VoltairBear Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Short Synopsis & Daily Dose of TRP An awesome book to help with this that MRP advocates is When I Say No I Feel Guilty.	/r/TheRedPill	22/03/22 02:59 PM
3	What to Say When Asking a Father to Marry His Daughter You could always find a middle ground and tell him you're going to marry his daughter, but ask for his blessing.	/r/askMRP	20/03/22 01:23 AM
3	Is self improvement really gonna make me better? I strongly second this. I started high school a shy kid who was deathly afraid of people. I did team policy debate for several years, eventually went to nationals. I ended high school comfortable enough to go to social events where I knew no one and just walk up and talk to whoever. Those communication skills will aid you in so many dimensions of life.	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/22 12:11 AM
43	Chasing Stacy Really great reminder, thanks Vaz. Just because she’s hotter doesn’t mean it will be a better experience.	/r/TheRedPill	30/01/22 07:58 PM
1	Here's a whole mess of relevant quotes from Patrice O'Neal's Black Phillip Show. [Repost] I mean if you need an example of one sided open LTR with women that aren’t ghetto trash, look at Andrew Tate. It definitely appears to take next level frame and game though.	/r/TheRedPill	30/01/22 03:07 PM
1	Gender Differences in Emotional Response: Inconsistency between Experience and Expressivity Sure, not every woman may react exactly like this, but a lot of women do. It's a trend among women and those with feminine energy.	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/21 09:11 PM
5	Gender Differences in Emotional Response: Inconsistency between Experience and Expressivity Since you brought up neuroticism, women also tend to be more agreeable than men (~60/40, differences are greater at the extremes). People that are more agreeable are afraid of conflict, so when things happen to them that upset them, they'll bottle it in. This leads to said agreeable people blowing up all of the sudden about something small that pushed them over the edge when it's really a collection of things that they're mad about. It often will take you by complete surprise. If you're with a d…	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/21 12:45 PM
3	The difference in communication styles between men and women is bigger than you think. It's an atheoretical model developed with factor analysis. In other words, it was built purely using statistics to find the traits and correlations, not with pre-conceived ideas like Myers Briggs. It is by far and away the most scientific personality assessment developed. So yes, it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/21 04:10 PM
4	The difference in communication styles between men and women is bigger than you think. You can read more about agreeableness from psychologists if you want to understand it better, but people high in agreeableness put others interests above their own (often to a detrimental extent depending on how high in agreeableness they are). They also have an aversion to conflict. Because expressing negative emotion to a partner that they think is caused by that partner creates conflict, they tend to avoid it until the emotion becomes too strong to ignore. tl;dr - People higher in agreeablene…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/21 03:20 PM
4	The difference in communication styles between men and women is bigger than you think. Women and men differ in temperament statistically cross-culturally (viewed through the lens of the Big Five - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Big_Five_personality_traits#Agreeableness ) Since women tend to be higher in agreeableness, they will have a difficult time sharing the things that bother them. Especially if they have a partner that is more disagreeable, this is where the "I'm fine" comes from. They feel negative emotion, but have a hard time expressing it. Women also tend to be higher in n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/21 02:50 PM
17	As women outpace men in college degrees, will blue collar men still stand a chance in the dating market? With women who have degrees in gender studies	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/21 12:17 AM
1	According to RedPill/MGTOW, are healthy long term relationships just not possible? That's the point u/TheBookOfSeil is making...	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/21 11:32 PM
1	I think the MGTOW movement is not inherently bad if you approach it with maturity. This perspective isn't one of "MGTOW bad". If you look at r/mgtow and r/mgtow2 about this they also explicitly state that it's not a movement. That's more what outsiders label it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/21 11:49 PM
1	I think the MGTOW movement is not inherently bad if you approach it with maturity. I agree with you in part that some of the men who go their own way do so because they have no other options. I think though this is just a case of a vocal minority skewing people's perspectives. People who are really going their own way are going by choice are going to be extremely individualist by nature and likely driven - which translates to not a whole lot of internet posting about MGTOW. They're just minding their own business, finding fulfillment in forging their path.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/21 11:45 PM
5	What’s your “area of improvement” or “detractor” when it comes to attracting the person you want? Hey, at least you're not 5'5" Rip	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 01:14 AM
13	RedPillers, what would you say was your "RedPill moment?" "For to the one who has, more will be given, and he will have an abundance, but from the one who has not, even what he has will be taken away." The Matthew Effect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/21 06:42 PM
