Vulgrim6835 Archive

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1	Another “If the genders were reversed” situation; the comments prove that plenty of women, not just Family Court judges, think husbands and wives should be treated different. Zero sense of hypocrisy in the comments. “How you view it” (translation: what lies too tell yourself). How one views something, doesn’t necessarily align with reality. The reality is you’re here, divorced. Those moments you dwell on were ultimately meaningless. And yes, the human experience can absolutely be just bad without good. I should know. And I told you before. Sometimes life just sucks and there’s nothing you can do about it. Sometimes it’s not some made up hell, it’s just the inescapable reality. Telling myself a bunch of lies…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/23 10:59 PM
1	Another “If the genders were reversed” situation; the comments prove that plenty of women, not just Family Court judges, think husbands and wives should be treated different. Zero sense of hypocrisy in the comments. I don’t just see one side of that equation. I see that one side is utterly meaningless. Let’s take your ex for example. You’re fooling yourself into this equation mentality, only to avoid facing the reality that your marriage was ultimately meaningless. She didn’t love you, she used you and discarded you when you outlived your usefulness. Her vows meant nothing for her and she’s a disloyal wretch. You hold on to those fleeting moments of reprieve to justify the total trash fire your marriage was…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/23 10:13 PM
1	Another “If the genders were reversed” situation; the comments prove that plenty of women, not just Family Court judges, think husbands and wives should be treated different. Zero sense of hypocrisy in the comments. All there is in the world is evil. Don’t be naive. People are never good when it’s not convenient. Or convince themselves that they’re doing good. The people burning witches thought they were good too. The people waging war, in the name of their imaginary wizard in the sky, thought they were good too. The woke people screaming BLM and burning buildings think they are good too. The fetish it’s grooming kids think they are good too. What you’re peddling here is optimistic nonsense and false hopes.…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/23 08:21 PM
1	Another “If the genders were reversed” situation; the comments prove that plenty of women, not just Family Court judges, think husbands and wives should be treated different. Zero sense of hypocrisy in the comments. You have an outdated and religious view of what an “ideal man” is. Being of use to others just for the sake of it, without having those other reciprocate, makes you a sucker. And no, we don’t have any obligation to anyone. In case you haven’t noticed, your ancestors made a society where women can destroy you with a false accusation, on a whim, while you have to go to war for them in the eventuality that such a thing happens. But you do you. You’ll regret it when your delusions of good people (an…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/23 07:30 PM
5	You can't have a successful relationship with someone who doesn't know how to be happy and content with themselves on their own Cynical doesn’t mean mentally ill. Now, kindly piss off. I have low tolerance for simps.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/08/23 05:23 PM
1	You can't have a successful relationship with someone who doesn't know how to be happy and content with themselves on their own Piss off!	/r/Divorce_Men	04/08/23 05:19 PM
0	You can't have a successful relationship with someone who doesn't know how to be happy and content with themselves on their own What you call “dark attitude”, I call it reality. I don’t put my head into the sand pretending like everything is okay, in a world where you’re called rapist and women can grab your crotch while everyone else tells you to not complain about it. Oh and those resources are not for men, by the way. You go to a therapist and it’s going to either be woman who’ll gaslight you into working against yourself or a feminist cuck who’s been indoctrinated by woke colleges. If you don’t want to take a dig at …	/r/Divorce_Men	04/08/23 05:17 PM
4	You can't have a successful relationship with someone who doesn't know how to be happy and content with themselves on their own They’re not good, they’re pretending. I never met a woman that didn’t screw a man over. But that’s okay. You go marry your mythical good woman. You’ll learn the hard way. Like we all did. Second marriages are even more of a disaster, by the way.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/08/23 04:58 PM
9	You can't have a successful relationship with someone who doesn't know how to be happy and content with themselves on their own You don’t build equity with women. It doesn’t matter how much you sacrificed for her in prior years. It doesn’t matter what you did for her and offer her in the past. It’s all about how she feels today. If she’s past the butterflies phase, she gonna divorce you and seek the butterflies again. It’s been shocking to me how many here are still thinking with their dicks. In the middle of divorce and still on the lookout for another parasite. “Enjoying the fairer sex” as one put it. Even hoping for a…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/08/23 04:23 PM
