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I feel like you’re using the term “dating around” interchangeably with “fucking around” at will. Never have I ever as a woman thought about dating as ordering off a menu like I’m ordering off of Uber Eats. Your perspective seems to be that you view and approach dating and women as you do consumerism and products. If that’s the case, then your PoV of dating is that of a capitalism. Capitalism is dependent on supply and demand, conservation, scarcity, competition, incentives, a robust market, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:46 PM
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38 is a perfectly capable age to have multiple children. Many women are delaying family planning because the lifespan of millennials is much longer than previous generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:06 PM
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Plenty of women are delaying family planning until their late 30’s to mid 40’s because our lifespans are much longer. More millennial women are projected to live into their 100s than any generation prior. Also, women can have intercourse until they die. The ability to have sex doesn’t stop post menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:03 PM
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Who told you a woman of 38 can’t have children? We live longer lifespans, it makes sense to delay family planning until parents can afford to raise children. Plenty of women are having children in their late 30s and early to mid 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:58 PM
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38 isn’t too old to start a family. Who told you women can’t have children at 38+? Many of women start having children in their later 30s and early 40s. Our expected lifespan is much longer than even two generations ago. It makes sense to delay family planning so that parents can AFFORD family planning. If a woman is menstruating monthly, she certainly can become pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:55 PM
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Do it. There’s no way either of you won’t end up with resentment and contempt if one or the other accommodates the other’s wants. You’re not an asshole for wanting the life you have, what would make you an asshole is dragging a relationship out till you both became so burnt out to a crisp that someone snaps and is damaged beyond repair and you still end up divorced. Tell her the truth. Offer a generous divorce settlement so you both can move on with your lives how you want. I know the solution f…
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 03:04 PM
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If she’s hired an attorney and is demanding a divorce it is within your right to ask the court to demand she pay for YOUR attorney since she’s forcing you to defend yourself. Also, if you live in a one party consent state, start recording your conversations, she’s not allowed to weaponize your children as a form black mail to get the out come she wants especially since you don’t have an attorney. Also, you should ask for spousal support since she seems to have more money than you do. Which means…
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 01:54 AM
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So, instead of having one person you’re tied to financially, you suggesting adding TWO MORE for the sake of simplicity and holding on to money? Isn’t that just giving THREE people a sort of leverage over your money and future? Also. You’re assuming that lawyers and judges are stupid have never ever seen someone do something like this before to withhold marital assets from a spouse in a divorce. If you make enough money to buy a house, and instead your parents buy you a house and charge you rent,…
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/24 02:17 PM
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I like sex, I could have sex every day (this statement is not an invitation to be weird to me) I have a high libido (when I am in a relationship with someone I care about and am attracted to). However, if a man treated sex in our relationship transactionally to behave decently and not be gross, I’d end the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:35 AM
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I don’t think porn taints men, but I would discontinue a relationship with a man for certain content on his browser history, and how frequently he watches porn if I were ever to see it. Also, I’d end a serious relationship if he was secretive about the porn he watched and how frequently he watched it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:44 AM
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The actual charge is our culture, where women have similar options a men. Also, there are just too many men now. Sorry To say, but throughout human history, men died, sooner. Male babies are weaker than female babies. Women have an extra layer of adipose tissue which is were we store our extra cookies (resources), so we can still carry infant to term. The was a disproportionate amount of men to women. War isn’t as deadly, plagues and famine claims fewer lives. Medicine saves lives. We have vacci…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:27 AM
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Good! This is the only legalization of prostitution that handles the demand that also limits sex trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:45 PM
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Habitually??? So smoke, drink, use drugs, get HPV and share it with others? I imagine you’re the the type of person who “finds out” because as a 31 y/o male in your early 30s, you’re still naive and inexperienced enough to believe nothing bad will happen to you and shit will all go exactly like you’ve planned. I’m not saying don’t take some risks. You’re young. Have a few drinks from time to time, walk through the trees and find some shrooms to partake in with friends, even try sky diving. I did…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:48 PM
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41, and a nurse who’s seen enough consequences of other people’s behavior to know not to just pass my pussy around like a communion cup. I doubt you’d let someone you just met borrow your car, or watch your pet or kid. So why are fucking strangers you met on the internet? How old are you? Too many people live in the moment when the odds are pretty good that they’re going to live till they’re 80. No one would tell anyone to habitually drink, smoke, or do harmful drugs because of the risks that ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:34 PM
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That’s so weird. I would NEVER have sex with someone on the first or second date. Hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:42 PM
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“A man is the head of the household but the woman is the neck” I don’t subscribe to that because I believe in personal responsibility and agency. However I do feel that men often are whole heartedly totally unaware of the actual labor and part a woman plays in having a healthy relationship. Heavy is that burden at times. Men seem to believe showing up, having a job, not having a criminal record, owning a car, not demonstrating violence, interacting and communicating enough to get sex, and unlimi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:40 PM
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Exactly. And thank you. Look at us! A normal man and a woman on Reddit not shitting on each other. Woohooooo! But seriously, I feel the same. I’d rather share the positive than the negative. I do my bitching and moaning about my ex to therapist, my best friend, and most importantly, anonymously on Reddit and leave it here. And also, as a single mom myself, I’m of the same mind. My kids have a daddy, that’s what he’s there for now as far as I am concerned. If I ever do find a new partner, I am no…
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/23 05:26 PM
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WHAT ARE YOU EVEN TALKING ABOUT?!?!?! Women don’t trying on men around town with their vagina like it’s Cinderella’s glass slipper. What you seem to asking for is basically that a woman who agrees to meet you for a date once, then take a few glances while sharing a few words with and you’re so magical that the clouds part and Zeus sends a lighting bolt from the sky that pings her brain and she instantly decides “hE’s ThE mOsT sPeCiAl oNe!” This is like the juvenile equivalent to a girl believing…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:06 PM
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Quick question to gain more insight into your POV How old are you? How many women have you dated in 2 years? Are you dating for casual sex primarily? How many women have you had sex with in the last 2 years? Were the women you had sex with very attractive by your standard? As a woman: I disagree with your observation on #1. For most women sex isn’t off the table after 2-3 dates. Most women don’t enjoy having sex with people they don’t know and don’t like. The odds of a woman having an orgasm the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:53 PM
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Thanks! I know that bit about the women who divulge too much because those are the ones my ex preyed/s on. I was never ever angry or envious of the women he cheated with because they ALL were pathetic and had zero concept of how healthy men behave. Even now, he picks women who are extremely vulnerable and consider themselves to be victims because he likes to play at the “nice guy” and “white knight”. They’re easy because he doesn’t have to do much to impress them. Little do they know that he’s j…
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/23 03:56 PM
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So, women who are actually abused are told by mental health and domestic abuse support group organizers and therapists to NEVER EVER EVAR tell a new potential dating partner or new people about the abuse that occurred in their marriage for a VERY longtime because it sends a green light to actual predators that they’re wounded and easy prey. If someone were to ask me that I don’t feel a strong kinship or intimacy with or trust about why my marriage ended, I tell them that we just grew apart after…
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/23 01:34 AM
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The next viable option. That’s it. And from my observation they’d rather have one committed partner, and also continue with their pump ‘n’ dumps for as long as possible. Men seek validation from women from puberty until they either die or lose so badly from the games they’ve played that they’re forced to change. It’s not just about sex, it’s a deep sense of insecurity about their masculinity and inability handle anxiety and self-sooth. They don’t respect themselves or like themselves so they don…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:40 PM
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Okay, for the sake of this argument, let’s assume that everything in the Bible is true and The Word of God. God parted the Red Sea for Moses and the Hebrew’s fleeing Egypt. Sent a chariot of fire to Earth from the sky to ferry Elisha to Heavens. Made a donkey speak to Balaam. Repopulate the entire Earth of creatures from just one male and female after flooding the planet and killing all land animals. Jonah survived the belly of a whale sent by God to rescue him. God shook the walls of Jericho ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:10 PM
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They get that attention through manipulation, tricks, and lies. Women DO NOT reject or disagree that men use manipulation, tricks, and lies to garner attention. We just think it’s fucking gross and abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:52 PM
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It’s biological to be attracted women. It’s patriarchal to expect that women you’re attracted to to have sex with you, or that you’re just inherently expected to have all the sex you want with all the women you want because you were born male, while believing and begrudging women to do the same. Also, women work, close to half of the working population is composed of women. There plenty of women who are in workers unions. A few things of note about the actual significance of the Bible’s message,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:48 PM
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Oh, there have been so many, and they eventually crash and burn because they’re assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:34 PM
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Probably, A. Some of the most successful people I’ve known are often super generic and average BUT 1. Show up on time, most often early 2. Look professional and clean 3. Ready to work when they do 4. Willing to take a risky 5. Willing to do the work or invest the time nobody else wants to do 6. Are patient and good with how they save, spend, and invest with their money. So, knowing that, I suspect persons A. option are likely similar and have similar values. Persons B., those that just win the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:32 PM
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Ain’t nobody looking like Michael Phelps, other than Michael Phelps. He’s 6” 4 with a 6” 7 wingspan. His body shape is actually weird. He is or at least was for a time the BEST at an incredibly difficult sport. He’s literally a “once in a century” type of human. He won the birth lottery in just about every way. Women who say they want a guy built like “Michael Phelps” like they’re not asking for a one-in-several-billion humans are like men who say “I like women who are “curvy”, you know, like Ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:20 PM
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Women want to feel safe and secure with their partners. I think most men know that women want to feel safe and secure but apply that to the physical and miss that women want to ALSO feel safe and secure emotionally and intellectually as well in their partnerships. Women don’t expect to not reciprocate, and I think most women understand that men ALSO want to feel safe and secure both physically and psychologically. However how two people come to an understanding about WHAT in a relationship makes…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:58 PM
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Most heterosexual men aren’t good at sex. Women can have sex with each other and themselves and have a better experience than just some dude who’s just trying to nut into something warm. Women aren’t interested in horny men because horny men are shallow, vapid, and besides the opportunity of at best mediocre sex, there’s no point of having any sort of relationship with them. So, women would rather not waste their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:20 PM
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Have you ever considered that they have quite a bit in common? Like being at the top of their career field and both immensely talented, successful, and wealthy business people?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:13 PM
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Even if it were true that men love women unconditionally, it doesn’t matter. Regardless of gender, loving someone is really only meaningful when you love someone the way that person needs to feel loved. My ex and I have been separated for three years. We were together for 22, since we were kids. He habitually cheated on me. He still tells me he loves me. I disagree, and reject that. I can’t imagine loving someone and cheating on that person at the same time. NO. There is no such thing as uncondi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:07 PM
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What are you talking about? It is universally agreed upon than sex is the primary motivation due to it’s inherent purpose to propagate any species. However logic, intelligence, understanding of consequences, empathy, compassion, grace, mercy, and safety and security and other motivations due to the advanced development of the human brain influence how humans demonstrate and execute the obtainment of sex, propagate the species, and care for offspring. Fucking your mom doesn’t propagate the specie…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:49 PM
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The Briggs-Meyers test has been determined as flawed, arbitrary, and inconsistent because individuals who take the test end up with different results depending on their mood and circumstances. Personality DOES NOT CHANGE. So multiple results doesn’t demonstrate a person’s personality. Men COVET. That is the same as jealousy, and men are more likely to take, with force, and demonstrate actions as result of their jealousy and what they covet. Men are more likely to demonstrate and act on their fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:40 PM
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Disagree. Boys have grown up to be entitled men that believe they are entitled to the things and lives previous generations of men lived and refuse to adapt to the current cultural gender dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:12 PM
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Agreed. Women should be more selective and have fewer sexual partners because sex with men is “cheap” and sex with women is not. Women shouldn’t have sex with male partners who don’t share their values or value them as individuals or value the sexual enjoyment experience of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:09 PM
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Because they know their value.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:06 PM
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Because they think they’re entitled thus don’t want to change their behavior and refuse to adapt to the current culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:05 PM
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I didn’t say take ALL the power from men and give ALL the power to women. The power dynamic is ALREADY disproportionate in favor of men. I said LESS men holding power and MORE power held by women. When men held ALL power and dominance, they died.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:58 PM
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If lust is just an emotion, than men are more consumed and motivated by their emotions more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:55 PM
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Freud also said that boys want to fuck their mothers. So. Also, Freud didn’t value women. And most of his work has been debunked. He knew “something” was there and that the influence and importance of the mind was very important, but most of his theories weren’t correct. He’s the jumping off point that really was the genesis of what is now modern psychology, he knew he was observing something important and worth studying but his interpretations were generally incorrect. And probably because he d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:54 PM
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Is this a belief or an idea? And how is the world collapsing? What is worse about living in this world than 500 years ago? Also, what are examples of women making bad decisions because they are menstruating? Additionally, women only menstruate for a season in their lives. Eventually women reach the seasons of menopause and then post menopause so menstruation wouldn’t be a factor in judgement at all. And on average, post menopausal women are younger than nearly all men who currently hold signific…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:49 PM
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I was being facetious…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:02 PM
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Who said women would be motivated by their sex drive in making decisions? Additionally, how are women any more flawed than men? What examples can you present?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:01 PM
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Actually it’s not really a matter of just finding a relationship, it’s that erectile dysfunction has increased in young men so rapidly that even if they can find a romantic relationship they’re unable to maintain sexual performance if at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:18 PM
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In that case, why would women be desperate for men if they had money and power? What would be the point of trying to attract attention from men? Sex? Women could just have sex with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:14 PM
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OR the advent of streaming exposed a generation to pornography very young before they had the opportunity to get to know the girls and eventually women in their cohort so their expectations, understanding, interpretation of interaction with and of women is very distorted and so they are unable to relate and have relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:56 PM
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What do you mean by “internally favor women”?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:50 PM
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It’s usually either sex or money or both and for power. I don’t understand how someone who’s climbed so high, who had so much, would choose to fall so low because they refuse control their libidos. And why there’s so many of them. And it’s not always with women who were voluntarily involved in these types of scandals. And that’s the point for many of those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:47 PM
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I didn’t say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:37 PM
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I think he means PSYCHOPATHO-logical???
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:27 PM
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Are you afraid of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:19 PM
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No he doesn’t. He’s just a travel nurse. They take anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:17 PM
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Who said women don’t ever do anything wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:11 PM
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“Sexually creative”. Now that’s an interesting phrase. Nice try. A+ for effort. Also what do you mean by “internally favor women”?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:11 PM
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Are you afraid of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:07 PM
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No, I didn’t, because there is already a disproportionate power balance so less power for men and more power for women could be just proportional.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:05 PM
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Plenty of ways to die without brute force.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:04 PM
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I didn’t say that they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:02 PM
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So, you don’t know what a nurse does. Most nurses on each floor aside from high acuity units have 6 patients (sometimes more) So, we have a little less than 10 minutes for each patient in an hour. A nurse is required to: ADPIE Assess- Nurses assess a patient and their symptoms, usually from top to bottom front and back inside and out. Nearly all the information your doctor has to make his diagnosis is based on allllll the information the nurse has documented in the patient’s chart. Doctors do ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:54 PM
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Yeah. Men are really holding the ship together. Men are doing such a great job that women don’t even want to have sex with or have your babies anymore. You are doing so good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:33 PM
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Does being #1 (and what are we #1 at exactly? We’re a consumer based economy. Do you mean the largest prison population? Because we are so good at locking people in jail.) mean that our population overall feels happy and content in their lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:28 PM
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So…you’re saying women are more proactive than men? Because that’s what that means by your standard. Like, how hard is it to file paperwork as a man? Is the too difficult that he must be dependent on a woman to do it? Or……
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:24 PM
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Asking for a raise isn’t risking your livelihood. Waiting to ask for a raise when every single system and aspect of the economy and in your community was stressed is just an example of an empathetic response to witnessing chaos, suffering, and death and putting the entire group above the individual. America became America by exploitation, subjecting, colonization, and slavery. But, by all means, keep telling me about your values. Especially those that disregard the lives of others for the sake o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:22 PM
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Quick question. How’s your relationship with your mom? What exactly do you think a nurses job is? Like, what do you think a Registered Nurse does at a hospital on her shift? Also, what do you think nurses are doing at the nursing station when they are sitting down?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:12 PM
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It’s more dangerous for a woman to initiate a divorce and leave her partner than it is to ask for a raise. The reason that women didn’t ask for a raise during the pandemic is because they didn’t want to per your source “rock the boat” as there was a GLOBAL PANDEMIC AND MILLIONS OF PEOPLE WERE DYING. Men asked for raises anyway because they didn’t give a shit about anyone else but themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:08 PM
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I’m busy responding to other commenters. Wait your turn, please. I’ll get back around to you when I can with a full response.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:01 PM
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Oh. Really? Women initiate 80% of divorces. Now THAT is an “uncomfortable situation”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:59 PM
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Nurses and school teachers would like to have a word with you, sir. Nearly half the workforce is made up of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:53 PM
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Why do you believe that women can’t even ask for a raise and what does that have to do with the price of tea in China?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:51 PM
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I know. That’s what I wrote in my OP. So, if they had all the sex they wanted, with who they wanted, would they still have the same interests and ambitions?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:50 PM
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Can you wait your turn? Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:48 PM
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OR… Kids are more annoying than grown ass adults with developed prefrontal cortexes????? Like, have you met kids? A whole bunch of them can fit into pretty small space. It’s remarkable. They are loud. And they just do whatever the fuck they want most of the time. Also, toddlers are small because if they were big they’d kill you for a cookie. Also, I’m a nurse, and in school I had to do clinical rotations on the maternity/pediatric/neonatal units and saw a whole bunch of women stick needles in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:45 PM
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Whoever actually (which is usually not the department head) runs the logistics and comings and going of the best most efficient and safe public school bus transportation system in the largest county in the largest city in America. Because the person who is successful at that can likely do much better than anyone I can think of who has a prominent name recognition and also isn’t Mayor Pete. The job and shear responsibility of bussing in a bunch people’s bunch of kids in a public school district h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:36 PM
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Power is still disproportionate between men and women. I didn’t say take ALL the power from men and give ALL power to women. I said less power to men and more power to women, which isn’t disenfranchisement as the power distribution is disproportionate already in the favor of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:22 PM
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But I didn’t say that men can’t make good decisions because they have a sex drive. Women also have sex drives. I said men have a more intense sex drives that are inherently much stronger thus very much so impacts and influences how they make their decisions than women based on what men say about how their sex drive makes them feel and their subsequent behaviors due to it’s influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:19 PM
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Mayor Pete has been an absolute shite in his position as SoT, he can go. However, overall, men still hold more positions of power than women. I’m not say take all the power from men, and give all the power to women, I am positing less power to men and more power to women because it is still disproportionate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:14 PM
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And violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:09 PM
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What about the pedophilia, rape, murder, violent crime, wall punching statistics? Drugs use is symptomatic of mental health problems. Brains break and get sick just like any organ and tissue can. Sometimes it’s just something people are born with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:07 PM
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How would women be less effective? And less effective isn’t “exactly the same”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:04 PM
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Ehhhh, probably. But really it’s a futile endeavor because different body shapes and height can look very different even though their weight is the same number value.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:20 PM
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Woman have deeper, longer lasting, intense, and dynamic orgasms than men. First, our orgasms aren’t necessary and naturally needful for procreation. They’re purely pleasurable. There’s really no “post but clarity”, additionally it men didn’t have refectory period between emission, woman would be able to achieve multiples orgasms in one sexual experience, and better orgasms. Because each orgasm in a sex session, is better. Also we have internal and external nerves that can be stimulated and have …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:24 AM
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Yep. The boys are missing out, too. Because, like in Europe for example, the yearly jamboree has nearly always been co-ed, and involves other branches of scouting, where young men and young women interact an it’s ALSO, among other things, an learning opportunity got young men and women to learn to interact equally, and what is appropriate and not. Also. Scouting has other co-Ed branches that have always been co-Ed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:52 AM
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Scouting around the world has been co-Ed for a very very very long time. The US was specifically divided by gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:39 AM
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My dude. I bet I have a higher sex drive than you. I could never get tired of sex with a partner I liked and was attracted to. I wouldn’t even need a commitment or love. I could genuinely wear a man out sexually. I love sex. All sex. So I masturbate. That’s how I deal with it. I have SO MANY masturbating toys. In fact, I just bought some new ones to try out. There have been times in the last three years that I felt like climbing the walls I was so wanting to have sex. but BECAUSE I am not able o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:35 AM
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Do you not understand that a romantic relationship is multifaceted and not solely dependent on sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:48 PM
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*not all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:47 PM
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It is not against the law. And there are absolutely male only clubs. Also, have you heard of the Master’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:20 PM
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Here you go. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_gentlemen%27s_clubs_in_the_United_States
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:15 PM
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I would never recommend marriage to men or women. It’s sucks for most everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:13 PM
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Men have plenty of spaces to create platonic intimate relationships. There’s you know, the entire earth. They can hang out at home, at bars, in sports clubs, any restaurant, church, any gym… Where are the places men can’t congregate and commune that feminist have closed down? It’s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:09 PM
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No, women don’t downplay this condition. Most women agree that someone experiencing loneliness, touchlessness, and sexlessness are suffering because those feelings are uncomfortable and negative. We’ve all felt aspects of those feelings. We can and do empathize and sympathize. Women don’t experience nor share the same value and understanding of loneliness, touchlessness, and *sexlessness like men BECAUSE WE HAVE LONG LASTING PLATONIC INTIMATE AND PHYSICAL FRIENDSHIPS WITH OTHER WOMEN AND CLOSE K…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:47 PM
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Yes. Men who have had sex with many other partners are a red flag for me. It signals to me that we don’t share the same values. When two people don’t share the same values it’s impossible to have a healthy relationship between the those two people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:09 PM
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“Free sex” really is about “freedom” of having sex that results in a positive experience before, during, and after, and not negative consequences. Most women do not experience a “freedom” in having casual sex with men. Casual sex with men is often not pleasant and satisfying, so it’s not “worth” the time and energy when our time and energy could be better used to enhance our lives positively.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:07 PM
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Men lack self respect because they are looking for contentment and validation from the worst sources. Additionally, men, especially young men, do not have platonic emotionally and physically intimate relationships with one another and don’t know how to. The vast majority of women have at least 1 best girlfriend that they can call and say “hey, I’ve had a terrible day, can I come sit and snuggle up on the couch with you and talk?” Or even “Hey, I’m really sad and scared can I spend the night with…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:03 PM
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Seriously, tho. SO MANY MEN on dating apps have TERRIBLE dating profiles. It really is the way they present themselves that is the reason they aren’t receiving attention. For example on one of the other subreddits specifically for advice on dating profiles, a man stated that one of his hobbies is gardening, and totally didn’t realize that he should EMPHASIZE that he enjoys gardening and not a side note. He shared more about his hobby and it turns out that not only does he like gardening, but he …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:51 PM
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I don’t feel the vast majority of men are safe for women nor are they safe for one another. From what I’ve observed and experienced men need a reason to be safe for women and to place pressure on other men in their cohorts to be safe for women. I think if a man and woman of the same cohort give or take 10 years of age between the two, were dropped off in a secluded place, where no one is watching, the man will eventually at minimum attempt to proposition the woman for sex and quite possible move…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:33 PM
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Because Oxytocin and dopamine is a hellava drug, and women have an over abundance of it. Especially after our bodies have fully functionally reproductive matured and ready to mate and create life. If it weren’t for those biological chemical releases and reaction to men especially after sexual interactions, we wouldn’t give a shit about finding a mate. We feel the empathy for the sorriest mf’ers when we’re barely flowers in bloom. I hope eventually there is a medication to delay our hormonal and …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:22 PM
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Because women are responsible for discerning and furthering the species so they don’t want a scrub to procreate with who can’t enhance the nurturing of her offspring. Some women are better and discerning than others…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:12 PM
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My stance is that women do not have same equitably and equality in this culture despite their contributions in comparison to the historical entitlement and advantages given to men therefor girls and women should be a protected class.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:25 AM
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If woman create all people then women create all things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:41 AM
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The vast majority are not capable or knowledgeable about how to bring a woman to orgasm without A LOT of tutorials that women have to spend time giving them. It’s not sexy, it’s not a great use of a woman’s time, because the time spent with that dude could be spent doing something else more beneficial, so it’s just practical and logical to wait to find a guy you’re actually very interested in emotionally and physically that she thinks is worth investing in than gamble on some dude that she sees …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:34 PM
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Women like to have sex. Women actually want to have lots of sex. Women want to have good sex. Women do not want to have bad sex. Women want orgasms. Women want lots of orgasms. The average man doesn’t care or know how to bring the average women to orgasm. So women learn to not need sex from men because sex with men is an orgasm desert. Feel free to ask me what else that is a supposed need that women learn to live without.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:44 PM
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It would be super cool if women could experience fun and a mutual learning experience while young when dating but that’s not how that works out for women. Women are penalized later in life for having too much mutual learning experience as if they’re beat up used cars and spoilt due to having too much fun and mutually learning dating experiences by men. So, if women are degraded and devalued based on their fun and mutually learning dating experiences they might as well be hella discerning and ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:39 PM
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First, men need to understand that women DO NOT and ARE NOT going to compromise on their standards. They should not have to, and neither should men. I think you’re probably misinterpreting “clear indicators of interest”. Women are taught as very small children to be polite, which usually means acknowledging someone that is occupying the space they are in with eye contact and smiling, especially towards men. Women instinctively posture into submissive stances when they’re outnumber by men both in…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:32 PM
1

Zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:33 PM
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“Truth I’m about to spit” … Listen, you’re not a mystery. None of this is fooling anybody. Eventually we sniff this shit out. Disingenuous people are disingenuous about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:00 PM
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It’s because JO is an AO, and women don’t like him, and it’s because of his own behavior and commentary that we have repeatedly have said that we find offense and dislike and he still blames women for the problems of men. So JP crying is funny. It’s like watching Andrew Tate cry, it’s funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:19 PM
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WELL, when you’re repeatedly sexually assaulted, exploited, hit on by old men when you’re not even in your teens, and ogled for doing extremely minor non/sexual tasks… You sort get the gist that most men are UNSAFE.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 08:45 PM
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I disagree, I think the expected standards for men and their behaviors are so incredibly low. Like, on the floor. The ones that are even kinda decent are unduly celebrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:02 PM
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Honest question, why does this irritate you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:20 AM
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This is a brick, yo. But, seriously, apparently you’ve never had to be in a chat conversation with someone who does not know the difference between their, there, and they’re. Once someone reveals their stupidity, my vagina becomes as wet as a dry Bounty paper towel.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:06 AM
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Apparently you did, and do have fucks to give. That’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:22 PM
1

Not every cosmetic product on the market it a good one, but maintaining a good moisture barrier, utilizing products with vitamin C, retinol, and tretintoin does improve the appearance of skin and also maintains it’s integrity. Also, sunscreen prevents damage from the sun which ages skin, causes irregularities in pigmentation, skin cancer and inflammation. It’s just as important to take care of the outside of your body as the inside of your body. Thank goodness science has evolved and we know how…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:12 PM
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What you’re reading as anger is what I consider my righteous indignation of this ideology men are practicing, and belief that they are losing because women were given equal (not even equitable) opportunities, women seized those opportunities, spun them into gold, became even more invaluable to civilization due to not only the ability to create and carry children after already shouldered that responsibility since the beginning of time, but now are also capable of providing those children they’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:59 PM
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No. I mean. Yes. I love and adore my pets. But I have friends and family and children and a community that I have mutually beneficial relationships with, so my comfort cup is overflowing. I also don’t have cardiac disease, diabetes, and all my sex organs work just fine. So, orgasms are plentiful! And, I can still get laid anytime I want. Stay mad, bro. Choosing to be single and having options is I don’t is AWESOME.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:27 PM
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You are just barely still middle aged, dude. 59 is 59. You can look well enough at 59 and better than those in your cohort, but you’re still 59, and no one would be surprised if you said you were 59 by looking at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:36 PM
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Sure. If that’s what you need to tell yourself to get by.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:44 PM
1