2	Mothers don't know what a good man is. They think it is a simp. My story. I am so sorry you've had to go through that. Let me share some things that have helped me and millions of other men step into confident, positive masculinity. Train Brazilian Jiu Jitsu (or another martial art that's legit like muay thai). Joe Rogan and Jock Willink talk a bit about how incredible this if for your confidence, self esteem, and self-discipline. Start listening to Youtube videos from Jordan Peterson. He's currently the most influential public intellectual in the West. https://www.yo…	/r/MGTOW2	21/03/21 10:58 PM
1	Female Dating Strategy I would be surprised if men tolerated it for a very long time because men are statistically more aggressive than men (this is the reason why felons are almost all men), and there's strong evidence to indicate this is based on biology and not learned or societal conditioning, along with many other personality differences between the sexes. If you're curious about the evidence, check out Norway and Sweden. As they became more 'egalitarian', the personality differences in men increased instead of d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 02:29 PM
9	Female Dating Strategy They don't just have dating problems. They're children because they want the absolute world without contributing a single thing to a relationship. Just like kids do, just with different desires.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 02:23 PM
3	Some men view being attracted to women's bodies as "violent" and equal to male violence against women I think there's a middle ground between your view point and u/saskiiiiiiio 's. Will a woman dressing in revealing clothing attract more unwanted attention than otherwise? Likely, yes, simply because it draws more attention, so more of the creeps will be more likely to notice her. I also think a woman should at least be aware of that, but it's most definitely not a surefire way to completely prevent unwanted attention. Does this mean that those creeps are justified in taking sexual physical actio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/21 01:28 AM
2	Q4ALL: Just be confident bruh That is true, but in my opinion you're doing yourself a huge favor as an individual if you start doing the things in life that make you feel confident (being skilled at your hobbies, good career/business, working out, etc.) instead. Often times those who are confident without a reason to be are putting on a façade and are compensating for insecurities, or have mental disorders like psychopathy - but not always. a personality trait in those people Personality is not something that's isolated from…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/21 05:48 PM
0	Q4ALL: Just be confident bruh I honestly wouldn't be surprised if the contrasting experience has to do with the type of people your friend and his buddy were around. It can be easy to throw the opposite sex into a box, but different women have different tastes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/21 01:49 PM
1	Q4ALL: Just be confident bruh Well I don't think you have to be competent in dating to be confident in dating if you're competent in many other areas of your life. If you have a well paying job (or at least a good, defined career path), several hobbies that you're good at, work out, etc. but you haven't had success in dating leading to a lack of confidence around women, it can sometimes be that the man is desperate or at least is feeling the strong need of a relationship (not always). There's of course other reasons, like pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/21 01:44 PM
2	Q4ALL: Just be confident bruh Exactly. So many men think confidence is this act they have to put on (which rarely works), when in reality a man's level of confidence is often just a reflection of who they are and their competency in life as a whole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/21 04:17 AM
5	Q4ALL: Just be confident bruh For me, confidence came as a feeling that reflected the way I acted and carried myself (like my physical posture, gait, etc.) not by just trying to be confident or faking it, but giving myself reasons to be confident. I had long unruly hair and glasses and poor fashion taste, so I got a hair cut, got contacts, and learned to get form fitting clothing that's tasteful. Then I started working out, training brazilian jiu jitsu, and learned to play guitar, and my confidence has improved dramatically,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/21 04:13 AM
1	Bad boys are part of the Nice Guy fantasy, not the female fantasy. He wasn't a "bad boy", he was a hot rich emo kid that stalked Bella. And that's supposed to make things better? Prime example to men then of how to behave /s A hot childhood friend. Who's also a werewolf. I'll dive deeper into the psychology for discussion's sake. Women fantasize about the idea of the bad boy because he's the alpha of all alphas. Women evolutionarily developed to go after the alpha of all alphas, because he's at the top of the dominance hierarchy, which translates to the one who…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/21 02:37 AM
3	Bad boys are part of the Nice Guy fantasy, not the female fantasy. What does disprove your point is the fact that women fantasize about vampires and werewolves. Take a look at how loved Edward the vampire or Jacob the werewolf from Twilight are. Surprisingly, you see this fantasy played out even in Disney's Beauty and the Beast. It's a well-known by psychologists that a fantasy of women is that they love to tame the beast, the bad boy. That's the fantasy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/21 02:16 AM
6	What is your ideal body type for a potential partner? I think by "not fat" for a lot of men it means being "normal weight". What this calculator defines as "normal weight" is probably about right in most men's minds. https://www.cdc.gov/healthyweight/assessing/bmi/adult_bmi/english_bmi_calculator/bmi_calculator.html	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/21 04:38 AM
1	What is the worst dating advice you’ve gotten and why was it so bad? Performance enhancing drug	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/21 04:43 PM