: Isn’t life beautiful? I think that it is beautiful	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/22 10:12 PM
1	Study: Sexually Unsuccessful Men Retaliate By Endorsing Anti-Egalitarian Attitudes and Becoming Fiscally Conservative Death before dishonor is the motto	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/22 11:03 AM
2	Study: Sexually Unsuccessful Men Retaliate By Endorsing Anti-Egalitarian Attitudes and Becoming Fiscally Conservative No sex? No votes chumpy. Better yet, every time a woman insults a man she gets a year’s ban from the polls	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/22 11:00 AM
3	Fwb is wrong on so many levels. No woman should entertain it. Ugh this is so painful. My ex and I have been “FWB” since he broke up with me due to my deteriorating mental health. I always have had it in the back of my head that we’ll get back together at some point, but I’m not so sure that’s the case if I’m being honest with myself. I just have a really hard time connecting with people. He’s my only real boyfriend I’ve ever had and I hate the idea of having to build up that relationship with someone new.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/05/22 12:07 AM
3	Fwb is wrong on so many levels. No woman should entertain it. Mind blown	/r/RedPillWomen	09/05/22 12:04 AM
2	Women, how often have you run into micro vs bigger dicks? Never seen a micro. Everyone I’ve been with has been average or larger. But, I assume, like you said, it’s much more common for men comfortable in their bodies to be in the dating pool	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 04:34 PM
1	Just on the topic of N count, wanted to share this post. What are your thoughts? Idk why she is going around telling people her body count, she’s shooting herself in the foot. Obnoxious to do all that & come online complaining about it, especially w/ the “no, I’m not interested” edit. Almost strikes me as a bait post	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 12:46 AM
1	should society support or shame dumping good partner for a better one? K(ms)	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 07:29 PM
1	should society support or shame dumping good partner for a better one? Obviously because everyone knows that the only reason the infallible woman cheats is because all men are secretly gay & only marry women to extort them of their womb to gather more fodder for the Marxist-Meninist cause that underlines the inherently masculine desire to overcome the world and eventually ascent to an all-male mecha-topia	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 07:26 PM
0	should society support or shame dumping good partner for a better one? I was fairly pleased when my parents divorced as a kid	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 01:43 PM
1	The Oscars Megathread He’s just being an asshole	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 06:21 PM
3	Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting married Opinions are sooo divided. Twitter & Tiktok are all over it, huge approval for “defending his woman”, especially because they’re a public black couple	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 11:03 AM
1	Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting married I was so excited to see this pop up on PPD hahaha, what joy	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 11:00 AM
3	Do your partners know your n count? My previous boyfriend knew my n count. I initiated the conversation because I’m nosy & find it interesting, so I was trying to pry out stories of his past escapades. I casually mentioned mine but didn’t go into detail. He wasn’t interested in the conversation at all lol. I think he was worried I was going to be pissed hearing about him with other people, but like? Idk, I’m not a jealous person at all & genuinely wanted to know for shits and giggles. I couldn’t care less. We were both very much o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 04:22 PM
1	the reason why there's less female government representation and a gender gap in wages is because of hypergamy, not "the patriarchy" My guesses: women assumed to be primary caregiver, thus woman has to ask if she’s willing to become “mother” full time & accept that as her entire identity + the horrific & lifelong damage that birth can and often does inflict on the body. Just read through any post birth subs on Reddit, that shit will chill your blood haha. I love kids and would love to have some of my own one day, but I’m truly not sure if I can get over the horror of birth. Gives me the sweats just thinking about it. I don’t …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 10:48 AM
3	Women, how often are you approached by men? How do you usually react when it happens? Often. Super super often when I was going to the gym and tanning every day. I always smiled and said thanks, given that the approach was benevolent. If they pressed farther for my number or were raunchy about it, I just ignored them Edit: reminds me of when I was getting gas omw to my mom’s house and a group of obviously intoxicated men loitering around a mini fan started staring, I got nervous and tried to look anywhere but them. One comes up to me unnoticed, startles me by asking: “what size s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/22 04:48 AM
