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WOPR-1983/r/AllPillDebate01/08/22 05:56 PM
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So married men shrugging, giving in and saying "Well, happy wife, happy life." is what then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:22 PM
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Nothing women can do would surprise me. Same goes for men. Humans in generally really. You know what really surprised me? This snake: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U4D24Cy6zsY
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:00 PM
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Sought after. LOL. Why would I want to be attractive to a parasite. It's like smearing honey on your neck to attract mosquitos and horseflies when you head into the bush. I love being invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:30 PM
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Oh, these guys were not even that bad. They were just average dudes. But c'mon. Top SMV women who get jobs wearing bikinis at trade shows typically don't get hot and wet for average dudes. Why would they? The fat bald guys... they're a bloody trope already.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:23 PM
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Like the large dent in the mattress, she puts a dent in space-time, and you just get pulled towards her like a big sweaty black hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:17 PM
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No they're falling asleep because of the cake I used to lure them into my bedroom. nom nom nom.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:02 PM
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I was with over 40 women before I met my wife. I never cheated on her, and wanted to fight to save our marriage. She didn't. For me, my past sexual history didn't affect my ability to choose monogamy. Sure, hot women still caught my eye. But if you believe in loyalty like I do, you just never act on those impulses. It's that simple. Cheaters gonna cheat no matter their n-count. Do women have a harder time pair-bonding after slutting it up? It's a big Red Pill speaking point but I am not sure. On…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:14 PM
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Boom this. It's a numbers game. A fisherman doesn't always need the best lure. But he needs to cast that motherfucker about 1,000 times. But, if he gets the fish, it was a means to an end. Women complain they don't get heartfelt personalized love letters on OLD from a thousand guys of whom 999 will be summarily rejected on looks alone. Smart men don't invest anything until there is at least some reciprocation. Women have this "dance monkey dance" attitude towards men. Lacking a libido myself, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:23 PM
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Yeah, it's like bitching to crabby judges on a talent show. They really don't like that attitude. You're there to (a) perform and (b) kiss the right asses. Women expect men to be quiet, subservient dancing monkeys. Not being a guy to be quiet when handed a shit sandwich and a large bill, well, I don't do well socially in the "mating arena".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:21 PM
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Bullshit. I always rated women 1-2 points higher than most other people. Even the "nerd girls" in dish soap commercials they try to make look like 6's are smoking 8's with bad hair and clothes on. It's about perspective. I was always able to find women to get with who I found attractive because I've always had reasonable standards. I know some guys who were perpetually single - and they have photos of themselves with "gym bunnies" at trade shows and strip clubs. These are patently ordinary men. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:13 PM
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Face it. Any women who is not facially ugly and not fat is highly sought after - by high value men too. All women need to do is (a) not get too fat and (b) not be too crazy. It's a very tall order, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:10 PM
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The average woman is 5'4 and 170lbs. I don't let women over 200 pounds mount me without safety equipment though. I mean, if she falls asleep, it's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:09 PM
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Wow. So he does "most of the chores" so he doesn't have to listen to you whine about it. And he functions better with less sleep than you. Wow again.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/22 04:02 PM
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Hey, if she reciprocates and treats him like a king then no problem. It's wanting to be treated like a queen while espousing this "men are worthless dogshit" attitude modern feminists push then it's a big problem. And BTW - why is he happier now that he's doing MORE than you? Why does he have to do MORE than you? Ah, yes. Because you're the QUEEN. lololol. All this bullshit talk from women about "equality" and "equity". Face it: Women today want to get married, but they don't want to be wives. W…
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 09:09 PM
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Right because he's never going to break his rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:53 AM
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You're saying a lot of "alt-right" people were online espousing Red Pill beliefs? I think they were online espousing xenophobic, racist and white nationalist beliefs...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:42 AM
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Why? Because it's awkward? It's perfectly reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:39 AM
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I know. Men used to work in mines, get killed in wars, or just do 12 hour stints in lead and cadmium smoke filled factories... they just talked to other men and fucked around all day. They had a blast. It's the women, forced to stay back at home, who needed to medicate themselves into a stupor just to get dinner on the table. The horror. Feminism's take on history is like a toddler trying to explicate Shakespeare.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:38 AM
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People need to make "marriage contracts" and decide up front what they will and will not tolerate. I mean, as it stands, marriage contacts are all about money and nothing else. If they say no kids, they put no kids in the agreement. If they say cheating is 100% not okay, in the agreement. And they should have a clause if one person decides to make it a sexless union. Most men say "I signed up for monogamy. Not celibacy." Women, too, can add things like: "No porn use" or "If you become porn sick …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:41 PM
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The problem is that Western feminists unfortunately believe in cultural imperialism and have no respect for religion or culture. Doesn't explain their obsession with defending certain specific religions and cultures who are historically against feminist Liberalism though... I guess any enemy of a conservative is a friend to a feminist? Their enemies are my friends type thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:31 PM
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Idk, but it doesn’t look good. I personally think the population will decrease significantly because... Immigration. Government has plumetting birth rates allllll figured out. And the cultures of many places people emigrate from still believe in family sizes of 4 or 5 or more. PERFECT! All the people bitching: have no fear. In a few generations your whines will be echoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:28 PM
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Unattractive men will be outside of the dating market as they always have been. And women will complain and utilitize men as they always have . They will call this black pill but it's just the uncolored truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:26 PM
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Remember genders are 50/50. I no longer wonder why older women eat antidepressants for breakfast. Eating all those pills. Oh, the irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:26 PM
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He does. He says no to women over 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:15 PM
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Well, if it's gone then it can't have an impact, or be part of, Red Pill. ? Shrug?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:13 PM
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Alt right is basically gone at this point. It split when Trump didn't deliver on his promises. You were specifically talking about the size of the alt-right.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:50 PM
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Um... because of the downsides, which are many?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:56 PM
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Sometimes rules are bent and are still ultimately kept. Other times bending or breaking rules causes flood-gates to open.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:56 PM
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The alt-right didn't go anywhere. It was just a few very vocal, loud and disruptive groups making headlines and left-wing MSM making it sound like half the country was donning jack boots and signing up for Nazi boot camp. The alt-right was small before Trump, during Trump and it's small now. Most people who supported Trump were not Nazis, they were regular working class people tired of Obama and his pandering to the left, the virtue signaling, the fear-mongering, the pandering to special interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:52 PM
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There is a Trad-Con subset to the manosphere. Trad-cons are associated with the alt-right by the quivering woke left. The quivering left wants to paint the entire manosphere as misogynistic Nazis who want women to be barefoot, pregnant and locked in a kitchen. If you believe what you read over at the Guardian, New York Times or uber-feminist sites like Bolde you'll eat that stuff up. If you don't, you'll probably just shrug.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:48 PM
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Why is it acceptable to look at a man and say '' hahaha look at your lame jawline. ha haha look at your terrible hairline.'' and then proceed to mock men who try to address these flaws? If you don't have to look like Danny Devito, why look like Danny Devito? If you can make more money, why not make more money? Women want innately superior men. Men who "worked" for it or "earned" it or got it from a surgeon or pharmacist. Case in point, I asked women about men who use Viagra type drugs and they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:25 PM
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I understand wanting someone young and beautiful but come on 26 year olds and 25 year old are practically identical. Because it's a rule. Many successful people have rules they follow. It's how they became successful in the first place. If you open the door to 26, next thing you're dating cougars.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:19 PM
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Fair enough. Still an addiction that can be beat in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:14 PM
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LOL. It's NEVER about money with women. Right up until the moment there's not enough of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:12 PM
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LOL. Said by someone who knows jack shit about me. Save your schoolyard name-calling for your schoolyard.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:11 PM
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Well, I turned to porn for some stress relief after the bedroom went dead. For me, porn was a symptom, not the disease. Now I hardly look at porn at all. Kind of find it... boring. Oh, look another spinner getting railed by BBC. Yawn. Seen one seen 'em all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:00 AM
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I didn't say that. I say they are experience and feelings focused. Her experiences are dictated by her biases, perceptions and feelings. She may be catered to and pampered, yet feel she is being neglected and oppressed. If anything, what she experiences doesn't have to align with reality at all. When people ask me what my "banking experience today" was I just LOL. Like, I just don't fucking care. The money got moved from A to B, so I am???? Orgasmic? LOL. It's a fucking bank transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:59 AM
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I've buried one too many addicts to agree with that statement...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:54 AM
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You can get any affirmation you want by googling it. I can google: "Reasons why aliens exist" and Google will give me 100,000 of them. So, yeah, no interested in google telling you what you want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:36 AM
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Knowing other people's agenda for you and making informed decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:35 AM
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If she "thinks" or "feels" or "wants" you to have more money... Then you need more money. Try and weasel your way out of it and see where that gets a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:29 PM
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I like the "opposite land" catch 22 problems they give men too. Example: June: Honey, you need to tell the boss you need more more. (Man gets promotion and raise... and more responsibility...) July: Honey, you're spending too much time at work... Facepalm. Feelings over logic. Makes me fucking nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:47 PM
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Time. Money. Energy. And not necessarily in abundance as the "abundance theorists" so boldly claim. And you sure as hell can't get time back, once it's spent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:41 PM
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Height and a nice jawline. Slender build. Modern hairstyle. Trendy facial hair. Big dick. Impressive job, nice ride. Throws cash around, throws good parties. Associates with other pretty, cool people with "social currency". Skin care, accessories, nice shoes... the little shit women obsess over. If you're doing all that and are not beating the women off with a stick you're a psychopath or insufferable asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:43 PM
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What does that even mean? Do people really get this "deeper understanding of love"? OR do they just finally learn that relationships take compromise and to stop being such incessant whiners about trivial bullshit that doesn't matter? Some people grow out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:39 PM
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I've always sort of believed that love is a bunch of brain chemicals doing a massive mind fuck on a person. I used to enjoy companionship and even living with a woman despite that. Good times, bad times. Ups and down. Now that my brain chemicals have been tempered by other chemicals (medications I need) I have no use for this "love" thing or being with someone else. To me it's a megaton of extra work for very little in return. Sometimes, even, a bunch of incessant whining or just Kristen Stewart…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:37 PM
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Men seem to analyze / explain their worlds more. This is where some men would actually benefit from the "touch grass" advice and get off Reddit and into real life more. Women seem to experience / feel their worlds more. Sometimes their ability to stick with feelings over facts makes my head do a complete 360. It's unreal. This is a HUGE part of me being single for the longest time. I find the discussions or negotiations with women about relationship problems / issues to be downright fucking pain…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:34 PM
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There is a reason why the movie "What Women Want" was a comedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:30 PM
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Most of the promiscuous guy's I know are fucking losers. They lie and pretend to have more money than they actually do. They go into debt to impress females and they have spend to much time chasing women. I know a few now in their 30's and they don't own anything. Most of them are man children. Nope nope and nope. I was promiscuous between relationships and never did any of that shit. You're making things up. Not all sexually successful men are players lying about their station in life or "going…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:28 PM
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I was a bad bad boy between relationships but aside from one drunken kiss with an ex I never typically cheated on girlfriends. Never cheated on the wife. But, she thought looking at porn was cheating so... Yeah. Whatevah.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:26 PM
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Well, my dad taught me the POLAR OPPOSITE of how a man should manage a wife. And by that, I mean fucking manage. But, he instilled in me all kinds of values and virtues that are very helpful to me, especially vocationally. Even a dad like mine who simped for a mentally unwell mother was better than no dad at all. Because for every one thing he taught me to do wrong, he taught me ten other things to do right. A less-than-perfect dad who tried is still better than no dad at all. Women think they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:37 PM
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I read his weird problem. He's got hired help yet his wife is such a trainwreck his house is still a mess. I don't know anyone with house-keepers where this is a problem. Maybe he needs new housekeepers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:27 PM
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So in other words, be CAPABLE of being an actual male, just don't be an actual male. lolol. Fucking social constructionists. How about I be who and what I want to be and you get two choices: a) Accept me as I am. b) Run away like a little bitch. That goes for both/all genders, and all ages. I'm done giving a fuck about what society thinks about me. Oddly, I'm not any worse off vocationally or socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:25 PM
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I'm not "poor" lolol. I do my own housework because it's easy and I am not a slob. If you can afford hired help and your house is still a disaster every day, you have a management problem - not a wife or "help" problem. Nor am I poor because I don't need 3500 square feet to live in. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:22 PM
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This guy has maids and gardeners and they can't keep up with his wife because she's *that* big of a slob. Either this person has serious Princess Syndrome, or this story makes no sense because it's fabricated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:35 PM
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Yep. Thanks to single mothers we have record numbers of school shooters and young men who feel thwarted because they are "involuntarily celibate" and pissed off that their out-of-shape cheetoh-dust covered socially inept selves cannot land the cheerleader they pine after. It's the lack of male role models that women decided were not necessary are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:33 PM
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I think it's a precipitation of Karen-esque neuroticism and this "my child is the best what's going on here" entitlement. Yes, these women want the best for their kids, but end up doing things that interfere with a child's emotional development and ability to experience life, make their own mistakes and learn and grow from the process. I recall the stories of the mothers who would come to their child's first "big interview" out of college to "help their child negotiate". I mean really. I would s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:55 PM
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I think average men think they should be able to have casual sex when they want with who they want and are perpetually unsatisfied. Meh, you really don't know how an average man thinks about anything then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:50 PM
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Very very few 40+ year old men IRL believe in this anti-RP strawman that middle aged men are going to be pulling hot college women on the regular. It's very rare, and it's usually a young gold digger after a guy from a family with money, or some young hippie-child with severe daddy issues. Men IRL just don't believe this "alleged theory" and that's because it's a complete straw man. Just because MOST men STILL find younger women hot doesn't mean they pursue these impulses.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:48 PM
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Depends on where you get it...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:45 PM
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Man brings a three-page list of shit. She brings her vagina. /thread Oh me? I have little interest in "doing all that" to try to make a woman happy. To me it's a hilarious undertaking that only a horny fool of a man would ever attempt in the first place. So, I get nothing because I offer nothing. And no, cohabitation will never be "one of the levels" aka "the next level" women always seems to be after. For the "strong and independent" gender, they sure are in a rush to shack up. Hmmmm... But hey…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:33 PM
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Same thing can be said for women who believe that all women are just leagues above all men today... they should try other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:32 PM
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If you have a 3500 sq foot house but can't afford a maid and gardener, you suck at math.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:21 PM
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Overprotective parents, especially over-protective mothers, are extremely damaging to kids development.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:43 AM
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Hmmm... the assertive guys who figure out the social maze to get the cheese at the end are rewarded with the sex they want. Sounds like there are reasons why these men are reproducing and the other men are on Reddit screeching about involuntary celibacy. I've done a lot of difficult things in my life. Getting laid wasn't one of them. Sure, it took some exercise, fashion sense, social acuity, and the time to cultivate opportunities, but it was certainly do-able.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:06 PM
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Sounds like a nonrefundable desposit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:47 PM
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That said that would be my standard regardless of my own shape. I am attracted to what I am attracted to, and I know I would have a hard time being happy in a marriage if I find my wife physically repulsive. AMEN. Women don't need to meet the standards they ask for in partners, why should men? Fat women want to date thin guys, but won't date fat men. Then they cry foul when a guy finds them too fat. smh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:23 AM
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The difference between 6'-0" and 6-3" is a soccer field. 6-3" guys tower over everyone in the room who isn't 6-3". And that's 95% or more of us. I mean, I'm 6-0" and can dead-lift an engine block, but still.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/22 04:10 AM
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way All that jiggly joy just looking for a place strong enough for it to happen...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:00 AM
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I'm 6-0" in height. That's no longer tall. Women think 6-2" is some absolute minimum now. That's because height-wise that's 2% or less of the population.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 03:44 AM
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"Just one more guy and then you can wait for marriage..." I mean, what's just one more guy?
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 09:57 PM
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These women are dating men who seem to meet their standards on paper but aren't suitable for some reason or another. Lol. They are not suitable because they have other, better, options and are using these women for easy casual sex. That's the one reason, and the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:58 PM
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Yes, and if you're not in the top echelons of looks, you may as WELL be a bridge troll because you're getting rejected based on looks alone either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:56 PM
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So why the megaton of copium then about suggesting they revisit their preferences IF they are struggling in the SMP? "So, what you want me to date the 5-2" fat bald guy who lives with his mother?" Right. 5% of men are ballers and 5% are bridge trolls and that statement above proves what Red Pill has been saying all along: most men are simply invisible to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:44 PM
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No consent, no money. If women get 100% reproductive rights and can thwart a paternity test (with lame excuses such as the ones you're offering here) then they can unilaterally fund a child which may or may not be his. No proof, no money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:13 PM
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If she's a high value woman herself, then no problem. She can lock him down. If she's not, she'll get used for sex for a while, but call it a "trist" or some other way of denying to herself she was used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:38 AM
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Yep. Beta provider men need to read this hard truth and ask themselves why they do what they do. Well, we all know why. To pay top dollar for Chad's sloppy seconds and his "instant family".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:31 AM
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I don't think that's what I said at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:17 AM
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You can't claim that this thread is bullshit, yet go onto say but all women think all men are shitty. Average women today, outside of this sub, believe they are leagues above average men, and prove it with their "Chad or bust" mentality - "The man I deserve or cats". Uh huh. The jury's out if she "deserves" such a man. Many women think what they desire is what they deserve. Men too. It's like a love-sick highschool kid pining for the "most popular girl in the school" because he simply wants the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:00 AM
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Average women will always be fast food for a very high value man. They think they're "special" because they get him to whisper sweet nothings and they speak those soft little words between kisses... but it's all bullshit. She's going to be on social media crying about asshole men. It's inevitable. Assholes are not "mean guys" per se. They're just guys with options who don't fall for the sweet nothings that easy women whisper to them. It's like a factory worker who rides a Bugati and now he's rui…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:56 PM
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Now I'm laughing at myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:14 PM
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Then the entire topic of this thread is a bullshit false dichotomy. Here are the choices given by the OP. People said hot/rich guys were assholes and average/poor guys were not. Women are saying ALL men are assholes, may as well stick with hot ones. I am saying there is #3 missing. There are average dudes that would treat average women well, it's just that average women don't want these guys and have to justify rejecting their peers and getting sport fucked by high value men. 1 and 2 are not the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:29 PM
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There is a pronounced need to ignore completely even the possibility a "less than Chad" guy won't treat her better. I'm done here. It's 100% copium.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:27 PM
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Yes, and I'm saying believing that there are ONLY these two options is subconsciously crafted faulty logic. You don't have two choices. You have three. But the one option is abhorrent to women, so they create a big blind spot to put it into. Same concept as men chasing crazy or unobtainable women. Both genders are mind fucked by their own sex organs. Not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:24 PM
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I am not downplaying it. Women are obsessed with it. And women deny the existence of average dudes who will treat them well. It's like a programmed biological blind spot. It's incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:19 PM
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For women? Being used as a cum receptacle by a guy who knows he can do better in a heartbeat? And at best be a forever girlfriend? And we all know she's doing all of his housework to keep him around too. She bitches here, but not to him because if she did, he'd just replace her with an equally willing, average less bitchy woman. Women want to believe their only two options are "bang maid to a beta" or "Chad's plaything." It's 100% rationalisation. There are still men out there who will treat wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:18 PM
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The idea that all men treat all women like shit, so woman "may as well" just sport fuck hot guys is the biggest "slut positive" copium of this entire PPD realm. There ARE men who would treat these women well, they just have no interest in them (can't negotiate attraction). The claim that lower value men (or men in their league) with mistreat them is just rationalisation for the behaviour. Doesn't matter. As long as Beta Brads are walking away from the game and doing their own thing, it's of no r…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:10 PM
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Right, and Chad will treat her better. Like a whore he doesn't even need to pay. Also known as a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:07 PM
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Most of us are just dating well adjusted men our own age after going through the normal series of try ons and breakups Try-ons and breakups... Methinks this is really "fucking high SMV guys until one sticks around." But, call it what you want...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:06 PM
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"Lower value men will treat me badly too." isn't reality. It's pure fucking copium.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:05 PM
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And statistically people with more education, more wealth, who grew up in a higher class tend to have the longest, healthiest, and most peoductive relationships. With their equals. Not with Becky The Degreed Frump Girl. Average women get used like sports socks by high value men. But that's okay, they already justify it with mental gymnastics: "Well, the lesser men are going to treat me like shit anyways." Well, then... have fun I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:03 PM
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Well, look at the quintessential Chad. If push comes to shove in a crisis, Chad isn't going to share his food with everyone out of obligation, fear or compassion. He's going to TAKE food from everyone, and MAYBE share it with his woman and her children. Survival of the fittest. Women like a man that is at least potentially violent. It explains the whole "choke me enough in bed so that I know you could do it without actually almost killing me..." thing. Knew this one trollop who loved to slum it …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:48 PM
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Paternity tests make this all go away. /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:41 PM
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If they think I have high standards, they'll hate to learn how high my dads standards would be; literally no one would be good enough. Hate? Or not care? Everybody knows all dads think "nobody is good enough for my little girl" which is the fathers own innate narcissism to wade through. Nobody (except a few Pilled men online) GAF if a woman's standards ensure her perpetual singlehood with cats. The ironic part is that a lot of these "so called perfect women" with what can only be called incredib…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:29 PM
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"Be vulnerable to me!" Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:26 PM
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Rape is so horrific because you took her most important choice away. Her ability to de-select that man's DNA from the future of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:22 AM
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I loathe woke shitheads in general... Today's new religion is bullshit. As Elon Musk put it: "I'm for the latest thing."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:55 AM