5	Second marriage ending after only 2.5 years. Stop that shit. You don’t have to be a cynical bastard like myself, but for fuck sake, stop being a door mat. Get your head out of romance movies and soap operas. That’s not how real life works. You’re not a better person for being a nice guy. You’re just putting yourself in a position to be taken advantage of. Women don’t even like nice guys. They don’t want what they say they want. There’s tons and tons of examples of those wretches online, saying that nice guys bore them or creep them out or …	/r/Divorce_Men	04/08/23 04:36 AM
1	I do not want to save this marriage, and I married for ONLY the wrong reasons You do you. Just remember that this mentality about the “fairer” sex is what brought you here. “Fairer”, what a joke!	/r/Divorce_Men	03/08/23 08:38 PM
1	I do not want to save this marriage, and I married for ONLY the wrong reasons Call it what you will. How you view life does not change reality. You’re merely fooling yourself. What is optimism, but a sweet lie? Oh! A bit of unsolicited advice: there are no women like that. They’re women. And here are the pitfalls of your precious optimism. You still believe in that lie about good women, because of it. And you’ll gamble your happiness again and you’ll end in the same gutter. But as I said, you’re an adult. You can do whatever you want and handle the consequences afterwards…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/08/23 04:26 PM
1	I do not want to save this marriage, and I married for ONLY the wrong reasons Naive fool. No amount of knowing yourself will ever allow you to know the other person. But by all means. Put the leash around your neck. Just don’t cry when she tries to hang you with it. You’re an adult, supposedly. You can do what you want.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/08/23 03:25 PM
5	I do not want to save this marriage, and I married for ONLY the wrong reasons There’s no marriage for “good reasons”. Marriage is ALWAYS a shit show and it’s always done in ignorance. I can’t blame you, or anyone else for that matter, for not wanting to prolong your misery. Be selfish for once and consider your own wellbeing. You don’t owe anyone anything. You’ve sacrificed more than it was reasonable. Our happiness is long overdue.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/08/23 09:41 AM
1	Another “If the genders were reversed” situation; the comments prove that plenty of women, not just Family Court judges, think husbands and wives should be treated different. Zero sense of hypocrisy in the comments. Look where “making a better world” has brought us. And don’t you think it’s funny how good men serve others, they “do what’s right” and women do what’s right for themselves? And why should we be “good men”? Why should we make a better world? What did women ever do for us? You know besides being parasites, putting us in the ground early. Careful. You’re doing that thing that women do, calling me angry to delegitimise my argument instead of providing counterpoints. If you’d stop thinking with your…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/08/23 10:36 PM
1	Another “If the genders were reversed” situation; the comments prove that plenty of women, not just Family Court judges, think husbands and wives should be treated different. Zero sense of hypocrisy in the comments. And why should we try to make better outcomes for anyone other than ourselves? Women are proudly displaying their selfishness with every divorce. “Stunning and brave” they call it. Why should we give a courtesy that’s never returned? Worse, women constantly work to undermine us. Yeah, feminism really did it’s trick, didn’t it? It showed us what women are really about. There’s a reason why women embraced feminism so successfully. Either they were evil all along or they’re just plain stupid. In bo…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/08/23 07:48 PM
1	Another “If the genders were reversed” situation; the comments prove that plenty of women, not just Family Court judges, think husbands and wives should be treated different. Zero sense of hypocrisy in the comments. Yes, somehow everyone is always disappointed in the men. Never women. Yes, an action will have an equal and opposite reaction. People used to know that, but men are now blamed for pushing back. Men are victims, whether we like to admit it or not. But I’ll take a man with the balls to stand up for himself and his brothers, instead of a cuck who will “take it like a man” and allow himself to be a woman’s doormat out of fear of offending milady’s and her beta males with “misogyny”. Again, men are e…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/08/23 05:15 PM
3	Another “If the genders were reversed” situation; the comments prove that plenty of women, not just Family Court judges, think husbands and wives should be treated different. Zero sense of hypocrisy in the comments. That subreddit is a cesspool of female entitlement and narcissism. May as well be FemaleDatingStrategy 2.0	/r/Divorce_Men	02/08/23 04:09 AM
3	“Someday you’ll realize I was the best thing that ever happened to you!” Can’t imagine why you would put the leash back around your neck after a divorce, but okay. You do you.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/23 11:24 PM
3	No wife happy life If only men would stop thinking with their dicks and stop putting rings on hoes. I love men, but sometimes we’re retarded.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/23 08:04 AM
