VulcanXIV Archive

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2	Wife wants to separate as she isnt in love with me any more and I'm broken It's crazy how often this charade is done. Tears and love but not in love. I've gotten it, too. Ridiculous. All just excuses.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/23 08:36 PM
1	Had sex for the 1st time in 5 years Solid!	/r/seduction	14/04/19 12:06 AM
2	Asked a beautiful girl out at my gym I don't recommend it. It's absolutely true that relationships do not end with "I have a bf" but rather begin with that. The priblem with that is that you only really encourage monkey branching women. If she can ditch a guy for you then she'll ditch you for someone even better. You two clicked, apparently, so you really should be a gentleman and forget about her. The real risk is when she decides to monkey branch anyway and approaches YOU at a later time. Thing is, once she does that you're kind …	/r/seduction	09/04/19 12:33 AM
1	When a Girl says she has a boyfriend... In hindsight, taken women aren't really acting like it if they're in the #1 mingle hole There are so many instances of such women being on the offensive despite being with a posse of women who know she taken. This one guy rejected her when she came to seduce him in the bathroom and he came back out to find her group looking at him like some monster She had come back and spun a lie about him being the aggressor. Haha	/r/seduction	04/04/19 03:49 PM
3	I've made it!!! Noice	/r/seduction	02/04/19 11:56 AM
6	I've made it!!! What did you do while you were there? How did you do it	/r/seduction	02/04/19 08:25 AM
1	Had sex for the 1st time in 5 years My dude you must tell us all about it. I'm not saying I'll take your word as gospel, but it would certainly be a valuable anecdote for us men compared to the tons of google results we find on the subject... The subject ( and the question) being... what is your opinion or perspective on how receptive women are to sex that lasts that long? Is it the chemistry? The intensity? Technique? Mood karate? All of the above? I know those all help but I'm asking to find out what you personally think is the …	/r/seduction	01/04/19 03:25 PM
1	Had sex for the 1st time in 5 years Even though I'm a horny 24 year old serial masturbator with some serious hentai concerns, I have learned the hard way that sex just isn't all that great. I mean, it is, but at the end of the day nothing fills the void a lot of us have in our existential lives like passionate love. It's a first world problem, sure, but when you seek out sex to the point that you even start settling on partners, you'll find out real quick that the only thing you end up with is a sobering disinterest with sex	/r/seduction	01/04/19 03:15 PM
1	Was this a date? That's up to you. The reason that is, is because at this point you've entered Rambo territory. If one decides to give up, they should do it and stick to it. If they decide to persist despite the unresponsiveness, then it's completely up to them to do so with confidence but most importantly, tact. If you dont feel you can measure up to her wavelength, then chances are you'll fall short of getting her to fall in love. Life is cruel in how fickle love can be, amd its important to understand that yo…	/r/seduction	25/03/19 04:31 PM
1	Was this a date? You're not confused, you're just at a loss (in more ways than one). I'm not you and I'm certainly not some chad. You don't have the resources to continue and it's ok to accept that. She's drawn a line and there's nothing confusing about it. It's not ok to hear it from me, either. That's just another thing you'll have to write down as a stretch goal. Good on you for trying man, that's for sure. If you find yourself genuinely in love with her then at this point you should listen to your heart and …	/r/seduction	25/03/19 04:14 PM
39	A Women's bitchy and sassy attitude is just a fake front for their insecurity Which is why it's important to realize that acting indiferent and uninterested in it shouldnt necessarily be acting. Either they fix their shit or they getting the boot.	/r/seduction	25/03/19 03:21 PM
1	Was this a date? Doesn't seem good. Two truths are left: You take it on the chin and hope fate brings you two together for your second chance to prove yourself after a montage of self work, or you take it on the chin and risk trying harder for a response ( for that you have to try a different way every time--a full blown old-fashioned courtship. Be original and genuine). Neither are right but neither are wrong, just don't seem desperate. Never discount the possibility that she just isn't interested. use that to …	/r/seduction	25/03/19 02:53 PM
4	Had multiple successful dates. Here’s the pattern that’s working for me. We're both right. I was more cynical obviously, simply having max game isn't as bad as I make it seem. I really am impressed with OP's method though. It makes me feel like trying game again without having to bust my back for the chance to land basics	/r/seduction	20/03/19 10:35 PM
