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It’s only unrealistic is she’s upset about not meeting a man like that. If she’s aware she might remain single and still wants to maintain that standard it’s totally rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:58 PM
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There’s no such thing as an unrealistic standard. Every individual is free to choose their own personal standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:39 AM
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No one is forcing you date a woman with behaviours you don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:47 AM
2

If you can’t see how ugly women could struggle it’s because you don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:23 PM
3

And ugly women will struggle with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:20 PM
-3

Some women have many options, many have little to none
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:50 AM
-5

Why would you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:49 AM
3

Attraction isn’t something conciousnessly chosen so I hope you aren’t blaming women for this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:53 PM
3

Okay? Is this meant to be some gotchya?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:45 PM
5

Yeah men lose attraction to women over time also.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:04 PM
9

You can’t ignore a little social pressure? Nobody should be marrying if it’s not something they want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:03 PM
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a steady job will do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:46 PM
1

I guess got lucky then
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:21 PM
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Face, grooming, physique, charm, these can all influence attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:15 PM
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I never said attraction was negotiable. There is more to attractiveness than just height.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:12 PM
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Height is but one component. You can compensate in other areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 05:49 AM
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Step outside, you’ll find yourself surrounded by average men with average girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 05:47 AM
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Focus only your career, get in decent shape and have a social life. Do those things and you’ll be able to find a looksmatched partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 03:26 AM
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I don’t know why this is so difficult to grasp
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:14 AM
3

Just like life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:34 AM
0

Cool, cry to someone else then because I’m not a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:35 AM
1

Sure buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:59 AM
4

God forbid something isn’t always women’s fault 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 12:48 AM
3

Y’all will find any way to try and blame women hey
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 12:34 AM
-1

Not all mothers are the same obviously, we are speaking in generalities
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 12:30 AM
2

To some extent sure, but when you think about it it’s usually fathers that want their sons to be tough and manly the mothers are usually more sympathetic to their boys showing emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 11:54 PM
2

Sure, the thing whingers on here usually fail to mention however is that it’s mostly propagated by other men not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 11:49 PM
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lol what? The average guy is a fat slob now, the average guy doesn’t not do nearly enough to be appealing to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:25 AM
3

You guys need to give it up.. nothing you say is going your way make women date men they aren’t attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:56 PM
17

So it wasn’t meant to be then, plenty more out there buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:34 PM
20

Just date someone that accepts you for who you are? Thats what I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:31 PM
1

No, I accept there are many it works for and many it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:25 AM
1

No reason to think it wouldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:00 AM
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Obviously, doesn’t mean therapy can’t help a lot of people
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:25 AM
3

Therapy worked for me, can’t see why it wouldn’t work for other men that want to improve themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:32 PM
11

The whole part lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:21 PM
25

Ben Shapiro also admits he can’t get his wife wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:00 AM
3

And innocent people get sentenced to prison, should we not have the legal system?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:56 AM
4

Except you impregnated the woman so you are responsible..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:22 AM
0

It’s usually the other way around buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:54 PM
1

Fuck them kids right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:06 PM
0

I’m sorry are you against child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:54 PM
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I havn’t, how would you see guys simping ugly women in real life? And how many? Thats extremely anecdotal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:13 AM
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Never seen any guys online simping ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:11 AM
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No it’s not. They find dream girls to obsess over. They don’t simp ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:10 AM
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It’s impossible to know the percentage. Ugly women don’t get attention from any men unless the dudes are absolute trolls.. which would be even worse than getting no attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:08 AM
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Many women are devoid of male attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:06 AM
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Yes I have
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:33 AM
3

This is what my taxes pay for? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:08 AM
2

Fairness doesn’t apply to the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:03 AM
6

Huh? How so
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:02 AM
0

Isn’t this what most the guys here want though?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:00 AM
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Sure, it’s a little easier for women for women than men if what you value most is simply access to sex, that’s simple biology. Overall though personally as an average guy I wouldn’t swap places with a women if I had to take what comes with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:52 AM
3

Really? You’ve never pondered the downsides of being a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:36 AM
3

Not short but not handsome either, just average
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:29 AM
1

It’s true in the sense that beauty standards are much higher for women thus they become less attractive with age sooner than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:12 PM
1

There are guys who think that is true yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:27 PM
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Sure, you’d have to accept the shit aspects that come along with it though, I’d rather stay a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:26 PM
1

Salty males that aren’t successful in dating do think this yes, it’s an attempt to put to mentally bring women down to their own level
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:19 PM
1

Some are, depending on the circumstances
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:12 PM
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Is there something wrong with that even if it were true?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:09 PM
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Who said violence is trivial
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:17 PM
2

Then why is it always bitchy red pillers complaining on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:08 AM
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They usually do as long as it’s not deliberately hurting women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:01 AM
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Wow what a shocker.. women want men they are attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:40 AM
0

