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| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI did this one too haha, just come here 'occasionally' to see if it has some better topics being spoken about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI was talking about some dating preferences because I want to start seeing people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 12:56 AM |
| 3 | Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men?Intresting... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm taking notes, you got more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI understand ya, in a bit of a messy room myself. I don't like myself when I see cobwebs on the walls. It makes me reflect on who I turned into, an year ago I had so much unfolded laundry that it could easily house a unit of roaches/such insects. I'm telling you man once you figure out how to develop hygiene in your house, there is no reason for you to feel lazy when you watch yourself walking on the same path the old you took. As for cooking, I fell in love with it my way. I started small since… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 12:27 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOne myself, quit that sub since it was more of venting rather than advising on building quality relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Are standards “too high” if they are met?I don't live in the US although would love some thoughts on this. For a college student to pay for a dinner date is IMO too high considering it is within the first few dates, you two don't know each other well enough and these dates that cost more should be saved for a few dates after. A dude paying for the dates every time is inclined to look at it like investmenting and hope that all this works out in his favor one day. So if dates are to get to know each other and feel the energy of them arou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf we exclude the western culture then there's a big % of world that restricts couples to not live together before marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYea kinda heard about it for sure. Thank you for giving brief of how these parties are like. Hope you have a good day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell then I've been to one such party and it is a good way to meet people in the early hours of the party unless they get too drunk. Although that's the only party I've ever been to. But this brings up a new question, why do some parties have a reputation of being sexually wild when all of these people are genuinely just there to have fun and make more friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Most girls are desperateI don't get it who is more in the wrong here, guys who don't see the signs that they are being immature and hence, annoying OR women who are being desperate because of their dating success during their 20s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 04:25 PM |
| 0 | What is the minimum standard for a man’s body to be attractive?I'll lift you up only if you agree to not tell anyone about it. It's a deal if you're down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 12:48 PM |
| 4 | What is the minimum standard for a man’s body to be attractive?I was happy to be 5'7 today, finallyyyyy!!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCurious dude here, what are frat parties even like? I'm in my third year of college but have never been to a good party because of the covid rules here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Most guys are subconsciously attracted to the women they think they can get, not the women who are actually hotIf the dude gets insecure/angry about it then yes he won't be a good match with her. But if he can trust that she wouldn't hookup being in a relationship with some random dude has a good friend circle, doesn't go blackout drunk then the dude would be confident to live with such a girl. By high maintenance I mean is that counting the cosmetics, organic diets, expensive cloths and accessories makes the girl high maintenance. Thej to upgrade your ride, be sure to have a house, etc.etc. I'm a 21 y.o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Most guys are subconsciously attracted to the women they think they can get, not the women who are actually hotaww good for them! I like stories that explain how important it is to have a sane brain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 10:24 AM |
| 5 | Most guys are subconsciously attracted to the women they think they can get, not the women who are actually hotIt's not about the low-hanging fruit, it is about how high maintenance would that person be. The women I have met carrying the best personality were the 'average' looking girls. I don't want someone who is insanely hot, I want someone who is physically active and mentally stable. That is my standard but again I don't have any experience with women because I never really broke out of my shell ever. I think it is time now... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 10:19 AM |
| 2 | Our current culture is making women less feminine, and this can be seen in the behavior of a lot of the under 30 crowd who sort of talk like men using words like “bruh” and “dude” and dance to trashy vulgar hip hop songs on TikTok.I wouldn't consider them dumbed down, I would consider people who are aged above a certain age and are able to 'enjoy' their life without a job as someone who is dumb. I work and don't often see people who are earning their own money to spend it necessarily on drugs. I do every now and then see some one person acting that way but they do it purely to 'fit in' or are just addicts (irrespective of gender). I live in a country that has a study, rating women as more promiscuous than men but again it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 10:05 AM |
