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Vyvansss/r/TheRedPill12/04/26 01:58 PM
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Act super clingy, available and into them.... They will probably lose interest. I also have the same... But I think a large part of it is because the girls want to try and get me... The ones I actually really like, not so much..
/r/seduction14/08/26 02:37 PM
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Be a bro and tell the BF. She's fucking with you and him.
/r/seduction14/08/26 02:35 PM
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Recommendations? I've seen this talked about regarding photos and building social media. Neither I have much interest in, but the style etc I can get behind.
/r/seduction10/08/26 03:59 PM
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Female gaze for pictures?
/r/seduction10/08/26 03:54 PM
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Fuck, hits home. I like the idea of being committed and also "being in love" But also, no one girl will ever give you the significance, attention etc than all the others can. Yes, call it ego boost, validation whatever... But most people know, it always feels better at the start of a relationship.
/r/seduction10/08/26 03:53 PM
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What problems specifically? Commitment, need for variety? Always comparing? Just curious from your experience.
/r/seduction10/08/26 03:49 PM
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I respect what you say bro and I tried to do all this. I've been with some insanely hot women. Perfect bodies, could be very successful context creators if they knew how to market themselves etc. Decided to not focus on these things and went for the "girl next door" based on what you said. Also she's older. She crushed me more than anyone.... Hurts like a bitch 😂
/r/seduction10/08/26 12:29 PM
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This is the reality I'm facing. I like the idea of "love, marriage" etc. but in reality not sure it's possible for me.. I don't do well with breakups unless it's completly amicable (how often is that) and the idea of completly betraying someone bothers me...
/r/seduction10/08/26 12:26 PM
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I haven't... I've been with a lot of women. Think mid 3 figures (no I don't think it makes me better or it's a flex etc) Met a girl who I thought was great... She wasn't a stunner, just thought she would be committed, wholesome, etc etc. Honestly crushed me more than any of them ever did.... Im not sure if I'll go back...as sad as it sounds. At this point I'm not actually sure if I could. I don't really sit well with the idea of cheating, but when you've been with so many women, I think it's har…
/r/seduction10/08/26 12:23 PM
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Tell all of them they're not your type and tell each one you're interested in a one of the other ones. They will fight for you.
/r/seduction30/07/26 09:03 PM
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I thought I this a few years ago, but it was mostly my fault... Bro, I was a major playboy last year... I was with multiple - XXX women. Some incredibly hot. Met a girl who I thought was incredibly wholesome. Not the standout in looks, but it felt completely pure. She has broken me.... I have messaged full of hot girls "I miss you, I wish you liked me" that I have such little interest in... The average girl next door crushed me, but all the hot ones do nothing for me... It is the worst. I had th…
/r/seduction26/07/26 12:07 AM
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Yeah, to some extent. I get told I'm attractive... Quite often, yet self esteem is quite low and don't back my self these days.... Need more Indian in me 😂
/r/seduction11/07/26 10:24 AM
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Honestly, years ago my previous relationships I was was not mentally stable and I wouldn't consider myself a terrible person at the core, I put my ex's though a lot of shit. Emotionally manipulative, and unstable, I can acknowledge that. Despite this, my ex's faught hard for me and I put them through hell before they finally gave up. I tried a lot to change my ways, be "better" honest, cut the games, manipulation etc etc. Stopped most of the toxic behaviours... Yet the women I've met since then,…
/r/seduction18/05/26 06:10 PM
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The first mistake is believing there is such thing as a 10.
/r/seduction18/05/26 05:29 PM
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I don't know many, I pushed many women away, was honestly very hot and cold and emotionally abusive and they always chase me back, never leave. Worked hard to change my ways, thought I met someone great and could continue to let go off those past patterns and temptations.... And then she suddenly just left... Crushed me a bit to be honest.
