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The argument about women being drafted makes me laugh, because if we ever hit the point where conscription is needed, women have and always will be on the table. Best believe if the enemy shows up on our shores and we're on the backfoot, "all adults serve" will be the default setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:41 PM
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This is some high quality bait. No one should settle. Everyone should be realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:37 PM
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This is what I imagined. The average woman couldn't care less about a dude going to another country for love/hookups. The average woman doesn't appreciate being called anything but a child of god by said dude's posts about his trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:27 PM
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I don't think there are any *actual* feminists out there who don't want criminals to be held accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:50 PM
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When a man says he's "into" an archetype of woman, that doesn't mean he's eyeing that archetype for wifehood by default. It could be any level of attraction, from admiration, to physically/sexually attracted, and beyond. Additionally, a lot of these archetypes exist because women find success in finding partners/benefits by adopting them. I'm not saying this is 100% the motivation for a woman choosing to be an e-girl, for example, but if there was no tangible benefit to the aesthetic it wouldn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:14 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:29 PM
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Gun to my head? Option 1. Realistically? Neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:08 PM
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Society was built by men, so no I wouldn't say it's better for men to drop out of it - especially when we have the codes to the nukes lol. Jokes aside, this post tells me you need to touch grass man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 02:45 PM
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If "low-status" men want to increase their odds in the dating market, they need to display some accountability and address what makes them "low-status".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:56 PM
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I'm fat, so no
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:20 PM
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This isn't just a men thing. Anyone, man or woman, would have difficulty acquiring a relationship (especially in today's climate) if they don't have money, looks, personality, or power. These are literally the default settings of getting someone of the opposite sex to look in your direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:42 AM
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No no, you absolutely can try to have it both ways. Hypocrisy isn't illegal lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:50 PM
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I think using two hyper wealthy individuals as the foundation of your argument is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 08:09 PM
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I'm sure there's an equivalent phrase(s) that garner the same response from women that are founded on poor behavior from some men. I wouldn't label that misandry or wrong - it just simply is. Not all women, not all men, obviously. Personally, I've lived being the safe option. I've observed it multiple times as well. It's not anecdotal and it's not an assumption about all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:14 PM
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You asked "why do so many men assume..." And the assumption comes from the numerous horror stories. That's why I even brought it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:22 PM
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Because there are so many women out there who will settle for the safe guy and cheat on him with the gardener later.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:11 PM
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Husband material is typically taken as "you're a safe security blanket to settle down with" Men don't want to just be seen as something to settle for, or as the safe option. Men want to be desired and craved just the way women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:47 PM
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It might be that I frequent different circles but unmarried, childless women are the gold standard of dating right now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:27 PM
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What does legality have to do with the move not being a deliberate attack against men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:49 PM
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I'm no Trump supporter, but the freeze is for auditing purposes if memory serves. This isn't an indefinite pause or cancellation of the programs. An inconvenience to be sure, but it's not an attack on men to make sure the money's being used properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:15 PM
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While true, you couldn't pay me to support a Zuckerberg product.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:05 PM
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I think dating apps are a scam because the business model is shady.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:01 PM
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To your points: Who wouldn't want to stay home and have all their expenses paid? It's the most no-brainer, common sense desire. Finances are the number one cause of divorce, this is a well established statistical fact. If a lot of money is spent on a wedding the couple can't afford, then they will have a lot of struggles early on in the relationship. Having a prenup more than likely decreases your chance for getting a divorce. The conversation about requiring a prenup will typically end relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 08:18 PM
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This is the Way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:41 PM
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Interesting argument, but it misses some big points. Saying women were "treated better" in the past ignores the fact that they didn’t have the same freedoms as men and just made the best of the limited circumstances they were in. Media portrayals? Not the most reliable source of truth. By that logic, black men are nothing but violent gangbangers or deadbeat dads—spoiler alert: we’re not. Let’s talk facts: in 1963, it became illegal to pay women differently for the same work, but the wage gap sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:53 PM