| 1 | women (and guys) are you currently leading someone on that you don't have feelings for? if so, why? be honest this is reddit.I'm sorry that you are going through this. Can you explain why you are feeling scared to divorce her? I understand that this is the person you had feelings for the longest time and it would be a major step down in a relationship that may cause this feeling of failure but apart from that is there anything else that scares you? I'm asking this to grow my personal knowledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 01:34 AM |
| 1 | women (and guys) are you currently leading someone on that you don't have feelings for? if so, why? be honest this is reddit.Cutting contact is the right way to go if you feel the person hasn't taken the message of "I'm not interested in you" correctly. It saves a lot of time and confusion, I've seen this happen in person among two other friends and the dude in that picture also does to feel better that he is able to hang out with a girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 01:31 AM |
| 3 | Male tiktok user tells women to not go for men like him (basically virtually every red flag you can think of) and go for nice guys instead... women double down.The women he may get aren't in their right minds. Nice guys lost nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 07:44 PM |
| 3 | The average young man is boring, easily manipulated, and desperate, and this is why they can't get a ladyI'm not going to comment on this post without reading what your thoughts are for young women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 12:27 AM |
| 4 | The idea that Will Smith is a "beta male" is ridiculous and shows how delusional the manosphere isNo one talks about Jaden wanting to be emancipated. That shit was indeed heart-shattering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 02:57 AM |
| 3 | The idea that Will Smith is a "beta male" is ridiculous and shows how delusional the manosphere isHe's considered beta because his wife fell in love for another guy, guy who is her son's friend, a guy who is similar to her ex 2pac. She fell in love and from my knowledge that is not how open relationships work. Their relations became so vicious that it could have even ended a star couple's marriage. That was NO joke, she brings it out in public and we all know how well it went for Will. Will knew exactly what was going to happen and 'why' the backlash came. Fast forward, after the world is do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Be honest, would you date the equivalent to yourself?I'm working out at home and loosing weight so from a physical attraction perspective yes I'd date me. That leaves me with long term requirements, having similar views (not same) will also be fine, someone who has the same love language, who wants to communicate everything, is equally inexperienced as me, all these traits are what I'm genuinely looking for. Yes, I'd date myself for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 03:36 PM |
| 5 | Are women lying about body count (Post to end all Count topics)It varies among different states (I don't live in US but have watched enough of RP to get the gist of this), for sure you might think this is the truth about women in Miami but what if they are paid? Doesn't Miami among a few cities also have an image of being a highly promiscuous state? But if not all women go to clubs and have thirst trapping social media profiles then shouldn't those women be carrying a lower body count? Search up 'Courtney Ryan' on YT who only had 3 boyfriends her entire lif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 03:32 AM |
| 1 | If women find you funny, it usually DOESN'T mean they're attractedI think being funny is just a single box ticked and a green flag to ascend further. Idk what assertive means exactly but when I hear people on YT talking about game, it all points towards being able to decisively escalate from a conversation to a date. Being funny might be among the early steps and playful behaviour + light flirting might come into immediate next steps. I vould be wrong but this is what I think, pls feel free to correct me tho! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 01:11 AM |
| 2 | What makes men gravitate towards Redpill? What got you interested (if you are interested) in redpill?Completely agree, I had become more insecure about myself since I wasn't ever in a state of thinking that related to anything about promiscuity. It is a lot of finger-pointing towards one gender and then just assuming that it would never affect men. Well, it won't affect men in the exactly same way but there definitely are enough cons in behavior-related issues within a committed relationship (if that individual had been promiscuous in the past). Regardless, insecurity was something that heighte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Women. What percentage of men do you meet in your regular day to day basis that you are attracted to?So I should meet as many woman as I can? Got it 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.I have never been so secure related to my status and I just don't want to be a part of the casual culture reading this thread. Thanks for delivering the reaffirmations indirectly! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 11:45 AM |
| 3 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.As a virgin dude, this thread is reaaally interesting! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | How do you think advanced Sex dolls will affect relationships?It will bring more options to the dating world. You could simply have who you want but for men to still give birth to future generations, they may be in competition with robots. Robots could be designed in a way to act like a man and be able to hold donated semen while for a man it may not be possible to have a baby with a robot because you still need a biological woman to do that. Now women could surely 'prefer' biological men but how wouldn't men be at a big disadvantage when a sex doll could … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 02:15 PM |