Sorry, it’s r/skincareaddiction
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:41 PM
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No, we would be happier not looking at the giant black craters that are your pores, the nose hair that you pretend is part of your mustache, and the broken capillaries and age spots that you could have avoided if you’d simply worn sunscreen. Men complain because well groomed good looking men receive so much attention from women but refuse to even make minor lifestyle changes to appear more attractive. It is no wonder so many men aren’t getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:22 PM
2

I would not be surprised if your scrotum and the rest of you have a similar appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:17 PM
2

Exactly. If someone doesn’t care about themselves and their health and wellness, which includes their skin, then they’re not going to care about the health and wellness of somebody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:40 PM
2

Seriously, do you really think your butthole is similar to your face?! Do they match?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:37 PM
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No. But I have many longterm platonic friendships. I am still best friends with my best friends from high school and early 20s. I am not close to all of my family members but I still have a loving kinship with some, even though my PARENTS abused me. I cannot relate to someone socially if they don’t have similar socialization skills. I wouldn’t even care if they were just close to a couple of other people, they don’t have to have gobs of friendships. But I cannot be the end all be all in someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:23 PM
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You’re unreasonable mad at my comment. I didn’t waste anything but time. The man should have been thrown in the trash a long time ago. Which is where he is now. Comforted by only his heart disease, diabetes, and BPH.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:44 PM
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Maybe women do. But the reality is that men aren’t choosing to rise up past older generations of men to meet women where they’re at and then expect women to lower their standards and become charity cases. It is detrimental to men because when they KNOW a women is lowering her standards he feels insecure about himself. It’s detrimental to women because insecure men are dangerous to women. And not just physically, but emotionally and psychologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:42 PM
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I don’t really care about what men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:37 PM
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You don’t know what I’m talking about nor understand because of your porn-sickness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:19 PM
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Men, all men, regardless of your age START WEARING SUNSCREEN EVERYDAY. The soap you use to wash your buttle is not the same soap you should be using to wash your face. Go to r/skincare and then to Ulta or Walgreens or CVS and find a good face wash and moisturizer. Exfoliate. Everything. Use a chemical one. Get rid of those black heads on your nose, there are facial products that aren’t those sticky strips that do a really great job. Take care of your fingernails, toe nails, hands and feet. Trim …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 02:47 PM
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Maybe because most people just agree that females are better looking than males overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 02:23 PM
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Red flags: -Immediately talks about an ex and last break up. -Immediately begins with a sob story. -Immediately begins instigating sexting. -Doesn’t want to video chat before a meet up. -Immediately indicates that he’s unsure about what he wants in a relationship. -Immediately demands commitment or sex on the first date. -Indicates interest in BDSM. -Doesn’t hobbies and interests that are shared. -Doesn’t like cats. -Doesn’t like dogs. -Doesn’t have ANY longterm platonic or familial relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 02:19 PM
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No. Men ruined modern dating. Men choose this for themselves. Women were robbed of education, opportunities, and personal right for centuries. When women gained these opportunities, women chose to earn higher levels of education, thus higher earning professions, thus sustained independence, thus higher mate selectivity. Modern women, or women of child bearing age, also take much better care of themselves than their male counterparts. Women wear sunscreen, they begin very early skin care regiment…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 01:53 PM
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Correct. Anyone can make an accusation about anything, in the case of domestic violence it’s been proven time and time again that it is better to take the accusation seriously, remove the potential abuser from the potential victims and to investigate. That is actually due process. If the accused isn’t guilty, they will be proven innocent. The other option is to risk the lives of the potential victims. Hurt potential hurt feelings aren’t more important than potential injury or death.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 11:56 PM
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I don’t care about men’s rights because men have all of them. I’m a working registered nurse. It is extremely difficult to get children taken away from abusive parents. Parents have ample opportunity to clean up their act. And in the case of child abuse it is 100% better to ere on the side of caution and investigate before believing a parents claims of non-abuse. In this situation we’re talking about the rights of children who have no means of advocating for themselves in situations of abuse so …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 11:46 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 11:37 PM
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But they won’t blame the porn or their dependency. It’s pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 11:32 PM
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Prostitution and sex tourism is still stigmatized but the acceptance is gaining traction. And that is just one problem. The issue is the the way men relate to women sexually and the effects of early introduction to sex via pornography that is formative in their understanding of sex and relationships. Thus these men are not appealing to women and cannot be taught how to sexually engage with women where women receive mutual and equal pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 11:31 PM
3

