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Attention.
/r/seduction20/10/11 08:37 PM
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I can't help but feel like this is something that will only genuinely be figured out by experience. After you talk to more girls, you'll gradually figure out the correct amount, and type, of attention to give them. So, in another words, you'll probably end up ruining this one. No worries though. It happens. It's part of the learning experience. The good news is that I've been able to go back to past possibilities and try again. To answer your question simply though, I give her enough attention t…
/r/seduction11/10/11 06:44 PM
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This really is so simple, it's mind blowing. You learn so much in PUA about learning how to skirt around the topic because we are so conditioned into thinking that it might not happen. When in reality, sometimes all you have to do is ask "Hey, wanna go back to my place?" or even simpler is "Let's fuck ;) "
/r/seduction04/10/11 02:36 AM
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Do what feels right to you man. Be unapologetic with whatever decision you make. Not everyone should be dancing at parties. Most of all, have fun.
/r/seduction03/10/11 03:09 AM
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Two people showing mutual interest for each other is not the same as one person doing all the chasing.
/r/seduction01/10/11 09:54 PM
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Because people who have led far more successful lives than yourself don't know what they're doing or talking about? Yup. Everything checks out here. Continue on...
/r/seduction01/10/11 08:59 PM
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Umm, if I have to convince a woman to like me, she's probably dumb as rocks. Not a trait I'm looking for in a woman.
/r/seduction01/10/11 01:38 PM
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This falls under "Don't Chase Women" Women will come to you if you're doing it right. Never waste your time chasing after them. It's just not masculine. http://www.cnn.com/video/?/video/bestoftv/2011/09/23/piers-morgan-freeman-women.cnn http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8_yr2LDVObs#t=6m15s
/r/seduction01/10/11 06:37 AM
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"Actually, I only said you were kinda cute"
/r/seduction29/09/11 12:40 PM
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It's not just dressing well. As a matter of fact, it's not about dressing 'well' at all. It's about: Wearing clothes that fit well. Wearing clothes that match your personality. These are the two biggest denominators across all of the guys I know who do well with ladies and those who don't. Not their ability to talk, kino, etc. How well their clothes fit and if they are congruent with their style and personality.
/r/seduction20/09/11 07:27 PM
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True or not, you're seriously over-thinking it.
/r/seduction05/09/11 04:09 AM
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This. There's really no other answer. If yall are watching a movie together, tell her "Get over here and cuddle with me". If she complies, you're pretty much in. Give it a few minutes, look at her for a second, once she catches your eyes, just start kissing her.
/r/seduction03/09/11 10:28 PM
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Everybody's style should be catered to their own personality, and this is definitely very tongue in cheek.
/r/seduction22/08/11 04:34 AM
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I would have already talked about second meeting before you left, but nothing concrete. An alpha male keeps his options open. My text would have looked something like "It was nice to meet you, I had a lot of fun. If you're lucky, you'll see me Thursday"
/r/seduction22/08/11 04:17 AM
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Real [1] Modern Alpha Males are too busy being awesome to have time to text back and forth all day with women. If you ever hear "Is your phone broke? It usually takes me an hour to get a text from you after I send one", you're probably doing things right.
/r/seduction22/08/11 04:15 AM
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A real man would just laugh and go on with his business.
/r/seduction22/08/11 04:12 AM
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But in recent news, boys that are able to live up to, and set the standard for the definition of their gender, succeed and live extremely happy lives.
/r/MensRights22/08/11 03:31 AM
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Sorry, I'm just really picky.
/r/seduction18/08/11 03:18 AM
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"Looks don't matter to me [because I only care about money]" -That girl
/r/seduction18/08/11 03:14 AM
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Well fitting clothes that match your personality. The image you project must be consistent with how you act. Cost of clothes is only relevant to finding whores.
/r/seduction14/08/11 08:37 PM
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David DeAngleos free book is one of the books I found to be the most compelling and informative. "Double your Dating". Google it.