| 0 | Anyone else feel like getting laid is such an important part of life as a guy?Your mates seem to be secure and have taken sex off the pedestal. Is that what troubles you? Or is it that you are constantly putting efforts to seduce someone to sleep with while your friends don't want to chase and are fulfilled by just simple interactions that lead to friendships. | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 09:47 PM |
| 5 | having a sex doll instead of dating?Saving this comment to read back on the evening when I'm back at home after I finish my job (shitty one). Gonna start today with some calisthenics and my usual cardio. This post will remind me of what to do, thank you kind sir :) | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 06:04 AM |
| 3 | Hooked up with a girl at a festival last nightHookup culture is not for all. You could be into it and be disease free by being responsible. That was 1 woman out of many in the festival and that festival could be held at any place across the globe (every outgoing person is different). If you are new to this then don't live in fear and never act out of insecurity, usually when a person matures and then realizes that it wasn't the right move and later regrets. Be responsible for your action and don't have sex with someone who has disseases and… | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 11:48 AM |
| 7 | Seducing women with a disability/deformation and a perspective on why looks truly don't matter.Because if you don't get her, I will. Ah fuck, I better get to it then | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 10:47 PM |
| 1 | I feel like this abundance of sex is not what I wantedI've always wanted a relationship and being my age with inexperience burdens in some way. I know what I want and it is to stay away from casual sex (not the story for all). Unfortunately for circumstances in my life and doing uni online has caused a 0% social life whatsoever. I'm here just venting OP but I truly hope you find what you are looking for and I'm on the same boat in terms of my hopes. | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Do most men actually want to be with a traditional woman?I hold myself on the same standards as I would want my woman to be. Since the topic of casual sex rises, I have never dealt in it since from just learning about itself had been a no go for me. Now I would feel insecure if a woman I'd date has dealt in it (no shame in admitting insecurities) which means that I would be sabotaging the very base of the relationship. I understand the point where it isn't my business to know her 'bodycount' and neither my place to judge why she had such specific phas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 12:01 PM |
| 2 | I’m 23 years old and have wasted my life….You are sailing on a different boat compared to your high school peers. Depression can hit any time and it is good to have dealt with it early in your life. Nothing you said is bad IMO, depression is bad mental health and it grows on you and evolves into an illness. My main concern for you is if you have been earning money during these 5 years and/or have sorted out with depression yet. If you haven't sorted out your problems with mental health then it is EXTREMELY important to do so! because yo… | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?Message her with the meaning of what a date is. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 09:11 PM |
| 2 | She told me "if I accept for a last drink at your place, you will fuck me"What did you answer and how did it go? | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 10:04 PM |
| 0 | Just say hiNot in my case, I never had a girl friend but think I got closed to getting one. Regardless, being vulnerable but not being judgy goes a long way to show that you're honest. I'm in the same boat as you are and working on loosing my fat. Healthy attracts healthy and trust me there are some great single ladies out there who are fun to have a coffee with, I have been there and all you have to do is open up sometimes. That has been my perspective though although I truly respect yours too. | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 09:54 PM |
| 2 | [Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits.Where did you guys meet? Did you just bluntly ask her out or how did it go? | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 10:04 PM |
| 28 | How?Rather than leaving her, show your concerns and tell her that in your dating history it never took someone to still be shy. Be open to know if she is dating someone else or is having a tough time letting you go. Include the conversation with what you feel but don't creep her out, don't put "oh we still haven't had sex" at the forefront but include more about her body language like her distancing you thriughout the date is concerning if you aren't someone she could trust. Have a honest conversati… | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 04:14 AM |
| 2 | My Ex gf reached out..Yes, keep no expectations for this connection and leave it at her discretion. Everyone makes mistakes and as long as she is ready to give this another try then good luck to you guys! I'd suggest that it would be fair to get the closure on 'why' she rejected your offer to get back together. Regardless to whatever happens, having an abundance mindset is the best way to take things forward for you personally. All the best mate and have a great life! | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 10:54 AM |
| 1 | My Ex gf reached out..I understand, you could look towards a video call? | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 09:48 AM |
| 2 | My friend met and had sex with a girl 1 day before I did. We both met her on Tinder. And it was a total coincidenceBest would be to have firm values and morals for yourself and then lead the way with that. Good luck dating everyone but these cases seem to be quite rare. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 03:28 AM |
| 2 | My Ex gf reached out..She wanted to have a convo about her rejecting your offer (maybe due to confusion) AFTER you dumped her. You accepted your mistake to breaking the relationship and now she made a mistake by rejecting your offer, things seem pretty neutral to me here. "With the intention of taking things further if the mood is right." What exactly are you trying to imply here? she wants to have a conversation to clear the fog and you look like a guy wanting sex? maybe I'm reading too much into it but that's how i… | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 12:54 AM |