2	How long do you see yourself invested in a purple pill debate? Idk what it is, but I gravitate towards controversial subs where a lot of juicy shit goes down. Maybe it’s because I like debate? I also think in-amongst the ruckus there can be value in hearing the voices of people who you don’t agree with/have never considered/are very different from you. Sometimes. Like every now and then I read a take on here and I’m like ??? surely this is not a real thing, but then it’s like wow, this is a real thing y’know?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 08:11 PM
3	Social awkwardness and lack of fitness are the reason for lack of interest women have in men today I have a part time minimum wage job, I don’t do anything in my free time, don’t work out, eat like shit, wear sweats and hoodies 90% of my life, & am super mentally unwell so self-improvement isn’t a priority. I don’t go out, I don’t socialize often, I don’t even really like holding a conversation sometimes. I recently dropped out of college. I really spend most of my free time in bed. I put zero effort in. I’m extraordinarily lucky to be conventionally very attractive (I think?) and thus have a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 07:43 PM
7	Lesbians, how hard it is to date women? Yuck. Gay for funsies chicks are definitely a thing. I knew a few girls in HS who would hang onto masculine lesbians & pretty bi girls for attention, validation & to appeal to men. Heck, I had one friend who said she was bisexual but only made advances on women in party settings when surrounded by watching men egging her on. Maybe she just had a preference, but it came off badly & was frustrating, especially when she only was interested in doing such openly with her straight friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 06:38 PM
2	Women who’ve dated tall men. Are you able to go back to shorter/average height men or have you? I’m also curious. Having a preference for tall guys is one thing, but claiming that they’re better in bed & have better bodies on average is kinda a rude thing to say imo	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 06:31 PM
9	Women who’ve dated tall men. Are you able to go back to shorter/average height men or have you? I kinda have a small running (conspiracy) theory that the majority of women on this sub are hot/married/satisfied romantically and are here to debate because the content pisses them off, while the majority (or at least vocal minority) of men are here to discuss with/ rant to people with common issues concerning dating, self-esteem and self-improvement. Hence the “how are all these women allegedly dating the top 25% of men in xyz?” & super heated angry back-and-forths. At the extremes, you essent…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 06:26 PM
2	Women who’ve dated tall men. Are you able to go back to shorter/average height men or have you? I’m tall for a girl - and would prefer to date someone taller than me. The only two men I’ve had relationships with were 6’0 and 6’3. The only other guy I’ve been romantic with was 6’4. However, my roommate’s partners were closer to 5’8, 6’0, 5’6 in that order. She’s close to 5’7. So in her case, no. She’s never been happier or healthier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 06:15 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Followed 😊 what a cool idea	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 01:49 PM
5	Men & Women of PPD rating You’re really handsome! You also just look like a really genuine dude haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 01:16 PM
1	This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire lives 🤪	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 12:23 PM
2	How can men, and i mean the average common man, actually date/interact/have sex without conceding their terms? Lmao @ abortion pill	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 03:35 AM
2	If men are the problem in western dating then why aren't women leaving the country to find other men? That was an infuriating story to read, it just kept getting more ludicrous. I don’t understand how that was allowed to happen. Those women had to know each other, right? Like sorority sisters or something? & they both had connections to the authorities? I just can’t fathom how this was allowed to happen at every stage. I’ve had uncomfortable interactions with disabled men who were “too touchy”, but I never once for even a second thought or felt that it was predatory. Common sense. Boundaries are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 01:20 AM
5	Q4All, what makes some people say women being promiscuous is a catalyst for societal collapse? Poor people \= degenerates, that’s such a lame take	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/22 12:01 AM
1	With access to easy sex, it is up to women to control their n counts It’s so individual, definitely a personal choice. I asked all my past partners their body count, it’s one of many building blocks that make up a potential LTR. High n count men I tend to shy away from - not because I think they’re “whores” or something, but because that communicates to me that they have an extremely high sex drive & motivation to get sex, which isn’t compatible with my own libido & passions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/22 03:18 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Lmaoo	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/22 03:09 AM