So you’re saying that men don’t have a very long history of aggression, violence, and domestic abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 11:27 PM
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Women don’t want porn-sick men, who have early derived porn defining sexual expectations from potential partners, who have a history of paying sex workers, who think sex is like a hand shake upon meeting potential romantic partners. It’s gross. Women aren’t attracted to these men and these men are legion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 11:26 PM
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No, feminism is about having the same access to the same rights men have. It’s about equality. What men believe is tOxIc FeMiNiSm is about women having EQUITABLE rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:49 PM
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It’s terrible for humanity. And between pornography, the gaining acceptance of use of prostitution, web cam sites, Only Fans, sex tourism, and women still allowing themselves to have sex with these men that utilize all the above, these men have the AUDACITY and ENTITLEMENT to claim that MEN are suffering sexually. That men are victims. That society is EXCLUDING men. Fuck that shit. None of us should be buying into it. It just a garbage narrative to blame women for not pleasing men enough. Becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:46 PM
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“Toxic femininity” is means of survival and to avoid exploitation and abuse. “Toxic masculinity” is a means to control power, subdue, and abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:16 PM
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Because most men learn about woman and their bodies from pornography, which is unrealistic and not how women like to engage in sex. Straight women statistically have the worst sexual experiences, so they have to take care of their own pleasure as teaching men correctly is nearly impossible because their idealization of what women want sexually formed and solidified years before they were old enough to have relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:13 PM
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“Look at the amount of strip clubs, prostitutes, and porn geared towards men…look how men struggle…” The problem is that men can have committed partners, still utilize pornography, strip clubs, and prostitutes and IT IS NEVER ENOUGH. The problem is that men feel entitled to women. All women, whenever they want, however they want and it’s NEVER enough. In countries where prostitution is legal, the demand just increases and the supply still isn’t enough despite human trafficking initiatives that h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:05 PM
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This woman is STUPID. She’s not evil, she’s just stupid and just pathetic. She literally has had MORE THAN ONE affair with MORE THAN ONE man who won’t kiss, finger, or go down on her. Her husband doesn’t know about her several years of infidelity, but he also doesn’t know that her pursing this divorce will be the best thing that has ever happened to him. Something is seriously very wrong with this woman. And if you look at her post history, she definitely displays some very VERY strong traits of…
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/23 07:02 PM
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Men do look significantly older (10 years between 25-35) and it’s quite obvious to women because even when they still hit the gym and maybe keep trim, men don’t take care of their skin. So many men just use one soap product. Men don’t wear sunscreen daily, practice a daily skin care regimen like using retinol and and vitamin C, utilize body care moisturizers. Men drink more alcohol which ages the skin. They have more moles, freckles, acne scars. Additionally, it’s the hair thinning that really g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:53 AM
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Large age gaps between younger women and older men do exist but it’s a tiny portion. Most people date within their peer groups. The older cohort in a generation stick within that cohort as does the younger cohort. Men do get better at dating due to experience and socialization, and women are less picky because as they get older because they’re not looking for a father and a provider, but a partner (if they’re even looking for partnership, as companionship and partnership have more distinctions) …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:31 PM
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I don’t think women are saying it’s hard to get a man to commit in the same sense you’re talking about. What they mean is: Men will ask or agree for commitment, but not behave like a man in committed relationship, but expect the person who agreed to be in the committed relationship to remain committed to him. It’s not hard to find a man that will verbally agree to commitment, it’s difficult to find a man that behaves like he’s committed and stays that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:02 PM
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WAT?! Lol no. I can’t choose something I don’t know. If I knew of his poor character and integrity I wouldn’t have married him. He’s just a dog. An insecure man who seeks external validation because he can’t cope. He’s in rough shape health wise now, and looks on the outside how he is on the inside. Like most men his age on the apps, he’s not getting the hits he expected. The few exceptions are women with PROBLEMZZZ, which he is expected to fix with very challenging mental health issues. One kep…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:45 PM
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I married my HS sweetheart lol. We met when I was 16 and he 17 (almost 18) in a smallish town, and I was, like, the third person he’d dated, ever (as far as I know). He was a 5’ 8” nerdish nice guy and we liked the same music and movies and shopped at thrift stores together. We separated 22 years later because he turned out to be a disgusting pile of dog shit. He’s the ho, not me. shrugs you live, you learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:59 PM
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Shit happens. How is that relevant? That man is now my ex. And I learned valuable lessons about relationships, commitment, and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:29 PM
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Marriage with a man who is promiscuous isn’t worth the time and effort either. I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with a man who didn’t respect himself and had such low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:19 PM
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Right, as those men in older cohorts who are having sex, were already successful in their youth cohort. Folks in retirement communities are bumping.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:50 PM
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Yeah. Sure. You definitely are not at all bitter and totally chill. I’m glad you found yourself, and all by yourself. So, I agree, the words you posted are quite humorous. Lolz
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:28 PM
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Their hobby is talking about TRP with other men, and reading books about TRP written by other men, listening to TRP podcasts hosted by men, and trying to teach other men to become TRP. Their interest are basically other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:20 PM
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Oh, man. You should have seen what happened once we were allowed the opportunity to learn how to read. Game changer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:17 PM
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Men do not become better looking with age. They don’t wear sunscreen daily, have a solid skin and hair care regimen, or exfoliate routinely. They usually have less hair on their heads, grow carpets on their bodies, more hair in their nose and ears, develop more moles on their body, and less likely to keep up to date with current fashion trends. After 30, especially, all that above shows more signs of age and determination, but testosterone levels decrease, as does muscle, height, many have their…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:13 PM
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No, because I wouldn’t care. I am not desperate for a committed relationship. Also, I wouldn’t want to be in a committed relationship with a promiscuous man. Why would I want to be in a relationship with someone who has low standards, doesn’t value themselves, doesn’t value relationships, isn’t discerning, and puts their body at risk so casually when STDs are prevalent?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:53 PM
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There are a lot of things I wouldn’t do or participate in with someone who had zero experience. Like, being a passenger in a car with a driver who’s never driven a car. OR WORSE Believed they’d be a good enough driver after years of playing Grand Theft Auto and believing that it was a relatable experience. Also. Why would I do that when there are plenty of other experiences drivers available?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:48 PM
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Negative gains, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:12 PM
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It’s not judgment. It’s just that having sex with a virgin is not worth the time and effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:11 PM
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Why would/should women give dating advice to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:10 PM
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Not according to pornhub lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:05 PM
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Men are definitely fatter overall than women, have higher rates of hypertension and diabetes. Why are men so bigly? And why are they so many overweight? There is NO reason for men to be overweight. Their bodies pretty much stay the same from dad to day for forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:05 AM
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No one is guaranteed anything in life, however you as a man have better chance of obtaining more wealth, more power, safety in a domestic partnership, safer from sexual abuse, and do less labor to keep a family together by just being BORN a male than I do being BORN female. The odds, even if small, are still in your favor. instead of earning a degree in engineering, you could choose to help other men and earn a degree is social work or psychology. Even a nurse! Sexual abuse is a serious issue th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:34 AM
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I have been trying for YEARS to get socialism to really take off in this country, and, like, nobody wants to do it with me. It’s so aggravating. But maybe if we work hard, maybe we can do it together!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:17 AM
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Also, why are men fatter than women? Men literally have no reason to be fat. It’s not like they go through pregnancy and give birth, or have monthly hormonal cycles that effect weight and fat distribution. Men have more muscle than women naturally and can gain more muscle mass more easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:08 AM
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Not according to pornhub.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:05 AM
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Why are men CHOOSING not to go to college and EARNING a degree in SOMETHING??? Anyone can be accepted into a college. The bar to acceptance into a community or technical college is on the ground. Men have had a head start by several thousands of years, it’s a CHOICE to not attend college and graduate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:04 AM
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So, what you’re saying is that only women with low standards are interested in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:45 AM
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looks around, then gestures at the earth Sir, which sex holds most of the wealth and positions of power and authority in the world? How many female Presidents of the United States have there been? Who is most likely to die from domestic violence in heterosexual relationships? Who is most likely to be doing most of the domestic, emotional, and parental labor in a family unit? Who attempts suicide the most? Who is most likely to be sex trafficked? How experiences the highest rate of sexual abuse, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:42 AM
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Men who are into TRP never had a chance with women to begin with, so I don’t think it’ll make a damn bit of difference on their success in dating anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:13 AM
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I’ll take “things that didn’t happen for 500, Trebek”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:10 AM
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Oh, they mad. It’s fine. I’m a woman and a registered nurse. So, probably a little more experience with people, specifically women in this case, than the average person, let alone these red pilled weirdos. But it’s fine. They can stay mad, and alone. I am more right than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:05 AM
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“I'm a woman that loves and admires hot dudes so much that I will make out with a chick to prove that I am attracted to men who are attractive.” I am crying laughing at this comment! I don’t know why but you got me in my funny bone! I am dead!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:23 PM
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A woman making more money than a man is not a deal breaker for women. Women need to make more money than men and have a higher earning potential in a LTR so if the relationship ends, they can support themselves and possible offspring if abandoned. Additionally, when women make more money than their partner, they’re protected from their male partner using money as leverage. Additionally, men should want a woman that makes a little more or an equal salary because that would snuff out any worries o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:20 PM
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I mean…you’re basically holding a gun to our head in this hypothetical…but okayyyy. So, I’ll go with the #2 option: hot-woman, because that seems fun and a good time. Let me restate that. I’d be screaming from atop of my roof option “NUUUUMBER TWOOOOO!”. I would publish an essay in the newspaper that I chose #2. I would get a tshirt made and wear it on the anniversary of choosing #2. I would hire a photographer, and do a photoshoot wearing my #2 t-shirt, of me eating a gourmet cake, me surrounde…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:51 PM
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I don’t even know what to do with this it’s so hyperbolic. Just because one tourist group of American women in Tulum didn’t behave as you expect women to behave, that doesn’t mean women in America hate men. That’s silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:31 PM
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Men have more sexual partners than women. If you’ve gone many years receiving such little attention from women that you’re experience is in a deficit for your age, then eventually the woman who comes along and does show interest in you should be someone that you view as your partner viability equivalent. Even if she does have more sexual experience than you, wouldn’t you rather have a teacher who can teach you what she likes so that she thinks you’re a good lover and partner that cares about her…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:22 PM
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Because men don’t take care of their skin, hair, and consciously dress the same way young women have been socialized to do already, so to a 20 y/o woman a 30’s something y/o man looks like a grandpa or at best closer to her father than to someone closer to her age. Young men: At least WEAR SUNSCREEN EVERYDAY. Hot young women want hot young men. A 7 year age gap isn’t all that creepy, but a 15 year age gap is seems creepy because men look older. Also, a 20 y/o and 35 y/o are less likely to be in …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:53 PM
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Then incentive for women to hold on to a low body count is: Women are more likely to be infected with a STD than men are to contract an STD from a women. It is extremely rare for women to experience orgasms when having casual sex with a partner that they’re not emotionally invested in and the partner isn’t emotionally invested in her, either. Women have even less of chance to orgasm during a ONS. So having sex with many partner is just a waste of time and energy that could be otherwise better sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:45 PM
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Nurses would like to have a word.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:30 AM
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Less as younger women understand that feminism ≠ having sex with a bunch of men equal sexual freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:26 AM
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Women aren’t responsible for fixing the broke lives of men. Also, you don’t have to have a romantic relationship to maintain sociability. Do you have friends? If you can’t be a whole person in need of fixing up to be happy, then a well adjusted healthy woman isn’t going to be interested. When you’re in “need” to the point of disparity that’s leverage for someone else to take advantage of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:12 AM
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Why wouldn’t sharing a negative experience with someone not be okay? I would definitely share with other women observed objective character and integrity defects I experienced while dating a man so that other women have the heads up before determining dating that man. I wouldn’t specifically make an anonymous post about a man I dated, but if a man I dated was posted and the anon was asking other women who know him if he’s a safe person to date and/or a decent human being and I knew he wasn’t, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:45 PM
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I think you’re confusing “love” and “sex”. What I don’t understand is why you’re leaving out a very important component of living which is the necessity of PLATONIC relationships and kinship with family. When a person has close relationships with friends and family, the impetus of finding a romantic relationship and placing such a high value or that being a necessity in discovering happiness declines. Men who are well adjusted, confident, and aren’t desperate for a romantic relationship also hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:54 PM
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If someone treats you poorly and makes you feel bad, why would anyone want to continue the relationship with that person???? Everyone is inherently unique at an intimate level. No two people are exactly the same. So, if your girlfriend has committed to you, she inherently believes that you are unique. Otherwise she’d just choose anyone. What you seem considerate “love” or someone loving you in a romantic relationship is what some people would call “unconditional love”. Which doesn’t exist and sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:21 PM
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I personally think that for young women, the Female Dating Strategy podcast is worth listening to, as is reading the website. It started out as a sub on Reddit but many many men for YEARS were so incensed by their posts and theory, that they would post CP and other graphic material on the sub and then brigade and report the posts. Along with harassing the mods. Some of the stuff done to the mods by men of Reddit was INSANE and truly terrifying. I don’t think everything FDT is about or their theo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:42 PM
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Exactly. Young women aren’t aware of this and it’s such an injustice. Which is why it’s important for older women with more experience to tell them the truth, instead of hoping they figure out after being burned too many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:16 PM
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Yeah, there are too many men out there that are duds. Which is WHY it’s important to teach young women that reality because young women are still too naive. Young women should be mentored by older women with more experience and knowledge on how men behave and warn them to not romanticize disingenuous behavior, reward bad behavior with attention, be more discerning when selecting who they have sex with and commit themselves to in relationship, and the impact of commitment and marriage on a woman’…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:00 PM
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The only problem I have with these groups is if they use a specific name, a very specific location, or a picture that wasn’t posted publicly. Any picture that a person post that is public, is public, and fair to use. I don’t have a problem with women (or men) sharing their experiences about a man they’ve dated, even anonymously. And when a man is being unfairly villainized in these local groups, mutual friends will stick up for him and set the narrative straight about his character and integrity…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:49 PM
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I’ll go further: It’s not that “men” (sigh disclaimer: not all men) in TRP demonize women (sigh disclaimer: not all women) and romanticize men, it’s that they demonize women, who have relationships WITH OTHER MEN. Additionally, narcissism is a form of arrested development that is rooted in deeeeeep insecurity that leads to a person being empathy and emotionally intellectually deficient and a lack of self-awareness. You can’t have a relationship with someone who’s core personality is rooted in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:18 PM
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Medication that treats hypertension can be a boner killer. Which IS NOT a reason to discontinue taking the medication (can’t have sex if you’re dead), but it is a reason to try a different medication. Lisinopril, for example, is notorious for being unpredictable. Literally, someone can take that medication for five years, wake up the next morning, take it, and have an anaphylactic reaction. One of that medication’s major side effects is erectile dysfunction, and sometimes it just suddenly starts…
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/23 10:23 PM
