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Red Pill TheoryVolatileEnemy/r/TheRedPill24/10/18 03:52 AM
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Right agree with all that. It should be in taste. Advertise it with subtle awareness. Don't hide your muscles. Don't hide your nice car. Just don't try to obsess over it and flaunt it. Though I doubt that "advertising" or "lack of advertising" is a problem for most men, most men will do it correctly or they'll learn quickly what not to do.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 05:35 AM
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You don't realize most of your success was your looks and social proofing. Sure you have skills too, but the thing you did with janitor joke etc., was probably unnecessary or irrelevant to your success. As you just said "I am a top 20% male"... so act like one, civilized and "greater than". What I mean is rise above it all. The bottom 80% are especially trying hard, way way way way way way harder than you ever had to (now maybe some of them never found RP or never read a lot, or had other proble…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 05:23 AM
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As they say it's all the lizard brain from evolution. Men have instinctual urges of hate, anger, violence, racism, tribalism, protecting the family. They aren't taught. Despite how people claim they are. Racism is evil, but that evil is genetically hardcoded evil. Even those who have the ethical civilized fortitude to say "I'm not a racist and I treat black men well" will sometimes instinctually lock their doors, or the white lady clutches her purse. It's instinct. It's not taught. We rise above…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 05:05 AM
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You can blame her for that. It's bizarre behavior, psychologically abnormal to disrespect someone for showing kindness or emotion or feelings. There is no way a man and a woman can live together for decades and the man just stays emotionless and calm the whole time or never has a weak point. Such woman that behave that way are psychologically problematic. (perhaps it's common among women, but it shouldn't be).
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 03:44 AM
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I disagree, flaunting it doesn't necessarily help at all. First it can come off as desperate, look at my car, or look how tall I am. I remember one time a guy kept trying to point out how tall he was, this was the dumbest thing he could do, it immediately eliminated him, but not just that, but his friends totally realized the douchebag thing he was doing (comparing his taller height to others and people noticed) and started excluding him. Showing girls my sportscar never helped. Richness is appa…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 03:35 AM
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It's the same at any age. I doubt adding your height helped you. 5'10" is not something they care about. If you look handsome they'll go for you. The other thing is, height and bone structure come hand in hand, so the taller you are, the more likely you are muscular and have a more pronounced bone structure. That's just the norm. That's also why so many have issues on tinder, because it's all physical attraction. And it's not as popular as it once was.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 03:31 AM
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You didn't offer criticism, you offered insults. Seek psychiatric therapy. Attacking people in a hostile manner and trying to aggravate them is a sign of deep psychological illness. It shows that you take pleasure in the suffering of others and may suffer from a deep depression yourself. All you have done throughout this comment chain is offer insults. And then in a sort of childish and naive attempt you are trying to compete with me, like a sort of "insult trade off" like as if you live the lif…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 03:19 AM
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When women read this kind of forum... they understand what a "player" is. They then have detectors for it, to avoid those that "pump and dump" which is exactly what you did. If you showed interest, and weren't just pump-and-dump, then she wouldn't be against you. You just said you fucked her. Women are hard to get rid of once they fuck you. So her texting you for months, is not her trying to play you or trick you. She probably just wanted a relationship. If she was being a little "hard to get" o…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/18 09:42 PM
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I've got a completely different take. If she's writing long-winded texts trying to get with you, and maybe made some excuse for not being able to meet. It's very possible that she really was busy or whatever (you have to judge this accurately). They don't usually put in this much effort unless they are interested. Even if they hate you, hate is not the problem a man has. Hate and love are opposite sides of the coin and can be transferred between each other. If a woman hates you enough, she will …
/r/TheRedPill28/10/18 09:38 PM
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Sometimes they try but it doesn't work or she finds ways to string them along without full rejection.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/18 09:27 PM
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She said some pretty funny things which just made it apparent how powerful frame is to me So basically you didn't tell us the juicy part in the first example. And in your 2nd example, you said: "you know he probably has the hots for you right..?" Girls sometimes bring around orbiters to meet their boyfriend and will honestly let them compete or fight over her (in their dramatic hamster vision). The orbiter was trying too hard to make you look bad, showing jealousy. So really you didn't do much h…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/18 06:16 AM
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Sometimes I get this sense that it's a domination thing. When a girl gets this sense that she owns you, she can push you around and gain favors from you, like some master plantation farmer, she just gets this distaste for you. Places you in this "friend" bin, but it's more like a "slave" bin. If she feels she can't control you and you are the master plantation owner and basically it feels bad that you are not around, then she feels something for you, and signs up as a slave herself to your plant…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/18 06:10 AM
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They may think them as subpar, but they keep them around for various reasons, mainly external validation. They of course know they are not girlfriends. They do honestly see them as friends sometimes and are well-aware of their sexual intentions (of the orbiters). The more cunning and evil girls will use them as weapons. [Oh you are ignoring me today? I will just talk to this other guy, who is hot but a beta orbiter to get back at you.... Oh you blew me off today to hang out with your friends, le…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/18 06:02 AM
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You're a fucking piece of shit moron who is only attacking people. You don't understand how to write anyway. Childish fucking faggot. All you did was attack. You don't know what criticism is. I don't know why you are so insecure about other people getting attention but this deep psychological hate you have in your heart requires immediate psychiatric attention before you hurt someone or go into a depression. Your shitty insults can't hurt anyone's feelings because what you did here was extremely…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/18 03:03 AM
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Your opinion is wrong. Attacking peoples' writing without any supporting evidence is shameful and dishonorable. You're not being honest. You grabbed those lines even though there was nothing really wrong with it other than the informal way ONE of the sentences was written. I didn't delete any post in shame, so WHAT IN THE FUCK are you talking about? Why are you being so hostile and lying over and over again? Please explain to me the reasoning for your lies and dishonesty. What is motivating you …
/r/TheRedPill28/10/18 01:14 AM
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Ah you are the drill sergeant here ? hehe
/r/TheRedPill27/10/18 08:58 PM
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you failed to accurately predict an outcome, it is because you misread or misunderstood something No it isn't. And I know it isn't, for example, in one situation the girl had a horrific breakup, everything was going well, but nothing was misunderstood or misread. They just did not want to date anyone at this time. But I only found out later. At the time, I may have been analyzing what I did wrong and can't see it. But I hadn't done anything wrong. but it just sounds like you are looking to escap…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/18 08:56 PM
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It actually is, because nothing in this sounded depressed, so either he was lying, or he felt like he read something that was depressive and so he wanted to emphasize that to others to make someone feel worse. . You are getting the feedback you are because there was a lot of tone in your post But there wasn't and I wasn't getting much feedback at all. perhaps a lot of defensiveness When you are being attacked, there is reason to be defensive. I was being attacked clearly. hurt, and blame coming …
/r/TheRedPill27/10/18 08:43 PM
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This is basically proper socialization at a young age. But unlike a bike, you can actually forget things and sound more and more autistic just because you haven't had social practice for some time. Maybe you've been alone for a while. Maybe you haven't had the social network or interactions that many others might have had. Also the kind of autistic "temporary fits" you might have (what I mean by this is occasionally saying something silly that EVERY MAN has done), could even be just a symptom of…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/18 08:36 PM
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The difference is, the Chinese culture is based on shame as you said and more about collectively controlling society for the good of the whole. They do have morals. Unlike Russia, which is why there is a hard on against Russia. They have no morals and everything they do is to defeat their rivals. Both China and Russia are totalitarian but it would be silly for anyone to choose Russia as an ally over China as an ally. Preferably both are destroyed. But Russia is enemy #1 for good reason, because …
/r/TheRedPill27/10/18 08:25 PM
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You were not being honest. Professional organizations literally pay me to write that's how I know you're not honest. You pointed out this sentence: You can and may find someone but you gotta work extra hard at it. And you were even dumb enough to point out this sentence even though there is nothing wrong with it: It's just that the mountain is a lot bigger than you expected. This first sentence is basically informal speaking conversation. It's not meant to be a sentence of exquisite writing or t…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/18 08:18 PM
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You're ridiculously wrong. The idea of being proud for no reason is the most disgusting trait anyone can have. It is narcissism. Narcissism may be attractive if its backed up by reason and intelligence. If it is backed up by moronic ideas and lack of knowledge and just emotions... Then it is worthless. It's like a currency. Pride is the effect of a high value currency. But if your currency is just being printed on napkins in the trillions per day, then your currency is actually worthless and you…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/18 08:11 PM