| 7 | why women look down when i look at them but gays staring meThe line between being interested and nice is just sooo thin.... | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 02:31 AM |
| 1 | The concept of alpha/beta/sigma males is bullshit. Independent, self-assured, centered men don’t care about labelsRed-pill actually made me more insecure than giving me enough information on self-development. So much about it is just on the physicality of the person, how well off you need to be to attract, how you need to look, how to get laid, phrases that turn on/off, forcing to understand the opposite gender more than looking inside yourself, etc. No one in there would talk about the mental battle every generation has to cope up with. I am nothing compared to some red-pill standard yet I can make friends… | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 12:28 AM |
| 11 | [deleted by user]I work with a colleague that is along the lines like you just described. She definitely is confident and strong but really sweet too! Although among our banters, I just playfully get BULLIED. It's always the short ones fellas, take care xD | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 01:57 PM |
| 1 | She is rooting for youI agree that they may not end up caring for the height but your statement is true and false. There are women who don't care heavily about height (for e.g. 6ft) as long as the dude is couple inches taller. Although that doesn't mean that there aren't women who have that standard more as a need. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 03:40 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You missed a very important point of the comment. It isn't that the man achieves all that in his life to just 'go get some' but rather 'attracting' women towards him. He reflects stability in his life and that kind of balance is a turn on apparently. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 01:30 AM |
| 3 | Is it worth it trying to get a girl to change some of her ways for you?Women aren't foolish but they aren't jerk either. With my experience of hanging around with women, they are very social and outgoing. They are always up for making friendships, if that bothers you then the problem is in you and not her. You may know why a dude is becoming friends with her but that doesn't change her perspective on it that she just wants them to be friends and nothing more. If she had to cheat then you can't stop it, it's gonna happen someday. If she is genuinely being friends an… | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 01:13 AM |
| 10 | Girls never check me out..?There are more attractive men than the opposite ones. Ofc the people who are rare in numbers will attract more girls, now don't be angry on me if I steal the attention of girls around you with my dad bod. Good luck brother! xD | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 06:11 AM |
| 6 | How do you guys feel about screwing the neighbour.It's No Nut November wtf are you on about. Jk good luck man, hope she isn't married or something. | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 03:08 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I have read a couple of your responses OP and when you said that she's 'demisexual' it made it more easier to give my take on this issue that you are having. I come from Asia and was also bought up in a conservative household where any really intimate kissing scenes on T.V (during my younger years) would just be changed to a different channel by either of my parents. I have thought a lot about casual dating and just couldn't wrap my head around it because I have accepted the culture that is comp… | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 10:09 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]It has to be her anxiety. Leave it like that, the ball is in her court now. What you could have done instead is write a comforting message to console how she feels and let her know that you would like to get to know her sometime. That IMO would have been equivalent for her to approach you next time you go inside the bakery although she might have also felt wierd where the manager spilled the beans and now she feels like a personal info has just been blown that makes her really uncomfortable. | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 02:22 AM |
| 2 | What to doGive her the benefit of doubt and do let her know that your interest in her is dying too. She could be nervous and/or want to take things slow. If you have peeked your patience then by all means leave and if not then stay in touch with her and create attraction. | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 11:33 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]She asked you to start with coffee. Don't bring the part up that she works evenings on friday. She definitely wants to give you a chance, I'd sqy stoo playing with balls and let your tongue taste a little coffee. | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 04:05 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I have heard this is a turn off. Let her find naturally, use that salary to afford atleast a above than average car, regularly going to the gym, wear watches (I can't suggest which ones since it's your money), always be well dressed, own a good and well maintained property (or rent up to you), lastly have good assets as a back up so you have yourself figured out if your job goes out of the picture (you want a lady to support you not to just dig your gold). | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 09:43 AM |
