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Honestly I didn't 'try' to go for the kiss, before she left there was eye contact but lost it in the hug.. I was hoping she would have met me on that one. But there were definitely moments on the date I caught her doing the triangular stare.
/r/seduction10/02/18 07:00 PM
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She's been out of the relationship longer than that. It's just that he hit her in September I believe she told after not hearing from him in a while. But he lives in North Carolina now. So I asked her, (background: she told me the last day of the last semester that she'd basically put me on the back burner if he came around. To which I said, well I can't tell you who you can have feelings for, but if you think he's better, then by all means). 'So I asked her,' on Monday, why she thinks he's comi…
/r/seduction10/02/18 04:14 PM
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I called her out on playing games because she couldn't be forward in telling me what she wanted. She calls it her defense mechanism, because she doesn't want to get hurt. They are both awesome, I'm just stuck in limbo with one, and it's affecting my choice with number 2.
/r/seduction07/02/18 07:46 PM
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We were talking about it for a couple of hours over text yesterday. I asked her if I could take her out Friday and forget about this chat for the night. Just enjoy each other's company like we always do and see where it goes. But I agree, if she can't see it eye to eye, I'll have to let her go. I told her if she can't figure out what she wants then I will start talking to other women. I also told her, "you have me in your headlights and I'm ready to make the first move if you meet me halfway."
/r/seduction07/02/18 07:45 PM
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I tell her: you probably didn't know this, but I am a virgin😏. But you totally have to nail the smirk and sarcasm
/r/seduction02/02/18 04:22 PM
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Small world, also from north jersey and same age. Never been to Morristown, but I'll dm if I'm ever out there, we'll wing one out.
/r/seduction27/12/17 05:14 AM
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I can relate.. Even though this is terrible-good advice. My parents on the other hand felt it was unsafe, I slightly agreed, sold the bike and bought a rally car instead :)
/r/seduction26/12/17 02:12 PM
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No I'm not saying to 'tell your current gf to kiss like your ex's.' Just tell her what you like. If you don't know what you like, then I don't know how you can help yourself. You need to be able to justify what you want, when you want it.
/r/seduction20/12/17 03:27 AM
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The whole point of having a relationship to be able to talk to your partner about your needs of satisfaction and vice versa. If you're afraid to talk about your feelings of how you want to be kissed, I don't know if you're ready for a relationship. It really creates a stronger bond in a relationship talking about this stuff. So tell him how you want to be kissed, less tongue, more tongue. Less intense, more intense. Etc.
/r/seduction19/12/17 04:13 PM
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I've been leaving a trial of 'I don't care where this goes' by not being the last one to end text conversations, and not making her priority. Our last interaction was Wednesday walking to her car. After that she texted me Saturday night briefly for small talk, and today she just called me and we chatted for 30 minutes. What I'm trying to say is, she finds a reason to want to talk to me rather than the other way around. When we talk in person, I'm my normal self. I don't give 100% confidence, I g…
/r/seduction11/12/17 03:35 PM
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We do have fun with each other for sure. We have chats with sexual innuendos, we have our own, 'only us two would understand.' Kind of stuff. I've kept my frame since day one, but since day have we have obviously built a better connection with each other. We tease each other with dumb shit or for example if her or myself can't put a sentence together we'll joke around that. She asked me earlier in the week in person how many official relationships I've been in. I told her 2.5, and we laughed abo…
/r/seduction11/12/17 02:06 PM
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Does this line work if you've been rejected once by a kiss, and in both parties kino and flirting have improved since then? It was never weird after I tried to kiss her, I shrugged it off and pretended like it didn't happen.. Since then we are much more platonic and 'touch' each other more, thighs, arms, shoulders, (touching hands, but no holding). We haven't hugged, is a huge problem and makes it harder to k-close by having one less option in there.