Yes I agree violence against men isn’t taken as seriously as it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:31 AM
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Hey, at least we got to live as autonomous human beings since the dawn of civilisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:53 AM
1

Still not working, if this is the crime I’m thinking of they could have made a compilation of guys that were interviewed laughing about the crime too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:48 AM
6

Is this a pity party?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:39 AM
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Virtually every area except cancer funding and and court sentencing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:38 AM
2

Says video unavailable so I can’t see what it is sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:32 AM
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Yeah probably does, I just know that there’s many areas of society that men benefit form more than women so it doesn’t make sense to just call out one side of the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:32 AM
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Well I recently had cancer and I had people reaching out to help me who only knew me through acquaintances, maybe my opinion is a little biased
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:14 AM
3

Can’t agree with this, for trivial things yes but not for serious issues
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:08 AM
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I can only assume you are talking strictly looks here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:36 AM
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You’re completely disregarding the fact that people have different standards for who they will accept as a life partner and who they will accept as a casual lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:25 AM
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That is usually the case it seems
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:36 PM
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That’s not remotely true
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:06 PM
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Yes exactly, so all maybe all these red pillers on here should hop off reddit and actually work on themselves instead of complaining about women choosing the wrong dudes to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:01 AM
0

Or people don’t usually do casual hookups with people they think are potential life partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:22 AM
0

Either red pill ideology is useless for average men trying to get women or all the dudes that flood this sub with red pill tags complaining about not getting pussy aren’t actually red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:20 AM
0

If that true then why do so many red pillers come running back here crying about not getting pussy? Shouldn’t they be out slaying now that have found the keys to the pussy palace??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:12 AM
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Yes my partner tells me this quite often
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:44 PM
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My explanation also fits your data.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:47 AM
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So women who have a child with one man and break up sometimes have a child with a future partner. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:44 AM
1

You can play it any way you like, just know you have to live with the consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:42 AM
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I find that hard to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:40 AM
5

Yeah I’ve gotta say you haven’t put forward a very convincing case.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:30 AM
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I’ll be honest I’ve never met one woman that would be happy to be part of a harem. Seems to go against their idea of self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:25 AM
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Women want to share men with other women less not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:36 AM
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Not most but not an insignificant percentage either. There are plenty of men out there with standards like myself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:23 PM
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They are deliberately subjective expressions. If I knew percentages I would have used percentages.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:05 PM
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Seems like something that what have to be judged on a situational basis
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:22 PM
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Late 20’s for me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:01 AM
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There y’all go exaggerating again
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:09 AM
12

Okay, so if their girlfriends are flirting with other guys they should leave them. Whinging on reddit isn’t going to solve anything
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:08 AM
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So leave
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:06 AM
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I just genuinely find your claim bizzare, who are these people claiming it’s okay for girls to accept numbers from guys while they are in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:27 AM
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I gotta say I’ve never heard anyone say it’s okay for a girl in a relationship to be accepting phone numbers from other guys, what planet are you living on?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:00 PM
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What do you define as average?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:44 PM
0

Cool and women have to listen men bitch whine and cry about not getting sex as much as they want it. Even as a guy it’s painful to listen to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:12 AM
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Why do yall have such a boner for hating on women? Its weird
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:12 AM
-4

You can do what you like
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:55 AM
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It’s only imaginary until it happens to you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:19 AM
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Uhh and she has to perform for him also? Ahh so basically just trust me bro.. solid argument
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:46 AM
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If you are in the top% of men then you will be the first choice for the best women by default. You said all aspects of society, you listed a few dicey ones. Is that all?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:13 AM
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You don’t have to be above top % women you only have to be amongst the top % of men. How do you figure women have mor privilege in all areas of life? That’s a bizarre claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:03 AM
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They only have more “privilege” in the sexual market place, a good looking male not only will be as successful in the dating market as he wants but he will enjoy the privileges in other areas of society that the woman won’t get.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:55 AM
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No, being an attractive white man in the west is the best privilege you can have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:00 AM
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A lot will yes but here’s plenty that won’t. As a dude I never felt the need to drop my standards just for some sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:44 AM
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Tinder always worked for me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:20 AM
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That’s a weird hypothetical
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:10 AM
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Was using tinder between 25-30, so are you claiming id struggle now if I was still on tinder? Becuase I doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:01 AM
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Sorry? I’m 33
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:52 PM
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It’s obviously subjective but I never swiped right on a woman I considered to be less than a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:50 PM
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I dunno man I’m only decent looking, never been rich and I never had any trouble finding sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:48 PM
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Helpful advice is helpful advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 08:14 PM
2

Telling small dicked men to be good at oral and fingering is helpful life advice
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:55 AM
9

I agree 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:49 AM
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This is nonsense. Being kind has always helped me with women not the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:58 AM
0