| 2 | How can improve my social status?Approach a group of dudes, yes dudes. Make yourself known there and join them like a pack of wolves. Be consistent with them and they wouldn't even realize that you decided to join them by just walking over to them and talking, dudes are that easy. There on, a pack of dudes are always known around and then start approaching women on the campus but if you aren't in a co-ed then no stress. Keep doing that with different people, dudes don't always get jealous of you hopping from one train to the ot… | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Tips on improving conversation skills with womenI think it's better to circle around the topic 'jellyfish' and develop a quick thinking that obviously takes practice but in this case it could be transitioning from jellyfish to asking yourself what are they? they are aquatic animals! What do you know about the ocean/sea? nothing much but.. You: "did you know that there is a saying which states that space is more explored than the ocean? isn't it weird that we know more about what's outside our planet rather than what's in it?" She: "damn I did… | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 04:17 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Back in high school, you were constantly around people (forced to attend) in a smaller room so you had to talk to them otherwise you were an outcast. Now in universities, the rooms are waaaay bigger (not all but you get the point). Not everyone wants to sit next to each other anymore and it takes guts to make that decision, added to that would be introducing/talking to each other. Hence social events, parties, clubs, etc. Where people like to meet each other and select partners from there. Lonel… | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 04:05 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Is she seeing someone else? Give her 5 hrs and follow up on the message with something like. "Have you decided yet?" If she still doesn't respond then move on. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 03:01 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]She doesn't want you romantically or wants to build a relationship with you. This means that you are one of her girlfriends as best and in the future the dude she dates will know that you two had a hookup but it was a 'mistake' and it didn't mean anything, that current future bf of her's is the best man she came across, and all the other disney bs. Let. Her. Go. Tell her that you couldn't respect being another body of her promiscuous count and that you can't really think of getting friendzoned. … | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 01:13 AM |
| 1 | It doesn't take long for a girl to decide if she's interested or notI understand where you are coming from but as a young virgin like me who's willing to learn, I don't feel comfortable with the fact that my future s/o would be into casual hookups. Not that I see it as something bad but I would definitely wouldn't see her as relationship material. Neither am I forced into this by religion or culture, I just don't feel comfortable thinking about sex casually kinda makes me sick in the belly too (by just thinking about it :/ ). I don't demand her to be a virgin ju… | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 06:44 AM |
| 0 | It doesn't take long for a girl to decide if she's interested or notYea I don't think I will get to sex right off if she has been into casual sex, she is just not my cup of tea. | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 06:36 AM |
| 3 | It doesn't take long for a girl to decide if she's interested or notThose are the ones I would avoid having a long-term relationship with. | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 06:13 AM |
| 1 | It doesn't take long for a girl to decide if she's interested or notWell then it completely depends on what kind of a girl she is, if she is interested in casual sex then you probably won't get rejected. If you are attractive and really among the highly attractive men out there then yes you have lower chances of getting rejected. A woman's value of the personal space and sexual intimacy also has an equal say in if she is DTF or not. Maybe the girls who you met only wanted to hook up? Isn't that a possibility too? | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Do you talk to women in general?This is really helpful!! I'm actually off to sleep for now but will return if I have any questions (just can't think of any rn). Thanks for the response! | /r/seduction | 25/09/21 12:47 PM |
| -3 | Do you talk to women in general?Being comfortable with girls and having more such friends builds a social rapport but also leads one in friendzone. So it is a two-faced coin, sure it is possible to walk out of the friendzone but it is ultimately a lot harder too. Comfort gives an upper hand when you are interested in a stranger so I agree for the most part with OP. It has it's pros and cons. | /r/seduction | 25/09/21 10:32 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]If you want to be a bf/husband then trust me you have gotta give it a shot. I personally made 2 friends and have an average social proof in the class. But with the grace of bad luck, my university went into online studies and I'm again stuck in a situation where I came out of a few months ago. Go for it man, I have gained a little confidence and made more friends in a month of this semester than the whole of 2020. | /r/seduction | 24/09/21 06:38 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]how has your week been treating you? tell me about yourself (proceed about yourself after she answers the request) What makes you smile/what is it that you can do 10 hours straight and won't be tired at all? (most likely an answer what she is passionate about and then tell her about what you like to do) "Really that sounds quite interesting! but with such interests I'm intrigued about your music taste, I personally love music and would like you to suggest to me few songs that you adore." I kno… | /r/seduction | 24/09/21 06:34 AM |
| 1 | How to respond when girls ask “why are you so quiet?”"Keeping the place empty for you" | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 12:16 AM |
