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No? Do you people not know how to have a converstation or what lol. Obviously depending how direct you want to be you ask accordingly. Lets say i wanted to be very indirect and ask these things i would probably start with "so have you dated anyone before" or "tell me a story of some awful dating experience youve had" and you can pry out information that way or just let them talk until you can get somewhat of an idea. Just pay attention. If they ever hint for example that theyre not looking to da…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:51 PM
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That is why i said to for example ask first before confessing. Ive said this atleast 4 times now
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:35 PM
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Thats one possibility but its not always about manipulation. Sometimes people just develop feelings but it doesnt work out both ways. For me ive had this exact same thing happen before and i interpret this video as the woman feeling off put by it. In a way that makes you think "oh god not this again" because you wouldve wanted to stay as platonic friends and not have this awkward converstation and an even more awkward rejection. It sucks because as a woman you obviously dont feel good rejecting …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:09 PM
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Keep it to yourself because not every woman wants that or has to cater to your idiotic beliefs from the 1950s. You are hateful. You think women are incubators. You think thats our only job. Thats absolutely disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:58 AM
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You dont hear yourself and it makes me sick
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:50 AM
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Ive heard enough of you and you are just a gross misogynist who uses "biology" which you never studied. So justify and push your agenda. I hope to god you wear a condom so no poor woman ever has to deal with the aftermath of your hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:49 AM
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You didnt pay attention in biology class did you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:46 AM
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🤢🤢 holy fuck you are vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:33 AM
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Your view on the abortion argument is based on emotion not science. Wether a zygote is alive or dead is irrelevant. Its not a baby. Its a cell formation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:30 AM
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Maybe you have a hard time just understanding whats flirting vs being friendly. Even if you are bad at social cues you can still use your mouth and brain and ask them first instead of confessing out of the blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:22 PM
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It still is. Never said otherwise. But like i stated twice already. Its not a good idea to confess unless you know the feelings are mutual or the other person is atleast open to trying. Pay attention and learn social cues. Ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:18 PM
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Thats why befriending women is important. Learn social cues. I understand if you are autistic or havent had many female friends it can be hard to read cues. But you can always learn. Or simply ASK before confessing. Its not that hard to figure out "do you like anyone" "do you like me" instead of dropping the bomb on them. Pay attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:46 PM
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I think the best relationship you can have is one where your partner is not just a lover but also your friend. But my point here is that you need to take in account who and when to approach. If the feeling is not mutual and you know it or are unsure. Theres no benefit to bringing it up. Itll make things unavoidably awkward after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:43 PM
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So me not wanting someone else to have my offspring is horrible? Yeah okay weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:40 PM
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Why do you all act like we already dont have like 8 billion people now. Let alone how many kids are in the most horrific fostercare systems. We do not need more kids with no families. Let alone why should anyone be okay with their DNA infused fetus growing up when they didnt want them in the first place. Thats just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:36 PM
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This is the real reason today lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:30 PM
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Thats not an ick thats just women not wanting their best friends try to pursue them romantically. It should not be that hard to read the room and determine if the feelings are mutual or not before confessing. This is a million times before heard topic. Sometimes women just want to have friends. That are male. Instead of it having to become something other than a platonic friendship. To answer the question. Im an introvert so honestly i would rather hear this over text probably. Because it gives …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:29 PM
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I really dont care to because i went through your profile history and you are the human equivalent of misery. Its not my job to educate you. How about you disprove the existance of patriarchy? It seems like youre a very hateful person that thinks the world and everything revolves around them and your PERSONAL issues. And dont bother replying because ive heard men like you a million times before. "Haha cant prove me bla bla huhuhu" no i just think its a waste of time talking to you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 12:23 PM
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Triggered?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:51 AM
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We know men dont care, thanks for proving it again and again lmao. I dont care about your opinion, facts over feelings babe. Also who are you to talk about patriarchy when you have no idea what it means? And also fuck your medical issues too. What do you expect me to feel bad in return when you say you dont care lol? Atleast you get treatment and i do not. Because youre a male and im a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:48 AM
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What are you even trying to say? And how is this related to my comment? "Females" 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:46 AM
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They gain the ability to form healthy relationships with people. Have you ever taken in account how fucked up people are when they werent in any contact with the opposite gender in childhood or adulthood? Those people are borderline ill and socially inept.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:07 PM
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In my country the child automatically inherits the mothers last name. So this is probably just some legal thing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:04 PM
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Most women are driven to sex work as a last resort like becoming homeless yes. I dont think you can exactly compare someone that sells feet pictures online to someone who is an escort though. Even those that do onlyfans do it as a side gig. Because they need a source of income. Many college student women try to do that to pay off loans etc. If you dont know how the industry also grooms people in it then i think this should be a wake up call for you to actually do some reading and talk to people.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:12 AM
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Thats because redpillers look at what a high value man is from the malegaze. And women look at it from a femalegaze. They rarely match.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:45 PM
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What in the retardation is this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:01 PM
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Really? Are you a sex worker? Have you talked to a sex worker? I know sex workers who worked as strippers. They still had to go to work and contenue even after their collegues died after leaving with a client. Its absolutely not blown out of proportions. Women die in the industry all the time. They are abused. Physically beaten by clients. Threathened.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:23 PM
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What a strawman lol. Doesnt everyone? Hey you know you could get cancer and die literally rn but you didnt hahaha. I know youre trying to be funny but its really lame. Let me let you in on a little secret okay? They dont make huge profit. You can make huge profit from exploiting others that dont put your life at risk. At all. Those hustle videos you see from strippers and onlyfans success stories are not the real full story. Any real sex worker will tell you that. Have you ever actually talked t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:19 PM
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I mean its a classic case of this subs demographic of ill informed men not understanding what its like being a woman lol. Sex work could legitmately cost your life in return along with any future career. Edit: i love when redpill incels downvote me because theyre big mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:36 PM
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I dont ever remember being very attracted to anyone with the first glance. I definitely need more exposure because I dissect details and analyze people. On top of judging their character and personality. But if i ever do see someone that i start to think is attractive my mind usually goes "Damn. Hes kinda okay" to "DAMN. I need to get a closer look"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:19 PM
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I dont smile at anyone for no reason. Its not normal in my country. I tend to observe my surroundings very carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:15 PM
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How would life be different for me? Honestly thinking about it, it would probably be slightly better. When i think about the way i grew up and especially in my teens. But i cant ever know that for sure. Advantages: i probably wouldve succeeded in some "life goals" better than i have now just because the fields were heavily male dominated and it limited my possibilies. Disadvantages: i would probably be single considering my personality isnt considered that desireable atleast not to the demograph…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:13 PM
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Damn you really didnt hold back on that one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:08 PM
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Idk do you think its a worse issue for example to get raped and killed on a date than having to pay for dinner and not get sex? It isnt a competition. And not every issue should be compared. But its objectively a retarded opinion to have to say that men have it worse than women do. Globally. Women face more issues than men do. That doesnt still mean that patriarchy doesnt also hurt men. But it means that the system will be inherently more biased against women. I never deny the issues men face. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:08 PM
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Because objectively its not. I have many male friends and also grew up around them. How would you know what its like being a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:50 PM
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Yes. Im not trans but i would rather be born as a man because i wouldnt have to and had to deal with a lot of the bullshit that comes with being a woman. And before you start "well what about the bad stuff being a man?!" Shush. Its not worse. And i dont live in a third world country where the expectations for men are still upheld.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:14 AM
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That is liberal feminism. Just because you see a retarded take online on a topic from a person who claims to be 1 thing doesnt make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:03 PM
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If you want genuine feminism its best to get off of chronically online sites like twitter and pick up a book instead. As someone who is an intersectional feminist or egaletarian. Whatever you want to call it. There is nothing more hatred inducing than seeing horrible choice "feminist, libfems or TERF takes. Seriously. It taints the image and makes conservatives and incel types bunch all of us together which isnt true. If you want actual leftist literature there are free online libraries. I sugge…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:01 PM
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Good
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:44 PM
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Its up to you to take advice or not. Not everyone is good at reading peoples intentions. No reason to get mad over it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:43 PM
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Anyone can learn to read basic social language. Maybe you should give it a try
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:41 PM
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We can tell when youre not actually interested in getting to know us and going off from there but rather getting close to us for your own benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:20 PM
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Ive said it and ill say it again. We can tell when your only intention is to just sleep with women or get a gf for the sake of a gf. Stop going for literally everyone. If you arent interested genuinely in ME as a person then you cannot expect me to be genuinely interested in you either. Find a common ground first. It feels bad and makes people feel unimportant. A relationship is not supposed to just be for your own gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:19 PM
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You are certainly entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:13 PM
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Reading what? 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:07 PM
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You don't seem to know a lot of things then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:04 PM
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Purge week is over, crawl back to your incel cave
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:02 PM
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I feel sorry for people who cant admit theyre wrong and keep spreading misinformation to cope with the fact
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:08 AM
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That article is actual dogshit. 444 girls which out of 80 live without a father is not a correlation. This study is unreliable. They ended the study by making a conclusion which wasnt put to the test. Which was never proven. This study did not take family history in account. Aka genetics. You just love spreading misinformation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:10 PM
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Wtf 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:00 PM
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"Dishonest" bro youre spouting misinformation after another. Someone else also pointed out your fallacy and you still keep defending a useless point. Sometimes its ok to admit youre in the wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:50 PM
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There is no such a thing as an "alpha chad"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 11:34 AM
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Yes. This is quite literally an observed, well proven fact. If you disagree with this then youre just an idiot. I dont know what about this subject is related to blue/red/purple pill discussions though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 11:32 AM
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This comment is so dumb. Are you a woman? Or in medical school? It was purely because of malnutrition. When women are malnutritioned in general the first thing our bodies start to compromise on is our period. We stop getting our period because during hard or even stressful times the survival for offspring isnt as optimal. And having a period takes a lot of resources. Also what chemicals?💀 you cant just say the word chemicals. microplastics linked to hormonal issued have been linked to infertilit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 11:28 AM
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How am i hateful? I think theres something seriously off about you, you sound insane lol. I dont think you understand my worldview at all and like to make assumptions so theres no point in contenueing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 06:52 PM
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Any community. Who mentioned BDSM? Such a random offtopic thing to even bring up. Respect is absolutely mutual. And its absolutely not my job to pretend to fit into a norm or a stereotype if i dont want to. I have absolutely 0 obligation to do so. Otherwise youre just a bootlicker willing to suck off anyone and everyone for a piece of approval. Sorry but no. Being unaccepting of intolerance is not intolerant. Thats not how that works. At all. If youre tolerant of the intolerant then you are cond…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:26 PM
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Classic bootlicker strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:12 AM
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Tell me. If you are in a community that isnt respectful of you and dont allow yourself to express yourself differently. Why the hell should that person show respect to that community? Respect is mutual. If you cant treat me decently then i have no reason to do the same. There are other communities that WILL accept those people. I think it says a lot about a persons tolerance. And if youre intolerant. Youll show it pretty quickly. And ill know not to associate with you. Because i know i have noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:28 AM
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It can be. But hows that any of my or your business? Everyone can choose to play into a stereotype and appeal to it if they want to. I just dont care. I dont care if i think another person is feminine or masculine. Thats not what i look for in a person when meeting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 08:01 AM
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You had success =/= everyone does. Im not an incel. These are just blatant facts. Youre probably in your 40s. So youre not really the one to talk about gen z problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:42 PM
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Are you a man or a woman? Theres no answer to this because one thing doesnt apply to everyone. Blonde hair might look good on someone but not you. We dont know how you could maximize your appearence. But overall just making healthy life choices can go a long way. Like getting enough sleep. Staying active. Wearing sunscreen. Taking care of your skin and hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:38 PM
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If youre going to date someone you have to tell them at some point. You cant truly be with someone if youre not willing to share parts like this about yourself because it might be significant later on. And you shouldnt stay with someone who wont accept you for something that isnt wrong or bad. Personally i dont care. Be honest to me. Thats all i care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:29 PM
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Honestly im so over/beyond this i dont know anymore. To me its just all stereotypes and how others & society see you. To me it doesnt mean anything anymore. Its a social construct that isnt based on psychology really. The stereotypes are inherently either stupid or just not absolute making the trait invalid. Such as "well feminine women have long hair" ok. You can still be a masculine man and have long hair. I think to me personally this whole thing is outdated as hell and i dont care for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:26 PM
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Because youre scrolling through like the sweaty asscrack of reddit rn. There are lots of other great subs to discuss stuff like this on depending what your view is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:26 PM
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Any other analysis than this is simply wrong. This ties all the way to late stage capitalism etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:15 PM
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So in conclusion it isnt working. It was never meant to work equally. You cant improve the system by blaming others. If you want the same equal chances then you must do something about the thing thats preventing that from happening. Read my edit. Youre not the first person to discover the system sucks and favors the rich and privileged okay? We all know. The ones up on the scale just dont want to lose their status. This ties to everything from millionares to people who want to uphold patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:09 PM
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Damn lol. Imagine being this close to discovering whats actually the cause of these issues and STILL missing it. You shouldnt be aiming your anger towards women. Or men. This is going to sound like a classic. For a reason. You should be only mad against the system. Dont hate the player hate the game kind of thing. We all do what we can to survive and thrive in a system were under. Im sure someone with a sociology degree would have much to say about this much better than i can put it in words. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:03 PM
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Hurt the person???? Who??? I said "some of you" Incel is not a slur. You cannot seriously be this stuck up. Most incels recognize themself as one and openly use the word for themself. You could use the same argument for the men on here who use the word feminist "as an insut" which it isnt despite using it in a derogatory way . You basically ignored everything i said and got butthurt over a word, then make personal assumptions about me and my life. I dgaf if you dont believe me ive helped people …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:04 PM
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The word "incel" is hatespeech now? Bro its a word with a definition. Not a slur. I am speaking 100% from experience. Its very easy to tell when a man grew up with male and female friends vs not. Men who did have been introduced to the female perspective of life and understand us better. They function better in social situations. Do you really want to set your kid up for failure by raising them to be socially incompatible with women? You shouldnt. Ive also talked to hundreds of incels about thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:51 PM
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How am i mean? Youre the one trying to make a shitass "comeback" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:42 PM
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Ive had plenty
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:37 PM
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Dont take everything you read seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:16 PM
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Centrists are just a form of enablers who cant form an opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:25 PM
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The assumptions you make are retarded. Why even bother commenting shit like this when you dont actually know anything about me, my values or social life? Shitass counter argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:01 AM
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Tech positions such as? I live in a first world country and there are more men working in tech than women in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:14 AM
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I dont really care about any other responses i get on these comments other than what OP has to say. Sorry. But ill try to shortly answer. Yes you understood right. But NOTE this isnt what I think This is how patriarchy works. And i said this because i wanted to call out the slip in OPs title. So again. I said this because that would make OP himself prove with his own argument/title that patriarchy does indeed exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:12 AM
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Not if you know how to read. You didnt make an argument. Care about their mental health according to WHO? this is what i mean when i say you actually have no idea what its like to live and grow up as a woman. I have so many examples of literal medical health professionals not take womens mental health concerns seriously. Giving wrong or refusing to perscribe proper medications. Playing off symptoms as PMS related. Some industries? You said one. Tech. And why is that? Because companies want to hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:09 AM
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So its not valid and its silly to make your life revolve around such a "toolbox" From what i know of the red pill it does more harm and misinformation than actually improve anyones life. I of course cannot deny everything about the red or blue pill ideology. Because sometimes they have hints of truth tied to them. Especially in specific situations. In the end its up to you as a person to get sucked in this garbage and choose to live a miserable, bitter lifestyle. Or leave it be and look for bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:55 PM
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So in conclusion you cant make a proper argument. Did i ever say these things arent important? Of course they are lol. Dont be naive. But that wasnt what your post was about now was it? You dont really care. You just want have a reason to hate women. Women also repeat some important arguments to men all the time. They just fall on deaf ears time after time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:50 PM
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I want you to give me a proper explenation and not some half assed response. And i already know what argument youre going to make so i want you to put it more effort than "child custody" and "dating apps" the draft, or even suicide rates because all of those can easily be argued against. And ive heard them all a million times before from the same playing the victim complex We all know in the west womens rights have improved. And that has been the goal for many people. Its a sign of a civilized s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:35 PM
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Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:21 PM
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Responding to title. Yes, you just described how patriarchy works. How do you not notice this? If women are below men and surpressed by men. They would blame men. And men would blame other higher position men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:17 PM
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No academical research = no valid scientific theory or conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:10 PM
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Yes because why would any feminist want to get into a relationship with a misogynist? The reason im implying is because many of you are actually insufferable to be around and genuinely dont know how to interact with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:08 PM
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Go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:06 PM
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Im not forgetting anything. Youre making an awful a lot of assumptions based off 1 single half jokingly written comment. "The same way you do" when did i mock this guy? I dont have an issue with a random overweight man going to the philiphines for casual sex. Why the hell would i care? In my country many men go to thailand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:05 PM
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You know exactly what i mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:45 PM
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I think we both know enough about your dating life that youre really not the one to talk here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:44 PM
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Realistically youre not going to pull one for life because of the social culture and your refusal to integrate with their culture too. They dont give a fuck about you, they want a better quality of life. Theyll get the greencard and opt themself out. But hey, nice fantasy. Try again
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:40 PM
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Theyre gonna wait for the greencard and dip after. There might be a reason why you cant find women to like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:34 PM
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Having a female friend especially as a kid wouldve done some wonders for most of you incels. We can tell when you have never had a female friend. Its so blatantly obvious and makes you insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:32 PM
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You cant really be blamed for their situation. If you were a respectful customer then i really doubt theres a reason to feel guilt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:15 PM
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I dont think thats how that math would add up. But im dying to see one. Link me if found.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:14 PM
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Every year its always the same reposts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:15 PM
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Go to that in my dms or something this is embarassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:51 PM
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Friendless
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:45 PM
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Based in delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:41 PM
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I dont use 4chan 💀 God forbid i make one "mean" comment on purge week and i have someones dad come to lecture me on who i am like i wouldnt know. Edit: hey if you REALLY wanna freak out over my profile picture i suggest you look through me skinning a rotting deer skull for house decor. Bro you sound fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:30 PM
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Do i give a fuck? I just think its very funny when a post like this is coming from an actual coomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:04 PM
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Bullshit. Growing up as a woman shows this simply isnt true. I have so many experiences and examples of this i could give.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:56 PM
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You mad, butthole gaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:52 PM
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Hey bro you said you "have no friends because youre ugly and insane" Sorry, its actually because of your opinions like this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:51 PM
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Says the guy who likes to gape their butthole.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:48 PM
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Because hes a 33 yr old coomer who has a porn addiction. I mean this guy likes to gape his asshole just look at his profile
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:46 PM
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Show me one RP or BP who has a masters degree in psychology or biology. I bet you cannot find a single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:43 PM
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I cant say a general thing about it because the cases vary so much. People become clients for many different reasons. If you arent taking advantage of a woman who has turned to sex work because of financial struggle then its not inherently wrong. For your case. I cant say much else than i hope maybe this isnt something thatll affect your dating life in the long term. Sex work inherently isnt wrong. Its wrong when exploitation comes to play. Which it often is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:40 PM
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Which one are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:36 PM
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People dye their armpits so yeah why not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:39 PM
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What catfishing? This girl went through MONTHS of accutane.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:46 PM
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OP is just spouting misinformation out of their ass without context. Theres like a decade old video of this woman getting accutane treatment for months to clear her cystic acne.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:38 PM
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Youre kidding right? This woman has been on youtube for like a decade now. Theres literally a timelapse video of her on accutane aka harsh acne medication. This is how she looks with makeup AFTER the months long treatment. You are naive and retarded if you looked at this image out of context and got mad. She shows her skin texture in the video clearly. Go look before getting upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:04 PM
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How the actor reacted in the story*
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:59 PM
3