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No, I mean are the males in Algeria and Morocco as receptive to white foreigners as the women are?
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 03:52 AM
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In Africa I heard the females in Algeria and Morocco are receptive to white males. How about the males in Algeria and Morocco?
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 03:32 AM
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She's not going to enact the unpaid emotional labour of explaining her whack-job politics to you. If you were a "decent human being" you would have already gotten a degree in women's studies, died your hair purple and become a card-carrying communist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:26 PM
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If you ever encounter a woman who you believe thinks you are there to entertain her and she loses interest in parts of your "routine" like she's skipping through some sort of comedy special... Lose that insufferable bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:24 PM
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OP makes straw man, pours gas on it, and lights it on fire. CooOoOoooL. (Nobody gives out this advice, ever.)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:23 PM
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Only problem is, the vast majority of women are only physically attracted to the same small pool of men, which leaves an ever-growing number of leftover males who don't get picked, and society can only have so many of those guys before it becomes destabilised. Well, as these men "check out" of the economic systems that are largely about amassing relatively useless status items, yes this will have downward pressure on economies. It starts with boutique products but it has a trickle down effect th…
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 08:15 PM
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Indifference and apathy is a two way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:04 PM
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Yes, because women get less attractive over time. Next question. But let me explain it a way the Becky's here can TOTALLY understand. "You can't negotiate attraction."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:50 PM
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Amazing post. Well done! I think porn addiction is like gambling addiction. A mindless process that gives the addict a slow steady dopamine drip. They say that in the porn user, the normal "brain chemical curve" of a typical sexual experience is prolonged and distorted. In normal sexual experiences, there is anticipation, then arousal, then rising sexual intensity, then copulation, then orgasm. It's a process that takes so many minutes to complete. Sitting there and "edging" to porn is to hijack…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:02 AM
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If we could upload ourselves into a digital consciousness, I would do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:57 AM
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Different men have different uses for women. Chad/Tyrone gives her hot sex with a chance to get impregnated with fine genetic material. That's all he brings to the table, because that's all she needs him to bring to the table. Chad/Tyrone are genetic providers. Sex with Chad/Tyrone is for raw, primal reproductive reasons. Beta Brad thinks he's now Chad's equal because he gets access to the coochie. Wrong. Brad is there to jump through hoops and show that he can be a good resource provider. Sex w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:54 AM
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Anybody have or heard of in-law horror stories? My MIL had a failing business that became MY business because my ex made it HER business which meant it was OUR business because we were married. Her parents financial problems were a huge additional strain in a marriage that had a lot of challenges to begin with. How do you get a long with your in-laws or partners family or friends? We're divorced now. Everything is much better. Her family treats me okay now, perhaps because they see I try my best…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:30 PM
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I like to "test" my views against others, especially those who have different opinions. Believing I am "just right" and there is no need to test my conclusions is, well, to point towards a god-level sort of narcissism. Nobody is right about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:40 PM
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Intelligent men will never stop the other men from fucking whatever pussy they can get their dicks into. A "male strike" of any kind in the SMP will fail. Not unless you get all men involved in a single over-arching fundamentalist religion. Which again, won't happen. Most simps are progressive/liberal.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 04:56 AM
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But we're not disappearing. We're working our asses off to afford our evermore costly lives, and paying taxes like crazy. As long as we pay taxes to gynocentric governments that then hand it out, women don't need us. Our "part" is done. We don't provide for families anymore, we provide for governments.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 03:43 AM
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So whaddya proposed? We change female nature? Ain't gonna happen. And modern civilisation just brings out the absolute worst of it. The only option for men is personal damage control and watch the decline from a safe distance.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 03:41 AM
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Mother nature doesn't give a fuck about trailer courts and baby daddies in jail. Her plan is: "Get as many as them fucking as possible and hopefully some Stephen Hawking will come around every 100 years and save their sorry asses."
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 12:50 AM
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I think here in North America women could give zero fucks that some of us men are gone/sent (irrelevant) our own way. They have multiple social safety nets underneath them and can do whatever they hell they want and society will largely clean up their mess and pay the bill. Five kids with five thugs? All the dads are in jail and you're broke, on crack and can't work? No problem - we'll set you up. Can't let a woman go homeless! Man has a violent female partner, gets on drugs, gets kicked out, en…
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 12:47 AM
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Believe the myth of abundance, the female resources fantasy?
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 04:25 AM
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That is not simping. You don't know what simping is. If women follow their biological imperatives, they are doing it right. Men who feel this leaves them out are doing it wrong. Nobody gives a fuck how smart or important a sexually unsuccessful man is. Very few super hot women go for men who are only smart. However, men who are very smart very often have wives and loyal ones at that. Mother nature gave women biological imperatives so effective that we're about to over-populate the planet. It doe…
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 07:04 PM
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If you just see her as a thot, a bitch, etc. you're not going to get those happy chemicals. And then at that point, you might as well jack off. That's where I am at. I have no desire to "relate" to a woman, have a "relationship" with her, and certainly I don't want one in my house, fucking up my schedule, my lifestyle and my budgets. I rub it out and get on with my life.
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 06:42 PM
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Simping? I think women are generally misguided idiots. What if us sexually selecting ourselves into extinction is ultimately good for the environment? Huh? What then? HUH?
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 04:54 AM
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Nope, you're wrong. When the vagina is wet, that's 100,000 years of evolution at work and the vagina is never wrong. You're just bitter. Don't slam evolution and female sexual preferences. It's how you got here, after all.
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 04:50 AM
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Yes! THIS!!! Beta MAX yourself and be the Juiciest Host to A Parasite You Can Be!! lololol Any man who competes with another man solely for pussy has already lost. Because his priorities are 100% wrong.
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 04:32 AM
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I'm going to go out on a limb here. The men who get women wet, assholes or otherwise, are high genetic quality. Women's vaginas are highly advanced evolved devices. And they're not confused by some 90 pound "nice guy" with an asymmetrical face.
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 04:18 AM
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It is outrageous that two of our needs (affection and sex) are totally controlled by someone else (women). I can get affection from a well trained dog. Hell, I can get affection from a dog I don't even know. They're suckers for belly rubs. And sex? Good Lord. I have "Hulk Smash" grip strength and an internet connection. This post REAKS of Incel nonsense. Nobody is owed sex. If you're not sexually desirable, you have to either become sexually desirable, make enough to pay for sex, or just learn t…
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 04:16 AM
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I believe technology is fast outpacing human evolution. I think our brains are going to experience serious "adaptation" issues as technology rapidly accelerates. And let's face it. The end-game is to leave our mortal coils and complete digitise the human consciousness. Limitless, and ad free. There was a Sci-Fi movie that captured this destiny perfectly... The Lawnmower Man (1992) That was 30 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:57 AM
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Meh. It's all over PPD. Search it. Men leave sick partners more than women do. Women leave laid off partners more than men do. People suck. I hate all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:52 AM
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Porn + masturbation turns the sexual act into an act of voyeurism. Plain and simple. Sex takes physical effort on the man's part. Now, he's sitting in a chair with someone else doing "the work" for him. And instead of being limited to one partner and one encounter he can flip from one "channel" to the next instantly. I think the human male mind cannot handle the "choice overload" and disconnection from real sex very well and it's a real problem. Even in my "relationship free" existence, I found …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:07 PM
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And this is based upon what, other than venom?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:02 PM
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??? Really? I see a guy with a gross body as an outlier. Most guys are younger and generally fit. Maybe stop watching the "Exploited Asia" stuff. Those guys are nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:02 PM
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Most men do not get to participate in "hook-up" culture no matter how much they may want. So, it is relationships or celibacy. Agreed. Most men tolerate relationships only because sex if offered. If sex was off the table, putting up with all that would be as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:27 AM
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If she got sick he would leave her. Statistically speaking...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:25 AM
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I’d rather live in the gutters with my husband than have guaranteed financial security. This is what most women think. When he loses his job, women change this thinking overnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:40 AM
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Women have a primal directive to be very covert about their real intentions because in ages past, if they were "brutally honest" that honestly would have gotten them brutally killed. Now, today, their fears of "death from rejection" are probably over-stated, but this is a primordial fear. I think the only solution is to combine gaming with cybernetic attachements that give undesirable men a "I can't believe I don't actually have a girlfriend" pseudo-sexual experience. The pioneers of this (Try t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:56 AM
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Well, at 40 they might be 50% through, so there could be $400K in home equity alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:53 PM
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Alpha is casual sex and Beta is romance. Because you'll never end the gender war if the innate narcissism of men disallows them to accept that Alphas get a free pass to the bedroom and their path is more akin to a rather complex maze. So long as beta men see this as some sort of conspiracy and cry foul, there will always be Purple Pill Debate. The innate female narcissism is believing they "are" whatever man they can bed, which results in some women thinking that "men are just assholes" when in …
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 08:54 PM
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Of course they're going to go for the husband. They know a husband is worth a lot more. If he's not working for her until he dies, he's paying for her until he dies. She can do a LOT better than 18 years x 2000 x 12 = $432,000. That's chump change. She can easily get $1M in divorce and double that in child support every month. In Canada, many homes are $750K now. The home alone is almost double this tantalizing "offer". Make it $5000 /mo and watch the answers change.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:09 PM
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Kind of personal no? I have no desire to date or fuck women. Kind of think of them as demanding parasites really. Life is better woman free. Thanks anyways. And that said, do I give a fuck if women like me? LOLOLOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:14 PM
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One million anecdotes don’t reduce the credibility of one, that’s because anecdotes are not facts. Right, so because one woman in PPD like short guys with small dicks, women's preferences for height and dick size are moot?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:54 PM
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what's the psychology behind serial cheating/ compulsive lying? The following personality disorders are associated with lack of empathy, cheating and lying. Borderline Personality Disorder (impulsivity, acting out sexually, mood instability) Antisocial personality disorder (although more common in men). Narcissistic personality disorder (although more common in men). Sociopath Psychopath
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:51 PM
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Ah yes, the one anecdotal Unicorn situation at PPD that makes all of the million other relevant examples irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:46 PM
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Therefore, the modern day relationship in most cases is unequal because women are providing sex but men are not providing financially. On average, men still outearn their partners. This "CMV" is based on a fantasy of misinformation. Which men are not providing financially?? Because he only makes "as much as her" and not twice as much? What nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:07 AM
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Is this one of those "I need the manosphere because my computer keeps telling me 'misandry' is not a word?" sign memes? Whelp. I guess it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:49 AM
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A healthy body weight for women is considered fat by most men. Most women think being fat is a healthy body weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:23 PM
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I think this is not discussed enough here and is a way bigger factor than people think. Looks and status matter, but if you're after a "balanced" person and you're not well balanced yourself, you're going to be disappointed a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:22 PM
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(Watches "patient" nervously...)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:07 PM
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You know I just thought of something. What if women at a social level shit test their men and if the men in their geographical region aka tribe don't measure up instead of helping their men or encouraging more masculinity, they actually do a mass rejection: Emasculate the men and make them weak so neighbouring masculine men will have an easier time with a takeover. Could be an innate survival mechanism when the men in specific tribes or regions get too soft.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/22 09:58 PM
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I think he's a respectable professor. I like the fact he's more of a classic liberal while being touted as some 'alt-right' infiltrator to the Toronto academic scene. I like how he lectures and he's very engaging - and he knows a lot of stuff. But, it's when his voice cracks up when he's talking to people (especially young people) about the importance of meaning. And I do (personally) believe he's right in that society is very wrong to give people instead of a sense of purpose a "level card" on …
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/22 07:36 PM
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I met a feminist chick who became feminist when her husband cheated on her when she got too fat and she divorced him. She once said the number of men in the country who would be qualified to date her she could "probably count on one hand." I laughed out loud. She glared at me. She was not joking. Apparently the top 5 men in this country like angry land whales. (I think she's just a fat narcissistic cunt though.)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:45 AM
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i don't pretend to be mgtow. moot point. Not exactly. Men who are pussy addicted (read: 99% of men) can't relate to men who have broken free. To them, such a man is a pariah. take a hard look at channels like better bachelor and tell me if they belong to men who have gone their own way and put women behind Meh. Most of these guys are just new to it and are in the Red Pill rage stage. After a while they'll be like me and spend pretty much zero time reading / watching MGTOW specific content and po…
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/22 06:14 AM
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Oh fuck that's so easy. Pay lip service to "the montlhy cause". Put $5 in the can for every disease they're fundraising for at work. Wear pink on bully day. Wear a rainbow hat on pride day or trans awareness day. If they ask if you're a feminists say "Oh yeah total feminist - like duh, who doesn't want equal rights for women and people in general?" Then shut up about all things gender and feminism related. With marriage, just say "Oh, I totally want a wife and kids one day but I am holding out f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:43 PM
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Some guys have done that. That's an old "pick up" trick that I heard about as a kid back in the 70's and I bet it's as old as the hills. There is a mating phenomenon called "preselection" where guys who already have women attract women for that reason alone. Probably primal: "Well, he didn't kill her so...."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:00 PM
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Found the projection. Don't project it makes you look like you lack critical instrospection.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/22 03:55 PM
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"Yep, I finally went MGTOW! I'm a virgin at 42 and never been on a single date. But after 42 years, I've finally decided to go my own way." Yes, all MGTOW are 42 year old virgins. LOL. You look like a fool here, someone who has not read any of MGTOW content. Most MGTOW are formerly married and many have kids. Again, you're talking out of your ass.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/22 03:55 PM
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I'm sorry, brother... but your ass got SENT your own way. These types of dudes were incels all along, but don't want to call themselves that because of the stigma behind the label. Notch count over 50. 3 kids. 1 ex wife. Went Red pill while I was married. Went MGTOW after about four dates with women and realized I had no interested in their lives, listening to what they had so say, or reading the lists of the shit they wanted to buy and things they wanted to do. And the nail in the coffin, I did…
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/22 03:52 PM
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Stay in the dark then. If you really grasp female nature and delve into the red pill, you'll probably never get married or even live with a woman. I've been "woman free" for nine years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:52 AM
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People will do some amazing shit for validation or just for the "safety in numbers" factor. Inhaling toxic smoke is something most sane people would never give a second thought. Until they're in a group of four other people all doing it and they say: "C'mon, it's cool - whaddya chicken or something?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:51 AM
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It has much more to do with with she wants. I mean really. What do they want. Let's ask Mel Gibson. 22 years ago. https://encrypted-tbn3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSfnUo66ZDu3q2BY3sVjnnm3yfcUv79H-iDkdOTlEqasNCOV1-H
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:03 AM
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Tall women take Tyrone thunder-cock way more than short women. I used to prefer short women and have an average Johnson and never had a problem filling up a woman 5-4" or shorter. Amazon women and volleyball starts at 5-11" who have a taste for being filled up with Tyrone thunder-cock probably don't like no short-dick man. Just tell her: "Let's see how small it feels with I'm balls deep in your ass." No, no don't say that. hahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:38 PM
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Compulsion, addiction, hedonism - all semantics. Alpha: Goes straight to the bedroom. Beta: Faces elaborate maze of hoops and tests, and is competing with 10 other fucking guys. An average man needs to beat out 9 other average men for a shot at (wait for it) an average woman. I never did find that palatable. In fact, if the men I found interested in a woman were very stupid, or low value, I would suddenly lose interest in her. If I'm going to compete, I'm to compete with someone who is worthy of…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:12 PM
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False. Sex addiction is a rare disorder. It's simple. Men need to realize they have different purposes in different women's lives. That's it. It has nothing to do with "he got anal why don't I". A man she fucks only because she wants sex with him has certain things. A man she will eventually fuck in her relationships is a different man with different attributes. With the "fuck him right now" hot guy, there is no need for vetting and no need to establish sex as a reward for good behavior. The sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:03 PM
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Passing your genes on is not just about you having your next generation, it’s about perpetuating your genes for generations to come. WAT? You can only pass your genes on to one generation at a time.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/22 08:36 PM
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I do think porn makes us less likely to be content with a plain Jane vanilla sex life. That's what I said. It makes average women vanilla. Blah.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 11:18 PM
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Blue with some Pink Pussy Hat Feminism thrown in plus the Rainbow flag Trans Warriors coming up the middle.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 11:17 PM
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I dunno. I've been single 9+ years and although the idea of a relationship goes through my head from time to time, I have no idea what that would even look like, if a person that can tolerate my combination if issues/limitations exists, and if I'd even be interested in the amount of effort required to begin with. After thinking it over, every time, I always get to "Meh, I'm good."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:01 AM
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So that's why the pool was half empty this morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:57 AM
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400-pound woman also say they won't fuck a 400 pound man! This who "body positivity" thing is off the rails. https://freebeacon.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/05/swim-final1.png
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:53 AM
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It's a marketplace. What your'e getting in the marketplace is what you can get. If you want more, you need to bring more. It doesn't matter how badly slanted or stupid the market is or gets. Women are well aware of their market value - because they can see with their own eyes the calibre of man they can get into their bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:34 PM
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Now the big one is trans people are grooming children, and you eat it up. Trans people are not grooming children. Progressive gender-aware early childhood educators in secret/confidential school groups are. Gender reassignment surgeries are being planned before parents even know what's going on. And the woke left thinks this is the way... And they're not getting it why parents are flying off the handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:09 PM
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I used to have a thing for East Asian women. Married (and divorced) a Filipino. I'm getting flirty with Indian women my age now. I think they might feel somewhat invisible because when I give them attention they light up like a Christmas tree. Racial fetish? Who knows, but big brown smiling eyes can warm a heart of cold stone. Which is what I have. Plus their fucking food. Wow. Yeah I really shouldn't be posting stuff on the internet after consuming drugs and alcohol.
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/22 04:57 AM
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Yep. Choice fatigue. Woman swipes through 1,000 pictures of men. Meh. No good ones. A dessert choice is very difficult with a large menu. Apple pie or cake? Takes 2 seconds. Guy sees 1,000 different naked women every weekend online. Suddenly women "out there" are blah. Employer gets 1,000 resumes for a single posting, but oddly, nobody seemed quite exceptional enough. If you have choice fatigue, congratulations. You're in a very very good spot. But, you might not be as happy as you think you are…
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/22 04:39 AM
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Very few women rat out Team Girl. Mothers hold back information or just lie to their own sons. The mating imperative is very very strong. Makes both genders do dumb/shitty things.
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/22 04:35 AM
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For example after my first divorce, I had to work hard, to gain 50-50 custody. I hate this sexist bullshit. 50-50 custody should be the default, not something one parent has to spend a fortune fighting for just because he happens to have a penis. Congrats on your favourable outcome though. Putting the kids first (something we both agreed we'd do) made it somehow manageable. My ex wife is not a bad person, and she's not a vicious or vindictive C U Next Tuesday. I can't imagine what some men go th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:29 AM
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Pros: Best way in theory to raise kids. Some say you get more respect. Employers know you're a slave to your family and mortgage, so you'll be a eager-to-please worker compared to someone with options. Cons: People change. "Choose wisely" is what mouth breathers say. People regret getting married. People regret having kids, or find out how hard it is. People find out marriage + kids + career is very stressful. They withdraw. People find out marriage + kids + career is a cold bucket of water on y…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:41 PM
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If you don't want to have sexual relationships, why not. I get it, but if you do I'd go for the vasectomy. I dunno. After going without for so long I don't miss it anymore. In fact, the concept of getting nekked and doing the horizontal monkey dance seems patently alien to me now. It's like why would I even do such a thing. Weird. Never thought I would think this way in a million years.
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/22 08:44 PM
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So what? Twice as many women than men STILL won't be part of an inter-racial marriage. White women like black men more than white men like black women. That is probably true. And I think white men like Asian women more than white women like Asian men. You're trying to spin this like women are more racially open minded than men, and they simply are not.
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/22 08:42 PM
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Oh, there's the odd unicorn out there. And they all say: "Not All Women Are Like That" (NAWALT) and refer to said Unicorn. But, in most cases, most are like that. As in this case, most is 83%.
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/22 08:40 PM
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I wish I could say my mentality helped but unfortunately for me lots of men still do want to get married and have kids, if not now then someday (even after I lay out why that could be a horrible idea for us both but especially them). Well, no matter what "pill" people take, I recommend they be really really honest about their lifestyle and family leanings from day one. Men (or women) who say "We'll cross that bridge when we get to it." are crazy. Many women end up with men who suggest they want …
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/22 08:11 PM
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The chart shows white women are 2x more likely to pursue only white men. Memes don't represent statistics.
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/22 07:45 PM
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​ Anyway, I suppose I'm taking a dig at those who were dumb enough to fall into the marriage trap. That's okay. We deserve it. It really just bugs me that people can be so stupid but at the same time I do sympathize (I've done some dumb shit in my life though I'll never make marriage level dumb mistakes) and want to spread awareness. True but the information was always out there. Certain drugs are deadly. Unprotected sex causes babies, or AIDS, or other STDs. People gonna people. There's other a…
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/22 03:03 AM
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Hmm. White women are over twice as racist as white men. Explains the Karen racial meltdown situation...
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/22 12:15 AM
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https://www.theguardian.com/science/2014/sep/24/women-men-dna-human-gene-pool As modern humans moved into Europe more than 45,000 years ago, the number of mothers may have outnumbered fathers by around 100 to 30, according to Stoneking. His study appears in the journal, Investigative Genetics. Eyeroll all you want. There's your study. This is commonly accepted as fact by the way.
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/22 12:10 AM
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They're bad when you, as a man, have to keep paying for someone no longer in your life.
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/22 12:05 AM
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More women than men will have progeny. This is scientific fact. Please use better sources than "Psychology Today" or the first google result.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/22 06:10 AM
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Stacey is the female counterpart to Chad. Becky is a soon-to-be Karen who wears white socks and sandals with her size 16 yoga pants and screams racial epithets at minimum wait staff because of a glaring sense of entitlement and clear-cut deep-seated anger issues. Becky gets sport fucked by guys out of her league who she thinks she can seduce into a relationship. When she fails, she says: "Men are such assholes." Beckies are everywhere, and nobody gives a fuck about their degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 04:41 AM
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50% of marriages end in divorce. How many marriages of the remaining 50% are actually happy? Many men WANT to leave that nagging witch and dead bedroom but it's cheaper to keep her so they just cheat and hope they don't get caught. MGTOW isn't harmful once a man is over his sex addiction. To me, orgasm is no different then urination. It's a pesky sensation that is easily mitigated, with no cost to me whatsoever.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/22 04:38 AM