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I'll take the bait lol - Since #MeToo, most businesses have cracked down on men in positions of leadership. All it takes is the assumption that there's inappropriate communication/contact occurring and a man's career is over. Due to the inherent risk, some men have chosen to nip the problem in the bud altogether. It's better to not mentor, or be in any 1-1 scenario with a female colleague, than it is to risk a false allegation being made that ends their career. I wouldn't say that this is sexist…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:52 PM
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Eh. The "red pill" movement, like anything that gets online, shifted away from its original intent and became something vastly different. Originally, people like Kevin Samuels would tell men to be realistic about where they are in life and to get their act together. Men would be encouraged to get in shape, fix their finances, and to fix any thoughts of entitlement when it came to pursuing women. Mental health and men's rights were advocated for. And then the internet does what the internet does …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:09 PM
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Can't speak for all of us, but personally? In a heartbeat. If I could be there for every second of my son's day I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:11 PM
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A face value take all of the ways society prioritizes women and flip it. So for example: Men would have preferential treatment in divorces Men would have preferential treatment in custody/child support Paternity tests would be mandatory at birth Men wouldn't be required to register for selective service The list goes on. Unfortunately, most societies that have historically prioritized men have gone way too far with it and reduced women to property. Ideally, society would prioritize both men and …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:40 PM
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Who wouldn't want to have all their expenses paid for just for the way they look? This isn't a woman thing. There are trophy husbands too. If all you had to do was hit the gym and shave for your entire life to be bankrolled, wouldn't you do it? C'mon.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:16 PM
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I think the women you've interacted with have views that don't line up with yours and you should adjust your filters a bit. There are -so- many women who just want a man who is gainfully employed. Beyond that, saying that education and nursing are "girl jobs" is a bit nutty imo. Sure, there are fields each gender dominates more, but it's 2024, everyone can do pretty much everything. (It's especially nutty to me that education is considered a girl job when some of the best teachers I've had were …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:16 PM
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Why wouldn't a woman want a man who is financially stable and conventionally attractive? Moreover, if the goal of most adults is to find someone to build a family with, why would someone want to settle for less than the absolute best they can get? 666 sucks if you're missing a 6 (I'm missing the abs in my case) but I can't blame women for wanting the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:49 PM
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Marriage is a partnership. If I work full-time and my wife is at home, we are evenly addressing the core needs of our lives. We are a team, that means if one person is overwhelmed, the other steps up. If we both work full-time, again we're a team, which means we tackle the home needs together in a balance that works for both of us. I wouldn't expect my wife to do all home things solo. I wouldn't expect my sah wife to have me do everything financial solo (i.e. budgeting, saving, taxes, big purcha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:18 PM
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I don't expect to date someone with identical beliefs on everything. But my core beliefs? Absolutely. If you do choose someone who doesn't align with you in the core beliefs department, you're going to have trouble down the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:19 PM
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This is why I quit having sex, too many sweats
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:21 PM
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Yes, 7% more men get caught cheating than women. (Emphasis on get caught, we have no idea the actual number of unfaithful partners/the gender split.) But that doesn't mean that, blanket, men should be the only ones paying the price for infidelity. Whoever cheats should pay, whoever doesn't shouldn't. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:57 PM
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The 4B Movement bubbling up on Tiktok is just a reactionary "we're made Trump got elected" trend. People who actually want relationships will continue to seek them. People who actually want sex will continue to seek it. And people who want attention will continue to scream on the internet. Simple as. I wouldn't pay it much mind, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:19 AM
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If nothing else, the election proves that the "men suck" movement isn't going to work out in the long run. I've said it to many people who make hateful posts - you're literally creating your political opposition. Every time you open an app and the "good guys" are saying you're the villain? You're going to join the group that's calling you a hero. No one wants to support the movements that hate you. No one wants to support the people who hate you. As someone who voted blue, I'm honestly consideri…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:26 PM
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I'm a big fan of "love thy neighbor." That means physically protecting the radical feminist who hates me because I'm a man. That means physically protecting the racist woman who hates me because I'm black.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:37 PM
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Everyone deserves love, and you're just the right person to love those folks I suppose. Wishing you all the best!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:35 PM
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Bet. 1 - Family Law is put through a serious audit. Policies/Memos are adopted to ensure fair treatment of both parties in terms of child custody and divorce proceedings. 2- Sexual Assault is elevated to a capital offense. Making a false allegation about SA, leading to the conviction and/or execution of an innocent person is also a capital offense. Police are trained to better investigate the reports made by victims so that they are not afraid to come forward. 3 - Dating apps are not required, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:22 PM
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I started typing and then realized what you were doing - fair point, well played.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:42 PM
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I get your overall point and agree with it - it's up to the individual to determine if they are happy with their intimate life. The only issues I have with what you're saying are the moral ones. I'd rather advocate for ending the relationship then making the amoral choice of cheating. And in the first place, I'd advocate for couples having a clear understanding of the desires of their partner. If one person wants 4x a day and the other person wants 1x a month, it's definitely going to be an issu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:39 PM
