WFoster88 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
25	Seddit is a Powerful Community		WFoster88	/r/seduction	30/08/19 01:12 PM

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–	5 anti ghosting Texts I've successfully used to get girls responding again. Enjoy. I feel that your text is more needy. In the end, this is for guys who actually want to get a reply. I suggest they try mine out and see how they work to revive dead leads. They've all worked for me to get girls to respond again. Last resorts of course. But sending "Good vibes" could also work I suppose.	/r/seduction	27/09/19 09:06 AM
–	Noobie Request: How would you approach girls in university? You can go direct: "You're cute. I had to say hi." Indirect: Ask for directions, comment on her textbooks, her clothes, etc. You should study up on daygame. There are lots of Youtube channels, blogs, this sub if you do a search.	/r/seduction	27/09/19 08:42 AM
–	What is the crossing line on touch escalation? She seems to really like you, otherwise she wouldn't be so physical. Why not get her phone number, ask her to hang out, and hook up with her? Don't worry about all the physical stuff just get her alone in your apartment, a glass of wine and Netflix. It will happen. You have to face rejection at some point otherwise you'll never know. If she's touching you it's because she's tired of waiting for you to make a move.	/r/seduction	27/09/19 07:23 AM
–	Grocery Store Game I've picked up plenty of women in grocery stores. You can always talk about cooking, even asking a question that's related to food. it's not really taking value to ask "Let me guess, you're making a vegetarian lasagna? I'm not psychic, I just watch a lot of Iron Chef." There's an infinite number of openers based off the environment. Just don't say "What's for dinner?" It's cliche and way too obvious. I like whole foods because if I hook a girl there's a food court or a cafe on premises to go for…	/r/seduction	24/09/19 06:47 PM
2	My perspective: how to be more attractive True. Build up your self-esteem through utilizing your talents. If you don't have talents, then develop them. Eventually if you combine that with learning how to approach, you'll be an attractive, sociable and popular individual. That's in an ideal world.	/r/seduction	24/09/19 06:44 PM
–	To put it simply I don't think they're forgotten as they don't even exist in the eyes of women. You can either approach or not. Unless you rely on social proof. Then perhaps you have a shot.	/r/seduction	24/09/19 06:42 PM
–	Should I keep the text conversation going or leave it at "seen" Basically you had her at "hello." You don't want to over do it, or screw it up by over texting or calling her. She said okay, so anything you do now may put the wrong idea in her head, that you're needy, desperate, lonely, weird. I write articles about texting girls here and always advise you keep it simple.	/r/seduction	23/09/19 02:37 PM
5	Setting the Date too Early? You don't really want to text too much, but check in every couple of days. Maybe you saw something funny, or you did something cool. Just send a pic, or a meme. Then you can gauge her response based on how short or long her replies are. Just don't over do it. In the future don't set up dates so far away if possible. And don't get your hopes up that she won't flake. That way you're not crushed when she does.	/r/seduction	23/09/19 02:33 PM
–	How do I develop my comeback skills? Basically all "tests" have two strategies. Agree and amplify Ignore A. You love money B. Not as much as you do This doesn't work because it's confrontational. It's like "I know you are but what am I?" You could just blink your eyes and change the subject, like she's a child and not worth replying to. Or you could agree "Yes, I am basically Tony Stark, Kanye, Trump," etc. Agree and amplify. "That's what she said" is good because it's basically "Ignore" in a way. Although it's old and cliche. You …	/r/seduction	15/09/19 11:21 AM
–	What I've learned from being approached by gay men I've also learned a lot from gay men. Whenever I'm hit on one, I think "Is this a good approach? Does he make me feel uncomfortable (obviously a little) or is there some part of me that goes "Hmmm, maybe?" For real. Some gay men have very good game, and they claim to be experts at converting straight men.	/r/seduction	15/09/19 11:13 AM
1	How to ask for nudes? In my experience if a girl wants to send nudes, she just will. And if she doesn't offer them herself, then she's not into it. Also, most of the nudes I have, I took myself. I just smile at her, pull out my phone camera, point it at her and if she starts posing... it's on.	/r/seduction	27/08/19 01:21 PM
0	Girls are starting to notice me and chase me. Date the cutest girl you can get. Once you have a gf, then all the other girls will see you as an option. It's called pre-selection. Then, when you have the hotter girls flirting with you, upgrade.	/r/seduction	27/08/19 09:44 AM
1	I'm not sure how to take you... It really depends on if you had a flirtatious vibe. It depends on how attracted she is. Here's the thing, why would you make a bold statement, a flirtatious statement, when she already likes you? Check out this article on texting.	/r/seduction	27/08/19 09:38 AM
–	What are the best places for game except clubs and bars? Clubs are the hardest place to get laid, imo. However they're a great place to learn. Use them as a training ground to battle harden yourself, rather than putting all your hopes on pulling from here. Bars, lounges, and happy hours are wwaaaaay better. You can actually talk, you have room to maneuver, and the bitch shields are generally lower. I really like dive bars the best. You won't always find the highest percentage of hotties in these places, but when you do, you'll have a better chance. Yo…	/r/seduction	26/08/19 08:52 AM