There’s no age
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:46 AM
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It’s literally the simplest concept yet they cannot manage to understand it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:27 PM
1

I know what it’s like to not have a lot of things. I also know how pointless it is to stress over things you can’t control.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:01 AM
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Take it from me hooking up with a 10 is no more satisfying than hooking up with a 7. Look for someone you can build with a life with instead of thinking about all the girls out there you can’t get
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:57 AM
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No, but there are many other areas in life you can get fulfilment from. Also it’s helpful to keep in mind the majority of men aren’t getting with those hot guys either. You aren’t missing much trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:09 AM
1

Because there’s much more to happiness than being desired
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:02 AM
0

People content with being single aren’t blaming the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:48 AM
2

Sex robots will not get rid of simps. Simps want human validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:54 AM
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They aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:41 AM
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That’s like saying I’m never going to go to a bar or social settings because some people are rude.. like yeah you might face ridicule but the point of dating is to find someone you’re compatible. Most people are going to have to go through some shit before they find the right person
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:50 AM
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That’s obviously absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:43 PM
11

That attitude is gunna keep you from experiencing what many men like me experience
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:37 PM
8

If your woman loves you she won’t, simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:32 PM
2

A very poor analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:13 PM
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You’re wrong because there’s no way a person would actually keep track of how many women they slept with past 30
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:59 AM
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If your little post here is what you consider healthy guidelines I fear for your kids. It’s absolute drivel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:49 PM
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Yes there is, getting involved in your children’s dating life is inherently creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:38 PM
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Yeah that’s creepy bro
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:33 PM
21

It’s a shame you spent so much time on something of no discernible value
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:27 PM
3

Women complain about the male gaze and cat calling because some men are simply pigs and refuse to behave with some respect, it has nothing to do with this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:27 PM
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We cannot control what we are attracted to. If women are attracted to confidence then it is what it is. Complaining will change nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:51 AM
2

Well if you think that would work kudos to you but I simply can’t, to me it seems like a fantasy. Society does influence trends when it comes to attractiveness but beauty has always been beauty since the dawn of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:54 AM
3

A lot of those things already exist and even if you turn them up x10 it will never ever change the fact that people want to date people they are attracted to. What’s your solution for that problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:44 AM
2

People have said this a thousand times yet when they get questioned about how they would change the dating market without removing peoples freedoms they can never come up with answers. So what changes do you propose?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:20 PM
2

Mate.. life isn’t a video game. If you’re going to be a snowflake about not having any success in dating that’s on you. You cannot manually manipulate the dating market. You and I are men, we have less value in the dating market on average than women do.. it’s that simple. Nobody can improve your value for you so your whining can’t change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:00 PM
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What exactly do single men want? A shoulder to cry on? To have a little cry and be told your special? Dating is supply and demand it can’t get much simpler.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:44 AM
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This is dumb as shit, plenty of women are lonely not by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:28 AM
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Honestly you can keep walking around with this whiny pussy mentality but how is that productive? Women get to choose who they date and so do women. Do women have more options? Usually yes they do it’s called supply and demand. Crying like a bitch certainly won’t make you more appealing to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:00 PM
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If you only risk what you are willing to lose how can you feel short changed? If you have financial limits on what you’re willing to offer a woman then stick to them for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:19 AM
0

Same thing anyone should do, don’t give any more than you’re willing to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:07 AM
1

It’s obviously not accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:18 AM
0

Sorry to break it to you but you have no idea how relationships work in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:43 PM
22

Bro Adam Driver is legit jacked
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:41 AM
3

Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:19 AM
3

Why the fuck would you guys do this to yourselves lol.. you can’t even handle the fake numbers they give you imagine if you know the real ones??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:49 AM
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If you say so buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:47 PM
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Nah I’m just a realist and don’t live with crippling insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:43 PM
5

10? Bro that’s nothing 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:41 PM
3

Women are not “extremely selective”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:16 AM
4

This shit is bizarre. Why would you actively chase bad sex? Becuase you think sleeping with virgins makes you more of a Chad? It doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:11 PM
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Never had any trouble getting women, acting like a dick was certainly not one of my methods.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:34 PM
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Here we go again lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:32 PM
6

Are they starting wars over love? Or over pride?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:18 AM
40

Nobody cares about other peoples loneliness, regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:24 AM
21

I sincerely hope you men aren’t holding views like yours, they will struggle to hold any meaningful relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:51 AM
20

What? I simply don’t accept your premises. Accepting help isn’t feminine behaviour. How old are you? This must be some new age thinking. Just becuase relationships are transactions it doesn’t mean they are completely transactional. My partner and I both do things for each other without any expectation of payback.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:39 AM
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Why do you think having a partner that makes your life easier takes away your masculinity? Of course relationships are transactional but that doesn’t mean they aren’t grounded in genuine selflessness
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:26 AM
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Cap
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:06 AM
23