Go ahead and find a goat, more blue haired pussy for me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:29 AM
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Its a common reaction for incel men to get mad when a woman doesnt cater to their liking. Their brain cant handle it when a woman suddently isnt sexually appealing to them so they get aggressive. They think everything a woman does about her appearence has to be done to appeal to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:28 AM
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If a man can fuck goat pussy i dont think "fat with blue hair" is an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:23 AM
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If i need to go out of my way to attract someone then that means theyre not that interested in me and its a waste of time. I dont play mindgames with people. Im straightforward.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:22 AM
1

Religion and folktale is real now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:41 AM
1

Some of you being YOU here. You watch movies and bitch about women 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:35 AM
1

Youll do anything to save your sorry ass
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:34 AM
1

"Where do you think they get ideas for movies" is a direct implication Sometimes its ok to admit youre speaking our of your ass and just shut the fuck up lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:25 AM
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Watching a movie and drawing a conclusion based on that does not make you a scientist or a reliable source.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:05 AM
1

And was this one based on real life? Did it state it was? Holy fuck youre really reaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:04 AM
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So youre telling me avatar is also based on real life just like every other film is in your mind? Damn. Must be rough to live as someone with 0 imagination skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:40 AM
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Stop believing everything on the internet and then getting mad because of 1 person and saying all women do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:21 AM
3

Have you actually ever tried to understand why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:15 AM
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Are you seriously comparing a movie to real life 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:13 AM
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I dont have casual sex keep crying 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:03 PM
2

And this affects you how?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:14 PM
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I could make the exact same argument you said and replace the word "women" with "men" Men also dont understand womens issues and dont want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:54 AM
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You have no money and no power
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:42 AM
12

Im pretty sure both of these celebs were actually dealing with severe eating disorders. EDs are hard to heal from and sometimes have permanent damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:41 AM
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Its a win for us. Now no woman will need to have sex out of pity with you 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:39 AM
1

Just go on 4chan already bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:37 AM
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People age?!?? 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:26 AM
2