2	Just had a thought after reading the "wait at least one year until after divorce to date" Let her see you with other women, even if it’s not something serious. She doesn’t need to know that. Flaunt your newfound freedom and your options. Let it drive her crazy, not that she isn’t already crazy. Let her feel the loss that she’s responsible for. You’ll see her crawling back in no time (though if she does, do not spare her a second glance). Could be a satisfying new hobby. Either way, she’s for the streets and you’re under no obligation to exhibit or avoid any behaviours, acquaintances …	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/23 06:11 AM
4	Just had a thought after reading the "wait at least one year until after divorce to date" Wait, why do you care what the disloyal trash thinks? You’re supposed to wait, because you’re not gonna be in the right head space to date immediately after a divorce, not to validate the control freak’s feelings of being desired. They’re abusers. They’ll try to isolate you and exert their control over you. In their twisted and evil minds, she should be your only concern, even after she stabs you in the back. She still thinks you’re “her territory” and doesn’t want another bitch to move in and p…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/23 05:05 AM
3	I (33M) really want to start the process, but I haven’t because I don’t want to face that i’ll only see my daughter half the time. Is it ever worth staying for the kids? Kick the disrespectful broad to the curb. Don’t stay for the kid’s sake. I understand that, as a parent, your kid’s wellbeing takes priority over yours, but your wellbeing is still important and will affect hers as well. You don’t want to raise a kid in a house with so much tension and conflict. It will traumatise your daughter. Just look what it’s done to you and you’re an adult. You want your daughter to be constantly anxious and depressed and start abusing those substances as well? Just think…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/23 04:39 AM
6	38m and 41f wife wants to be married 50% of the time. Need advice I’m guessing they’re sick of taking care of their 41 year old little princess and dear old dad wants to throw this guy under the buss. Dump her in his yard as it were.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/07/23 04:52 PM
6	38m and 41f wife wants to be married 50% of the time. Need advice She’s already an infertile hag that cannot provide kids. He shouldn’t have even looked at her. A normal woman of that age would already be married with kids. Single at that age is a massive red flag. It means she was never good enough to be a wife.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/07/23 04:49 PM
3	38m and 41f wife wants to be married 50% of the time. Need advice Oh, hear me out, do NOT fuck the wife, kick her to the streets where she belongs and if he insists on marriage and “true love” and all that crap, he can at least respect himself enough to pick a newer model that can at least give him kids. Although I wouldn’t go for it either way. Marriage is a crap gamble no matter how you go about it or with whom.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/07/23 04:45 PM
3	38m and 41f wife wants to be married 50% of the time. Need advice Good old bait and switch. She doesn’t love you, by the way. She just pretended to love you and to not be materialistic, to get you to marry her. It was a trap. And you fell for it. And whatever you do, DON’T abandon your own plans. That idiot father of hers wants you to be a workhorse to spoil his little princess. He doesn’t care about you. And you already made it clear you MIL hates you. Kick the bitch to the curb. There’s nothing there for you. You don’t need a bunch of pretend-rich snobs tell…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/07/23 04:38 PM
3	Was it a waste? What is this feeling? I believe they call that “the pick me dance”. And it never works. But most men discover that the hard way, because nobody teaches us these things. And yes, bond with your kids, cherish them. They’re hard to handle sometimes, but they truly are a gift. Some of us never get such blessings. But your future with yours is a bright one. You still have a family. Only a better one without the disloyal woman.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/07/23 03:42 PM
2	Was it a waste? What is this feeling? As in poison for the earth.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/07/23 03:10 PM
2	Was it a waste? What is this feeling? That’s your mind trying to make sense of things, in an attempt to make you feel better and less unsure. But that’s literally pointless now. No amount of rationalisation will change what has been said and done. You’re past the point where this information matters. Try your best to focus on other things. Maybe hit the gym. Or pick up a hobby that seems interesting or that you gave up in the past. Or maybe try crafting something for your kid(s).	/r/Divorce_Men	29/07/23 02:33 PM
3	Was it a waste? What is this feeling? Sigh… yes, it is all a waste. Except the kids. If you can keep the kids, they’ll be your guiding light. And yes, it’s normal for you to feel like this. She checked out, more than likely cheated (go get some STD test done). She had time to adjust. You had it dropped on your head. And let’s face it, as much as people hate to admit it, women are like our children (in some aspects). She’s been not so dissimilar from you children. She was your ward. You took care of her, invested in her happiness. An…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/07/23 02:11 PM
