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WNY_PUA/r/seduction05/01/14 10:59 PM
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I had a buddy who was very successful with women, and he would joke about having a small penis (no idea if it's true or not) - with that said - he was making the jokes very confidently - to the point of being charismatic about it - and with that knowledge in hand, still made it home with a number of girls. Your options: First of all, do not, under any circumstances send a pic. It's a great excuse for her to pull back, and if you do appear as embarrassing as you say, it WILL get shared (all dick …
/r/seduction30/06/21 04:01 PM
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I had this dynamic at work. I'm very good at throwing out funny quips and getting everyone laughing. I'm the office funny guy. I also remember killing it at a party with quips when I met my ex girlfriend for the first time (our breakup led me too /r/seduction, but that's irrelevant). But every once in a while, I'm just not hitting. I say something casually like I always do and it crashes and burns and everyone looks at me like I just ripped a smelly fart. At this point, I have really two choices…
/r/seduction13/08/16 07:51 PM
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Blowjob with a condom or cunnilingus with a dental dam.
/r/seduction20/12/15 01:04 AM
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I mean - sure - don't scare yourself into only having sex wearing a full body condom, knowing the risks is important. It's not hard to bring up being tested with someone you meet and are about to hook up with. Communication is paramount in seduction, and this is just as true for when the mood is right. Some people argue that it ruins the mood. Well - I would rather one mood be ruined than have to deal with an STD, and potentially have a difficult conversation everytime I wanted to hook up in the…
/r/seduction20/12/15 12:24 AM
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Take the first girl who friendzones you and have her go to the store with you to help you smell good and pick up chicks because you are such great friends. This is a great reason why having a platonic girl friend is a good idea. Look at what this accomplishes: It's probably one of the few times it's okay to be the fisherman who asks the fish how to be caught. While asking specific dating advice will get you garbage, things like clothing, fragrance, and similar TANGIBLE things are good! As you st…
/r/seduction19/12/15 08:13 PM
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That's very true, but the original comment by /u/defininingsound asserted that stomach acid and whiskey are somehow going to prevent infection. I was offering counterexamples to the people who seemed to support his argument.
/r/seduction19/12/15 07:10 PM
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Don't turn this around, because I'm not saying that. You in This comment, addressed someone who was refuting /u/definingsound's assertion that stomach acid kills bacteria (and who also made the dubious claim that whiskey will help keep things clean as well). The idea was that bacteria automatically die in the stomach. I was asserting that it wasn't true, and was in fact a big reason why people have G.I. illness.
/r/seduction19/12/15 06:48 PM
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Should he have used the term "Probing the bearded axe wound" instead?
/r/seduction19/12/15 06:43 PM
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Read my comment here: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3xg4t0/how_do_you_guys_feel_about_going_down_on_a_girl/cy4on66
/r/seduction19/12/15 06:42 PM
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Wow - this entire thread is one huge fucking clusterfuck of misinformation. Unprotected oral sex IS risky. Period. Let's go over the reasons why: Let me begin with a blanket statement: YES - BLOOD IS THE MOST INFECTIOUS ROUTE OF INFECTION OF ANY DISEASE. But this doesn't mean there aren't other infectious routes. Although the likelihood is low, especially if the partner is medicated, mucosal membrane transmission of HIV is possible: http://www.aidsmap.com/Route-and-susceptibility-mucous-membrane…
/r/seduction19/12/15 06:41 PM
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You're right in terms of likelihood - blood is the most likely route of infection, which makes anal sex so risky, but there are other routes that can infect people (semen, breast milk, mucosal membrane)
/r/seduction19/12/15 06:34 PM
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What do you think makes bad food bad then? What do you think is the cause of a bacterial gastrointestinal infection?
/r/seduction19/12/15 06:32 PM
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http://www.aidsmap.com/Route-and-susceptibility-mucous-membranes-and-target-cells/page/1324028/ False. HIV requires blood, semen, breast milk, and mucosal membrane contact to be transmitted.
/r/seduction19/12/15 06:31 PM
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Wow - I can't believe I spelled "Introducing" wrong...