Ive never had a man pay for our date and i dont have an issue with that. I prefer it that way because i dont want to feel like i "owe" something back to them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:36 PM
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I dont know a single woman who uses this argument logic. Ive only ever seen men do it. And what youre talking about is called confirmation bias. Its very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:45 PM
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Im not 40 so im definitely not choosing 40. I also dont like the "fit" look. I also dont like casual hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:39 PM
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Ever heard of the female gaze vs the male gaze? Also. What book are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:12 PM
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There is 0 correlation here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:50 PM
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Yes. My partners ability to work or "bring in money" doesnt interest me. Weve dated for 4 years. Im a young adult. Were in a situation atm where im a student and i work. He does not. Yet/for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:48 PM
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If seeing my bf for the first time counts then yes. Otherwise no.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:46 PM
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On what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:53 PM
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Is every man /woman compatible with another man/woman? No. Obviously not. If you cant connect with anyone of the opposite sex then i have a creeping feeling it might be about you. You cant assume everything about a person just by their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:40 AM
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You know, you can believe whatever you want but that dont make you right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:16 AM
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You have enough time to keep replying so you have enough time to link them if you say you read them all. What the fuck are you talking about? Lol. Which one of those do i need to "counter"? Maybe ones that were literally from the 80s that are outdated as fuck. I already said like 3 times now this is all stuff ive studiet before. We know this. This isnt some mindblowing new information. Do you know what roid rage means? Your issue is that youre taking this and making your own conclusion to fit yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:07 AM
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If you read them then this shouldnt be an issue for you at all. Except you havent. If you cant give me the full papers then im simply going to come to a conclusion that youre an incompetent liar lol. All these snippets are stuff ive studiet before. You clearly have enough time to keep replying to me so go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:42 AM
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You cant do it because you dont have it because you never read it. Your attempt at covering up a lie is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:30 AM
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Link me the full paper then. Dont be shy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:28 AM
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So you didnt, case closed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:26 AM
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Have you read the full paper? Not just the snippet babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:25 AM
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Whyd you link a study by an univeristy then LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:22 AM
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Taking the bait so hard your blood is boiling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:21 AM
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Get back to me once you have a degree 🤡🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:17 AM
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😂😂 sad miserable man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:15 AM
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Because im in university and not on a sigma male grindset. And i have collegues in masters biology who I ask when I dont know something. Were up to date with the latest info and my university is one of the oldests in the country. I have no reason to read an article taken out of context that i already know of. I know what kind of a person you are. Ive seen it for years and years now. Your life will only get more difficult and miserable by having this bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:04 AM
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This is a blog post of a single snippet. Only reason you refuse to actually study is because youre so far in to your own bias youre scared of knowing the truth and being wrong. Almost all hormones effect the brain. Your hormone levels fluctuate during your period cycle as well as your day cycle for men. As well as during your whole lifetime infact with age. Its so useless to even jab on about this because its a waste of my time. Your issue is you dont actually know biology so you take these thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:56 AM
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Its absolutely not rooted in biology 💀💀 have you ever taken a course in genetics? Hormones? Jesus christ lol. You as a man have estrogen too. This is one of the classic dumbfuck statements i have to stumble across every week because someone would rather get their "research" on a 5 minute alpha podcast than actually go to academical institutions and learn a thing or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:48 AM
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Man i dont know how youre even saying this 😂 i mean the worst case scenario of misogyny caused by this has been cases like alek minassian and elliot rodger i think thats kind of obvious at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:45 AM
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Then you are friends with your wife and my comment probably doesnt apply to you. Notice. Romantic partner + bestfriend. They dont cancel eachother out. You can be both.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:17 PM
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😂 no im still in said relationship thx for the concern though babe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:13 PM
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Yes i know this. You just didnt read what i said correctly. They stay in them for lots of reasons but i really dont agree with you. Why do you insist on removing the factor that friendship can keep people together? Along with those other factors. Thats just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:13 PM
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Didnt say they did. But im saying people still choose to stay because thats not the most important thing that matters to them in the relationship. And of course there are people who divorce. Because to them it does just matter that much and working to fix the issue has been unsuccesful. Usually because the other party doesnt want to. You also cannot expect peoples libido to stay the exactly same for 10 years or something. Mens sexuality goes down with age. Womens enchances. Generally speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:03 PM
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Why not? You dont go outside enough? Thats how my relationships have been. Because im not superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:00 PM
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Bro is flabbergasted he actually has a porn addiction instead of women that dont like him 😱🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:57 PM
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Bro is flabbergasted not everyone sees their wife as a pocket pussy 😱😱
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:54 PM
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Actually. It involves both. Thats the whole point. Its a friend you also are intimate with but not in a relationship. Its important but not completely essential. Maybe for YOU it is. But not for everyone. Many people stay in deadbedroom relationships. Youre never going to find a partner that is 100% sexually compatible with you wether that be kinks or libido. If youre an adult. I assume youd have communication skills to figure it out. Many women have also "duty sex". And it doesnt mean the relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:49 PM
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Friends with benefits would like to have a chat with you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:36 PM
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They see their partner as an accessory rather than a companion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:35 PM
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I cant change your view because this is just the ultimate truth to a happy, long lasting relationship. However i will say not everyone is looking for that when it comes to a partner. They fail to see their partner as a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:32 PM
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👎 you could then say the exact same argument for men except literally no woman does that because we dont overly sexualize men. You dont have a lizard brain. Youre an adult human with a normal cognitive ability. You cant blame your porn addiction or your lack of empathy on being incompetent. Humans are socially complicated animals and we understand complex situations. Thats why things like adoption exists. Thats why we have sex for pleasure. Thats why we have birth control. If that really was the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:07 PM
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There is evolutionary psychology. Which neither geology or biology majors really dip their toes in. I dont doubt that what you felt wasnt real. But i am strongly doubting it has any connection with biological instincts and more to do with social conditioning and the unexpectency of the situation. Men who can only value a woman for their reproductive ability dont value women. Its not a natural instinct. This is a result of not seeing women as individuals and unarguably a result of sexism. Maybe e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:52 PM
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Thats an undergrad program, which is irrelevant. I have that too you know lol. It is not academical. There are a surprising amount of bad teachers. You arent a biology teacher which means you never actually did a degree in that major. Which unfortunately means you dont have the amount of knowledge you think you have. Biology has not one horse in this race youre talking about. You have a 12 year old kid which means you did end up wanting kids. Besides. There are lots of reasons why you mightve be…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:35 PM
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😂 dont talk to me about biology unless you have a degree. You guys are so bad at differentiating between biology and social standards that its not only funny but also sad. I can tell you your nuts dont give two fucks about someones fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:54 AM
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Well yes and this sub is filled with men that have never felt the touch of a woman lol or old hags of men who are bitter about their life choices. This sub just draws in people who are ill or atleast ill informed. Ive been here for years and years before other inc5l subs got banned. Many of them simply migrated here. But they wont tell you that. Purge week has shown their true identities.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:04 AM
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Men who want families should not be making it a problem for us women who dont or cant. Thats not your business. Older women have kids all the time. Its not guarranteed. Its only a risk factor. My own mom was 35 when she had me. My partners mom was in her early 40s. Age is not the only factor. General health is. Some women start menopause later than others. If you are so concerned with nothing but your partner being able to reproduce then im sorry but you are a disgusting human being. Why the hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:58 AM
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No. What makes you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 10:55 PM
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Yes i do and i also prefer male friendships because theyre more likely to have similar hobbies as me. And also because of past trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:19 PM
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Yes i would. No im not trans, i just didnt get to pick before birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:18 PM
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Why would i care? If you think a woman is only good for fertility then i think you have much more serious issues to worry about than infertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:17 PM
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Being tall. Being "dominant" and emotionally unphased. Skinny/thin. And short hair. (On men)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:31 AM
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Many women do have sex with their partner out of obligation rather than pure want. But you have to keep in mind everyones libido is different and its very common for you and your partners sex drive to be completely miss matched. You just have to work around it or plan ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:29 AM
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Okay? And who in their right mind would defend that to be ok? Ive made so many comments i would rather have you read them instead of going over this again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:23 AM
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Wdym "why" ?? Im the wrong person to be asking that from. Because im not a prostitute. And i dont know what would be the most optimal scenario. On top of me being biased because Im personally fine with being "prude". But the best i can say to that is probably what my bf had to say about it. "Sex should be viewed as an act, like a hobby or just any other activity people can do together" implying because it would remove most if not all taboo and stigmas related to sex and how we view sex as someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:31 PM
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Except youre forgetting most people in prostitution arent in it 100% willingly. Its just not a job worth doing in its current state as is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:24 PM
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Im talking exclusively prostitution. Porn is a whole other thing of its own. It is complex. But i also think people who work for the military are technically selling themself for the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:18 PM
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Well now youll recall. No, its because sex isnt compareable to industries where youre selling your productions rather than yourself. And people do deem some industries as horrible and exploitative because they are dangerous and awful. For example the mining of mica in third world countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:40 PM
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It needs more than just regulation. It needs a radical shift in our societys thinking and approach to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:36 PM
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Yeah bro lol! You cant exploit the slaves if its legal yo. Wdym im exploiting my workers in my sweatshop?? Its legal bruh chill haha! Legality has not a single horse in this race lol. Legal =/= moral. This shit happends in my country all the time despite it being legal. The issue is you turn it into an emotionless commodity when the rest of society does not yet they still uphold the same standard for this exchange. Again. Because we dont view sex as just an activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:35 PM
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And also. I would like to clarify that i do believe there is a way for sex work not to be exploitative. Just that in this society model it is never going to fucking happen lol. So i cant support that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:22 PM
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You know you can still support the worker without supporting the industry right? Not very women make the consious choice of turning to sex work willingly without an external factor such as poverty. It isnt a very relaxing career.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:17 PM
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If you give your bodily autonomy to someone else youre essentially giving up your rights of yourself. Even if its temporarily. Tell me a realistic scenario where clients wont use that to their advantage to exploit the worker. And like ive already tried to tell you multiple times i suggest you start taking in account the very real issue that we as a society dont view sex simply as an activity and nothing more. And like i said. Again. Please tell me, was sex work ever created for the sake of women…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:12 PM
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No you really dont. Unless you work for the military. Thats a completely retarded analogy. Thats not the same as selling your body. Youre selling your production. Not your body. Unless the company likes fucking you in the ass too. Renting. Selling. Of course they dont have your body forever. But seriously do you think that makes such a huge difference when your whole job is "renting" yourself to different clients all the time. Let alone i dont see why youre defending this lol, it doesnt sound ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:55 PM
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I explained it to you by asking how is it not exploitative.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:47 PM
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Cap. All i hear is cap. I live in a country where sex work is 100% legal including prostitution. You use the word exploitative in a context where youre not taking in account the humane side of things. We simply dont live in a society where sex is mindless and meaningless, where we view it as nothing more than an activity. Tell me how is it not exploitative to sell your body as an object while you have to give up your bodily autonomy for the sake of someone else getting what they want out of you?…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:44 PM
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Since you claim to be politically educated i suggest you read "the traffic in women" by emma goldman. Its a short read. In a society where we push people to consume mindlessly we tend to lose the value of the commodities we buy. When youre a sex worker you quite literally sell yourself as a product that results in an interaction where your humane value has no purpose. You are literally an object. Theres also a huge difference between supporting sex workers and supporting sex work. I dont persona…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:26 PM
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Being sexualized and dehumanized by people that dont even know you especially from a young age. Not being taken seriously. Dealing with stereotypes. Having to constantly fight over rights that belong to you wether that be legal or medical. Having to argue with people over misogynism and how its wrong. Being afraid of getting assaulted sometimes. I think the worst one for me is being dehumanized because many men see you as nothing more than a potential date or a sexual object. I have lost friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:00 AM
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Body shaming. This is self explanatory. Happends to women as well. Its never fair or justifiable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:53 AM
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If you already have a job i dont see why youd pick the money. Dont know why his earnings matter. I like company before wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:35 PM
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Nah cuz this is such a boring topic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:11 PM
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Honestly tired of this question because we already know people have different preferences and this whole thing is only somewhat relevant in hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:08 PM
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B, from my partner
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:36 PM
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Im not flattered by anyone asking me out. Theres nothing flattering about it especially if you yourself arent interested. I dont value myself based on what others think about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:33 PM
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I dont really understand the point of your post? Like what am i supposed to think other than "yeah thats horrible i hope they can get better"???
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:31 PM
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If the point was that hes willingly a stay at home husband then probably not much. I would most likely still do cooking since i want to know exactly what im eating. House work is also work. Its not exactly easy all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:57 PM
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No, if you cant be honest and feel like they judge you then theyre probably not a good choice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:54 PM
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I just like similar people and get along well with those who share atleast a couple things in common. Wether that be hobbies like music, art or games. Or moral things like leftist values and politics. Emotionally people who tend to be empathetic and sensitive appeal to me more and i appeal back to them. Im sure the people whove been interest in me also liked me because of those common interests. And i wouldnt consider myself hideously ugly either, which helps. Ultimately nothing matters if you j…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:24 PM
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I dont really believe in people being "a good catch" my personality and looks will never appeal to everyone not even the majority. There is only compatible couples. And then there are not. If someone has the same morals and interests as me. The same ideas when it comes to a relationship then im dateable material.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:20 PM
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I suggest you try therapy bro
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:11 PM
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I dont think HSP is the same as overly emotional though. HSP people are on the neurodivergent scale. Im saying this as someone who has many traits of HSP but im not sure if i should label myself as so. There is also ton of variety in HSP people. Other things like anxiety can play a huge part in reaction and response to stimuli and difficult situations. Lets say i am HSP. I still have many sensory related issues like loud background noise or messy environment. But i dont cry at movies or little i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:09 PM
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Same. I used to be emotionally really really cold and forced myself to keep a pokerface 24/7. It gets very tiring and i can imagine how tiring it is to others too. I cant imagine being in a relationship with a man who cant even express positive feelings or be vulnerable around me. That to me is the ultimate level of trust. When you can express yourself without feeling like im judging them. I hate the cookie cutter form of a "tough" man. Its lowkey psychopathic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:03 PM
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When someone takes being asked out for granted and decides to reject said person by attacking their character without good reason or insults their appearance. There is no excuse to do that unless youre being seriously harassed. Even then you can get better results with other replies. There is probably more but thats the first to come to my mind. I know how mean some people can be and i know it can fuck up your self esteem for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:34 PM
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I will always pick someone whose "emotional" and emotionally open. Unless emotional means throwing tantrums and having uncontrolled rage. There is absolutely nothing appealing about a man who cannot talk about how he feels or doesnt express any emotion. If i wanted that type of connection im better off talking to an AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:28 PM
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No. I know my type very well and recognize when that person can have an actual connection with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:54 AM
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Maybe its just me but the things you mentioned is usually advice given by the incel red pill community or other men. Ive seriously never in a real life situation heard any of my female friends say that about a man. Because they dont care. Im not saying this to gaslight anyone. Im sure someone has said it. But honestly its more common from men. Men also upkeep "traditional masculinity". But yes it is toxic. But i mostly think its ineffective. Because physical appearance isnt the only thing that p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:20 PM
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Improve my health
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:21 PM
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This may not be the case for all but yeah in the extreme yes. I think you make a very valid point that many parents seem to forget. I always try to call out on this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:31 PM
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I dont really think its a good idea simply for the fact that youre setting up your kid for getting bullied for something that you could easily avoid. You can give the name as a second name. Have the first name as something normal but refer to them as the second name at home etc. Giving your kid an idiotic name in general i think is a little bit sadistic. I dont know what masculine names youre referring to so its hard to compare
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:28 PM
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I havent said anything id regret, not that i remember atleast. Besides. They know already. Only thing i dont do for certain irl is be excessively mean (back) / troll people. Anyone who says yes to this is a fucking weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:11 PM
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Just alternative clothing style. Goth, metal. Whatever you can call it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:58 PM
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Im gonna say my looks because i know i dress "differently" and not everyone likes alternative looks. Its also a good thing because it keeps people i dont like by default away from me. Edit: saying this because theres loads of things that come to both looks and personality. Could be your face, your style, your body type, your whatever. But im saying this assuming someone rejected me based on what i just said.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:35 AM
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Well im sorry you interpet it that way i guess lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:38 PM
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Did i say thats good at any point?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:30 PM
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You just literally described a societal values issue. Were not born into misandry or misogyny. We are conditioned to be as such. Obviously there are misandrists just like there are misogynists. But what youre talking about is a vocal minority. You need to seriously remember not to be chronically online. A post on reddit doesnt reflect the reality of what happends every day. People say the most vile shit here because its anonymous. I have read similar posts, ive replied and argued to some. You ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:06 AM
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Considering youre active on r/exredpill im just going to take a wild guess and say you have truly adapted the victim complex and have been living under a rock. Or have also never picked up a history book in your life. What youre doing is a poor attempt at gaslighting. If it isnt patriarchy then what it is? Why are our medical systems still biased against women? Why is it that when it comes to design, only men are represented? Why is it that women are supposed to be submissive and we are just exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:42 AM
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No, i dont think gender has anything to do with anyone being better/worse. In nature this simply doesnt matter. Nature doesnt discriminate like that. I cant speak of men as a collective because i judge people on an individual basis, just judging by gender is too wide of a range to say anything off of. Its sexist by itself. If i think of the men in my life that ive interacted with in a positive way, it has given me perspective, it has given me social skills and ive felt more accepted/connected es…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:41 PM
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This isnt a sex/gender issue. This is a political and societal issue. Not every man is a manipulative, incompetent piece of crap. But the ones that are, are often a direct result of how our system set them up to be because it simply benefits them. When you have priviledge in a society that favors patriarchy, its a no shit situation to end up with bad things that affect both men and women. I dont think men are worthless. I think when you talk about men being useless for women. It often comes stra…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:32 PM
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If he didnt id break it off. You need to show both physical and mental affection in order to get it back. Obviously there are people out there who dont give a fuck. Thats why my goal has always been to favor long term relationships with common interests in mind. Not everyone can just fit that role.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:15 PM
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Sorry i worded that bad. What i meant was his theory was misinterpeted by a lot of other scientists and used too loosely. Losing its original point, which he didnt like. People still do that Like "While the phrase "survival of the fittest" is often used to mean "natural selection", it is avoided by modern biologists, because the phrase can be misleading." People threw some of those terms around. But also Darwins natural selection theory has been criticised. Its not absolute. Theres been things l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:59 PM
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Im not masculine in looks but in other things you listed like hobbies and some persona aspects & career life. If i had to pick between a very feminine/masculine man. Id pick feminine just because some aspects of that "ultra masculine" thing is unappealing and a turn off. I like a man who can be emotionally open and sensitive. I like someone with similar hobbies and interests as me. I dont think by appearence there are even many men that actually, truly look feminine. So that one i cant really an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:28 PM
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Thats completely fine. A man doesnt have to initiate at all. Youd just have to ask when its an appropriate time for you to initiate etc. Never force anyone to do anything. If it becomes an issue later. Simply discuss it and arrange things. Maybe try to increase libido. Maybe compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:19 PM
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Being able to communicate. Understanding some things need to be talked about first/beforehand. Respecting boundaries. Understanding your partners and their own needs. Planning things ahead. Being able to talk about your feelings and responding to them appropriately (example, Remaining calm in hard situations). Understanding empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:16 PM
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Lol. Thats because this sub likes to get their info from podcasts instead of actual academical sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:11 PM
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This is true im so tired of people saying otherwise. Natural selection isnt even the only part of evolution. Darwin himself didnt even like that concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:07 PM
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Hey buddy casual sex / hookups vs relationship material is far different. You think youre being gaslit because youre chronically online.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:15 PM
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I usually pay. The whole bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:01 PM
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Personally. No it doesnt make me angry. Its not my issue. But generally speaking people who want to date just for the sake of dating tend to be selfish and horrible partners. In my opinion. You should find a person you genuinely like and are interested in. Not just someone you think "will do fine" as a partner. If you do the latter chances are it wont be as good. Women arent interested in men who arent personally interested in them. The average woman gets objectified enough so having a boyfriend…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:56 PM