7	Was it a waste? What is this feeling? For the birds? More like she’s for the streets.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/07/23 02:05 PM
9	Was it a waste? What is this feeling? It’s not “affair fog”, it’s the honeymoon phase. She still has the butterflies. She’s excited for the new prospects. And interesting new relationship with a different man that will take her out of her mundane boredom.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/07/23 02:03 PM
6	Why did I ignore all the red flags? Sex. I’m not really sure that’s a positive. At least the mantis will put you out of your misery quick.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/07/23 05:28 PM
3	What are the loopholes used by the rich? Bribe the judge? Heh! Look at me having the mentality of the corruption present in my country.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/07/23 05:31 AM
4	Tell Me To Let Go Already No, you don’t deserve it. You deserve a lot better.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/07/23 02:48 AM
3	Tell Me To Let Go Already From the first two sentences, I can tell you two things: 1. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Even if she doesn’t repeat it, every time she’ll be stuck in a traffic jam or at work, the market, you’ll be wondering if she’s cheating. You’ll never get the images out of your head. Trust is like a mirror. You can stick the pieces together all you want, the cracks will always be there. You don’t take a cheater back. I know you think you’re giving her a second chance to rectify her “mistake” (it’s not …	/r/Divorce_Men	28/07/23 02:44 AM
1	Considering divorcing my wife any advice Of course not. She likes it this way. And she doesn’t want the therapist to call her out for being a lazy cunt. And she sure as hell doesn’t want the therapist waking you up to the fact that no, you’re not at fault and you deserve at least basic human decency. She gaslit you into thinking you’re the problem and she doesn’t want the therapist to enlighten you on this matter. She also doesn’t want you to recover your self esteem, otherwise you may not be so easy to manipulate and abuse.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 09:48 PM
2	Considering divorcing my wife any advice She sounds like a dreadful wife, which in turn makes her a bad mother, because she can’t keep that venomous tongue in her mouth, even for the sake of her (and your) daughter. Oh and she’s a lazy slob that wanted her day in the white dress, but doesn’t want to be a wife. Oh and please, for the love of all that is holy, please stop apologising and saying that “you’re not without fault”. No, IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT. Sure nobody’s perfect, but they way things are, that abusive cow should be kissing your…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 09:41 PM
1	Wife and I are splitting, what to do about the home? Wait, why does no fault state have any relevance on the house split and why did you say it in your defence? But to answer your question, she should technically not be able to force you out. But if she demands her money for her half and you can’t afford to buy her out, you may have to sell. Still, like usual, the best answer any of us can provide is to ask a professional, in this case I imagine that would be an attorney.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 06:22 PM
2	Simple Pleasures Now I’ll be honest, I never understood the appeal of watching some guys chase a ball. No judgement here, I just don’t get it. I suppose it’s not really that different than watching someone play chess, or cards, or bloody Pokémon for that matter. Maybe I just can’t relate because I wasn’t a sporty kid when I was little. Anyway, I’m glad you are finding enjoyment in your new life. Soon, you’ll be part of the guys here that say they wished they had divorced sooner.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 01:54 PM
2	Need advice - the gift that keeps on giving They always do this. They find another guy, they attempt to monkey branch and as soon as she becomes more of a bother than a quick hookup here and there, he kicks her to the curb. These idiots never realise that these influential men are just using them as cum dumpsters. They think they’ll get some whirlwind romance with these top dogs, like in their shitty soap operas. Anyway, sorry for not being able to help with anything.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 01:43 PM
4	Considering initiating You have video evidence of her being violent and abusive. Furthermore your kids (which I assume are still minors) found dick picks in her phone. As biased as courts are, they tend to prioritise the kids over the skank. I’d say you have a solid case for getter full custody. She’s royally screwing herself. But talk to a lawyer first and foremost.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 01:16 PM
1	Considering initiating Uhm… we’re you never told the story about the bees and the flowers?	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 01:13 PM
2	Considering initiating You grow a pair, you divorce the bitch and use the evidence you have to save your kids from her. And know that people here are on your side and will talk to you whenever you need, whenever you feel like the fear and anger are about to break you. Be strong, brother. You’ve already been through so much already. Don’t let that parasite break you completely!	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 01:10 PM
