Vulgar-Disrespect Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
62	I think that we need to define what a high value man is.	DISCUSSION	Vulgar-Disrespect	/r/RedPillWomen	30/06/24 11:05 AM

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8	How to stop being the chaser Usually, the woman becomes the chaser because she is coming from a place of insecurity and desperation. The one time that I was the chaser, the exact same thing happened to me. I had just gotten out of a LTR and I met this extremely attractive man. We really hit it off, and we had a great dynamic going. I was definitely on the upper hand to start. But when we finally went on our date and I realized just how much I wanted this guy, I started feeling insecure and like he was better than me because…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/24 04:53 AM
1	I think that we need to define what a high value man is. I’m really happy for you 😊I’m also very grateful for my bf, who also matches all of these lol and yeah i’d say being authentic comes with strong character.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/24 07:36 PM
1	I think that we need to define what a high value man is. I think that I will agree to disagree that low conscientiousness can be a positive. My perspective is that while stopping and smelling the roses and enjoying the simple moments is important, it shouldn’t be the main focus of your life, but you’re entitled to your opinion. And thank you for the compliment.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/24 05:31 AM
1	I think that we need to define what a high value man is. That’s kind of you to say, thanks. And yeah, I think that there is a certain je ne sais quoi that makes great relationships work. However, if I had been looking for that from the get-go, i would have looked over him. We didn’t have that special sauce on our first date, or even really until a few weeks into the relationship. It’s something that can be developed, whereas i think a lot of women have the expectation that it should be there immediately. Good things sometimes take patience and an open…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/24 05:21 AM
2	I think that we need to define what a high value man is. I’d love to make a dedicated post like that but based on the overall reaction to this post idk if there’s a hunger for that information on this sub. As far as finding him: I widened my lens of prospects and kept in mind that I might not be immediately attracted to someone who was right for me. That was the case with him. I knew I liked him when we met, but I wasn’t struck with an instant electric connection. The chemistry took time to unfold. But once I gave it a little while, it was obvious tha…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/24 01:18 AM
2	I think that we need to define what a high value man is. Personally, I find him very sexually desirable outside of the OP traits. In actuality, I probably desire him a bit too much lol. I’ve been with much more conventionally “attractive” men, but I have never desired them like I do my bf. I do think that the above traits contribute to that desire greatly, but it’s not everything. He’s very tall and broad, has a good head of hair, deep voice, relatively fit, etc. He’s just not someone people are going to spin around to look at. And the “icky” traits i…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/07/24 04:15 PM
1	I think that we need to define what a high value man is. okay, and what are the advantages to low-conscientiousness?	/r/RedPillWomen	02/07/24 03:30 PM
1	I think that we need to define what a high value man is. Firstly, you’re assuming a lot about my personality, and how it influences my preferences. You’re also generalizing the minimal information you have about my bf. Secondly, sure, perhaps not all women will find high conscientiousness attractive. But perhaps we should ask ourselves if that’s a quality preference. Is it in anyone’s best interest to desire men who don’t take their time to do things correctly? Trait conscientiousness is most closely associated with high intelligence and overall succe…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/07/24 03:18 PM
0	I think that we need to define what a high value man is. I didn’t start dating him until we were both 28 years old. The reason he still existed in the dating pool is because he has traits that are subjectively “icky” to a lot of women that I was willing to overlook, such as the fact that he doesn’t make over $70,000 a year, he’s a bit socially inept, he has some weird personality quirks (such as the fact that he will not eat anything aside from the same three bland meals) and he isn’t a particularly romantic or exciting person to hang out with on an e…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/07/24 12:24 PM
1	I think that we need to define what a high value man is. Okay, then I guess my boyfriend doesn’t exist.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/07/24 11:37 AM
15	Advice for how to manage in a situation with a potentially great man who isn’t currently in a place to commit? Yeah the description reminds me of Russell Brand types that get into yoga to pick up women.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/07/24 06:21 PM
47	Advice for how to manage in a situation with a potentially great man who isn’t currently in a place to commit? Men will find a way to commit if they really want to because they do not want to lose someone special. He is playing games with you. He is trying to keep you on the line without giving you what he knows you want. When I first started seeing my man, neither of us was in a place to commit. He was switching careers, he was going through some personal issues, he had just moved across the country and was trying to adjust to new area, I was switching jobs, moving house, dealing with family problems, e…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/07/24 03:16 PM