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Ur natural instinct is to go to a war and die
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:58 PM
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You cannot be a leftist woman and hate men. What youre talking about is terfs and liberals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:44 AM
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Well itll lead to eugenics aventually. If it wasnt illegal itd only be available to the richest people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:43 AM
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Maybe but i can see some aspects of my personality would be hard to deal with. Appearance vise im too skinny and blonde. There are far better matches than myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:41 AM
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To me it just means monogamy and willing to put in effort to make the relationship work. If youre not commited then i dont want to spend my time and emotion on you. Being commited to me means that youre ready to put in work, love, care and effort into us as a couple. Why would i not want that for a relationship? Why should i waste time playing mindgames with someone who isnt quite interested enough. I dont want hookups or short term relationships. I want a real connection with someone i trust. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:36 AM
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i guess so. we made up rules for what stuff belongs in each category so nobody will obviously be 100 percent feminine or masculine. thats nearly impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:43 PM
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This ^
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 07:37 AM
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In a day, on average. 0%. Im not physically & mentally attracted to anyone but my current partner. Very rarely i come across people that i find even somewhat interesting looking. And those people usually have similar features to my partner
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 07:33 AM
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I dont know? Thats not my business. Would probably make sense if hes under lets say 28. But after that, the request might be very difficult to achieve. Its okay to want a partner with the same level of experience as you. As long as you dont talk shit about other people that arent like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:47 AM
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I do know a few women over 18 who are/have been still virgins. I think this might vary a lot between countries. These women just have not been interested in casual sex and unstable relationships. Some have simply not found the person they can fully trust. Some have not found a relationship yet. Like that one commentor said i think the stat about 25-10% sounds about accurate. I do know some women who just havent been asked out and havent had that many men actively be interested in them. Doesnt me…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 06:00 PM
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Tell me what motive or pleasure would anyone get out of lying here on reddit about a topic like this? You speak from a priviledged viewpoint. You have no business coming here to say something is exaggarated. To me it simply sounds like you want to save your own skin by delusioning yourself to "it possibly cant be that bad so it never happened" Take that silver spoon out of your mouth and go bitch elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 09:35 PM
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I was 10 years old when a girl from my class had caught all the boys talking secretly about all of my female classmates one morning. Comparing and ranking us by whose the best looking. Who has the best body. Face. But before that i was around 7 years old traveling in another country (wont say where) and i was getting whistled at and done kissing faces and noises at on the street. By adult or atleast teenage men. So.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 09:29 PM
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Literally everyone has life difficulties unrelated to dating. Women just dont typically complain about things we find inequal in every day life because its something mundane we have to deal and put up with every single day. I dont know what and whose posts youve been reading but i think you can only speak for yourself. Most people dont open up on social media about the very serious struggles. You think ill open up about my medical history on instagram? Lol. No. Nobody does that. If youre going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 09:24 PM
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People have answered. Learn to read maybe? Edit: just because the answers arent what YOU want them to be aka "oh please lord! Ill do anything 1!!1 ill even lick your boots" doesnt mean they dodged the question. A lot of the women here have stable loving relationships. Theyre content. The idea of a submissive housewife of an object belongs in the 50s or in your wildest redpill fantasies. Not real life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:00 PM
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Ive already asserted myself to him before we started dating. I dont need to do it again. He knew what he was getting. We do things for eachother like any other equal relationship works. If you feel like you constantly have to compete with others in order to keep someone then maybe you should consider that youre simply dating someone whose ungrateful, greedy and unfaithful. A loyal connection needs nurturing. But it does not need constant convincing of the other party. By warped i mean people lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:51 PM
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Who said it doesnt matter at all? A relationship consists of more than just sex and emotions. Like attraction or deeper connection. Loyalty. Friendship. Etc. I dont date women because im not gay. Im not attracted to women and i cannot form an emotionally intimate connection with a woman. I dont know why you even asked this its so unrelated. I have no obligation to date a woman if i dont have to. I shouldnt even have to explain this. I dont have to date anyone for the sake of simply not wanting t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:43 PM
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I did. I dont need to do anything special in order to "keep him". If its truly a dealbreaker he can leave. Like i said vaginal penetration is definitely not the only form of sex. If you assume that to be the only way then i dont wonder why youd have a dead bedroom in the next 5 years or so. I dont date men who have warped views of sex and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:28 PM
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Maybe start getting into relationships that actually have an emotional connection then. Thats all i can tell you lol. Sex is not one dimensional. So youre delusional if you assume every couple is inherently miserable and forced.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:21 PM
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I know right. What a delightful person this guy is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:02 PM
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What a stupid fucking question lol. If my man was with me only for pussy i would not have a man to begin with. Let alone if my sex organs suddently disappeared his reaction would be the least of my worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:00 PM
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Explain how it contradicts anything i said. I commented what i did so people dont go around saying stupid things like you think. Taking unnecessary hormones is compromising your health. Steroids or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:06 PM
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I dont see what issue youre having. Literally says hormone therapy is sometimes used for women going through menopause to relieve the negative symptoms. Taking steroids is NOT hormone therapy. It is a enchancement taken with no medical need. No doctor will perscribe you hormones without you having an imbalance or a lack of them. So again no healthy women dont take estrogen. Sane men wont abuse steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:01 PM
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No. I prefer not to hear about it often though. Porn is just porn. Its a fantasy some people use to satisfy their sexual needs. As long as youre not abusing it theres nothing inherently bad about it. Women watch porn too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:12 PM
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Women dont take estrogen LMAO. It is only perscribed in rare cases like some women going through menopause. Or other hormonal imbalance issues like pcos. A healthy woman taking estrogen will ruin the bodys natural balance. Steroids do the same thing which is why they can be very dangerous. I really dont know where you got this idea from. Sex hormone increasing medication should never be taken unless needed. The myth about steroid users balls shrinking is not a myth. Long term steroid use WILL le…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:09 PM
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I mean i dont mind. Its better than doing nothing. Atleast youre trying to build character. If it works on some woman then congrats for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:48 AM
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Damn im really sorry you feel this way. Dont be let down by that stuff. Black women are beautiful just like anyone else. I would say if a man has an agenda against it then theyre not worth to be with in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:45 AM
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No i wouldnt. Looks are subjective. Attraction isnt based just on looks. One person might call me ugly. Another one might compliment me. I dont give a fuck what other people have to say about the person im with as long as im happy. Its none of their business. Nobody is really truly ugly. Theres a market for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:43 AM
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I dont care as long as they dont try to fish for compliments from me. Or dont do it to the point of it being extremely annoying. Seeing your own flaws can be important persona vise. Its good to be realistic but its not good to dwell on self hatred and use it to make others feel bad for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:40 AM
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Personally i do. I wouldnt want to date someone who has had a lot of casual sex or short term relationships. They dont allign with my nature and would make me feel inequal. It tells me that there might be something wrong with the person like impulsiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:38 AM
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Yes but not BECAUSE theyre men. Its because im anxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:37 AM
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A great reply. Glad to hear others with the same experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:33 AM
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Yes i do. And its because i get along with men well. I like men. Men have similar hobbies to me more than women do. I have nothing against women. It just is what it is. Being friends with someone isnt leading on anyone. If you think a friendship has to be something else because the gender is the opposite then youre either sexist or cant control yourself at all. To answer the last part. No. Theyre just like anyone else. A friend. There is nothing deep about it. Good relationships come from friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:30 AM
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Key word; girls. Ive never seen adult women be fans of these people really.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:06 AM
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Yes Personally im a metalhead and i prefer other metalheads. Though im not really interested in men who dress up in a high maintanence way. A moderate style is good. Typically alternative women like alternative men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:03 AM
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No. Like you said its a male fantasy. I might compete in my head occaisionally but not in a real scenario. Competing is exhausting and just makes you ill. If i have to compete i think it shows hes not interested enough in me so it is absolutely not worth my time or mental health. Edit: i can only remember one instance where some girl tried to take my place but failed miserably. She had no change in the first place so it wasnt a competition to begin with. And thats exactly how it should be. Other…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:59 AM
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Yes. I do. This is useless to answer if all the incels are once again going to call everyone a liar. Im attracted to body type and faces obviously. But i cannot find any kind of romantic or sexual interest in you if your personality isnt intriguing or doesnt sit right with me. I think a hairstyle and clothing also contribute a lot to me since i like alternative styles and find it important persona vise too. But clothing isnt the main focus. What interests or hobbies you have i also find attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:22 PM
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No more than 4 years for now since im still pretty young. Maybe when im older 7 years would be the absolute max Edit: older i mean. Not younger. I wouldnt date younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:17 PM
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To me men are easier to read simply because ive always had more male than female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:34 PM
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Having intercourse isnt the only form of sexual cheating though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:25 AM
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Scenario 1 obviously i dont know who in their right mind would say number 2. Scenario 1 is both sexual and emotional cheating while number 2 happened under the influence and no emotional cheating was involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:21 AM
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Standing up for themself is something ive came across often. You as a man are never blamed for standing up for yourself while women are said things like "stop acting like a bitch" or "stop over reacting"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:44 PM
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Marrying someone solely on the fact theyve fucked a lot sounds stupid and unrealistic. What hypocrisy is there? Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:15 PM
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This whole concept is the equivalent of horoscopes for men. Get something better to do please
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:37 AM
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What are you doing making such shitpost topics
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:33 AM
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0.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:31 AM
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You can literally go ask this from asexual people. Sex does not equal intercourse. Let alone there are couples that do have sex despite being asexual. They just dont enjoy it but some might do it for their partner. Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction to people. It doesnt mean they have no libido allthough often theirs is lower. There are loads of asexual people who for example masturbate without porn or involving others in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:04 AM
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And? It can be a cause for low libido proving my point about attraction not being the same thing because libido is biologically determined mostly by hormones. You do understand libido isnt a constant thing right? It doesnt stay the same throughout your whole life. It can change as a result of hormones or other things like medication which i already said. Or other illnesses causing low libido. Having an illness/being on meds doesnt cause a person to lose attraction. That is not possible. Thats be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:00 PM
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Im not sure. It wouldnt bother me if they told me WHY exactly. You should not and cannot force to do things with someone who doesnt want to no matter what. That is called rape. I dont think you need to do everything with all of your partners. Maybe they didnt like it. Feel uncomfortable. Etc. You are not entitled to any sexual fantasy or act. Just because they did it with someone else doesnt mean youre now entitled to it as well. This is not how things work in most other scenarios either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:56 PM
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Libido and attraction are not the same thing. Libido is biological. Attraction is mostly psychological. This is yet again another bad case of "i wasnt awake during biology lessons or sex ed" If youve ever been on medication that suppresses sexual needs and lowers libido you will absolutely know its not because you dont find people appealing. Most of this is absolutely hormonal. This can also be debunked by for example with people who are asexual. They arent sexually attracted to anyone but some …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:46 PM
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I think if someone has that mindset towards me i simply wouldnt date them. People arent throphies to one up and collect. Someone thinking that way about people in general disgusts me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:32 AM
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Most of this list wasnt focused on the woman herself but rather her mutuals or relatives. This is not a good way to determine anything because not everyone can find good friends or have proper parents Scenario: You have abusive parents or dysfunctional marriage situation. Should they stay together? Hell no. Does that make the person any worse? No. Its not guarranteed. Theres a ton of people who grew up in awful family dynamics that have turned out to be kind and amazing people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:44 PM
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If you mean looksmax as in "i try to be like patrick bateman" then to me that has to be one of the most uninteresting things ever. Some men are naturally charming. Some are not. And its not those who try too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:16 PM
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I dont know and i dont really care. This isnt a new concept at all. You do know sex work is like one of the oldest industries right? And you do know how many people in sex work have kids? Go ask them. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:10 PM
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Its not but it can be annoying. Its a normal human reaction to feel intimidated or anxious about messing something up with a person you really like. Communicating about it and getting to know eachothers boundaries helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:08 PM
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Its unattractive and doesnt work on a lot of people. But if thats your only way then youre allowed to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:04 PM
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If you as a man arent into any aesthetics or personalized styles then the changes are you wear what your mom bought you. Im not trying to shame anyone who does this but in my experience men dont care to dress well. Or when they do try they end up not quite doing it right Why? Because men arent being forced into being trendy and appealing the same way women are. There for making it unimportant for a man to care so much about what he wears. Women are expected to look their best while men arent. Me…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 07:20 PM
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Then why bother with shit topics like this? There has never been a legitmate study on this. Not that i know of. So no amount of reddit "educated" guesses will be right. 10% of women are not all women. Not even the majority. You really cannot bend reality like this and expect to discover a new truth. Your list is just as useless as anything else. Not to even include the fact that just because something might be widely appealing. Doesnt equal in reality going after those types of men or whoever Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:34 PM
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You cannot apply a completely made up scenario and calculate it with real facts. If you didnt know. Women can have very distinct personality types. Because we arent a hivemind. And it goes without saying that different personalities are also attracted to other different types of personalities. There for like the replies here "Women like extroverted obnoxious men" is a false statement. Because it isnt true now. And hypothetically it cant be either. Unless women also all had the same personality t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:12 PM
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But we arent. So there is no correct answer. Its not possible to answer this. Its like trying to calculate the speed of a rock. It doesnt work. You need to stop having this mindset of women being a single hivemind because it will never happen. I like how maybe 2% of the comments are actually women even. Make better topics please.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:58 AM
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No? Its a green flag if anything. More men SHOULD go to therapy. Dont listen to FDS on these topics they are literally crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:55 AM
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You still cant fix your emotional and mental flaws no matter how much you put effort in appearence. I personally dont want to look built. I have no reason to look like that if i dont like it. Other people arent obligated to look a certain way either. Not everyone likes the body builder body trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:50 AM
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The brain develops up to 25 years of age. You make this sound like youre into little girls. This is a very classic case of "boys will be boys" and there for your logic is absolute trash. Why do you feel the need to hold only girls accountable for dumb mistakes and beheaviour in their teens but not boys? What makes it different? As a matter of fact nothing makes it different. Only your sexist attidute does. Most people. Male or female regret doing things in their teens later on and wouldnt do the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:42 AM
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I would much prefer being pursued online at first. If thats not an option here i would rather meet someone through mutual hobbies like music maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:29 AM
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As long as you arent entitled to that or dont then go around treating women worse when they dont fit your standard you arent a misogynist. But if you do those thats what makes it not acceptable. Because women arent obligated to play into your fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:23 AM
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Just another person using others for their benefit. Youre not special. And youre not a pleasure to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:34 PM
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What does this even mean? What tells me a man is taken is when he says "i have a girlfriend". Why play childish mindgames when you can just simply ask and save time?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:31 PM
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Usually yes because the majority of people especially younger folks find that their gateway to meet people, to hook up, to socialize and bond with people. Unless you find people similar to you, youll be possibly very lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 12:11 AM
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Yeah this is pretty much my point as well. And why people get upset is because it makes them feel used and worthless even.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 08:04 AM
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If thats your only intention from the beginning then its better to be straight forward but if youre genuinely interested in getting to know that girl and dont mind developing feelings at the same time then i see nothing wrong with it. Good relationships (most) all start out as friendships. Best case scenario your bf/gf will be your partner and best friend. The line to manipulation is crossed when youre actually not interested in being friends with this person at all and rather want to use them f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:55 AM
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Im willing to go through anything and everything besides cheating or being unfaithful. Pressuring me to polygamy or anything sexual/romantic involving others that is clearly out of my comfort zone. That is the only thing i will never forgive or tolerate. Appearance changing or being mentally ill is nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 11:42 AM
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This. Self improvement is not seeking relationships with power dynamics. Its manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:26 PM
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Yes. No were still together and happy. I come here to piss myself off or look through entertaining posts. All other subs got banned. Stopped looking at those. Found this to be an interesting shithole.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:34 PM
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Say that to psychotic people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:29 PM
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What moderation team are you talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:45 PM
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If your equivalent of truth is being a basement dweller with mental illness and delusions then sure. Whatever floats your boat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:40 PM
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Thats funny lmao. What a pretend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:37 PM
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Maybe 20% of us here are women to begin with. Most female made posts ive seen are discussion posts rather than misandristic childish bullshit. I mean have you seen the sub during purge week? It is a discussion sub but there arent many man haters here from what ive seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:51 PM
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I think the red pill men on this sub have proven themself to be the exact caricature they are. If the main focus was on self improvement and techniques youd be out there doing whatever instead of bitching online about women every second possible. People who are truly unconcerned about others dont feel the need to bring it up constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:43 PM
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The latter obviously. Narcissistic abusers who put others on a scale is a major turn off. "Less attractive" doesnt mean worse. Societal beauty standards arent pleasing to everyone. Your looks arent the only factor in attraction. The first guy would not only be disrespectful but also impossible to please. You cant please a narcissist. The latter is someone who values you who you can then in return value back and have a mutually positive experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:53 PM
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Considered or considers? If previously yes and changed their ways then maybe. If currently then no way in hell. Im not going to put up with someone who wont appreciate and respect me the way i appreciate respect my partner. Red pill benefits nobody. Unless youre just as delusional of a sadist as the red piller then youll know to stay as far as possible. You cannot be a misogynist or a misandrist and have a healthy working mutually respectful and loving relationship. This is a far cry from realit…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:46 PM
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Personally it turns me off. If im going to be with a man im not going to compete over other women to get that. It makes it less attractive to me because our personalities would most likely be the polar opposite. I have no interest competing with other women over a man. Either im the right one or im not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 10:40 AM
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I dont think youre mature enough for dating if you get caught up on a fact that someones cock was bigger than yours. What does it matter? If you cant talk to your partner about your life then youre a bad match. Communication is key. And you shouldnt be so insecure and jealous you compete with their exes. Theyre exes for a reason you know. I dont think discussing sexual past in detail is necessary. Just the basics. Unless youre both comfortable with that. I wouldnt be. And i dont want to know eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:59 AM
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Age puts that in to perspective first of all but yes. I think for a lets say a 25 year old a high count would be more than 6 even. But thats just me. I care because i commit to people and dislike hookup culture. In my mind a man with a wide range of sexual history indicates that we have different values.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:19 PM
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This applies to just me im not speaking for others. I am a very safe person and evaluate situations carefully. Biggest mistake for me is someone being too pushy or aggressive. Moving too fast while using cheap techniques. Emotional connection is far more important for me. I think a good way to avoid this is to simply ask me and get to know me first. Because im not single. But putting that aside i think its because men dont know what theyre really supposed to do so they rely on things theyve eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:16 PM
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A better question to ask would be what do they even get right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:07 PM
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Too much of a silly post i couldnt resist replying. In my opinion. A creep is simply someone who does not respect your boundaries or personal space despite discussing it. Being too pushy and agressive makes you creepy. The feeling of that is an emotional response to fear of not being safe around a person like this. Example: you come to my house at 4 am uninvited. That is creepy. A pervert is someone who can no longer seperate real life from porn. Someone who has no control over their impulses an…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:04 PM
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Going to simply answer the title. No it is absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:56 PM
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I dont think this is the right sub to ask this on. Try maybe r/sex or r/tooafraidtoask etc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:36 PM
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I wouldnt stay. Simply break up. Its not a relationship anymore at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 09:41 AM
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Because weve discovered mental illnesses exist. And we diagnose them more often. Retarded take
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 12:45 PM
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I would ask why hes even telling me about this suddently. What he and his ex did sexually i do not want to hear about after a while of us dating already. Its irrelevant. And he doesnt have to if he doesnt want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:25 PM
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People change when they age. They mature. Why do you feel so entitled? If someone did something once doesnt mean they want to do it again. Nobody is obligated to redo that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:21 PM
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I think theres a difference between "hey i think this haircut would fit you good" and "youre not good enough for x" Not everyone cares to appeal to everyone because people have personal tastes. Never give advice like that unless asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:19 PM
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I dont live in canada or the USA so why would i know about their laws? I already gave you one thats atleast very common in usa. Men arent denied about getting a vasectomy because they have a wife or girlfriend. Or a future one. There are no laws on this. But it still happends. Women are denied of this right. Anyway chao im going to sleep and dont really care to talk to you because arguing about this has been made like a million times. Im tired of wasting time here. Go read something if you want …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:56 PM
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You know yourself since you already said it. Womens rights to vote etc etc etc. Im not responsible what some fucking terf in New York does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:54 PM
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🤡🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:36 PM
