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Now I know you’re trolling.
/r/seduction14/11/20 10:38 AM
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You’ve been doing pick up for 6 years You’ve approached thousands of women You haven’t kissed or had sex with a single one You would think a normal person would stop after a month or so and go “hmmm somethings not working”. Fix the problem and move on until they are successful. You’ve been doing this for 6 years. You have an issue if you have not had any success.
/r/seduction14/11/20 10:36 AM
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Maybe. Your account is brand new and this story is hard to believe. I’d definitely talk to a doctor or something if you’re real.
/r/seduction14/11/20 10:29 AM
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Lmao come on man, I had the laziest reply? If this guy isn’t trolling, he has some serious issues he needs to deal with. Therapy or professional help is the way. Telling him good job keep it up is not it.
/r/seduction14/11/20 10:27 AM
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Buddy. You’ve been doing pick up for 6 years and thousands of approaches and no success? You’ve had security called on you after approaching women? You seem to lack any sort of self awareness or ability to change. If you are really a decent looking dude, there is no way you’ve gone 6 years and thousands of approaches without success unless you have some serious issues. Not unfixable, but beyond the help of some internet people.
/r/seduction14/11/20 10:21 AM
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Lol wtf. I hope you are trolling. If you are serious, I’d go to therapy. You need help bro.
/r/seduction14/11/20 10:03 AM
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You’re really 35? Uh, first off sex is great. First time, married, ONS, escort, is going to be awkward. You won’t know wtf to do. It gets better with experience and is best when you have chemistry with your partner. I don’t think sex itself is addicting, more so the passion and chemistry between partners. I honestly don’t know if you should see an escort because you don’t seem too stable. If you’ve been doing pick up for 6 years with thousands of approaches, something is up. You’ll easily become…
/r/seduction14/11/20 09:39 AM
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It’s ok to cry sometimes bud.
/r/seduction14/11/20 07:37 AM
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Lmao. This ain’t r/incels homie. Self improvement is focusing on yourself, not blaming others
/r/seduction14/11/20 06:45 AM
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Cool. Wrap it up with any one night stand, casual partner, or serious relationship until you discuss children. Or just wait until marriage. You take a risk any way you go.
/r/seduction14/11/20 06:14 AM
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Find someone you think is confident and mimic them. You literally fake being confident by acting like a confident person. You’ll slowly realize that nobody knows what the fuck is going on, they just act like it.
/r/seduction13/11/20 03:47 AM
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I’d rather just meet them in person. You can always leave if it’s a bad catfish. Instagram is great for social proof. Having no pictures is not great.
/r/seduction13/11/20 03:26 AM
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Man idk. I would take everything internet related with a heavy grain of salt. Think with your brain not your dick. Some random person asks you to hook up and for nudes, you send them, she starts acting flaky. Either a committed troll or she is over it.
/r/seduction13/11/20 02:39 AM
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Lmao I don’t even know where to begin. Tinder chick asked you to send you a nude and wants to hook up right off the bat? If it’s too good to be true, it probably is. You probably send a nude to some creepy dude.
/r/seduction13/11/20 02:32 AM
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I would definitely start trying to make more male friends. It’ll help you divert your focus from stupid women to stupid men. You’ll realize that people are fucking stupid. Yourself included. Like you hit up a male friend to go see a basketball game, they say “idk man, I’ll see. I gotta do something first.” And then they never hit you up, it’s like bro really. And that’s a good friend in other situations, someone you’ve known for years. Like idk man. Just let your nuts hang out. Say what you want…
/r/seduction12/11/20 01:11 AM
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A man had 3 girlfriends and decided one day that he only wanted one. So, he decided to hold a competition. He’s give each one $10,000 and watched how they spent it in a year Girlfriend 1 invested the $10,000 in stocks, made $1,000,000, bought the guy a car and gave him $20,000 back Girlfriend 2 went out and bought top of the line tits Girlfriend 3 went to school, got a degree, and got a six figure job at a top law firm. At the end of the year, the man had to make his decision. He thought long an…
/r/seduction12/11/20 12:20 AM
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This is definitely the answer. Nobody goes to the gym to meet new people unless you do some group exercise.
/r/seduction11/11/20 11:07 PM
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What? I would just figure out what the hell you wanted first off. Are you looking for hook ups or long term relationships? The whole talk to them a while and then figure it out is stupid. Go in looking to hook up, if it gets serious, decide if you want a relationship. You don’t? Fine. Let them know that and if it’s a problem move on. Know what you want and go get it. Don’t twiddle your thumbs waiting to see what’s going to happen.
/r/seduction11/11/20 06:41 PM
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Take some singing lessons. But I don’t know if you can change your natural voice.