This is rubbish, I know for a fact my partner does a hell of a lot for me that she doesn’t have to. Out of love not obligation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:05 AM
0

If you make it all the way to adulthood without coming to the realisation that simply “being nice” is not all that is required to attract a partner then you are borderline retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:24 AM
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If anyone was actually told that by a woman and believed it they are an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:19 AM
1

Doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:06 AM
0

Honestly who the hell was told if they were just nice girls would fancy them? I have no idea where you’re pulling this narrative from
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:10 AM
2

Yeah see that’s just not my experience, showing weakness has always strengthened my relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:19 AM
1

What would you consider a live demonstration of weakness
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:09 AM
3

Exactly what weakness do you mean then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:56 PM
15

I can’t say showing weakness infront of women has ever hurt my dating life, if anything it helps it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:31 PM
2

Many women have limited quality options also.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:55 PM
2

Same reason you are
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:42 PM
1

Did someone tell you stoicism had anything to do with helping men get women? I’m confused
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:41 PM
1

Several women is not 90%
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:47 PM
1

You’re the one basically advertising your small dick
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:59 AM
1

We may be living on different planets
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:47 AM
0

These posts are hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:55 PM
2

Just speaking truth
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:54 PM
24

Find em a single thread that’s even close to 90%
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:18 AM
25

“90%”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:07 AM
31

Why you cappin bro
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:46 AM
2

Only cucks care about downvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:13 PM
4

No they don’t 😂 you gay bro
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:46 AM
3

Completely missing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:49 AM
5

Some do, majority do not. Its biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:44 AM
4

Yep keep bending over backwards to avoid addressing the point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:49 AM
2

No. The point is if in a perfect world men and women put the exact same amount of effort in to sex women will inherently get less enjoyment. Will you address this point or keep dodging it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:36 AM
2

Yes they want it, but they don’t and never could want it as much as men do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:26 AM
0

Once again that has nothing to with why biologically sex is inherently more enjoyable for men. If you can address the point do it if you can’t then shut up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:25 AM
0

That completely misses the point. Sex is inherently more enjoyable for men than women unless you have a way to transform biology this is a fact you’ll need to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:24 AM
3

I don’t think I said or implied anything along the lines of women don’t like sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:22 AM
4

Her point might be that the nature of sex for women has a direct influence on sex being harder for men to get. If it was better for women they would want it more no?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:37 AM
2

One would assume a combination of different kinds of attacks having more fatal outcomes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:43 AM
1

Firstly many rapes are done without a weapon and secondly a man definitely has a better chance of defending himself against a blade than a woman does
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:54 AM
7

And? Men have a better chance of defending themselves than women do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:55 PM
1

Because unattractive people usually partner up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:46 AM
1

Well yeah, most men and women are overweight..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:44 AM
0

A fat woman is unattractive to a majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:44 AM
-2

What is this myth that men find most women attractive? I find maybe 5% of women attractive at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:52 PM
-2

And most women are unattractive to men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:29 AM
7

Never been near the pig pen buddy, not all men are pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:46 PM
4

A lot of men here need to hear how pathetic they sound
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:33 PM
9

So? If you can’t get the women you want either settle or stop bitching about it online it’s pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:15 PM
7

I’m not of those things and never had trouble having to settle for women..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:12 PM
13

Boo hoo you poor creatures. While yall are having a pity party for yourselves actual men are out getting the kinds of women they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:21 PM
14

Yeah I’m a dude and that’s creepy as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:34 AM
2

There is no “should”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:34 PM
-2

It rarely felt like work for me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:17 AM
1

Beauty standards for men are much lower which offsets these supposed disadvantages
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:43 AM
12

Guess what, if they are the ones holding the power over who they date they can be as picky as they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:24 AM
20

He has no clue
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:57 PM
16

Except women aren’t ranting all over the internet about not getting enough attention from men… so what’s your point again?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:57 PM
2

No it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:40 AM
-1

So? Do you think you’re owed pussy simply by being nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:32 PM
3

No, people who go around preaching about how women find nice guys unattractive are giving themselves away
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:39 PM
24

I love these takes, the irony is palpable. “Nice guys” don’t think they are “nice guys”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:09 PM
2

I can only see it coming from a place of insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:25 AM
0

That’s funny, throughout my life I’ve always noticed the complete opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:28 PM
2

I gotta question the intelligence of someone that gets deeply offended by tik tok videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:24 AM
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I’d rather be ignored than be suffocated by relentless creepy attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:38 PM
9

I love how guys that post like this think they are posting sneaky clever gotchya’s when it’s incredibly obvious to everybody what the real Intent is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:41 AM
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I don’t your premise that anyone will cheat if the right person is put in front of them, this applies to some but clearly not everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:35 AM
1