/r/seduction29/05/14 02:08 AM
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This so much. To elaborate: You have a 2 hour time investment in most dinners. This means food, conversation, kino, and slow, steady escalation. Are you up for that? Are you good enough to deal with the awkward silences? Are you planning on picking up that bill? Are you sure that you're gonna sit at an intimate table and not a cheesy booth? Are you sure you're not gonna drop food on you and look like an idiot? Money. If you go to a cheap place for dinner, you look like a low-value turd. If you g…
/r/seduction31/01/14 09:31 PM
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This is tricky. It all depends on your prior relationship with the girl: If the two of you haven't really hung out more than once or twice, and you haven't really hooked up, there's a good chance that you're just there to keep guys from hitting on them. If the two of you have hooked up, maybe gone on a few dates, I think she's showing you off. Now, the friends could maintain a number of demeanors including jealousy, resentment for ruining girls' night, a welcoming vibe, or really anything. This …
/r/seduction19/01/14 05:29 PM
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Most guys my age DON'T invest the effort into self-improvement or game quite as much as I have. This. We're more or less scientists. We problem solve and figure it out. Those with natural game have difficulty describing why they're good. The difference is that anyone can work harder and become the best, but we're really the only ones who do. MOST girls my age have never had guys approach them in this manner either. And my age. And women in their 30s, 40s, and 50s. Even fucking popular models don…
/r/seduction18/01/14 03:54 PM
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Of course it's not my fault that she acted on the feelings she got without dumping me first. But it's my fault that i wasn't the best man i could be. Getting cheated on was my main motivator to become awesome. This sums of how cheating should be viewed by everyone. I think cheaters are simply cowards (I've cheated, so I empathize, and even though this was 8 years ago, I still feel like shit about it, and will never do it again). But really - you cheat because you're unfulfilled. So - if you are …
/r/seduction17/01/14 04:12 PM
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No one fucking said it, so I will. GREAT. FUCKING. FIELD REPORT. Like - it's the perfect field report: You set up the situation nicely You set up the tasks and actions (strategies and tactics) You went into the results, and you reflected and gave rationale for everything. Who gives a shit that he fucked some other guy's girl? We're here to learn, not judge. Fuck everyone for openly judging him. If you don't like it, just don't do it. The girl's obviously not that attracted to her boyfriend, or s…
/r/seduction17/01/14 04:04 PM
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Agreed.
/r/seduction15/01/14 03:39 AM
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If you can't handle the idea that a woman has had a lot of partners (i.e. you're worried she has more partners than you), then you don't have to ask that if you don't want to (personally, I don't care, and it's nice to gauge her experience). You definitely need to know about STDs. If nothing else, assume she's had lots of sex, unprotected, with a ton of dudes, and ask if she's been tested. She should ask the same of you.
/r/seduction15/01/14 03:31 AM
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90% of people think it's gross. I stopped caring what people think. That's a huge part of this journey. They're more prone to cheating because they throw sex around. They tend to be attention seekers who will do whatever it takes to get it. I think for these two ideas, you see a spectrum starting at the insecure slut and ending with the confident woman who likes sex. It's the former you're talking about - sometimes these girls grew up fat and got sexy, so they constantly seek validation - I find…
/r/seduction15/01/14 03:27 AM
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I know that you're in a very unique situation, but others have actually come to /r/seduction with a very similar problem. Do a search on some of your keywords including "wheelchair," "little person," "midget," and "disabled." There has been some great advice given to people in a similar situation. Good luck!
/r/seduction15/01/14 03:09 AM
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That's just disgusting dude. Elaborate. I think I was quite clear with my reasoning. Tell me why it's disgusting as long as she's free of STDs...
/r/seduction15/01/14 03:06 AM
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Jesus Christ. This again. Nice is a good quality to have!!! Just don't let it be your defining quality. When an acquaintance is tasked with describing you and the first thing they think of is "nice," then that's interpreted as "holy shit, this guy's friend is so boring, he can only be described as "nice." You want to be nice, but you don't want your defining quality to be "nice." The thing about "assholes" is that they are perceived as "assholes" because they're so outcome independent, that they…
/r/seduction15/01/14 03:01 AM
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Personally, I've learned to embrace a girl's past encounters. I used to get sick to my stomach over these things. Somewhere along the line, that idea just dropped away. When you date a "prude" you get what I'm saying - when you get around to doing the deed, whether it's on the 2nd, or 10th date (if you are having fun, maybe you'll stick around that long while being sexless), you risk ending up with a clinger. And of course, with prudes, the skill levels tend to be...not so good. When you date so…
/r/seduction14/01/14 11:57 PM
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I think Field reports would be AWESOME if: We encouraged more failure reports. I'm guilty of filtering my reports, but from here on out, if I fail, I'm writing about it. We adhered to the S.T.A.R. method that is commonly used in interview responses. STAR stands for "Situation, Task, Action, Results." Here's what I'm thinking: Situation: Self-explanatory. You describe the venue, you describe what you're wearing, what's going on in your mind that night, who you're with, etc. Just a good intro. Tas…
/r/seduction10/01/14 04:16 PM
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Sounds like a pissing contest. She'll know she's getting to OP unless she's insecure. OP should just ignore it, and assume she's just trying to portray herself as sexual.