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That's not something they are doing right. They're paying a big cost as I mentioned, in environment, in salary, in protections, in health, in well-being emotionally and physically. It's not something they're doing right. They're risking everything for their greed. It's gluttony and dishonor.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/18 08:07 PM
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They are weak willed and also very sensitive. Women are sensitive. Say something terrible about your plate/LTR looks sometime, but say it dead serious, not joking. She's going to think about it the whole month and if she thinks she has power, she will find a way to hurt you back with something about you that you are sensitive about. Say something terrible about the appearance of some girl at a bar... See how they react. It's not going to be good.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 02:40 AM
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calling worthless, unintelligent, They're good friends, but I'm giving a realistic assessment on here since this is the internet. You probably have ugly friends... Do you call them beautiful to the internet, just to "not be two-faced"? No you assess people accurately. Just don't tell your friends. probably wouldn't say that shit to their face either, WHY WOULD I? If I told my real opinions to everyone in real life, I would be alone. The truth is very painful. have you ever discussed this with th…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 02:38 AM
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Don't want it too much. Work to improve yourself. I've had situations where I dumped a girlfriend and didn't have anyone for a year+. Some girls are not even worth talking to or spending even 15 minutes with, and you wouldn't know this if you didn't have girlfriends. There is a big illusion going on around you. From movies, from TV, from books, that you think there are all these perfect girlfriends everywhere, there really aren't. They are irritatingly horrible sometimes. Especially if they are …
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 02:15 AM
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Women do not owe you anything. Didn't say anything like that. "why would anyone do that" is just how a man thinks. A man doesn't think "oh yeah you know it's a great idea if I am just not fucking anyone right now even though I can..." That typically doesn't happen. It's more like "I need to work on myself in monk mode so I'm not going to chase women." But never "oh I could fuck anyone I want right now, but you know what I'm not gonna do that... I'm just going to do some pottery right now..." Wom…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 02:04 AM
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This made me laugh because I really love Joe Rogan, but I had just watched his latest special and I enjoyed it but you know, it wasn't that incredible. we are all different complex mechanisms, Yes, this is what I mean when I say that somethings are out of your control and certain things just jive, resulting in some beta or worthless man getting a nice girl. Or a great alpha missing out on some girl. Hell, there is even a "player-detector" radar among some girls, if they smell that you're a pump-…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 02:02 AM
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yet can't because the "inferior, weak, worthless, retarded, gameless beta" is in her panties already What the fuck is wrong with your brain buddy? Are you trying to say that I should fuck over my friends by gaming their wives/girlfriends knowing all the flaws, problems, and weaknesses of those friends? You're a real psychopathic piece of shit... worthless men who aren't smart and have no game yet have GOOD girlfriends and wives I stated this to highlight the fact that perception is not always ra…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 01:57 AM
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I explained it pretty well with the analogy of going to the gym or dieting. Dieting might influence your bodyfat 20% while exercise 80%, but even at a higher level, genetics matters the most. So there are a lot of factors out of your control, which is what I was highlighting. Too many people I see in asktrp etc., are getting angry and bitter because they believe they should be impacting their own lives with their own skills and yet it's not working, because there's this "opposing player" on the …
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 01:55 AM
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The bar is low, but the issue I am highlighting here is that you can become a well-rounded individual but it's not going to suddenly cause you to be flooded with women. You can still have dryspells while being a well-rounded person. My point is that things aren't fully in your control or influence. Being a well-rounded individual just increases your chances.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 01:53 AM
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I don't think I was not considering women as people. I was specifically mentioning friends who were not red-pilled, who just happen to have natural abilities and great personalities and they are sometimes faltering, and I contrasted it with those who have no natural abilities and their success. The reason I did that is to show that you can't just overanalyze each situation in isolation. What works on one woman doesn't work on another. How amazing you are is only a percentage of influence over th…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 01:51 AM
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An interesting thing is that regardless of how women and men are treated in a society. The only ones that did survive are the ones that have a more-or-less equal female-to-male ratio.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 01:46 AM
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number on this sub. Can't articulate an argument but you're here anyway to write something vague and insulting.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 01:43 AM
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I'm writing for 2nd grade readers like you who only read the TL;DR.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 01:40 AM
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It's literally saying the opposite to help those who might be in anger phase. You embarrassed yourself by not even reading the post before commenting.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 01:39 AM
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China has a big population growth with lots of men who will work for cheap, for nearly nothing. They sacrifice their air, oxygen by not regulating pollution, which helps them compete. They sacrifice their any labor protections or safety protections for once again: to help them compete. Men are worthless, women are highly valuable and high-demand. Most men are so single that they've given up on women completely and just focus on their work, sports, or games. There are no politics, as it is a comp…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/18 03:13 AM
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Well of course her jaw dropped, you just said your thoughts out loud "care, smiled and walked away". That was a very strange thing to say to her. She was shocked.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/18 03:00 AM
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But even one time or even hearing a story about that one time it did happen among girls, is enough to scare most girls from doing any direct rejections. They'd rather just not deal with it. And saying "I have a boyfriend" is a convenient rejection without actually having to say "I don't like you" or "You're too short for me" or something like that which could trigger a man into a rage (because let's face it, we all would get mad if we actually heard honest feedback from women about why they didn…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/18 02:56 AM
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You joke, but some beta maggot losers cannot handle rejection. Some ASDs flip out and they do harm or seek revenge or try to humiliate or make a scene. There are lots of men who get really angry and may insult the woman or yell at her or something and that's enough to really ruin a girls week. Women are just protecting themselves from these retards. It's probably not common, but women fear humiliation more than anything so even 1 time or 1 bad past experience, or even 1 horrific insult after rej…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/18 02:53 AM
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I know right... That's why I was like "ok this is a soft next... i dont know what her deal is, but she's waiting for some prince charming and if not settling in 6 months... " But it's flabbergasting that women behave this way. Not even considering the idea of well maybe i'll have fun for 5 months with this guy and find someone else later. No, no, she's just gonna sit it out in case prince charming walks in the door any minute.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/18 11:57 PM
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Women can also sustain themselves, so in a way, you're nothing but a meat sausage for them. Just because they're not some equal partner, does not mean they aren't a partner. They will still care for you and be with you, even if it's just to get food, what more can you want. Are you looking for intellectual partners, then you need to find guy friends. Are you looking for sports partners, then you probably need to find some sports-loving guy friends. Your girl is your girl, she doesn't want to be …
/r/askTRP21/10/18 11:53 PM
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hahaha It's so pathetic when you hear a girl start complimenting your physical appearance or something. It's like hearing a dork talk about his action figure.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/18 08:16 PM
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hahaha It's so pathetic when you hear a girl start complimenting your physical appearance or something. It's like hearing a dork talk about his action figure.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/18 08:15 PM
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Yes more men should be willing to reject and stop going for low quality. Question: what was the original reason you sent her home?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/18 07:48 PM
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Bullshit, even terrible fathers have wonderful sons, but imagine if they had a good father. The father is absolutely responsible and there's way too many ways to fail as a father. And hereditary or family-successions are the worst form of succession. Even companies have failed when the father gave their son the company. Some people are not meant to lead.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/18 07:38 PM
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Her: You want to know something? This was his mistake right here. Her: You want to know something? He should have said: "Absolutely not." (and the delivery is important! That sly smirk and pfft absolutely not and then begin to walk away and sit somewhere else; this is hard to do, you'd have to be quick reacting from the way her tone says "you wanna know something.." like you can tell it's gonna be something lame)
/r/TheRedPill21/10/18 07:34 PM
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It's possible the girl was a psychopath who enjoyed seeing approaching men's reactions to over-the-top horrific insults. And maybe it was a shit test. But it would be like filling out an application to date a psychopath. You should reject the application yourself and tear it up. It's much more likely she had a boyfriend and wasn't interested in people approaching her at this time and so she insulted for fun. Yes, a girl could be upset that a low-SMV guy approached her and wanted to traumatize hi…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/18 07:31 PM