/r/seduction14/08/11 02:16 AM
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Nice clothes are by and far the most important PUA thing to spend money on
/r/seduction13/08/11 11:24 PM
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You want to be reactive in a way that demonstrates dominance and control. Ok, 4 different scenarios here. Ranging from most dominant to least dominant. However! Don't be mistaken, certain people and personality types can not play off each one and be congruent. It'll seem weird and out of character. Congruence is more important than trying to maximize your dominance. (There are more than these 4 ways to handle this situation, but this is just an example at 4 different levels of recourse) Just get…
/r/seduction13/08/11 08:41 PM
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"According to NZ Police, they officially declare that men are the superior gender, fully admitting that we are more rational and are able to stay in control of ourselves better than women while drunk" is all I got out of this.
/r/MensRights12/08/11 02:56 AM
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Aside from the obvious "Yes, that is extremely needy" answer, you need to be assessing your thought patterns. Of all the things you could be saying to this girl, you are thinking the lower value thing. Rather, you need to be in a more assertive, male dominant role. There are a million other things you could say instead. Don't be afraid to tell the girl how she feels. "I know you probably miss me by now. I'll let you by me a drink tonight and we can catch up"
/r/seduction08/08/11 10:29 PM
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Contrary to what this girl has suggested, Do Not 'Watch' Your Kino. That's part of what makes it weird.
/r/seduction22/07/11 11:04 PM
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The next day rolls around and she texts me saying she was sorry and that she was out of town with her family, I was like alright whatever. The next day at work I find out from a friend of hers that she was spotted at the Casino. I confronted her about it and she insists that she was out of town and the person who said they say her was lieing. Dude. Just give up and move on.
/r/seduction16/07/11 04:15 PM
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You don't need anything too crazy, but I feel like the more fun the excuse is, the more fun the rest of the evening. Last night, I used "Want to go sneak into my friend's pool? They're on a cruise, but you have to promise not to tell them" When in reality, my friends don't care.
/r/seduction06/07/11 02:19 AM
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It depends on the personality. Not everyone can get away with it.
/r/seduction16/06/11 02:09 PM
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I like it! It's just about being yourself, so there really is no wrong answer. However, I might steal this. I like the bull winkle thing.
/r/seduction10/06/11 02:35 AM
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Life is about staying detached from a certain outcome, while acknowledging and working towards an outcome that you want. You must learn to be like water and flow around whatever comes your way.
/r/seduction02/06/11 01:23 PM
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Always act like you're good looking.
/r/seduction29/05/11 03:29 PM
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"I'm here to make new friends. What? You can't go anywhere without your friends?"
/r/seduction29/05/11 02:31 PM
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I approve this post.
/r/seduction27/05/11 01:28 PM
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That's why you check out Fittit and do it right.
/r/seduction27/05/11 04:52 AM
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Let's be honest. Losing weight needs to be your top priority. Is it a little unfair that women are subjected to stricter critiques of body image? Sure. However, don't kid yourself and think that guys are subjected to it as well. The good news is that it's nothing you can't work on and change. Not to mention, being healthy and fit just feels better on a personal level. Also, smile, hold eye contact longer, show off the assets, that kinda stuff. Never, NEVER cross your arms. Keep your body 'open' …
/r/seduction27/05/11 04:31 AM
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East Coast Swing dancer here. OP is absolute golden. Listen to him.
/r/seduction08/05/11 11:58 PM
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This guy gets it.
/r/seduction05/05/11 05:19 AM
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Seddit is helping save a marriage. I love this!
/r/seduction05/05/11 02:33 AM
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chumpta just hinted at something very important in dance game. The physical push/pull. There must be a point where you ignore the girl and physically push her away. I normally don't do it right away, and I don't do it because I want to dance with the other girl right beside me. You don't want to look like a man whore. Do it "just because". It will confuse the shit out of her, and that's what you're aiming for.
/r/seduction05/05/11 12:06 AM
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I would even go as far to say that about 99% of women like it when you man handle them. That other 1% just don't want to be man-handled by you. Their loss though. A drink thrown in my face even half the time still wouldn't stop me because the other half of the time, the girl is moaning and grabbing my junk. I can't emphasize it enough. Be. A. Man. Do whatever you want to do to her. Do what comes natural.