/r/seduction10/11/20 04:15 PM
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There is always hope. You sound like a somewhat more self aware nice guy. Look up r/niceguys to see similarities Keep talking with your therapist. Do a lot of work on your own. Sounds like you have some deep rooted self confidence/acceptance issues that are stopping you from being assertive. How’s your relationship with your mom? Meditate, reflect, see what comes up. I’d say work on desensitizing yourself to other people’s opinions. You don’t need to be a cold heartless bastard, but you gotta be…
/r/seduction10/11/20 04:14 PM
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Ok. Give me some paragraphs.
/r/seduction08/11/20 07:08 AM
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Abundance mentality. Yes, every woman is different and some are better than others, but there are millions of them. You should address your depression first. You should work on your ability to live independently. The last thing someone wants is to have someone clinging to them all the time when you start dating.
/r/seduction07/11/20 11:52 PM
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You gotta pay extra for kissing But seriously, just search the sub. There are a lot of great posts.
/r/seduction07/11/20 12:41 AM
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Bro. You hit it off with this chick. She’s interested in you, but she’s leaving in 2 weeks? She came over to your place not once, but twice? I mean, idk what you are looking for, but you probably blew hooking up with her. She doesn’t want to see you again because she’s leaving and you beat around the bush
/r/seduction07/11/20 12:29 AM
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I’m lost. You’re having a mmf threesome? Where do these conversations go? Do you meet them in person? Do you have the same conversations? Do you close?
/r/seduction07/11/20 12:25 AM
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If you’re asking this question, you probably don’t have the game to pull it off. But yes. You can even do other, more intimate things with it as well
/r/seduction07/11/20 12:21 AM
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“Hey. This is so and so. You can stop worrying. I’m still interested” She responds. “Lol. What are you doing next week Friday/Saturday? Maybe you can take me out”
/r/seduction06/11/20 11:28 PM
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Talk to women? Analyze yourself and your game and see what’s working, not working. You ain’t gonna get laid sitting at home.
/r/seduction06/11/20 11:24 PM
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Did you use the ovulating line?
/r/seduction06/11/20 10:59 PM
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I mean, I’ve done it because I enjoy having sex. Doesn’t always have to be meaningful. Go read more on the subject. Knowing they want attention and how to push/pull with it is very helpful in seduction.
/r/seduction06/11/20 09:54 PM
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I told you. They like attention. Whether they seek attention by posting Jesus pictures or videos of them making out with their friends, it’s still attention. You can use social media to set up dates, but that’s usually Instagram or Facebook. There are plenty of guides on here.
/r/seduction06/11/20 09:43 PM
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People have what? You’re hanging out with pro athletes and movie stars? Take some statistics courses and redo the math. I’m sure you are in the top 20% depending on what metrics you use. This isn’t r/incel or r/niceguys. If you are in shape, have a decent job, and a social network, there is no reason you can’t get laid. Being insanely rich and famous won’t automatically fix your inner issues. Maybe they’ll be a temporary bandage. Read some of the top posts on here and go out and practice them.
/r/seduction06/11/20 09:35 PM
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Lol the salt is unreal. IMO this is a dumb question that just leads to insecurity. Athletes and movie stars are like the 1%. Comparing yourself to them is stupid. Life still goes on after you turn 25. It will go on if you’re broke and living in a basement. It will go on if you are railing coke off of strippers. Make your own definition of success and work towards it. If you really want a nice 6 figure job, six pack abs, GQ wardrobe and haircut, then work towards those. Go to school. Network. Mak…
/r/seduction06/11/20 09:30 PM
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I mean, I doubt they care if you have a problem. I’d work on your inner game so that you can live your life without letting people’s actions affect you so much, especially if they don’t involve you at all.
/r/seduction06/11/20 09:15 PM
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Humans are social creatures and they love receiving positive attention. They post a picture or video, they get likes, they get people complimenting them. They feel better. Don’t look too deep into it
/r/seduction06/11/20 08:41 PM
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Then I don’t see an issue with only using the app. Nothing fishy.
/r/seduction06/11/20 06:31 PM
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What do you want? A relationship, a hook up, a friend? 2 weeks, you should of asked her out. If all you’re doing is talking, she probably wants to be on the social app so she can easily switch between conversations.
/r/seduction06/11/20 06:25 PM
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Escalation during the day is tough since it’s not the typical time people are in that sexy/romantic mindset. Imo, day game is to get her number and then take her out at night.
/r/seduction06/11/20 06:20 PM
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Sure. You’re a woman asking men why women think their own genitals are gross. Makes sense
/r/seduction06/11/20 05:26 PM
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Lol my man, you gotta take some sex Ed classes or something. Looking at your account you’re way too interested in how other people are viewing vaginas and penises. You’re wording you’re questions in a way that comes off as not having a lot of knowledge of female or male genitalia. Vaginas are not less liked and seen as more gross.