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I find relationships to be black holes, sucking in infinite time money and energy all for mediocre returns at best. And I've never encountered a vagina that's as right as my right hand... and my hand never gets a headache or asks how many beer I've had. I love my hand. (kisses hand)
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/22 04:30 AM
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They are the one that's difficult to keep happy in the long run, whereas men are generally easier to please. The most vain pursuit a man can even embark on is keeping a woman happy. They're never fucking happy. I say leave them alone, to their continual misery and ongoing shenanigans and drama. Life is better without one. Source: Single since my divorce 10 years ago.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/22 04:25 AM
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You mean just like second marriages are more likely to end in divorce? Once people have ANY cohabitation arrangement with the opposite sex they are far less likely to tolerate any situation they find any less than blissful. Not to say that people should stay in bad relationships... Just that "previously cohabited" is not much different than "previously married".
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/22 04:19 AM
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Some of the Red Pill guys are definitely cringe. "Women lose their ability to pair bond. I'll accept her if she's had one or two boyfriends" while they, as you say, want to "spin plates" and pound through 50 or more women. So, turn women into unmarriable used up 'things' and then complain there are no marriable women. As for "Gorgeous Becky", well, she too has her own blind spots in many cases. Her "serial monogamy" aka "relationships" is just her bouncing from Chad to Chad and getting fuckzoned…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 03:33 PM
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This kind of civility has no place on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 04:49 AM
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When he agrees that you need matching bedding and bath towels. And that a bed needs an assortment of 11 different pillows, 9 of which you throw on the floor each night before you go to sleep. He's pretty much fucked at that point. May as well cut his own balls off and put in her purse.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/22 04:14 AM
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So he can make choices that are in his best interests. GASP! A man looking out for himself and not hanging himself on some goddamned cross! What a concept!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 04:13 AM
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Pill ideology is irrelevant to most healthy people capable of successful relationships. False. Billy Beta can be fully capable of forming "successful" relationships, but he still might be well served to know why he's there, what kinds of risks he is taking, and the reason why he gets vanilla sex once a month from a woman who once fucked an entire football team. Just sayin.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:26 PM
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You can sign out any time you like...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:23 PM
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Wait a minute - I thought married women were prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:23 PM
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This is definitely a eugenics conversation. I disagree. Eugenics (by definition) is along the lines of "human breeding" and mating for "racial purity". It's abhorrent and only psychopaths like Hitler thought it was a good idea. Mating preferences is not eugenics. That's like saying a woman selecting only men who are over 6-2" is eugenics. It is not. It's just an interesting concept that if a short woman doesn't want short sons, she'll still take that risk because she is short herself. If I've wr…
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/22 06:56 PM
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Condolence for the divorce. I hope you didn't get rake by the courts. Meh, my mistake. I own that now. We didn't have a court battle but a lawyer-assisted separation agreement. Over-all in the last ten years, it's actually been pretty good, but with here, there is always some catastrophe or drama. ​ I'm actually a very agreeable and soft man. Raised like that. But I know the only way my relationship will work with my wife is if I'm more dominant and take the leadership role. So I did just that. …
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/22 06:10 PM
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I think men do want to dominate a relationship. Aka lead. I think women also want men to dominate them. Which most feminist would never admit. Men seem to go with what they women want. I see so many women today who think they need to manage their relationship like they manage their careers - and they try to "wear the pants". ​ I know a few relationships where the women is dominant and she loath her own husband for being submissive. My brother and I both had domineering and controlling wives, ver…
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/22 05:31 PM
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Men like shorter Women. Or do men know what women like and adjust their preferences accordingly? Example: many men avoid women who earn more than they do. Feminists quickly jump up and say "Misogyny! He's threated by her independence!" Or, is he de-selecting high-income women because he is away, consciously or unconsciously, of hypergamy? It's a fair point you make though.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/22 04:47 PM
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By definition: Eugenics is the scientifically erroneous and immoral theory of “racial improvement” and “planned breeding,” which gained popularity during the early 20th century. Eugenicists worldwide believed that they could perfect human beings and eliminate so-called social ills through genetics and heredity. There it is. It's clear why THAT is problematic. We have not discussed that, and will not, so I think what I've posted in this thread is okay. I'm talking about mating preferences and obs…
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/22 04:42 PM
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Just because being short is a disadvantage for men, it doesn't mean it has no advantage for women. Women who are shorter are seen as most child-like and elicit the emotional response of protection from men. Men also desire shorter women sexually. But women like taller men. The title of my thesis was "Women have choice and that's why lesser men are born." Her giving birth to short girls is not a problem, and she reproducing herself and being short proves you correct. It's not a liability for fema…
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/22 05:25 AM
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Women also have this desire to marry the boring, smart, hardworking man, yet shag the big tall dipshit gorilla type man on the side. This is the dual mating strategy or dual mating conundrum I like to call it. It's a real thing, and it forms the basis for the Red Pill "Alpha Fux / Beta Bux" philosophy. Women have been show to prefer different types of men depending on where they were in their menstrual cycles.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/22 05:24 AM
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Because population,we need more people for survival. But what about better people? "Just people" is all that is needed? What about people that unknowingly reproduce with severe incompatibilities such as likelihood of birth defects or genetic disease? And worse, what about those who know and still have child after child WITH these disease?
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/22 04:03 PM
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There really is no talking about this topic in depth without it going down the eugenics rabbit hole, that may be too controversial even for this sub so let's not go too far down there. Agreed and done. ​ But you are correct in that "female choice" isn't exactly the grand end-all-be-all of mate selection some people think it is. Are you familiar with the term "Fisherian Runaway"? Its when female choice for specific traits in males in their species leads to either a detrimental effect or downright…
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/22 05:33 AM
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The whole "there are not enough men qualified to date me" is really a "woman problem" though. The fact men struggling in dating think it has anything to do with them is major problem with "Red Pill". It doesn't matter if HE thinks he is qualified. If she can't get her standards for a man met, she'll happily sport fuck hot dudes on Tinder and stick with cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:03 PM
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We don't need your money now. ^(We still want a guy with money.)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:29 PM
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I'm talking about women who are already in long-term cohabitation arrangements. They don't suddenly up and leave like you want to believe here, and your talking about other things than what I am talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:27 PM
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You missed the joke. Okay fine I'll explain: If he's got one coffee in his left hand and one in the right... where are the donuts?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:43 AM
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When he's naked, can he carry two cups of coffee and 8 donuts from the kitchen?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:21 AM
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Are you saved? Your game. I mean, did you save your game.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:20 AM
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Naked penises are just ugly and unattractive (yes, vaginas are ugly as well). I KNOW right? Add feet to that list. I'm my world, everybody wears socks. Toes are an abomination. <sup>weed is kicking in</sup>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:19 AM
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#metoo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:17 AM
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When she's out but sticks around to simultaneously set up her new landing pad... yeah, that's parasitic. I am talking about AFTER she makes the decision to leave but sticks around for 6 - 12 months...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:06 AM
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That doesn't mean they still won't vine swing instead of taking a leap of faith. In other words, when tasked with betting on themselves, most women will take the sure bet. Stick around until they have someplace to land.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:04 AM
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Or, they just don't know what she's doing when she takes her phone into the bathroom...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:03 AM
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Women ultimately want to walk around near naked but only have high value men dare look at them. She can wear revealing clothing. You're a "pig" for looking. Seriously, some of things I've seen girls and teens wear in public shopping areas leaves me shaking my head. There is no way my daughter would leave the house in that, much less parade around a mall. I mean really. Labia majora should not be visible in a fucking food court. We've gone too far. As far as our sexually free society goes, Peters…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:49 PM
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Laying in bed with someone you've already planned to leave and USING THEM for resources while you set up your next camp is fucking disgusting. The women is the asshole in that case. If you don't love them anymore and can't stand to be with them, then FUCKING LEAVE. Don't parasite off them for 6 to 12 months while you set up your next circus. When a man says "I don't love you anymore. I want out of this relationship." does she give HIM 6 to 12 months to set up his next camp? lollololol. This fail…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:41 PM
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But when it comes to marriage are men going to wife up these whores? Probably not. Monetizing ones vagina doesn't mean some sucker is going to wife up her tattooed covered ass down the road. Just because a man will lower himself to P4P doesn't mean he's a complete idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:32 PM
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Women don't move on quicker they just start the process sooner - while still sharing a bed with their current partner. Women break up emotionally with the man 6 to 12 months prior to leaving but want resources and even a new partner set up before they vine-swing to the next relationship. Source: Red Pill says this, my ex-wife did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:16 AM
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You mean like the engineering department I work in? We see a woman outside and we're all crowded by one window. "Yep. That's a girl alright. NOW BACK TO WORK."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:38 PM
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I'd start by ignoring every single last thing you read women say online about dating, especially here. 100% of it. Go out in the world, be pleasant, funny, aloof, cordial, and learn to read social situations if you haven't already. Ask your GUY friends what you're doing wrong. Are you too nice? Too rigid? Too nervous? Overcompensating? A douche bag? You can't feign confidence, but you CAN learn how to not give a fuck. And if you're a man in this day and age you really can't afford to give a fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:31 AM
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Gawd. I can't even bear the sight of an obese woman. The thought of her cold clammy bloated hands on me makes me throw up a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:48 AM
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If you're having the kids 50/50 and she didn't spend very long out of the workforce de-skilling you shouldn't pay her anything, she should pay her own bills imho, but whatever, not my battle... We have 50/50 custody but dissimilar incomes. In Canada, when you have split custody they use calculation to make both household net incomes the same. I do think you have some bitterness towards your ex, and I don't think it's fair to project it on women in general. My bitterness towards my ex that I proj…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:32 AM
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Every dad I know who is divorced pays his child support every month, on time. I guess I just run with a bunch of hard working men who are not fuck ups. I know one guy who pays no support but only because him and his ex make the same money. Some women do breed with some really shitty-assed men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:49 AM
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Right right. I know the drill. No matter what a man does he will NEVER make up for the 9 month pregnancy, child birth and breastfeeding. Again, I'm not outlining or justifying my contribution to my children's upbringing to anybody especially on this cess pool of a sub. And there is no woman here breastfeeding or giving birth with her uterus hanging out at my house. Those cards have been played. And played again. Over and over and over again. Here's something women never think about. I need to ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:33 AM
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Sorry, couldn't do that part. I did the 14 hour days at work to pay for it all part.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:30 AM
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Ah, yes. the sexist 'Man can't parent' bullshit. I'm not going to defend my parenting abilities to some rando on Reddit who will probably never reproduce or will just have a kitty cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:24 AM
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Lol what fears, I have a long term partner, like? My n count isn't relevant lol I never mentioned "n-count" I said you assumed all RP men want to "own" women. Nobody with a brain expects a 20-something college educated woman to be a virgin. Young men who thing it's okay for them to have 50+ women n-counts and still want a virgin or near virgin are hypocritical idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:31 PM
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Those are just collateral damage as far as woman are concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:30 PM
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Red pill Men care about sex xount because they wanna own a woman and feel she belongs to him. You projecting your fears does not mean all men want to "own" women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:01 PM
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Women setting up "CREEP LISTS" is fucking dangerous. I've seen what criterion women use for labelling a man a creep and it's borderline pathetic. If someone posts a persons name claiming they are a sexual abuser and that person is not, the person making this claim needs to be in jail. Doxxing lists are for radical feminist scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:00 PM
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I think we should say Fuck IT and go with personal Google reviews. "Steve was shorter than he claimed, and balding. He struggled with conversation and the restaurant he picked was dated and the food was substandard. He also wore brown shoes with a black belt. 2 stars don't recommend." "Becky was at least 40 pounds more than in her photos, which look 10 years old. She didn't converse well and was distracted by her phone. Despite her degree, I found it difficult to find topics to discuss she was a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:58 PM
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I get my kids 50% of the time and have nobody else here. It's not that hard. Women just think everything they do is really hard. Like this myth that women have to work "twice as hard to get to the same place men do". Maybe it feels that way or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:29 PM
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Everyone I know from Catholic schools in Western Canada has received it and this goes back 40 years. My kids also get it. Not sure where you're from or where you went. Also, it's part of the Grade 7 science and Grade 10 biology curriculum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:49 PM
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Those who go to “religious” schools don’t get much sex education. Patently false. Aside from perhaps some sect schools, separate ("religious") schools have the same sex education programs the public system does.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:08 PM
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I wasn't shitting on anyone just pointing out a discrepancy. You're using misdirection now to evade the shitty thing you said. Doubling down on shitty on a Tuesday. Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:07 PM
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Meh. They're trying to improve themselves. Unlike some people on this sub who think they're perfect. I think "thinking one is perfect" might be part of many people's problem here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:06 PM
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Having mental health deficits and still being able to attract a partner is certainly a female privilege. Women today think they have zero privileges (because that's what feminism tells them) but that's laughable at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:04 PM
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A common pattern for codependent men is they get into a covert "fix her for affection" deal but once she gets "better" she realizes she's getting the short end of the stick, can do "better", and then does. As I always say: you can't cheat in the SMP and win. Covert deals are bad. The women seem to be attached because they go from one fixer-upper project to the next. I thought the codependent label fit for me so I checked it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:02 PM
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I went to a "codependents anonymous" meeting once. All of the women were complaining about the partners they were trying to fix. All of the men were single. It was a real eye opener.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:57 AM
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If you're thin and not too crazy you'll have no trouble. Hell, even batshit crazy women who are thin and average looking have no trouble finding men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:25 AM
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I think that's what so many women don't realise, a man who is above average has an very above average number of choices because so many women chase the same man. I think women today confusing giving a man sex with getting a commitment from a man. I fundamentally believe that the only way a woman will be happy if they learn to date down. I think it's an innate ego thing that makes women get the best looking genetically superior men into their bedrooms. The result is them not sticking around, thus…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:25 AM
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Ironically, being fat makes you want to exercise and move your body less. Riding a bike isn't fun when you weight 300 pounds and flatten the tires when you get on. It's a double-negative. When you work out, it makes you feel better, workouts get easier instead of harder, you sleep better and make better use of the food you take in. It's a double-win.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:22 AM
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Lose some weight If you're a bitch, stop. If you're crazy get some meds. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:38 PM
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Single moms happen when there is shit sex education and little access to birth control, contraceptives, etc They literally hand out free condoms at school. They start teaching kids about the perils of unwanted pregnancy in Grade 6. Seriously, what planet are you posting from.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:36 PM
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No. Many men who are not fat will date fat women. MOST women who are fat will NOT date fat men. You're wrong, and it's a total double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:42 PM
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Women inject themselves with goop and give themselves "I just got stung by something" lips, wear makeup like clowns, and try to get tiny wastes and big badonka-donk asses. I've never found any of that attractive and never will. And I look at the girlfriends and wives of most men I know and none of them look like that. They're doing this because social media and other women tell them this is how to look. Women create the "beauty standards" for women, then blame men for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:39 PM
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Right, because I can time travel and pick my parents. God this thread is fucking dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:37 PM
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Meh. There are a subset of women who get turned on by a man with some guns hanging out of his golf shirt. For myself, as an example, this is the best way for me to go given my genetics, frame size and proportions. The fact that "emaciated hipster with idiotic beard" is in right now - it's just a trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:35 PM
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Do they? That "knock shit over" boo-tay and enough make-up to plaster a house? And those big fake eyelashes and glitter eyelids? Good Lord. "Ghetto Drag Queen" just doesn't do it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:33 PM
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No, I was just trying to use "Indian" three times in the same sentence. Does not Indian culture vary quite a bit between regions? There is the caste system in the North? Differs from the south? Someone explained it to me once but I was really drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:26 PM
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Meh. I usually find you can get the same or better quality in a "less statussy" brand for about 1/3 the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:23 PM
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People with money are welcome to spend $1000 on a $50 item or $3000 for a woman's hand bag. As for their "status", well, they probably don't realize that only other status seekers GAF about their over-priced items. They're going to look down on people either way. I save tonnes of money by never associating with shallow status seeking fools.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:20 PM
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Are you an Indian talking about Indians in India or is this just some massive cultural appropriation thing going on?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:46 AM
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They're not aggressive. They're just bossy. sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:46 AM
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Me and my other personalities take exception to this post. me too me too yeah us too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:45 AM
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May I let you in on the dirty secret? (More open secret really.) Women's idea of "basic standards" and "average man" are way out of whack, at least when compared to the actual average that exists. Ask any woman to tell you what her basic expectations are and it'll be a damn laundry list. Ask a man, it's probably just a few things. If you look at the average woman's laundry list you quickly realise the average woman might have a "shopping out of her league" problem. They say it's not a problem, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:20 AM
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Intelligent men can always earn lots of money and be high functioning betas. Even though they pay more in divorces, they earn so much that they can afford to try again. Many men in the lower income brackets are no longer viable as partners when most of a modest salary goes to the ex for spousal/child support. Women create encumbered men, but they don't want to partner with them. Women initiate 70% of divorces, and bitch there are nothing but encumbered divorced men to choose from lololol. Ladies…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:00 AM
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Hey, if a man can afford a woman like that, I say "Fill your boots". I refuse to spend a single dime on the multi-billion dollar girl "status symbol" club. $1000 for something worth $50 and made in China but has a New York designers initials on it. I couldn't think of anything more disgusting than supporting such an industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:44 AM
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High maintenance. Mercedes. Starbucks. Little dog. Chanel. RUN.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:24 PM
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Men need to live together in communes and monasteries. MGTOW needs to go full monk. The only other solution is for men to further deny their nature and try to give women everything they want materially and wade in these decadent "abundance" waters. Working long hours, paying for "nice things" - things that might not even have any worth or value but simply give someone feels because they point to a person's status. My absolute ZERO NEED for status and caring NONE AT ALL about what other think abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:22 PM
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I would get a "reconciliation three-way" first. Then I would dump her. :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:15 PM
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But the "having less sex" statistic still needs to be explained. I think my explanation is plausible. Intelligent men are in better control of their primordial drives and are more disciplined.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:13 PM
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I think Peterson mentioned this a few times as well - how contraception was a big game changer. Now we just need one for men. ;-)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:08 PM
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Women control who reproduces (sometimes they don’t make the best choices) but with the portal of life between our legs, we determine how humanity moves forward. Dayam we in the deep end now...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:36 AM
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Human technological advancement has outpaced evolution so incredulously that we can't really know what constitutes an evolutionary dead end anymore. The industrial revolution. Feminism. Shit has changed more in the last 200 years than the 200,000 years before it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:25 AM
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Intelligent men don't have less sex because they are lesser men. They have less sex because they are in pursuit of more noble endeavours. Intelligence is never a detriment. The idea that intelligent men must be nerdy men is a trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:12 AM
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I don't know why two completely independent people need to live together at all. If you're not somewhat interdependent then why even bother? I hear of couples having separate finances. Even separate bedrooms! LOL. If I want a room-mate, I'll get a guy in here. Much less drama. And less expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:19 PM
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I said one thing when she told me. One thing: "I want 50% custody of the children." I always told her. If anyone tried to take my kids away from me, it would have to be over my dead body. I don't see her that way anymore myself, but she gets a lot of attention. Cops pull her over for little talks, etc. lol. Then again, in this town any woman who isn't fat gets a lot of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:16 PM
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So... when men are completely unnecessary (which is what women seem to want) when robots do police work, run drilling rigs and fight fires... What then? We lament how men invented stuff? Nobody, especially women, will care. They literally scoff at the labour saving devices mainly men invented. Women need big daddy government, but they don't need individual men. Men need another purpose than of being of use to women. Myself, I'm really really okay with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:11 PM
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You were victim LAST TIME. It's MY TURN. MoOOoOOOM!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:08 PM
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Some boys at my kids school called my ex wife a milf. She said she almost threw up. I said "Hey, you're throwing up all over my good taste here..."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:27 AM
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All I am saying if that each person is 100% independent and even classic inter-dependence is a liability, then why the push for the BIG COMMITMENT? Hint: She wants the relationship where she can bail at any moment and be able to do so, but still have the financial security both during after the relationship. Cake and eat it perhaps? If both people are 100% capable of independence and can bolt at any second, I personally can't see going beyond "win win" transactional relationships such as FWBs. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:35 AM
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Stacey's mom is so hot, they made a song about her. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dZLfasMPOU4
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:30 AM
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Interesting the corollary you make with identifiable market parameters. But I have to disagree. Any man a low/mid-tier woman can get is explained by the basic supply demand equation. Sure, there are these nuances that you speak of. But, in general, whatever she can get is her worth. Now, this gets commonly confused with a false corollary: Whoever she can SLEEP WITH is her worth, which is not true. High value men will "slum it" with a low value woman just for sex. It's the equivalent of low cost …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:43 PM
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Giffen Good read.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:39 PM
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Never directly called out for it. But, I have been "policed" socially when I've steered out of my lane. I even had one guy once start making jokes at my expense because I approached a couple women in a peer group that were allegedly "above me" (which I found patently absurd. They were just decent relative to the lower value women in the particular group.) But no, I have never been directly called out for creep violations. Luckily, I can read people enough to know when I am not wanted and I just …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:47 PM
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The Viagra wears off in 4 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:40 PM
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I'll make it make sense. She'll risk ignoring a GOOD GUY if he doesn't give her tingles. She'll risk getting punched out by a HAWT GUY if the tingles are strong enough. Some women even go directly after one abusive sonofabitch after the other. They either like having a potentially dangerous man at their disposal (which backfires) or they have some severe daddy issues that make them think they need to fix/change men. Either way, guys who don't provide tingles are not even part of the discussion. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:38 PM
1