| 2 | How do you feel around beautiful women?Now that I have found sources to increase my confidence. I wanna talk to them, get to know them on a deeper level, test the waters if they are friendship type, meet them collectively together to form a social circle, go out playing pool/bowling with them, ask them to be a wing girl for a friend of theirs that I don't know about amd date her friend. That's how I'd do it. | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 10:10 AM |
| 4 | Just kind of realized how bad my insecurity around lack of sex was hurting meI think it was more of an achievement that is socially acceptable or respected. Which is why everyone says that one should constantly work on themselves, I think this is why. This helps people to revolve around you and that might be something considered as a by-product of winning yourself. | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 11:06 PM |
| 12 | Just kind of realized how bad my insecurity around lack of sex was hurting meI agree that is a massive barrier. A conversation is a place where the person you are interacting with shall hold more importance for you. This means that you need to interact aiming to understand a person on their deeper level, this means that they need to talk for about 70% or higher times in the conversation. This creates a different perspective of you in their eyes because no one else has likely done that for them (yet). Sure getting into a friend zone is a thing but the majority of the rela… | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 10:13 PM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on a girl approaching a guy?Start off with one pf his IG stories and see if you can build a conversation from their, then say something like we haven't caught up in sometime now and I'm really not a texting person, would you like to meet 'insert place here'. Or something along those lines. If you want to be more blunt and aftually want to ask him out then send him a messages out of no where that includes how he is doing, how's his workouts moving, been a long time seen each other and wpuld lpve to talk to him but since you… | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 04:29 AM |
| 4 | How do I reply to this?Thank you for the awards yoo 🤣 | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 07:54 AM |
| 1 | All attractive girls already have boyfriendsGod damn you huntin', man calm down | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 07:01 AM |
| 67 | How do I reply to this?"Sure as long as ts-U-N-MI" translated as "It's- You-and-Me" Damn I was quick at thinking this | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 06:35 AM |
| 2 | What ifI would say go more with "she wants me" so that you get to atleast squeeze out the confidence and make some use of it. Just don't be a jerk with that mindset tho, it's mostly for the first few approaches towards the same person but a good opener! | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 04:18 AM |
| 1 | PSA Don’t be tempted to start treating people like shit, even if it “works”I agree, good men seeking companionship must not be considered to be perceived as a 'bad boy' since all they need to adopt is a single trait (if not few) which is confidence and how to flow a conversation. Gender-neutral advice would be to be truly yourself and keep a basic sense of interactions to 'find' a person who can vibe with you and that might even increase the chances of them being a 'soulmate'. Please stop consuming youtube content that you 'don't' agree with, western countries have con… | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 03:59 AM |
| 12 | Women aren’t an endgame prize they are right there in front of usThis is (in a unique way) very motivating to initiate conversations, if we stop seeing ourselves through the eyes of others then we might just find someone on our own level actually out there looking for us. Thanks for this man great help and hope my comment helps you in return too. | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Anxiety approaching girls in public, as I am concerned about ageWell... are you approaching them to increase your social circle, to start a relationship or to get laid? If either of the last two were your answers then you can easily ask her during the date, if she doesn't wanna reveal then you don't see her again easy. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Girls who are DTF vs wanting ‘more’. Do you care? How do you handle it.Bars and clubs seem to be the only place you should consider for fwb | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 12:00 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]What is your present age? Im guessing it would be somewhere around 18 years. Get a job that looks after your living expenses (rent, food and wardrobe). A socially interactive job will be able to unlock the mouth that remains close, jobs into sales have high turnovers since they are all basic and everyone in there are building to level upto a better job. It's better to get work experience at young age so you have a better scope backed up with references on your cv to get a good job. This might be… | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 11:50 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You meed to know people on the deeper level. Joining activities or actively going out on dates help alot. | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 08:23 PM |
| 4 | I asked a girl put and got kinda rejected. What should I do?Talk to her, include light levels of flirts and complements, be consistent and find new topic to talk to her about everyday, wait for 2nweeks and ask her out again. If she says no then slowly take your attention away. | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Is this a soft-rejection? How should I proceed?She might have been lazy but the number of texts she added "Of course not, I also want to get out of the house 😅. I'll text you my availability for the upcoming week Sunday, and we can go on whichever day works best for you. Again, really sorry for changing the initial plan." says that she is interested in you but you need to keep your options open (be friends or dating type). You will have to see your compatibility as well. Atleast try to flirt and break the touch barrier, youtube touch barrier… | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 11:38 AM |