/r/seduction06/11/20 05:21 PM
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Idk man. I’m just saying that people are insecure about their genitalia for no good reason. They feel like their penis or vagina isn’t as “good” as other people’s. So, to bring it back to the post, women are insecure about their vaginas. They might not encourage their partner to give oral or they might stop their partner if they try. Men might avoid it because they don’t know how, don’t know the woman wants it, or is scared of a bad odor.
/r/seduction06/11/20 05:08 PM
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Lines? You could do the classic “if you were a pirate, would you want a parrot on this shoulder? Or this one?” I don’t know where you are doing your approaches, but location is a big factor in how you should escalate.
/r/seduction06/11/20 05:01 PM
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I’m not sure you can really say one side is more insecure than the other. I’d say the main penis insecurity is over size. I’d say the main genitalia insecurity stems from having unrealistic expectations.
/r/seduction06/11/20 04:52 PM
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Idk man, that thread has a lot of great advice and stories that can better answer your questions. But yes, women can get super self conscious about their vaginas. Negative stereotypes about smell. Vaginal discharge can be off putting to guys who are aren’t used to vaginas. I don’t think vaginas or penises are considered gross in society since everyone wants to play with one or another. I think a lot people are insecure about their genitalia for no good reason.
/r/seduction06/11/20 04:33 PM
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Semi-seriously, you should go out and get drunk with those guys. A little alcohol helps you break down some barriers and face awkward situations with confidence and humor. The next day you feel like shit and are super anxious about how people will judge how drunk you got, but you slowly realize that nobody gives a fuck. But if you want to lose your virginity to a woman, you need to hang out with women. Do you know any? Do you have anywhere to go where you can talk to them?
/r/seduction06/11/20 08:03 AM
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Do they have writing requirements in paramedic training? Sorry man, but his hurts to read. If you can flirt and grab numbers while working, then do it. In my experience nurses are some of the best experiences. Like you said, make sure it doesn’t interfere with work. If you drop off a patient and they go away with a different nurse and you’re ok to leave but there is no call, then sure, flirt a little with the nurses and feel them out. But be cautious because the last thing you want is a restrain…
/r/seduction06/11/20 07:58 AM
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I mean that’s great for you. For most people trying to seduce a stranger, politics are good to avoid because they can trigger such a strong negative emotional response. Now if you are able to screen the women you pick up so that their political view matches yours, then great, talk about politics. If they have no strong opinions on politics, then talk about politics if that is interesting to her a little bit. Just remember that you are seducing them and I haven’t met anyone with a “....and then I…
/r/seduction06/11/20 07:52 AM
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Look at successful Indian, Pakistani, or Middle Eastern man in the US. Find one who you think is cool and attractive and see what he does. In all honesty, just look at how you dress and style yourself. Plenty of Indian/brown people have styled themselves after black culture to some success. And I am serious about isolating yourself for a period of time of at least 24 hours. What do you think about when you are alone? Ask yourself questions and answer them, then ask why on those answers. How do y…
/r/seduction06/11/20 07:45 AM
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Honestly sounds like the lady went into public officer mode and was just being polite.
/r/seduction06/11/20 05:45 AM
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That is great man. I think calling is a good way to be more aggressive if they are really attracted. Nothing like calling and them not picking up. I find calling works if I’m in a social mood, especially if it’s OLD where I’ve never met them before. Otherwise I just text at my leisure.
/r/seduction06/11/20 05:42 AM
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“Hey. Wanna go get pizza on Saturday?” Start there. Read the sub.
/r/seduction06/11/20 05:36 AM
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Do what?
/r/seduction06/11/20 05:34 AM
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Lol “a little young” is an understatement. What do you think is going to happen? “Hey girl. Tryna fuck?” “Omg yes” This doesn’t lead to sex. Ask her out. Be charming, be seductive. Escalate. Isolate. Procreate.
/r/seduction06/11/20 05:30 AM
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Grow some balls and ask her out Go up to her “Hey. I’m really busy, but every time I come here I kick myself for not getting your number. I’d love to take you out sometime” “Hey. I’m really busy, but I’m getting tired of you checking me out and not making a move. Here’s my number. Text me sometime” “Hey. I’m really busy, but I got this sick ass BOGO deal at chipotle and no one to use it with. Interested?” “Hey. I can smell you’re ovulating, tryna go half on a kid?” Intro. Remark on her busy/you …
/r/seduction06/11/20 04:50 AM
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Just be a decent human being when interacting with them. Maybe practice your humor with them. But I find that asking them out/getting their number doesn’t work unless you see them consistently. If you see them consistently for whatever reason, and you think you have decent rapport, then move forward.
/r/seduction06/11/20 03:28 AM
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The horrible formatting and bad writing with the unexpected twist of “lol fuck the police” made it feel like a troll
/r/seduction06/11/20 03:19 AM
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Gotta work on that punch line
/r/seduction06/11/20 02:46 AM
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Hmmm he’s been in love before? I’d make sure you guys are on the same page as to what love means to each other. Your idea of “love” has you saving your virginity until a serious relationship. He’s been in love and is out there sowing his oats. Probably a big disconnect.