–	deleting tinder to focus on real life pull For the vast majority of men, online dating is a complete waste of time. It validates 6's and makes 7's seem unattainable. Some guys I know claim to have great success with Tinder, or Bumble, but then I see the girls they're getting and it's not impressive to say the least. Also, by online dating you never really solve the main issues that most guys have: Approach anxiety and verbal game. You never really push your comfort zone and develop your game. Good on you for giving it up. Women have enou…	/r/seduction	26/08/19 08:31 AM
1	How to Escalate while sober? Most guys focus way too much on verbal game. If you're going out a lot at night, try to focus more on physical escalation. This can include touching her back, shoulders, arms, hands, legs... anywhere really. It's hard to teach physical game through an article, but I'm sure there are lots of Youtube videos about this. Or watch RSD videos. They have a lot of good examples of physical escalation in their infield footage.	/r/seduction	25/08/19 08:55 AM
1	Rude to approach/open when she is on the phone? If you wait for a girl to be off of her phone before you open her, you will be single for the rest of your life.	/r/seduction	25/08/19 08:36 AM
–	I'm just too bad at starting the conversation. Help me out. Women are attracted to high confidence, high self esteem, extroverts. Which obviously you are not. So the age old advice here is "Fake it till you make it." It doesn't matter what you say. What matters is that you introduce yourself and that she knows you exist. Once she knows you exist you can talk to her anytime you want. But you have to make the introduction. As for direction to the toilet if you must. Ask for the time. Tell her she's hot. Say any weird or random thing. But don't come back on…	/r/seduction	24/08/19 08:56 AM
–	how you fix your problem with approach anxiety What do you mean it's "Not working." Understand that overcoming AA isn't something doing a few direct approaches will fix. It takes most guys months of practice, years even. I know guys that are out daygaming every weekend, all weekend, three days straight for months and still have aa. But they do it anyway. I used to have really bad AA and I went to bars every night. I was terrified but approached anyway. I had literal panic attacks some nights. I'd say it took my about two months going out 5 n…	/r/seduction	24/08/19 08:53 AM
7	Take things too seriously - turn off? There's an old song called "Girls just want to have fun." Look it up. You don't have to be super fun all the time, but in general women run off their emotions. If you can provide them with good emotions then they'll be seduced by you. It will be easier, anyway. Being funny is how average men have gotten laid since the first dicks were carved on cave walls. There's a fine line between "serious" and "boring." If you're boring/introverted but really, really popular or handsome, you can offset it. I…	/r/seduction	24/08/19 08:49 AM
2	Need advice! When you want to go from "Friends" to "Lovers" you have to take a few risks. To not be her "friend" any more, or ever again To risk rejection She may feel the sexual tension between you two, but she's not sure what to do about it. Or, if you've only been a friend to her all this time, she may be clueless. But either way, if she is willing to be alone in your apartment there's a shot. But you have to risk ruining the "friendship" by "escalating." The easiest way to escalate is either through "tou…	/r/seduction	24/08/19 08:45 AM
–	How to work on inner game? You could start a small business, work out, start a band, go to lots of parties, read powerful books, backpack Europe. There are loads of ways to increase your confidence (aka inner game). Start with some self help books. Anything by [Tony Robbins](https://www.amazon.com/Awaken-Giant-Within-Immediate-Emotional-ebook/dp/B001EM101Q?SubscriptionId=AKIAILSHYYTFIVPWUY6Q&tag=duckduckgo-d-20&linkCode=xm2&camp=2025&creative=165953&creativeASIN=B001EM101Q), Eckhart Tolle, Dale Carnegie, to start. Hey. Wh…	/r/seduction	22/08/19 07:28 AM
4	What's the best way to start daygaming, if you've never done it before? Or really approached women at all? Learn how to go direct. That's giving a direct compliment like "Hi, I just thought you were cute and wanted to say Hi. I'm Bill." There are a lot of videos on Youtube from hundreds of daygamers you can watch. There are probably hundreds of books as well. https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=daygame Most guys suffer from approach anxiety, and not knowing what to say. Because you don't know what to say, you have anxiety, and vice versa. The only way to learn what to say, is from practice. …	/r/seduction	22/08/19 07:20 AM
5	So I approached this 9/10 yesterday It's great you're finally learning how to fly. Now what you want to do, is go approach thirty more women. Take notes on all the approaches, and then write detailed field reports about the most memorable ones. Often women will say "I have a boyfriend" because you're some random guy approaching them on the street. You want to get the fundamentals down, and then find the women who either aren't taken with boyfriends, or who don't have them, and aren't going to lie about it. Just saying, one approac…	/r/seduction	21/08/19 12:21 PM
-2	Holy shit. All I had to do was approach. Congratulations on becoming an adult male. 3 women in 24 hours is a great start. Now focus on approaching three women every thirty minutes, and work in chunks of 3-8 hours per day, and you'll be a dating coach in a year. I've helped a lot of guys learn how to approach, and it's always awesome to see their eyes light up after getting their first approach, their first number, or their first notch. It's a long journey from here, but you're on your way.	/r/seduction	21/08/19 11:39 AM