/r/seduction06/05/26 12:25 PM
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Fair. I probably worded it incorrectly, but you have a point. Was certainly a rant / vent
/r/TheRedPill13/04/26 01:41 PM
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I don't know. It can be very addictive. It's fun, no doubt, however I genuinely struggle if I could ever be fully monogomous. What's even worse is when you live the life of a playboy for a longtime, think you've met someone that you'd be committed to and then she crushes you.... It depends how your life is normally, having no woman, connection, intimacy I think can also be soul crushing.
/r/seduction13/04/26 01:39 PM
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Where are you from? I thought Korea was the hard mode for westerners.
/r/seduction13/04/26 01:34 PM
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She definitely wasn't the objectively "hottest" I've dated / banged some smoking hot girls. But with no personality, cold or just too materialistic. This girl was "good girl, wholesome vibes" that's why I liked her. On the other hand, there is this other girl... Insane body. She has blocked me like 3 times, because "you have too many girls" then unblocks me, says she wants to see me etc. objectively this one is way hotter, but I have zero connection or chemistry in her other than her smoking hot…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/26 04:02 PM
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I WAS 100% sure this women cared about me. She certainly wasn't the hottest, best body etc. I was with her because of this.... Perhaps when I moved away and not near her, she couldn't handle it... But the 0 communication, complete personality shift... Hard to deal with.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/26 03:55 PM
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Because the other women are always in tears. I don't like feeling like I don't really give a shit about someone and they are just kind of there for company and to bang.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/26 03:53 PM
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We have it better than women, how? Being a very attractive, young women you're life is pretty much sorted.
/r/seduction03/04/26 06:59 AM
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Seems a bit AI but mostly true. Plenty of girls are horny and want it rough, but definitely not all. I also personally do struggle with the Mandona - whore syndrome a bit.
/r/seduction17/03/26 09:19 AM
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It's masculine if you can change. Sometimes it's not about being masculine but being a better man / human, if it was you making the mistakes. Chasing her back because you are lonely, just want the validation etc... is not honorable.
/r/seduction26/02/26 04:45 AM
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$2000 for a decent set of clothes? Crazy. This just tells me you're trying to impress with brands, now style.
/r/seduction17/02/26 10:18 AM
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I've slept with a very high amount of women the last year (actually a lot higher than OP) and I agree with a lot of it. It's definitely fun, but can also be underwhelming and extremely time consuming. Overall I do agree, meeting 1 great woman is much better. Unfortunately for me I need variety, and let's be honest.... I'm an "addict" so only having 1 long term is not something I'm sure I can sustain, but I respect people that do and can. Being an Incel would be terrible, but constantly changing …
/r/seduction08/02/26 03:37 AM
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Even after... Met a girl, wanted me to come over and fuck her. Said don't bother with dates or dinner, just give her the D. I banged her 3 times in a few hours. I insisted I stay the night so I could have another session before she leaves for work... Asked me to come over a week later.... Then completely ghosts me....ignores my IG messages, but still posting stories.... Very weird.
/r/seduction15/12/25 07:56 PM
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At a club, we keep looking at each other. Approached her "what are your plans later? (something like that) Her response "going to your room to fuck you" You can guess the rest.
/r/seduction14/12/25 08:25 AM
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Perhaps... I do find that if a women starts losing interest in me (even if I never liked her that much) I start getting needy and need to win her back... Even women if pushed away, told to leave me alone, blocked me etc....but when j sense they stop liking me, I chase...not a great pattern. Also, I had 2 relationships were I wasn't exactly the best model figure BF. I was okay at times, but other times I was an emotional rollercoaster, perhaps emotionally manipulative etc, but these 2 women all w…
/r/seduction09/12/25 12:39 PM
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No, I'm not generalising about "some guy" I live a very playboy lifestyle, I meet a lot for women and have a lot of women on rotation. I'm not saying everyone should do that, but at the moment it's what I like, I have the opportunity to and enjoy it. I've had women in tears because "why do you need to see other women, am I not enough for you?" "You don't actually care about me" Etc, etc. I see a lot of women, but I don't have any intention of hurting these girls and I make it pretty clear I'm no…
/r/seduction09/12/25 11:56 AM
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I wish these posts would include some examples of something. It's a sad reality, but I've definitely noticed I get more attention and women chase me more, when I don't really care about them and live the playboy lifestyle. I've attempted to "be the type of man that they say they want" but they go from begging me to losing interest very quickly. Perhaps it's just certain types of women... I do think there are grounded women that don't want the games or the tease, but most are not like that.