/r/seduction11/12/17 01:30 PM
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Is shrugging it off and changing the subject the actual root to take with something like this? It just doesn't make sense to me. This isn't just for OP, but couldn't lifting her head and telling her (if you know this person, or not), there's a reason for her existence. Now you can learn more about her. Ask her what she does, what she likes, what she's always wanted to be, and give her the validation there is always something someone is good, someone will always be better than you, but you have t…
/r/seduction17/11/17 09:36 PM
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By all means I'm not a perfect man who scored all the time. But it depends on the dynamic of the relationship in my opinion. You just saw her in class and didn't get a chance to say something to her? Call her after class. Haven't spoken to her in a few days, give her a text. It can go however you carry yourself. It's all in your tone is what matters when the conversation starts. You of course can't come off strong with the idea right off the bat, just keep it light hearted with 'hey you!' Or som…
/r/seduction13/11/17 01:59 PM
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I'm not down voting. I suppose you're right, on the other hand, my intentions aren't to jump into things. I really didn't want to become a distraction from her school work at first. I wanted to show her I can be a fun and flirty. And I understand, I moved to slow, I was timid. But what does her confessing her self consciousness have to do with the kiss? Why would she bring that up and tell me she's 'scared' of ruining something we have. When I hear scare, I see it differently than not wanting so…
/r/seduction28/10/17 08:12 PM
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Okay thanks, this didn't answer my question.
/r/seduction28/10/17 07:43 PM
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I can't say I lost my shit or my integrity texting her back in a lengthy book. Most of what I wrote, wasn't even about my feelings. The only heart felt thing I included about how I felt about her was within, how she presents herself and etc. the rest was just dodging talking about the event and focusing on her self consciousness. And it wasn't even heart felt. It was hopefully a motivational boost for her. I was just saying I don't know what you just said had to do with what happened, but you sh…
/r/seduction28/10/17 07:04 PM
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I haven't gone in depth on her problems when she has opened some up to me. I acknowledge, and avoid any serious, shoulder crying advice. I make fun, and flirt with her. I complement her in subtle ways, like yesterday before the event of the missed kiss; we were talking about how we just aren't in the best shape like we were when we were in highschool. For example we just sat at the desk for 4 hours doing our work. I said, something like.. 'You think you're out of shape?' She's says yeah blah bla…
/r/seduction28/10/17 04:33 PM
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I will never apologize for being myself. I don't need to take pride either in myself for not apologizing either. It's just me being me.. My kino has lately improved with her, walking out of the parking garage, I would pull her out of the way and closer to me either by grabbing her arm or pulling her by her side when a car is whizzing through. There was something in her hair so I brushed it out using the backside of my fingers, as if I were to brush her hair back behind her ear for a kiss. Someti…
/r/seduction28/10/17 04:21 PM
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That's my number one turn on / sign of being a keeper. I flirt with all women that are open to being there self around around me, however if they can act like my best friend, joke around, shoot the shit, flirt, be charismatic, she's a keeper in my opinion. Would you say, I should just remain persistent at this point? Just keep doing exactly what I was doing, or just give her some more space during the week to give her a bitter taste of what fun and flirty looks like walking away?
/r/seduction28/10/17 12:43 PM
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So I went for it, and can confirm was friend zoned. She texted me right after apologizing for making it weird. Then went more in depth in her being self conscious about herself and how she's trying to improve herself physically and mentally. She does have a history of horrible events that have happened to her, I see them as lessons to her and I see how she's grown into a strong character from those events, just from knowing her this long. She compared herself with a guess to what my ex girlfrien…
/r/seduction28/10/17 02:24 AM
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Well I mean we have date to go out after midterms to go to bar or vineyard. Is hope still lost?
/r/seduction27/10/17 12:46 AM
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I kind of agree with this.. Just show affection. Hangout after class, eat lunch together. Maybe share with him some of your lunch. Little things that will open his head up and think, okay maybe she is into me.
/r/seduction26/10/17 12:17 PM
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Initiate or masturbate That is too funny!
/r/seduction17/09/17 03:03 PM
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You.. Are full of wisdom. I'll keep you posted.