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Nurse here: Do you take antidepressants or hypertensives? What’s your A1C, and your blood pressure? Also, have you had you prostate checked? ED can be symptomatic of benign prostate hyperplasia. Additionally, approximately 50% of men will start experiencing instances of ED by the age of 50. Go to the doctor, ask for viagra. If you don’t have any medical or medicinal reasons for viagra to be contraindicated, your doctor will have no problem sending in a prescription.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/23 09:08 PM
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There is ZERO downside overall when you are no longer married to someone or committed to someone who does not want to be with you and/or does not respect and appreciate you for who you are. In the beginning it’s painful, but when you don’t have dead weight (a committed relationship with someone who is very unhappy) every choice you make becomes a choice you get to make in the best interest of yourself. Your future is yours to do with as you please. Also, when you are not the person who ruined an…
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/23 12:29 AM
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So, listen, if you look at my post history, I don’t even have lukewarm feelings for remorseful cheaters. I was married to a serial philandering cheat for 20 years. But, maybe some of this is just her personality. Is she genuinely a nice person to other people? Is being of service and gift giving something she does for everyone she’s close too. Also, and not like I understand this thinking, it’s insensible to me, but she may actually still very much care and love you because you feel like family …
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/23 02:36 PM
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Is that the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:19 AM
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Are they exploiting young men and underage boys? If no, then what’s wrong? I’m assuming that sentiment among men in the US is of happiness that these women are pursuing their bliss and finding more suitable partners for themselves, and are glad they’re leaving, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:18 AM
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Especially CHILDREN. And the women who are adults were like put on the streets for sale as children first.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:09 AM
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Why do you dislike her behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:08 AM
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My son, who is your age, has autism spectrum disorder but it very high functioning. When he was first diagnosed, which was actually much later in his childhood because in many ways he is atypical-atypical, and has a younger brother and sister so I wanted to make sure that if my other children also had autism or other neurodivergent disorders, that they received earlier interventions. Anyway, what I learned is that little girls with autism spectrum disorder tend to go undiagnosed up until very re…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:06 AM
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What are you talking about???? Women like sex and orgasms. When women aren’t having sex, it’s not because she doesn’t like having sex. It’s because she doesn’t want to have sex with her partner and it’s not about comfort, security, familiarity. It’s likely the opposite. How many LTR have you been in? How many relationships have you been in?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:49 AM
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Equality isn’t the same as being the exact same qualities of physical features, feeling, emotional intelligence, work ethic, intellect, and personality traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:11 AM
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That is called abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:55 PM
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So, you need feel superior and to be dominant over a women in a relationship? Is that what you’re staying here?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:52 PM
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WUUUUT. No it doesn’t. Do you know any women? How many women have you had a longterm relationships with???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:30 PM
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Uhhhh….wat??? Women having a career isn’t a threat to your masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:05 PM
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Shawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:51 PM
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Why not look for a woman with a career? Here is the condensed straight forward responses from men who have already responded: She won’t have time for me. They’re too old by the time they have a stable career. Men prefer young women. A women with a career is risky because she likely has more masculine traits and behaviors that men believe are negative and interpret as narcissism and aggression, and she cannot devote time to me and the children I want her to bear. Women think their money is their …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:52 PM
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No, you’re not terrible at writing. You explained your thoughts and expressed yourself quite well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:11 AM
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You are most welcome. There is a 2012 documentary called “Happy” that I highly recommend you watch, and if you choose to, get back to me on what you think about it. Anyway, there is a man in the documentary who went to India to visit, and once there, decided that he had to go back and stay to volunteer his time to take care of the MANY poor people that were dying in large hospice-like shelters fulltime, There are literally hundreds of dying people laying in rows on the ground or in cots, and he …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:23 PM
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I am not going to pity you. I do not have pity for you because you don’t deserve it. I am proud of you for taking the initiative to find a SOLUTION. You self evaluated, analyzed what you needed, developed a strategy, and effectively executed it and found some resolution that makes living easier and gives you peace. I am RN and I can tell you from experience that the ability of the average person to do this in nearly any facet of their lives not as common as you’d imagine. So, well done, you. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:34 PM
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OP did you not read the article? It clearly states that it’s a defensive mechanism linked to neglect, abuse, and trauma from childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:37 PM
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If you don’t like dating women, try men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:03 PM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:43 PM
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Needing a man is just a way of being dependent on a man in the context of the type of relationship you think is most desirable. Women in a relationship with a man need from him companionship, compassion, empathy, grace, intimacy (sexual and emotional) partnership, communication, emotional support, and intellectual and emotional intelligence. Also, women really like sex. Women want to have sex, they masturbate, the fantasize about sexual intimacy. There are few biological reasons why many women d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:20 PM
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I think if I’m reading your intention behind the question correctly, that we’re coming from two different positions. If you’re position is that marriage as an institution in our society is something to be salvaged and is imperative, I disagree. I don’t even think marriage in it’s current form is practical nor safe for women, and it never really has been. The only safety in marriage historically for women was literally a matter of life and death. Either by her mother’s marriage to her wealthy fat…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:26 PM
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Yes. And puppers and doggos! Perfectly content with my not human friends. I have fesh, too, but also my human kiddos, and good human friends, and family. And some hobbies I enjoy. There is so much more to life to enjoy than just romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:36 PM
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This has been my experience as well. It’s just not rewarding or fulfilling for women. But, kit-tays, those are rewarding and fulfilling. People who think having a bunch of fluffy kitties to love is sad just want the world and everyone in it to be as unhappy as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:17 PM
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I am separated from my husband, but the divorce is just a formality at this point. We met in HS, married, made a family, and were together for 22 years. It was not a great experience for me. I have several very close girlfriends who have been married now for over a decade and have children, and marriage has not been a great time for them, eitherZ All have higher levels of education and are professionals. I wouldn’t recommend marriage to other women. Cohabitation, fine, for the sake raising child…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:10 PM
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Yes. For the foreseeable future. Dating is extremely complicated, having cats is easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:36 AM
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C. Neither
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:34 AM
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It’s the “alot” for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:55 PM
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This is correct. Heterosexual relationships are bad partnership for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:10 AM
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This post is just beyond disingenuous. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:07 AM
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Why? Are you insecure about something?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:15 AM
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This practice it’s the equivalent for women as be “friend zoning” is for men. But only one of them is getting laid. And it’s women. So, for this woman, it could be worse. She could be a man with zero matches, never gets laid, and sure has a lot of friends that are women who think he’s a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:47 AM
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BBW isn’t a niche category on porn sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:31 AM
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Men are having more sex than women, and also cheating more that women. It’s probably because they cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:41 PM
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Oh, friend. The list of reasons as to why porn is bad is very long (heh!) The accessibility that young boys/girls and men/women have to pornography is unprecedented due to the internet and because it’s free. Not only does it form an unrealistic understanding of human sexuality very early in young people, it also forms an unrealistic explanation of relationships. Also, it’s very very VERY likely that if you’ve even been a moderate user of pornography, you’ve watched some kind of sexual assault or…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:40 PM
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Hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:47 PM
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You find it disgusting that women can...read...obtain higher levels of education, earn higher wages, refuse to accept physical, psychological, and sexual abuse. Can choose their own spiritual faith, enjoy having sex, can vote how there choose, choose how and who they spend their time with, and have more information to make choices about reproduction and family planning? That’s disgusting to you? What is wrong with you? Is it insecurity? Do you feel emasculated because women have the same opportu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:53 PM
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No one is saying you can’t be picky. We all have preferences. The issue is the content of your OP, and your belief that women were always, prior to current social climate: Virgins Submissive Nurturing Educated Attractive Conservative Religious Are you suggesting that society reverts back to Medieval England? There’s also a difference between being forced to behave in a certain way and choosing to behave in a certain way because of your own personal values. What you’re wanting is a women who you …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:20 PM
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So, according to you, and your personal understanding of women, you’re knowingly tainting women with your behavior? You’re choosing to cause direct harm to women and their future? Have you ever considered that you just might be a misogynist?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:04 PM
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So. Women are lowering their value and degrading themselves by having sex with you? You must think you’re a terrible person then if just having sex with you means someone’s value decreases.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:37 AM
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Yet on this sub complain all the time that women pay then very little attention or agree to date/get to know them. Women are choosier than men, and the decline loneliness for men is ongoing. It’s not women who are hurting in the dating world, it’s men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:33 AM
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You think they see you as “white”, but they really see you as an oddly, and in some cases freakishly tall featured pinkish pale human who can’t handle the sun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:23 PM
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This is just...sad. Western women don’t attempt to go outside of the west to find partners because we’d rather be single than buy another human being and pay them to love (give us attention and sex). You’re not anymore special outside of the west other than having better financial resources and the doorway into citizenship. You’re not funnier, more attractive, clever, interesting, and definitely not a pleasant conversationalist if you aren’t fluent in the language. And you’re definitely not bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:19 PM
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It’s not a problem for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:55 PM
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Are you female? Why do you think a subreddit devoted to infertility is representative of the ability of females to become and carry a pregnancy to term in their 30’s and 40’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:09 PM
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Generally, YES.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:58 PM
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So, the idea is to trap her, basically? But, pretty sure she can still apply for American citizenship regardless of location. And any children would automatically have American citizenship. It would be very stupid to assume that if you marry someone where love and affection is a currency used in exchange for financial security, stability, and also safety, that the later won’t take whatever opportunity to find a better deal, because these are fundamental needs for every person. When a person has …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:56 PM
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Yup. He doesn’t realize that it’s a game, where he’s a 1-man-team playing against a stacked deck working together to slowly plunder what he has that’s valuable. There is common phenomena that transcends all borders and cultures where women work together to find mates and survive. If he believes he’s not a mark being slowly circled by a many women within a WhatsApp group, he’s only fooling himself. Asian women aren’t stupid. “Sometimes if you let people do things to you, you’re really doing it to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:50 PM
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So your expectation is to be treated like A KING. You think you’re a king?! You aren’t a king though, so why would you expect to be treated like one? You’re basically just a white dude with zero mating prospects in your home country, thus a below average American male. These women aren’t interested in YOU as a human being, but because of your money and your American citizenship. They aren’t dumb, they know why you’re there. Do you honestly believe you aren’t a walking stereotype? You want to bag…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:26 PM
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Well, women keep getting taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:49 PM
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Because it effects society and the future of America. If you listened to the video you would know that this is a result of bad national policies and de-investment from the middle class and investment into the rich and older generations. That young men aren’t economically or emotionally viable to most young women, because most women still prioritize economic security in their partners, and women are choosier now than ever before because they earn degrees and own property and what they expect for …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:22 PM
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I don’t think there’s anything wrong with waiting till you’re in your 30s to get married. It’s sweet, I guess that he’s been holding a torch for her all those years. And it’s likely he dated other people, too. However, how she’s speaking about the relationship and fiancé is SUPER weird. Like, she’s low key acting like he won the trophy or something through hard work and determination. But the prize is her. She might as well just say “he loves me more than I love him”. I wouldn’t be surprised if …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:13 PM
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Uh, yeah! You bragged about cheating on your girlfriend 30 times and banging a bunch of women like you’re some sort of Great Value brand of Rico Suave. You confessed your integrity and character in the comments you wrote, it’s right there in black and white. Just scroll up for reference. With that many partners you’re risk for sexually transmitted infections and diseases is super high. And you explicitly said you do not treat women with respect and dignity and identify as misogynist. These are t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:33 PM
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No, that’s not what the Pew Research study concluded which is where the article pulled it’s statistical data from. Women are CHOOSING to remain single. Women don’t need be in marriages or relationships with men to financially support themselves anymore or to become parents. Also. Women are well aware that they’re more at risk from being murdered by an intimate partner, than if they were single, and 15 times more likely to be murdered by someone male that they know, than a stranger. 62% of women …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:39 PM
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Your first response is irrelevant in the context of the OP. The OP opened the discussion in the context of longterm relationships and marriage. My point stands. Women like having sex, women like having sex with men, they don’t choose to stop having sex or reduce having sex with their husbands for no reason. They can still find their spouses attractive and not like their spouse. In a longterm committed relationship like marriage that goes on for years, something you’ve not experienced, liking you…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:19 PM
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The article literally states that more women are opting to remain single than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 09:55 PM
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Let’s back up and analyze what you just said here. You know that cheating is psychological abuse, yeah? You can’t cheat without manipulating, gaslighting, and lying to your committed partner. Secondly, I bet you seek out the most vulnerable and fragile women under the guise of altruism and deep interest. I bet you make them feel VERY special while asking poignant question that facilitates the goal of sifting through their confessions and background to weaponize that info to get exactly what you …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 09:54 PM
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More women are choosing to be single than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:56 PM
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No, you can be attractive and your spouse not like you. Women don’t have sex with people they don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:55 PM
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Women like having sex. Women like having sex with men they like and are attracted to. Women don’t like having sex with men who they don’t like and don’t fine attractive. If your wife is refusing to engage with you sexually she doesn’t like you and find you attractive. Your wife is upset with you and there is something unresolved in your relationship. You probably know what it is because she’s told you a million time and you’re not actively listening and changing your behavior. Fix that issue tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:54 PM
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Sexual experiences is tied as much to the brain as it is to the nerve endings. Most women are having bad sex with men. Not something to be addicted about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:29 PM
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No. It’s not that either. Lol. Men and women having consensual sex isn’t an imbalance of power dynamic where women are not actively engaging and equal participants. Not unless the partners are are engaging in a consenting form of power imbalance that is being acted out in a fantasy simulation, like bdsm. If there was a power imbalance it wouldn’t be consensual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:38 PM
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WUT!? No. lol Women having heterosexual sex isn’t submissive or submitting to their man. It’s weird if a dude thinks like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:25 PM
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Stop saying “lookmax”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:47 PM
1