/r/seduction09/12/25 10:39 AM
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If you want to date normal women, definitely not Pattaya. Can be done in BKK, but a lot of girls are still side line freelancers and relationships are very transactional. Can you get a lot of women in Thailand? Yes. Will you get better at game in Thailand? Not the best place
/r/seduction07/11/25 03:01 PM
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Yep, kicked her out a few times, blocked her and honestly did not care too much...but I was never a dick. Just had boundaries. Had too many other options of great girls wanting to meet me. Maybe missed her sometimes, out of variety. Then when she becomes a total bitch, lying, manipulative. I pretend to be perfect, do everything they ask to make them feel guilty like they lost. Incredibly stupid, but we all have our own toxic traits. I'm not saying I'm a premium high class male, but I'm definitel…
/r/seduction26/10/25 10:05 PM
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Yeah I tried to win her back, but honestly not because I really wanted her back, just my ego had to win and prove that she was full of shit. Toxic, I know.
/r/seduction26/10/25 09:26 PM
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I think you're being too literal. It's true for women who have healthy, stable, functional self esteem, relationships expectations etc, but the unfortunate reality is that not most women these days. Their definition of healthy, functional relationships are warped. Too much learning about relationships from tiktok advice influencers. It's a maturity thing. I've never... or rarely found these problems with women much older than me, but I don't really want to have serious relationships or my life p…
/r/seduction26/10/25 06:11 AM
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Yes I agree with that and am aware of that. Ive met some really great girls, green flags, never have problems with, seem to care about me a lot...but never really feel that attracted to them, always chasing more, something else. These girls don't become overly emotional and don't reject me, they know I care about them, but at the same time now going to fall in love with them. The girls that tell me they like me so much, want to be with me etc, but when I put in effort they go cold... That kind o…
/r/seduction26/10/25 06:05 AM
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Yep, I did. Told her I wouldn't see her again, blocked her. Removed her from IG etc.. But then the tears can and felt kind of bad for her... Stupid me 😂
/r/seduction26/10/25 05:55 AM
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I mean in the sense, I meet and date a lot of girls, but I never lead them on telling them I'm looking for something serious
/r/seduction26/10/25 05:54 AM
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Ive been seeing this girl for the last few months, casually. I'm a self admitted playboy, but really hate breaking girls hearts. This girl has cried multiple times before she knows I talk to a lot of girls... Every time she pissed me off or a red flag come up, I pushed her away, said I wouldn't see her again. She would beg me back not to leave...tears and tears "I loved you but you don't even care about me" Started to feel guilty and as I going to another country for a while, said I'd spend my t…
/r/seduction25/10/25 06:35 PM
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It's funny how all girls say "I want a man to obsess over me" but any man who has ever done this knows it never works. Whatever women say they want = they want the opposite.
/r/seduction25/10/25 06:24 PM
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"normal girls" whatever dinner and drinks cost + if you can score.. Freelancers. Typically 2-3K baht in BKK.
/r/seduction19/10/25 07:30 AM
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Normal girls or working girls? 😂
/r/seduction19/10/25 07:06 AM
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I live in Thailand and would have to say I agree.
/r/seduction18/10/25 10:16 PM
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I'm in Thailand now. I'm not against P4P, but most Thai girls are too transactional for my liking. Also many I've met are compulsive liars. Not all and I'm sure there are great ones, but that is my experience.
