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Im a woman your daughter's age. It's ugly out there. I stopped dating entirely about 5 years ago, and haven't looked back. Single, my life is peaceful and my home is my sanctuary. The only stress in my life comes from macro-level issues like politics. Luckily, i dont want kids so this lifestyle suits me and feels like playing the game of life with cheat codes. I feel bad for any woman who aspires to family life in the current era. For them, dating is a lot less avoidable.
/r/ExRedPill11/09/25 01:42 PM
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Im a woman and i agree with everything you just said. Op is not physically unattractive, but his appearance oozes anger. Looks like someone who takes everything too seriously and is easily insulted. I hope he picks up that book you recommended because this seems like an attitude problem more than anything else. Which is fixable.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/25 09:12 PM
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Honestly, it sounds like you get it. Bravo.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/25 11:48 PM
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This is a myth. It is almost always better for the kids for the parents to divorce if they are miserable together.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/25 11:34 PM
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We are also far more likely to be raped or otherwise assaulted/ harassed. We can be forcibly impregnated and kept pregnant against our will (with a whole subset of the population frothing at the mouth to make this more common). We are routinely victims of domestic violence and homicide at the hands of our partners. That you can even say what you just did is honestly repulsive. I hope women continue to avoid you, as you clearly dont like women so much as you want to have a woman.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 02:13 PM
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Yeah they arent thinking about her enjoyment. Only about enjoying her.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 02:09 PM
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Nobody "deserves" a romantic relationship. Relationships happen when the stars align and two people are both single and compatible. Just using that kind of language ("I deserve a relationship") is setting yourself up to fall back into redpill thinking. As a woman who has intentionally and permanently quit the dating scene (because Im happiest single and independent), your approach and thinking about relationships is what ultimately made me walk away. This mindset is exhausting. There are few thi…
/r/ExRedPill18/07/25 10:39 PM
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Lol you made that up. I thought this sub was EX-redpill.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/25 03:06 PM
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Im glad you have the self respect to know what your dealbreakers are. Breaking up sucks, but staying with someone who isnt right for you sucks way harder over a longer period of time. If he gets the sense you will break up over this, he might also performatively change his behavior so you see less of this side of him. Its a common maga bro tactic, so be on guard for that.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/25 01:58 AM
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When you call women "females", you are ensuring that we don't want to know you.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/25 03:44 PM
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Yeah that is insecurity 100%.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/25 11:37 PM
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This 1000x. The "strategies" redpillers implement are so offputting. Like as soon as a guy starts bitching about how he can't get a woman because he's not 6'1, I'm done. As soon as he refers to himself as "high value" or makes his entire personality about going to the gym or being masculine, i am inwardly feeling pity for how insecure he is in his masculinity. RP men try so hard to be what they think a man™ is supposed to be, when they should just be a person. Another thing... they act like they…
/r/ExRedPill13/01/25 05:05 PM
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To me, its not about masculinity as much as it is about someone being comfortable with their own masculinity. The macho "tough guys" who drive lifted trucks and shrivel up at the thought of someone being vegan never come across to me as being particularly comfortable in their masculinity. It's like everything they do is done with the purpose of convincing others (and thenselves) of how masculine they are. I dont date anymore, as I no longer believe it's worth the hassle and i love living indepen…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/25 03:24 PM
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As for females - blaming them has strong foundation. As in capitalism intimacy and sex are transformed into transactional services. So, female want to sell them for highest possible price or don't sell at all. And this is why we have huge deficiency of sex and intimacy. People are afraid to sell cheap, to choose not the best option. This is a very roundabout way of saying that you think women should lower their standards and "gift" their companionship to men that they are not attracted to. No on…
/r/ExRedPill07/01/25 05:04 PM
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Stories like this just make me applaud the women.
/r/ExRedPill02/12/24 06:50 PM
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Don't sweat the small stuff I kept it on my desk at work and read a chapter or two (usually 1-2 pages) every day. It really helps to put things into perspective.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/24 04:17 PM
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Well put, that man's heart is the sexiest thing about him.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/24 04:15 PM
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Having emotions is not the same as outwardly thinking that men are oppressed. Yes, some of the issues are valid... but they are not the result of men being oppressed by other groups. Guy crying about his dog nearing the end of its life or that he justhad a crappy day even: good emotion I will empathize with and care about. Guy crying about male loneliness epidemic and blaming feminism for why he can't get a girlfriend: i don't give a fuck.