76	Had multiple successful dates. Here’s the pattern that’s working for me. This is true, but I think that's the beauty of his approach. Men seem to forget that having game should involve being able to succeed interacting with women in the PRIORITY you desire. I've actually been disillusioned with learning Game as of late. What's the point of maximizing getting laid if all you'll do is attract sluts who llive by the laws of Game?... there are some extreme cases out there yo. Some women just live like you gotta trick their brains into liking you (or at least being horny …	/r/seduction	20/03/19 09:42 PM
2	Was this a date? That's what I meant by making it happen. The things I say always relied on you to come up with the execution, in the end in just arguing boundaries. Boundaries that can be interpreted differently based on the situation. Keep it up. Do that idea you mentioned. you're ignoring her unresponsiveness and pushing in a different way. Excellent. Just remember that there's always a breaking point for everything so it's up to you to sense that. No one can tell you when its time to call it off or make the …	/r/seduction	19/03/19 06:18 PM
2	Was this a date? True. It's important to not feel anything about this. You think about the reasons and you catalogue them. It'll be ammo to use at a later time, teasing or whatever it could be. Try to think about how you can make that meet up happen without pestering, even if it means waiting for her to approach you last minute or sending her a message the day before telling giving her good wishes on her trip or something. Vibe. Class. Confidence. Your win some you lose some just never think about saying "fuck i…	/r/seduction	19/03/19 12:56 PM
1	Was this a date? Its email, isnt that quite normal?	/r/seduction	19/03/19 02:39 AM
5	My Golden Rule of pickup and how it helped me overcome approach anxiety. I hit 24 just a few days ago and ive nailed a part time i really wanted as a stepping stone yo advance my life. Ive started running and I'm sleeping at night and staying awake all day. Just a few days before nailing my interview I had run into a girl cashier at the stire who literally scanned the entire register lines to find me after i left her line (she turned off the light and i was 3rd in line. Majority if my work experience is as a cashier so i didnt want to be those old people who cinsider…	/r/seduction	18/03/19 02:22 PM
2	One Year Later You put in some good tips for the guys who havent gotten their feet wet yet, neat! You offer some perspective on my question too. Let me refine it though to continue. Could you offer similar tips, but now for the guys who are still in the first step of courting? You made a good point that it depends, but surely thre are some do's and dont's!	/r/seduction	17/03/19 06:02 PM
4	Am I more likely to get laid if I lower my standards ? The simple answer is yes. However in my experience this is 50/50 (which is totally unreliable because that comes from experience with only 2 women..not 100 haha be skeptical). My first woman I wasn't attracted to and couldn't even get it up. I was a virgin though and she was my attempt to Lowry my standards so it was a real mess the first time, having to break through my bias. The next time we went at it though (and for the rest of the summer relationship) I learned that even if she didn't have …	/r/seduction	17/03/19 01:30 PM
2	Almost 4 years ago I hit rock bottom with my love life and decided to immerse myself in game. I'm in a serious relationship now, but an offhand comment in another sub led to another Redditor asking me what I learned on my journey. This is what I came up with. Prioritize bringing joy to the woman your approach by the end is the interaction. Excellent. That's great because more than anything, it keeps men from going full creepy horn dog.	/r/seduction	17/03/19 01:10 PM
2	One Year Later Hey man, as a badass man who had the strength to put himself out there despite seemingly started at rock bottom...what is your advice/enlightenment for men who share numbing insecurities and just overall getting game? Do you feel your journey has shown you that there are definitely some things you can get somebody to benefit from if you just tell them "trust me, it works as if youve done it a hundred times", or does your experience tell you that it's too complex to nail down unless you put yours…	/r/seduction	17/03/19 12:21 AM
1	Was this a date? Take it in stride fella. This is what it means to not flinch. Never flinch. Don't let the unease energy flow out for a second. Confidence boy Confidence. Take a look throughout this subreddit and you'll find plenty of examples of how not to fuck up a line during conversation. Forget about the number over email, you can ride that out. Like we said, whether shes platonic or not itngoes in your favor so chill	/r/seduction	16/03/19 08:27 PM