0	Daily Community Chat Megathread Sick, foul, desperate and degenerate	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/22 02:29 AM
1	Q4W: What is your opinion on guys who use prostitutes? I would be grossed out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/22 08:44 PM
1	Q4W: What is your opinion on guys who use prostitutes? Screw OP, they just came here to argue in bad faith about their weird sex life. Being overweight doesn’t justify cheating. You did nothing wrong, your ex is an asshole	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/22 08:43 PM
1	Q4W: What is your opinion on guys who use prostitutes? What an asshole	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/22 08:42 PM
1	How many dudes in here are actually in a relationship? Hm. Maybe I’m naive, but I feel that I do a very good job of vetting the people I surround myself with. Empathy, consideration, self-awareness and introspection are all very important to me. Hence I said most people around me are good. The internet brings out the worst of humanity, and I don’t think anybody should form their opinions about the general public from anonymous forums. I will check out that sub! Sounds interesting	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 04:56 PM
0	How many dudes in here are actually in a relationship? For real! I describe it as a rant/vent sub for people frustrated with their love life + a DASH of men’s rights, just a tiny dash. The majority is just angry vitriol, not productive; just angry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 04:43 PM
1	How many dudes in here are actually in a relationship? Love your comments! In the “real” world, people are so much more individual and complex than this sub portrays them. Most of the people, men and women, I know are good, and just want to find someone to go through life with who will love them & who they can cherish. Life isn’t as visceral & black and white as it is here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 04:38 PM
2	Attractive women of PPD: How often do you get approached? No Chads haha, life is a lot more complicated than this sub portrays it; more organic. Everyone is an individual with a background, challenges & journey. I’d just like to settle down with someone who loves me, who I love & cherish, and finish out this adventure together. Sorry, kinda a little aside.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 01:03 AM
2	Attractive women of PPD: How often do you get approached? I have bad ADD that got away with being untreated til my last year at college, when things started to crumble with the introduction of online classes. Cue failing classes, cue huge spike in anxiety and depression, cue breaking point and subsequent drug binge in the name of escapism. Dropped out (forfeiting a full ride to a good engineering school) to get my shit together, still battling with my mental health and trying to navigate the psychiatrist provider maze. My boyfriend broke up with me (no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 05:54 PM
1	Attractive women of PPD: How often do you get approached? Debating deleting the comment bc reading it back it comes off really cringy	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/22 11:40 PM
2	Attractive women of PPD: How often do you get approached? I consider myself above average to very attractive (certainly so 4 years ago when I was 18 & working out hours most days). I get compliments from random strangers, cashiers, even my teachers and parents’ friends. My identical twin is a sugar baby. When I went to Belize for my senior graduation trip, a 34 year old from Miami followed me around and bought all my drinks + payed for extra excursions, and a wealthy businessman on vacation with his family invited my sister and I to have dinner after s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/22 07:56 PM
1	If age discrimination is okay, then why isn't height discrimination okay? Anyone can vet anybody for any reason. I want to date someone who is taller than me, and I’m pretty tall for a woman. If I hit late 20s and I’m still looking, and get turned down for being out of someone’s preferred age, fine - whatever. If someone doesn’t like me because I’m too tall for a girl, or because of my voice or laugh or whatever, fine. It is what it is. However, nobody should be shamed or have their inherent value as a person be reduced due to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 09:22 PM
1	If age discrimination is okay, then why isn't height discrimination okay? I’ve never heard a woman, in real life, complain about being single. Maybe that’s a testament to the caliber of women I hang out with, or confirmation bias, but basing your opinion on what women do or do not do off cesspools like FDS or the extremely vocal minority isn’t beneficial to anyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 09:17 PM
2	What should be the consequence of false paternity Really reasonable solution! Nice	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 11:42 PM