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Someone, I think Dr. Peterson, said it best: "life is suffering just find the good in it." There are too many people out there who think they should have a normal or somewhat rejection-free life. You were born to the wrong gender to hope for low rejections. You deserve the best and should keep working hard, getting smarter, becoming a better man. Don't feel bad; just evolve. Become inspired by the men who pour blood, sweat, an tears into something and make a career out of it or invent something …
/r/TheRedPill21/10/18 07:25 PM
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Yes, the worst thing to do for anyone here is to waste their time on a "potential woman" who is acting too friendly but is roadblocking some of your advances or plans or 'moves'. Just move on guys. I once found out a girl I was trying to date, had made a plan to not date someone for 4-6 months because she wasn't 'ready'... like what was she thinking, she'd string me along and drop IOIs for months? These types of women are horrible people.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/18 07:23 PM
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Yes it's a challenge, but you keep thinking of women as some sort of equal partner. Even if they are your partner, you support them, they support you, it's a team; they don't need to be equal. That's love. Imagine them as beautiful cats that you, YOU have to take care of. That you are keeping around because they're your responsibility and because they're helpless. That's what it is. They are really just looking for a man to take care of them. The second you think women are going to be your partn…
/r/askTRP21/10/18 07:10 PM
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What's the hangup? You don't deserve it sure? Does the soldier that rapes and pillages a village deserve any of the spoils he gets? No, he deserves to be tortured and then executed. Let that guy feel guilty, hopefully. We can only hope he feels remorse. But you are fine, you don't deserve it, but who cares... You get what you ask and you've asked and it worked. No one deserves to be born to a billionaire family either, but it happens. Do you just live your life feeling guilty? Perhaps most would…
/r/askTRP21/10/18 07:01 PM
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I think it's like that hamster that just kinda feels a certain way and is in a certain mood and the stars align and she's ovulating, and then she's like ok cool i'll do something with this guy... Otherwise it's netflix all day.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 06:52 PM
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There are lots of 5s, 4s out there who think they deserve as much and as good a guy as the 7s, 8s, 9s. So my suggestion to everyone is, "at a minimum only go for 6s", the more 6s the better. To me, that's any girl who's thin and looks average or better looking but a bit fat. Average, above-average, that's what you should aim for unless you really know you are a fatty then just go monk mode, being alone is better than practicing on terrible people. No one can explain to me why that one 5 rejected…
/r/askTRP21/10/18 06:39 PM
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Okay call me crazy but I've even seen hypergamy and attempts to look for suitors from the comfort of no relationship and no sexual experience. Isn't that weird? Or maybe a sign of anxiety? I don't know. Women are weird.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 02:50 AM
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You didn't miss anything, most youth voluntarily spend their teenage years playing video games or doing homework. Even most teens and their early sexual experience might as well be worthless and not experienced because it was absolutely boring and silly and awkward. You didn't miss much.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 02:46 AM
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How is "in the face" and "fuck in ass" a "bad thing they don't deserve"? Very strange views of sex you have. You think everything is punishment? Are you a physically abusive person? If you're not physically abusive, then are you just here to humble brag about your amazing success at merely the age of 18? That is quite a weird psychology to have. Congratulations you hit genetic lottery and girls swarm you with little effort and little gaming by you in your short 18 years of experience and they se…
/r/askTRP21/10/18 02:39 AM
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What is anxiety? It is anger. What is depression? It is sadness over the anger. The Surprising Emotion Behind Anxiety Failing to recognize and express anger increases stress and health problems. You are self-treating with food, drinking, smoking, drugs. Because the problem is you don't relieve your anger in a normal proper way. Specifically, when the anger is internalized rather than expressed—think seething inside without showing it. Basically, uncomfortable feelings are not to be expressed, ac…
/r/askTRP21/10/18 01:02 AM
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Yes I think that makes sense. Women do love that.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/18 11:35 PM
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True but it would be a disservice if I don't tell those that are so below average to stop shooting for people way above their league. It would wreck their confidence.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/18 11:07 PM
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This is very feminine writing. One thing you should always remember is not to read something from the perspective of the other gender when it comes to developing a strategy because each gender's strategies conflict with each other. The focus on the "eyes" is a very feminine quality. In scientific experiments, women were found to be always looking at the eyes of the man they are attracted to. They were looking at the man looking at other women too and imagining what physical qualities the man enj…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/18 07:10 PM
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Didn't quite understand the line, can you explain?
/r/TheRedPill20/10/18 04:31 PM
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You're thinking of this from the perspective of a very careless, slutty man who wants to taste everything, or the perspective of a slutty woman who can't help herself. Not the usual scenario though. I certainly, if I was that high up, or a politician especially, wouldn't be fking things left and right.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/18 06:10 AM
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Right, clearly he claims he's having lots of success, maybe it's time to help other men who aren't as handsome or struggle more with women. That could be a worthy cause. Consider the loyalty anyone has to someone who helps someone else find their LTR, future spouse, or get success with women they never thought possible. I have a loyal friend like that I helped him with women once, and he turned that into an LTR and he's just always super nice to me and even buying me stuff where I have to actual…
/r/askTRP19/10/18 02:14 AM
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Being a winner is not enough. Imagine for a moment you're a celebrity, and last 4 months you had 5 super-hot women approach you with clear, very obvious sexual interest in you. But you're protecting your money (or eggs?); you've had bad experiences with women who've tried to do all sorts of tricks to get pregnant; you don't know if tabloids are sending these women just to humiliate you and make money out of kinky pictures; you're really trying hard to get married and have beautiful amazing kids;…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/18 04:23 PM
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She's a tinder girl, she's got tons of guys after her probably. Some girls just don't work out even when things went perfectly. You may have literally made 0 mistakes and 0 inaccuracies and it may not matter. That's the problem with the modern women today, they are indecisive and change their mind a lot. Just soft next. Don't send any more texts. Besides, you have other plates, don't get desperate. I would never feel as bad as you seem to be feeling if I had multiple plates. It would never hurt …
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:40 AM
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You act like you've never had a fight with a girlfriend before. I'm really confused, I'm suspicious that it sounds like you read some TRP stuff and started implementing it in a relationship that's been working okay for decades and everyone noticed your change and she figured it out. The best you can do is make a joke of it and confess your love to her, or you might as well just break up, because you've been with this girl 10 years, she has every right to be mad at you for a variety of reasons pr…
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:29 AM
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Nothing went wrong, sometimes too aggressive can increase defense mechanisms of women. Just wait it out.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 07:46 PM
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Club is more for dancing rather than talking. You have to work entirely off of body language and touching and figuring out what people are thinking. Typically it's for guys who lose girls as soon as they start talking but look physically attractive. If you're not in this category you're going to struggle more. Even better if you are really good at dancing. The club kinda has to be your "habitat" and then you can reap its benefits. It's a bit more advanced too in terms of game and pickup. You'd h…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 07:38 PM
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As long as you value your time. You're only an emotional tampon IF you believe you are. If you believe you are not, then you are not. Everyones' probably been there. Plenty of men have had to sit through listening to problems of women as they try to make you an emotional tampon, because that is what they desire the most, someone to tell their issues to who will listen. If you're someone who never listens to any women's problems, then you likely are not going to be with them for a long period of …
/r/askTRP13/10/18 07:32 PM
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not bad at all. It's a skill
/r/askTRP13/10/18 03:43 AM
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Because they think you're a good friend and a good listener. No one does that to me, no one pours out their problems to me, because they think i'm an asshole and I tell them my problems.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 02:26 AM
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Doesn't make a total difference. You can easily move or lose all your friends with little or even a lot of effort by yourself to keep them. Making friends isn't easy, maintaining them takes effort, yeah some are handed friendships, but not always, some people struggle to build them throughout their lives. To make friends you should go around doing good things for people and they will hopefully be receptive to you. If you go into the world with a lot of innocence and smiles, you can make a lot of…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 02:18 AM
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You'd have to have a pretty worthless job if you can get fired so easily or can't convince people of your innocence. You don't have to SHIT where you eat in order to get SHIT ON, you can literally do that just by accidentally brushing your hand on someone or just by saying something offensive. Dating or fucking them isn't going to increase the risk that much at all.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 02:06 AM
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This is the right answer. So of course there are occasional guys you'll see here with ZERO game getting some success due to some exquisite facial features and muscular body/genetics. However, for MOST MEN you will see <30% chances, sometimes even <10% chances. Even having game is no guarantee, you need exposure (venues to meet girls). There are some on here who also have social connections, for example, they literally have a GIRL set them up with A GIRL, which is the easiest in the world. The bl…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 09:36 PM
0