/r/seduction06/11/20 02:14 AM
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He could actually be interested right now. Honestly, I’d really look at his track record. Has he ever had a long term relationship? What’s his longest relationship been? If he “gets hella women” and is a “sex god”, he could just be addicted to the pursuit and sex. You have to ask yourself if you’d be fine if you had sex with him and then he just loses interest. You’re young and he’s older. He’s your first, your his nth. You gotta make the call.
/r/seduction06/11/20 01:40 AM
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Is what a good idea? Charismatic people can pull off a lot of things that non charismatic people can’t. For instance. You know a charismatic guy that always seems to have a new girl. You go out to a bar with him, just to watch him in action. He walks up to a woman and goes “Hey. How you doin?” The woman gets flustered and they leave together. You walk up to a woman and go “Hey. How you doin?” She gives you a blank stare. It’s not the line or “killer mannerism” that is what makes these guys succe…
/r/seduction06/11/20 01:34 AM
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I agree with the suck at communicating part. Take some writing classes and read some books. They’ll help you learn how to stay focused and to cut out any useless information. It’ll help you immensely in life to be able to really say what you mean. Gym and job are a good start. Pursue some other hobbies if you have the time. Get a second job if you need more money. How old are you? You sound young. Don’t be afraid to be friends with your coworkers. Maybe join a club or team. Easiest way to make f…
/r/seduction06/11/20 01:24 AM
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Depends on the age imo. Younger Asian women are more receptive. Older Asian women are not as receptive as they are looking for something more serious. I guess that goes with all women though 🤷‍♂️ Japanese and Chinese women are receptive, but sometimes there can be a language barrier. As long as you guys are able to laugh through the barrier, it can work. Nothing like being an “English teacher”. No idea about Indian women.
/r/seduction06/11/20 01:18 AM
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If you’re easily excited, then beat yo meat. If you haven’t had sex in a while, then beat yo meat. I personally haven’t done this since I was like 17. Now I enjoy the extra aggression, and it’s not uncontrollable anymore.
/r/seduction06/11/20 01:16 AM
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There is a lot to address here and I really don’t know if I can hit it all. First, yes Indian men have a horrible stereotype in the United States. It doesn’t help that many women are harassed online by creepy Indian men, or middle eastern men that look similar. It also doesn’t help that there is an underlying dislike or wariness for brown people in America, no matter what anybody says. But honestly, you’re section where you talk about women looking for a douchey guy, and you want to treat them l…
/r/seduction06/11/20 12:50 AM
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I’m not sure I understand what you’re saying about the gaslighting and then lying about their height. Are you meeting up in person and noticing that the guy is super short? Do you meet up in person, notice you’re taller than him, and he says “no way you’re 5’10”, I’m 5’9”, you must be 6’1”?” Is he/are you jokingly discussing height or are they serious statements? A lot of guys have serious issues with “masculine” traits like height and penis size. They think being tall and hanging schlong are th…
/r/seduction06/11/20 12:29 AM
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A man doesn’t have to do all the work, but we have to be the driving force. Just look at the similarities between your interactions and see what stands out. And what does leaving your details mean? You give them your number? That can work, but it’s better to get their number because men have to be the driving force.
/r/seduction05/11/20 05:05 AM
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Hmmm. Yea I guess the flair is weird. Original post says “if you can achieve what this book talks about while also adhering to the r/seduction values, you will be unstoppable.” “Knowing how to sexually please a woman is one of the most important steps to seducing one......seduction is all about creating sexual desire in a woman. You are hinting and testing your ability to give this woman untold pleasures” “Give then the vibe you know how to make them orgasm” “You know you can get a woman off. Sh…
/r/seduction04/11/20 01:46 AM
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/r/seduction04/11/20 01:12 AM
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Lol agenda? If women are praising it, idk man
/r/seduction04/11/20 12:50 AM
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Did you read the original post? Mindset: Knowing that you can satisfy a woman means you are free to escalate without fear or anxiety of reaching the final destination of sex. Vibe: maybe chemistry is more appropriate? Body language, tone of voice give off a “vibe” to women. Act like you can rock their world and they’ll catch on. You can tell if they feel your “vibe” by how receptive they are to you. Their body language. Their tone of voice...etc What’s your advice? Honestly, if you say you are v…
/r/seduction04/11/20 12:40 AM
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Lol what do you want? A step by step plan to seduction? Spoon fed lines for every possible sentence? You’re not going to understand what any of this stuff on r/seduction means unless you experience it for yourself. Read the material. Take notes. And go out in the world armed with that information. It won’t do the work for you, but it can make certain challenges easier when you encounter them.