2	What should be the consequence of false paternity Wtf. Psychopath behavior. “Men shouldn’t suffer, so let’s let children suffer instead”	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 11:40 PM
–	I feel like paternity tests should be done for every child at birth to prove who the father is or isn't. It is an accusation of cheating, that’s what I said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 10:58 PM
2	I feel like paternity tests should be done for every child at birth to prove who the father is or isn't. Destigmatization is what I was trying to construe in a comment I made earlier! There’s nothing inherently wrong about wanting to confirm your relationship to your child, the issue is that as it is now, demanding a paternity test = accusation of cheating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 09:29 PM
3	I feel like paternity tests should be done for every child at birth to prove who the father is or isn't. I think the issue would need to be approached the correct way. I don’t think there’s anything inherently wrong in wanting to confirm your relationship to a child you’re about to be investing an enormous amount of emotional, financial & physical labor into. I also acknowledge it’s difficult for me, as a woman, to have a perfect take on this since the issue of being biologically related to my child is nonexistent. Having said that, requiring a paternity test - for many, if not most women - is an a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 09:25 PM
1	If ww3 occured now, how do you think social norms would shift among men and women? Simply untrue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 10:51 PM
1	If ww3 occured now, how do you think social norms would shift among men and women? Cool. So we agree you know nothing about what we’re talking about - if you would’ve opened with that it would’ve saved me the trouble of treating this like a normal conversation	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 10:51 PM
1	If ww3 occured now, how do you think social norms would shift among men and women? They actually were - that’s a fact, not an opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 10:50 PM
1	If ww3 occured now, how do you think social norms would shift among men and women? I think what they’re saying is that if women go to war and die en mass, than no matter how many men survive there will be a cap limit on the amount of children which can be born each year. If men go to war and die en mass, the limit on how many children can be born each year doesn’t change. In an extreme scenario, if there were literally only one man left alive he could provide enough sperm to impregnate every woman in the country through freezing & distribution for artificial insemination. In a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 02:49 PM
1	If ww3 occured now, how do you think social norms would shift among men and women? What world are you living in? Pretty much everything you just said is blatantly wrong. The Ukraine has the backing of the majority of the world. South America is not pro Russia???	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 02:39 PM
1	If ww3 occured now, how do you think social norms would shift among men and women? What a god awful take. Please tell the individual living in Ukraine, a country at war with Russia for the past 8 years, more about how she’s childish and “making fun” of war from the comfort of your keyboard warrior, western insulated, basement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 02:29 PM
1	If ww3 occured now, how do you think social norms would shift among men and women? What are you even talking about?? The day of manpower ruling supreme in war is over. If a country is able to interrupt, or god forbid disable, an opponents cyber-defense, that means a breakdown of communication between forces, leaking of invaluable data, restricted access to remote WOMD, supply chain breakdown, power grid compromises, and that’s just the tip of the iceberg. We fight wars with drones and tech more so now than at any other time in history. You’re living in a video game.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 02:26 PM
3	If ww3 occured now, how do you think social norms would shift among men and women? That’s the vibe I’m getting too, like wtf	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 02:18 PM
1	If ww3 occured now, how do you think social norms would shift among men and women? I feel the US has a very high chance of - if not outright winning a new world war - remaining relatively unscathed in a nuclear cold lock. There’s a reason we have never fought a world war on our own mainland soil, nor been reduced to the same anxious state many Eurasian countries did, and it has nothing to do with “woke politics”. We’re protected by ocean on two sides & large friendly nations on the other two. We’re a geographical stronghold with a military industrial complex the size of the ne…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 02:09 PM
2	Lack of empathy for the opposite gender Lmaoo	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/22 11:03 AM