Every situation is unique. You have to make a unique decision in every case there is no one rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:01 AM
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I’ll take being joked about over public shaming any day
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:01 AM
1

I used to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:15 AM
6

You think that girl is attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:34 PM
1

Men would rather complain on the internet than engage in self reflection and commit to actually making positive changes in thier lives
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:22 PM
1

I think you missed the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:21 PM
8

Literally. Is supply and demand that hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:14 PM
-1

Because complaining on the internet makes them feel good
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:09 PM
9

A woman looking to mooch a meal isn’t going to go on a second or third date and initiate sex. There are plenty of women who a) won’t hook up on a first date for safety reasons or b) uses the first date to gauge interest from a potential partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:13 AM
12

Is there anything to make someone think this is any more than your opinion? Because this destiny doesn’t align with my life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:05 AM
10

So if a man went on a date and the woman didn’t want to hook up but on a second or third date she did, how would you explain that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:52 AM
17

There are countless women who don’t feel comfortable hooking up on first dates regardless of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:46 AM
24

Some will some won’t. Claiming an entire gender of people will do one thing or another is plain stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:40 AM
3

I think you’re confused. If I think my self worth is high and your value doesn’t match mine it’s simply means we value ourselves differently. If I think I’m an 8 and you think I’m a 5 we simply disagree. There is no contradiction becuause there is no objectively correct answer as to what my actual value is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:29 AM
18

Men only get judged more harshly for their standards because they whinge and cry about not getting women infinitely more than women complain about not getting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:15 AM
1

Yes, and a persons preferences are completely subjective. You sent tell a person what their standards should be unless you want to live in a slave type society where people don’t get to choose their own partners
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:29 AM
1

No this is simple common sense. My standards are my own standards they are completely subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:53 PM
5

Standards are subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:53 PM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:27 AM
1

To fuck, not to date
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:44 PM
3

No bs. I have enough life experience to know what average is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:08 AM
5

I’m average looks, average height and average income and have never had trouble getting dates
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:02 AM
1

Pill colour? No pill
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:53 AM
1

Those slogans are literally uttered by 0.001% of women..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:05 AM
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What universe are you living bro get off the internet for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:00 AM
6

I’ve known average looking girls that struggled to get any male attention. All woman definitely don’t have bulk men in their dm’s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:43 PM
6

Each woman doesn’t have tons of guys chasing them.. hot ones do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:24 AM
2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:46 PM
3

And vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:09 AM
1

Grow up and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:01 PM
4

We shouldn’t be trying to force people to do anything, let people decide for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:15 AM
0

That above average height, plenty of 5’9 - 5’10 guys have no trouble with women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:09 PM
1

Why are you so angry bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:39 AM
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I’ve always noticed it to be the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:08 AM
15

It’s…. A movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 10:19 AM
1

It is. Normal guys absolutely can still attract normal women. If it wasn’t the case all my friends wouldn’t be in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:09 PM
1

Just because it doesn’t work for every single guy doesn’t mean it doesn’t work at all. It worked for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:39 PM
1

It’s simple. Every individual dictates their own standards. If you’re not having success it’s your choice wether to stay single or lower your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:28 AM
1

I never did but obviously some do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:52 PM
1

The men women don’t find attractive are “invisible” to them in the same way the women men don’t find attractive are also invisible to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:03 PM
1

Still waiting for the proof you claimed to have..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:44 PM
1

Proved it? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:41 PM
1

Women do not only date up lol what a load of bs
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:38 PM
1

From personal experience this is totally false
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:41 AM
0

You claim men in droves say they would go through the motions for their partner if they didn’t want to have sex. Do you have any evidence they actually do this? Or just the claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:20 AM
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This is nonsense. Implying that it’s impossible for women to even literally see average looking guys in public makes it hard to take your opinion seriously. Even as a guy it’s very easy to notice the vast number of average men walking around in relationships in public spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:23 AM
7

You should be
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:11 AM
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Bold post kid, bold indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:21 AM
1

So what percentage of the male population would you estimate are attracted to 10-12 year olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:40 AM
1

I’m a 7/10 at most and never had any trouble getting dates. Settling down and starting a family now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:25 PM
1

Yes, our system of morality is set up so that obligations are usually mutually beneficial
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:40 AM
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Because morality does not exist independently. It a tool we use to navigate living in a society. There is no grounds for saying “you ought to behave that way”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:31 PM
1

It does. We just don’t behave that way for social utility
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:20 PM
0

You may believes we owe certain behaviours to each other but it’s still subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:56 PM
-1

I mean that’s not entirely true, you don’t “owe” anybody anything when it comes to morality. Morality is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:12 PM
0

It’s literally the opposite lol, everyone blames women on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:11 AM
1