/r/ExRedPill23/11/24 03:30 PM
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Find comfort/support in other women. Ive decided to remain single and celibate myself. Going strong for half a decade. I dont think theres anything wrong with the way you are feeling or that it needs to be fixed. That's why therapy doesnt help: The "problem" isnt within you. I was married to who i thought was the love of my life, together for the better part of a decade. Things seemed great, until i had medical complication that made sex excrutiating. Only a few months of no sex turned my seemin…
/r/ExRedPill12/11/24 01:06 PM
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This is how i feel: Some women DO want providers, to be able to have the lifestyle they aspire to. This is valid, as long as both parties involved want that lifestyle. Think like... Tradwife. Me? I have no interest in a provider. I don't want kids and I'm perfectly capable of providing for myself. Instead of a provider, i would seek a partner. Someone who improves my life by being a part of it, and vice versa Money doesn't really play a part in that.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/24 09:04 PM
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Thank you so much. I am not OP, but that subreddit is exactly what ive been needing for the last few years. Wish I'd found it sooner, but better late than never.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/24 01:11 PM
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You're in the wrong sub, buddy.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/24 02:12 PM
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Op: "I noticed you are pretty ugly, so you're not out of my league. Do you come here often?" Woman: Drops pants immediately Sorry, i couldn't help imagining this scenario and it made me giggle. You're totally right. I've definitely dated guys who were conventionally unattractive, but to me personally they were very attractive. A guy choosing to flirt with me because "im just as ugly as him" would give me the female equivalent of a DE-rection.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/24 02:21 PM
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For real. Its a service being provided and they will do everything they can to make you want to come back (assuming you're not a psychopath or generally insufferable), including leading you to believe you're a sex god.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/24 12:27 AM
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My ex seemed super progressive and feminist for several years of our relationship /marriage. It wasn't until i experienced a medical issue that impacted my ability to sexually please him that his true colors showed. Suddenly, i was "abusive" for not having sex with him everyday, and he started having sex with me while i was asleep (after saying no when awake). When I'd physically kick him off of me and yell at him, he told me that he was my husband and he should have been allowed to do what he w…
/r/ExRedPill11/07/24 03:06 PM
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... Why are you on this subreddit? This is straight up redpill bullshit you're spouting.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/24 06:41 PM
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Even the "ugliest" of dudes can get romantic appreciation if they meet someone they are compatible with. The problem is when they think they are owed appreciation from any woman they fancy. I've fallen head over heels for dudes who had zero conventional attractiveness. We clicked well and our personalities felt like matching puzzle pieces at the time. It didnt matter how other people saw them because to me they were very attractive. So, if you get rejected.... Just move on. Women aren't prizes f…
/r/ExRedPill07/07/24 06:39 PM
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Exactly. I don't want to be with someone who has been coached in getting the average woman to say yes. I'd much rather be with a guy who shares my interests and loves talking about them. Dating isn't a sport. I don't have any interest in people who treat it like one.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/24 06:58 PM
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YES! Nothing turns me off more than someone who is so desperate for a relationship that they have no standards. Id rather be alone and celibate for the rest of my life than settle for anyone who doesnt actually enrich (non-monetarily) my life and make it happier/better than it already is.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/24 04:17 PM
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You might be demisexual.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 11:02 PM
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The fact that you are asking these questions means you probably aren't the kind of dude women are afraid of. By asking the question, you are demonstrating 🌈!!Empathy!!🌈 Empathy is like.. the greenest of green flags. Sure, you might stick your foot in your mouth and say the wrong things sometimes, but as long as you approach those experiences from a position of empathy, you will learn from those experiences and do better in the future. To me, few things are more attractive in a potential partner/…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 06:23 PM
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Bruh, i lost my virginity to an obese ginger dude with a fro. He was the funniest guy in my school. It's been 20 years now. Dude is still an obese ginger with a fro, and i dont think hes been single more than a few months in his entire adult life. Judging by appearances alone, this guy is a 3. Thing is, he doesn't act like he sees himself as a 3, and has no insecurity about his appearance whatsoever. There is something SO unattractive about people who hyperfixate on their perceived physical "fla…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 04:43 PM
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Have you considered the large number of people who refuse to use dating apps? Like... How you look is one of the KEY things on tinder. Soooo id expect to find a lot of people there who care about looks more than other things. Meeting people through mutual friends, interests, and hobbies is totally different. The things that turn me on most in a prospective partner have nothing to do with looks. Back in the day when i tried tinder, my swipes were determined by 1) none of my 4 (non physical) no-ex…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 04:29 PM
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You seem split between thinking you have all of the answers (which is clearly working out well for you so far) and knowing you must not be doing something right (thus coming here and asking for advice). By all means, keep doing what you are doing, but don't be surprised when you keep having the same result.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/24 10:03 PM
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Being single doesn't mean doing everything by yourself though. A romantic relationship shouldn't be a substitute for friendships. Ideally, a romantic partner should be your best friend, but they shouldn't be all of your friends.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/24 09:59 PM