/r/seduction19/01/17 03:35 PM
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Me: "Hey👋🏼" Her: "wasssup" Me: "What are you doing this weekend" Her: (talking in third person) "______ does not know yet" Her: "por que" Me: "Saturday" Me: "you and me" Me: "let's get drinks" Her: (an hour later) "It's my friends birthday this weekend so I might be chilling with him but ill let you know where I'm at bro" Me: "Word, lmk I'll be out and about" ^ at that point I figured I'd try to take the rejection well since I'll be seeing her a lot this semester. I didn't want to seem down abou…
/r/seduction19/01/17 03:03 PM
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Got zoned, appreciate it anyway :)
/r/seduction19/01/17 05:26 AM
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Love it, thank you.
/r/seduction14/01/17 05:29 PM
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Don't force the conversation. Type letter to letter back to her, and play time with time. Edit: she will get tired of her own game, showing how unworthy she is, or she will beat it and make time for you.
/r/seduction04/12/16 02:31 PM
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Appreciate your help
/r/seduction20/05/16 07:31 PM
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I see said the blind man :)
/r/seduction20/05/16 07:09 PM
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so there will be no negotiating, it's on my single objective and no other..?
/r/seduction20/05/16 05:37 PM
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I'm leaning more to a relationship, unless that's not what she wants, ill settle for a fuck buddy... I don't know her on a personal level yet.
/r/seduction20/05/16 04:44 PM
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On the same boat :(
/r/seduction31/10/15 02:37 PM
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Agreed. But how fast should I be moving? I can't just go in for the kill.
/r/seduction01/03/15 06:20 AM
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I keep my options open around her. I will let my eyes wonder while she watches.
/r/seduction01/03/15 06:18 AM
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Just wanted to let you know she texted me back last night. She said, "Hey Sorry just got outta work and yeah for sure haha". So I'm guessing I'm still in the game. I'll keep you posted
/r/seduction31/10/14 12:10 PM
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Well, I said "Yo its Wheatiesss, I had a good time talking to you today. We should hangout again sometime." I don't think the message went through, could be wrong. It does say iMessage, but it doesnt say delivered. If its not the same number, whatever I really must say I dont care. I'm certain she has a boyfriend now after looking at her instagram. (Shes in one of my classes and I asked me if I was any good at snowboarding since we were talking about it, I said that's your preference if you thin…
/r/seduction31/10/14 12:27 AM
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What kind of flirty thing can I say
/r/seduction30/10/14 11:13 PM
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Rejection wasn't the first word that came to mind unfortunately.
/r/seduction10/06/14 01:40 PM
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Because I'm not sexual attracted to them? Edit: makes me a dick?
/r/seduction10/06/14 01:32 PM
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Thanks for the response! I'll check to make sure any little things that catch my attention or vise versa that turn me away. Am I in any kind of rush with her? Like her losing interest fast.. Because I've had a girl lose interest in me a lot faster than I intentioned. So since she's been eying me down basically day one, I don't want to jump into things and ask her to hangout, If I'm not even sure if I'm attracted to her.
/r/seduction10/06/14 01:30 PM
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Just know Im in the same bubble as you. Literally exactly the same bubble. I have yet to get past this, but I'm still working on it. You really aren't alone on this one. I'd say I'm quite the attractive male too, I just don't know how to get past the same problems you're having either. I've been trying to talk to all women with more enthusiasm and spirit. I'm not sure if I have been getting any where, but its helping me get past the fear of talking to women. Its slowly helping me realize women s…
/r/seduction28/04/14 05:22 PM
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I wasn't really focussed on getting her number, I just felt that was the only collateral of letting her go off with my hat. She promised she would be back, and she did. How could I have changed my flirting game?
/r/seduction14/04/14 01:00 PM
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This was everything i ever needed to get over my girl crush. Thank you
/r/seduction16/03/14 05:45 PM
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What do you mean by a front?
/r/seduction16/03/14 05:00 PM
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