Sure, but it’s best if you don’t have a whole mess of shit you have to fix to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:47 AM
3

That’s what friends and family are for
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:49 AM
3

Clearly not analogous
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:45 AM
4

Do you build a house with rotten timber?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:39 AM
5

If you’re entering a relationship both bringing in unresolved issues that sounds like a weak foundation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:34 AM
12

Why would a single guy or girl agree to date someone who doesn’t have their shit together in the first place? If you don’t have your shit together you shouldn’t need a woman to point it out for You
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:26 AM
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What a bizarre question
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:00 AM
6

That’s rubbish. There is no contractual obligation to sex in a relationship. If the amount you are getting isn’t enough then leave the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:55 AM
2

Only if the parter agrees that it’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:54 AM
2

That makes more sense
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:44 AM
2

Because dating is so subjective that even improving your odds 1-5% could mean the difference been getting a gf or not. Of all the people in the world it only takes one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:47 AM
0

I agree with everything you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:03 AM
2

So only societal problems that effect every single person in that gender counts? Have you never heard of honour killings?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:09 AM
-2

I know virtually nothing about your friend? There can be things wrong with you that are beyond your control you know that right? There can also be things wrong with your friend that he either refuses to change or doesn’t want to change, that is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:06 AM
3

Yes that is absolutely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:27 AM
0

When did I say or imply every hobby you have must be sexy? What world are you guys living on?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:26 AM
-2

How is that rubbish?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:25 AM
2

You did not address the double standard of women getting shamed and humiliated for engaging as the exact same act as men get praised for at all you dodged it. If you can’t accept women are facing a difficulty that men don’t that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:52 AM
4

I was never talking about the biological consequences of casual sex.. I was clearly referencing the double standard of women being shamed for engaging in casual sex whilst men are paraded around as kings for engaging in the exact same behaviour. I really don’t know why you insist on tap dancing around my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:44 AM
1

You asked me for one and I gave you a clear example. You just want to ignore it that’s upto you. I find it pretty funny how insecure some of the guys in this sub are that they can’t even admit a single area in society that women have it harder. No wonder y’all wander around begging for crumbs if pussy, women can smell that insecurity a mile away.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:42 AM
2

That is not true in the slightest. Women aren’t shamed because it’s easier for them they are shamed because society views women who engage in casual sex as dirty and immoral. Double Standards don’t come much clearer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:34 AM
-1

If there’s nothing wrong with you women would want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:32 AM
5

Nobody says everyone can have success if they improve themselves. If this was your interpretation I’m sorry that you misunderstood.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:31 AM
0

Risking pregnancy has nothing to do with the social stigma women face for engaging in casual sex. Women are brutally shamed for it and men face virtually no shame at all. Stop dodging the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:30 AM
-4

Risking pregnancy is a completely seperate issue from the one I raised. Nice dodge
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:08 AM
-6

Almost non existent stigma when it comes to casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:26 AM
2

How can you make the judgment that women’s standards are too high? Too high according to what standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:38 AM
1

Is the a troll post? This couldn’t be any more obviously untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:32 AM
-1

And men don’t enjoy the societal norms that favour them? Lol cmon buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:24 AM
-4

Men’s suicide rates are getting higher because we are raising generations of pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:17 AM
1

When it comes to sex sure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:42 PM
4

Women don’t want to hear you blurting out your opinions on your sexual history dude
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:47 PM
1

Yeah what the poster above said, just because she’s had them before doesn’t mean she still wants to do it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:41 PM
6

Did someone call you a rapist or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:00 PM
1

It’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:41 AM
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Virtually everyone recognised its more difficult for men but the thing is what’s the point complaining if there is no logical solution available to change it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:49 AM
5

Have any pictures of real women instead of edited Insta thots? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:53 PM
10

Because y’all treat women differently based on their looks and status also lol. It’s called human behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:31 PM
2

And you can’t fathom that heaps of average guys are either dating or already in relationships. I’m an average guy and I never had trouble dating when I was single. Basically all my mates are average guys and are married with kids. Maybe too many below average guys are in this sub thinking they are average
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:04 AM
2

Yes they would. The sub has only just over a 100,000 members. The sub is likely mostly below average guys that have no outlet for their frustrations.. which is understandable. Then you add in all the women and people in the sub in relationships and the numbers add up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:19 AM
1

Strong disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:05 AM
1

These subs are filled with people already in relationships and mostly losers. Average men and women that are successfully dating are likely not spending their time complaining on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:27 AM
1

Australia
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:25 PM
1

That’s bizzare, I see couple everywhere I go of all age groups
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:20 PM
1

Walk outside, find literally any populated area and take note of how many average looking couples you see. Young and old.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:58 PM
1

Average men are desirable to average women and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:32 PM
1

Hah good one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:29 PM
2

And you think the guys are any more honest? Lol why even bother posting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:09 AM
5