/r/seduction06/10/25 10:33 AM
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Despite women saying "we like men to be direct" I have rarely found that to be true. Obviously it depends on where you live, the culture etc but I'd say if you specifically write "Looking for hookups" you won't get much luck. The girls that clearly and directly write they are looking for hookups are not that great anyway. I'm in SEA and most of the women are (or pretend) to at least be conservative. I have found the middle ground to be the best. I know some guys that will say "I'm looking for so…
/r/seduction06/10/25 09:43 AM
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Where are you? Manila was a gold mine for me. Got like 2,000 likes / matches. Next is Indonesia :)
/r/seduction06/10/25 09:33 AM
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If I've learnt anything about women, you can't make a blanket statement about them. Women are complex and inconsistent.
/r/seduction05/10/25 09:43 AM
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There is a first time for everything
/r/seduction12/09/25 03:29 AM
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Perhaps, but only with women I've already fucked. I remember one time I was at a club, made eye contact with a girl, approached her. Made some basic chit chat and asked her something along the lines of "what are you doing for the rest of the night" she responded with "going back to your hotel and fucking you" I'm sure you can guess what we did later that night. It was so direct and unexpected that I remember it so clearly. Can't remember her name though 😂
/r/seduction12/08/25 09:12 AM
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My game is not very good, but so many girls are used to hearing "you're so beautiful" "you're a perfect 10" "you're the most beautiful girl" etc but guys who just simp and put women on a pedestal. I've found that being more ambiguous is much better for complimenting a girl, such as "I guess you're a little bit cute"
/r/seduction05/08/25 02:13 PM
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Just assume that she thought the D was so good, if she had it a second time she would become addicted, so she knew she couldn't handle herself and created distance...
/r/seduction22/07/25 05:39 AM
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Yep. You can still meet girls in BKK that have normal jobs and do a bit of freelancing on the side, but in PH the freelancers are less business-like. As an example, a buddy of mine met a girl from a club. He is 40 and she is 20. She was all over him and he was thinking he has hit the jack pot because his got a young girl who wants to stay with him and fuck him for "free" I told him that it's only a matter of time before she will ask. Of course the next week she was demanding that he pays for fam…
/r/seduction20/07/25 08:34 AM
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I don't know anything about foreign girls in PH, because I don't try to meet any and don't stay in hostels. Tinder in Manila is a gold mine if you're willing to put in the work. I wouldn't bother if you're only there for a few days. The biggest challenge is logistics. Traffic is terrible. Filipinas are also very flakey and be aware of fillipino time. They are never on time and be prepared for them to be hours late. Lots of scams in PH. Lots of people will beg you for money because you're a forei…
/r/seduction20/07/25 05:35 AM
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I think they like men that are wanted and desired by other women, but at the same don't want someone that is putting his efforts into lots of women.
/r/seduction16/07/25 02:47 AM
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"Hey, would you be comfortable trying something with me?"
/r/seduction10/07/25 04:37 AM
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Bro, is this really the world we live in now? So many girls get all of their dating advice from these tiktok influencers and they have been taught that they are the golden prize and expect princess treatment etc. or the actual attractive ones are flooded with DMs from guys...
/r/seduction09/07/25 01:19 PM
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It depends on the environment and the girl. Back in my home country, I'm not poor and have a house a young age, but I'm certainly not wealthy by any means and my income is quite low. I think money would help, but I've dated women that earn more than me. Now I live in a poorer country and by the national standard for my income is considered "rich" for a family of 4 (I'm single, no kids) having money certainly helps and builds status, however also attracts girls that expect you to financially supp…
/r/seduction08/07/25 08:59 AM
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So many girls, especially the popular ones are addicted to short term validation. They may like you for a few days whilst it's fun and exciting, but a few days later they get a new fun and exciting guy and repeat the pattern. These girls, whilst putting in little effort and also expecting some unrealistic conversation that matches her "vibe" of the day
/r/seduction08/07/25 04:46 AM
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Yep, I experience it too. Fortunately I get a lot of matches and new connections, so I move on quickly. Perhaps my text game sucks, but it's a common problem. I find it a bit ironic that it's normally the girls that say "only looking for something serious" who seem to put in the least amount of effort.
/r/seduction08/07/25 04:43 AM
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