I have chronic mental illness - severe anxiety and depressive episodes. I don't lash out at anyone ever, I internalize my problems, which makes it harder for me, but easier for my loved ones. My husband loves me the way I am and helps me SO much. I consider myself broken often, but he does not. He helps me feel as close to whole as I can. Please don't stigmatize mental illness, in general. I will concede, though, that certain disorders like BPD would be an absolute challenge/nightmare to deal wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:16 PM
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170 pounds literally can be healthy as fuck depending on height and muscle composition but pop off Nope. Not unless she's an Olympic or competitive body builder or 6-1" tall. I'm a 6-0" tall male and to get a normal BMI my weight is 175 pounds. And I guarantee you there's more skinny women with fat men than skinny men with fat women. Source please. If you can guarantee it, show me at least one source. NHANES 2016 statistics showed that about 39.6% of American adults were obese. Men had an age-ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:12 PM
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How about she gets a job / builds a business and makes her own comfortable life, then finds someone to hang out with. I'm just going to work out, get jacked and be a pool boy for a cougar.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:43 PM
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I KNOW RIGHT?!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:04 PM
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R: Of course not, we merely want acknowledgement that it is a problem. R: This isn't about changing women. It's about informing men so they can make better choices. The "back to the kitchen" Trad Con subgroup of Red Pill is giving Red Pill an over-all bad name. I'm a RedPill and MGTOW and am 100% on board with women being strong and independent and having careers and not depending on men. I'm not compatible with women who are 100% independent from men, and have no idea why any man would want or …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:01 PM
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For every woman with a beer-bellied man there is a skinny guy with a landwhale on his arm. The idea that a 170 pound woman is "average" now is just hilarious. We do not live in a world of skinny women with fat men. MOST PEOPLE in general are fat and out of shape, on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:35 PM
1