/r/seduction05/05/11 12:01 AM
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I couldn't agree more with this post. People who say clubs and dances are a bad place to pick up women probably just don't have tight game. Period. You must be confident, have balls, and NEVER be afraid to escalate physically. Look at it this way, she is grinding on your dick, what more permission do you need to do whatever you want to her? Not to be taken out of context, but grab her tits, smack her ass, run you hand up and down the inside of her leg, go for the kiss. Long story short, Be A Man
/r/seduction04/05/11 11:48 PM
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Look up a supplement called GABA and/or phenibut. They are known to help social anxiety.
/r/seduction03/05/11 10:11 PM
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I don't see how my view is nihilistic, but whatever.
/r/seduction25/04/11 02:45 AM
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Holy crap. I think I'm the OP! High school through my first 2 years of college, I was desperate, needy, and clingy. Then I gradually got in shape, become more confident, and now all my lady friends tell me "I can't believe you don't have a girlfriend!" My response "I don't want one". I've lived all my life forever alone, now I'm going to live forever alone on my terms, and if I have to break a few hearts doing it, I'm ok with that.
/r/seduction25/04/11 02:35 AM
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Sometimes, you fill all her requirements as far as looks go and are just at the right place at the right time. Take your experiences with a grain of salt. If it's a bar you frequent often, she might have seen you in there with friends before.
/r/seduction24/04/11 03:23 PM
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Happy coincidence I suppose.
/r/seduction23/04/11 06:03 AM
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Embrace the introvert side of yourself! I'm not afraid to tell girls that I love being a nerd. Ever since I combined my introvert side with my extrovert side, I couldn't be happier.
/r/seduction23/04/11 02:44 AM
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Number close a girl after informing her of a wardrobe malfunction.
/r/seduction21/04/11 01:01 AM
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You can say or do just about anything you want to with a sly smile ;)
/r/seduction21/04/11 12:57 AM
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I get plenty of compliments on Aqua DiGio, Lacoste Silver, and Dolce and Gabbana Light Blue. I can't emphasize enough how important smelling fresh and good is everywhere you go. Smell is a sense that you just can't ignore. When a girl walks past you that has a nice perfume on, your head turns no matter how unattractive she is. You nose wants to find what it's smelling. Think about it.
/r/seduction21/04/11 12:54 AM
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TRUTH! If a girl is holding something that won't make a mess or break, I'll slap it out of her hands just because I can. Pencil, notebook, whatever. It's about doing it just because you want to cause trouble. If you're bored, create your own excitement!
/r/seduction20/04/11 10:45 PM
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I think the whole not laughing/not smiling thing really depends on your personality and persona you want to portray. Remember, not all girls are the same and they like different things. Yes, not smiling or laughing tends to portray a more traditional Man archetype (think James Bond). This is what a lot of women like. But you should honestly just do what feels right to you. If you're laughing and giggling at everything though, you should probably try to reign it in a bit.
/r/seduction14/04/11 11:11 PM
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I never friend potential girls on facebook until after we've done the nasty or she friend's me first. If she friends me first, I never talk to her. It's all about getting her chasing you. That's the key concept here.
/r/seduction14/04/11 05:18 AM
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This is true. However, if he actually is insecure about it, there is almost no way that telling her won't telegraph these insecurities. It's all about the mindset. I didn't tell the girl I lost my virginity too that I was a virgin beforehand. I told her afterwards. She was none the wiser. Mainly because I was on some medications that made me damn near impotent and I lasted for almost 30 min my first time.
/r/seduction14/04/11 05:05 AM
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But um, yeah, most girls won't be intrigued with you if you're chasing her. It absolutely wreaks of desperation and bores her.
/r/seduction06/04/11 03:34 AM
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Yeah. Girl's like drama. Girl's like to chase. Girl's like the thrill of not knowing whether or not the guy likes them. However, I fancy myself akin to a silver back gorilla though. I just sit back and chill and let the honeys come to me. If you think it doesn't work this way, then you're not doing it right.
/r/seduction06/04/11 01:35 AM
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Definitely would not have done her homework for her...
/r/seduction06/04/11 12:40 AM
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Never chase after a girl.
/r/seduction06/04/11 12:07 AM
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Walk him where girls are. Duh.