1	Was this a date? Intimate questions should stay intimate in person, so asking for her number like that might have been a bit much. Who knows maybe you'll get lucky if she's still treating it platonic, in which case good shit for taking advantage of that. Remember, im not describing how to court her, thays kind of up to you. The last half of my essay was pretty much warning you to go fast but not hard lol. Dont freeze up when you meet though. Being smooth is about relaxing and letting the conversation flow.	/r/seduction	16/03/19 07:45 PM
0	Tinder advice: Any advice if you are a woman's first date type of guyz? Probably cuz you disagreed rather than listened in the first half. The second sentence is just meh because it doesn't tell the whole story.	/r/seduction	16/03/19 01:16 PM
2	How to text girls Engaging with women is about taking them on adventure. Men have a hard time chatting women up because they don't have anything planned to court her with, they can't chat her up in a way that leads up to such an engaging date. If you think talking to her will exclusively get her to open her legs then you're still young. The conversation is just the table, but asking her to go hiking, biking, movies, romantic dinner, dog walk, study session etc is the food that comes in hopefully less than 10 minu…	/r/seduction	16/03/19 01:13 PM
2	Honesty + Humor = panties dropped GASP he said the n-word....no one says the n word	/r/seduction	16/03/19 01:08 PM
3	Honesty + Humor = panties dropped Well his example works only if the girl is already chill with that kind of humor.	/r/seduction	16/03/19 01:06 PM
1	Whats up with my friends girlfriends that give the funny looks? Look man, rather than asking for confirmation you should stop feeling complimented and start doing what men do: choosing the fork in the road. You can approach one of them and literally, undoubtedly and eventually...nuke yourself from your circle. You will destroy everything. You could bang one for years if thats what you want and in the end she'll get sloppy and expose herself to her boyfriend and screw you over. This is why everyone says to not date coworkers, because when shit goes down it'll…	/r/seduction	16/03/19 01:04 PM
1	It didn't go the way i thought it would Quite possible you just lost your chance. Honestly most safe guys with game would have waited maybe 2 weeks. At that point she's probably super fristrated with your lack of decision and has rlegated you to beta male status. Only way to overcome this is to go full alpha and corner her, burst into her bubble and ask her what happened. Even IF shes angry, she liked you. if you were a man worth your salt then you would jump in and take her shit to the face, maybe with some flowers and aaking her to …	/r/seduction	16/03/19 12:55 PM
1	I have a couple of matches on tinder/happn that I could/want to ask out on a date, but I have exams until the 1st of april So what you're saying is youre horny amd want to ignore your studies. Ma bro dont look for excuses. You either have the time or you don't. And no, not fuck-time, i mean courting-time. You could certainly bang, but you better account for some courtship if keeping her is your game during this obviously busy time. Just think of it like this: women aren't going to drop their underwear if you're an indecisive, lazy and reckless horn dog. BE a man, not act like one while hiding your situation	/r/seduction	16/03/19 12:42 PM
1	Failed study session If you were getting the right vibes you could have easily just said out of nowhere "do you want to make out?". It's hot confidence and all you can do is apologize later if not. You worried too much about what step to take rather than just keeping the mood smooth and busting right through	/r/seduction	16/03/19 12:38 PM
1	Was this a date? Look, you did great. She's obviously keeping it platonic but honestly that doesn't mean shit. She's open to you and that's what matters. Ignore the sweats. Keep up the things that force you up to her level (paying for yourself like you did). Ignore the "catching up with old students" thing. They're all said more for her ears to hear and not yours. She said to meet up again. Raise her a bamboozle and invite her out for another casual lunch before the actual final hangout. I'm saying this in the a…	/r/seduction	16/03/19 12:24 PM
7	Do girls care about race? The simple answer is that yes, they do. Everyone has preferences dude, why does you being Indian suddenly makes that a problem? You know why? Because you know subconsciously that it defines you. At the moment you haven't grown yourself enough to pull away from being "that Indian guy". Dude, having game means many things. It doesn't even have to mean that you know how to approach women. Game also means giving offs such incredible energy that they come to YOU. maybe you know that you still dress I…	/r/seduction	16/03/19 10:48 AM
