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I just don't see the kinds of workplace conflicts e.g. Americans tend to describe. I mean BOTH sides, feminists talking about too macho workplace athmosphere and RPs about pussy-passes. Do you see this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 08:22 AM
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As a scaffolder, I see women do so called "male roles" all the time. Me too - electrical engineers, forklift drivers etc. I largely mean a stricter, harsher attitude as a male role.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 08:11 AM
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Lastly, I find the thought of screaming and slamming the door on 6 month old babies odd even as a RP. I guess patience runs out and nobody wants to enslave themselves to their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 04:37 PM
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Is that weird I have no idea how all the things you mention happened to us? I think the occasional cases father was not working until like 21:00 he tried to do the above but I don't remember if he managed. And yes I grew up pretty low-T.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 02:56 PM
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What makes you guys hard to understand that sometimes you come accross as PUAs from /r/seduction, sometimes as conservatives from a church or some similar old-ish place conservatives go to, sometimes both, I think what unifies you is that Matrix like "they lied to us!" experience. I mean you don't even agree with each other what is best, go your own way, spin plates or try hard to be a patriarch, so basically what unifies you is the, how to put it, contrarian? rebellious? counter-cultural? yes, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 02:52 PM
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Have you experienced depression while being beta? please add context and if other factors may have played a part(work stress, family death, etc.) Have you experienced depression while Alpha or emulating Alpha?(also add context and possible outside influences) Depression is such an unclear thing to nail down. I mean people who expect to be happy-go-lucky all the time think if all looks bleak and tedious and pointless, it is depression. For others, this is normal shit. But if you want to ask did I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 02:41 PM
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I just get the impression that you are saying this reasoning is true, just harmful. I was focusing on how it is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 11:41 AM
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Here is another useful, not necessarily blue, but not very red one: http://lesswrong.com/lw/hbp/using_evolution_for_marriage_or_sex/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 09:47 AM
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As a moderator of /r/RedPillMemes, I've seen first-hand the impact that Dank Memes I don't know what Dank Memes are but I see a total of two submissions in your subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 09:45 AM
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This is such a typical just-so story. One could just as well claim slaves were selected for low testosterone, making them submissive, non-rebellious, docile. (They did not get to eat enough protein to be muscular anyway.) That is the issue. One could construct stories all ways, often the the perfectly opposite ideas, and they both sound believable. But what is missing for both is empirical evidence. I think really people need to be more empiricist and less evolutionary. Let's just simply measure…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 08:41 AM
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Everything is caused by evolutions and they are optimization processes, but they are shitty optimization processes, inefficient like fuck (would you design a camera so that you route the cabling through the center of the field of vision?) so you cannot simply assume if X exists then X is a back-then optimal solution for a problem that existed back then. It can be a side-effect or anything really. Furthermore, evolution, the genes, are a sort of very slow computer. The brain is a very fast comput…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 08:19 AM
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All it takes for such a woman to cheat is for the attention of a more attractive man. Well, but my point is that if she is also low attractive it does not happen. Also, let's not assume away things like honesty, loyalty, promises exist. This is one of the most upsetting parts of RP that all women are basically assumed guilty from the start, assumed not to have things like a sense of honor. I think it would be closer to reality to say something like the temptation can be very strong and stronger …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 04:00 PM
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Let's look at absolute, not relative attractiveness. Suppose you are a 3 man or woman, and you can only get 2-4 partners. This means you will both not make each other very hot/hard, your relationships will not be very passionate, but more like a comfortable friendship. Agreed so far? While a 9-10 couple would be at it like bunnies all the time and not even need hobbies and not even care about any other circumstance. That means, if you both are low on the scale, sex or romance or the attractivene…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 03:14 PM
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37 and 4 years, wife is 35. We have one child. And in my experience transactional relationships would not endure because you get used to good things. That means, what you get from your partner you are used to and now want more. And you are used to having her or him and now you feel like putting in less effort yourself. Another reason is a fight, for transactional people it is "tit for tat", if you are mad at me I am mad at you and it is bad spiral. People who think "we, not me" think different. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 02:33 PM
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Now I feel a bit astonished, because you described e.g. how coworkers work together rather perfectly. But for romantic relationships there is another ingredient: love. Not just , like, lust, but like, caring. I mean, it is not idealism, in my relationship this is actually working, we really do a give shit about what the other wants or to make the other happy. And I wonder now how could you miss this. How is it possible to describe a romantic relationship or marriage with exactly the same kind of…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 09:43 AM
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No, this is a splendid example of not reading accurately. "interest is there. It is not necessarily followed upon" There is a huge difference between an arousal and actually following on desires. For example most people feel a "mm yummy" arousal when they see a cake. Yet it does not follow they want to eat it because they don't want to be fat. In this sense do most men always feel "mmm yummy" when looking at even average looking women, however it does not follow they actually want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 09:35 AM
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So it is not a straight line progress? A new puritanism was invented after the 1930's?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 09:30 AM