/r/seduction04/11/20 12:05 AM
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It can seem like magic. Dim the lights. Smoke some weed. Drink some wine. Listen to those songs that were posted. You’ll feel something. If you still don’t get it, go study Pornhub or something. Look at the difference between porn for men and porn for women. See if you can spot the difference.
/r/seduction03/11/20 11:51 PM
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Sure man. Don’t overthink it.
/r/seduction03/11/20 10:51 PM
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The “vibe” and “mindset” are the most important things man. Humans are emotional creatures. You can’t just say some lines and press some buttons.
/r/seduction03/11/20 10:41 PM
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If it’s a ltr, ask her out. Try flirting with her a little and see if she does think of you in that way. Then on the date, you can see if you’re compatible in the romantic sense. But the legs on you is a pretty good indicator. Look for an opening when she is alone and ask her out. Or just text/call her if you have her number.
/r/seduction03/11/20 10:39 PM
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Wait for her to make a move and you’ll need a couple haircuts. How old are you? Where do you hang out? What are you trying to do? Hookup? Date?
/r/seduction03/11/20 10:26 PM
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Yes. She’s into you. Next time that leg thing happens, just tease her a little bit. Nothing overly aggressive, but maybe squeeze the legs. Move your hand up them. Say something about her pants while you move your hand along her leg. If she reacts positively to these moves, you’re good. Make a move later in the night to a private area and escalate.
/r/seduction03/11/20 10:14 PM
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If they’re being selfish, just pull back. R/seduction techniques aren’t just for pick up game, it’s sex too. If they’re not interested in your pleasure, stop pleasing them. If they are having as great of a time as you say, they’ll come back to you and put in overtime. If they’re inexperienced, you gotta lead them more.
/r/seduction03/11/20 10:04 PM
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Thanks man. I am just trying to help people have great sex and great relationships. It is a tragedy that so many guys have that negative mindset about giving pleasure.
/r/seduction03/11/20 10:01 PM
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Yeah man. I feel like we are reading the same page. That’s the evolved mindset. Like the post says, you can make her orgasm, she can make you orgasm. It’s a level playing field. But her orgasm is so much more intense than ours. So you actually have a leg up. Learn how to use that advantage, and you get the crazy women blowing up your phone begging to come over. You can get them to do some crazy shit. Having them worship your dick for 20 minutes just to keep your ass locked down.
/r/seduction03/11/20 09:54 PM
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I just want to point out that this mindset only works if you have your other aspects of the game in check. Be in shape. Know your value. Have an interesting life. It’s a tool in the r/seduction toolkit. For those who say it’s putting a woman on the pedestal, it is and it isn’t. You put her on the pedestal when you make sure she is pleasured and satisfied. You don’t put her on the pedestal in everything else. Make her earn it. Make her prove to you she wants it. If she disrespects you, walk away.…
/r/seduction03/11/20 09:42 PM
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Lol I think we have different ideas of the pedestal. The MJ analogy was to try and help understand the mindset. I know it is a reach, but hear me out. Everyone plays basketball or wants to play basketball. Everyone has different natural strengths and weaknesses. But it’s a team sport and some players work together, some don’t. Some players are ball hogs and can’t score for shit. Some players are pass first, but natural scorers. The majority of people playing basketball are playing at a high scho…
/r/seduction03/11/20 09:25 PM
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Lol my man. Did you read the book? Did you read the post? Most women can’t get off with PIV alone no matter the size. Making sure your sexual partner is satisfied is not putting them on a pedestal. Not a fan of team sports? The Sex and seduction this post is talking about is sex for pleasure. Maximizing pleasure, your own, should be priority. The pleasure from sex with a properly aroused and satisfied woman is incomparable to having sex with a woman who is thinking about her dinner.
/r/seduction03/11/20 08:50 PM
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It’s a mindset. You still have to work on the other aspects of your game.
/r/seduction03/11/20 08:43 PM
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You can be an advocate for good sex and feminine pleasure without putting them on a pedestal. Having his knowledge is like living life as MJ. You know you can get it done. You know you’re the best there is. You dictate what you want. Do you want to elevate the game of some D3 athletes and show them how it’s done? Or do you want to sign with some other superstar and push the limits?
/r/seduction03/11/20 08:42 PM
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Hey man. It is easy to fall into that pedestal thinking, that’s why I said you need to combine it with your other game. Know you don’t need any one woman to experience this. Know you can make any woman feel that way. If you have the knowledge to make a woman orgasm and the r/seduction mindset that you can walk away at any time if they disrespect you, that’s when you start driving women wild.
/r/seduction03/11/20 07:55 PM
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What are you trying to do? Have her be more “hot”? What does hot and cold mean for you? Is she responding to you instantly, minutes, hours, days, weeks? Honestly. The getting your ex back throws me off. Why are you still playing games with your ex? Move on. If she wants a comfort fuck, do it or don’t. Who cares.