Where is Bill Burr? Can anyone tell me where Bill Burr is? Billy will set you up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:31 PM
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This just in: Woman on reddit looking for short, stalky red heads. Bonus points for agricultural experience. (Call center explodes)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:09 PM
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Replace fat with "short less attractive man" and society spews the same venom in all those situations. The difference being, he can't change his height or facial symmetry but pretty much every obese person can lose weight (despite what they'll tell you). Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:07 PM
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Human beings seem to have primitive and instinctual drives to "police" the behavior of others. Shame is a very powerful tool. We shame people who cheat and steal and take from others, while we applaud those who work hard to get ahead. We shame men who go from woman to woman and "get free sex" because we are deeply acknowledging the transactional nature of human sexual relationships. She rewards the "good boy" with sex, after he's proven himself a worthy and generous provider. A man need not even…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:04 PM
2

I guaranteed you in my 46 years I’ve known and conversed with far more men that you have. You guarantee me huh? LOL. Ok, you're omniscient now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:30 AM
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Your previously disclosed gender expression leaves you uniquely unqualified to speak on behalf of men and their lived experiences. I won't enact further emotional labour in belabouring this point. Sigh, gasp, wheeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:46 AM
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I know but I get to chose my identity and not you so cry me a river. Besides saying MGTOW = bachelor is kind of intellectually dishonest. They're both equally single, but how and why they got there are completely different things. Bachelors end up being single. MGTOW chose this lifestyle actively. And it comes back to society snapping: You can't quit you're fired. MGTOW laughs. You can't beat indifference with insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:38 PM
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Life takes effort. Relationships and careers take tonnes of effort. Kids take an incredible amount of effort. The idea that people can have this idyllic easy life, especially with kids, might be the main reason why people walk away from things like relationships and marriage. When I describe my experiences as a parent to some younger people they look at each-other and say "We're going to get a dog and be the 'cool auntie and uncle' for a while". You can't know the true pressures of parenting unt…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:01 PM
1

Bazinga
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:21 PM
2

"Make my life better in every way or it's down to the pet store for a cat."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:21 PM
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And what does the fox say? https://youtu.be/9dzFkU9VpJQ?t=80 Yes, having children fucks you up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:07 PM
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If you're in Canada and your family income is under $150K you're going to be working a shit tonne of hours to make ends meet and always struggling to find time to even do anything with your kids. Aka, you'll be so busy working you won't have time for the kids you prioritize providing for. And, if you get divorced, you'll be extra fucked. If either of my boys opt out of marriage that's just fine by me. I want them to be happy. The cost of living is fucking insane here. Gas $2/litre. Starter homes…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:47 PM
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Men as a group never seem to be able to do that. Hold my beer. -MGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:42 PM
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I'm 25F and wherever I go be it restaurants, cafés, any fun activities/classes or even on the streets I find almost 90% people my age are in relationships. ​ I went to a party recently, there were some couples, almost a dozen single men and I was the only single woman, So you mean 90% of women are in relationships...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:41 PM
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Nope. I would never marry a sick or mentally ill person for any reason, ever. My first last and only wife (now ex) had a host of mental and physical health problems and I eventually knew every doctor (and pharmacist) in the quadrant of our city on a first name basis. Never. Fucking. Again. I've stopped relationships - helped men - by telling them they do NOT need to settle for a broken person. One guy is happily married now with three kids and a well-balanced wife. His g/f at the time was a gasl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:37 PM
1

Again, it's the internet. Nobody cares. Yet, we're all here posting away. So, keeping posting while not caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:09 AM
1

Shaming language has no effect here. This is not your high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:02 AM
2

You want to see a real man. Short me on avocado and see what happens. Well, okay maybe in Texas but those other soyboys will ask for the manager...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:31 AM
0

So... leave. What, you think some women's marriage strike is going to stop men from drinking beer and playing video games? Newsflash. Women want marriage more than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:29 AM
1

It's easy. Just pretend they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:59 AM
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Because it's hard. You have to work out until your body hurts. Until you are covered in salty sweat until it's running into your eyes. Because you have to keep your mouth shut, and take shit sometimes, and push shit down other times. Because you have to do things that are uncomfortable, or gross, or scary and keep your game face on if you want a colleague's or a woman's or society's respect. Because you can't be walking around talking about your emotions, and fears, and concerns, and social inju…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:40 AM
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Um.... you did that. Not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:12 AM
0

Women changed gender roles. They didn't ask the fucking men. They took on mens roles thinking we would reciprocate. But, we don't like diaper shit, screeching kids and filling out Christmas cards (emotional labor?) as much as women do. So now women have all THEIR work to do and HALF of mens. Slow clap for all the feminist ladies out there stressing right now. BbBbbB-But I do more housework!! It's not FaAAAaaAAirrR!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:04 AM
2

I'm not telling you to pick anything. I'm just suggesting that there might be a corollary between "hot guys" and "guys who nut and leave". That's your problem to figure out, but you've already figured it out. "If I say that less attractive men are just as shitty, I can keep fucking hot guys!" Hey, it's top shelf copium. Nothing to see here. Wash rinse repeat. Enjoy your dry, sandy no-O sex. Shrug.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:22 PM
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Women got careers and earn half the money. Women said "Okay, now YOU do half the child-rearing and housework." And he said, "Nah, I'm good." and went back to his video games. And now women be pissed. And now I get more popcorn and some diet coke because it's not safe to laugh when you're eating popcorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:11 PM
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No, not me. I prefer to avoid women completely. But you're right on time with the copium: "Well, guys in my league will treat me like shit anyways so I may as well get treated like shit by hot guys." Yep, that's the standard PPD justification for this phenomenon. So, you got it all figured out. Enjoy your scratchy, dry, 2-minute, no orgasm sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:09 PM
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Boo hoo. You got to fuck a hot person but he only wanted sex. Men will never feel sorry for you that your promiscuity didn't get you a relationship with a high SMV guy. We have hoops to jump through too, just to get average (even below average) women to give us the time of day. Maybe try to fuck some nice people for a change instead of just fucking hot people that treat you like shit. Besides, when he "nuts and bolts" that should be a trophy for you. It meant you banged a higher genetic specimen…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:56 PM
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So tell Chad to give you an "O" first. You women let hot guys nut into your bodies like you're a walking sweat sock and then come here and cry like toddlers because "men are assholes". LOLOL. Like really. He wants your sex. Make him do stuff. If the guys you're "pulling" will only nut into you and not get "shiny sore face" then that might explain a lot, to someone who is not standing in a very large blind spot. You did get something. You got cold, indifferent selfish sex from a very high SMV guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:49 PM
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Women want to shun traditional roles for women. Women do not want to shun traditional roles for men. It's the "buffet of female privilege" and Red Pill has this 100% correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:48 PM
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You got sex. He got sex. That's 100% equal. The fact women expect more than sex from their sex is a whole other enchilada. If you're failing to get super-high SMV men to commit using "easy to get" casual sex, then you're hitting above your weight. It's that simple, and nobody is getting "used" or "exploited". It's not about being used, it's about you playing the "sex for stuff" game in the SMP and feeling like you've lost. And you have, because you played the game, used easy convenient sex for b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:46 PM
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If casual sex is part of dating for you then you're not being used for sex. You're using sex for "getting other stuff" and it sometimes doesn't work out. "You were used for sex" is just copium women give to other women who played the "lead with sex" game in the SMP and lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:01 PM
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Yeah, that's a UNO reverso card that can work for them in either direction. Casual sex when I don't want him for relationship is okay. Casual sex when I did want a relationship is "asshole used me for sex.". LOL. Or.... "I did the 'sex for relationship' bait thing and once again it failed me." That latter one you'll never hear a woman say.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:59 PM
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Right. Men can do anything they want. But they can also end up socially ostracized, cast out, or #metoo'd.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:50 PM
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It's just a glib saying that pokes fun with the "flip the script" tropes of post modern feminism. "Man whore" just means a man who sleeps around a lot but he can't really be a whore unless he's gay because male sex has no monetary value. Women can get it for free any time they desire. As such, men cannot monetize their sexuality in the way women can (a female privilege, to be sure) so they cannot be man-whores. It's just a way for whores to feel better about themselves because "men do it too". A…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:08 PM
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They just did it. You guys can too. The sexual marketplace dynamics determine what men can and cannot do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:23 PM
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If women want to have "easy" sex with high value men and play the "hot guy lottery of commitment" while being treated mostly like a dorm-room sweat sock.... why chastise them for a winning reproductive strategy? They got Chad's baby batter all up in their love ovens. That's really what it's all about. Plenty of Beta Brads to foot the bill afterwards... lots of guys FLOCK to single mothers... Here's what the "more-so on the losing end" guys have these days: a) MGTOW b) Sex Robots c) MGTOW and Sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:31 AM
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It's her natural ego/SMV defense. She needs to signal to anyone in proximity that the man who approached was beneath her. Think of animals that make noises, like snakes, and rhinoceroses. And snakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:24 AM
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Just be aware. Once you unplug from the gynocentric matrix, women can smell that on you a mile away. One you take your resources off the table, and apply the ZFG attitude, they avoid you like the plague. One of my favourite things to do is see how fast I can get a single mother looking for a bailout running in the opposite direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:27 AM
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Maybe they're projecting...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:25 PM
1

Go forth and multiply, my son.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:46 PM
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At my age, only #3 is the option and I noped my way out of that long ago. Parents wanted me to join them at mass again, and I went a few times. I was getting these "look over there" and "look over here" elbows from not one but both parents. First off, I was never one to attend mass to meet women. I would notice a fine one sure, but never even talk to them. So, I explained my folks why if I ever decided to be idiot enough to date again, the church is the last place I'd look. They stopped asking m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:47 AM
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You mean those single moms in church with kids in tow that already left some poor schmuck? She's got Big Daddy Government and Jesus. She don't need me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:45 AM
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10% though. Abs are made in kitchen, not the gym! ;-) I know when I cook my really simple vegetable and protein soups, bake or BBQ a lot of fish or chicken breast, and mass load on veggies while cutting carbs... I still enjoy the food I eat and just start dropping weight. It's that goddamned beer though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:19 PM
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Why not do both at the same time!! I'm a big guy, so I'm not naturally lean. But, I put muscle on stupid fast with no supplements. So, for me, to look good, I combine weight loss with toning over building (but I build my legs because of a few skipped leg days.) I a few months I have can have my arms looking pretty good because they were already big from past years. They just need to be "inflated" again hahaha. Nothing WORSE than a body builder physique that has been let go.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:55 PM
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The guys in the fitness competitions that look shredded (aka, could star in Marvel movie) are not body builders per se. They're strong, and have good muscle mass, but they're not going for a massive body builder physique. Take this guy (more fitness physique) https://jumpropedudes.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/IMG_8446-2-1080x1080.jpg Then this guy: https://fitnessvolt.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/roger-snipes.jpg He's a body builder and ALSO has crazy low body fat. Probably dehydrated for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:36 PM
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Fair. Fair. But also too since the camera adds pounds, the body fat percentage to look the same on camera is probably lower than the percentage that makes you look good IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:32 PM
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Well, I think you can get good enough to date in about 2 years. Getting shredded or super big could take longer. I supposed if one is thinking they need to compensate for height or facial attractiveness then they might feel the need to be jacked/shredded. I think women look at us men more holistically then we believe, and I also think we understimate how important the emotional connection part is. I dunno. I'm post-Red Pill rage and now in a sort of Purple Pill fog.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:31 PM
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You rang? Just kidding. Yeah OP’s theory is out of whack. Even just getting jacked(natty) it takes a decade. Movie stars get jacked in 6 months, Granted, they do a gruelling routine that involves multiple daily workouts while fasting... but, they do it. Telling young men they need to defer their dating plans 10 years to be jacked enough is plain silly. Most average dudes, unless they're simply obese, can improve their look dramatically in 6 - 12 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 01:33 PM
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Fifty shades of Red.... Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:21 AM
1

But we're talking what. A dozen guys out of thousands putting content online?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:19 AM
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We all know that we have to be at a low body fat percentage to look our best. We all know that making more money opens more doors relationship wise. The high value/top x% thing has always been about the dating coaches making more money. Well, some guys do some really cringe coaching stuff. Check out the Bulldog Mindset guy for pure cringe-topia. But not everything the Pilled coaches are selling is snake oil. Some guys are just naturally shy and introverted and DESPITE being neat, cool and intere…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:07 AM
1

I used to have a thing for 110 pound spinners. lol. Now I'm like.... why.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:58 PM
1

Well, his thin ass is driving an Audi S7 probably. He'll be just fine. As for me, my only hope is "get jacked and find women who like guns on a man." And those women are out there. I'll never be a thin guy. I'm either jacked or jolly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:51 PM
1

a regular thin dude isnt in good physical shape. he is in regular physical shape. Thin dudes who can rock hipster fashions are leagues above some poor endmorphic bastard who's only alternative is to get jacked. Look at the fashions today. I can't get pants with my waste size that my legs will fit into. I need 2XL shirt to fit my arms, and I have all this extra material around the waste. It's like the only clothes for bigger guys are for obese guys with tiny arms and legs lol. I'd kill to be a th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:45 PM
1

Okay fair enough. I was just exploring the concept of being privileged because someone got hit by a car today and I didn't....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:41 PM
1

My peeps were given a "deal". They paid a low amount for the land on the promise they would (a) clear it (b) break ground and (c) plant crops. It was an agreement. It was not given to them and given the work they had to do to keep their end of the bargain, it was sure as HELL not FREE! And the shop keepers gave them tools to use ON CREDIT to farm the land with. Yep, no free tools either. They paid the shopkeepers back for the tools with bags of grain, chickens, or produce... Because they had no …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:32 PM
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He looked like a regular thin dude. How is that not in good physical shape. What's he supposed to do? Compensate for his natural lean build and roid up to impress some woman? LOLOLOL. When a woman is "just not fat" we consider her in excellent shape. Why does a man need to look like fucking Odonis?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:18 PM
2

C'mon. Women would not be checking this dude out at the swimming pool. If they didn't know he was a doctor he wouldn't get a second look.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:09 PM
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Oh, I'm not suggesting that traditional marriage is "the way" nor or I some "back to the kitchen" MGTOW character. I'm an "abolish marriage and all associated laws" character. People can live together all they want. The state should not be involved. This is especially true for "common law" couples who have no interest in the state labelling them as married despite their protestations. If Patriarchy is so bad, let's get rid of ALL OF IT. But, of course, the feminists want the buffet of the old an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:55 PM
1

The fact some people had something taken away does not equate to others being given something. Nobody is disputing the horrors of slavery and dying on land they would never own.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:01 PM
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Who were given something first? My great grandparents came to Canada with their shirts on their backs. They were sold a plot of cheap farmland by the government - bush covered tundra. They cleared the land by hand themselves, and built "cabin like" homes out of wood with straw and mud roofs. Many died just from pneumonia because of the severe winters in the open prairies. Q:What were my ancestors "given" exactly? A: Sweet fuck all. The right to work - that's what they were given. And they worked…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:55 PM
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I never said serfs were given land. They needed to give up part of their crop each month as an "installment". Thus, mortgages were born. Yeah, you had to give something to get something. Nobody said: "Here, have some land, a free house, and a living wage and if you can't or don't feel like working that's okay." Go to r/antiwork and listen to the glaring sense of entitlement some young people have. I work very hard to EARN what I have. If other people can't, we'll look at why and perhaps we'll he…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:45 PM
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The Patriarchy gave serfs two never-before had privileges: The ability to own a plot of land to call his own The ability to take a wife and have kids of his own. Progency. Men at the time who were basically indentured servants working on a plot of land owned by the "land lord" thought this was a most excellent deal. Maybe we should go back to the state owning all the land and we just tend to the crops again. End patriarchy, topple capitalism. Yeah. Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:02 PM
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Patriarchy benefitted women. Feminism turned women into men, and left them with both the new stressors of manhood and the traditional stressors of home maker and mother. Women call feminism (becoming both men and women) a victory. Some suggest that the actual end result is a mixed bag: -Some studies suggest women's happiness has been on constant decline. -Women (including here at PPD) think marriage (career, child care, housework) = crazy -Women are dying younger. Bridging that pesky "life expec…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:49 PM
2

You should focus on improving yourself everyday. That’s all Sure, but you should know your place in the "food chain" and have realistic expectations. Some light exercise and new clothes won't make a beta man into "wanted for his genes" man no matter what nonsense Blue Pill cheerleaders are perpetrating. A beta provider can be a juicier, more attractive beta provider. But he's still a beta provider. And by this, I mean a doctor in good physical shape with a good social life is still a beta provid…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 04:24 PM
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Men need to get rich or die trying. If you're not getting laid on the regular just because of your looks, you're a beta. PERIOD. So, your only strategy is beta provisioning so get out there and get that cash. And don't hoard it. You have to make your clothes, image, house, car and entire life "visually palatable" for women. You can't just have money. You have to show you're willing to spend a shit-ton of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:39 PM
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Women look for men they like among men they find attractive. Men try to find a woman attractive enough who is still tolerable despite her faults. AF/BB is a byproduct of women's dual mating strategy. It's seed and greed. Sperm from the alpha, provisioning from the beta. And modern day cuckoldry is just a single mother showing up with another guy's kids. She no longer has to sneak outside her marriage to get those "Alpha genes" in her jeans. She doesn't have kids outside of her marriage, she come…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:33 PM
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Godspeed and good luck! Well, luck is sure as hell a factor. Not this "choose wisely and you'll be juuuuuust fine" nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:31 PM
1

If all you know how to do is be friends with a woman, you'll never be able to hold a woman down in a relationship, or even get one into bed. I know a few 40-year-old virgin types and they have all manner of female friends. They are interested in relationships (or sex) with any one of them, but it will never happen. The reality is, what's important is differentiating yourself from being "just a friend".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:28 PM
2

North American women are voting themselves out of genetic existence in a reproductive sense. They're smart. It's very very difficult and expensive to raise kids today especially with a shrinking middle class, downward pressure on wages and rampant inflation and rising interest rates. Men have shown disinterest in doing more housework to counter-balance women's increased interest in careers. Most women describe marriage with kids as a stressful harrowing experience, and more and more women are st…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:23 PM
1

Yeah, the old "overweight / less attractive people have better personalities" trope. I think that one was debunked a long time ago...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:18 PM
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If you're into fat women, I guess. I lose interest after about a buck-eighty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:43 AM
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\^this. Most self assessments are at least 2 points high. And ladies, more than man, don't take their weight into account. Take two ladies with very pretty faces. One is 130 pounds. One is 230 pounds. Only one is an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:52 AM
1

Straw man. Your possession of a Guinea pig is irrelevant when you're, for example, using PUA techniques to "spin plates" and are feigning interest in a relationship just to get laid. Women LOATHE this behavior in men and want men to "just be honest". Well, maybe if women were "just honest" men would be too. "You'll only ever be a friend/brother to me, but you can keep buying dinners..." "I know you like me more than just friends, but I'll pretend it's not going on." "I'll give you soft rejection…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:20 PM
1

A high SMV man, perhaps. Low SMV men need to bring someone else to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:03 PM
2