1	Confused after EPO by wife in Texas I can’t say for certain, as I’m not American and even if I was, I’m not an attorney. But it’s not outside the realm of possibility for the court to prioritise the wellbeing of the kid and the parasite and force you to give her the house, as she’ll most likely get custody. Especially with the protective order on your record. This is why I’m telling you to talk to a lawyer. Law carries drastically even from state to state, let alone from one continent to another. Nobody can advise you as well as a…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 12:52 PM
1	Retirment and Divorce Need advice for my father in law. I have yet to hear a story where the woman was not the problem. As for his situation, talk to an attorney. Given that she was his parasite through “holy matrimony”, I doubt he can do anything about it, but an attorney would be better equipped to give you advice on the matter.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 09:23 AM
10	She's not the woman you married There’s no such thing as hate speech. There’s only speech and speech that offends people who are retarded.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 09:18 AM
11	She's not the woman you married Sure it is. Let’s talk at your next divorce. Maybe by then, you’ll stop thinking with your dick.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 09:17 AM
5	She's not the woman you married Don’t forget that she’s paradoxically also an “empowered strong and independent woman” at the same time as an uncontested victim. Somehow.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 07:20 AM
1	Confused after EPO by wife in Texas Bad. The divorce split looks very bad. I suspect she intentionally pushed your buttons to get you in trouble and take the kid and the house. She checked out and wanted the divorce, but she wanted to decimate you in it, unchallenged. It sounds like she grew resentful of you, for whatever fucked up reason she cooked in her head, to justify being a vile cunt. It doesn’t even matter that there’s no proof of anything, the fact you’ve been taken from your home (for her abuse, ironically) gives her a m…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 06:30 AM
11	She's not the woman you married That’s not really a solution, given that you’ll most likely not know “who the person really is”, until it’s too late. There’s a reason why the shitty behaviour comes out after the kids and sometimes it’s not all at once either, but so gradual, to the point where you don’t even notice it until the difference becomes so jarring and her behaviour so bad that she makes you think of the good old times, when she supposedly wasn’t like that. If it were that easy, they wouldn’t need to use deceit to the…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 06:04 AM
6	She's not the woman you married And in typical female fashion, the “alphas” they pick are total losers. Real “alphas”, if you wanna call them that, don’t breed hoes.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 04:55 AM
7	She's not the woman you married Honestly, I think that’s every marriage ever. I’ve personally never seen a married man that is happy past the 5 year mark. Married men don’t die smiling. You can always see the struggle on their beautiful, stern, faces. And to give an example as to why women don’t love men, my own grandmother told my mother that she didn’t care if my grandfather went whoring, as long as he didn’t bother her with sex and brought her the bacon. ALL the bacon. She was willing to allow him to fuck other women, but s…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 04:48 AM
5	She's not the woman you married Thanks. I wish I was a poet talking about how great “true love” is and how it makes everything in life seem like sugar, spice and everything nice, but that would do a disservice to my fellow men that are willing to open their eyes, because it would be a lie.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 04:38 AM
7	She's not the woman you married Oh that is true. They are emotional. What they feel takes priority, even over their own kids. They are more sensitive, as in more perceptive, to the world of feelings and emotions. That’s why they socialise better and are masters of manipulation. They do want commitment, but only from you for her validation. Once she has your commitment, you become boring and give her certainty and security. She wants the drama, the butterflies, the “whirlwind romance” she sees in her crappy soap operas. So she’…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 04:33 AM
9	She's not the woman you married She was never the woman who you thought she was. She just stopped pretending because she had no more use for you. Do your best to stop thinking about the disloyal trash and don’t blame yourself. I know your mind seeks to understand and rationalise these things, but it’s literally pointless now. What’s done is done and can’t be undone. Chin up, brother! It will get better. Just don’t allow another viper to trap you.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 04:22 AM
12	She's not the woman you married It’s the typical “I deserve” and “I shouldn’t face consequences” mentality that women and fatherless soy boys have nowadays. Also she didn’t change. She just allowed her mask to fall off because she had all she needed from you and no longer required you to believe she’s a good person.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 04:18 AM