/r/seduction17/03/11 10:57 PM
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Call out her reactions to what you're saying. If she seems to be liking you, say "you like me" or if you accidently creep her out, say "you didn't seem to like that". That way you have to be looking at her to come up with stuff to say and it conditions you to keep your focus on her. Give it a shot and see how that works.
/r/seduction16/03/11 03:26 PM
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If you're playing hard to get, you have already decided she is a suitable mate in your mind. If you're making her prove herself, you are still unsure and judging her. Women are able to pick up on this stuff through things like body language, your actions, and what you're talking about.
/r/seduction15/03/11 11:26 PM
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How To Talk to Anyone - Leil Lowndes How to Win Friends and Influence People - Dale Carnegie However, read everything! No, I mean EVERYTHING! On break at work, I will pick up random magazines are read articles to get an idea for basic lingo in the field. Earlier today, I was reading about professional photography. I now know what sepia is and now have an entrance into a conversation if I ever hear anyone talking about it. I know just enough to get my feet wet. Ideally, you want an ocean of knowl…
/r/seduction15/03/11 11:18 PM
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It's all in the smile and your state of mind. Women are able to more precisely pick up the mood of someone's facial reaction, so it's important to keep something positive in mind because it will be reflected through your smile.
/r/seduction15/03/11 11:03 PM
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Something I forget to mention is that playing hard to get just isn't a masculine trait. It's reserved for females. As a male, you should be focused on finding someone who is qualified enough for you.
/r/seduction15/03/11 11:01 PM
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Most people have the reaction to look away. It's normal, and would have to be judged situation to situation. If looking away works for you, do it. Always do what works, and keep trying what doesn't. But I used to think like that and it never worked. Rather, I focus on showing that I'm interested in her with a level and aire of confidence that shows I'm not worried if she's not reciprocative, because if she's not interested, just like jay-z, I'll be on to the next one. It means she's paying atten…
/r/seduction15/03/11 10:45 PM
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I would concentrate more on being a good listner than worrying about where to divert your eyes, but I normally shift my gaze upwards as I'm thinking or stare off into the distance. All pro tips right here.
/r/seduction15/03/11 08:51 PM
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I can't advocate being physically harmed, but I bet a slap in the face won't kill you. What else do you have to lose besides that for just trying to have a conversation?
/r/seduction15/03/11 07:54 PM
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Absolutely!!! Books are great and all and can supply you with basic knowledge, but you'll never learn it all without doing it and failing
/r/seduction15/03/11 04:18 PM
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I would say you have to go even further than that. What I'm suggesting is that not only do you have to keep eye contact, but you have to use it to set the mood of your interaction. However, if you're having trouble even maintaining eye contact, then yes, this would be a great exercise to start off with.
/r/seduction15/03/11 03:13 PM
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This is where it's all a matter of personal style, taste, and flair. It depends on my mood and the girl. Sometimes I might just give a suggestive wink with a "call me" motion. Other times I'll go with something more playful or funny and motion to her that she has something on her face. She'll normally go to wipe it off, then I'll keep motioning to her until she realizes I'm just messing with her.
/r/seduction15/03/11 03:10 PM
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Yes. Read the books "How To Talk to Anyone" by Leil Lowndes and "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. Granted, not everything in these books will make you better at pickup directly, but it will make you leaps and bounds better at networking and socializing. But as you all should know by now, social status is a huge turn-on trigger with high quality females.
/r/seduction15/03/11 03:07 PM
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This is the beauty of being an alpha male. Once you have gained that mindset of utter confidence and non-worry, you realize you can do whatever the fuck you want to do. You can't make everyone happy, so just keep being yourself and carry on with life. Continue not trying to worry about it too much and you'll be fine.
/r/seduction15/03/11 07:44 AM
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The only thing that should matter is whether or not he is happier with his new lifestyle. It doesn't matter if he's an asshole to YOU! That's just your perception of him. A real man doesn't give a fuck what others think about him. It's likely that he is much happier with himself and enjoys life more. That is undoubtedly the correct choice for him if that's the case.