Hook up yes. Relationship no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:03 PM
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Why wouldn't you want to get with the love of your life as soon as possible? Humans don't mate for life. The "happy old couple at the park" represent 1 or 2 in 1000 couples. Humans are "serial monogamists" at best. Enjoy the one you're with, and don't sweat it if they walk out the door. You can have another him/her in a minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:02 PM
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So, people who do nothing all day but just parasite off social welfare systems are okay with you? People who can contribute should. That doesn't mean "factory work" it can mean the arts or humanities as well. Just contribute something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:23 PM
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There is no inherent difference between a man who has a successful career and a man who doesn't. The man who doesn't is going to lead with "I'm a drummer between bands!"?? C'mon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:10 PM
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Feminism using "social change" as a vehicle has deemed masculinity "toxic". As such, the emasculation of boys and men (while making women more aggressive) is one of the main objectives. Watch for more unhappy virgin men and male sexlessness, more discord between the sexes, more males "failing to launch", and more social fallout such as school shooters and anti-social behavior like substance use and crime. Ironically, the more they make masculinity "go away" the more it gets repressed and will sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:38 PM
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Depends on her use for him. If it's for a stable wage earner for her "baby making years" (who she can always ditch later and still be paid) then it's about income. When it's a triste or affair where her "big risk" is getting pregnant by a high-SMV man (a risk she might even be secretly banking on) then he can be a drummer between bands.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:27 PM
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You can fiend success in a club and get lucky. By next Tuesday she knows the BWM was borrowed and you live in a 1 bedroom apartment. After word gets around, you can find a new club. After you run out of clubs, you can find a new city.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:01 PM
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"Just work harder". "Just push harder." "Just do more hours." Oh yeah, corporate America loves fools with this mindset. And when you do "get ahead" and work 65-70 hours a week guess what happens: "I left Jim. Sure he works hard, but he wasn't there for me." Yeah, he wasn't there for her. He was at fucking work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:59 PM
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Yet she maintains her "secret life" on that magical secret super-private phone. Yeah, not buying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:53 PM
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She can change her income dramatically and child support is recalculated. Besides, despite the talk on PPD women still marry across and up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:27 PM
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Sorry down-voting bait-poster.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:25 PM
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u/cowfishAreReal is the typical woman trivializing the risks of divorce because she as a woman will never face them. "50% of parachutes don't open? Well choose your parachute wisely then!" These people can be mocked then summarily ignored. I'll talk to other people who face the actual risks and see what they are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:24 PM
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That's what I've done for the last 10 years since my divorce. Works fine for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:19 PM
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Most women still want to get married at some point in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:57 PM
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Bullocks. Women still want to marry their education and financial "equal or betters".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:18 AM
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ALRIGHT MOM!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:17 AM
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This "fuck the rules" attitude only seems to apply to them however; yeah, she's entering her 30s happily single and on prozac, ready to rock -- yet a man gets called a "manchild" if he deviates from the suburban rat-race mentality. why is that? Because a society who "don't need no man" sure as hell still wants what's in our wallets. They may have their own money, but why spend theirs when they can spend someone elses?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:50 AM
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Or a bait-poster depending on where you're standing...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:44 AM
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Right because people never change. Blue Pill nonsense. "Just choose wisely" lololol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:35 AM
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Women: Don't objectify us! Also women: I fuck guys for stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:47 PM
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The big question is - aside from a few disgruntled pill guys on the internet - who really gives a shit: A. If average women use apps to pull good looking men for sex. B. What average women do on their phones all day for their "phone feels".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:29 PM
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Yes, and when they have those rights gender norms show up more, not less. Read the articles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:27 PM
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Modern women want to do zero chores. Get a degree and a degreed woman and then get a housekeeper and/or nanny. Nobody wants to fold laundry anymore. People have those phone thingies they spend 7 hours a day on now...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:12 PM
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So why do women still flock to these sites in droves? Oh, because women can order men like pizzas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:39 PM
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Gender preferences - that include things like courses of study and field of work? C'mon. Men lean towards preferring to work with things. Women lean towards working with people. In more "egalitarian" societies, these tendencies get more pronounced, not less. When given a choice, men and women moreso choose what men and women typically prefer to choose. The idea that "sameness" is some ideal is wrongthink. You're never going to get 50% men in nursing any more than you'll get 50% women in engineer…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:36 PM
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Trying something new is completely different from trying to morph yourself into a new person to be a better match a new partner. I've seen people do this. It never works.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:33 PM
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Yes I did not know posting on PPD was killing my fish. What did I learn? There are upsides to getting new fish every week. Just don't name them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:23 AM
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Wow. Internalised misandry much?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:22 AM
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So... pretend to be someone you're not and see if it sticks? Meh. Any time I tried to be malleable like that and adapt to her lifestyle choices and interests, it eventually failed. You can't try to be someone else and be happy for very long. They eventually can tell you're not being your genuine self.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:00 AM
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The difference now though is that women are educated in this. No, women don't work in demanding or dangerous STEM fields in any great numbers. They're unicorns at best. I work among thousands of men in insfrastructure related work and the people doing the really critical hands-on field work are 99.99% men. I can count the women doing this work on one hand. Just that they aren’t needed in the same way they were. Men are needed more than ever - it's just that men are not needed directly by women f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:55 AM
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I don't think it. Studies show it. https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/science.aas9899 https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1002/ijop.12529
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:53 AM
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Non-disclosure is the #1 step in veiling. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:07 AM
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There are entire floors of buildings dedicated to female sexual health. You're never going to get any support from men with your feminism if you mock, shame and trivialise men's issues. And how you reduced men's health to "poor baby being horny" says all we need to know about you. Feminist nutcase blocked. It's been fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:58 AM
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NAMALT - Not All Men Are Like That etc. etc., Sorry, carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:39 AM
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You literally compare being horny to all of this. No, you conflated me discussing male sexual urge with "the great wall of women's problems". You can't have a discussion to do with ANY men's health or sexuality issues without some feminist doing the classic feminist whataboutism and the "wall of women's problems".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:36 AM
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Men aren't need for society the same way they were needed until 200 years ago (industries and technology changed that). If all the men who kept civil infrastructure running smoothly and safely walked off the job tomorrow, you'd be in for a helluva surprise. First sign of trouble: the power is off. Hope you have your solar phone charger with you. Wait what? No service? Network is down. Turn on the tap - no water. Now what? People take these systems for granted - systems men build, maintain and ru…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:01 AM
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I give you - Civil War - by Guns N Roses Look at your young men fighting Look at your women crying Look at your young men dying The way they've always done before Look at the hate we're breeding Look at the fear we're feeding Look at the lives we're leading The way we've always done before My hands are tied The billions shift from side to side And the wars go on with brainwashed pride For the love of God and our human rights And all these things are swept aside By bloody hands time can't deny An…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:43 AM
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Why are red pill men obsessed with, at a minimum, veiling their behavior. Right. Because a "great line" to use on a first date is explain how you're a member of the manosphere and Red Pilled and that's how you got the date in the first place... Why not come out and explicitly tell everyone you’re trying to date/hit on that you’re red pill? Sorry who am I trying to date / hit on? I do neither. Ever. The only reason men are now veiling their behaviour is that it works so well for women we just cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:39 AM
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equality between women and men etc. Interesting. And where they have the most equality between men and women guess what else they have: More (not less) adherence to traditional gender roles. Didn't see that one coming...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:29 AM
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Jordan Peterson is a big one for this. Cathy Newman may have been slated for her constant "So what you're saying is..." questions in the infamous Channel 4 interview with him but its quite understandable given the way he debates; never actually saying what his actual suggestions are. Oh, FFS. He spent the entire interview trying to take her words out of his mouth. She went on brain-dead lefty/progressive character assassination attempt and was made an utter fool out of. Just deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:33 PM
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How is being aware of how people view you and what their agendas are for you a bad thing? Why are women so obsessed with, at a minimum, veiling their behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:29 PM
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Being horny cannot be compared to the 12 million little girls being forced into sexual slavery every damn year. Stopped reading there. Take your feminist hysteria elsewhere. Red Pill does not cause (or promote) child sexual slavery. Feminists want women to believe that in N.A. it's too dangerous for a woman to leave her own house, yet women are safer in N.A. than at any point in human history. And please, leave fucking Islam and India (and other shit holes I have no control over) out of it. Femi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:27 PM
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The GENERAL consensus is that self improvement will increase the average guys chances of getting laid, it will NOT turn you into a Chad. It's oversold as a panacea to lower value men who it won't work for. Sure, any improvement is better than further detriment. But, there is that "pissing in the ocean" thing too...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:23 PM
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Noble Shmoble. That shit is for White Knights. I'm a Black Knight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:14 PM
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Permanence is just an illusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:11 PM
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You laugh. Sock support is no joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:09 PM
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Edit 2: my view is changed because too much damage to children that are innocent. This doesn't stop women from Frivorcetm and levelling up. Ah, but us men and that whole "our decisions affect others" thing I guess hey?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:08 PM
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Sorry, which scenario are you referring to? The "dedicated" man or the "entitled" man?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:57 PM
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So do you want a bangmaid or something? Um, no. I'm not in the market for a partner right now. I'm really troubled to be honest, by your idea that a husband who gives his wife orgasms, does cleaning and stands up for her rights is a unicorn. But I promise you I do those things. Do you think that makes me unmanly? Well, being troubled by something on Reddit... what can I tell you. But, you're reading this wrong. I am not talking about what average guys are doing in that case. I am suggesting a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:44 PM
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I read a lot of what people write here. I am not the only person here who believes there is a "Unicorn" (or fabrication) problem with some of the women's back stories. In some cases, the explanation is she's caged a Chad somehow and he's using her like a bangmaid and doing nothing around the house and earning no money. No woman would tolerate this from an average or low value man. He'd be tossed to the curb. I know of more than one woman who traded on "subservience and tolerance" (bang maid duty…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:28 PM
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Yes, these "early childhood development experts" need to be exposed and dragged kicking and screaming into the light of day and taken forever away from the school system and access to children. They are extremely dangerous and manipulative child groomers with a political agenda. "Do no harm" and oaths about protecting children mean nothing to these sociopaths. And they really believe they are "doing good". It's beyond cringe. It makes my fucking blood boil. And no, I'm not even close to being an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:17 PM
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Well, he is sneaky, clever, intelligent, manipulative, and Machiavellian. He plays a lot of strategy games and believes he would "outsmart" his enemy and not just that, outsmart his own country men and even use them to his own benefit (and quite possibly to THEIR detriment or even peril!) This is why he was so sure he would survive the war. And, honestly, he does have some mental predispositions that may well lend themselves to his suitability. Dark Triad men have been known to do very well for …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:14 PM
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I'm just giving my male perspective. I find a lot of women's "stories" here sound really sketch. The two examples I gave where the two most common (and most sketch) I can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:11 PM
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Not everybody here is in a relationship Most CERTAINLY not everyone here is in a happy / preferred relationship In fact, I think most WOMEN here are larping or coming here with a fake "profile" probably highlighting some ideal or imagined relationship. There are two types: A. She has this perfect guy. All men are shit, but her guy is this oddly perfect feminist, puppy loving, house cleaning, orgasm giving, selfless, but hot, super dude with a man bun. Possible realities: A1 - she's a man hating …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:29 PM
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Money and possessions are not people; Agreed. socialism does not apply to humans What.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:23 PM
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Dating is sometimes a bit like that old gameshow "Let's Make a Deal", where you are given a prize to start off with, and then you have to decide if you're going to keep it, or trade it for what's behind "Door #2", which could be a lot better, or a lot worse than what you have. That's a great analogy. No matter what we have, we always seem to want more. Well, "we" as humans. Not me personally. I am happy with what I have, and am in the process of downsizing. No material purchases or luxury items …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:19 PM
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No, left.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:09 PM
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Besides we need to fight child grooming in schools a more important battle. You mean the gender warrior brain cancer aka telling troubled-teens (or pre-teens) that ALL of their troubles are CERTAINLY gender dysphoria related? Then yes. I agree we need to fight that. It's nothing more than far-left 'progressive' social constructionism. And by 'progressive' I mean regressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:08 PM
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Actually, this is more like social construction-ism, but the left is all about that too...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:06 PM
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Knew a sociopath once who posited that a "war" was needed to reduce the number of men, likely to give him less competition in the mating arena. He was short and small, and pretty much everything he did reeked of shortness and smallness. Complete sociopath. But to your point. "Culling the herd" and reducing the number of men will only work if you remove men at random. If you choose for merit, you're only culling men from the herd who were already struggling. Aka, you just made it worse for the me…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:01 PM
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In my oppinion, changing the gender-ratio of men and women would do a great deal in reversing the suitor-picker dynamic in dating, by artificially raising the value of men through increased rarity. Well, socialism is about making everyone equally unhappy... And lots of people think socialism is a great idea, especially unhappy people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:58 PM
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Oh nooo, men are horny, what a bummer :( Lmao what? Who tf lets you walk without a leash outside, if its SOOO BAD? :(( poor you :(( i cant believe this, why dont just women become sexual slaves for you, poor coomers, so you feel better? pat pat so sad :( This is why men often have very little sympathy for women and their issues and problems. If you trivialise what men experience, expect your experiences to also be trivialised. Oh, poor poor women. Unwanted male attention. Boo hoo. Cat calling. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:47 PM
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This isn't going well for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:18 PM
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Their whole argument is blue pill bunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:15 PM
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Why does one need to get laid all the time to be happy? If you're female you'll never know the constant nagging itch to get laid men endure if they have a half-assed functional libido. I knew a woman once who needed some hormone therapy after some thyroid or similar surgery. Long story short, it made her horny. She told my friend she thought of sex multiple times a day, had sexual thoughts about strangers passing her in the street, and would sometimes masturbate as soon as she got home from work…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:15 PM
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The game is over and you can't have your quarter back. No matter how many times you rewrite your final comeback. But do keep trying because it's funny as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:09 PM
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Comparing 1 gender as more disposable than another is honestly just sickening, it's like how in China loads of mothers aborted/killed female kids in favor of male kids with the 1 child policy. Every iota - every drop every nuance of behaviour in the sexual marketplace is based on male sperm being near worthless due to near infinite supply and female eggs (and the person willing and able to take a fetus to term and beyond) being in relative short supply. Take it up with human beings how we, as hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:08 PM
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You can rewrite your come-back 1000 times dear. You can't get un-owned here. Just admit defeat and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:03 PM
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more owned now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:02 PM
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lol. You just keep telling yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:01 PM
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the real reason I have this tag is because it let's me filter out everyone who simply judges people at face value, without reading what they're saying. I think it helps you do what you're here to do which is troll. Gotcha!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:47 PM
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Or you're not as funny as you think you are. But I agree with that last part.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:43 PM
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SJWs calling other people losers. Yeah, irony is not lost on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:42 PM
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Naw, you just got fucking owned.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:41 PM
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weird how the only people observing this behaviour is a cabal of sexless lunatics. Says you. ​ also weird how all this understanding of female nature has gotten you absolutely nowhere in life. at all. Oh, this is personal now is it? I've fucked over 40 women. Sexual success. I have three kids. Reproductive success. I make > $120K a year. Social success. What's weird is how you SJW/blue pill types always assume people you disagree with are losers and your idiot friends who agree with you are winn…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:38 PM
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I think equality (and worse yet, equity aka equal outcomes) is going to make our society's worse and not better. I believe in merit. Judge people on merit and achievement. And don't give extra points to pretty people who perform to the same level. But, we're animals and this behaviour will never change. People will always cry Unfair! and want some sort of advantage returned to them for some perceived "lack of privilege". Look at the Red Pill men all bent out of shape because they don't have the …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:31 PM
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Not here. Here, you just need to A) get a new haircut and skin care regimen B) get some new clothes C) take a cooking class and be more interesting "here" is indeed a strange place full of strange ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:28 PM
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What makes you say guy with mommy issues, girl with daddy issues is the worst? That would probably mean for relationships right? I just assumed this might be a worse case scenario. But as far as attraction levels they might be the most attracted? Well, sure. Some people in the most destructive codependent relationships report they were initially crazy about eachother sexually. But strong sexual attraction is not necessarily and indicator for long term relationship success, especially when that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:26 PM
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I know a guy who is constantly bemoaning his single status. Has short term flings with hot, young unavailable women. Shows us all photos of them - almost bragging "Look what I can get". Got a real girlfriend. Didn't share pictures. Clearly didn't find her attractive and wants someone both hot AND doting. Because he said he likes her agreeableness and how is treated and her willingness to commit... he just doesn't like her appearance. She's not good looking enough for him. Sucks hey? So he did th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:22 PM
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Women have different reasons for being with different men. This is all observable behaviour. Why so afraid of it? I don't think men understanding female nature better is going to make men want to kill all the women. Might make a few men avoid women more, or perhaps change their ideas about "love" (mating). What's the problem? Women have evoked social change for their own benefit, and now men are thinking about THEIR own needs and desires. Can't men be happy too? Or is "when women are happy socie…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:17 PM
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Is that what telling people their lived experiences are wrong is called nowadays?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:14 PM
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Don't think that worked out like you planned...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:14 PM
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Again, there is a big difference between "once in a while" and "all the time", which was my point, which you seem to be side stepping.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:09 PM
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Sure. You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:07 PM
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Are you a guy or girl? What if you have mommy issues but it was like your mom didnt give you enough attention, was too weak and let you do whatever you wanted, whereas dad was like a tyrant, super controlling, a bit violent, yelling etc? Male. I can't say how thing would be different had the roles been reversed. What kind of dynamics do you think work best for relationships? I mean like if both people have daddy issues, the relationship would work but would it only work because the guy is simpin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:01 PM
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Not sure what your point is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:53 PM
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Not mentioning how much the prospective renter can afford, in context of a parallel to human relationships, makes your example irrelevant? You can want the better place, but if you can't afford it, you have to settle for a place somewhere in the middle, or even the crappy place itself. Or be homeless. That's also a choice (aka - relationship free).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:50 PM
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I don't know what the average success rate is for low and average men are. I pulled numbers out of my arse. The point is, alphas have order-of-magnitude better success rates. Plus, they don't have to expend as much time or energy getting there. They get "more" for "less", simply because of their higher innate value. The fact you have schlumpy friends that still get laid disproves nothing I've written here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:49 PM
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You don't know what social dominance hierarchies are. It has nothing to do with manipulating people or general social behaviour. It's a persons position in society, given to him by that society, based on what society values. Myself, personally, I don't find myself in situations where I am publicly humiliated. I have high intelligence and I'm also physically imposing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:46 PM
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Yes. Dreamy. One eyebrown cocked... aloof crooked grin. Unlike betamale gaze. Dopey eyed, distant stare, mouth open, possibly drooling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:36 PM
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You're assuming the person looking for accommodations can afford both...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:35 PM
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But that doesnt mean every girl they hit on will be a success. That doesn't disprove anything. Nobody said an Alpha will have a 100% success rate. What about a 50% success rate compared to the average guys 0.1%? What about a 25% success rate? His success is orders of magnitude higher than the average guy and room-mates and friends of these men have literally posted here over and over how they watched these guys in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:33 PM
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Someone could say the same thing about you, denying the existence of an alpha male. Genetic Alpha - sexually desirable based on looks alone Social Alpha - sexually desirable based on social status Ultra Mecha Godzilla Alpha - Christian Grey Nobody is saying there is an "alpha" version of the "alpha wolf". The term alpha just points towards social dominance. Physically and socially desirable men rise above in human social dominance hierarchies, which also exist. Believing everybody is all the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:32 PM
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Seems Blue Pillers are pushing "choosing to be unaware" but we already knew this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:27 PM
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Right, it's better to be blissfully unaware of the different players in the mating arena and just assume all men are created (and treated) equally. You know, this is why there are school shooters. No fathers teaching their sons the realities of life, love and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:27 PM
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It would be the only acceptable form of the male gaze. The male gaze in general is problematic because both low and high value men do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:25 PM
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says the person with "real sjw" as their flair... So ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:24 PM
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Harm? Not always. If a man stops simping and decides betabuxxing is a bad relationship strategy, that's a win for him and any woman he might have considered "transacting" with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:23 PM
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This is the fuel source for my rumination OCD.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:22 PM
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This guy really describes people as if he's David Attenborough on national geographics, sitting in a bush while watching a fucking gazelle jump around or something. You have to describe all 'pill' archetypes in the voice of David Attenborough: "And here we see Bulging Becky in her natural habitat, crying in her car after being rejected romantically by yet another Chad, but, she will go off and hatch her little Chadlings, and one day mate with a far more attainable male. A short distance away, a …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:20 PM
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As a longtime nightclub guy, I can say that "planting your flag on new territory" is overrated. Yet, you did it. And guys who have not done it seem to want that. Just sayin.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:15 PM
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Women want to take what their partners do for granted while not being taken for granted for what they do for their partners. When cornered: "But he likes doing that stuff." r/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:11 PM
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"I have to send all the Christmas cards." Her: I do all of the emotional labor around here. Him : But honey, I washed both cars, replaced your battery, took your car in for service, shoveled a foot of snow off the driveway and walks today. Her: But you like that stuff. Him: Don't you like sending Christmas cards? Her: REEEEEEEEE I suggest any man walk away immediately from any woman who uses the term "emotional labor". Too feminist to be in a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:08 PM
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Alpha Fux Alpha Bux :-) Also known as "Christian Grey"...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:58 PM
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Mommy issues here. And daddy issues too because he simped for our manipulative crazy toddler-esque hyper-controlling untreated mentally ill mother. Looking back, had a lot to do with the person I eventually got married and had kids with. More recently, I've chosen being single over choosing anyone. Damage control? I just think anyone I will find attractive will be ultimately broken, damaged goods. Trying to fix other people or get in this "fix you for love" deal is a fucking trainwreck. Some peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:57 PM
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evo-psyche gender studies. Evo-psyche and gender studies are two polar opposite things. Or were you making a funny....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:52 PM
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It’s that there are so many pre requisites before looks start to matter at all. No, you have it backwards. It's looks that are the pre-requisite now. It's "Looks + everything else I want in a partner".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:49 PM
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And you eventually get to a point to where an average looking woman (again, 5'4 and borderline obese) is eliminating like 97+% of men on the app. Well, if Bulging Becky wants to get sport-fucked by lazy lion Chadster, that's her problem. Men are obsessed with how much easier women have it in the SMP. They should either rethink their strategies and apply the Red Pill knowledge, or just get a sex change.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:48 PM
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Their female teachers hate the competition...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:36 PM
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Right. People can't drive between two spots 10 minutes apart without a phone in their hand today. Not buying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:35 PM
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In some cases the person doing this is secretly desperate and thinks by doing it you’ll like them more somehow Yeah, the phone dread game. Like, who has time for this. The same people write "Tired of head games" in their OLD profiles. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:34 PM
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Best friend, mother, or 'superhawt guy". Beta bux guys and low value guys are playthings on phones. I recall getting random texts from women months after meeting them and I had already forgotten about them and I wanted to reply: "What, slow day at the cock factory?"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:32 PM
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Really? I find this sort of incompatibility to be in the top three. If I ever WERE to seek a partner again, anyone with high adventure who likes travel and lots of concerts, festivals and "large crowd" events would be immediately off my list. I remember one gal who showed interest in me who was into off-roading, fishing, camping... ranch life. I simply explained I was a city dweller and you'd never catch me dead waking up a 5am to drive to some lake to sit in a little boat trying to catch a fish…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:28 PM
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He was ridiculously good looking and at uni at the time, I was a single mum. So it's completely understandable tbh. There's that "Chad goes straight to the bedroom" thing Red Pill talks about... Chad's make single moms. They don't wife them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:20 PM
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Agreed. And I just suggest that men think with something other than their dicks for a change but it will never happen. Men turn themselves into beggars and cause the market to be terribly slanted in women's favor, but so long as male thirst continues to rise, women will have their win win win situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:15 PM
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What Red Pill won't advertise is men, on a base level, want to see their "virgin whore" complex realized. This could well be the male version of the female dual mating strategy. But, for men, they don't want the virgin and whore to be the same person. In fact, when it is the same person, that is when it becomes problematic. If these men indeed want "sluts for casual pleasure" and "good women for long term relationships", then they've made it pretty clear that they're hypocrites. They protest wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:06 PM
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Because men want women and women want what men provide. Old men are useless. Old women are still desired by old men. Don't kid yourselves. I had a great uncle once who was trapped into married at a very late stage of life. The family protested vehemently. And yes, she got the farm in his will and his birth-children got nothing. Clever clever old hag.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:01 PM
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Focus 0% on women. Focus 100% on wealth building and attain symbols of material wealth and power. Suddenly the number of women who find you "attractive" or "interesting" will naturally go up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:57 PM
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Because these people only "want" you for your cash and a green card? That it's steeped in exploitation and the epitome of transactional relationships? I mean, if you just want to be seen as an exploitable resource and are okay with that, that's fine. But if you want to be genuinely liked then maybe it's not a good idea. Do men even want to be liked for who they are? It seems to me many men would be perfectly happy to have a woman around who likes them for what he can do for her, aka, provide res…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:56 PM
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It's not that simple though. When women "do stuff" they expect more than basic reciprocity. The best example is "getting more out of the deal" when it just comes to something like sex. Both people are enjoying "the sex" but her girlfriends are telling her that he's "getting the sex for free" meaning that being with her sexually is not about human sexual reciprocity it's about "what am I getting for this bootay"-ocity. Transactional, in the most primal sense of the word. Again, another example, m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:48 PM
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Yes, we bring to "the table" a better lifestyle, higher social status, our current (and future) income and you bring... "you". You are the prize. Everything we need to bring with us is the prize. Sorry, but that doesn't sound like love to me. It sounds more like prostitution, really. Sorry again, but if you "don't need no man" why then do the financial requirements persist? I know why: it's called the A La Carte menu of feminism - you can get a main course of empowerment and independence, and si…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:34 PM
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I have both. Yay me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:05 AM
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You mean "tea plants and weed parties".... right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:52 AM
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So that's why people look at me funny when I say "AlllLllRIGHT! Let's Par-TAY!" Especially my poor children. My poor embarrassed children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:02 AM
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Nope same girl. She just wants only certain people to see her "display". But, it's out there for the entire world to see. Even crusty old creepy men with big beer guts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:53 AM
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She's not insecure. She's being inundated with images of emaciated little attention whores on social media. Young girls are getting eating disorders and even killing themselves over this. So, way to blame children for a greater social problem that adults created.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:39 AM
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Look at my hot body! Everybody wants dis hot body! NO DONT LOOK AT ME pervert! Creep! Sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:50 PM
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As soon as I get into a relationship I get a flood of women (who up to that point wouldn’t mind if I was breathing) trying to jump on top of me. They don't actually want you though. This is just a shit test and pathetic way to get validation. They will seduce you away from your woman to prove that they can (I stole her guy ha ha ha) but the second you blow up your relationship for her she's gone. She only wants what she thinks she can't have. Some women are sick in the head that way. And we've a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:41 PM
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People ain’t like that. Well, they kind of are. There's this thing called statistics. And an average dude, if he's after an average gal who is his looks-match - this is going to be hard for him to do. He's competing against better looking guys who have access to her sexually. As such, for our average Brad, he's got to play a numbers game. If you "see the person" before they give some indication of commitment or even interest first, you're wasting your time on what will probably be a dead end. Me…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:39 PM
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I fucking hate these social media apps. Worst thing possible if you have a teenage daughter. Now instead of comparing herself to a few popular girls at school she compares herself to every little thot on the planet showing off her body for validation points. My daughter is fine the way she is but I have to intervene because the seeds of an eating disorder are already planted. The other day she said she looks fat and she is not at ALL fat. I mean really. Is an emaciated woman with every tendon an…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:35 PM
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Good Lord no. Women organise things with other women - they go to clubs just to be with their friends and dance with their friends and don't even want guys approaching. Only men feel pressure to try and meet women in public places. Maybe if OLD was less of a dumpster fire...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:32 PM
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Of course not. Serving a princess, well, just to be in her company and have the opportunity!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:06 PM
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Sorry you lost your dad so young.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:03 PM
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Men contribute all kinds of things to relationships of all kinds. At work, at home, with their partners, families, friends... We just don't put things in terms of it being "free" because we don't expect something back. Doing things for others out of what is supposed to be love or genuine care and then saying things like "unpaid emotional labor" is totally fucking cringe. I've worked on women's cars. Done landscaping. Taking care of their animals. Done renovations, or just regular maintenance and…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:18 PM
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Women's depictions of how they experience attraction need not be rational, or logical. They can even be simultaneously contradictory. And, according to men writing love poems and ballads, this is a feature, not a bug. Women either make you mad and you can't stop chasing them. Or, they just make you.... mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:03 AM
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Women who want male friends: "Don't see us as sex objects! Be real friends with us!" Women who want relationships: "Sorry, how many female friends do you have?" Also be sure that if you have female friends they are not that attractive. Your next female "SO" will be threatened by any woman who is equal or better to her own SMV. Source: Observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:59 PM
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Oh, my. You certainly don't want a Bob with prickles then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:21 PM
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Women want men to be "emotionally connected" because emotional connections are how they get into people's heads. They do not want "displays of emotional vulnerability". The whole point of the man not being vulnerable is so she can afford to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:37 PM
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Hmmmm.... Then why the name Bob.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:34 PM
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Are they both prickly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:38 PM
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So that's it? We're all pretty much equal except for the titty difference? I think my work here is done.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:37 PM
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What’s refusing to blow at a roadside stop? Refusing to provide a breath sample to a cop on the road because you're been drinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:34 PM
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No, you can't have a genetically stable community with a brood mare. Humans are not ants - we need most women to reproduce for adequate biodiversity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:30 PM
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Go inside. Go outside. Touch grass. Eat grass. Stats are stats. If you want to ignore stats and focus on this super happy couple (who could be divorced next month for all we know) then fill your boots with anecdote. You have rose (or blue?) coloured glasses on. Whatever makes you happy. There is no single fucking way in hell I'll ever get married again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:41 PM
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I don't give a flying fuck about society as it exists today, women, or how I'm viewed by others. Words to live by.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:39 PM
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I think the idea I dehumanise women is patently absurd. But that's your opinion there, and you're entitled to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:05 PM
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Offcourse you say that, as a guy. Guys are known for not fearing rape. Guys are known for living their lives as if rape doesn't exist. If we don't go to prison. And we fear getting beat up or killed as much or more than women do. Because statistically we have a higher chance of being beat up or killed. You seem to confuse a respect for law and due process with indifference towards rape victims. That's kinda your problem to work though. Not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:04 PM
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Most male feminists did it all for THE NOOKIE THE NOOKIE SO YOU CAN TAKE THAT CoOkiE And stick it up your...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:50 PM
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I never knew being disinterested in women or their sexual exhibitionism and attention seeking behaviour was to dehumanise them. Fascinating. I'll start sport fucking women I don't care about immediately, to stop this heinous crime I am committing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:45 PM
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This plant had a name. A name I tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:43 PM
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You're not getting it. It doesn't matter if he grabbed her ass or cut her in half with a chainsaw. You have to prove he did it. And if you can't, he walks. That's the system. Other systems result in innocent people going to jail and even put to death. It's not a perfect system, but it's the best we got.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:42 PM
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Have you looked at the success rate of 2nd and 3rd marriages? You'd best live in different houses and have separate bank accounts...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:40 PM
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Dude, you're on a movie set.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:39 PM
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I'm not. I do it all the time and can stop whenever I want I just don't... Grin.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:38 PM
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Reality is for people who can't handle drugs. Or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:38 PM
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No marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:37 PM
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Then you can star on My 400 Pound Life and be famous... Pass the Cheetos.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:37 PM
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Netflix and chill?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:36 PM
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I killed a plant and I can't stop thinking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:25 PM
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Someone should make a meme out of this...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:19 PM
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Still have to prove it was the accused who did it. A dead person who died horrifically does not mean the accused is guilty. You're confusing the severity of the crime and the guilt of the accused. It's purely an emotional mindset. Your mindset is WHY due process is more important than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:13 PM
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Dude, I had women sizing me up for a bailout when I was in my fat pants. It was so obvious it was cringe. Strong independent women - with shitty dead end low paying jobs, kids from one or more men, mountains of debt and a rusty piece of shit car - who want to travel more. They need a fucking bankruptcy trustee - not a travel agent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:07 PM
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Dude you're preaching to the choir here but WHAT A SERMON. What I'm trying to get at in this post is that all this winner/loser stuff regarding sex and intimate relationships only matters to young people. When you get middle-aged and beyond the dynamics completely change, and the single carefeee bachelor becomes the 'winner' and the overworked stressed out nagged-to-death male cog in society's machine is viewed with pity from others - usually other men. Damn that's good. And it's even better whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:04 PM
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We all just trying to fuck, it’s the mammal in us cabrón. Rise above mi, amigo. Rise above. I have, and it's empowerment like you've never known. A reprieve from an otherwise toxic, soul draining addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:02 PM
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I don't need to dehumanise women. They dehumanise themselves. Turning themselves into sexual commodities on social media. But, enough woke SJW buzzwords for one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:31 PM
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I don't think that we've ever had it happen and it not be rape and you still go: that's not proof enough. You have an injured woman who claims she was raped. So now, the court needs to prove he was responsible for the injury and his actions constituted rape. This is how courts of law work. In Alberta, an Ontarian trucker did "extreme" sex acts to a native woman (prostitute) and it caused her serious injury - she died from. He was given 12.5 years despite there being reason to believe she may hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:19 PM
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LOVE IT. "Just try it shorty!" We clothe our females! hahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:03 PM
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I use male/female and man/woman almost randomly. Women hate being called females. And cunts. They REALLY hate being called cunts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:01 PM
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Simps and their OnlyFans divas deserve eachother. Pathetic attracts pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:00 PM
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But they don't care about the bar for themselves they only want to set a high bar for men. For example, everybody got fat, but women won't date fat men but men will date fat women. The biggest Red Pill of all Red Pills is the idea that there should be any sort of fairness when it comes to the challenges men and women face in the sexual marketplace. Women have every single last advantage. If you have a penis, you need to accept this, deal with it and move on. If you dwell on "fairness" you're jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:48 PM
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My ex wife has more disposable income (after child support and child tax benefits are collected) than I do. She only has trouble financially because she is a woman who cannot live within her means. It's no secret either as a business owner she misrepresents her actual income and I could take her to court but it's not worth the fighting. She the type of women who devolves into a sour cunt when she doesn't get her way... Losing everything is a relative term. Although a few men are completely devas…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:27 PM
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So your argument is what then? That women do NOT have higher innate value and worth than men? That male indentured servitude and disposability are not things?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:42 PM
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Because it's not rape until it's proven in court she was rape. There is rape. And there are rape convictions. If the person in your made-up scenario was raped, then they were raped. But if this scenario was in a criminal court trial, there are still questions that need to be answered, such as, did she have a pre-existing health condition or trauma from some other situation - or another sex partner. You're trying to make it sound like I am saying that rape doesn't even happen which isn't arguing …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:31 PM
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Guess what? Men do not lose everything in divorce. That is a LIE. Please show me where I wrote this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:21 PM
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I sympathize with you women. It sucks that you don't like men that much but still somehow like them a little. It really seems that the only way for family dynamics to succeed is to take freedom away from women. I don't advocate for that. They need no man. But... still want us a little... here and there... for this and that. I really stopped caring long ago about their three page wish lists and contradictory expectations. The only thing we men are offered is drama and insane financial risk. Women…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:29 PM
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...dude, why are you trying to find excuses for why it's valid when even if those excuses don't exist, we still require the victim to proof that she didn't want it? Because in a situation of "he-said she-said" with no other compelling evidence what are we supposed to do? Just throw him away and believe her because she has a vagina? Yes, consent has to be evaluated. Deal with it. And at 3:00 am with "Coors beer" involved, it surely will get subjective as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:16 AM
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Are you vaccinated citizen?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:03 AM
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I say realise the incalculable value that is your right hand. Let women go into social media narcissistic frenzies and dream of "ultimate" partners. Just enjoy masturbation, cold beer and maybe a good dog. Women crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:02 AM
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The mismatch of partnerships explains the difference between SMV and RMV. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:53 AM
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Like I used an unimaginable pain as an example and you are defending it. I used the most extreme example I could think up and you are defending it. You're not making a strong case here at all. Lots of things in a woman's body can cause her to have excruciating pain. And further to that, was there a pre-existing condition or injury? I'm not going to go into the trauma that rape victims endure -it's horrific. But to say that her experiencing pain or having a condition is proof of rape is just ludi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:36 AM
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2% conviction rate. The current system protects rapists by presuming innocence in even the most ridiculous of circumstances. If you get your cervix ruined during sex, an unimaginable painful act that can cause permanent disability and loss of legs, that's not enough to presume that the act was rape. You can get aids from sex and die. You can get injured from sex if it's too rough. Could be rough sex. Could be due to drug intoxication. And it could be rape. But to suggest severity of injury is by…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:15 AM
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I'll try and source the paper(s) which speak to the current legal systems being inadequate to "increase the number of rape convictions." They don't want to convict more rapists. They want more rape convictions. Anyone with critical thinking ability should be able to understand why that language alone is problematic. More rape convictions in a place where men would be guilty until proven innocent. And tried by angry people and rape victims who hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:02 AM
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LOL. Of course they don't put that on websites. They put; "Feminism is about equality for women and more opportunities for women and girls." Yeah right. That's all it is. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:41 PM
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Feminism demanded equality for women. Women were given equal rights. Feminism demanded fairness and equal opportunity. That too was granted. Yet, still, women are not "excelling" as much as the men are so we need to scrap equality (equal opportunity) because it turns out that equal opportunity is somehow not fair. So now, they introduce us to equity. Case in point about equity. My brother's ex said he should pay more child support despite them having equal custody and similar wages. He asked why…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:30 PM
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No he's calling out the cry for ending due process in law courts (akin to what goes on in HR room kangaroo courts), replacing the standard rule-of-law practices for sexual assault and rape trials with "panels of sexual assault experts and rape survivors" (lol) and essentially reinforcing and expanding an existing "guilty until proven innocent" philosophy towards accused men. Perhaps this stems from women's experiences in the family law system where a simple accusation can result in a man having …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:22 PM
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Name one right men have that women do not and I'll go down to feminism headquarters and sign up this afternoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:07 PM
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51M - Red Pilled, divorced, bachelor. I like reading about psychology and human relationships especially through a lense of abnormal psychology. And I also believe most of us are abnormal in the clinical sense of that word that it shows up in day to day behaviour and relationships. What made me Red Pill. I started formulating Red Pill ideas in my own head starting at about grade 6 (11 years old). I noticed that the identical behaviour from various boys was accepted differently by girls. When "Jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:03 PM
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Maybe a happy, enthusiastic partner? Look at the old maids tales and expression: "Give a man steak at home and he won't go out for a hamburger." But today, just to suggest that it's a woman's JOB in her relationship to keep her man satisfied is tantamount to hate speech and misogyny. Also, too, if he's a Red Pill he knows he's ultimately disposable and she can "have another you in a minute". Maybe give him some affirmation that he's NOT just another needle in a stack of needles - that he's impor…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:54 PM
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I am going to post up here and disagree. You could fix your title with one word: An UNHEALTHY woman... An unhealthy woman is going to seek out partners that she either wants to fix, or partners who will tolerate and even enable/support counter productive or self destructive behaviours. Some women pick good partners. Others pick patently terrible partners. Some women seem to go from abusive guy to abusive guy. You'd think, watching these women, that every living man is a wife beater. Yet, the vas…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:21 PM
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Gotta stop you right there. The wage gap no longer exists. Young women get 2 out of every 3 college degrees now and are out-earning their male counterparts. The problem isn't who pays, the problem is she can't find "economically attractive suitors" who out-earn or at least match her income. Wage gap is over. But, there is still the social services gap where women use more social services than what they pay in taxes. Takes a village, indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:11 PM
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Thanks random internet citizen. You are nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:14 AM
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According to studies I am aware of women experience slightly more "negative emotion" than men. This includes anxiety and trait neuroticism. Depression is to mental illness that a cough is to a cold. I really believe depression is always caused by something else. It doesn't exist by itself - it's a symptom of something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:46 AM
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Counterpoint: The woman's ability to bring life to the planet and nuture it far outweighs the incredible abundance of male seed. This is a biological reality. The truth is probably a mix of my chocolate and your peanut butter...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:31 AM
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Give her Woody and Buzz at the same time...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:33 AM
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Box spring is on the floor here. I have a deep mattress and don't like a bed 3 feet off the floor. Just took the ribs out of my wooden bed frame and plop on the floor she went. My kids got sick of their "pre-teen" comforters and took my comforters, so I shrugged and took theirs. One with nice pink and green flowers and one Buzz Lightyear. I shit you not. Imaging bringing home a "lucky date" to that trainwreck. She's got her face in the sheets and Buzz Lightyear is staring back at her. Consent to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:39 PM
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I have 3 mgtows in My neighborhood. No improvements in the house, inside and outside. Furniture from 40 years ago. Guys are naturally minimalists. Soon to be 4. I just put in an offer. J/K. LOL at 40 year old furniture. I mean, it's comfy. Smells like the dog so it blends in... Retro is IN baby!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:36 PM
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Yeah I want to run my fingers through your sexy locks of back hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:28 PM
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The stuff on your back doesn't count bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:58 PM
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I've already fucked half the moms in PPD. 50/50 chance we're related.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:51 PM
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I'm not an incel. I can get laid I just choose not to. I don't find sexual pleasurable enough to be worth the bother. Medical issues are part of it (feature, not a bug).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:41 PM
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I think I need to get myself to a mental health professional. I'm feeling really at odds with people and society lately - more than usual. I feel like I am pushed around all the time and when I enforce boundaries suddenly I am the asshole. It just makes me want to turn off my phone, turn out the lights and stay in my house. Alone. Even friends - they keep inviting me to shit I hate doing and I just want to visit with them and talk and have a quiet lunch. I don't like bars, or concerts, or music …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:40 PM
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Agree on intentions. What it devolved into is what inc3ls and real misogynists did with it. What it reduced to was: "She has some natural attraction triggers that you can't control so you have to improve or change yourself. Rejection is part of it, so suck it up and move on when rejected. And always remember it's a numbers game. Don't invest lots of time or energy on randos until you get some reciprocation. And, play the game." So what' wrong with THAT? That's how I personally feel about it toda…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:45 PM
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Yep. The worst thing for a society is unwanted children.Encouraging people to have them "because life is precious" is socially irresponsible. And walking away after the baby is born because "Gods work is done" is laughably hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:47 AM
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Chemistry is what happens when there is physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:10 PM
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Whelp. Guess 11 states need to start building more prisons and expanding hospitals. When those unwanted children become adults after a lifetime of neglect in a father-absent home... Yeah. Getting shot by one of those "miracles" you saved. How ironic would THAT be!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:52 PM
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Make Alberta Great Again too. And make Justin Trudeau a drama teacher again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:50 PM
1