This is a bit ridiculous, yeah you do sometimes date people you will meet at work because it's not like you can only go out with people from the bar and club and if you did that you'd probably be self-selecting for really slutty chicks anyway. like you can't find any other women out there in the real world Work is the real world. The idea that you can find women left and right anywhere is ridiculous unless you're in college. Just make sure they are trustworthy and normal.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 09:29 PM
9

Is this like a troll post and a bunch of troll replies? Like maybe I should make a post like "asktrp: halp, girl was making orgasm-like noises while sex. what do"
/r/askTRP12/10/18 09:24 PM
2

Exactly, why even bother making a post? you are probably gonna do just fine.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 09:22 PM
0

You're being a complete fucking moron. He's complaining about something when he clearly is at a superior advantage. No one is making fun of the skinny/fat-guy on his first day here. It's not a first-day thing, this is a "woe is me, despite all my advantages" thing. t that doesn't mean all girls come flying to him They don't come flying to anyone. So your expectations are retarded. Stop coddling people who don't need it. Go help someone in actual need.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 09:18 PM
3

Whiny little bitches on here always needing sex from a women... no real alpha men just look bitchin and hang out with other men that look bitchin. Like fuckin roman statues... Ain't gonna fuck that nasty taco and lower my T...
/r/askTRP12/10/18 06:24 AM
1

Seriously, this frustrates me the most... Medical student = the very time you really need to fucking focus on your tradecraft. Medical student = still young enough Medical student = in the field with probably the most chicks-per-guy ever... wtf... The AskTRP post is so sad on so many levels. There is like nothing to be unhappy about for OP.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 06:12 AM
3

Don't understnad what you mean by "becoming girlfriend", what exactly does that mean? If you're funny, getting numbers, then getting isolated dates with them, that's most of the battle. The last step is making moves or touching/kissing.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 02:08 AM
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Bullies tend to be believe they are alpha, but really are just betas with attitude problems and too many insecurities which leads them to want to feel superior to others. Alphas already know they are superior so they don't have to prove it or rub anyone's face in it. Most apparent when you see it with a teenage bully that joins the military and after some years later you see them again, then they start acting much nicer and disciplined. They have more confidence and less insecurities because the…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 06:00 PM
1

I'm not sure sometimes a conversation is directed in a certain way and someone recalls something from a past relationship and they talk about it. BPD red flags are usually very drastic, like she says something scary or threatening or drastic mood changes that seem insane and hysterical. Says something suicidal like "if you cheat on me I will kill myself!" things like that. But saying "i was cheated on, it sucked" is not red flag.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:42 AM
1

How is it any more phenomenal lol?
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:41 AM
1

This is bullshit... by 5-6 months, most women will reveal pretty much everything to you unless you're just really bad at conversation and connecting. Most hot women (just by being HB8,9,10) will sometimes create warnings like "don't ever lie to me" and "don't ever cheat on me" because they have experienced this and it has hurt them. Doesn't mean they are borderline. It just means that hot women date lots of assholes.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:38 AM
3

The way you frame the concept of being cheated on matters as a part of strategy: to reiterate the consequences of someone cheating on you. If no consequences happened and that's how you tell the story, then it will be comforting to a girl who decides to cheat on you next time that in your previous case you didn't do anything about it. So some men will even fabricate being cheated on in the past just to introduce the consequences of what happens when they get cheated on. A girl should be thinking…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:33 AM
1

Hey fuck you, I'm gonna defend moms here... :) The wife is using the husband as a tool, and the mother-in-law is trying to protect her son from being abused by this sexy witch and temptress who is leading him astray! Mothers disapprove of a lot of girlfriends because they want their son to not negotiate away their power to some random girl who has blinded the son with sexiness. It's also not about dependency... It's more like a lot of mothers still want a lot of attention, even if it's just from…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:25 AM
1

It's my favorite argument too... Whenever someone accuses people of misogyny and failing to understand women in relationships, I'm like "bitch if it was a bunch of gays they'd have a stable relationship and they wouldn't have to do any of that because they love each other." And it shuts them up real quick. If there only existed men, we'd just have one grindr app and ppl wouldn't struggle with finding love or companionship. Just by looking at the gay community, we can clearly identify: something …
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:17 AM
2

I don't know what kind of retards you are finding, but even among social circles full of liberals, I've never heard the retarded things you've said. Though yeah we see a lot of that "must believe her" crap. Please unfriend them, or stop paying attention to such losers. Women also praise a lot of men without actually rewarding them with any sex. It's quite a shocker to see such a nice girl say such nice things about kind men and then at another instance they might say something completely uncalle…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:10 AM
2

everyone's life is pretty boring though that's normal. Very few are actually rockstars or celebrities. You gotta be fine with just eating a doner, you know.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 08:14 PM
3

That's kinda interesting, most people are in the opposite situation, they have all sorts of social skills and it doesn't always help. Looking really good and having attractive features actually lets you get away with more in terms of making social mistakes. If you get bested by someone in conversation with a pretty girl or whatever, that's okay, it's not a big deal. You can't expect the greatest social interactions all the time. Try to observe and learn how people communicate and lead a conversa…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:26 PM
3

Stop being so depressed, you're still in your 20s right? Much of life is ahead of you. One girl? Try messing up with 10 girls. Anything can happen. Get into more shit, if you're not having fun in social life, try having fun in work life, if you're not having fun in work life, try expanding your social life, if you're not having fun in either, try reading more books and learning new things. Focus on becoming smarter and better. Make a plan for what you're gonna do or get into next.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:19 PM
1

yes but only after tuesday.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 05:26 PM
1

yes texting is to stay minimum, especially not when you're at work. What I mean is, yeah by next week or so, that's when you have to initiate a text.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 05:46 AM
1