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You dont know what egalitarian or feminism is do you? By definition. By theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:35 PM
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You must love women dont you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:34 PM
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We clearly dont. Women are often in western countries denied of medical proceadures at the cost of their husband. Like getting their tubes tied. You do understand there are also other countries than america right? Places were child marriage is normal. Places where women cant go to school. Get your head outta your ass maybe? Speaking of. Why does it tickle your butthole so much that im a feminist? You keep commenting on nearly all of my posts and comments. Men and women do not have equal rights p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:33 PM
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Ok :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:29 PM
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Theyre really not. I understand channels like tumblr and buzzfeed really ruined it for everyone but those people are often referred to as radfems or terfs. Which are not the original feminists. I will contenue to use the term either way because i know what feminism was originally for. Theres no need to pussy out on saying that just because someone feels insecure. I am a "real" feminist. End of argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:12 PM
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Feminism is egalitarian. That is the definition of feminism. Feminism is for equal rights. The definition is on my side truly. I say egalitarian because youre a snowflake to the idea of feminism to the point where it offends you. Oxford dictionary: " the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes." Because it was started by women for women at the time. Egalitarism is also a thing of its own but all feminists are egalitarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:02 PM
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What do you expect me to point you towards? The red pill is not like a bible. Theres multiple people saying their own stuff and going with it. Is that even arguable? What part of "misogyny" is unclear to you? Its extremely clear how red pilled incels treat women and view women. Its not like a secret. Youd know since youre self proclaimed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:47 PM
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Thats not what my post was about. You will never have a meaningful relationship if you view the opposite gender as an object or a target or whatever crap. Respect is mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:42 PM
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Red pill in theory and red pill in reality is like communist dictatorship in theory vs real life. Show me these men. Go on. Ive been involved in these communities for literal years. Ive talked to so many of these people over the time. I would claim i objectively have a decent view. Im not deying that maybe 1 percent of these people arent succesful in hooking up. But you know what? That takes charisma and social intelligence to pull off. Something that 99% of red pillers dont have and NEVER will.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:36 PM
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Lmaoo. Sure. Show me one redpilled man whos drowning in pussy. You cant. Because only really incels believe in that stuff. If you spend enough time adjusting your thoughts and beheaviour to fit the red pill then its obvious that the time spent doing that is also the same time lost getting some actual game. The red pill is focused on hatred and sexism. You cannot deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:29 PM
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That is the case unfortunately yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 09:17 AM
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Not everyone uses dating apps. Personally i like to do this thing called talking. To assess if theyre compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 09:15 AM
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So you fuck everyone before considering them to be a potential partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 09:11 AM
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I was waiting for this one. Now before i start believe it or not. Im a feminist aka egalitarian. My answer is no. I dont personally like it. I dont personally participate in it and i personally never will. Now objectively heres why: The modern hookup culture sucks. It sucks because it does more harm than good in the long run to everyone whose apart of it. Why? Well its because despite having the freedom of hooking up. We still dont have the freedom and liberation from the stigma of sex. In our c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:37 AM
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The discription sounds like automatically generated random characters. Theyre weird and unrealistic. Neither. I would date neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:16 PM
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Then you dont have the right to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:55 PM
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Says the incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:54 PM
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Yep. Youre not supposed to feel bad during or after sex with your partner. If you do then i suggest you stop. Never do things you are uncomfortable with. Youre not obligated to. Just find what works for both of you and your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:17 AM
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I dont think healthy fetishes have a reason. Its not truly emotional pain if its enjoyable. Thats the point of sadism & masochism. I dont fuck random people or do hookups so im confident in my partner. If he did mean it for real he would act accordingly. Plus who said you cant switch? A woman can be a dom too. Its just a sexual thing we both enjoy. Not everything has to be realistic. Its a fantasy. If me or my partner got traumatized we simply wouldnt do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:44 AM
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You dont seem so happy like you claim. Bla bla bla
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:40 AM
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^ this. Even most countries dont have the same beauty standards. Let alone on an individual level. People are groomed into these mindsets by the media and society. Only objective thing about attraction is the appearance of health. But even then people cant determine health by looks. In many asian countries being extremely thin is considered healthy. In reality a lot of these women have eating disorders. Miss their periods etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:11 AM
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Being genuinely respectful to women. Being emotionally open and good at communicating. Being emotionally mature enough. Being loyal. Having the same values and goals. Without those the marriage will be miserable in about 2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:07 AM
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Yes but obviously not all of it. I enjoy some aspects a lot. Things ill never do however are actually harmful scenarios. Like knife play. Cutting. Hitting. Hard choking etc. Im a very safe person and i see nothing enjoyable in that type of "pain" Many said degrading is a turn off. For me it isnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:01 AM
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Yeah. Its no surprise. Usually also insecure people want to hurt others because thats the only way they can make themself feel superior. This case is probably not much different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:26 AM
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Do you believe anything on instagram is real?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:18 AM
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RÄÄÄÄEGHUAAHHE HOW DARE THE FOID SPEAK TO ME IN SUCH MANNER. I WILL SIMPLY TRY TO PROVOKE YOU AND FAIL. THEN CRY INTO MY CUMSOCK EEĒĚÈÙ
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:19 PM
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Or sign up to therapy instead. Life doesnt have to be any more miserable than you make it. I appreciate the input however.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:37 PM
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I dont care what men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:31 PM
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A gay son because i dont want to get involved in my kids sex life trying to keep them sane and safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:28 PM
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Most dont. Ive talked to hundreds of incels over the years. Most of these men never get better because many are mentally ill. Depressed. Have no help. The issue here is. Red pillers think getting ripped at the gym will fix their internal misogyny. Self loathing. Hatred. Insecurity. Jealously. Sense of unsecurity. Fear. Etc. In reality thats not the case. If you dont actively fix your irrational thinking then it WILL become rooted into your every day life and actions. Those are called delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:26 PM
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Get a hair tattoo if you care about the aesthetic. Bald men dont look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:22 PM
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Sure its fun occaisionally but if this was the norm this sub would get banned asap. I think mainly the posts are too one sided. Its not fun if you cant see both extremes and in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:15 PM
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Obviously. This isnt big news. Im bold to claim this but i would say maybe half of all red pilled men are gay. Why you might ask. Well, if you hate women so much and can only connect with other men. Only make fun of womens appearence. Only complain about your unsuccesful relationships with women then theres a good chance youre gay and should move on. "Alpha" men are nothing but a joke. There is no such thing as an "alpha or beta" man. People who say this should probably go get their medication p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:12 PM
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If youre into gay erotism then sure. To you he might
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:27 PM
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Maybe if i went blind. Look up Tom of Finland and tell me he does not look like an homoerotic illustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:32 PM
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If youre a misogynist then youre mad. Hate comes from anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:14 PM
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Lmao wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:54 PM
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Thank you for your input passepar2t
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:42 PM
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Thats not what i asked Michael
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:41 PM
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When are we moving you to a retirement home Michael?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:36 PM
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I said this too. Dude literally looks like hes a drawing from Tom of Finland.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:35 PM
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Yawn. Too much shit in one post didnt read.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:33 PM
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Chris chan isnt your average male. Hes obviously moderately autistic and his whole family failed to protect and raise him. Not just his dad. He was never taught boundaries. Social language. He was never taught whats an appropriate way to flirt. He wasnt taught about sex or how to protect himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:31 PM
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My allergy medication. I dont use any drugs. Not even caffeine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:28 PM
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Okay better hide your content then pussy. Yeah. Your mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:27 PM
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Absolutely. I am not sure if ill ever have kids but its still important for my partner to have those traits. Theyre not just necessary for parenting. They say a lot about you as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:26 PM
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Newsflash. Looking at your public posts isnt stalking. Dont act like a retard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:23 PM
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Not a man but genuinely i wish more young men knew this. You dont have to settle for bad relationships. Youre allowed to have standards. Dont let people make you feel insecure about your physical traits. Its okay to be emotionally open. Dont tolerate abuse from anyone. Dont be insecure about being a virgin. Most people dont get as much as they say they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:21 PM
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You not being married doesnt exclude you from being a socioparasite. Get a grip
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:18 PM
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I think its a little embarassing how black women live in your head rent free. Go ahead. Show us your every day look. Do you wash your ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:51 PM
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Because its all written by people who dont know anything about attraction. You dont even have to be skinny for men to be into you. Theres literally a market for EVERYTHING when it comes to women. Unlike for men. You have two basic options. If youre seriously ugly and less intelligent youll have the best shot at finding guys by becoming a pick me girl. If youre pretty and smart youll have better luck by becoming the woman a man cant have. Get a good education. Be financially stable. Take care of …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:47 PM
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Hes not "ugly" but he looks like a fucking Tom of Finland character. Aka popular homoerotic illustrations. Google it youll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:41 PM
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Its because theyre greedy, intellectually cucked and mentally immature
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:37 PM
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Youre gay if you think the guy on the right is hot
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:35 PM
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Neither. Why do you think these two exclude eachother? I will probably never get legally married
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:33 PM
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Taiwan and australia*
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:01 PM
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Youre forgetting these arent americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:32 PM
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1 is not miserable at all 10 is ill kill myself tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:34 PM
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Whats wrong with your body
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:53 PM
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You must not have a good relationship with mommy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:51 PM
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So what im hearing is "i have mommy issues"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:49 PM
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To me you seem sad and maybe frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:22 PM
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Reddit makes people miserable. Ive deleted social media alltogether a few times. It does help. Ive seen your profile. Do you have any recourses for support?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:11 PM
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So what are you going to do about it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:59 AM
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I dont want to be mean but youre way too young to be here. Youre a smart young woman but these subs rot your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:50 AM
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Last time i checked women arent responsible for most STDs that exist. Men like to fuck animals too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:48 AM
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Ma'am theyre firefighters. A job which requires you to be in good shape. I dont think theyd hire retarded people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:46 AM
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Derogatory at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:39 AM
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Nothing? If theyre my parents then what will i do? Thats not my business to control.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:38 AM
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Well yeah. The people here say that because theyre just bitter that they cant have what others do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:36 AM
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Wheres your mothers place?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:33 AM
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Dont be mad at the sellers. Be mad at the consumers. Theyre the one keeping these women in business.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:32 AM
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Makes you look like a loser
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:28 AM
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That is a new low and its amazing how you dont even see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:28 AM
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You post on doomers. Talk about parasites after you get your shit straight
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:23 AM
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Then dont date those people. Nobody forces you to stay with toxic partners or friends even. Sure. And thats why you shouldnt do favors for people you dont care about. Treating your partner like how youd want to be treated is different though. They arent a stranger. Theyre your love. Its no wonder you are bitter if you think relationships shouldnt be mutually kind. And then complain about toxic relationships. Have some standards. Pick carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:41 AM
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Why do you care
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:36 AM
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Trad wifes are supposed to only be sexual to their husband. It doesnt matter what else you do youre still fucking other people
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:35 AM
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Så? If youre devoted to your man then why would you fuck other people? That sounds like you want to benefit yourself instead of your man. Arent pick mes supposed to not do that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:25 AM
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för att du är gift du måste vara med din man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:17 AM
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Säkert lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:10 AM
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Sure but your bare pussy is on display on reddit ma'am. And you publically announce about incels youd fuck..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:04 AM
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Yeah youre married to a cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:46 AM
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They dont marry whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:44 AM
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Wouldnt that make you a whore? Im pretty sure men dont like whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:41 AM
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I cant agree more. Heres a little secret some of you red pilled intellectually cucked and incel people forget: You no longer refer to real issues. You like to play the victim because thats easier than improving yourself. The more you keep writing and thinking about shit like this the more difficult itll be for you to EVER get into a loving relationship. You will never have a loving partner because nobody can love you if you treat them as an enemy and a cause for your misery. Swallow that pill ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:39 AM
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Youre comparing getting raped 10 times to not having tinder matches. Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:34 AM
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Shitass argument. If you have an empty life because you dont have kids then maybe you should get some hobbies. Most people should never become parents and most parents are horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:32 AM
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An incel only if they keep their mouth shut. Because maggots multiply. Incels dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:25 AM
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By another guy. I dont think i could deal with someone who buys sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:23 AM
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Youre saying this place is any better normally? Thats laughable. Only reason it hasnt been banned yet is because of the mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:22 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:26 PM
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Whatever peabrain
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:23 PM
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That 5% does include them you dumbo. 95% vs 5% to me sounds like you just wanna act opressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:22 PM
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FDS isnt some grandma knitting group so let me ask you again since you missed it. Its a very specific community and you make very specific posts. What do you get out of that community? I asked you a very genuine question and you instead reply thinking youre witty when you arent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:20 PM
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Around 5% of all rape allegations are false. You cant push the facts when they talk louder than you do. Besides. Nobody says that stuff is okay. Youre getting worked up because you have again no valid solutions and so you like to play the victim instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:18 PM
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Sure. But the majority of guys do. Especially growing up because were taught these standards about good and bad. Your latter statement is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:16 PM
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Men rape women. Stop bitching i can smell the soy all the way from there
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:11 PM
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Society being politicians and most of these politicians being men. Ok. Nobody forced you to fuck without a condom i dont think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:09 PM
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Anything youd get out of talking to women. No difference. Answer the question
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:07 PM
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You sure like complaining but you sure dont like offering legitmate solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:06 PM
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What in the fuck did i just read. If youre gay just say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:05 PM
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I dont. But some people do because that stuff is important to men. They know it upsets you. So they use it. They want to provoke you. So they say it. Your title is unfitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:01 PM
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What do you get out of posting on FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:59 PM
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After seeing their posts over the years i simply cannot agree with your statement. I dont think you understand. It isnt just advice for women. Like r/askwomen Its dating tips and things for women by women that are supposed to benefit ONLY women despite it being toxic to the other person. These are NOT mutually safe and sane relationships. To me fds is basically women being tired of being abused so their answer is to become the abuser instead of seeking equality. Because youre dating someone. Its…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:55 PM
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Im not gonna provide you links since i really dont want to even visit there. But if all of your relationships are completely one sided and you micromanage your partner then yeah youre manipulative. Isnt that their top rules? To only give advice that only benefit women. Purely. Thats not a relationship thats a trap lol. They also like to mock men and bash men for simple things like looks or not having a lot of money etc. Now. Im not saying everyone on FDS is crazy but i am saying its definitely a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:13 PM
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Have you actually ever seen some of their posts and what they talk about with others? They dont just avoid people. If they did the sub wouldnt exist. Im going to assume youre new to FDS or youre one of those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:06 PM
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You claim to know a whole lot about nothing. I have a challenge for you. Learn to have a genuine discussion without your internal rage kicking in. Im not interested in anything you have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:37 PM
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Cry more? I was having a genuine discussion until your raging moid hormones stepped in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:31 PM
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So what youre telling me is that youre an incel who doesnt actually talk to people? Youre just as delusional as OP
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:23 PM
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Show me one person whos not the top 1 % who gets that type of treatment. Never in my life have i met a woman like this. That "validation and companionship" is never genuine. And is always ran by an ultimate motive which is sex because youre right. A woman isnt worth a damn thing especially for men. Women are objects to a lot of men. If youre mad that it happends then you can blame yourself and other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:37 PM
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Damn i literally dont care. Go play elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:28 PM
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Sounds rough but i hope you get better
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:10 PM
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Its easy for you to think that way since youre a man, logically you wouldnt want to hate on your own gender. In reality men and women are the same no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:09 PM
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Do you go to therapy. Or have you ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:08 PM
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Go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:07 PM
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What are you? The reddit police? I dont care about what you have to say either. What am i supposed to argue against when there are no statements provided that are rooted in anything else than their personal delusions. If to you thats an insult then maybe youre browsing on the wrong subs. Its purge week here. Sit your ass down little boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:58 AM
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Neither did you by writing that reply. You cant argue with someone whos delusional to a point like this. I said what i thought. Its not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:48 AM
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I meant irl mostly. What kind of women on here are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:32 AM
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Alabama?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:55 AM
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Thats sad. Why not develop opinions of your own instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:26 AM
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Like what. I think youre bent on being stupid because you have no idea what words youre using here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:15 AM
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Having hobbies doesnt make you a tomboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:59 AM
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Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:47 AM
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This is so encridibly retarded I cant get over it. Its pretty clear you dont talk to women and are far detached from reality. Very few people get what they want handed to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:33 AM
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Not really. Theyre not exactly similar but not opposites either. Most women on fds arent incels but are rather "low value women" trying to seem high maintenance. Theyre misandrists who manipulate men. Redpillers are mostly incels who whine instead of doing anything. They would manipulate women if they had the chance. Both are entitled. Delusional narcissists who also lack empathy and social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:29 AM
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Get off the sub literally if youre so easily influenced you shouldnt be here. Youre willingly rotting your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:25 AM
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oh thats weird. I thought the demographic would be 100% - stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:29 AM
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Similar interests. Good social interaction skills. Funny. Similar values and mutual interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:27 AM
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He looks completely normal. Youre one sick and miserable human being if you take pics like this of others and make fun of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:25 AM
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No. Because most of them look for traits that are irrelevant to a succesful relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:24 AM
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So then what is a tomboy according to you? Someone who has hobbies? Lame
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:22 AM
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So dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:19 AM
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This is the hard truth lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:17 AM
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Then date men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:17 AM
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Its literally a fetish just like any else. So yeah. There are people into things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:15 AM
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Is this a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:08 AM
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We wont go extinct because of lack of sex. We will go extinct because of pollution. Which btw also effects mens sperm count and fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:06 AM
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The worst scenario ill be in 20 years? Ill be dead. Thats the worst one. If something so bad happends where am not able to dig myself up ill simply kill myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:01 AM
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Incel. Theres nothing inherently bad about them. Never in my life would i even irl talk to someone whos into red pill shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:59 AM
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Oh of course. I almost forgot you provide no scientific facts for anything
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:03 PM
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Yeah i am a woman. Whats wrong with providing mens feet pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:01 PM
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Why would you want to listen to misandrists?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:52 PM
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Do you mean you awknowledge the truth sides from redpill or you support and believe in all of it? If the latter then i dont think you can be a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:51 PM
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Well. As described. Theres no rules to posting or guidelines. You can post whatever content relevant here even toxic stuff as long as you follow reddits own guidelines