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Thank you! I wish i had this mindset 10 years ago... Could have saved myself soooo much trouble 😅
/r/ExRedPill17/05/24 06:46 PM
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I say this not out of malice, but you sound desperate. A desperate guy wanting to date me isnt attractive AT ALL. To me, an ideal partner is someone who is content and comfortable remaining single and doesn't need someone else to "complete" them. I have been single and celibate for a half a decade at this point (mid thirties F), and i love my life. The only reason i might ever try a relationship again is if i meet someone who actually enriches and improves my life - and that i can do the same fo…
/r/ExRedPill17/05/24 06:01 PM
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Depends on the kind of woman you are trying to attract. I'd say it does matter if you actually want a meaningful relationship with someone who isn't nuts If you just want to get your dick wet, then yeah, personal growth is probably not required, and its just a numbers game to find someone with no real standards.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 02:47 PM
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I definitely dont want a man to be particularly dominant. And a man showing emotions shows me he isnt so insecure in his masculinity that he wont show emotions. I think it takes a much stronger guy to show emotions than not. I would never support a man because im not expecting a man to give up his career prospects and hireability to stay home and raise my kids. If you want a woman to stay home and raise your kids, you better damn support her. If she's not doing those things, i dont see why a man…
/r/ExRedPill10/05/24 03:12 PM
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Wrong sub for this, but the women who arent for traditional gender roles are also usually the women who generally dont want a "provider" but a "partner", and almost certainly doesnt expect the man to pay for everything. You are conflating two very different types of of women as ALL women. Like yes, if you are dating someone who wants to be a tradwife, youre going to have to be a provider and pay for almost everything. If you are dating a non traditional woman, its a lot more likely she doesnt ca…
/r/ExRedPill10/05/24 12:44 PM
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Ive literally seen men (on this sub maybe?) say that they want a virgin because virgins wont be able to compare them to other men. Something along the lines of "If shes slept with X number of people, odds are very high shes been with someone who is better in bed than me or has a bigger dick"
/r/ExRedPill10/05/24 12:30 PM
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Plenty of women (like myself) ONLY have interest in guys who dont have/want children. You seem to have a lot of empathy and approach things from an angle of trying to understand them. This is refreshing. I wish you all the best. <3
/r/ExRedPill06/05/24 07:27 PM
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Its so funny to see when guys assume everyone who doesn't want to date them is just shallow. Fwiw, i personally am not at all attracted to men who think "going to the gym" or "becoming a 10" is what it takes to be a suitable partner for someone. Like... I dont even register those kinds of guys as potential partners to begin with. I'd much rather date a guy who is 5'5, covered in acne scars, and chubby, but who is actually interesting/smart than someone who looks like Channing Tatum and puts a to…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 09:28 PM
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Few things turn me off more than a guy blaming his lack of success in dating ONLY on his own physical appearance/height
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 07:43 PM
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Op, do you want to attract these kinds or women? Or do you want to be with someone who has a shred of self respect and who actually has standards? You arent missing out. I say this as a woman. Women, like men, are all different. You and your friend are obviously very different. Dont envy what he has, because its clearly quite shallow and meaningless. Those arent the kind of women you want to date. I honestly almost feel sorry for your friend and the girls he is juggling. Its far preferable to be…
/r/ExRedPill17/04/24 01:34 PM
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I am demisexual. I have lusted intensely over guys that are nowhere near conventionally attractive. Absolutely nothing is hotter than true compatability to me. It is very possible you will meet someone who feels this way about you. Just pursue the things you are passionate about, as a means of meeting people. It might take a while, but youll probably make a lot of like minded friends along the way -which is a nice bonus. I also know plenty of dudes that are very convenationally unattractive that…
/r/ExRedPill29/03/24 03:13 PM
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And i cant think of any woman who wants to be with someone who thinks to himself that she's disgusting for having had other sex partners. Or who is only physically attracted to her, which is how OP said he felt when he decided to have "casual" (but not so casual to him) sex with her.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/24 05:13 PM
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Ask him where he sees himself and what he imagines his life will be like in 10 years. This is a leading question, so he won't feel the inclination to lie like he would if you were like "soooo do you respect women?" Lol
/r/ExRedPill22/03/24 10:14 PM
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Some people hold grudges. You can't control how other people see you or what they choose to remember about you. What you can control is how you respond to it. If it helps, there are plenty of people (myself included!) who have extreme respect for people who mandate to break free from these toxic mentalities. Few things are more impressive to me that the humility required for someone to admit they believed something stupid and to acknowledge the way the acted in the name of that belief was far fr…
/r/ExRedPill18/03/24 01:57 PM
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I think it's important to note that very few girls want to be with someone who "just wants a relationship". That doesn't make anyone feel special and it makes you sound desperate. I'd much rather a guy ask me out because he specifically likes me, not because he did the math and realized I'm the only girl in the room who might say yes. My advice, don't seek relationships with people you don't click with. You're young. Pretty much every friend you have made until now is ultimately a "friendship of…
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 02:08 PM
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You know it would be much easier to just type "yes I'm a misogynst"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:48 AM
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