Honestly, I kinda have the same issue that I can't settle for lower either. maybe not an issue either, just a choice. . If you even think about applying dread game on these type of girls say goodbye to your reputation and access to these girls. wow, well I never had such a social circle access so I never knew about that. That explains a lot about the guys who were in that kind of circle. They think very traditional things work. Yeah don't lower standards if you can't. You want what you want. I w…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 04:57 AM
1

??? you have to text her... always...
/r/askTRP07/10/18 04:51 AM
2

Yes wait a while. Women find weird ways to direct you to a date they are available. Here she is basically explaining it all, she's got certification on Tuesday so she probably doesn't want to do anything before then. Try to go out with her thursday or something next week. If they're saying "sorry" a lot and "looking forward" and all that, that's a good sign. A bad sign would be a message like this: "Hey, I'm a bit busy on the weekend and got a test coming up tuesday that I have to study for." An…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 03:34 AM
2

Hotter girls have a lot more resistance and discipline it seems. Like as if they are easily bored, show almost no signs (better at hiding it perhaps after so much experience). Even if they get kinda drunk and sexual they can put up last minute resistance too. Meanwhile, a non-attractive girl gets nervous, talks to you and her voice is just oozing with anxiety, she's showing a lot more traditional signs, they have less resistance. It all just goes back to SMV economics really. The hotter you are …
/r/askTRP07/10/18 03:26 AM
1

Who cares? Their opinion doesn't matter. And he's just trying to be friendly. They're frat boys, why do you care?
/r/askTRP07/10/18 03:17 AM
1

Yeah that will definitely help. And it absolutely messes with you and I feel your pain. But don't be surprised with having long dryspells if your standards are set that high. Sometimes you do have to settle for less. But yeah having friends that endorse you and get you dates is invaluable. I have met guys who rely on that 100%, but even they end up alone sometimes. Building and maintaining a large social circle is not easy either. It is upkeep and people easily forget you. I've had friends who p…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 03:16 AM
1

The point is they next them and go for other girls or do some self-improvement for a while. Not inceldom. But I am realistic in that, they may not find other girls for some time, but they should try.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 03:06 AM
2

It's not about being nice or mean. It's about being confident, having charisma, game, humor, intelligence, and knowing your value and how time is valuable. Plenty of nice guys have phenomenal girlfriends but you know what? They know how to sound cool and are very funny and fun to be around. They're not mean at all, but they see a girl at a more proper value. It's all about demonstrating value. No amount of meanness is gonna get a fugly or fatty get laid. You can also easily be mean to a girl in …
/r/askTRP07/10/18 03:02 AM
9

I felt like people weren't nicer to me when I was younger. That everyone felt meaner to me. Everyone ignored me when I was younger it felt. Today, I look good (or at least above average), people are always friendly around me. Women treat me nicer. Co-workers and bosses of all types seem to like me better. People want to go to lunch with me. Younger guys want to join my team and ask me to rescue them from their shittier teams. I also feel more confident and funny and being humorous seems to reall…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 02:56 AM
1

That's awesome... Attractiveness level goes up with silver/gray hair.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 02:44 AM
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That's exactly right. Good advice someone wrote was: How awkward would it look if the hot girl you imagine being with was next to you in the mirror? If it looks awkward, you probably still have a long way to go. Gotta improve in all directions: intelligence, work ethic, body, career, social intelligence. Alpha is not just about having the right attitude or being strong. It's about being the best. The women follow and look to take a ride in your rollercoaster. And for fucks sake, you're 20 years …
/r/askTRP07/10/18 02:37 AM
1

Your solution is worthless... Most of those asking questions here have oneitis or in friendzone BECAUSE they cannot talk to multiple women who show interest in the first place. Something they may not have thought of is: just next them and stop obsessing over them, so that you can focus on something else. However, telling them "yeah go find more girls" that's like... wow genius, I never thought of that, that's right go find more interested girls, it's that simple, so easy! Who woulda thunk it?
/r/askTRP07/10/18 02:32 AM
1

It's a part of life. All girls shoot upward, so the idea is that you should become high up there. And yes sometimes you can do better than what you can, I'm just saying it's not the norm. So you should set expectations lower.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 02:30 AM
2

Bit silly to categorize so intricately. Most young men have trouble with women. Most will experience a breakup or getting cheated on. And almost 100% will experience a friendzone once in their life. Approach anxiety completely normal among virtually all men. It's pre-programmed. Can't get laid well depends on your circumstances and some get lucky while others do not. The goal here is to improve your chances through game, skills, and self-improvement. If you are a beta who is talking to a lot of …
/r/askTRP06/10/18 11:43 PM
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48 laws doesn't help much at all. You just have to stop obsessing over women. The fact that you won't even nut in a toilet, shows how much you care too much and how high your expectations are for success in the near future (highly unlikely because success always comes in odd times). Most men stay virgin for a long while or they get dry spells for a long while even when they are attractive (I have a lot of honest friends sometimes it shocks me too). In early 20s, you should be building knowledge,…
/r/askTRP06/10/18 11:34 PM
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Don't overreact. Girls do stupid shit like that. I'm sure many of my ex's did and I didn't read any of their phones and it all went pretty well. You could bring it up like "I saw a text from a guy pop up on your phone as it was sitting there... are you texting with your ex's?" and she'll make some excuse or whatever, and you'll say "look if you want to be with one of your ex's just tell me and we can just break up and you can go and be with him..." Say it with deadpan seriousness. "I'm just not …
/r/askTRP06/10/18 11:25 PM
2

This is a bit silly to say, to act like as if you can just talk to so many women at once, is not easy. Obviously if they had plenty of women to talk to, they wouldn't be betas. It would be like saying "oh you can't get sales in your store? Try getting more customers"
/r/askTRP06/10/18 11:16 PM
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It's okay to get rejected a few times at first. It's okay to ask again for some other time. Obviously if you keep getting excuse and no alternative times she's not interested. Next. I wouldn't really go after asian girls though, they have weird cultural/religious things going on.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 11:13 PM
3

I've had better success not being silent. I actually get silent sometimes on a date or something and just sit around, and some girls you would think would fill up the silence with talking about stuff, but some don't. And it just gets more awkward and usually those dates don't pan out. It's okay to ask a lot of questions on a date. It's good to try to lead the conversation if you can. Try to evoke some emotions or strong opinions. Be playful but not too tryhard. To be honest, the more experience …
/r/askTRP06/10/18 11:05 PM
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It's probably not your looks (based on your past success). You probably look average. Looking average or EVEN above-average is NOT good enough for a lot of the attractive women WE as guys go after. It's a relativity and SMV thing. Attractive women are in high demand, and there is a short supply (just think of all the fuglies & fatties you swiped left on). It's that you are looking for pretty or even average looking girls. Rule goes like: "HB10 girls go for 10 guys..." HB7 girls also go for 10 an…
/r/askTRP06/10/18 10:25 PM
4

HS / College is a lot easier. Women outside of college start developing even higher standards (and they've also probably been hurt a lot in terms of break ups so they are even more anxious and shy). Nowadays women are very spoiled too, they've been brainwashed by the apps where they got a lot of attention so they start to believe they are even more entitled. You have to go for less attractive women too. What's amazing about this "sexual economy" is that the girls you find attractive, are also th…
/r/askTRP06/10/18 10:18 PM
1

Woah we have an edgelord here
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 12:24 AM
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But that's what we have. I think you'd find a lot of men have the same problem if their girlfriend/wife suddenly gets fat and ugly. You'd see a lot more men willing to cheat (if they can actually find someone to cheat with) or leave their wife/gf. They say "your best friends are the ones who show up on your bedside when you are sick"... And well, many men won't show up to the bedside of a constantly depressed wife/girlfriend. Same with many women won't show up to the bedside of a constantly depr…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 03:23 AM
1