15	She's not the woman you married Well don’t feel too bad. They’re not even in love with the idea of having a husband. In fact, I’m convinced most of them settle for the “boring marriage material” guys, since the bad boys won’t commit, and hate their husbands. They just want their special day in a white dress where they’re the centre of attention.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 04:09 AM
8	She's not the woman you married They’re all terrible mothers, by virtue of her pussy and feelings having priority over her kid(s) growing up with a father.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 04:05 AM
43	She's not the woman you married It seems Einstein didn’t understand that people don’t change. Or they do exceptionally rarely, but never when things go their way. People wear masks. And nobody excels at this, they way women do. They learn it at a very young age. Personally, I think there is more validity to the saying “you can either love women or understand them, but never both”. Notice how a lot of divorced men act like they had some sort of enlightenment, and that’s because they did. They went into marriage with an outdated…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 04:02 AM
21	She's not the woman you married You’re halfway there. Now you must realise that she was never the person she presented herself as, to you. We all wear various proverbial masks, of course, but women take it to another level of deceit, when they want you to put a ring on them. It’s quite cruel, if you think about it. They present a fake person that twists our logical nature and makes us bond to her, only to sweep the rug out from under the man. It’s no wonder that so many men experience a sense of emptiness and hopelessness so p…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 03:47 AM
5	Is there something in the water? Well believe it bucko. They have no concept of loyalty or honour. Those are male traits. For the hags, it’s all about how they feel. You can give her every piece of your body that isn’t keeping you alive, and if she’s bored, she’ll perform amazing mental gymnastics to justify dropping you and not feeling like a sack of vile shit. No fault divorce, women getting primary custody and alimony (basically anything that caters to women) was all a mistake. They never actually love us, they have no loyal…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/23 10:29 PM
1	I can’t see a way forward Oh! It went over my head.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/23 11:11 AM
2	One year sober anniversary in the same week as beating the wifes objections to 50/50 custody...Keep your eyes on the prize, keep doing the right things, and everything will fall into place. Congratulations! Chin up, believe in yourself and stop marrying these filthy hoes. There’s no such thing as a happy marriage for men. Marry each other if you need the marriage perks and hire prostitutes for your sexual needs.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/23 08:32 AM
0	I can’t see a way forward I hope “tgirls” doesn’t mean trans women. If you’re open to that sort of thing, you’re better off with an actual guy, than a guy in a dress. That said, I’d advise you not to get involved with the alphabet mafia, unless you’re looking specifically for a conservative young guy who’s specifically looking for a classic monogamous relationship himself.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/23 05:40 AM
4	I can’t see a way forward My 22 y/o classmate got together with my 35 y/o teacher. I have a 19 year old classmate who’s chasing (and sexually assaulting) me (M/33) constantly and doesn’t even care about my younger classmates. I myself have been with men older than me. My boyfriend of 11 years is 30 years older than me. You’re not competing with 30-something men, because those men are looking for even younger ass. It’s normal for men to look for younger women. Something in our biology compelled us to look for young (and f…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/23 05:34 AM
4	Gents, what did you do that was definitely "wrong" to cause your marriage to end? I’m wondering how much of it was caused by her. I have a friend who’s married to an abusive cow. He turned to drinking as a coping mechanism. Once the alcoholism set it, he could no longer kick the habit. No, I’m not encouraging you, nor do I intend to defend alcoholism. But responsible adults don’t turn to the bottle for fun. Well I guess some do, but that disqualifies them from being “responsible”.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/23 07:04 AM
7	Ex is already engaged and I find it…hilarious? You should definitely have seen the red flags before you married her. And you shouldn’t have married her so soon. Also she’s been seeing other men behind your back. This one just decided to give her commitment and she dropped you like a sack of rocks. It’s called monkey branching and women do it all the time. Edit: and yes. To answer your question, she’s a clown.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/23 05:22 AM