Okay? So if they have unrealistic standards they just won’t get the men they want right? If they want to lower their standards they can
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:13 AM
2

No idea what you’re talking about honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:51 AM
2

Not without interfering with their personal autonomy you can’t. Are you one of these guys that thinks we should force women to date people they don’t want? I don’t recall anyone saying women don’t on average have more options.. the whole point is that’s how dating works, the only thing you can influence is your own value so either do it or stfu with your complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:51 AM
1

What double standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:30 AM
-1

In your hypothetical there are variables that could be changed. You cannot change a persons standards. They either are what they are or change over time depending on Individual. So you have put forward a fake equivalency
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:28 AM
0

If that’s what you believe then don’t try and improve or be better.. that’s totally fine but if that’s your choice you have absolutely no leg to stand on if you jump online and complain about how women’s standards are too high and can’t get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:42 AM
-8

And for all the guys that complain about it but are too lazy or refuse to work on improving their looks they shouldn’t be complaint. For the guys that have and are doing what it takes to maximise their looks potential they also shouldn’t really be complaining because they are already doing all that can be done
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:32 AM
1

Nah I find it a turn off in its own right, just makes me feel uncomfortable. Difficult to put in to words but it’s a smothering feeling, I’m the kind of person that needs room to breathe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:17 PM
1

I’ve always found desperation a turn off and it usually comes with red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:16 PM
1

Ahh yes, the classic PPD trope of committing the Black or White fallacy..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:38 AM
1

I’d be put off
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:02 AM
3

Lol what? It’s just a mature mindset after having experienced both perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:31 PM
0

I’m not comparing sex to money that was never my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:20 PM
13

It’s better to have a healthy relationship than meaningless sex. Stop comparing extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:07 PM
3

There are more options than the two extremes you are comparing.. neither sound appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:53 AM
7

I disagree. Not all people are the same though do I guess some people might find it fulfilling
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:51 AM
6

That’s one side, then you have the millionaires that supposedly have everything a person could ever want and still blow their brains out. Sex won’t fill a void just like money or possessions won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:43 AM
4

How am I not being real?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:41 AM
11

If that’s what gives you happiness go ahead, I can tell you from experience however that it’s meaningless and stale.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:11 AM
25

Are you a wannabe fuck boy? As someone that’s been called the same thing I can tell you there is nothing virtuous about the amount of women you sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:03 AM
1

Woman don’t deny looks affect dating, that’s an over generalisation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:16 AM
1

Nah genuinely haven’t seen it, it’s common sense that race would affect dating
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:56 AM
1

I’ve been on PPD for a couple years and don’t recall seeing any women say this.. it must be exceedingly rare
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:43 AM
1

Is anybody even debating this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:50 AM
1

If you lived your whole life without figuring it out for yourself then it obviously wasn’t a big deal to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:36 PM
1

I disagree with Kant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:35 PM
4

You wouldn’t know you were being lied to so yeah you’d be with her. Also lying isn’t objectively immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:38 AM
9

The point is the guy would never know if they weren’t told so why is it a big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:49 AM
20

Yeah and the funny thing is 99% of dudes would have no idea how many guys their parter had slept with unless she specifically told them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:20 AM
6

Why would anybody listen to red pill coaches.. absolute cringelords the lot of them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:10 AM
4

Agree to disagree. He could have expressed them in a much more respectful way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:07 AM
2

That’s not true, he was shamed for the way he expressed his boundaries, not for having them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:57 AM
-3

That is simply not true, if you believe that you have a persecution complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:55 AM
-4

So it’s impossible for women to grow if they did something a different way in the past? This reeks of make insecurity to me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:38 AM
2

Yes I don’t think the average is 10 even though that would only be a few partners per year.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:08 AM
3

20 is probably high as an average considering how many girls don’t even have sec in college, it’s probably closer to 5-6 which is quite small
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:03 AM
-1

Seems like a pretty average number tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:59 AM
0

I’m a man and she’s right
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:51 AM
2

Even as a man I can’t understand why this is even controversial
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:50 AM
2

Lots of sex is overrated trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:02 PM
1

No pill is the only rational way
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:24 AM
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This is dumb as shit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:33 AM
2

Because you say so?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:00 AM
1

Not all alphas care about having children
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:40 AM
13

He literally said he doesn’t want kids
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:57 AM
1

I think what you means is some women value sex differently than you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:40 AM
1

Sex is extremely Important to people.. some people yes some people no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:52 AM
1

I won’t have sex with women I’m not attracted to so it’s rather easy to tell
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:48 AM
15

You’re only a beta if you’re so insecure that you care about these things. Alphas don’t give a fuck what you consider “humiliating”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:42 AM
1