/r/seduction07/01/14 07:43 PM
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I used to be like this a lot. My last serious girlfriend, when we were just kinda friends, would go on and on and on about guys she wanted to fuck, but turned her down (people I knew), how hot my friends were, and large penises she's had inside of her. I liked her, and it killed me. Finally, platonic female friend of mine told me "She's saying these things because she wants you to think she's sexual, and not a prude." I learned this was the case. When we dated, we fucked a lot. I also learned th…
/r/seduction07/01/14 05:35 PM
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I'm jealous! If I lived in a bigger city, I may have done this! I'm really happy that you put the numbers together. When you put them side by side with what others have been talking about, it's a no-brainer. But for everyone else in the smaller cities - it's definitely not an excuse. The fact is that for every single girl on OKC, there are probably at least 5-10 partying at a bar. Approaching without fear will net any guy the same numbers you're boasting, I would think. Thanks again. I love this…
/r/seduction07/01/14 05:11 PM
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The lesson here is great, and /u/Spiderman48 explained it best. I want to point out that I cannot do this in my city. With 1,000,000 (probably less) in our metropolitan area, we're a small city. I have seen girls from OKC in the wild, and even approached a few. They also recognized me. I also work at a big company where I'm well known there by all. There are people here who have OKC profiles. My point: I would eventually make the mistake of messaging a coworker, or simply be out with coworkers w…
/r/seduction07/01/14 04:52 PM
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Gotcha. Style's important. I don't care what anyone says. You can be ugly, you can be good at conversation - all that. If you don't at least convey up-to-date, but relaxed style, you're doing yourself a disservice by making it hard on yourself. Well done.
/r/seduction06/01/14 04:17 PM
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Yes. My good friend used to be his roommate. Got laid all the time.
/r/seduction06/01/14 04:15 PM
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I can't speak as an expert on Gay game because I'm not gay, but I can definitely recommend some things that should help: Inner Game is Universal. Building your inner game is a surefire way to attracting anyone. Check out the book "Models" by Mark Manson as a good start (this book reads like a very good self-help book, and not a cheesy PUA manual). Smile, and talk to everyone. I was at a party hosted by my ex girlfriend (she was my ex at the time). I was looking to meet some new people and some o…
/r/seduction06/01/14 02:51 PM
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Nicely done, and well-written [FR]. You handled rejection well (even if one of them was rejection by way of the law), and you rolled with the punches. Tell us how you were dressed. Spontaneous day game is fun because the strategy is really "just get up and do it" but it's nice to see how you presented yourself (i.e. built value). Also - that Greek Food girl - her hesitation said it all. If she didn't have a boyfriend, you'd have gotten her number.
/r/seduction06/01/14 05:10 AM
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Read "Models" by Mark Manson. It's all inner game, and doesn't read like a cheesy PUA manual. You'll put that book down a better person in every way possible - even if you're in a nice relationship.
/r/seduction06/01/14 05:08 AM
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I have a buddy who's about 5' 8", not incredibly attractive, but has a very laid back way of speaking. His game is amazing. He will bring up his small penis (I have no way of knowing if it's actually small). He will talk for a bit, and then make a joke about how it's probably the smallest penis the girl's ever seen. But he owns it. It's pretty clear that he's making it up, right? No guy would talk about his penis so nonchalantly if it were small....right? He talks about playing in a band, even w…
/r/seduction06/01/14 04:58 AM
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Three simpler ways: Assume she's attracted to you and approach her See rule #1 See rule #2 I just feel like the newcomers will spend their first 30 minutes looking for girls to give them the green light. When they finally approach, they'll look like creepers because they spent the first 30 minutes staring around the room. Just approach. Don't think.
/r/seduction06/01/14 04:47 AM
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I'd like to comment that this isn't much of a field report. Field reports tie strategy with tactics. All field reports need to follow the S.T.A.R. method. (Situation, Task, Actions, Results). You painted the situation well. The task would be you introducing the strategy you employed. The action would be the tactics you used to execute the strategy, and the results are results. I'm reading a plot summary of your night. Here's what's missing: What strategies did you choose to employ? "My Buddy Rob…
/r/seduction06/01/14 04:36 AM
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