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:49 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:47 PM
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Ive participated once under an alias. I have nothing else to say
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:45 PM
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I can get you pics of mens feet. With toenail infections
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:43 PM
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Simple. Because they are insecure pushovers. They seek male validation to feel better about themself. Not because they want you to be special. It doesnt matter to them which mans boots they lick. As long as its a man theyre fine with whatever. They put other women down because of their insecurity. They feel the need to compete because if they acted normally nobody would go for them. So if thats your kind of a woman then go for it. But dont expect them to also be emotionally and financially indep…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 08:15 PM
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No its not. You dont have to buy into either extremes of these dumb shitass ideas from people that will never effect your life. Its your body and your bodily autonomy. Its your life and you should NEVER do something youre not comfortable with just because others do it. Dont be a sheep. Dont be afraid to get judged by these people. Their opinions are irrelevant in the end. If you feel like waiting then please do so. Youll find someone who you can trust. Its better to do that than to regret going …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 08:09 PM
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I dont have that many dealbreakers and im not willing to compromise on any of them because they all effect my future and safety along with if were actually getting along or not. So yeah id rather be alone then. Relationships are only worth it if you date someone you genuinely like. If its not mutual then its a waste of time and energy. Im not going to waste time on a misogynist or something. If you ever catch me doing that, i can guarrantee ive had some kind of brain trauma because i have no rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 08:01 PM
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Some do some dont. I wouldnt because i have nothing to gain from it. Im fully content and happy with my partner. And i would consider myself as a decent person who doesnt do scummy things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 08:31 AM
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So bad i couldnt even tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 08:30 AM
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They really dont. And "standards being lowered" is clearly not true. Do you ever travel? Do you look at different people from a variety of ethnicities? Some cultures deem traits beautiful that others dont. Being extremely thin is considered a good thing in japan while in america being curvy is considered good. Attraction is never just looks. There are multiple psychological factors that play part in it like body language and mannerisms. And yeah it kinda does change the fact that there arent inh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:55 AM
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Nope. Your biological self would not be attracted to blow up doll looking women and giga chad meme looking men. Your biological self is attracted to normal mature, healthy bodies. Pulling the "its biological" card is also bs because many "ugly" traits have never been bred out of existance. Humans dont mate like birds do. There is nothing natural about being attracted to highly surgically altered bodies. Sorry. But its just not that way. Beauty is subjective. There is no "more attractive than oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:51 PM
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Yeah. It is unfortunate. And society also grooms people into believing certain traits are ugly and pretty. If those norms didnt exist we wouldnt have as many problems as we do today
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:26 AM
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It depends. What do you really seek in that love? Companionship? Are you afraid of being alone? Or do you just want someone to have a good time with? Trust? Loyalty? Entertainment? Lust? List goes on. Are your expectations realistic? If yes then are you being selective enough? Not all people will be compatible with you. If you truly find the right person it feels like everything youve ever wanted and more has been satisfied. Love is truly good only if it can be mutually shared and experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:21 PM
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I dont think plastic surgery should be encouraged to men or women. Just admit it. Nobody gets plastic surgery for themself. You did not get plastic surgery to feel better about yourself. You got plastic surgery so others wouldnt make you feel as bad. I think plastic surgery has become dangerously normalized. I wouldnt want to set up my kids with an example like "you need to change your body surgically to be accepted and loved by society" thats some fucking bullshit. You have one life. Why would …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:13 PM
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Agreed. Theres no point in living for others needs rather than for yourself. You have one chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:07 PM
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I think the preppy ones or athletic types tend to overestimate while the typical 'incels' arent nearly as bad looking as they think. Narcissists overestimate. Depressed/people with low self esteem people underestimate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:59 PM
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Thoughts? I dont care i support it if theyre confident in what they want. Its normal. Most of the time dysphoria can be rooted in gender norms rather than purely sex. Were the only species of animals that have gender and sex. It would go without saying that it can cause issues for some people. So again I think theres nothing particularly special about being trans. Its very normal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:55 PM
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What incels say is overexaggerated. But i definitely think what other women would say as "average" or even "ugly" is what guys still find decently pretty or good looking. I think it also depends if you as a woman go out looking for that male validation. How you socialize with men. You can be the most attractive woman on earth, but if you actively avoid male attention and react extremely negatively to male attention. Sooner or later people will stop giving it to you more or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:51 PM
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Then what country has the best looking people?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 03:39 PM
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Well i know they meant it as a sex positive message but personally i really dislike these type of approaches because they can groom young women into this type of stuff trying to call it off as empowerment when in reality they have absolutely 0 benefit from it. It isnt my life. So it isnt my business. But i think it should be adressed that you cannot market this stuff to teenage or preteen girls. It is a mature topic meant for mature women. You need to protect your kids. You need say things age a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 03:20 PM
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I dont find any guys sexually appealing besides my current partner but i can appreciate beauty in others in an artistic sense. Body type and face is what often stick out. But most important feature on a larger scale is style 100%. Aka what theyre wearing. What style hair do they have etc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 03:16 PM
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Then youve not talked to rad fems. You just think you have. A lot of them arent heterosexual either so. Youd know this if you read their literature because they have their own theories on for example BDSM culture. Either way you could say this broad generalization you just said about men as well. To me you sound like you think you know more than you do. I dont care to hear about that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 04:00 AM
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Thats a hard question. Itd be easier to ask what flaws i cant tolerate. I dont mind most things so its far easier to say what you dont like. I guess i consider being inpatient a flaw which i can tolerate. And mental health issues. I really cant come up with anything else atm
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:06 PM
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Dont know if this is a joke or not but its literally the opposite. Rad fems aka terfs are also against women who enjoy being submissive sexually. They literally hate that shit lol how do u not know?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:07 PM
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Imo you have realistic standards when youre looking for your equal and not a higher up than you yourself. Do you have the same qualities? Or can you atleast manage to do what you expect out of them? Or do you have ATLEAST some what the same qualities? Or other positive redeeming qualities (lets say you want someone whos patient youre not but youre flexible) no? Then you dont have realistic standards. Im not saying its impossible to date someone whos "higher up" than you but if you do that then s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:23 AM
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No. You cant change the fact youre balding. Bald men dont look bad either if you have a sense of style
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:18 AM
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No its not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:18 AM
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Yeah lol, thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:39 AM
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Save yourself from her brainrot for real ive never heard a single good take from her IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:36 AM
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I dont talk with this woman for a reason lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:34 AM
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I think society absolutely does groom women into being submissive. Youd know this if you were a woman. Youre taught certain things. And media portrays submissive women as a trait you SHOULD be if you want to be loved. But besides that. In a sexual sense atleast its entirely possible for both men and women to want to be submissive and like being submissive. It comes down to personal preferences. I think in a non sexual sense even those who claim to be submissive by choice arent being fully honest…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 05:24 AM
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They are. There for nobody should have to become a parent if they dont wish to. There for abortion should always be a legal, safe option. And men who never wanted to become parents shouldnt have to pay child support. Which btw doesnt happen in many countries because the government covers it instead. Your thinking is absolutely gross considering having a baby for a man means only affecting his financial status at best. But for a woman its time consuming. Physically permanently altering. Mentally …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:11 PM
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Not to be rude to others but it seems this might just be one of the few good comment here that doesnt reek of insecurity or superficial manchild attidute. These are the genuine traits that matter when looking for a compatible partner. So good to hear atleast someone knows what proper priorities to look for
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:08 PM
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Ive heard quite many stories from women who broke up after discovering their dates hygiene habbits. So no women dont disqualify guys before that either. Just because you mightve been rejected before women discover your shitty butthole doesnt mean thats the case for everyone. Obviously what i said is half jokingly so its exaggeration. But being obese isnt really a valid excuse not to care about hygiene and i can also guarrantee people who have health related limitations arent and dont want to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:53 PM
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Yes thats what i said. The six weeks is still too short because if youve recently had your period youd be waiting 3-4 weeks for your next. Then youd be wondering why its late. Then youd take the pregnancy test. Thatd be already 5 weeks worth of time at best. Keep in mind some women have longer or irregular period cycles. For example ive had my cycle over 40 days long when i had issues with weight. And yeah that is an issue. But especially this law targets young women. Some of them have no recour…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 11:46 AM
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I like monogamy and i think its the only way i can personally operate in my relationship. I think biologically it makes the most sense because of how humans mate and how our life cycle is like keeping in mind how long it takes for human offspring to mature. But i also think monogamy is not meant for everyone and for those people its better off not to be monogamous. People have different needs and dating styles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:18 AM
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Attraction can be different for everyone and attraction itself isnt always a simple concept. Some people can find multiple people and traits attractive. People function differently. Some people need an emotional connection first to be attracted to someone. Some people dont require that and go off by just physical appearence. For me personally its been the opposite kind of. I definitely need an emotional connection first to even attempt dating someone. But with my partner i have never legitmately…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:07 AM
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By your logic every time youve had sex youve also consented to becoming a parent. Yet youd be the same person who whine about having to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:00 AM
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No. Thats why birth control exists. You dont consent to parenthood when you consent to sex. Abortion until birth? That doesnt even exist. I think 14 weeks should be the max time to have an abortion. Because after that its questionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:57 AM
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Well we say that because 6 weeks is nearly impossible or often impossible to get an abortion that early. In most cases you wouldnt even know youre pregnant before 6 weeks is over. Because you know. Women have a period cycle. And pregnancy tests dont show results before missing your first period ATLEAST.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:54 AM
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Well glad you asked redback spider. However sweating isnt unhygienic on its own. Sweat releases hormones which are biologically proven to be found attractive in many species including humans. But when you reek of piss and tobacco thats not the same now is it. I dont understand why youre saying "let us be men stop shaming us" bla bla bla. Sit down. Having greasy hair and literal shit stains in your underwear would turn anyone off. Just have basic hygiene. Clean your house. Every person has their …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:49 AM
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Kinda a shit take not going to lie. Feminism has reduced age gaps in dating. People divorce for multiple reasons usually because the relationship is just not working out. Why would you advocate for a miserable marriage? It takes a toll on men too lol. Tldr you dont know what feminism actually is and your life is revolved around reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:42 AM
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Cut the internet for a month. Sign up to a social program or therapy at best to discuss and move forward from trauma or fear from rejection and negative self image and stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:36 AM
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This a 100% You will ultimately find your relationship mutually more rewarding by also being friends. Not just partners. Best case scenario your SO is also your best friend. Same thing happened with my partner
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 07:49 PM
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Thats your personal problem. Why do you have to want to date every single woman you ever meet? I dont want to date 99.999% of the men i meet. You pursue the women youre interested in romantically. And you befriend those who you arent interested in sexually or romantically. Youre digging your own hole by making this nonexistent issue an issue for yourself. Why cant you befriend women? What does that say about you as a person? If you did that youd also understand women far better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 07:34 PM
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Both psychopaths and autistic peoples brains differ from neurotypical people but thats besides the point. Did you always understand math? No? So you had to learn and try before you could do it right. This goes for anything. You wont understand shit about anything or anyone if youre unwilling to try. All you need to do is participate and listen. You wont know every single detail about a persons life. You wont exactly know how it is to grow up as a woman vs a man but you know what you CAN do? Ask …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 07:29 PM
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Nobody is talking about understanding someone personally because you will never be another person. But if you cant read basic emotions and social norms then i hate to say it but you just might be autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 07:19 PM
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Tell me about it lol. Its like OP is forgetting how things back in the day ACTUALLY were for women. They just couldnt speak out on it because they were censored. Think women suffrage. Abusive marriages. List goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 06:58 PM
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Befriend women. You cannot possibly understand people without socializing in a normal context. I hung out with boys ever since i was in day care. You learn social norms and etiquette by observing and participating in it. You cant understand women if you only view them as some magical different species. You cant understand women if you dont fundamentally believe were the same as anyone else. Man or woman or whatever. What you think are "mind games" are most often just female social etiquette. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 06:49 PM
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Hey if insert strawman then why dont you insert unreasonable request
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 12:01 PM
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Do you mean self proclaimed" strong independent women" or actual "strong independent women"? Theres a big difference between those who larp and those who put the work in. I would argue this is a very politically driven demographic. Usually men who want a submissive housewife are right wing traditional/conservative men. Non political or left wing men are usually the opposite when it comes to looking for partners. Women who actually do things for themself could not care less for male validation. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 11:45 AM
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Well it depends. Some people date for the person. Some people date for social entertainment. Theres tons of people who stay in toxic relationships for the sake of?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 06:45 AM
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Well what do you wish from such woman? What do you want to feel? Or do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 06:43 AM
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Yeahhhh i get that. I kinda feel the same honestly. If my current partner left me i would rather just stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 06:42 AM
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What makes it worth staying with your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:39 PM
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There are tons of studies on this. You just dont work in the field so you dont know. Look into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:24 PM
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Well actually. Someone already answered this but it has nothing to do with evolution, and everything to do with human consumption. Its been recently studiet and confirmed that microplastic in our food, cosmetics etc can alter hormone levels both for men and women. Though typically the effect has been significant in men. Because it lowers testosterone. Microplastic isnt the only reason however. Its what we use and consume every single day. If youre a smoker. Your fertility will decline. Some loti…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:23 PM
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Im not nearly perfect to begin with and id obviously be biased because i would know how to read both male and female social language. So maybe? I often think about what itd be like to be a man. I think i would do okay. I wouldnt obviously be pulling women left and right because thats really rare and requires looks too. And i would also assume there would be few specific types of women who would be attracted to my type. Still my main issue in dating as a man would be that i am shy. If you know ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 04:42 PM
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Fbi open up?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 04:33 PM
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I dont think its okay to do that under any normal circumstances. Unless you have legitmate reasons to suspect your partner is doing something behind your back. First of all. Ask. Ask and discuss. Talking can solve misconceptions or bring out lies which youll notice. Otherwise youre a terrible person for doing that. What i think about that fds post is that its absolutely pathetic and disgusting. Only a crazy person would be fine with that. The whole sub is hot garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 06:20 AM
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ISTJ, female, in college. No pill, all the pills hold some truth but are ultimately stupid and a waste of time to keep yourself bitter and miserable. They were only entertaining to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 09:52 AM
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I used to have only guy friends as a child. In my early teens i got female friends and some male friends. I interacted with both sexes normally, platonically. We hung out because we were musicians and used to play together, with my female friends i played music and did whatever else. So i would say i have had a diverse experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 09:46 AM
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I mean like you said both sound bad honestly. Id still pick the "boring man" because i myself tend to be very organized and careful. I could not stand irresponsible actions like the "ridiculous man" would do. Let alone itd be too much for me to handle. I hate it when people dont have any input to a converstation but i can tolerate it. My understanding of romance isnt very fancy so i guess i could tolerate not having much affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 09:07 PM
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I have a few basic "requirements" because otherwise i absolutely wont be able to connect with them on a personal , emotional level. Good communication, same or atleast some similar interests/hobbies i have, loyal, committed, intelligent, same values as i have, must be attracted to me, must be able to show affection and recieve affection, similar kinks Thats about it really. For appearence i do absolutely not care what so ever. Only things i typically like in appearence are brown hair, some facia…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 08:58 PM
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I cant answer all of that but ill focus on the title and some parts. this is just MY own personal answer. I dont speak for others. I do not need a man for anything. I dont need a man for a relationship. If i was single id be just as fine. But my own relationship is important to me because it offers me company and someone who understands and cares about me. Who i can also interact and share that type of connection back. Its the commitment of having someone who you value and love so much and being…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:46 AM
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What does marriage have to do with any of that. Why marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:31 AM
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Nobody said anything about motivation. Motivation and MOTIVE are completely different things. Some people who get groomed are locked in because who doesnt want nice things done for them? Being desperate provides the other person with nothing. Either way neither are good
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:36 PM
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I might be wrong but id say the difference is the motive for doing that. Usually people who love bomb others have other intentions and tend to be manipulative people. Where as desperate people are also clueless in that way. And have no "evil intentions". Also someone whos desperate might not actually do anything "nice" to get a partner and are instead entitled. where as with love bombing thats their only approach to get a partner. I think also you dont really plan to be or act desperate. It just…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:52 AM
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No. Theres multiple reasons why DV is so high here. People come from different backgrounds. We have a high rate of alcohol abuse especially common with men. There are more than just one factor for that. Im sorry but you should not be talking on things you know nothing about. Ive lived here my whole life. Finland is a safe country for both men and women in comparison to others. Still that doesnt mean that bad things dont happen at all. Its not a perfect society. That doesnt exist. I dont even kno…
/r/MensRights01/08/21 11:12 AM
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Finland is one of the most dangerous countries for women in the EU. Because of a high domestic violence rate. We have good laws on equality, but women are still facing these basic struggles like rape and domestic abuse. That puts us in a disadvantaged position in a way where men arent. Is it really that difficult to comprehend?
/r/MensRights01/08/21 10:57 AM
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I dont really understand why its so common in the usa while most other (christian) countries dont practise it nearly as much. Its unconsentual. Genital mutilation. Theres no good reasons for it. Even the medical reasons are questionable. You can get circumcized when youre older and if you want to. No excuse to do it on a baby.
/r/MensRights01/08/21 10:53 AM
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Do you not understand that its like that because of the fact that women were in a disadvantaged position before?. I dont understand why you would bring this up when we have tons of other laws for gender equality and discrimination. If you are talking about "improving womens status" in the recent years. Those promises by politicians were aimed at immigrant women and women from poor backgrounds. Do your goddamn research please.
/r/MensRights01/08/21 10:50 AM
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This is purely incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:25 PM
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Purely depends on what status youre starting from. If youre an old ex prostitute drug addicted single mom then your chance of becoming "a high value woman" is extremely low. If youre an incel man without a job or goals, your social skills, possibly looks and most importantly, being outcasted and having bad social skills would make it difficult to be a "high value man" If youre a normal person. Male or female. As long as you put the work in, youll become succesful. Atleast somewhat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:13 PM
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How big of a age gap are you talking? Because that makes a pretty big difference
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 05:37 PM
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Gross. Never comment to me again. What is wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:02 AM
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And its not for men? Arent men typically the agressors. Just drop it. Which is what you just mentioned. Hiking. Playing music. literally any physical activity. Not sitting around gossiping. It makes me pissed off because you say shit you think i dont know. When its the most obvious thing EVER. You just dont know what youre on about. Men arent that difficult to figure out. And youre not making yourself look very smart by larping as an intellectual when youre clearly just sexist and like saying th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:21 PM
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I would explain but i dont have time to spill out my whole philosophical ideology about social interaction, inequality and bunch of other shit. So that one you can go figure out yourself like we all have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:19 PM
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Wrong approach
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:08 PM
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You seem to have a very naive way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:49 PM
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Lol? You think i havent done that? Dont be ridiculous. Edit: seriously holy shit. What an assumption. Actually makes me angry not going to lie. That is LITERALLY what i did with my male friends. Never have i ever just sat around talking about gossip bs. Give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:10 PM
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Plastic surgery should only be for people whove been mutilated in an accident or had a significant injury. Other cosmetic plastic surgery is different. You cant deny that its societally an unhealthy standard which should not be upheld. Its a bandaid on a mental health issue often times.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:07 PM
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This is. Exactly. What. I have been. Saying. PLEASE just read.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:59 PM
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Common misconception again. Just go to the comments please.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:54 PM
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I did not mean you as you personally. Just "you" as in any man who would do that. Only part where i meant you as personally is when i asked what benefit do you get from men that you cant get from women? Which you didnt answer. I said i know that already to the parts i didnt respond to with more info. I also never mentioned misogyny. I say gender because saying sex but also mentioning sex is confusing to some. I think most men absolutely do have the chance to make female friends. I dont see why t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:49 PM
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Just read the comments or the disclaimer please.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:40 PM
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Is that really an excuse though. Not every male teen had a cumsock either. Isnt that more about self control and an unhealthy relationship with porn
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:10 PM
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But i did. Because that is my original point as you can see from the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:07 PM
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Its unfavorable when you just want platonic. Friendly companionship. Not everyone wants that from men but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:50 PM
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Understandable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:49 PM
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I already replied to you about this. Please just read.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:46 PM
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Yes thats what ive thought about. Good argument finally.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:41 PM
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Billion people have said this. Im aware. That nobody is obligated. But if your standard is again. "I dont befriend women simply because theyre women" that is sexist. Its like saying "i dont befriend black people because theyre black" its racist to say that. Its sexist to say that. Ive already said this once.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:39 PM
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Just stop using those dumb smileys and ill actually read it. Like i said the other person gave you a good response.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:21 PM
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Yeah i dont want to hear your vent session on my thread because its unrelated as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:15 PM
1