What’s the “submissive part”?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:45 PM
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If you are a man in a committed longterm relationship with a women and she’s refusing to have sex with you or there’s a drastic change in mismatched libidos for no physiological or psychological reasons, it’s because she doesn’t like you and/or find you attractive anymore. PERIOD. Because: Heterosexual women like having sex. Heterosexual women like having sex with men they are attracted to. Heterosexual women don’t want to have as much sex as men as evidenced by....infinite examples. Porn. Need …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:38 PM
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Not wanting to be married to someone anymore would be plenty of reason as to why I would want a divorce in a marriage. Who wants to be married to someone that doesn’t want to be married to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:58 AM
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The vast majority of HCW do not work in offices. How do you know that educators aren’t experiencing and doing strenuous work? Are men more likely to be injured at work than women, or are they more likely to DIE at work. Because there’s a difference. HCW are more likely to by injured than construction workers. This is a FACT. The reason why they’re more likely to experience injury is due to WORK PLACE VIOLENCE from patients and family members (often accidental from patients; especially those in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 09:36 PM
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Men who complain that the majority of women are supposed losers who don’t have difficult jobs, and get an “easy pass” in life are just willfully STUPID. Nearly half the labor force is composed of women. More women earn college degrees than men (can’t be a teacher or nurse without a degree). The vast majority of the female labor force works in three sectors: Healthcare Education Service industry All of these career fields require strenuous physical and emotional labor, and just because that labor…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:56 PM
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I AM a Registered Nurse who works in the ED. Nurses (LVNs, LPNs, NPs, RNs) PCTs, RTs, PTs, OTs, CNAs, Surgical Techs, Environmental workers, and physicians make up the vast majority of the labor force in Healthcare, and all are working physically demanding jobs. Please, please PLEASE go tell those people how physically easy it is to manage patient care. My great grandmother, my mother, my aunt, and my best friend of 25 years are all teachers. I also volunteered in all three of my children’s teac…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:32 PM
2