This is pretty sickening. I have sisters and a mom, you fucking piece of shit. This is why you don't get laid.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/18 06:14 PM
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lolwuttttttt.... Nothing to do with it. It's because they think they are "being fair and balanced" to "both parties". That's why it's not banned or quarantined. Not because of any rules or logic. It's just an attempt of "well we don't want to ban the ruling party's subreddit"
/r/TheRedPill30/09/18 06:02 PM
0

No you're lying. Stick to the truth buddy, go read T_D and you will notice it.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/18 06:01 PM
1

Buddy, you can cum in girls all the time and they won't always get pregnant. It's not as simple as a one time thing usually. Just hope you don't get unlucky. Don't do that stuff you did with Plan B, if she's not taking it, she's not taking it. Try to convince her, if it doesn't work, it doesn't work. Let it go. Roll the dice. If she is preg, then okay try to convince abortion. With the promise that you want to have a baby with her in the future. That's the only way.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 05:38 AM
1

It's not easy to account. By the way, you can fail as: an attractive person with no game. You can fail as: an average person with a lot of great game. But the looks & height are #1 factor, because it's really one of the main ways to get a phone number or a date.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 05:32 AM
1

OP is probably lying and exaggerating. The whole post stinks of brag. I know plenty of very attractive men, leading successful lives, taller than him, older than him, with game by the way, not getting that much pussy. They have a whole myriad of failures. He could of course be a 5'7" male model, but he confesses that he does fuck some fatties.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 05:28 AM
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You think you can fuck 22 good-looking women by age 21? No you can't. He's fucked a lot of horrible chicks and fatties. That's the part he's not telling you. Let alone a short guy fucking all these women, yeah it helps to be in college/high-school, and he seems to think his own friends are fucking way more than him. It's a lot of bullshit (by his friends). If he fucked 22 as he says, then it's probably just mostly fatties/fuglies. Just the way he keeps saying "22 girls. It's not much by today's …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 05:26 AM
3

Not sure I'd agree with the last bit. The reason so many guys keep adopting the "friend first" beta strategy is because it does work (but way less frequently and it's time-consuming when you coulda been out there getting other chicks). It's also a lot more prone to failure or being used as a prop when they fight with a boyfriend. These orbiters might actually succeed one day, but it might take a miracle or some rapid change in themselves. It's hard to negotiate from a position of weakness which …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 05:17 AM
7

They seem to treat us more like cars rather than people they love. "Ah this car will definitely make all the guys at work adore me..." But they don't love the car...
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 05:07 AM
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So this is an interesting thing though. You would think like if you as a guy were in her shoes, you'd just go after what you like. You wouldn't go after someone because other girls/guys like someone (I mean it might help but that it could be a primary motivator in some girls is crazy). That's like as if society and social pressure is picking for her, rather than she picking for herself. So here's my theory on that. Maybe, just spitballing here, maybe they actually enjoy the friendzone. You're ba…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 05:05 AM
1

Wait you can do that for hours? Maybe there is something to that I don't know. I didn't think it would be a big difference.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 04:55 AM
1

Yeah and honestly, if you're consistently working out and eating high protein, you are probably doing okay. Don't overthink it like I do.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 04:54 AM
11

This HB9 was sure I had another girl. Sure of it. She was calling, texting, texting me to call her like as if: if I didn't it means that I must be with someone, making surprise visits to "catch" me. Offering herself, attempts to lure me back to her place with promises of naughtier acts (because I wasn't coming over anymore). What had I changed, had I planted the genius seeds of dread, or did I really have another plate? No, I was playing chess and was sick of her shit and wanted her out of my li…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 04:28 AM
2

RP itself is so complex. Most people here are not even doing as well as they claim. The resources themselves are not even that excellent sometimes. You get tidbits like squeezing juice from rocks sometimes from more experienced RPers and your own experiences over the years that you figure out yourself. And it can't just be one-dimensional. You have to be self-improving too. And it's not because of women only, it's because of the economics of it. Hot women are in high demand and we aren't the one…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 04:13 AM
2

This is kinda my plan, but I need to finish my cut finally. Just a few cheesecakes have been getting in the way.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 04:10 AM
3

I'd agree with that. You don't get paid a lot for non-anxiety-or-stress-inducing jobs usually. If it's not risky, they won't pay you much.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 04:08 AM
1

It's definitely a good argument but there's a counter theory to that, if you have the fat, you need to take it off, the muscles will find ways to synthesize protein that you are getting in a high-protein diet and a lot of that fat has been trapped there for years. Now which theory is right? How can we find out? Well, when I simply eat too much, mainly protein, what I end up doing is, I take a crap and it becomes very hardened. It is packed with protein. This implies that the body found no use fo…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 04:02 AM
2

If might makes right, then wtf are you doing on here... Just go break shit, pussy. Why are you a loser on an internet website? You should be living like tarzan fuckin' pussy.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 03:50 AM
1

It's pretty nice to have a doctor to kinda guide you. The doctors I talked to, while very unethical, they still told me that that sorta thing is a bad idea. Again I have to kinda trust them, they're not scared of me, they trust me completely, so it's not like they're being overly cautious. Anyway, just not sure it's worth the money you know.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 05:00 AM
1

To each his own. I think you are probably fine and likely will do what you are programmed to desire anyway. So that is what bad people rely on. Just be careful you know. I'm not sure I entirely believe the cuck concept being all that common. I'm usually on the more cautious side of things, so I dunno. I myself wouldn't be worried because I carry but others should be more careful.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 04:59 AM
1

I thought the T differences were temporary... is refactor period really that bad?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 04:57 AM
4

Hmm yeah but hmm, hmmmm damn that's a hard choice. Abs are so cool though :/ fml
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 04:56 AM
1

Rescued animals is a big thing. Definitely #1 choice as far as I can think of, because girls looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove animals. But honestly, most volunteering will do. I remember I volunteered a couple times in my life as a teenager, and I remember meeting lots of people. Bear in mind, depending on the type of volunteering, there will be different types of girls. Obviously hottest chicks are probably gonna be animal rescue or peace corps. Girls love travel, shopping, fashion, dance, …
/r/askTRP25/09/18 04:34 AM
1

Thank you. I agree, if she's into me this much at this point, the worst that can happen is she gets mad a little that I tried to kiss her and says "i thought we were just really good friends!" big whoop I told her next time we're going into the city for a night out. I guess I've been kinda stalling for a weekend outing. Okay, now that I think about it, there was this one time she said something about not understanding how some dresses work that she's "new to this" sort of fashion (I didn't think…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 04:24 AM
0

Yes this was my strategy (which you know has never worked badly, even with women who rejected me at least I got 2-3 makeout sessions) but then some asshole fucked with my mind, he's very experienced with women (as far as I can tell) and he said to me on the phone "no don't make a move here, she looks like she's assessing you by first having you as a friend", not sure maybe the guy isn't as experienced as I thought or he does know something I can't tell, hence my own self-doubt now. I am going to…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 04:20 AM
1

What about the opposite? I met a girl recently and it goes really well. I mean, everything is awesome. But I must have started from a low point because after I had gotten her number she explained that she just wanted to be "friends and that if that's okay she'd come out for more drinks." This is of course new territory to me, because usually a girl will leave things "murky" and later decide what to do after she gets to know you more. Anyway, since then went out about 3 times for drinks and each …
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 04:13 AM
2

That's interesting, are you saying we get more anxious as we get more successful? Is that true?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 03:56 AM
1

Think just low bodyfat is good enough I don't think you actually need "the V". I'm really hopeful that 10-15 years of working out will make me look great.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 03:55 AM
5

Yeah and it's not abnormal to have some attention-seeking in women.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 03:33 AM
2

hybrid bpd/npd females Probably that's the kind I've mostly encountered. I remember them as very wonderful at times, and very destructive, mean-spirited, downright evil, and their threats very serious.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:56 AM
2