| 2 | I asked a girl put and got kinda rejected. What should I do?Yes to go out with you? Or to pospone it? | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 11:23 AM |
| 2 | I asked a girl put and got kinda rejected. What should I do?I don't use snapchat so by snaps I think it may be pics of you with text on them or exchanged messages in her chats. | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 11:00 AM |
| 4 | I asked a girl put and got kinda rejected. What should I do?Building a rapport is very important. Letting her know who she will date into is important. Observe who is watching your posts if she is one of them then that's a + sign. What you can do is that you could use the insta stories talking about things surrounding your lifestyle. Could be a pet, could be you showing how you cook a dish (for e.g. trying out this new one), drinking with a friend and capturing videos of pranking him with some jokes, etc. Things that you see celebs, reels (with hidden ca… | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 10:59 AM |
| 7 | I asked a girl put and got kinda rejected. What should I do?Keep chatting and see if she responds the same way she used to, go like this for a few weeks and set another day with her. If she still says no then slowly pull away your attention from her. The way you asked her out was correct and she answered no in a way that she might be busy. Has she set another day? | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 10:49 AM |
| 3 | Reddit is anonymous, so no need to lie: be honest and tell me. How old are you? How many girls have you had sex with/dated through cold approach? In what time span? And how attractive do people consider you?Age 20, 0 on sex and don't want to increase body count because I'm 'young' but would want to look for something around it when I find a girl sharing the same level of intellect. Haven't dated any because I recently broke out of the shell of social awkwardness and anxiety. Had social issues for about 2 years after I started studying outside my home country. I would be around 5 or 6 on the rating and I am working on it to lift up. On a serious note I really hope there are women on my standards i.e… | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 05:38 AM |
| 2 | I went to a party at the house of the girl who rejected me, it was miserableThank you for sharing your experience, yes we do this all the time to over prioritize one girl and end up losing the chance we have to approach others. I will try to do my best to find an opportunity to speak to someone else who seems to not talk to anybody in the class and sits alone. | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 05:51 AM |
| -1 | Girls are showing interest, how do I stop putting up barriers and rejecting myself?What a Chad | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Should I hug her on our first date?Yes hug her | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 07:13 PM |
| 2 | I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned.There is an equivalent of female variants of male F-boys. Every person has a unique way of having fun, for some one night stands and such things included in their definitions of 'adventures' would be fun but whereas, for the others they would like to think about marriage early on and act accordingly. I personally condone doing one night stands and giving sex more value than what it carries socially but I can't go ahead and take someone else's decision for them right? Which is why I chose to lear… | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 12:02 AM |
| 2 | I got good but it makes it so much harder to find something I can commit toWhy would a woman chose you if she preserved herself and you have a high body count? If you guys find compatibility then she would be the one settling and not you. I want you to forcefully think of the kind of a woman you want and how realistic is it for the age group you are looking for. You will then start adjusting and slowly understand that settling down with someone requires them to grow into that picture to fit the role of creating a family with someone. Start thinking things through and d… | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 05:41 PM |
| 1 | I got good but it makes it so much harder to find something I can commit toGet yourself through a detox phase. What are YOU looking for and this 'sleeping around' phase with as many you find attractive, how long is this going to go on for? If you are looking for a family then you need to get married to someone who you keep for long term and continuously work on yourself. That's all what you need to work on. If you want more women then download more apps and don't force someone who you like and isn't a one night stand person. | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 05:28 PM |
| 7 | I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned.Thank you! I have seen men not so good looking getting with girls who are hot. Building rapport definitely paves the way for them through consistency. Will follow what you suggested, thanks again and wish you the best! | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Cute girl slid in my DMsorry for the late reply, search up Stirling cooper on youtube. he has bite-sized content you could use to gather knowledge through and easier to apply. He is a P-star so it is definitely a valid source. | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 02:11 PM |
| 9 | I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned.Appreciate the efforts that went into this, any suggestions for a guy who is not into 'sex with multiple partners'? I understand that you might not know much about this but how do I interact with basic looking girls in my college since that is the only ones I get attracted to (idk for some reason). I'm not a great looking dude but something I'm definitely working on. 20M virgin here btw and in no rush to lose it. Would like your views upon this, no pressure. | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 02:09 PM |