/r/seduction03/11/20 07:52 AM
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Ok man, have you ever used that line? Unless you're Mathew McConaughey it's not gonna work. ​ The street is a tough place to start a conversation as people are walking somewhere. It's probably one of the coldest possible approaches for you to do. Like I said, unless you're hot shit and charismatic, it's gonna have like .03% success. ​ People are minding their business and some guy comes in with that line, what do you expect? How would you start a normal conversation from that point? "Hey you're …
/r/seduction03/11/20 05:37 AM
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If shes not responding and not asking you any questions, just back off. Don't come off as clingy or desperate. If she hits you up, great, ask her out. It is better to establish rapport in person rather than over text. If she doesn't hit you up, on to the next one.
/r/seduction03/11/20 05:28 AM
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Figure out what you want from this girl. Are you looking for a platonic relationship? Are you looking for a romantic relationship? Are you just trying to hook up? ​ If this girl is not responding, stop texting. If she's not feeling it, there is no point to keep talking just for the point of talking. ​ If she is not responding and not taking any interest in you, take a hint. Maybe ask her out on a date and gauge in person interest if she accepts.
/r/seduction03/11/20 05:14 AM
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Look up inner game. Why do you want to a gf or sex? They won’t magically change your life. Get some other hobbies. I don’t know what. Try them out. Can be anything, but socially interactive ones are preferable. If you do other hobbies but have been holding off with COVID, join the club. Just keep working on yourself. Stronger, faster, smarter every day. Take some time to do what you enjoy. Other than that life is a journey, not a destination. Learn to live with that feeling of never “arriving” b…
/r/seduction03/11/20 04:48 AM
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Yes to both. Don’t be afraid to change for the better. See what common problems you’re having and think of solutions. Keep trying. Everyone you meet is different. Just because you don’t match with one doesn’t mean the next won’t hit.
/r/seduction03/11/20 03:55 AM
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She’s into you, just wants to see what her friends think. All of you hanging out sounds like fun. Maybe she wants to see if you have a social life. If you do and your friends can’t legitimately hang out, don’t sweat it. If you don’t and that’s a problem for her, don’t sweat it. As long as you can hang out with her and her friends and be fun, it’s all good. 🎶🎶plenty of fish in the sea 🎶🎶
/r/seduction03/11/20 03:51 AM
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No. Don’t text her. The date is to get to know each other. Don’t come off as clingy and needy
/r/seduction03/11/20 03:48 AM
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Honestly, if she’s into you and it’s high school, you’re both thinking about sex. Being virgins, that mental barrier is huge. Follow the other poster’s advice
/r/seduction03/11/20 03:47 AM
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Lol bro, online dating is a woman’s game below the age of 35. It is literally insane the amount of likes they get. I think both options are great if you have your shit together. In shape, well groomed, charismatic. Those things will take you far in both games. But far and away, the sheer amount of matches a decently attractive woman gets on online dating is absurd. Like you said, daygame is great if you’re not shy and nervous. Most guys are, so you have a better chance of success if you are dece…
/r/seduction03/11/20 03:44 AM
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Didn’t read it. Don’t Simp.
/r/seduction03/11/20 02:44 AM
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Lol you don’t want to be negative in a mean way. Teasing is one thing. Being negative is no bueno. I thought negging was no longer a thing because it’s not a healthy mindset to have
/r/seduction02/11/20 10:28 PM
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I mean, you’re going to have to be the judge of those things. Seduction is about trying to seduce someone. Talking about yourself too much is not always beneficial to that end. Now, if the person seems to be interested in you, then by all means, share some stuff about yourself. Just know that everyone wants to be heard, so don’t hog the limelight and talk about yourself all the time. And don’t do the one upmanship. That makes people feel bad about themselves and dislike you.
/r/seduction02/11/20 07:57 PM
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Did she ask you about those really cool and interesting things you do? Or do you bring it up out of the blue? Do you do one-upmanship? It’s like the vegan joke. How do you know someone is vegan? They’ll tell you
/r/seduction02/11/20 07:31 PM
2

Is negging a thing anymore
/r/seduction02/11/20 07:22 PM
3

You should read The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida. It goes into the masculine and feminine energies and how you can navigate the two.
/r/seduction02/11/20 06:50 PM
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Look at their Instagram. Or just shoot your shot. Nothing to lose
/r/seduction02/11/20 06:42 PM
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Good point. I was going to say, the whole confidence thing has always been associated with men. Probably left over from times of the classic masculine man dominating the feminine woman. Makes you wonder. Women can be as confident, if not more, then men. But it’s still masculine to ask women out, pay for dates, provide entertainment, lead sex. Idk.
/r/seduction02/11/20 06:24 PM
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Well, you’re confusing the aggression with confidence. Your “masculinity” shouldn’t come from eating steak, drinking whiskey, and going raw every weekend. It should come from being confident in yourself so that if you want to watch The Bachelor, you’re not afraid you’re gonna start kissing dudes.