22	Men are upset about being "boyfriend material" because it offers the same amount of validation that seeing a prostitute does Sometimes this sub feels like a bunch of adults with puppets named “chad”, “Stacy”, “The gold digger” etc larping theoretical situations and answering their own questions. The real world is not how it’s portrayed here. We are all human beings, who ultimately want to be loved, appreciated, and desired. Men and women alike.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 06:53 PM
1	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material “No u” Lmaoo. Also just noticed your account is a day old. Begone, yee uneducated and poorly opinionated child	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 12:34 AM
1	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material Clearly you give a fuck about me in particular since you were making blind and blatantly incorrect assumptions about how I’d respond in some hypothetical future. Also not sure how you could know “people like” me from less than a dozen sentences, but then again I’m not so sure critical thinking is your strong suit. You seem very upset.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 12:23 AM
1	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material This is a debate sub, not a vent sub. The basis of debate is discussing things that aren’t totally black and white, there’s no need to be emotional and bitter. That’s why you wouldn’t find me commenting something like “muh misogynistic objectifiers”, seems like the only ones here missing the memo are you and the OP I responded to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 12:01 AM
0	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material Huh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 07:27 PM
0	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material So angry. The world isn’t so black and white.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 05:45 PM
3	Is crying a turnoff for you? My ex cried twice during our relationship; once when he said we needed to take a break, and again when we broke up. Both times I felt moved by his tears and appreciative that he felt comfortable enough to express his emotions around me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/22 06:54 PM
1	How true is this? Rectangle gang 🥲✊🏻	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 10:45 PM
1	In regards to "average women think they can lock down a hot guy who sleeps with them but they can't" - Well how do YOU know that? I’m studying engineering…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 02:00 AM
18	Gollum The word incel was actually coined by a woman to discuss her sexual inactivity with others, ironically.	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/12/21 05:26 PM
1	In your high school, how much flirting and/or inappropriate sexual interaction was there between teachers and students? For sure. I had a history teacher, a math teacher and an English teacher, all men between the ages of 25 - 50, who would show clear favoritism to the pretty young girls. One had the mustache and everything, he used to come lean on my desk and chat me up about my weekend + touch my arm, etc. The math teacher offered to tutor me for the ACT for free after school, met up with him often and there was definitely a flirtatious vibe. Had a female, married teacher at one school I attended get fired for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/21 09:27 PM
2	How low can you go.....Financially speaking Good looks haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/21 09:52 PM
9	What are your standards in a partner? 😦	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/21 11:11 PM
1	Women, would you or have you ever competed for a man? Yep. I always said I couldn’t understand why people were jealous or would compete. If you don’t like me, fine. I’m not gonna fight you for it	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/21 03:09 PM
1	How tf can such a huge and widely dissatisfaction of women with their sex life even be a thing?! Every answer given by a woman here is shut down immediately by men saying they know better or the “real” reason. Bruh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/21 01:49 PM
3	How tf can such a huge and widely dissatisfaction of women with their sex life even be a thing?! I got jaw problems man 😭	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/21 01:40 PM
2	Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party. Both my mom and dad got remarried very happily within 4 years of their divorce (mid to late 40s) despite having three kids	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/21 10:50 PM
10	Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party. Idk man. My mom got a divorce in her mid 40s and I swear that woman had a different date each week before settling down with a well-to-do, similarly attractive man who owned a small construction company. My mom’s best friend was a divorcee in her early 50s with 2 daughters and is currently in a live-in dating situation with a doctor. I think there are far more men interested in women their age than this sub wants to acknowledge. Even my grandma got remarried, and she was in her 70s. I did get a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/21 10:47 PM