2	Why do I keep trying? “What you’ve done”, “her happiness”… geee that doesn’t sound like a selfish and entitled piece of shit at all. Her being an unreasonable woman child doesn’t mean you did something wrong. Stop kicking yourself. Accept that this is who she is. You’re only missing who you thought she was. I don’t believe for a second that a woman like this has made you happy for all those years. I bet she gaslighted you into being “happy” with scraps and assume you’re always the bad guy and that you should feel luc…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/23 05:16 AM
6	Fucked up country Yeah, good luck with that. The government will always take the side of the slave breeders and will discard the cannon fodder. Better get used to this. Maybe if men opted out of marriage completely, but there’s too many simps and boys raised and indoctrinated by single moms providing the government with what they need.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/07/23 08:35 PM
5	Need emotional support. I think I may have triggered the beginning of the end. By denying you affection and intimacy for the last 6 years, she has corroded your self esteem. Of course the psychopath is totally fine, since you’ve been providing her with what she needed. First order of business, abandon the fear. You are already in the worst possible situation. What comes after divorce can only be better. Second, kick the bitch to the curb. Stop “consulting” her. Make arrangements and present her with divorce papers, don’t ask her anything, don’t bother alerting her to your …	/r/Divorce_Men	24/07/23 06:11 AM
1	You are on a mission Weakling!	/r/Divorce_Men	24/07/23 05:01 AM
1	Getting a divorce Gather as much evidence of her deceit and abuse and leave her! My god! She’s a monster! Gather as much evidence about her neglecting the baby too or expecting to be paid for it as if it’s not hers. And talk to an attorney. Manipulate the situation if you have to, she’s a MONSTER!	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/23 04:46 PM
1	Married to incompetence I am so so glad I’m gay! I can’t thank you enough for steeling my resolve to never play the straight game ever again! Due to where I live, I can’t live my romantic life openly, though thankfully I don’t have to put up with rainbow flags and other woke shit either. Still I had to pretend I was straight for years and I’ve been exceptionally miserable during that time! My boyfriend had to get married 3 times and they were all demons from hell! I have married friends and not one of them is happy!	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/23 04:34 PM
1	I finally saw my children after 13 months yesterday. Men should really learn to stop breeding crazy hoes. Sadly so many boys end up being raised by single moms or with inadequate fathers that they don’t learn how to be strong and just end up thinking with their dicks.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/23 05:19 AM
2	I woke up like this…. Tell her to talk to your attorney. Let her share your frustration and anger. Believe me, there’s not much that women hate more than being ignored.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/23 05:08 AM
1	Separation Limbo - How to move forward? I’m sure there’s some hobbies or activities you can pursue, now that you don’t need to kiss her ass. She’s disloyal and weak, you don’t need that kind of person.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/23 05:30 AM
5	Separation Limbo - How to move forward? You do not believe a cheater when she tells you that you have communication issues. That was her gaslighting you. Also that’s funny coming from her. We all know the stereotype about women expecting men to read their minds. And she wants to “date”, but “unwilling to close the door on us”, because she’s “confused”. No, she’s not confused, she’s a cake eater. Kick the disloyal trash to the curb. She’s bad for you and for your mental health. She’s adding to your trauma, because she’s a selfish, self…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/23 05:26 AM
-8	Anybody ever regret getting divorced because you never got as good sex again? The EW? What? She’s got cooties or something? 🤣	/r/Divorce_Men	21/07/23 09:13 PM
4	Pussypass galore for female rapists and pedophiles Of course some bitch had to “fact check” the whole thing. How dare men don’t go along with women’s victim narrative	/r/PussyPass	04/03/23 11:18 AM
1	Female researchers in mathematics, psychology and economics are 3–15 times more likely to be elected as member of the US National Academy of Sciences (NAS) or the American Academy of Arts and Sciences than are male counterparts who have similar publication and citation records, a study finds. Well there goes the patriarchy. Pay gap has been debunked countless times. Women were proven to abuse men at the same rate that men abuse women. It’s like every feminist talking point is bullshit. Oh wait, it is.	/r/PussyPass	21/02/23 06:24 AM
4	UK: Female who bit her boyfriend's nose off during 'date night from hell' is Spared Jail Privileges? You can’t even mention male victims of female perpetrators, because they’ll immediately start the NPC story of how women are oppressed and raped and, I kid you not, someone actually told me “there’s a problem with your gender” (but they’re not sexist, we are, of course). It’s like if you mention the other side of the coin, they immediately go into damage control mode. They tell you how they’re more kind and caring than men, but they act as if the truth hurts/oppress women, which real…	/r/MensRights	21/02/23 05:55 AM
50	His wife called him a rapist for getting distant Oh man! Imagine dedicating your life to someone only to be called a rapist because you expect her to behave like a wife that allegedly loves you.	/r/PussyPass	19/02/23 07:13 AM