/r/seduction02/11/20 06:12 PM
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That’s what I would do. I’d be realistic about the girls you choose though. If you like playing magic the gathering and you’re entire personality revolves around it, don’t hit up the super popular cheerleader.
/r/seduction02/11/20 06:06 PM
1

“Do I just delete social media?”
/r/seduction02/11/20 05:48 PM
1

Lol go to r/askmen A woman that is passionate, aroused, and active is the hottest thing on earth. Nothing like feeling their hips buck up to meet you and their voice and breath in your ear. Turn me on randomly? One time I got home from work and was watching football. My gf brought me a sandwich and a beer, no words were exchanged, and then she left. That was pretty hot.
/r/seduction02/11/20 05:47 PM
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I would do that until you gain enough self confidence to make those decisions for yourself
/r/seduction02/11/20 05:44 PM
1

17? Are kids not doing social media these days? Back in my day, when I was 17 on r/seduction, I would talk to girls on Facebook. I lived in a big city though, and I would message girls who went to other schools. Not crazy out of the blue, but if they were in similar social circles. Just talk to them and ask them out.
/r/seduction02/11/20 05:42 PM
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It feels taboo because it’s an intimate question. A failed relationship still probably had serious emotions on at least one side. Depending how old the relationship is, there still could be strong emotions. It’s just a deep question for a lot of people and most won’t go in detail unless they are really comfortable with you.
/r/seduction02/11/20 05:34 PM
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WHY SO LOUD
/r/seduction02/11/20 05:30 PM
2

A subtle way? No Maybe just bring up dating and sex in general, like if he’s had any success lately with other women. Then say you liked your times you had sex while only being friends and how hard that is to find. Gauge his reaction. Then depending on how he acts, just say you’d be open to hooking up more, just as friends. Important that you two are on the same page as far as the fwb situation. If he’s down or receptive, then just work some moves when you want to hook up.
/r/seduction02/11/20 05:30 PM
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Practice, practice, practice. G Eazy’s game is great because he has that confidence of being successful. He doesn’t need the girl he’s talking to, he’s had plenty before. Once you’re at that stage it’s all about having fun and seeing which women want to join. You’re not rich and famous, so what. At 17, playing sports or music is like the same thing. Just be confident in yourself. Act like you know what you’re doing even if you don’t.
/r/seduction02/11/20 05:23 PM
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Just “why” isn’t a very good question. Idk what to tell you. If you want female friends or dating, and you can’t do those things where you live, you gotta move. The online stuff is hard because nobody is going to invest a lot of time and effort into talking to somebody they’ll never meet. Nobody is going to “chase” you in an online relationship because there is literally no incentive for them to do it.
/r/seduction02/11/20 05:11 PM
1

The woman who gives you the most love is your mother. If you didn’t have a loving mother/mother figure, you probably have some issues.
/r/seduction02/11/20 05:19 AM
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Lol working on a good sense of humor? When was the last time you laughed? Sense of humor is dependent on the person, so don’t try and find the “perfect “ sense of humor. I think the seduction sense is to be able to laugh at yourself after saying something dumb or getting rejected. You need to be having fun with seduction or it’s gonna blow. If you want to be funnier, read more, watch comedies, watch comedians. You’ll slowly pick up their delivery styles, comedic timing, and body language.
/r/seduction02/11/20 05:17 AM
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Hmmm it does seem like a huge generalization. But maybe more attractive women are more receptive to socialize because they are used to it.
/r/seduction02/11/20 03:07 AM
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They might not friendzone you, but they might keep you around as backup. You can have that chemistry and sexual tension, but if she already has a man, she can just keep you around to feel desirable and to have someone to fall back to if her relationship ends. What’s worse? Friend zoned? Or knowing you like each other but doing nothing until she ends the other relationship? Just keep that in mind. But yes. Learn to love yourself and know your value and your relationships and pick up game will roc…
/r/seduction02/11/20 03:03 AM
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Plenty of fish in the sea. But if you like yourself the way you are and think you’re perfect, life, not just dating will be hard. Gotta have some humility to self reflect and see if you do need to change some things.
/r/seduction02/11/20 02:59 AM
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At 20 in college, it’ll be a pain. People are so flakey and socializing is so easy, you might be the last option for them on any given day. It’s good you stopped contacting the first girl, I wouldn’t waste my time if they aren’t putting any effort in. And with most people in your age group, it’s better to give them an optional invite instead of a set date. Just text her “hey. I’m having some people over tonight if you wanna roll through” then work your game. Of course, you gotta have other peopl…
/r/seduction02/11/20 02:56 AM
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Honestly? Just fake it. If she’s into things that turn you off, but you want to hit it for a ONS, just act interested in her and escalate. If it works it works. Definitely don’t lead her on at all. If she asks, say you don’t know what you’re looking for. Just some fun for now. Then after you’re done just say thanks, and maybe let her down easy if she was looking for more.