0	Can Average Men Date and Have Sex Just Like Average Women? I don’t see average man having constant casual sex whenever they want. I see my average male friends having casual sex occasionally. I see my average male friends largely in LTRs. Most of my female friends I consider to be dating down - maybe I’m biased. None of my female friends are having constant casual sex. Anyways, so there’s that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/21 10:25 PM
20	Using Maslow's Hierarchy as a way for men and women to empathize with each other's sexuality experience. My old LTR, my bf had an extremely high libido. I have a super low one due to medications I take. He often expressed he felt “broken” or should see a doctor due to it; that was the extent of his instincts and urges. It was certainly eye-opening for me in regards to male sex drive. Still, it’s difficult for me to comprehend the desire for sex on a need basis. I’ve never experienced such a thing and so can not construct it in my mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/21 01:22 AM
5	Women have higher standards for casual sex. This tends to demonstrate that committed relationships are the consolation prize The way I understood this is that when simply hooking up, looks are the primary factor. Casual hookups don’t consider personality or possible future value, so the decision boils down to how attracted they are to you. Also, it’s easier to hookup with an extremely attractive guy than to date him, as he’s likely flooded with options you can’t compete with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/21 01:04 AM
1	Partner quality is much more important than n count when it comes to pair bonding That’s actually comforting to hear! I’m 22 now, recently single and have only had one serous LTR. My ex was an accomplished engineer applying to law school. I don’t want to settle for less, but I’m sure I’ll find someone by 26! Especially since I’m on an upward trajectory in my own career and character development. A small side note, PPD tends to simplify romance and partnership to the bare bones. All the talk of high value/low value/pair bonding stuff is a stark contrast to the romanticized hal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 10:36 PM
2	Partner quality is much more important than n count when it comes to pair bonding This is something I really stress about. Whether I agree with the morality of it or not, the social status quo says that as women age they become less attractive. I got the most attention when I was 16-19. I’m focusing on my career and self-improvement right now, but worried that my choices are dwindling the longer I solo it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 06:45 AM
3	WGTOW - why do some men resent this? Wholesome	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/21 03:48 AM
1	The fundamental problem with this subreddit is that people here project their own views of the world to represent their entire gender Yeah ok, well I’ll be waiting patiently for those supposed consequences. Does it, like, skip generations? I guess since all the women in my family have been so well adjusted and happy it’ll fall on me to be the soured maiden. Well, someone’s got to do it I guess lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/21 10:52 PM
2	The fundamental problem with this subreddit is that people here project their own views of the world to represent their entire gender And nothing you can do with all your childish, close minded rambling is going to stop driven, successful, attractive women like me from living the exact life you think is so impossible. Just because you say something does not make it so, you’re living in a fantasy land. My boyfriend swam competitively, comes from a family of high achieving, attractive athletes. You’re likely the squeamish, boy-like, boneless and unattractive caricature you love to project on other people so much. Your “opinions”…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/21 10:23 PM
2	The fundamental problem with this subreddit is that people here project their own views of the world to represent their entire gender It’s hard for me to fathom that anyone with half a functioning brain cell could think like this. From a woman in stem dating the type of engineer that lands rocket ships, there are plenty of SANE, EDUCATED men interested in “pair-bond broken hocus pocus” women. You sound like trying to form a sentence is an all day uphill struggle. My mom makes more money and commands more respect from her peers than you are physically possible of possessing. You have an understanding of basic biology on par wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/21 07:10 AM
1	Bu..bu..but the wage gap!! This is the reason I frequent this sub. I always considered myself a feminist, as in “I am interested in solving and bringing awareness to women-specific issues across the globe”, aka child brides, female genital mutilation, systematic female rape, etc. I was never a feminist because I didn’t believe men could experience male-specific problems, or that men didn’t suffer in their own ways, or that women’s problems were somehow more important or worse. Unfortunately, somewhere along the way a cree…	/r/MensRights	15/06/21 09:19 PM
7	Victims have rights. They have responsibilities too (When they're men). Oh, children can give consent of they're boys. The opposite cannot happen. Not ok. Men are human too, shouldn’t have to be said. Rape is rape.	/r/MensRights	13/05/21 12:35 AM