WIDPMMITG Archive

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6	Own Your Shit Weekly - February 11, 2020 Watched porn once during the week. Escape/coping strategy. Like any addictive behavior, I do this to escape for some time and end up feeling even worse after it is done. This time it was a combination of some boredom and pent up resentment. Usually there is a feel of not being good enough. All of these bad feels lead into watching porn for a release. I have to do better – next time when an urge hits, plan is to just get out of the room, go for a walk or just go and take a cold shower. For fucks …	/r/MarriedRedPill	11/02/20 02:18 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - February 11, 2020 OYS #5 Stats: 36 yo, height 6'0", weight 182 lb, bodyfat 17%, wife 37 yo, married for 12 years. 4 kids, all boys, ages 6, 4, 2, and 10 mos. BP 190, SQ 205, DL 265. Sidebar readings: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP Going to focus a bit this week on how I've been handling adversity in my relationship, which is to say, not very well. Every morning I wake up in a pretty good mood, no matter what happened the day before, don't know why, I just this weird default start mode. I tell myself, today, you are going …	/r/MarriedRedPill	11/02/20 02:15 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - February 04, 2020 OYS #4 Stats: 36 yo, height 6'0", weight 182 lb, bodyfat 17%, wife 37 yo, married for 12 years. 4 kids, all boys, ages 6, 4, 2, and 10 mos. BP 190, SQ 205, DL 265. Sidebar readings: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP Health: Been on TRT for about 5 months now, really made a difference in my day to day energy, physique, and libido. Bedroom performance has gotten way better and I have gone from almost never initiating to initiating almost daily. Lifting: Made great progress up until shoulder injury and vacatio…	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/02/20 09:38 PM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 30, 2019 OYS #3 (OYS #1 for background) Stats: 36 yo, height 6'0", weight 162 lb, bodyfat 16%, wife 37 yo, married for 12 years. 4 kids, all boys, ages 6, 4, 2, and 6 mos. Sidebar readings: NMMNG (done), WISNIFG (in progress) Health: Got my blood test results back, this is with a HRT doctor, they are recommending a course of self-injected T, estrogen blockers, etc. Interested to hear if anyone else has experience with T-therapy of this kind - the good, the bad... At this stage, I am ready to give it a sh…	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/07/19 03:57 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 16, 2019 OYS #2 (OYS #1 for background) Stats: 36 yo, height 6'0", weight 163 lb, bodyfat 16%, wife 37 yo, married for 12 years. 4 kids, all boys, ages 6, 4, 2, and 6 mos. Sidebar readings: NMMNG (done), WISNIFG (in progress) Health: Went to get blood test for possible low T levels last week - should get results this week and consult on potential TRT to deal with historical and persistent low libidio, ED issues. Lifting: Lifted twice last week vs. the 3 times I had intended. I am happy that I went Tue …	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/07/19 04:07 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 09, 2019 You're not attractive to her. I read somewhere that kissing can be a lot more intimate for a woman than PIV. She may be doing other stuff, but if she needs to be truly attracted to enjoy kissing. I got this same shit - "I don't like kissing", "it's not you, I just don't like that", "I don't like things touching my face". The thing is - she may actually believe this but it's because you're not attractive to her. Don't focus on this - focus on improving yourself. What are the measurements that sho…	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/07/19 03:00 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 09, 2019 To be honest, it is a combination of sticking around because of the good old times, in hopes of returning, the money angle, and probably #1 at this point - the kids. I am really troubled by the prospect of my children not living with me full time. I'm sure a lot of guys make it work, but for me, I'm very invested in fatherhood on a daily basis and I highly value that not changing. If it's at all possible to save the marriage, I need to.	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/07/19 02:49 PM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 09, 2019 OYS 1 First post, been lurking for a bit, finally created an account and subbed. I'm 36, wife 37, 4 young kids, been married 13 years to my college sweetheart. I can tell there is an incredible amount of work ahead of me. Fitness I've always maintained in moderate shape. Definitely go through cycles where I hit the gym religiously for months, but always gets thrown off course when we have a new kid. The latest (4 months old) threw me off my game, but got back in the gym Sunday night, so I'…	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/07/19 02:07 PM