/r/seduction02/11/20 12:22 AM
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Online dating is a numbers game. Women of all shapes and sizes have hundreds of dudes that they match with. Men are not so lucky unless they are in the top tier of attractiveness. You gotta try and stand out with your pictures and your bio. What do you want? Hook ups? Tinder, bumble, hinge Want relationships? Okcupid, POF, match
/r/seduction02/11/20 12:19 AM
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“Hey. How’s it going” “Not so good. My dog just died” “Sorry to hear that. What kind of dog?” Blah blah blah. Ask them leading, open ended questions. Everyone wants to be heard. Maybe they are lonely and bored and want to socialize. Women are lucky in that there are plenty of dudes who will listen. But brotha, the middle eastern or Indian dude that talks to women online is a stereotype here in America. Like you said, you can’t date, so a lot of women get some foreign horn dogs in their DMs all t…
/r/seduction02/11/20 12:12 AM
2

Friends with girls online? How are you meeting them? If it’s anything where you don’t really know it’s a woman, just assume you’re talking to some sweaty horny dude. Online relationships are hard because there is little to no incentive for someone to respond to you. If someone actually responds, unless you are going to meet up in person, things will fizzle out because it’s a waste of time. But people like to be heard so ask them about themselves and their troubles. You could always go to cam roo…
/r/seduction02/11/20 12:06 AM
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Sex is on everyone’s mind, especially on a date. You’re gonna have to fake sexual confidence if she’s passive. You do that with your words, body language, and actions. Mental. Make eye contact and hold it, then slowly check her out. Sexual innuendos, but not over the top/cheesy. Look up the classic games like would you rather, 21 questions, 2 truths and a lie. Super easy to create sexual tension with those games, especially if you’re drinking alcohol. Tease her. You know she wants you, make her …
/r/seduction02/11/20 12:01 AM
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No. It’s not salgible. This is a good lesson for you. A relationship is between 2 people, just because you thought it was a good time doesn’t mean she thought it was. I wouldn’t contact her unless she initiates, and don’t hold animosity because she ghosted you. Be more aloof. You’re a strong independent man, you don’t need these hoes. 💅 Seriously though. Nothing turns a woman off more than a desperate dude blowing up her phone. Catch and release. If you do want to contact her in like a week, jus…
/r/seduction01/11/20 11:12 PM
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lol I agree with what you are saying. It’s just the whole “inner game and find yourself” and “don’t need to follow some guide” parts felt like they should have been worded differently imo. I agree 100% with the niceguy stuff and not being able to handle rejection. But they probably have some deeper underlying issues causing their insecurities than not getting women. I believe that for guys who didn’t have a lot of success or experience with women in high school or college, they need those guides…
/r/seduction01/11/20 11:05 PM
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Fear of being judged. Even if you say you have no expectations or don’t care about the outcome, you care about your ego. You have your own self image. You’re afraid of that random stranger seeing you in a different way. In your mind, you see yourself giving that compliment and the person going “oh wow, thanks so much. You made my day. You’re kind cute too 😘” In reality, they might say “wtf get away from me creep”. The trick is to build up that self confidence so that those remarks don’t destroy …
/r/seduction01/11/20 10:54 PM
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What if “my true self” is super shy and not outgoing but hyper sexual? What if I avoid interacting with regular women but want to bang every single one I see? Simple. Just beat my meat 5x a day until a woman falls into my lap.
/r/seduction01/11/20 10:50 PM
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I couldnt find it, but you can find logs of people doing it. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/15cyt4/fr_stylelife_challenge_day_13/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/seduction01/11/20 10:46 PM
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Depends. At that age a lot of women are looking for more serious relationships. Maturity, hobbies, steady job, own place, car. Of course it’s not universal and there will still be single women out clubbing and bar hopping in their 30s, but that’s rare. It’s hard to keep up the one night stands and nightlife when all of your friends start to settle down, have kids, and “party” with board games and go to bed at 11 on a Saturday. So you still have to have your own style and be confident in it, but …
/r/seduction01/11/20 10:34 PM
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I agree with what you say about developing your own style and being confident with it. That is huge in life, not just seduction. How old are you? The witty, cocky good looking dude game works for a while until you get older and most women have been around the block once or twice. The books and articles become more relatable as you and the game mature.
/r/seduction31/10/20 02:35 AM
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Lmao wtf is this. A writing class would be beneficial to your PhD career. Tinder is a lot less effort than day game as in you can do it from your house. Follow rules 1 and 2 and you’ll have a good time. If you don’t qualify, it’ll be a lot harder for hookups with decent looking chicks. It’s all a numbers game with tinder. So many fake accounts. So many chicks on there for shits and giggles.
/r/seduction29/10/20 04:26 AM
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