2	I think that we need to define what a high value man is. thank you!	/r/RedPillWomen	01/07/24 02:36 PM
3	I think that we need to define what a high value man is. I have a man that I am in a LTR with, and we plan to get married in a year or so.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/07/24 01:45 PM
2	I think that we need to define what a high value man is. Again… You’re failing to actually address the main argument. I’m aware that there probably aren’t enough good men to go around, and I’ve said that it would be better to be single than raise a family and share money with someone who doesn’t have strong character. And your only argument has been “well then a lot of women would be single”… Like, okay? And? Why is that bad? A lot of people would be single, sure. But my question has always been: would I want my son to act exactly like this? Because i…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/07/24 01:42 PM
3	I think that we need to define what a high value man is. okay, that’s all fine and well. but you’re not actually answering my primary question: what would be a logical reason to not place importance on any of these traits? and not in the pigeonholed sense of “the only way to be goal oriented is to be the next Elon Musk” or “the only way to be intelligent is if you have an IQ of 135 and scholarship to Harvard.” Like, men should be meeting the base level requirements for these traits, without stretching the definition, and Im not seeing a good argument …	/r/RedPillWomen	01/07/24 01:17 PM
6	I think that we need to define what a high value man is. I’ve said this in other replies: you’re pigeonholing the meaning behind these traits into only the most obvious ways men could embody them. Goal oriented can mean setting up his life for kids, opening his own small practice, completing a project in retirement. Why does it have to mean unbridled ambition? While I know it’s not everyone’s list, I have to wonder why it isn’t. Why would a woman not prioritize things like conscientiousness, intelligence, strong sense of self, reliability, etc. Give m…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/07/24 12:50 PM
3	I think that we need to define what a high value man is. exactly. my bf doesnt make six figures or anything impressive, but he has all of these traits and i wouldn’t trade him for any amount of money.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/07/24 12:39 PM
-3	I think that we need to define what a high value man is. So, to get this right: you think that women should attach themselves, their money, and their future children to unintelligent, emotionally turbulent, unreliable men… Yeah, I think remaining single would be better than that. I’m not going to drink poison just because i’m thirsty.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/07/24 12:29 PM
3	I think that we need to define what a high value man is. Again, content of character isn’t subjective. You can choose to value things like wealth over character (which I wouldn’t suggest) but I’m specifically discussing character. And I’m not saying he has to be a world class comedian or the next CEO of his company to qualify as goal oriented or quick witted. That is why I listed someone like Lex Fridman as quick witted. He’s not exactly known for being overly funny. And in another comment I said that being goal oriented can look like preparing his li…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/07/24 12:25 PM
1	I think that we need to define what a high value man is. I don’t account for the fact that there are “good men” who do not meet every criteria on this list, because being “good” isn’t the same as being “high value”. There are probably points that I missed, but I don’t think anything on this list is negotiable, because the absence of anything on this list leads to considerable negative consequences. I think that people can have good intentions while not being high value. I’ll be friends with those men, but I don’t date them. Because why would I want to…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/07/24 09:35 AM
1	I think that we need to define what a high value man is. Sure, there are some areas that are malleable. But I don’t think any of the points on this list should be completely dismissed. Since you specifically pointed out the last few points “goal oriented” “intelligent” and “cool under pressure” i’ll go over why I think those are non-negotiable. Goal oriented does not have to mean that he’s trying to become the next CEO of a tech company. It simply means that when he has a goal, he is passionate about accomplishing that goal. Goals could be things like…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/07/24 09:04 AM
1	I think that we need to define what a high value man is. Sure, there are some areas that are malleable. But I don’t think any of the points on this list should be completely dismissed. Since you specifically pointed out the last few points “goal oriented” “intelligent” and “cool under pressure” i’ll go over why I think those are non-negotiable. Goal oriented does not have to mean that he’s trying to become the next CEO of a tech company. It simply means that when he has a goal, he is passionate about accomplishing that goal. Goals could be things like…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/07/24 09:03 AM