Yeah it's possible, but it's also possible he met two recent women who are psychopaths.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:52 AM
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It's not. I'm just expressing the reality for a lot of people. If it was easy, everyone would just lift a few years and be great looking.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 05:52 AM
3

Most BPDs are extremely manipulative and liars. They have short-fused mood changes. They can be quite sweet, caring, and empathic sometimes too (goes from the nicest motherly person to the worst psychopath and vice-versa). They're just an emotional rollercoaster and it feels like walking around landmines most of the time. Something might set her off. They can both hate and love with intense passion.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:22 AM
2

Look at my comment history, I just replied to another post on here. NOW THAT is BPD women that guy is dealing with. Look at his post.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:20 AM
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Those are BPD women, stay the fuck away. Are you meeting them on some trashy app or the club or something? Try to avoid the same place. In other words: yes you met psychopaths. 100% psychopaths. Not your normal or average women. But also please examine your own behavior too, sometimes even crazy psychopaths can be triggered by your offenses/mistakes. There is always room for self-improvement.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:19 AM
3

when it meets the criteria The criteria is usually dependent upon whether it is causing damage to their life or to lives around them. This is also why diagnosis is hard, because BPDs lie and refuse to admit the harm they cause. No, not every girl has mild bpd, When I say mild, I don't mean a disorder in the mild sense. I mean elements of BPD could be noticed in some of the things they do. Being BPD is like being a very extreme "girl" talkative, emotional, empathic, deceptive, mood changes, being…
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:14 AM
1

NO. WRONG. That's not how it works my friend. Fucking you got 50 year olds hitting on 20s girls. Don't even kid yourself. You think a woman with money, plastic surgery, who is 55 but looks 28, wouldn't continue going for all sorts of men? Yes she damn well would. Nothing creepy about any of it. 30s guys hitting on 20s girls is actually the norm. Dead serious. Not to mention you have a better chance. Remember that women ALWAYS date 4-6 years older than themselves. Take that to the bank. I agree i…
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:07 AM
1

I don't know, as long as you trust them in your house or being in their house (you don't know who they are it could be risky). I have never ever had the opportunity, this is the sort of thing you hear about in the movies. I guess go for it and learn? But I don't wanna be responsible for you losing your organs, so be careful?! I think I saw that kinda thing on Jack Ryan episode on Amazon Prime recently. Nothing happened really, he got smacked in the face. And yes I've heard stories where this kin…
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:04 AM
4

f.lux does nothing for me, still sleeping way too late and getting up way too early... fuckin 5 hours is gonna kill me. omfg, as I type this, f.lux is like "you have to wake up in 6 hours!" fuck... leave me alone flux, I'll go to bed when I feel like it!
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 04:59 AM
1

Yeah it always feels that way because we are so programmed to compare ourselves to our betters. My heart aches for the guy at work who is like 5'3... wait a second no it doesn't fucking bastard is married to a hottie who is taller than him. My lengthy experience has also been telling me it's more about getting exposure to meet a lot of women more than anything else.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 04:56 AM
3

You know I can't dance either, still can't. But I had dated a girl who goes to the club a lot. She is hot but cannot dance either. So we just awkwardly dance like idiots. But despite all that everything went great with her. Now I don't really care because since I was in clubs so much with her, I can see no one can dance right anyway. All I can do is look at professional dancers on TV for a minute and I can already see just what a huge difference that is. So I'm not too worried nor do I care anym…
/r/askTRP24/09/18 04:52 AM
7

I was laughing hard that he didn't own an airconditioner.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 04:47 AM
25

And buy a motherfucking airconditioner...
/r/askTRP24/09/18 04:45 AM
1

Not necessarily. Every woman has a minor form of BPD just like every man has a minor form of autism. They're all kind of in a spectrum of some kind or another. Where it becomes a disorder is when they are a danger to you or others.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 04:43 AM
9

She was HB5 and you are 17. CHILL OUT. You are not doing bad at all and you don't need to worry about any of this. Most people didn't even know about RP at 17. You have placed too much importance on all of this. This is just a game.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 04:39 AM
9

You're like 23, and I already sense a lot of bitterness and sadness in this post. Like seriously? Get a grip. You are just starting life. You have nothing to worry about and you seem to already be having some great success. And if you meet an 8 and can instruct her to meet you at a bar and have sex. You probably are already pretty tall or handsome. Good job, now stop worrying and obsessing.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 04:33 AM
0

I used to think about this more, but I've realized I am usually taller or tall as, most people within most groups. Or there will be like one taller guy or something. It's not too bad in other words to be 5'8... As long as you don't go to a bodybuilding forum where everyone has a "omg it's hopeless" attitude when they hear anyone is below 5'11. Height is one of the biggest indicators of genetic health which is why girls prefer it. In fact, if you're taller, unlike the popular myth, it is actually…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 04:26 AM
4

Well there's a limit... 6'0 to 6'8 is the juicy part for most women. The top 20%. 5'7+ have a decent chance too. Yes you will struggle below that. But most women are like between 5'0 to 5'8 themselves. It's relative for sure. When you're taller than a girl you have a better chance.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 04:21 AM
4

I mean that is the average but, depending on the "hallway" you CAN be the taller guy in the hallway because 5'7, 5'8, 5'9, 5'10 is tall. There's quite enough people at the 5'6, 5'5, 5'4 levels. Guys gotta also remember that the difference between 5'8 and 6'0 is 4 inches which isn't much.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 04:14 AM
4

It's a very expensive habit (~$500 month I believe), I would say, you're already doing fine, I don't think you need it. fyi, the big negative is actually getting really angry and doing something stupid that affects your life or career, or messing with your natural production. Think of it this way, for $500 a month you can just do a different illegal thing: buy prostitutes.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 04:10 AM
14

You know I do agree that things started "working out better" since I got more muscular. Been working out consistently for 5 years. Still not huge or even close to hugest guy at the gym or anything, but I don't look like a skinny guy. Just look fit. However, I still don't look very "defined" or muscular, so still struggling with girls. No one's gonna say "yeah that guy lifts a lot" #GeneticTrashCrew checking in. I'm hoping more years of gym will help. (No it's not a T issue (though it's not that …
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 03:59 AM
1

It's an interesting dilemma really. Perhaps it means something. From an evolutionary perspective, only the real amazing get to procreate. Perhaps also it means that our beta-society in the past of "controlling women" where daughters were sold off for alliances and money and family/tribal reasons in arranged marriages etc., has also led to the creation of a lot of beta males in today's world who are now aimless and can't find women now that women can more freely choose? It's an interesting proble…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 07:21 PM
3

Well if you're at that level, congratulations, you're probably close to male model. No one has said anything complimentary about my face except for one guy who I talked to about dating profiles etc. That is the only real reason I think it's "above average" but I could be wrong, maybe he was being kind? I've been demanded for sex by girls who are actually in a relationship with me, but never from strangers or acquaintances. And I'm not sure I'd call it "beg", more like very horny and demanding. I…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 08:05 PM
1

yeah and then you can delete too. There's an imgur delete link. Yes so jaw line is a big one.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 03:34 AM
2

That's quite a lot of success. You must be verrry attractive (at least according to my experience and those of my IRL friends who are good looking too). That never happens in a period of "couple days" even for the most attractive person in my group. Do you mind PMing a picture or through an alt account? There are a few facial features that can be quite attractive to girls I hear.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 03:27 AM
11

IS it just your face, or are you showing muscles ( I don't mean shirtless) ? are you showing other activities? Are you mentioning your height? A lot of factors go into it. Even though you may be thinking of "40 lbs of muscle" rofl, that's overkill. Most women see something with just the "toned look" and it turns them on. I have put on 30 lbs of muscle over 4-5 years of working out, but I don't look like any fitness model with veins and all (I'm not even referring to bodybuilders). I look sorta a…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 03:04 AM
2