LOL @ Cafeteria Feminism. She sounds like a critical thinker.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:58 PM
1

I'd still hit the gym until I was Tyler. Tyler is not getting into relationships. He's just fucking other dude's girlfriends. Go Tyler.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:54 PM
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So women who got fat from having kids are not fat. Got it. This explains a lot actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:52 PM
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I'd hit the gym until I was Tyler.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:35 AM
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Big women get ridiculed in the dating scene. Big men are sexual nonpersons in the dating scene. Which one is worse? Hard to say....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:49 AM
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You tell that lady if she doesn't feel you squirm for over 30 seconds she needs to roll off of you at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:37 PM
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Yes. And fat women can get thin men but fat men can't get anyone. Not even fat women. Because they won't date fat men. Equality and fat acceptance is not for fat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:10 PM
3

About 100 from what I can tell at the local shopping malls... Even those big ladies with the electric scooter thingies are getting action. Not action I'd like to witness, but action no less.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:09 PM
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Often I see people on TRP mention the dating market as a result of SMV, including for women. Sorry what? The dating market as a result of SMV what does that even mean? Clearly, both men and women value looks in a relationship and attraction matters, but I would think that this is not indicative of relationship success, happiness or fulfillment. Nobody said it did. But it's a major determinate in what people refer to as "league". Some say they've never heard of this "numbers thing" and I ask "You…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:46 PM
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And plus it’s a gigantic waste of time? That's probably the bigger problem. Time is a valuable resource.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:38 PM
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Esther Perel talked about female sexuality being inherently narcissistic. It's not enough to make a woman feel desired; you have to make her feel desirable. It's an innate human ego defense. Cerebrally she feels better than pretty much every man she encounters. Yet, she obsesses about her body and face in the mirror and compares herself to other women continually. Men have it too. It's the cause of men perceiving attraction when there is none. People live in denial. They put pictures of their yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:36 PM
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And how often are orbiters perceived as "JUST FRIENDS"? Orbiting IS the classic friend zone - but he put himself there and she might be thinking that legitimately he's just a friend. Orbiting women to wait until the "time is right" is one creepy-ass strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:28 PM
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I've seen some women be incredibly wishy washy, flakey and hot and cold. Perhaps they themselves are not certain about how they feel about someone from moment to moment. It's a simple "not going to be a you and me" statement women should put on their big girl pants and say to men. 99% of the confusion and awkwardness would end overnight. Like I said in other posts. If men errored on the side of the kind of caution being sold here, we'd be surrounded by 40 year old virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:27 PM
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You'd be surprised how many successful people are self-loathing. How else can therapists afford to charge $200/hr if not for wealthy clients?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:30 AM
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It's sad actually. I wish I could give my social skills and verbal acumen to some poor bastard inc3l out there. I can handle any social situation with ease. And here I am. A fucking recluse. My friends used to say: "I can't believe some of the shit you say to women."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:23 AM
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It's the look in her eye when she's touching you... I've seen the do-me look. Not often, because at my very BEST I was just shy of a Chadlite. But I've seen it. And when you see it, you know you're getting some action.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:23 AM
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Any game strategy that has mass adoption has a success rate, it's just that some are less efficient than others. Doesn't make it any less pathetic...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:17 AM
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There we go. Telling non-confident guys to "just be more confident" is like telling skinny guys to "just be more muscular"...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:14 AM
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Oh, you sapiophile you. 😜
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:11 AM
2