Is there some kind of narrative that women can’t be creepy too?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:35 AM
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Huh? If that’s what I wanted to say I would have said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:47 AM
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Being ambitious, charismatic and accomplished are even more important if you aren’t attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:27 AM
8

Do men not use women for sex by the boatload? Pretend to have feeling to get in their pants, date multiple girls at once. If women don’t care about men’s mental health it goes equally the opposite way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:01 AM
21

I’ve been vulnerable with numerous partners and never noticed any negative consequences, the opposite in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:03 AM
26

Why would women “Care about men’s mental health” when men don’t care about theirs? Most people don’t care about anyone who isn’t in their social circle anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:00 AM
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Men and women both do this. She obviously wasn’t vibing you, don’t take it personal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:44 AM
2

I agree. That’s why I don’t think most women care as long as the guy isn’t noticeably short and is taller than them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:23 AM
-2

At least 6ft or taller? Probably like 10-15%. Most women would wants a guy at least 5’8 to 5’10 though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:04 AM
3

No idea how you would quantity it but it would have to be way less than a few decades ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:14 AM
6

Not sure what my actual height is probably somewhere between 5’9 and 5’11 but I’ve never had a problem getting attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:05 AM
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I’d say he’s pretty close to spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:22 AM
4

A lot of men look at paying paying hookers for sex as completely unappealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:24 PM
4

The guys that are confused about why Jonah’s behaviour are wrong are probably going to be guys that struggle building healthy relationships with women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:49 PM
12

If you’re that fragile and insecure don’t dare a surfer girl to begin with, he gaslighted her by projecting his own insecurities onto her and trying to make her feel like it was her fault. I dunno why you kids feel the need to defend shitty behaviour on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:04 AM
11

Dressed like what? She’s a surfer 😂 that’s like me dating a policewoman and then halfway through the relationship getting mad at her for wearing a police uniform and blaming her for my own insecurities.. Jonah needs to grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:57 AM
6

Gee I dunno, maybe dating a surfer girl and then gas lighting her when she wears a bikini is pretty messed up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:52 AM
5

I mean this is obviously not true but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:18 AM
6

Bro, you can communicate respectfully without being a controlling creep
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:12 AM
3

Of course they do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:36 AM
1

How much is a smv point worth and who determines it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:47 AM
3

So what makes you think women believe this is the average swimmers physique when it clearly isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:46 PM
2

And he was absolutely shredded..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:19 PM
17

Phelps was a genetic freak nobody thinks that was a normal physique lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:13 PM
1

Neither is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:24 PM
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It seems strange to site an online sating study when dating apps are a literal sausage fest. If there’s like 1 girl to every 10 guys what else would you expect but the best men to succeed?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:22 PM
1

Didn’t say they were
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:51 PM
2

He may also be good looking, very funny and highly respected by his peers. He might be very good with children or he might be a very harder worker. There’s plenty of HV traits you could have
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 01:21 PM
2

Fantastic honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:40 AM
6

If you say so buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:35 AM
10

You don’t have to be rich or high status to be a high value male
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:22 AM
1

Who’s complaining about men checking out of the market?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:16 AM
1

This is a pretty broad generalisation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:15 AM
3

I see a lot of dumb shit on this sub but this might be the worst I’ve seen all week
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:14 AM
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Uhh they said women are more likely not that women are the only ones vulnerable.. this tirade seems to misguided.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:18 AM
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They said far more likely, which is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:55 AM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:54 AM
-5

If the shoe fits friend
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:06 AM
2

Right because the majority of women are going to choose long term partners they can’t stand simply because they are hot, what kind of backwards ideology does this come from? I’m sure I could take a guess
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:18 AM
5

So don’t settle, simple
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:16 AM
3

Okay if that’s what you believe then good for you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:53 AM
6

You seemed to be implying that looks are virtually the only thing that matter to women when looking for either one night stands or long term relationships which is clearly not true. So we agree Personality traits are very important when it comes to potential life partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:05 AM
11

Okay so now you’re moving the goalposts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:57 AM
6

Yeah that’s not true at all. Personality matters little when a woman may be looking for a one night stand. It won’t matter if you aren’t super successful, arrogant, boring, awkward or many other personality flaws. These flaws are much more important when it comes to looking at who you went to spend the rest of your life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:52 AM
15

Sure it’s mostly looks that matter in the example you gave, a one night stand. Clearly there are other important factors when it comes to finding a potential life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:19 AM
1

Okay except most women want a living partner and a family so why would they settle for someone they can’t have either with?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:52 AM
1

You always have the option of staying single if you aren’t prepare to lower your standards, it’s up to the individual to decide
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:03 AM
1

Not if they aren’t the ones complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:00 AM
2

I’ve been vulnerable with a number of partners over the years and have always been met with positive responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:30 AM
10

Because desperate men will still use fat women as a fleshlight and not vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:29 AM
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