Oh. So you’re crying about dating???? JFC.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:40 PM
2

That is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:39 PM
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Interesting you say that because there’s a current investigation into the amount of excessive deaths among public school educators and workers attributed to Covid-19, as teachers and staff were forced back into classrooms without necessarily PPE. And if you want to understand the impact of physical labor in specific fields, look at statistics related to surgical procedures like joint replacement/repair and spinal repair, fusions, decompression. Additionally, people in those career fields undergo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:38 PM
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This must be a teenager who saying this, and has little experience in the world and a small social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:53 PM
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Yes, yes it is. ESPECIALLY for pre-k and elementary school teachers. They’re constantly moving kids around, setting up equipment, and on their feet all day long. It’s also very DANGEROUS, as students bring weapons to school, and physically fight each other and teachers are constantly intervening in these fights to keep students safe, especially in the upper grades with older much bigger students.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:51 PM
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Teachers and Healthcare Workers are the largest labor forced in the US, all heavily dominated by female employees. The third is the service industry, also predominantly female workers. These are all physically laborious jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:39 PM
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Huh?! Nearly half the labor force is female. The largest labor forces, Educators and Healthcare Workers in the US are female dominated and both physically and psychologically strenuous jobs. The third is the service industry, which is also predominantly female. All are physically strenuous. What alternate reality are you living in?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:36 PM
1

Just say you want to date teenagers. You don’t have to take the long way around to express what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:31 PM
0

You’re entire assumption here is that men don’t age and their bodies fall to shit as they do. Men of all ages are more invisible than their female counterparts throughout their lifespans which is why they can’t get dates, have sex, or find relationships as easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:48 PM
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Yes, it’s instinctual. If women didn’t care more about our babies than men, our babies would die and so would the human species eventually. Also, why would a man want or even need to be tended to so intensely as a BABY, ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:44 PM
75

What I wanna know is why men are still so fat even when they don’t go through all the same changes in their bodies women do while carrying and delivering offspring?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:41 PM
6

It’s fucking gross for a grown ass adult to be sleeping with a teenager that is 10,20, and 30+ years older than them. Regardless of the gender. It’s even more gross when older adults fetishize these types of relationships and seek them out in a predatory manner. It’s not illegal, obviously, but social mores still dictate social acceptability, and generally the majority of people find these types of relationships to be icky and irresponsible on the part of the older adult. This changes when the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:39 PM
4

You’re broken, why hasn’t your shitty ass mother fixed you? I’d tell all men the same thing that complain about women not wanting them as their own personal pathetic fixer upper . Women are not responsible for fixing broken men. Also, “middle aged women” ESPECIALLY do not give a flying fuck about men, their brokenness, or care to seek one out or fix them. Men of all ages are fighting over younger women because men rely on women to do all the emotional labor in fixing them and completing THEIR li…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:27 PM
14

Why are women supposed to “make men”. That’s your mother’s job. We’re not here to finish baking you. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:39 AM
3

She still wouldn’t have you, acne or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:15 AM
1