No, unrelated to gaming
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:12 PM
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I know this already. The difference is. You dont treat literally anyone else like that than women. Only women are sexually interesting to you so you do that to women. Do you not see how thats objectifying? Its gross. What benefit do you get out of your male friends? Give me a good reason why you cant get that same benefit out of a female friend. Stop treating women as your little sex doll. Its gross. Im so sick of it. Personally. Sick of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:12 PM
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I dont know who youre referring to but this isnt the right post for your venting session
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:58 PM
0

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:57 PM
1

Googoo gaga
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:51 PM
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Theres nothing left to respect about men then either. Shit argument. Try again
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:46 PM
2

To me it is because that is just so superficial. I cannot stand it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:41 PM
1

Yeah thats not cool at all. In my case ive not had proper loyalty from either gender
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:34 PM
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Youre mad because i told you to go look instead of explaining this to every single person individually. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:26 PM
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Thats gross to me. I would hate to have a relationship like that. Actually disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:25 PM
2

I know this and elaborated a hundred times
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:20 PM
1

I can understand that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:20 PM
0

I thought men like cars and football
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:19 PM
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Go read what i mean by "respect" theres too many of these pointless comments
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:18 PM
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That never happened
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:17 PM
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No. In a way it does because like ive stated a million times. Men do not respect women or treat them as an equal because they tend to befriend women only for a potential relationship. While women befriend men for a platonic one. So when you dont want to return sexual favors you get treated badly. And if again talking about personal experience. Thats false. All of them did like me personally. All of them also stopped talking to me because i didnt want a relationship. I wanted a friendship. I know…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:15 PM
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Youre kind of proving my point again like many men here are. Your intentions were to date / fuck a woman. Not to befriend a woman. You didnt go on a date to be friends. You were friends only after noticing youre not sexually or romantically interested in her. Thats what makes it inequal. Because many women go to befriend men purely for platonic friendships and nothing more. While men do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:09 PM
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Well theres loads of ways that can be classified as bad treatment. In most extreme cases being abuse. Least extreme cases being something like ghosting. No, youre not obligated to be someones friend. But if you go to befriend women purely to expect sexual favors from them, then youre just an asshole who cant see women as equals. You only see them as a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:06 PM
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Well thats good for you, hasnt been so lucky for me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:03 PM
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No. Youve clearly misunderstood the core point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:02 PM
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Yeah dont come to me with that bs alright?. Again please go read comments for my definition of respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:01 PM
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I just think plastic surgery is very toxic and unecessary. I wouldnt want him to get it because of that. No. I have enstablished some very important core values for my life and relationships. This is one of them. My partner shouldnt have to feel insecure about that with me. Pregnancy has a few permanent changes yes one of them being breast tissue changes. You dont blame them. But should they have to? After having kids. Why should they? Isnt that a bit ungrateful?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:59 PM
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Elaborate on that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:54 PM
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I am aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:48 PM
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I do not prefer male friendships anymore. Maybe as a kid i did. Just read my other comments
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:45 PM
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They arent obviously but they should be. I never said men should treat a woman as a man. Infact thats completely against what ive said.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:44 PM
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Incorrect. And no i dont agree with keeping orbitters. Its a waste of peoples time and very narcissistic. Its gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:38 PM
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I cannot bring myself to read a comment with that many emojis, sorry The person below me gave a decent response
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:34 PM
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Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:29 PM
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Thats just blaintantly sexist and again incorrect. You seem to know nothing about the sex work industry so politely stop. I wont be reading your comments anymore. Its a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:27 PM
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That is complete bs and actually delusional. Prostitution is an argument for another day so stay on topic or dont comment. I dont even have the energy to go off about prostitution. It is absolutely not a priviledge. This is an absolute fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:25 PM
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Ive had more bad experiences with women overall but in this case yes ive experienced this too but also seen it otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:20 PM
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This is a CMV post. Youre very bitter. Dont comment at all if you cant provide a civil argument
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:13 PM
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Bro shut up omg
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:12 PM
1

Yeahhh i know this sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:12 PM
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Because because i would prefer to not live in a rotten smooth brain society?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:09 PM
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Youre on purplepilldebate people generalize here all the time. This is a CMV post meaning your purpose is to provide a counter argument. Again read what i mean by respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:06 PM
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Omg how is this related to me dating??? Stop
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:05 PM
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Very true^
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:04 PM
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You realize its not a matter of who i persue right? This is a societal problem. Not a personal one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:59 PM
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Yeah so again proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:57 PM
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I would say before i did have more of a reason than i do now. I get along better with men and share similar hobbies more often with men than women. I have a long term partner so im not interested in messing around. Ive had female friends throughout my life as well but some dynamics just work better than others
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:57 PM
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Yes kind of. My definition of respect you mightve missed. Otherwise what you said is EXACTLY what i mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:55 PM
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Because if the bf wasnt involed youd have very little problem saying that. Because men dont mind risking a friendship for a relationship. Because men want more
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:54 PM
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Yeah so again, my point proven
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:50 PM
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Thats what IM arguing about men though. I cant speak for everyone. But with a lot my friends and i. That hasnt ever happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:49 PM
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I dont think prostitution is a priviledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:47 PM
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I dont really know what that other "something" could usually be since you didnt provide examples. I dont know that personally, neither do i know that generally. That does seem like a fair point but if i reflect on my past friendships. I do not know what more i couldve possibly done.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:43 PM
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Fair argument but not true in my own experience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:41 PM
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God. Ive explained what i meant by "respect" so many times now. Please go read those comments
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:32 PM
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Well yeah but this post was more about women who want platonic friendships. So in that case what you said would be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:31 PM
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No i enjoy mens company a lot, just as platonic friends. If i have to offer sexual favors then yes. You dont give your bro a blow job just because youre horny. Youre also not just my friend if you expect that from me while were supposed to be just friends. Its just wrong. Oh no they didnt trash talk me but basically yes ive had a few instances like this. Dont normal friendships offer non sexual things mutually? Because thats what you imply. Which is true. So why then do i as a woman have to be e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:29 PM
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Misogyny was not mentioned here not even once. Then why do you treat all women like that? I understand its hurtful but why? Why treat all women you meet with those intentions? It means you generally dont see women as anything more than a sexual / emotional opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:25 PM
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Yes. And it ahouldnt be. Its fucking disgusting beheaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:22 PM
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That is a good point. And no i dont expect attraction to be controlled. But the fact that youll treat a woman worse now just because she doesnt want to fuck you is imo wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:20 PM
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Your comment makes no sense. How is it a boundary to begin with "not wanting to be friends" simply because youre a man and theyre a woman. Isnt that a little bit sexist? Its like saying your boundary is not wanting to be friends with black people just because theyre black. Do you understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:18 PM
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No. It means that you wont automatically treat someone badly because they wont want to fuck you. Or be used for your own benefit. Is it that hard to understand? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:16 PM
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Yeah i know. I guess theres loads of reasons for why men dont respect women. This was just my post which i wanted to do because of the whole CMV thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:15 PM
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Your comment doesnt really make sense. How is "men treating other men like women" opression? Give me an example. I dont know. I would rather say men dont want to treat you nicely unless youre beneficial to them sexually or emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:14 PM
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Youre talking about military and sports while im talking about being treated as a normal human being instead of a hole to fuck and benefit off of sexually/romantically simply because youre a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:08 PM
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Were not in the same page at all so its very difficult for me to respond. Like ive said in this post i couldve used a better word instead of respect but did not know of any. I do not mean respect in a sense of "i look up to you" I mean respect in a way were youll be treated normally, and not as an opportunity to have sex with. You dont do that to your male friends. Only happends to women really. Because otherwise youre not worth being treated "respectfully"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:07 PM
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By who
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:02 PM
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What were you going to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:01 PM
2