| 9 | I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned.Hey, it's ok to post this if someone else has the same goals and wants to improve on themselves. I personally won't bang one on a first date because I have different morals but still could learn a lot from this post itself. | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Did I Fuck Up For Good?Let it be and move on, we all make mistakes and learn the hard way. Consistency is key but for the right lock. | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 12:10 PM |
| 3 | Should I have told her I was a Virgin?Sorry to hear about this but since she isn't into romance and you had a connection are two variables on the very opposite sides of the spectrum. Unfortunately, she isn't interested in you having a relationship 'with you' hence no matter how hard you try she would leave you on 'read'. Lastly, since getting her back is something I lack information upon, you could open up to her in a single message saying that you didn't really have penetrative sex before and said it out of your own insecurity but … | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 06:39 AM |
| 6 | Cute girl slid in my DMLearn the tips for bedroom activities on youtube and be sure that you satisfy her so that she returns. | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 02:24 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]the purpose to go to the shop is not for coffee but to meet her* | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 10:58 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]It's good to take her suggestion of the coffee since you could describe the taste of it the next time you see her, that could be 'the' conversation starter!!!!! You know then lead it with a small talk and in the second interaction ask for her number, etc. You got this bro be confident and don't approach the coffee shop with a closed mind. Listen to a comedian/song that hits you hard and puts you in a groovy spot. Do this every time because now the purpose of visiting is not the shop but to just … | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Does she like me?Don't mention the word date for now, call it 'hangout' I'm sure that women know it's something along the lines of friendly date. Don't let a license keep you from who you really are, you guys could walk to the place or hire a taxi. No big deal bro, it's just a 'hangout' and don't stress yourself too much no matter what someone says because you don't know how she really feels about you yet. If it makes sense then go right ahead, public transport isn't bad brother. | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Does she like me?remember to carry a smile with no confused eyebrows. That should be enough most of the time. | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Does she like me?ask her out as a friend, next time you meet and talk then make sure to ask this question just before you are ending the conversation. Don't act confused because this is not a date and a date is where you both are clear that you want to work out things between the two romantically. Other than that if there are any questions then drop by. | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 05:19 PM |
| 22 | [deleted by user]make a follow-up post after this post and focus on being friends with slowly elevating flirting. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Does she like me?"matter of fact I'm 'dying' to give you this bag" shows that you made a comeback or at least related to her pun when you gave her the bag. Name puns or conversational jokes should help you get better at these overtime, search them up on google and see if you could find some around. | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Does she like me?Alright good on you but here is where you need to keep your options open: Either she sees you as a trustable friend OR you probably could date her. By the amount you have mentioned in the post it seems that you don't know much about her personal life, start there. Whenever you see her next, before going to work try out a coffee/bar place and see if it is good to get her there too. If you don't know such places then go out and search for them, look for ones around you try out their service and th… | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 08:48 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Hey! really enjoyed reading about your experience and appreciate you looking after the 'bros'. Anyway I couldn't help myself deeply understand that 'high energy' that you carry and could you please expand on it differentiating the energy between guys and girls? please add how do you flirt and tease too! Would be of great help for a person who has just broken off from their introvert shell. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 11:31 AM |
| 0 | Cold approached cute woman and later her boyfriend confronted me for "making her feel real uncomfortable"try to become regular friends with people, this is something I'm working on because knowing a guy from a '20 minute' talks generally attracts girls who are into hookups and not quality women you might want to build a house with. Women will feel better when they naturally find out that you are a genuine guy, this is the reason why I bring up things that their body language speaks, try comforting them when you see that she doesn't make eye contact by asking "am I scaring/creeping you out? I'd like… | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Should I try harder, or is she just not interested?You'll appear needy and say all goes well, you'll be jealous of her behaviour because even after getting in a relationship with you she will continue to be touchy and flirty with everyone else. If she chases you then let her and dig her past because getting to know her dating past tells you whether or not you have a future with her or not. Hope this helps, cheers bud | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 08:21 AM |
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