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Hmmm. This is a good food for thought. The issue with equals vs. power imbalance is that they may be different things. Equality is more like "you deserve what I deserve, you deserve the equal consideration of your needs" and power imbalance means "I decide if you get something or not. Basically I decide what you deserve and if you get it." So it is possible to be inequal in power and yet equal in the sense of using that power in a way that equally serves the interests of both. Does that even mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/15 12:54 PM
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Many of us have been blue pilled and were taught that girls were good caring souls Sometimes I wonder if the reason I do not really identify with TRP is that I was never taught those things TRP claims BP taught them. My parents, or the TV shows I watched were never into this kind of benevolent sexism that women are somehow better than men. It was more like, women often having different vices, like for every man who is too violent, and it is immoral, there is a woman who is too liar, and it is im…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/15 12:48 PM
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"If a man has no interest in a sexual relationship with a woman, he won’t actively court flattering attention from her." If a man has no interest in a sexual relationship with a woman, one of them are dead, he is gay, or she is is really hideous. I am not saying he wants to pursue the interest, that is a whole world of difference, but some urge is there even when we want to stay loyal to our SOs, or too tired or afraid to pursue an indicator of interest. But still inside something is still "stir…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/15 12:46 PM
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Have not read it, but I am pretty sure http://www.warandgender.com/ has it right, namely that gender is made by war and similar conflicts. One issue with studying current hunter gatherers is that if they could afford to not engage in a technological arms race, they are unusually peaceful, which makes for them unnecessary for men to be men. Warlike hunter-gathers, like the Yamömami, have their masculinity shaped by war: http://www.artofmanliness.com/2013/06/10/the-yanomamo-and-the-origins-of-male…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/15 12:33 PM
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The core Omega issue is self-hatred. They want to escape from a hated self into fantasy etc. the reason their wardrobe is so bad is that they usually do not consider themselves worthy to be decorated. The opposite and also relevant side of it is that sometimes they try to do so, but their self-hatred means they do not try to find looks that match their looks, rather engage in fantasy, trying to look like a completely different man. This is where the fedora comes from, they like the idea of an ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/15 12:30 PM
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Sorry, late to the game but. Different terminology works for different people I guess. For me "as my equals" or "equally" is a terminology I do not understand. I cannot possibly consider my own interests equally important as other people's interests: they are either less important, or if I want to feel unselfish, virtuous and saintly, then more. But how and why exactly equal I do not understand. I sacrifice myself for others or sacrifice them for me, but engaging in a boring one for me, one for …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/15 12:15 PM
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Sorry, late to the discussion, but just one thing here: the next time you see a class photo of high schoolers or college students, so basically a photo of men and women of the same young age, notice one thing. The women look more mature and more confident in themselves than the men. The average 19 years old woman gives out the "I am an attractive grown-up" vibe, the average 19 years old guy gives out the Peter Parker in th first Spiderman movie vibe, kind of "ugh I am not sure if I am boy or man…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/15 12:06 PM
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Why do people think that patriarchical attitudes are 1950's ? Why not 1930's, 1870's or 600 fucking BCE? This is not an ever changing fashion: it is more like feminism did not exist for thousands of years, then in recent decades it does. Actually in the 1950's feminism was already bubbling more than a decade before.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/15 11:49 AM
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and ended up (or will end up) with a guy who can't hold a candle to the guys she used to fuck. And what happens then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/15 11:47 AM
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I think this is correct, but I am not sure how relevant or important. Your first corollary is important only if you are the kind of man whose interest in relationships with women is primarily sexual. However as men age, their interests change too, looking for less sex and more stability, marriage, home, family life. A lot of guys around 40 are OK with a big-ass wifey who has little libido but cooks well, is a good mom, and does not nag and lets them watch sports on the TV drinking beer. So why s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/15 11:46 AM
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You are kind of right, but it is not empathy. Empathy is just a mind reading skill autists lack. Rather it is about compassion, it is about caring, even if you suck at mind reading. So it is about not being egocentric or narcissistic. The battle you mention is "narcissist bum fights" : http://mattforney.com/2013/11/04/narcissist-bum-fights-anita-sarkeesian-vs-the-basement-dwellers/ But I guess we are all narcissists at 15 and the trick to life is adopting a "WE, not ME" view - and finding a simi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 12:21 PM
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Can I play if I have no social circle or is it just for extroverts? I have two friends, one of them is doing okay, the other divorced because at some point the guy decided he does not want to be a fat nerd anymore, the woman wanted to stay so, and thus they drifted apart when their lives took different directions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 12:18 PM
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I would say I would just break up at the first sign of adversity. I have no need for a woman in my life who is not reliable "ally". I don't understand why RP men want to stick around and try to fix it - then again the difference is that I think for RP sex is more important than for me, so they would not just kick out a sexy but crazy woman. I would, for me it is totally not a priority. But sure if I had more libido and would somehow pick up a hot babe where my primary motivation would be boning …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 12:11 PM
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Because single parents tend to be mothers - that is how the courts tend to choose, but also it is natural, in a way, women bond deeper with children, due to pregnancy and the babycare stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 12:08 PM
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The idea is while it is possible to divorce, it is a hassle enough that you will not split over short-term problems. So yeah, you get a more stable relationship, you get some amount of family stability which matters if you want kids. That is really. Without marriage, it is just so easy to have a fight and get pissed off and say "We're done!" but if you are looking forward for a nightmare long court procedure you will not say until you are really sure the marriage is hopeless. This is true for bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 12:01 PM
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