I had kinda developed this naturally through my own experiences and reading stuff, but there are other versions of this self-posts, and the only difference is, they don't call it "hypnotize", they just call it "having game". Finally it still kinda falls under the ranking: exposure to women status, celebrity, power attractiveness conversation skills / game (this is where this falls under) Relying on only #4, doesn't usually work.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 02:28 AM
-3

Russell Brand Has made a career out of being a shit personality, with shit politics, humiliating himself multiple times, and shit opinions.... while he was just a very handsome man. That's it. His success is directly linked to his attractiveness and his unique style of obnoxious talking. Would we even know about him if it wasn't for that one movie? Where he is typecasted as an attractive boyfriend?
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 02:26 AM
102

That is the truest thing anyone has said in the history of tinder. If you look average or below average. Just uninstall already, don't pay them money either. I'm just telling you it's not going to work. I had dates through tinder, it's not easy to get and that was back before SEVERAL algorithm changes back in 2014/2015. Think about what that means...
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 02:08 AM
3

Nature isn't what you think it is. First of all, throughout human history, there was an anti-natural agenda at play: men controlling women through sheer force. The Strong tribal chieftain and his warriors got all the women, but not always because the women liked them, but because they had no other choice. Imagine a weak beta male trying to take a beautiful woman in the tribe. The warriors would have a say in that and fight him for it. But the woman's natural evolutionary thinking might be that s…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 03:32 AM
5

It is normal. Men post all the time for validation too. In fact, some of them, might even be posting self-posts about their ideas about the world for attention. And that's not that crazy.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 03:24 AM
10

That's ridiculous. Plenty of men are attention addicts too. A lot of them even have instagrams. I think a trained psychologist would know a little better about whether some attention-seeking is bad or not, versus a severe amount of attention-seeking. And controlling teenage daughters is not some easy task anyway, what is he gonna do? Provide ultimatums of "hey stop posting on instragram"??? Seriously?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 03:24 AM
3

Just as guys join a gang, women join a gang too in a way where they are selecting a "gang member" as a protector. Also I wouldn't doubt that some were prostitutes or addicted to drugs before they even got to know the gang members. Likely the gang members were selling them drugs when they met them. Oh and it's also a bit of exposure to women too (this is key but I don't mean dating apps, I mean real life interaction all the time). See the drug dealers meet a lot of women, because women look for d…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 03:14 AM
1

Everyone perceives everyone differently. Some girl being crazy is subjective. If they are acting in a way where they respect you for who you are in your worst form, then they probably aren't that crazy.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 03:37 AM
2

Stop being a petulant child. Crazy is a subjective definition. Not everyone is there only for themselves. You cannot predict anyone so easily.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 01:26 AM
5

If you do all that and she still sticks by you, maybe she's not crazy. Maybe you're crazy for not keeping a crazily devoted girl who is obsessed with you enough to defend you in your worst moments and you provide minimal effort and get nothing but pleasure back. The whole point of my tactic is that you are become the WORST version of yourself. And if someone loves the worst version of yourself, then ... maybe she's worth your best version of yourself. If you're only dumping her because she's got…
/r/askTRP14/08/18 02:51 AM
1

At that point nothing is enough. I wouldn't worry about it. If she's still sticking by you no matter what, then maybe she isn't crazy... Maybe she's just crazy devoted and you should keep her.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 02:49 AM
67

Easiest way out: Just cry... cry a lot. Act like having sex made you a girly man that sleeps a lot and mopes around all day, you don't take her out anywhere, and be as boring as possible, be clingy and desperate, talk about how you're not worthy of her, talk about only the things she gets bored out of her mind about. If you're not having to go to work: stop taking showers, keep your hair a mess, wear bad clothes, burp/fart a lot, talk about financial woes. Done deal.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 04:15 AM
2

Yes, women say things that are socially acceptable or what they realize is sensible... which is not the same thing as what they fantasize about and hide from the public. How many times have you heard women say "I actually watch this reality TV show, I know it's embarrassing but it's a guilty pleasure..." It's like they are proud of their guilty pleasures. They damn well know, in the front of their brain, that reality TV is stupid and retarded and a total waste of time. They do it anyway. It's a …
/r/askTRP13/08/18 03:40 AM
1

Nothing to do with victimhood. You are discussing history that is all in a factual way. It's not emotional. I have absolutely discussed extensive history about the Holocaust before in the past and people were intrigued and found it all very interesting and informative. I'm not referring to discussing sad or seriously upsetting topics with women, not at all saying that.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 03:26 AM
5

Yes, don't lower your standards in order to have abundance. Just try to build up your confidence by being comfortable with who you are. Worst than anything is if you start chasing chubbies and uglies, and then THEY reject you. That will destroy your fragile emotional well-being. Abundance is not going to happen to a lot of men. Let's just get that out there. You just can't let that dictate your charisma and life. I assure you, assure you, with 100% witnessing it myself, there are hot girls out t…
/r/askTRP12/08/18 12:51 AM
10

Because they can get free drugs. And those people are dangerous. Danger excites her. Not a stable wonderful future. It's like saying "why are moths attracted to flame knowing it's dangerous?" But then the question we must ask you is, why are you attracted to violent movies and video games? Why are so many men into motorcycles and firearms? Why are you not instead attracted to some news show that's calm and collected and factual? Well it's a bit boring and intellectual. Instead you see this dange…
/r/askTRP12/08/18 12:46 AM
1

Yes listen to your boss. You want to keep the boss on your side. Then highlight when she does other things.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 12:42 AM
5

The worst thing you can do in this situation is to continue to find ways to set her craziness off. You don't know how dangerous these SJW types are. So 100% NO to any attempt to antagonize any further. She might just move onto some other victim---unless you start trying to do shit in response and in a sense become her "primary opponent." That is the worst thing you can do. Is show yourself as a 'primary opponent' to her agenda. Keep it professional. Keep out of it. Try to undermine her main poin…
/r/askTRP12/08/18 12:40 AM
14

What I would do in this situation is study up on the Holocaust and then discuss Holocaust history to other co-workers all around her to the point that people eventually mention how knowledgeable I am about it. Sounds round-about way, but imagine she gets mad and starts complaining about the previous discussion again. She will look absolutely insane. And yes, it's possible she could get fired too if she keeps harping on it. If she overplays it, you could actually complain about her to bosses and …
/r/askTRP12/08/18 12:34 AM
5

I think the other answer is that women can break a lot more rules because well, they are in high-demand, men are not. Hot girl dressed in a pant suit is still going to get asked out at a bar. FYI, in the 80s during the glam metal era, male guitarists/singers dressed like women to show off how comfortable they were in their masculinity. It was quite red pill but didn't last long. But of course, that only works for the famous ones with the guitars and platinum albums. For every other man, it just …
/r/askTRP12/08/18 12:11 AM
3

Also most guys these days don't get laid before 26 or so, because well, this isn't 1970 or 1980s. There is a 18% growth in single men too since 30 years ago. It's not unique problem. People don't realize how the world is changing around them. It's not like the 80s and women are NOT trying to quickly get married or have a long-term bf. Not to mention the rise in obesity.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 12:06 AM
3

Never hire Chinese or Indians or Russians to be your "prime analysts". (No offense to any out there but anyone thinking such-and-such Asian group will provide "smart" results is foolish). They will ruin your shit with their poor calculations or analysis. They're not some Asian gods (though you're probably better off with Japanese and Koreans). Also Comey's book about leadership literally describes the leadership problem exactly as you have run into it in your post (making tough decisions at a se…
/r/askTRP05/08/18 04:23 AM
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