The guys ex-wife (not the on standing next to him, that's his current wife) came out as a lesbian. She get's $4000/mo via alimony. The guy can't change career, can't retire, can't have a regular life at all since he has to pay $4000/mo to his ex. The ex-wife is underemployed. She is a blogger (and journalist IIRC). She writes about feminism.