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I mean, looks only last for so long. You can date a supermodel and find out you're not compatible, y'know?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:24 PM
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Men have centers, call lines, and support groups. The problem is that the struggles men face are minimized and stigmatized by the world still. So, while a woman will be embraced for taking advantage of those resources, men will be criticized for it. Therefore, a lot of men decide it's better to suffer in silence than to out their "weakness."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:43 PM
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Ahhhh, I'm picking up what you're putting down
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:14 PM
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I'd shrug and go back to enjoying time with my perfect woman. What kinda hypothetical is this lmao Is this actually an issue for people? And if so, what's the issue? That she has an ex or that he's huge?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:05 PM
2

This is immensely helpful, because I have no idea what ladies are looking for when swiping.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:14 PM
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I mean, given the version of traditional wife that's been pointed out the obvious answer is modern woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:24 PM
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Is marriage worth it? Imo, absolutely. (I'll keep my reasons secular, but know that I'm religious so I naturally place a high value on marriage by default.) To me, healthy marriages are one of the best ways to produce well adjusted, productive adults. It's also a great way of producing generational wealth to pass down your family line. However, there are a bunch of problems plaguing marriage that make it seem not worth it. The big two in my book are: Gratification Culture: Nowadays, if something…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:17 PM
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Hardy har har
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:03 PM
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Fat = when your weight exceeds what is attractive based on your height/frame. That's basically it tbh. That being said, men consider everybody when it comes to intimacy, relationships, and putting a ring on it. You're a woman, guaranteed there's at least 150 dudes out there who'd pay to bring you coffee in the morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:44 PM
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If you aren't getting respect, empathy, or dignity from your partner L E A V E
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:42 PM
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It's almost like, if you don't want to pay child support, you shouldn't be: sleeping with someone you have no intention of marrying banging in general All of these arguments wouldn't exist if men considered self-preservation before laying with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:41 PM
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You have to remember that the vocal minority (somehow) get an audience when it comes to online spaces. The people with the worst takes are heard the most because they get a reaction. In the real world, men just want a woman who loves them for them and is loyal. In the real world, women just want a man who loves them for them and is loyal. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:28 AM
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In the real world, no one cares about the sexuality of others. No one pays your bills but you. If you want to express yourself? Go for it. Just don't be a creep about it, simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:53 PM
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Only 3% of men whose former spouses have a higher income than them receive spousal support. It's an improvement over 0% but it's still horrendously imbalanced. And I can tell you from experience, not every man who fights for custody gets it. If both parents are decent human beings, the mother gets custody by default. Even if a man fights tooth and nail, with great expense, they typically lose. Again, imbalanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:44 PM
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I'll use family law as an example. Back in '75, when child support was implemented, it made sense. The world was such where women were not as present in the workforce as men, so therefore a woman could be destitute if a man walked out on his family. It made sense to mandate that he supports them. It also made sense that courts were biased, back then, towards giving custody to the mother by default, because again the man was known for making an exit. In 2024, those circumstances don't exist anymo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:37 PM
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I don't enjoy the current version of Feminism. I grew up believing that Feminism was a movement about equality. That men and women should be paid the same, enjoy the same legal protections, etc. However, at some point, a patch went out and Feminism was uplift women at the intentional expense of men. It's one thing for everyone to have equality. It's another thing to intentionally hope that one gender suffers so that the other thrives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:32 PM
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Swiping on everything is very unrealistic. You get limited swipes, the app serves you the popular individuals first, and your own profile is buried unless you pay to have it temporarily shuffled higher. It takes forever, but being mindful with swipes pays off way more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:31 PM
0

...Sounds like a-holes are just being a-holes?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:20 PM
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I'd love to go to a spa, solo, and not feel weird about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:47 PM
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I mean, if we really want to go down the rabbit hole... Abortion is a men's issue, we're just not talking about it. If we as men took full responsibility for who we laid with, we wouldn't see so many abortions today. If we didn't sow seed in places that we didn't intend to marry, abortion wouldn't be a factor. If we exercised self control, abortions for victims wouldn't be a factor. But instead, the issue is thrust on women and we're happy to keep it there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:42 PM
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I grew up in an environment where most mothers were single. Seeing the struggles they went through to support their children solo, along with how difficult it was to find a partner because they had children, leads me to rather be a childfree woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:37 PM
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