Just say you don’t like to ask for and receiving consensual sex. No point in wrapping it up in this weird bow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:49 PM
4

What’s missing from the equation about men/women in the life satisfaction question is what happens to women after they become pregnant and inturn become mothers/don’t due to miscarriage/some multiple miscarriages and then have health births with healthy babies. What isn’t discussed or even really fully researched is what happens between married couples when women become pregnant and bear children, and/or have an unfortunate loss of offspring. The dynamic is totally changed in the relationship. A…
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/22 05:12 PM
2

And??? What’s the problem. I didn’t choose my marriage ending or the circumstances that have made dissolving the marriage extremely complicated and volatile. Should I date the people just because they want me too and are interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:16 AM
1

My dude, women can have sex past menopause...do you have even the minimum basic knowledge of female psychology/anatomy/physiology? Some women may not want to have sex but female bodies are quite capable of having intercourses, arousal, and orgasms post menopause. From post-menopausal women suffering from some sort of sexual physical dysfunction, that is far more an issues related to trauma to their anatomy/physiology due to carry and birthing children in their youth, than than issues related to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 09:48 PM
17

I’m a single woman by choice. I was married (well, still married, but have been separated for 2+ years). I followed the supposed women’s ideal blueprint for life and family. It was an awful experience, and I thought I married one of the “good ones” one of the “nice guys”. I am leaps and bounds happier than I ever have been in my adult life. I signed up for Facebook dating on whim about a year+ after my separation, thinking I might as well in case I decided to date eventually. My inbox filled up …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:15 PM
1

Strength is subjective. Boy babies and young children are weaker than girl babies and young children. Women outlive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:50 PM
1

Benign Prostate Hyperplasia. Approximately 70% of men will develop BPH in their lifetime. The chance of developing BPH dramatically increase after the age of just 40 years old. By the age of 50, 50% of men will have been diagnosed with BPH. SYMPTOMS: Urinary frequency Urinary urgency Failure to empty bladder Urinary incontinence Impotence Hematuria And if you can orgasm: ✨Painful orgasm✨ So, uh...don’t count of being able to maintain virility and hold your bladder, and you better get some sex in…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:45 PM
6

No, why are being so sensitive? Do you need a therapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:51 AM
5

Yes yes, I’ve found that most men LOVE it when I playfully remind them of how tiny their genitals are and that they have a statistically very high chance of developing BPH and impotence and I’ll eventually out live them. THEY ARE SO DELIGHTED. Wins then over every time, all of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:44 AM
1

Unfortunately, it is probably better and in my best interest for the sake of my mental health and possibly safety until he has the motivation to divorce, because (I am not a doctor, I am just a registered nurse, and I know it’s very difficult to have a objective view of a person and their behavior when you know them, but...) all aspects of his behavior point to a likely cluster-b disorder. I think he could make my life very difficult when: a. He has the realization that it’s officially over and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:14 PM
5

My husband left the family for an affair partner, sorta. It was a REALLY messy situation. However, he has yet to file, we financially are very much married, but live separately and coparent mostly separately since he isn’t interested in equal parenting time, and we are very low contact. It’s been over two years... I asked when he’d like to file and he’s said maybe in six months. He says he’s not in any hurry to make the dissolution legally official. I have the sense that he’d like to remain marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:43 PM
6

I have a dog for that. Two actually. I am extremely safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:45 AM
3

Exactly. The ending of my marriage and relationship with my stbxh was just an exchange where I ended up with a better dog. She’s the best loyal and empathetic companion by miles.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:44 AM
15

Scouting in most other countries has been co-Ed for a very long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:27 PM
1

Because gender shouldn’t be the only prerequisite or only merit to participate in activities and organizations that both males and females can enjoy and master equally. Btw. Scouting across the rest of the world with a few exceptions are co-ed. It’s just scouting. In the US it’s divided by gender and it’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:26 PM
7

Maybe you should ask women why they have stopped dating, are delaying or even outright forgoing dating, marriage, and children?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:44 PM
5

First, define “good”. Not alllllllllllll men, but seriously, most men aren’t good in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:54 PM
3

WAT?! No, they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:46 PM
11

Are...are people really still paying attention to and caring about that podcast?! Yikes. The bar is so low, and the situation is even worse than I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:02 PM
15

What is this “non-compliance” you’re referring to, what are some specific examples of “non-complaint women”?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:54 PM
5

When have men NOT hated and abused women in the history of men and women? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:44 PM
0

No. Calorie deficit isn’t an actual cure. It’s temporary solution that eventually exacerbates a chronic problem. Human bodies haven’t evolved to lose weight and keep the excess weight off. After prolonged periods of caloric deficits, the metabolic rate decreases, and the body begins to start storing fat again. This is why after significant weight loss, people who begin to consume even moderate amounts of calories over their usual restricted caloric diet regain the weight, plus more. We don’t hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:27 PM
1

People who cheat do so for outside validation and assurance. Low self esteem people need constant validation and affirmation because they have chronic low self esteem and seek the approval off others to mend that internal discomfort. People with low self esteem are also chronically selfish, internalizing every nuanced interaction regardless of intent in regards to them and how it effects them, and perceive even minor negatives as related to themselves in some way even if it’s not. It’s the worst…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:09 AM
-1

There is no curable treatment for obesity by any medical standard. Treatment for obesity is less effective than the vast majority of cancer treatments.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:03 AM
8

If men love women so much why are so many women, especially pregnant woman, murdered by male domestic partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:01 AM
-1

Low self esteem guys CHEAT. That’s the deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:58 PM
11

I’m a nurse, and I often wonder if men actually hurry up and die first so they won’t be alone, because they almost always have a companion there with them that is a woman, I don’t ask if she’s 1st, 2nd, or 3rd life partner but there’s always one. But not necessarily their children there tho... Older women are often already widowed, but in contrast, their children, close kin, church folk, and remaining close friends are usually there and visit them often. I’m okay with dying “alone” (not in a rom…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:25 PM
-2

Nope.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/22 07:11 PM
4

Why is it the responsibility of women to make men happy? Happiness is an internal endeavor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:41 PM
-1

41 isn’t too late for a woman to carry a pregnancy lol
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/22 05:30 PM
3

I don’t believe any of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:57 PM
0

If her mom isn’t providing childcare, then who is? A judge is most likely to accept a familial childcare, and doesn’t expect that the family member will do it for free. You can ask for more thorough documentation and receipts, but IF she’s being disingenuous, that can be disguised easily. I believe in most stated the custodial or primary care parent has final say in who provides childcare and making the final decision when there are conflicting ideas. Also, it would be wise to check around at di…
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/22 02:27 PM
10

I think chronic use rots your brain, shrinks the limbic system, and breaks the work/reward neurotransmitter release and uptake eventually causing deescalation of arousal ability and function over time and men using their dry hands and women using vibrating toys to masturbate causes desensitization of the most sensitive parts of their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:17 AM
3

*you’re
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:03 AM
4

I just turned 40, here is my experience observing men over the last 22 years of adulthood. When they were young — the majority at least, someone, somewhere, somehow told them early that eventually they’ll a. Have wealth b. Have some sort of fame or large social capital c. Be viewed as attractive by the majority of their female peers and desired, d. Won’t be like their fathers or the “Average Joe”. Now that these men are older, and didn’t “achieve” all of a-d, and they in fact are just Average Jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:17 PM
2

My comment is based on my experiences and world view, tho. And I agree, when toys and porn are priorities over actual engagement with your committed partner, that’s a problem. But in my circumstances, I’m abstaining from romantic relationships so it’s not a problem. If I found someone I had a safe and secure relationship with the toys would be an accessory in a shared experience or go back under the bed in a shoe box to collect dust. I’m not replacing romantic relationships with men with toys, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:08 PM
2

Nope, that’s not what I said either, and here is what I said to another commenter who also responded back with a snarky comment: “I said “most”, not all. And I’m a nurse, and have a unique specialty job and responsibility in the career field itself. For whatever intellectual intelligence I don’t have, it’s made up for in spades by emotion intelligence because I had to hone that skill in order to be effective and give the right kind of care to my specific patient population. It’s not “a superiori…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:49 PM
3

I said “most”, not all. And I’m a nurse, and have a unique specialty job and responsibility in the career field itself. For whatever intellectual intelligence I don’t have, it’s made up for in spades by emotion intelligence because I had to hone that skill in order to be effective and give the right kind of care to my specific patient population. It’s not “a superiority complex”, it’s a massive lack of shared values that I’ve experienced when engaging with the average man romantic. I’m not sayin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:46 PM
2

Also, take a peek at my post history, I reckon anyone who knows my situation would understand why I’m abstaining and have taken myself out of the pool of fish. I don’t have “baggage” I have a full sized Uhaul.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:34 PM
3

Why does that matter? I am not offended about men using those devices to release when they need to because they don’t have a partner. Men have been using pornography for ages, even while in committed relationships. I see the toys as an equal comparison for women’s use. If it’s fine and expected for men to use porn routinely regardless of their relationship status, why can’t the toys be accepted the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:30 PM
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I am a single woman that doesn’t date at all by choice. I don’t date because I’m alone, but not lonely. I have children that I enjoy nurturing, an engaging job, hobbies and interests, and intimate relationships that fulfill companionship needs with family, good friends, and my doggies. I get my own self off with easily purchased and affordable items from Amazon a handful of times a week. I tried dating after being separated for a year or so, and most of the men I engaged with were intellectually…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:27 PM
2

It seems regressive to choose to not utilize your best feature and qualities to attract a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 07:58 AM
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