/r/seduction15/03/11 05:15 AM
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On a note related to much more than PUA... I just stopped associating with idiot friends. The friends that continue to want to sit around and play computer games all weekend. Less we not forget about the friends that only want to smoke weed and watch family guy. And the friends that just want to get drunk and party. Friends that are too scared to follow their goals. As I've changed my image and self, I've gained friends that are always 10x more enthusiastic to see me, they love listening to me, …
/r/seduction15/03/11 02:49 AM
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Wealth itself is an indicator of societal value. The kind of things you would hopefully want the girls to notice in you anyways. Showing your wealth shows that you are far more likely to possess these other characteristics. Don't over think it...
/r/seduction13/03/11 04:14 AM
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Make up an innocent excuse to get her back to your place. Even if you both know what's going to go down, you have to help protect her perception of feeling like a slut. It also has to be fluid and genuine though. Example: The Wrong Way Her "I love flowers" You "Want to come check out my music collection?" The Right Way Her "I love animals" You "Me too! I have a hedgehog. You should come see him. He'll like you if you give him a treat"
/r/seduction13/03/11 01:12 AM
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You should be getting her number BECAUSE you already have plans for meeting up. Think ahead. Find common ground right away, then invite her out to do said activity involving common ground, like an art gallery or biking together. I usually throw in something like "If you're going to flake, just let me know now so I can invite someone else". She usually says something like "OH no! I'll be there." In her mind, she's already committed herself to hanging out with you again with 100% certainty. Then..…
/r/seduction01/03/11 12:01 AM
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Just do what feels right man. If she is on the verge of annoying you, just ignore her like any alpha would.
/r/seduction14/02/11 04:26 AM
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You call it "no big deal" I call it "going with the flow" Regardless of what we name it...it's definitely the pathway to success
/r/seduction10/02/11 02:21 AM
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And 99% of men wouldn't date an unattractive female!! Hoorah for gender inequality!
/r/MensRights19/01/11 03:01 AM
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This is really great stuff! I can identify with a few of these points on a strong level, and hope to pick up on the others! Thanks for this informative post!
/r/seduction12/01/11 10:09 PM
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Also keep in mind, it's HOW you say a lot of this, and not so much what you say. Always playful, and never serious. Talk low and slow.
/r/seduction10/01/11 06:32 PM
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You have to be careful to not appear like you're "playing games" though. If you keep doing it, and doing it, and doing it, you appear indecisive in your words and actions. With that in mind, it's simply flirting. If yall are holding hands, comment on how sweaty her palms are and throw her hand away, while wiping your hand off on her. Just small things that are funny and enough to elicit a reaction out of her. Or like commenting that her smile would be a lot cuter without the thing stuck between …
/r/seduction10/01/11 03:55 PM
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There is pure truth in this statement. Girls will find you once you're happy with yourself!
/r/seduction03/01/11 03:46 AM
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I saw this video and I couldn't help but think about how this relates to seduction. We all get tied up in approach anxiety sometimes. We will sit there and think about what we are going to do and over think it. But as the kindergartners have shown us, prototyping our approaches and "Just Doing It" is an important factor of success. (Not to overlook knowledge and wisdom though)
/r/seduction03/01/11 12:08 AM
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Jesus, this couldn't be any more correct. Imagine the difference between whispering "I want to fuck you all night long" in a hot chicks ear like Ned Flanders and James Bond.
/r/seduction02/01/11 11:18 PM
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They definitely tell me some stupid shit sometimes, and other times they give great advice. And you're right, social proofing is the biggest benefit they supply me with.
/r/seduction02/01/11 11:10 PM
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I'm confirming what you said. My friends teach me how to interact socially. But I do not let them give me advice on love and dating. I keep my views and opinions independent from theirs.
/r/seduction02/01/11 09:59 PM
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Pick Up Artist
/r/seduction02/01/11 08:17 PM
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There's a fine line between taking dating advice, and the learning of the finer points of 'The Game', so to speak. And, well, I don't take dating advice from peers.
/r/seduction02/01/11 06:58 PM
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Something that you have to understand is that it's going to be very difficult to pull a pick up during this point in time. People are usually going somewhere because they NEED to be there. Not because they are just leisurely walking around campus. If anything, try to talk to the ones that are walking in the same direction you are. Ok, now that you know your main targets here, you need to know what to say to them, and the answer is...anything. Just talk to them.
/r/seduction05/12/10 05:06 PM
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