That can be a valid/fair argument
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:58 PM
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Honey. If you want you can go read my other comments, i dont have the energy to explain it to every single person seperately
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:55 PM
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This is what i mean
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:54 PM
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No. Just no. Whatever, you miss the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:53 PM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:51 PM
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Okay? How exactly. Even if so then what do you expect. Youre on purplepilldebate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:48 PM
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I have gotten along better with men than i have with women. Men also typically share my hobbies. Unlike most women. I dont want to do "boyfriend activities" i want a normal friendship. Completely platonic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:28 PM
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Then youve clearly missed my point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:19 PM
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Yeah this is kinda my point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:09 PM
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I understand that because in my other comments ive already explained this. I did pretty much only hang out with males before. Ive always gotten along better with men. Im aware of the social differences. The latter of what you said is what im looking for as an explenation. Its true. A 100%. But theres also other reasons for why platonic friendships are difficult nowadays. But what ive said in another argument about the "respect" part. Is that is it really okay that every female either has to be l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:06 PM
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People did already provide good counter arguments without having to resolve to personal matters. Why it is is what ive observed. Thats it. Theres no deeper meaning. You yourself arent really providing a good argument when you keep digging about stuff thats simply untrue or incorrect. I dont know what else you want me to say
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:02 PM
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Yeah its unfortunate im sorry for what happened to you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:53 PM
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Not my point at all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:48 PM
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When youre making incorrect assumptions about my personal life then yes. Because technically thats not anyones business and also technically its breaking this subs rules since personal whatever detailed posts etc arent allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:42 PM
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If i do that i would rather elaborate privately
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:39 PM
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Im not going to do that since its completely unrelated and your commenting on a porn account. That is just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:38 PM
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How is this related to my post at all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:37 PM
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Again. That is incorrect and i would not like to elaborate because that isnt really any of your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:36 PM
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I dont think you can honestly say that because you dont really know me or my background.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:32 PM
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Finally another good argument! Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:30 PM
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Its a CMV post please provide a counter argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:28 PM
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Like i said. Bad argument. Im not a old skank.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:01 PM
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Elaborate on that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:56 PM
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I dont really want to personally get into why male friends are important to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:53 PM
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I dont think a hair transplant is worth it. If im not okay with my bf telling me to get plastic surgery then neither am i okay with just telling him to get some. Bald men arent bad in reality. Its a natural process of aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:45 PM
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Yes thats why i labeled my post as CMV Sex. Relationships. Im not a child anymore so friendships with men arent really the same. From my personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:33 PM
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You claimed that men and women dont have similar interests or hobbies which isnt really true like you said gaming is becoming more diverse. Also like anime or something. Construction work is not a hobby. I did grow up with boys that is true yes. It is my own observation so thats why i labeled this as CMV and not as some study or fact. I asked people to challenge my view. Im again not old nor am i single.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:30 PM
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I would say i agree with what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:17 PM
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Rate myself in looks? In persona? Or what.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:15 PM
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The thing is. Maybe? But thats a stereotype. Theres still many women who are into male dominated hobbies. Like gaming or maybe motorcycle repairing or something. I myself am into one or two of these male dominated hobbies. Dude i dont understand what that last argument was about. Do you think after 30 women just are like " oh i would like to be treated normally now" If youd like to know. Im under 20. Ive noticed this since i was a preteen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:13 PM
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You should see what i defined as respect since i feel like were not on the same page. What i mean is, i shouldnt have to be treated as "one of the guys" to have a normal platonic friendship. Why is it way less common for a man to be "one of the girls"? That usually only happends if hes a gay male. Same with if youre a lesbian woman. Thatll happen more easily i suppose. My point is, just because im a woman i dont really feel like its cool for men to treat me as just a hole to fuck unless im "one …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:57 AM
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Yeah this is what i agree with but personally something im not a fan of.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:45 AM
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Simple answer yes. And yes ive done similar things to that. Edit: the thing is that. You should not have to be treated as "one of the boys" in order to get decent treatment or respect
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:41 AM
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That i can definitely understand. Good argument, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:39 AM
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Not sure if i understand what you mean but what i meant is that men are unable to have "respect" for you UNLESS they want you as a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:39 AM
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This feels like a proper argument. Ill give you that one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:36 AM
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Oh no i dont say this for all, just that it has been a pretty huge part of my life ive noticed. Ive made some genuine male friends. Just less easily now that im an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:35 AM
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Arent you a woman as well? I dont really know what to say to that other than youre incorrect. I was never a tomboy either. Those boys i used to hang out and be good friends with are very succesful today both academically and in the dating world. So no. They are not incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:31 AM
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So you proved my point?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:27 AM
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I know respect isnt the correct word here but its the best one i could use. Like i said i dont mean respect as in "i look up to you" but rather as. "I can treat you decently" Dumb example: you see a granny cross a road. You can treat them normally / "decently" by you know. Not pushing them on the pavement. Or yelling a slur at them. Thats what i mean by basic respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:25 AM
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I know this is just MY personal experience but ive been friends with purely men from my childhood to my teens. So in my experience. Ive exactly followed "the bro code" just that after around 14 years of age i was no longer treated the same despite being like "one of the guys" That is why i no longer have male friends really.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:22 AM
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This is what i forgot to write about. Heres my "argument" I dont mean respect in a way of "i look up to you". I mean respect in the most basic way of treating someone. You dont really go up to another man and call him a whore for not liking eachother. You also dont go up to another man and be angry at him for him not providing something for you. Its very hard to compare because again most of these instances have to do with flirting or sexual favors. But the difference is. How often do women seek…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:16 AM
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After giving birth it is biologically and physically literally impossible to go back to exactly how your body was before. I already explained this in another comment. If we dont talk about chronic issues that some women get after pregnancy. Then the most common and permanent changes are mainly to your breasts and uterus. And stretch marks if you get those. Again. Yes. Your diet plays a huge role in recovering and maintaining your weight but. AGAIN. Many women also have hormonal weight gain. Whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:11 AM
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I mean some people dont like that but to me thats not a "red flag" AT ALL. I feel the same and its responsible to do that. Infact itd be something i highly prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:18 AM
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It is a 100% percent true that after having kids your body will simply NEVER be the same as it was before. This is a well known fact by all medical professionals. Most permanent changes being done to your uterus and breasts. Those occur to all women. Other changes can be linked to genetics like stretch marks. In a way, its your own opinion wether thats called "ruined" or not. If you really want a family and kids then you must know these changes. And you must also not care about them as much. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:04 AM
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This is not true for all nearly everyone. You have also no experience or proper knowledge so you can stop larping. Everyone is different genetically, during and experiencing pregnancy changes your body wether you want it to or not. Hormonal changes also play a huge part in possible weight gain and body fat distribution. Thats also for why example some women on birth control can gain even 10 kilos easy. And some dont at all. Dieting does help, but some of these changes are purely out of your cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:55 AM
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Yes, they do. The whole idea of a mommy makeover is sad and fucked up let alone who do you think has money for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:50 AM
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Yeahhh except thats not "most guys like you" most men and women do care. You really cant say they dont when people talk about mom bodies in such a horrible derogatory way all the time. Not to include men who would rather dump their partner if she gains weight etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:48 AM
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You dont know anything about me or my ideology im sorry but either stay on topic or be clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:14 PM
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What the actual f are you on about? Since when is me not wanting to act like your mama alienation? Are you stupid or sum?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:12 PM
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Lol? Are you a social psychologist? Do you know about developmental psychology? You are simply delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:09 PM
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Youre talking about a pretty huge audience of people. Theres no way someone could realistically answer this just from personal experience. People sometimes go through different phases and life cycles. Sometimes they grow up or experience major changes that can also effect their goals etc. Its not possible to answer so, yes some do, no some dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:04 PM
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I dont know your nationality or ethnicity which is why i said i assumed. Based on your visited subreddits. And why are you bringing this type of unrelated lowkey racist stuff into this converstation. I could not care less. You never had to mention that. Again a racist stereotype. Most middle class families with daughters have a normal healthy relationship with both of their parents. Its a parents job to guard their child. We just dont have to obsess over guns and granades to do that. Are you goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:00 PM
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Equality is a basic sign of higher cultural development. This is a fact. You have barely any backbone for your argument. Why should we hold onto a sexist ineffective old way of life? Its completely ridiculous. I would rather kill myself than be a literal mom character for a husband. You also completely ignore the fact that the whole "womens role as emotional providors" thing is bullshit. Most women dont even have a better sense of caring or empathy than the average man does. This is a false illu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:49 PM
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If you have kids. Then sure? I guess. But if you want your gf to act like/as YOUR mother then i hate to break it to you but you can do your own laundry and cooking. You are a grown ass man who should be able to carry out basic tasks in the household. Theres nothing wrong with your gf providing you atleast sometimes in those ways. But it becomes an issue when that providing in the house is not equal. You arent a child. You dont need a caretaker. It doesnt really matter if it still exists in some …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:41 PM
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Idk why anyone would ever take serious dating advice from someone whos into the whole FDS dating realm. Its like taking advice from an incel. Neither of those groups know or have experienced what it is like to be in a normal, mutually respectful relationship. Its not that being "too obsessed with theory" is bad. Its just that where and what sources those theories are from makes a huge difference. You wouldnt listen to a yoga teacher talk about cancer treatment options and functions. You wouldnt …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:53 AM
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Is that shit for real?? Like did that actually happen? With those exact pics? Either way. I feel like doing that is a way of coping for some ppl when they feel bad about themself. Im not really for it since i dont think that type of validation should be seen as relevant. And it creates unecessary, unhealthy competition
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:54 PM
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Yes dont all people have AN ego. Just some have very low sense of ego Usually yes. Because once a man, or anyone for that matter gets used to being treated up to a certain standard. It makes them overly confident and entitled to said beheaviour there for raising their self esteem and ego. That is a psychological question and also genetic somewhat. Some people tend to have a very poor grasp on empathy making them more likely to be and act egoistic. In extreme cases this would be called narcissism…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:29 PM
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Yes. In my life. Ive met maybe one woman who cared about a mans income and financial state. If youre dating a popular girl, why are you surprised they are superficial? Its not a secret you know. I dont know your exes so i cant personally comment on that but you are seriously delusional if you genuinely believe that literally all women want a sugar daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:47 PM
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You sound like youve not talked to women outside of spaces that attract women like that. Which is not how things are in most any other places. Edit: i saw your profile and i noticed you seem to be struggling hard. Not all women are great. Neither are all men. You still cannot base your arguments on one or two experiences in a specific space like online dating. If you need someone to talk to i am available
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:49 PM
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Think logically
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:51 PM
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Most PEOPLE suck. Most people. Are not compatible as long term partners. If all you want is a one night stand. Then that is a different story. You sound very bitter and narrow minded since i can see you have a difficulty reading and understanding the very crystal clear point of my reply. This is not dating inclusive. You would not get along with a lot of people as friends or as coworkers either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:27 PM
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I have a good relationship with my own partner who i chose. Im really not obligated to like other people. I have never said "all men trash" because that is retarded. What i am saying. Is that you should not be getting so butthurt over the fact that very few people are actually compatible with eachother on a mental, and emotional level. The market sucks because dating is difficult for everyone if you want to find a proper. Good. Long term companion. Its not easy. And youve also never experienced …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:21 PM
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That change is purely genetic. For some it has absolutely no effect on sex drive. For some women it effects it a lot. Its hormonal birth control. Your body has literally hundreds of different mechanisms and many of those are hormonal. This change can go for any hormonal controlling medicine. Not just female birth control. Literally ADHD medication or antidepressants can cause loss of sex drive. This is not women inclusive. For me, i noticed absolutely no difference in my sex drive or mood while …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:34 AM
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Because the market sucks. It does not really matter if some random man is willing to date me when they themself are completely a horrible match and just not that interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:29 AM
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There is no way someone can answer this question for all women. I think it purely depends on what TYPE of a relationship they are going for. One night stand? Appearence and charm would probably be on the list. Marriage? Someone who they actually get along with. Someone who has similar goals. The list goes on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:28 AM
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Many of those "out of their league" women are actually really insecure. They dont have the confidence to stand up for themself or demand things. Let alone break off a toxic relationship. They reach for what they THINK is love. What they think is special.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:26 AM
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Its because most women just arent that empathetic. Youve just been led to believe that they are. Because thats a stereotype for what women are supposed to be like. Women can be just as heartless and cold as men. Youre relying on an old stereotype where women are submissive, caring and friendly. That is not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:23 AM
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Some women have a saviour complex, they get excitement and pleasure for acting like someones saviour their only hope. They imagine themself being the caretaker of said man and "making them better" Some women have a superiority complex. They are insecure so they want someone who is in their eyes "worse than themself" so the woman can easily control their partner mentally. They look for someone who will become dependant on them. Someone who they can use for fun and play mind games with until theyr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:21 AM
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I dont know what to tell you other than im speaking about this on a global level, not just the USA since i dont even live there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:08 AM
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About half of them are femcels trying to up their value to attract men. The other half is crazy people who do actually date and exploit their partner
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 11:04 AM
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The core ideology of prioritising your own life, goals and skills instead of a relationship is not misogynistic. But if you look what the average people on MGTOW say. Its pretty clear they have either some unresolved trauma that has manifested into a ball of hate. Or that they are just extremely bitter and still cant stop caring enough. The core isnt misogynistic. The people who say and believe in things that are clearly sexist and hateful are misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 11:02 AM
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I think the biggest difference between them are that neither want "bad" relationships. Its just that FDS women want to exploit men for their own benefit while MGTOW men avoid women for exactly that reason. Both suck ass and are nothing but an awful echochamber for absolute losers who dont have anything better to do with their life and values. Misandrists and misogynists are both extremely retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 10:59 AM
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I think porn in general for a lot of people is nothing but an automatic way of satisfaction. And feeling better because of a hormone rush. The way the porn industry is constructed along with what porn really is. A heavily ideolized version of sex and peoples bodies. Im sure its nearly impossible for an average consumer not to be influenced in some ways. Im not a psychologist neither a sex therapist so i cant exactly say how it effects people but i will say especially for young people it can warp…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 10:53 AM
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Yes. Exactly my point. And it should not be like that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:10 AM
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I agree. I dont think the base value of mgtow is necessarily bad but its a toxic echo chamber just like fds or incel subs. What ruined their ideology is the absolute misogyny and bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:08 AM
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I dont know if thats still true. It can be true for some people but you must have one fucking boring life if having a wife is your most exciting accomplishment. There are way more other far more better things in life to enjoy and do. I know dating for men and women is different but when you make sex the absolute priority in life youre probably better off doing something else. Theres many single women and men who are fine with just masturbating alone. Getting into a perfect relationship where bot…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:03 AM
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Yes so what you said is literally what i said. The other person wants you. But doesnt "need" you. You shouldnt either. Im not saying everyone is entitled. But a good amount of men feel as if they deserve to be in a relationship for whatever reason. A relationship will never fix that void. It will never fix your shit self esteem or other issues. Incels just think it will. It does not lol. It can for a while. But the issue never goes away until you stop needing people in your life rather than genu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:40 PM
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I think you fail to understand that before both genders were extremely dependant on eachother and its a bad thing. For a man, having no wife would mean no one to provide to. No motive basically. No family For a woman having no man would mean, youd either live in poverty and youd be extremely shamed on and looked down upon. You would virtually not be able to have a proper career because youre not married. Your rights were tied to you having a husband. It is a good thing for men and women not to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:04 PM
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What a great way to ignore basic history lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:58 PM
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If you live in a corrupt system which gets benefit and fuel from patriarchy. Like capitalism or fascism. Theres no way to simply get rid of it. "Manly" traits arent automatically patriarchy. You can be interested in providing. You can still be a go getter, a guider without stomping over everyone else and raping. Killing. Destroying. Manipulating and exploiting everything because those arent men "being men". Those are part of a patriarchy. Not sure if i understood your question right but thats wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:51 PM
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I dont think most people even like that. Both men and women. Everyone just pretends like its okay to do. Make clear your intentions and ask about the potential mates intentions. If both are looking for something casual. Then "spin plates" all you want. If theres no mutual agreement then just stop and find better people with similar intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:01 PM
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Just like most men dont appreciate non virgin women ¯_(ツ)_/¯ Both are unrealistic so it doesnt really matter. No one gets what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:50 PM
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Its difficult for woment to prefer virgin men because most men have high body counts. Its a minority that doesnt, depending what kind of women youre going for. Some will appreciate it. Some wont.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 06:32 PM
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Do you really think thats accurate though? Many women as well prefer men with a low body count, i dont think mens virginity is seriously shamed. Its just something other men like to joke about because men have typically a higher sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 05:30 PM
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Sorry i missed the flair on accident. What i can say from my partner is that when he was younger he definitely had major difficulty detecting which of his beheaviour wasnt acceptable. Today/now we both are pretty much on the same level when it comes to admitting wrong doings etc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 03:21 PM
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Both men and women should take care of their skin for their own health and wellbeing. BUT skincare products are a total scam. I have spend well over a 1200€ or about 1500$ on different skincare products and treatments since i was 12 years old. Its a huge sceme for companies to sell you product that either doesnt work or barely has any difference. From a scientific viewpoint as well most skincare products are made of substances that are ineffective or would take up to 8 months to have any effect …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 03:14 PM
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I usually reflect on my own actions or words and judge based on that. Depending on how serious the situation is ill admit im in the wrong pretty quickly. But in a less serious way itll take me a while since the "issue" isnt in a rush
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 03:09 PM
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Overall value in whos eyes? Womens? Mens? Or yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 03:05 PM
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