1	Teenage girl walks free from court after taking part in sexual activity with underage girls I bet she’s the type that says how men are rapists and predators.	/r/PussyPass	18/02/23 01:02 PM
9	Woman kicks out man from the gym because "he was staring at her". Turns out he is legally blind Smart man.	/r/PussyPass	18/02/23 12:52 PM
1	I’m so tired of hearing about how it’s impossible for women to be lonely, how women are always cared about and complimented, how easy it is for us to get attention, etc. Very late reply but: That is fine. But I do not want to continue this subject. As much as I think the red pill has SOME good points, I must confess that I do not think very highly of men either. All a bunch of idiots, thinking with their little heads. Anyway, I do not wish to depress you. I wish you good fortune in finding your prince charming or whoever would make you happy.	/r/ExRedPill	27/10/22 05:09 AM
1	Why women shouldn’t be upset about the red pill and rather see it as a blessing (older man’s perspective). Trauma doesn’t set your brain straight That's not what I meant. Sometimes it takes a shock to make you analyze something in your life without rose tinted glasses. the #killallmen feminists are usually survivors or sxual abuse and traumas I doubt that. Regardless, it's no excuse to behave like filth.	/r/ExRedPill	12/10/22 05:25 AM
0	Why women shouldn’t be upset about the red pill and rather see it as a blessing (older man’s perspective). That and I bet you a lot of these men have trauma in their past. Hate to go all black pill on you, but most men and idiots thinking with their little heads. It's always trauma that wakes you up to the double standards and bullshit. And yes, red pilled guys are the same. I'd go as far as to say that even gay guys think with their little heads when it comes to women, even if they don't want to sleep with them. A lot of the men who have hateful viewpoints of women do because of negative experiences…	/r/ExRedPill	10/10/22 05:07 AM
0	Why women shouldn’t be upset about the red pill and rather see it as a blessing (older man’s perspective). The most consistent advice I get is to marry your best friend. Someone who you would be very good friends with even without the romantic aspect. This is KEY. I can see your point. In fact most red pill content creators I watch get it too. But what do you do when you're supposed to pay premium for her "goods", when she's old and damaged from a promiscuous life, but you know the whole town rode her for free when she was at her best, regardless if she's still good looking or not? How do you avoid b…	/r/ExRedPill	10/10/22 04:56 AM
1	I’m so tired of hearing about how it’s impossible for women to be lonely, how women are always cared about and complimented, how easy it is for us to get attention, etc. I spent middle school and high school sitting by myself in the corner, no one even knew my name. I rarely even opened my mouth at all when I was in school. Typical woman victimization. Let me tell you a little secret. THAT'S NOT HOW YOU MAKE FRIENDS! If you want people to acknowledge you, you have to acknowledge them too. It's a two way street. You can't expect people to be friendly towards you, when you sit in a corner like a scared feral cat or something. I often see women complain that they'r…	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/22 11:59 PM
6	Jordan Peterson explains through tears why he's sympathetic towards incels. This is also one of the reasons why Rule 1 exists in this sub. It was "virgin" before. And in all fairness, they should be canceled for shaming gay men. At least when it's done just for being gay. When it's some degenerate shit, the shaming is warranted. But so far it's mostly women who have a problem with gay men. From my experience, dudes don't really care, as long as you don't cross boundaries or make it weird. Women are downright nasty to anyone they deem undesirable. Fairer sex my arse.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	09/10/22 11:01 PM
9	Jordan Peterson explains through tears why he's sympathetic towards incels. This is also one of the reasons why Rule 1 exists in this sub. I don't blame anyone but myself though, I'm sure I deserved it lol Rule 1: no shaming men. That includes yourself. Don't feel remorse for being raised and taught to be a tool. You had no control over it. That's what society views us as and it's designed to groom us to be tools. That is why, as much as I hate simps and doormats, I try to remind myself that I was one too once and that it's difficult to break that kind of brainwashing, even with evidence smacking you in the face and that it's not t…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	09/10/22 10:46 PM
3	Jordan Peterson explains through tears why he's sympathetic towards incels. This is also one of the reasons why Rule 1 exists in this sub. Shaming should absolutely be a thing. It prevents people from acting stupid. Incels are not incels by their own will, which means "shaming them" is actually abuse and bullying, not really shaming. There's no shame in being an incel.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	09/10/22 10:30 PM
3	Obese princess demands that you be tall and control your sexual urges when addressing her. Yeah, I'm fairly certain everyone is in control of their sexual urges around her. Except maybe their gag reflex.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	09/10/22 10:25 PM