1	I am so fed up The absolutely only thing I can assume (as we all can only do. you're trying to describe things out for us but obviously something was wrong) is that people were picking up in your energy. Even if we take your word for it that you were smoothly pulling off all that you learned from here, maybe it's the downtime in between those moments where girls were watching you and then thought "oh nope he's been forcing himself time to bail" . Like let's say you wrapped up an interaction and then went to th…	/r/seduction	16/03/19 10:35 AM
3	You eating at a diner, and you see a girl sitting next to you, eating alone. It's Friday night. She doesn't have a bf. Do you go talk to her? Or hope she gives you signs of interest first? I know I know. I raised a generalized observation to prove a point and you raise your own generalized reply. Let's get into the meat of the question though :( just how much does pulling that situation involve being attractive or merely smooth (which wasn't depicted at all by the person I replied to, assuming that's what she meant instead of confidence)	/r/seduction	16/03/19 01:04 AM
1	How do I overcome a “player” reputation? Then realize you already fucked up. Wtf you doing here myan? xD one thing is to ask out girls LIKE a player, another is actually being one. Just move on already, it's game over. All you can do is consider going 1 at a time. Believe it or not, there IS a difference to being a ladies man and being player. -Edit- I've seen another response and can agree that you can play INTO being a player and try to play it off as harmless fun. Risking for the chance that she's a simple woman is honestly the only…	/r/seduction	16/03/19 12:57 AM
2	Can you get great at game and still have balance in your life? - Here's how I did it and still do I just realized I've effectively been eating my time for 4 years. I'm 24 now and just nailed a new part timejob with nice opportunities and was already going to move forward, but I can see that's not enough. Thanks stranger! Now's the time	/r/seduction	16/03/19 12:52 AM
2	My first direct approach in a long time You handled it great. Confidence pays even when they dont reciprocate. If anything i would have worded it more like "asked you for a date" rather than "taken you out". It's the same Damn thing but so much more different ya know? Who knows man, one thing's foe sure you'll be on her mind. If you meet again i suggest casually saying hi and ask how she's been. After that you'll know if you can truly drop the mission	/r/seduction	16/03/19 12:38 AM
2	Losing all interest when a girl likes me You both bring a good point. To me, if it was you lets say looking for a more romantic and idealistic relationship then you would have just said so in your post. Maybe it's a little bit of everything, ya know? You know your value and perhaps crave a more intimate experience than just playing the game of reality. Mayne what you're experiencing is the position of women. Women are generally sought for the same physical reasons, and you just happen to be in their position. Maybe You're that golden g…	/r/seduction	16/03/19 12:34 AM
1	Is it worth trying to pick up girls if I don’t have my own place? False. The only logical reason it would suck is not having the ability to invite her over for dinner and being able to go all the way, basically uninhibited romance. What is more risky is approaching girls when your don't have, say, a job. I would have asked out a girl employee that went out of her way to assist me at a grocery store if I had a job to pay for, well, ANYTHING lol. (Yes I know that an employee doing their job doesn't mean she likes me, but I would have respectfully risked it if I …	/r/seduction	15/03/19 11:57 PM
3	You eating at a diner, and you see a girl sitting next to you, eating alone. It's Friday night. She doesn't have a bf. Do you go talk to her? Or hope she gives you signs of interest first? I think it's important to point out that you're half right. There are a ton of guys who are serviceable in looks, all they need is the kung fu to make the kill. It's important to know that good looking guys who do creepy shit are hot and confident, but the rest are just...well, creepy. Could you please explain if, in your situation, you did or did not look at the guy's face (who abruptly sat next to you and interrupted your time with your friend, an arguably very douche-y thing to do) and though…	/r/seduction	15/03/19 11:39 PM
1	Dear seddit I've been drinking and have done 1000's of approaches and coach in my down time... here are some harsh truths for you all So I really connect with what your saying. What really interests me though is not me wanting to not be like the poor guys who are starting from 0 and can't even say hi to a girl, what interests me is the real beef in your science. You've seemingly gone through what guys who did their work go through, a sort of enlightening that pretty much just clicks every single interaction into place (body language, conversation, confidence ) that kind of acts as a crowbar for women's shut legs. I want to jum…	/r/seduction	15/03/19 11:27 PM