MOST people who talk about "building furniture" today mean IKEA do they not? I mean, how many Hipsters living in downtown condos own a table saw? C'mon. Be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:07 AM
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Nice. And this explains the "be confident" myth Blue Pill offers men who struggle meeting women. Lets try your formula: Sexually successful men are confident. Confident men are sexually successful. Or; He didn't get laid because he's confident. He's confident because he regularly gets laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:24 AM
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This is just orbiting. Waiting around until she comes on the market. Pathetic, and a massive waste of time. I knew one guy in particular. I said "Stop orbiting - you're just her girlfriend with a dick." He scowled at me, and persisted. TWO YEARS LATER he got his big chance. She finally divorced the husband she complained endlessly about. But Mr. Orbiter didn't get a whiff of those panties though. Oh no - he did not. Instead, he got a phone call a few months later from his excited friend offering…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:06 AM
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So the answer is simple then. Marriage for women is a shit deal - I mean that's all we hear about from women, yet they are still the ones pressuring their partners for that ring. Maybe they should just adopt and marry another woman. Then we'll see how nicely those chores get split down the middle. Here is a thought. Why are two degreed professionals (she has one, so he probably does too) doing any housework anyways? And the hard parts of child rearing? Two degrees and they can't afford a nanny? …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:01 AM
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Yep. One and two is not definitive. Women generally don't touch people they don't want to fuck though. ;-)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:18 PM
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I didn't even realize who I was responding to LOL. Too funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:17 PM
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That's one TASTY BURGER! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:16 PM
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Huh? She has a sexual past. He has a sexual past. The OP's point was the out of the blue Shawn is now waiting for marriage. It's some sort of test - a hoop for Shawn. It has nothing to do with being chaste prior to marriage in this case. If she is religious, or a virgin, and wished to wait, that would be understandable. But she's switching to virgin mode to make Shawn wait, AND for all we know she is still getting sex from guy(s) on the side who are not applying for the relationship / dancing mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:15 PM
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That is furniture building. And the staining at the end... the staining!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:13 PM
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There are big changes happening in our world The poorest people becoming less poor. Racist and sexist attitudes are being exposed, people are changing We are starting to look at air, ground and ocean water pollution seriously We are starting to think about renewable energy on big scale But, there are still lots of problems. War in Ukraine and the whole western front of Russia - and NATO involvement. COVID and whatever bug comes next. Political division in places like USA and Canada. It's a time …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:08 PM
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100%. Halo Effect. It's real. People like pretty, charismatic people. You don't get ugly, disheveled news anchors because they're technically competent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:43 PM
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Manipulation and persistence are not black and white though. Is making sure a romantic competitor won't be around manipulative? Giving him tickets to a hockey game so you can keep a one-on-one date with the gal of your dreams? Should a man always just run away at the first sign of "waffling"? Women admit all the time the guy THEY MARRIED only got there because, although she didn't see him in that light at first he became REALLY ATTRACTIVE once she got to know him. There is way to "guide things" …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:08 PM
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Yeah she ain't fucking no stock boy. But she's blowing the assistant regional manager like balloons at a birthday party.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:54 PM
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You need a high-status job to get a girl with a high-status job You need a high-status job to have a RELATIONSHIP with a lady with a high-status job. To bed her, you just need a square jaw, open shirt and a guitar. Isn't that right, Julio? Jes... Jes, you're RIGHT cabron!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:52 PM
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In many ways we transcend our animal nature. BUT (big but) in many ways we have not. People who think we're completely separate from animals now and everything is just a social construct up in our big brains are simply deluded. Human beings exhibit all kinds of animal behavior and it's grounded in biology, evolution and reproduction. People may be disconnected from the primordial forces at work in their day-to-day lives, but that doesn't mean they don't exist. Look at us turd flinging monkeys he…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:49 PM
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Mmmmmm mmmm MMMMMMM!!!!! Say that like Samuel L. Jackson and it's funny as hell...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:47 PM
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Nerdy STEM guys are divorce-rape bait for gold-diggers. Few women drool over a nerd.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:45 PM
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What about a cunning linguist?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:44 PM
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Right. But "assembling IKEA =/= Building Furniture". If you're not using a router, you're not building furniture. ;-)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:43 PM
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Don't kid yourself. People can get into management level positions with charisma and charm despite having poor technical skills. These managers are okay when they don't micromanage or try to have their ideas implemented. When these types do interject, it's a disaster. Technical proficiency is often a distant second or third. You need "people persons" to manage people and strong technical skills are often secondary. When it comes to management and advancement, looks and personality totally matter…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:43 PM
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Not even fake lenses. Just frames with gaping holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:40 PM
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I think they call that emotional intelligence. As for me, being knowledgeable in a lot of areas (politics, health, medicine, psychology, engineering, etc.) was generally a plus. My ex specifically said my over-all intelligence was a turn on for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:39 PM
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He should get an STD test because she's probably been fucking Alpha boys while making Beta Boy Shawn here wait for marriage. This women does NOT "wait for marriage" she makes a potential HUSBAND wait for marriage. Big difference. IF it were me? I'd say "Well, you're not really waiting for marriage you're just making ME wait for marriage..."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:34 PM
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Wah.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:23 PM
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So, like I said. After X months there are legal precedents which are in force that are similar to those of a married couple, aka common law. How is what I said incorrect? You didn't disprove what I said. You expanded on it. So.... thank you? And I never said "after x months everything is split 50/50" either. Men are well advised to know what common law means in their specific area when the consider moving in the girlfriend. And yes, assets owned before and acquired during should be discussed wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:22 PM
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Women will make it pretty obvious whether you are physically attractive. They will do three things when you're in their company. Their body will be turned towards you. They will make eye contact with you, and smile while they are talking. They will TOUCH you, usually playfully with a slap or light punch. Knowing body language IS a thing and it is important. Guys who can read this do much better than those who do not, and save themselves a large number of needless rejections.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:18 PM
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What do we call such a pill? The pill of which we cannot speak? The artist formerly known as pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:16 PM
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They need to be. Women get pregnant, carry young, and wean offspring. It's a long, demanding physical process and she can't do it alone. She needs the support of a man and/or a village. Both is better. She is selecting for two things: a) Genetic health of potential offspring b) Can he protect/provide after the fact. Now, the fact that guys (a) and (b) are often two different guys is a female mating conundrum that leads to the dual-mating strategy, but that's besides the point. Men can be fast-an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:12 PM
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Really though?With women it's always the same thing. Women have a number of base of suppositions about "humans" in the dating market and provide a female perspective. These include ideas about: - Abundance - Aggression / Assertiveness is not required - Numbers game is not required These suppositions stem from a glaring inability to empathize with the specific challenges men face in the SMP. Women face an abundance of choices and scarcity of "qualified" partners. Men face an abundance of rejectio…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:07 PM
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FALSE. Men should STOP LISTENING to dating advice from women. Take a RED PILL gentlemen. Observe the actions, react appropriately. STOP telling women what to do. START changing yourself to be more effective with women, if it's women you desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:03 PM
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Okay, make it 102% then...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:01 AM
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Yes. Women feel entitled to having their partners seek them out, and they project this onto their sons, a privilege their sons do not have. That's why single mothers produce inc3ls, 40-yo virgins and school shooters.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:19 AM
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Next up.... List of 100 female privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:16 AM
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If I woke up in a woman's body I'd get three bottles of wine, a pack of tea lights, a copy of fifty shades and the largest vibrator you can buy without a permit. Then I'd call in sick to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:06 AM
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The “false accusation” line is so irrelevant. 100% of women think false allegations are irrelevant because their careers and lives are never destroyed by false allegations. If ONE WOMAN lost her job to a false sexual assault allegation it would be a top ten feminist speaking point and laws would change.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:04 AM
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100% of shitty mothers are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:00 AM
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Ok so show us your statistics then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:57 AM
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I could give a fuck what pleases anybody else. I provide for my kids, get most of my pleasure through that, and have a few vices that bide the time on the side. Very very simple life. Very cost effective too. I never said I was this "ideal partner", and you alluding to me being some kind of pushover or doormat that turns women off couldn't be further from the truth. I'm as stubborn as hell, and if anything was the problem, that was it. All women who have been with me have one thing in common. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:16 AM
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Western feminists don't care about women in other countries. Please. Just. Stop. This is why they are still arguing "wage gap" when young women out-earn young men and have more degrees while acid attacks, female genital mutilation, spousal rape, spousal murder, rape victim blaming, forced marriage, youth marriage, forced abortion... I could go on. Women are being treated like dog shit in shit hole countries in 2022. White women in North America are going on about oppression and body shaming. Sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:12 AM
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Nobody. Should. Be. Paid. For. Raising. Kids. And. Doing. Housework. How hard is this to understand? I have no issue paying child support so that our household incomes are equalized. However, to say that as a payee of child support I get a SINGLE tax benefit or credit is utterly false. SHE gets all of the credits, tax deductions as the recipient - even if she receives only one dollar. What's embarrassing is that she has a net higher household than I do after support and benefits, and yet spirals…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:05 AM
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You're using the common socialist straw man. There is no pure capitalist system - in North America we have regulated free-market economies which means we have more people doing better in life than anywhere on the planet. Yes, social conscious is always needed and helping people who are struggling is fine. But BASING a system on Oppression Olympics and victim status is a recipe for a nation of demotivated welfare recipients. Nobody is condoning carte-blanche capitalism with pregnant mothers starv…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:49 AM
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Why are you so obsessed with these hypothetical poor people that are somehow gaming the system to get paid for doing nothing when literal billions of dollars are sitting in trust fund babies hands and they actually don’t have to do shit to have a comfy life. I'm against able-bodied people adopting socialism because they think everybody getting a $2000/mo living wage and running a country's economy into the ground is a good idea. Oppression Olympics, which is really what you're selling here, is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:18 AM
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And if you are so good at enjoying your own company why are you here complaining about women not loving you in the first place? You want me to wish I had a woman and be rejected. The fact I don't doesn't give you any Schadenfreude. So you invent imaginary scenarios. And no. Saying women are social media addicts who can't put their phones down is no better or worse than saying men use the internet for pornography use. Both are examples of technology use gone malignant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:13 AM
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This is why I’m definitely all for MGTOW and WGTOW and not “settling” just for the sake of it. I’d rather be alone than with someone who is going to be constantly disappointed in me - or I’m going to be disappointed in. Hahaha. Love this. When people ask why I'm still single I say in jest: "Yeah, because the world needs another disappointed woman..." I'm really easy to please. How hard others are to please is extraordinarily frustrating to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:08 AM
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Technology? LOL. It just makes a job more efficient. It's not the technology - it's the will to make people lower themselves at ones feet. The humanity of it. To divide groups into us and them, and dehumanize them to the point where filling mass graves with them becomes blue-printed plans. Whether a totalitarian dictator hellbent on ethnic cleansing or an "efficiency expert" consultant who buys, rips apart, and sells off companies leaving family men jobless and homeless... it's the humanity of i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:02 AM
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That’s exactly why I said there are other confounding variables… INCLUDING BUT NOT LIMITED TO intelligence…like I said before MANY THINGS affect people’s happiness not just our wombs. But still, you argue that declining happiness is somehow not ironic because there are these other factors. What other factors? If earning more money made people fucking miserable 100% of the time nobody would do it. There is a 800 pound gorilla in the room you don't want to discuss. It's that all of your assertions…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:51 AM
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This is confusing, so you feel like raising children is such a personal responsibility than women shouldn't be compensated for it in any way. When my kids are with me, should I as a man be compensated? NOBODY COMPENSATES YOU FOR CARING FOR YOUR OWN FUCKING KIDS PEOPLE. This is not hard to understand. If women want to be PAID TO RAISE CHILDREN they should not have them they should become FUCKING NANNIES. Feminism and it's brain cancer. It's fucking spreading. I swear. So in your world view, women…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:51 AM
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Dear child, LOL. Is that all you got? Shaming language? Pathetic. Can't rebut what I said hey? Too bad. You were on a roll there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:49 AM
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Where did I whine about needing to do my own shit? When women do their own shit, they think they ought to be paid for it. Imagine me as a man, saying that the housework I do at home and the time I invest in my children's emotional needs is "unpaid domestic labor" and "unpaid emotional labor"? No living man has ever said that. Only modern feminist women say that. Only women feel put out taking care of their own children and want to be paid by some nebulous entity to do it. Or buying the fucking b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:44 PM
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I don’t really know where to begin with this because you are taking everything you have heard any woman say and merging them into an imaginary woman with contradicting views. Purple Pill debate is Blue Pill mixed with Red Pill concepts. Read more Red Pill concepts. The "buffet" approach to traditionalism/chivalry and modernity/equality is a very common critique that Red Pill has of post-modern feminism. This is not some unheard of bogeyman I have created here, just now. ​ Sure there are some fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:38 PM
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A hundred thousand animal species just like ours could have wiped themselves out of existence with their own technology. An intelligent species capable of technological advancement might have a natural life cycle just like a tree sprouts, grows, ages, and falls. And if a "god" or supreme being made us (humor me if you don't believe this is so) then perhaps this being or entity has a sort of insurance policy against animal species obtaining "divine knowledge" through technology. Read about the Ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:17 PM
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I like wahmen. Cause they're like men. But they bitch more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:16 PM
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Feminism didn't invent the idea that one should be comfortable being alone with themselves if they want to develop healthy attachments and bonds that don't consume you. Feminism doesn't do this. Feminism creates a paradox of the "healthy feminist woman" who is a strong and independent with agency and simultaneously a powerless victim with no agency. This is where it completely falls on it's face. Red Pill says women now choose "empowered/independent" or "victim/oppressed" whenever the chosen car…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:15 PM
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Codependency is unhealthy dependency, usually with a habitual abuser or chronically ill person or addict and a habitual enabler with a "need to fix". Interdependence is when couples rise above these pithy "who washes more socks" pissing contests and contribute equally, albeit differently, to the success of the relationship. (The idea that men and women can contribute equally yet differently is abhorrent to feminists for some reason... Everyone needs to be doing equal amounts of the exact same th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:09 PM
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Well, you don't need to "look" for marriage or "get" married in many places in Canada and the US. The STATE decides that for you. And the down-shot is that state-enforced "common law" marital status comes with most of the downsides of marital contracts and few of the benefits, especially for men. I am all for people who don't want to get married. I am all AGAINST the state saying "You've been living together for 12 months. You're fucking married."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:07 PM
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That would make you a dependent in the relationship. If you are dating someone who also needs you, than you will be codependent. You don't know what codependency is. Interdependency is healthy (yet feminists abhor it). Codependency is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:34 PM
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Codependence =/= interdependence. Interdependence worked for men and women for thousands of years. Now, we have completely independent people living together. Myself, it makes no sense investing in a relationship where someone is not just able but encouraged to hit the road the second things get a little difficult. Things always get a little difficult, in all relationships, eventually. I honestly hope my sons never get married. Or, if they do, they've been careful to ensure they are not financia…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:31 PM
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Feminism took the "need" part - the interdependence part - out of relationships. Now, both people ONLY need to "just want to be there". On the surface, this is ideal - and is either a complete dumpster fire or a smashing success, depending on who you ask. Personally, I think the interdependence (NOT CODEPENDENCY) was a way relationships (especially marriage) get cemented. But, most women like the "I can fuck off any time, get cash and prizes for doing it, and be independent without a care in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:28 PM
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Yep. You can have a big social group with various subgroups. But, women in those groups will see you as either "safe and fun to have around" or "possible sexual partner". Women gatekeep like fucking crazy. It's biologically programmed - she doesn't just want to ensure SHE is sleeping with high value men (genetically and socially) she wants to help police this within her peer group. The only difference is when Angry Karens are with women in clubs or at party's and think "I hate men and if I'm not…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:50 PM
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It’s easy to see a correlation between an increase in women’s right/freedoms/abilities and a decrease in their overall happiness but there are other factors that affect happiness including the very strong correlation between increases in intelligence and decreases in happiness…smarter people are less happy there is a lot of research out there on this. Your words. Let's unpack shall we? Women are more successful, so if they're not happier, that's okay because being smarter, or richer or having mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:37 PM
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We will return to a time where real warriors, not hockey players, are the heroes. And brutality and savagery will again decide who is boss. This "inclusive / fair / equity" Oppression Olympics game is a social race to the bottom - which I believe is a naturally occurring correction. We are culling our own herd of our weak. Actually, our weak are signing up to cull themselves from the herd and they don't even know it. Mother nature is fucking brilliant. This is all by design.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:31 PM
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And ultimately I’d personally rather be judged on something less transitory than youth and beauty. Women can't control the fact they age or how babies change their bodies. Men can't change their natural genetics, height and facial structure either. But women also want status, which I agree is "transitory". The problem is, Blue Pilled men believed they were loved and cared for because of who they were, rather than what they could provide. We now know this wasn't true. Met a man in person once. He…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:25 PM
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The article offers the explanation that women are comparing their careers to other women and are feeling that they don’t measure up. Right. The article was about women being less happy, with a struggle with work life balance. I am not trying to argue both points at the same time. Women are less happy now despite their "gains" Most women still aspire to have a family These are different talking points. The last link was for the first talking point. The first link was for the second talking point.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:38 PM
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It does not degrade simply thanks to the passage of time as looks do and it tends to have more to do with someone’s inner character than their looks do also. Women leave for wealthier men. Men leave for younger women. People suck. But there is also a difference between "aging" and putting on 100 pounds for each kid too. If looks are the main thing a woman is valued for (and they clearly are) they fade with time no matter what she does. You know, it's so funny listen to women whine about men sele…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:34 PM
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You and I are here because your ancestors, and mine, were the bigger assholes. Now we're teaching children weakness, diversity, inclusion, equality, "equity", and perpetual victimhood. We are relegating our genomes to the pages of history. We're teaching children that "humans are bad for the earth", and that fewer humans are good. The new religion of the left is a progressive woke death cult. And those who take over won't mind a single bit. The people who loathe and fear competition not realizin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:26 PM
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But... still they beg. Be it man or woman, the SMP is the market cesspool that it is because men and women want an attractive partner, and "attraction is not negotiable"-PPD. And it's so important people would rather be alone than "settle" - aka get with an average human being just like themselves. Humans seem to have this need to believe they are unique and exceptional. This is why I am a misanthropic hermit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:20 PM
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A privileged, exploitative, potential rapist. Or, penis equipped human if you're normal. Or, any living organism that claims to be, if you're on Team Rainbow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:59 AM
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How in the actual fuck is selecting for status not the epitome of shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:58 AM
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1.)What are you general thoughts on strip clubs? Waste of money. And most strippers look like low-class, brain-dead idiots. Have you ever been, how often? Been a half dozen times. How would you compare it to any other form of “sex work”? It's not sex work - at least, what I saw. Maybe the back room had it? 2.)Have you ever known(friends/family or dated any stripper? Nope. 3.)What do you think of the people who frequently go to them as a form of entertainment ? I think it's "soft cheating" for id…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:55 AM
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Foreveralonewomen sub going private because, in a twist of irony, they were receiving too many DMs from men who wanted to date them. Oh... they don't want those men... #stillforeveralone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:51 AM
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More specifically what is femininity today? All the good parts are dead. All that's left is parasitic tendencies and vacillating between the "I'm so independent" and "I'm so oppressed" cards, whichever is more useful at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:47 AM
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A bad society ends up imploding, even if the genetics are great. On the other hand, a good society can continue even if the genetics are somewhat mediocre. Human society has always been a dumpster fire of depravity, corruption, greed, enslavement, and exploitation. Even pondering the untimely realisation that 10 people on the same planet just died of starvation in the time it took to scarf down 2 cheeseburgers takes a certain amount of cognitive dissonance - or apathy. We're not here despite bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:43 AM
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That's why we have the other schmucks to build shit. Women don't care about builders. They just want the guys with the shit. Whether they built it, or took it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:39 AM
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Thereby creating a world of even more sociopaths. And if sociopathy is good for evolution then it's bad becaaaaaaause....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:38 AM
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Plain and simple question: How do you get your emotional intimacy needs met? Binge drinking and shit posting on Reddit. Sorry what was the question? Do you have pets? (no) Do friends give you the same oxytocin release? (no) Maybe you visit your family here and there or still live with them? (no - I see them occasionally but they annoy the shit out of me). Or maybe you just try to convert that sexual energy and lust into creative energy? I just rub one out once a week or so. You can't "convert" u…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:32 AM
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It's the men that women see as innately sexual persons. All other men are sexual nonpersons, or resource providers to be exploited, at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:25 AM
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I'm curious about the mindset that I see online and in person. Men seem entitled to sex and relationships. WHAT? Really? 99.99% of men know that sex and relationships are earned privileges. To the extreme, some men lash out violently when they do not get women. Yes. 0.01% of men. And they have criminal records. For criminal stalking, voyeurism, sexual assault, rape and assault and battery. Some go as far as killing their wives/exes/girlfriends so that no one else can "have" them. Some say they s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:22 AM
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https://law.yale.edu/sites/default/files/documents/pdf/Intellectual_Life/Stevenson_ParadoxDecliningFemaleHappiness_Dec08.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:16 AM
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I lacked specific disadvantages. But I had zero privileges. Do you have all four limbs? Is that a privilege too? And according to your (rather fucked up) worldview I did have quite a number of challenges but made something of myself anyways. Yes, even white people can have challenges. A privilege is: Here. You don't have to go to school, educate yourself or earn what you make. You can sit at home, do fuck all and get paid to do it. Hey you know what? That's a privilege that a lot of marginalized…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:11 AM
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We have to put working people over shareholders if we want to develop a strong middle class. Strong middle class? LOL. You're going to shut down 1/2 of the businesses that middle class people run. And I suppose you'll be crying for government subsidies to pay for the goods and services you yourself used to be able to afford when minimum wage jobs were abundant. Landscaping services. Fast food. Any food. Everything you buy in a grocery store. You're going to turn an economy on it's head and eithe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:02 AM
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And yes, you are privileged. You just said that being born into certain households results in certain outcomes. So by being born into a household with working parents IS privilege. It is most certainly not. Their coming from a bad home does not make my home privileged. Nothing was given to my parents that wasn't given to these people as well. My parents were given one damned thing and one damned thing only. OPPORTUNITY. Opportunity is not a privilege. Nor is succeeding because one has worked har…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:17 AM
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Kids that come from shit homes turn into shit people. Look no further than the lefty "Oppression Olympics" committee. Why are people marginalized? They come from homes with: a) underemployment, low income, poverty b) domestic, physical, emotional and sexual abuse c) crime / involvement with the law d) truancy from school e) malnutrition f) drug and alcohol abuse (and effects, such as fetal alcohol syndrome) g) single parent or parent absent homes h) child neglect. I can provide 1,000 links to st…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:23 AM
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For the first "where": https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2018/01/18/theyre-waiting-longer-but-u-s-women-today-more-likely-to-have-children-than-a-decade-ago/ For the second "where: Google "women struggle with work life balance" and fill your boots.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:09 PM
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Really? https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2018/01/18/theyre-waiting-longer-but-u-s-women-today-more-likely-to-have-children-than-a-decade-ago/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:08 PM
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Everyone should sure as hell try. Not like those wastes of decent air over at r/antiwork What did their "rep" do? 20 hours a week of dog walking is "good". Good for what? Living in their mothers' basement? So answer my question. What is the income thresh-hold for your new "equity" welfare state? Should a minimum wage job grant one "all the necessities and a few luxuries"? Because I don't think it should, or was ever designed to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:06 PM
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So why are you against supporting all kids? I'm against single welfare mothers pregnant with their 5th kid from a 5th baby daddy - these kids will not be productive members of society no matter HOW much "equity" money you throw at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:05 PM
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Not exactly. The first income should cover all the necessities and a few luxuries. And what would that first income be? $15/hr fry cook? $20/hr prep cook? $25/hr cook? $30/hr chef?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:51 PM
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You mean give women welfare money to spend on daycare so they can go work and then call themselves "strong and independent"? Meanwhile their childless counterparts get what? And I get what? An increased tax bill - that's what. This, while I pay 100% for my own kids and their care. I'm more of a "don't breed 'em if you can't feed 'em" kind of guy. People think everybody has a right to reproduce and those who struggle get to hand the bill for parenting costs back to society. If people get money fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:40 PM
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I met a nice gal who lost part of a leg (below the knee) in an accident. Did not pursue and I'd be lying if I said the amputation was not part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:39 PM
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Men can’t put 2 and 2 together and realize that women would rather struggle financially than marry a man strictly for financial reasons. They don't seem all that "strong and independent" - they seem to want social welfare to increase their living standard to that of dual income families. Aka, "equity".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:37 PM
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It's not "unfair" to single people that a couple has economic advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:37 PM
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SO... the benefits of a second income without the second income. Yes, we've known for 40 years this has been the end-game of feminism. Next up: Living wages and rent controls when it's a single female renting...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:17 PM
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If becoming an educated millionaire CEO makes me less happy, it means I am less happy. At that point you can bewail the benefits of becoming a millionaire CEO all day and night but it's disingenuous to suggest that the people who it makes unhappy are actually happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:16 PM
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https://law.yale.edu/sites/default/files/documents/pdf/Intellectual_Life/Stevenson_ParadoxDecliningFemaleHappiness_Dec08.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:13 PM
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Wow, that's quite a stretch there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:12 PM
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Not sure if your comment is sarcastic but it's a legit strategy, Well, I'm naturally sarcastic... but it's a real strategy. I've done it. being with more attractive friends in turn makes you more attractive to many women. Yep. Halo effect. But, there are downsides to being the lower-value members of a peer group.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:11 PM
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They talk about one and not the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:09 PM
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Most women want to get married and have children. Most. And the ones that do now have to balance motherhood with career. And they're less happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:08 PM
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I'm a seven! You're a seven , now commit to me. How romantic !!! No wonder the world is stupid now . It's not any less stupid when the other gender does it. The whole thing boils down to every individual trying to maximize the attractiveness of the partner(s) they get. Very very few people just try to find someone they enjoy being with, despite what they claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:36 PM
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I can absolutely get a date, less and less with a Woman I'm thinking of diversifying into other species as well...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:25 PM
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Men lie about their sexual success. Not their sexual failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:24 PM
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Don't have a SJW knee-jerk reaction. Read the studies. Nobody is saying to go back to 1950's Stepford Wives and "Patriarchy" People are saying "Despite women's gains in independence, careers, and wealth, they are less happy." It's easy to find why that is. Because women are still, by virtue of biology alone, expected to bring children into the world and get them to at least toddler/daycare age. Women said "We can do all the things you men can do!" And women can. But, women also have a strong des…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:22 PM
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Found him: https://abmachinesguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/fat-guy.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:01 PM
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Hey, why orbit women when you can orbit a Chad and get some sloppy seconds? You got it going ON over there!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:20 PM
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“but I know a short balding guy who gets 300 matches a second” With back hair. Don't forget the back hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:18 PM
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Women on this sub REGULARLY say that since AVERAGE GUYS are going to treat them poorly anyways (in theory) that they may as well tolerate the behavior of HOT GUYS. Aka, it's 100% pure rationalization for their personal choice to get used by guys out of their league. Women on this sub REGULARLY say that if a man can't make her life better in every way imaginable, she'll just sport fuck dudes off Tinder and eventually settle for cats. No problem. These major cats are all out of the bag now. Common…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:17 PM
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Naw, reading this sub is your job. And it's been said multiple times. Women today will happily share high SMV/RMV men and then rationalize it. It's very very powerful cognitive dissonance and a huge gaping blind spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:11 PM
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Just parroting what I am reading on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:27 PM
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I am not sure the comparison to overweight people is entirely accurate, because there are other considerations. Being disabled requires a great deal of assistance - this comes as the cost of time/effort from another person, and it is terribly expensive. Disabled individuals often cannot work or earn as much money as others. Consider the difficulty faced by a household with one disabled person…a lot of work has to be done just to keep them alive/functional. Yeah, that's way more than I would ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:26 PM
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Don’t be surprised or complain when most women reject you. Not looking for a relationship or casual sex. So, no complaint here. Don’t complain about women’s standards being too high. I'm not complaining. Just pointing it out. Women's amazing standards are women's problem. If they can land a super-successful good looking degreed guy, then great. If not, they get to have sex with a high value man and rationalize that being sport-fucked by him is better than being mistreated by a lesser man, which …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:17 PM
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How about: Society in general favors good looking successful people and shames and shits on ugly less successful people. Social policing seems to be important. Can't have fat, ugly unemployed people trying to get their frisky on with thin, pretty successful people. That will just make the thin, pretty successful people uncomfortable. And the whole point of being thin, pretty and successful is to be around other thin, pretty and successful people and not be uncomfortable. TL;DR fat, ugly broke pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:14 PM
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Very few men put in the effort to get good at sex, whether they’re hot or not. So PPD women say "Well, if I'm going to get shitty service he may as well be hot." No room for the possibility of some cognitive dissonance or rationalization there?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:09 PM
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So disabled people won't consider dating other disabled people? Like overweight people who won't date other overweight people? Isn't that kind of a problem of their own making though? Myself, for example, having had a mother and now ex-wife with serious mental health issues, I wouldn't give a mentally ill woman a second date. Been there, done that, got the straight jacket.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:07 PM
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Genuine relationships do not lack transactions. If one partner stops doing the things the other partner wants and needs then the relationship will end. The word transaction implies "give and take of many thinks" not "love for money."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:04 PM
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When you are as hideous as me, women are a hostile entity. THey treat me like im not allowed to date or want sex, because im so disfigured. Dude, fuck prostitutes and find other ways to be happy in life. After my divorce I've been relationship free for almost 9 years now. I know it's probably different when you feel "othered" by women and not wanted but good lord today all a man needs to do to be invisible to the average woman is to be average. If you have a facial deformity and you're assertive…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:06 PM
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Would a fat man asking out a fit woman not expect the same amount of ridicule? Why are fat women so precious?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:57 PM
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Albeit women hit on men less because of social stigmas. the female privilege of being able to have sex, love and relationships without having to face continual and ongoing rejection. There. Fixed that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:56 PM
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It will probably be not good for a guy my age with cholesterol/BP issues. I'd much rather just wait and see if I ever plan on being sexual again and just get the snip. Of course, I'll keep that to myself unless it ever comes up. Just in case we have that "I'm pregnant and it's yours" conversation. Followed by the "I want a paternity test" conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:50 PM
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why would you need birth control pills when you're single ? To not have unwanted children and pay child support for the rest of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:48 PM
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I know one idiot who adopted the kid in a big virtue signaling mission. A couple of years later: Yep. Idiot paying child support for some other guys kid. And now he fucked up his back and can't do his regular trade. Double fucked. But, stupid is as stupid does.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:46 PM
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I have a "only my kids in my house" policy. If I ever do "get back on the horse" I will have a strict no cohabitation policy and that goes double for a woman with kids. Then again, at my age, kids are older so "playing daddy" shouldn't really be an issue. Besides, if you form attachments with people's kids, when they dump you the kids suffer for it. It's really quite selfish. I think for single parents, FWB is the way to go. Blended families - bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:44 PM
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Women would rather have shitty selfish sex from hot guys than enthusiastic sex from a man she perceives beneath her. If Chad "likes head but doesn't eat pussy" that's kind of a Becky problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:41 PM
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Lead with betabux and do the "fuck and ghost" on gold diggers. Look for young women in the service industry. Tell them your rented apartment is a condo that you own because your parents bought it for you outright. Fuck each one three times then move on. You'll need some burner phones. You are welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:37 PM
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You make that sound like a bad thing. Some men think relationships are a big drama-filled expensive pain in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:31 PM
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And that's fucking average. That means exactly half of women weight MORE than that!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:30 PM
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Do you know how long medical school takes?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:28 PM
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Men aren’t interested in women who look disabled/unhealthy. Even men in wheelchairs?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:26 PM
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I'm here for the weird shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:25 PM
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Hovering... you mean, staring occasionally at the wall that happens to across from the plate of food he's eating...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:42 AM
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Much like every single person in the world does, women look for the best options available and nothing that you said shows what's the problem with it. I've stated the problem numerous times and I'll state it again. Women using promiscuity to bed many high value men in hopes one will finally commit is not necessarily a good strategy. It's no different than average dudes trying to use "providership" in the SMP. It's a losing strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:40 AM
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So you'll bring a woman into your life who makes 75% of what you do, who will assume control over 80% of the households spending... Interesting how that seems like it would be a financial win...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:32 AM
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I'll settle for a 420 friendly nymphomaniac.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:31 AM
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There are men who will sleep with her. There are men who will give her the "relationship deal". Very often these are two very different men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:29 AM
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I frankly don't get what's the fuzz about women picking hot dudes. When they use promiscuity to hit about their weight in the SMP, then get used like a dirty sports sock, then say "Men are assholes"? Because there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:39 AM
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That's all very nice of you to say. It's a nice sentiment. But, I think with my "attachment style" and my own mental health issues and really quirky way of living, I'm just comfortable now knowing the anxiety (and nuisance) of being in a relationship for me is way way higher than any anxiety of being alone. Not everybody should be in relationships. That's what I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:50 PM
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As a percentage of what you earn today, how much does she need to earn for her to improve your life financially? 50% of yours? 75%? 100%? 150%?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:46 PM
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When you're smoking that post-coitus cigarette in bed you can then safely assume she was flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:38 PM
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After my marriage ended and I found out that the only reason I would be wanted around was for what I could "bring to her table", relationships basically ended for me overnight. And imagine as a man thinking "I would rather get a dog unless a woman can make my life better in all measurable ways." - what people would say. I have thinks that need doing. Making a woman's life better is not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:13 PM
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Well, that's a good strategy for women? "I want a relationship but the average guys available to me are not that great personality wise either so I may as well settle for casual sex from attractive men." Sounds like a pretty major rationalisation for what amounts to "casually fucking hot guys" and hoping one offers some kind of commitment eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:39 PM
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And hilarity ensues...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:35 PM
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She resented it. Her wanting to wear the pants was 100% a shit test that I completely failed. I modelling myself after my own father who was a "yes man" because it seemed to work well for him and his mentally ill bride. So, I thought it would work for me too. Nope. Now the idea of a relationship makes my blood run cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:24 PM
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Forty. Forty is really really bad. 21? I was 19. 19 was bad. I was happy to be rid of my virginity but I was a young guy in really good shape with a slightly older woman who... well, it was a bad situation, really. My first sexual experience was a dumpster fire. But god dammit, I got rid of that fucking thing - my virginity. It becomes off putting to women when it shows up in your game. If you see her as some panacea or unattainable goal, you'll act subservient and placating and it will show up …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:17 AM
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I married an Asian woman. People assumed it was this "white guy looking for a submissive woman" trope. There is nothing feminine or submissive about my ex. She tried to wear the pants all the time and my own personal agreeable nature made her fucking crazy. It was as if she wanted me to just stand up to her from time to time or something. She wasn't subservient. But she basically said: "Make a decision here or get the fuck out of my way and let me do it."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:02 AM
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Well, a lot of PPD is about "what people want" versus "what people can get".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:30 PM
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But money is just a currency for hard work, value, love, joy, and status. Money isn't bad. It's just a placeholder for everything we essentially value.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:32 AM
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I even did an experiment where I asked random dudes, some of whom were self described desperate virgins, to have sex with me. Not only did they say no, they spread around what had happened, making me completely non-bangable to hundreds of people in a matter of weeks., This is a crazy experiment. Please consider posting this. The details around this experiment would be really telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:23 AM
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I'm looking at it from their perspective. Some men go high risk high reward. Others go low risk low reward. Beta Bux provisioning is safer. Easier. But, pays off a whole lot less. As for me "projecting", well, I don't Beta Bux. So there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:53 AM
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Alpha - says whatever, or is crass. Beta - needs to come complete with Shakespearean prose Guys. You're dancing fucking monkeys. Just.... don't. Source: Also had a Chad friend for a while. He was actually true dark triad. Psychopath (or sociopath). Machiavellian. And Narcissistic. Interestingly, His anti-social behaviour was his strongest of the traits. He was hardly more narcissistic than a typical person. Machiavellian? To a fault. He probably believed if he could grift you it was your fault f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:49 AM
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Sounds analogous to job hunting In my first revision of that post I actually wrote "resume and job-specific cover page" for this very reason. It IS analogous to job hunting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:48 AM
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They are good enough as they are for a woman to like them without trying to bribe her. Or they're not. At which point the Beta Bux strategy comes into play. Too many men are willing to settle for the consolation prize thinking they have no place in the gladiators arena. And sadly, many of them are right about that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:45 AM
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Even after mutual attraction tests are passed, relationships are transactional. Not only for money. Transactions include anything the other person gets out of the relationship. Could be money, status, or lifestyle, or could be foot rubs and affection. Could be a combination of the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:33 AM
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This is the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:12 PM
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Oh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:09 PM
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If you're going on a date with a woman, don't text other women during it. You can do it before and after, but while you're with a girl focus on her. Right. Don't be disrespectful... Just sit there and watch her report to her BFF how the date is going on her phone...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:40 PM
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One great philosopher said "Everybody wants a box of chocolates and a long stemmed rose..." We all know women abhor the "netflix and chill" one liner, but do they really expect personalized prose from all 1,000 contenders, 990 of which will be swiped away based on looks alone? It's only sensible for men to start investing time once he thinks he's passed the swipe test. Wasting time prior to that is kind of senseless - especially if you actually have a life and can't spend 4 hours a day on your p…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:21 PM
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I only smoke after sex. And that's only when I go too fast...😜
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:17 PM
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Fantastic! Now do one for low value women! DO IT! DO IT!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:17 PM
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What percentage of hookers are high buck though?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:15 PM
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Fill your boots: https://www.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/news/20191010/marriage-tied-to-longer-life-span-new-data-shows
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:14 PM
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Yes. 100% pure Red Pill. Male thirst makes the planet turn and the economy run. If "deciding to" was the only impetus for reproduction, our species would go extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:34 PM
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Happily married men live longer. Married men in general - probably not. Divorced men get die sooner. Saying "married men live longer" is disingenuous because there are 50 shades of happiness ranging from harrowed to bliss when it comes to being married. And you have to take into account those who WILL become divorced, because 40% of marriages will end that way. And that's a lot of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:32 PM
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I don't need it but I have exceptional circumstances. And even then, "technically", it would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:30 PM
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I'm a woman and i think the OP is correct. I've gotten the most out of men when they were friendzoned. I barely had to reciprocate. Just be nice to them and they'd do a lot for me. See? Once in a while a woman is honest and confirms what we already knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:29 PM
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Yeah, once you realize the traditional relationships were transactional anyways, what you're presenting here isn't all that shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:28 PM
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Yep. Transactional relationships usually end and often end in full-on divorce rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:41 PM
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Two truth bombs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:39 PM
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So... you're taking yourself out of the dataset because you have a legitimate disorder. A FUN ONE, but a disorder nonetheless. 1 in how many woman are nymphomaniacs? 1 in 1,000,000?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:38 PM
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More PPD opposite land phenomenon. PPD women work 80 hours a week, do all the domestic work, like hunting and fishing and building muscle cars, blow their nose farmers style, field-strip deer, smoke cigars, slam whiskey and crush beer cans, and drag their husbands upstairs, get on top and fuck the living shit out of them twice a day. Yeah because that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:37 PM
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We're working on it... Damn flux capacitor...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:05 PM
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I was so going to say that. Pay #4 more. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:05 PM
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Paying someone to pretend to like them... Probably accounts for about half of the husbands out there today...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:04 PM
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Who said a prostitute is a gold digger? She's a silver digger at best, among lots of copper diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:03 PM
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She wouldn't take a check. I checked. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:03 PM
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And are you suggesting that the reasons women get with men are benevolent? Altruistic? Ha. A man has to bring looks, status, ambition, success to the table. Are these not tangible things that could be seen as "consideration" (aka equal to cold hard cash) in what amounts to a transactional relationship? People desperately want to believe that it's different. But it's not different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:02 PM
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It's still a very different end result if you aren't looking only for sex. You still pay for this companionship and it will end the moment you stop paying. Marriage is no guarantee that companionship won't end. Mine ended when she said "I want a divorce." And marriage sex is NOT cheaper than hourly sex. If one is looking at things from a financial perspective, which men often do...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:07 PM
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Been there done that got the t-shirt. Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:05 PM
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Well, you too, fellow internet citizen. :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:01 PM
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Go visit a seniors lodge where the family comes to visit twice a year out of nothing more than a guilty conscious and get back to me. There is only one fate worse than being alone. Having people and being alone anyways. Once you've been in a loveless marriage, you realise there are far worse things than an empty bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:52 AM
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It's the thought that counts! :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:50 AM
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Adding to your list: Facial symmetry. Deeper voice. Stoic scowl (rather than always smiling) Broad shoulders. Big hands. Oh and talking. Being too expressive. Sharing too much. Being a total open book. Kills intrigue. We'll file this one under stoic scowl.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:02 PM
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Yep. Need to have a significant other to share your life with. No, actually you don't. You can share your life with all kinds of people. The only difference is sleeping together.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:00 PM
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In what sense? The need for a "relationship"? Or just having someone around to help with medical issues or for safety? Lots of people live alone now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:43 PM
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Yep. I think it all comes down to what they call biodiversity. Ironically, short women with tall guys can still give their kids the short gene. Instead of her choosing a tall guy to compensate for her "short gene" he should be finding a tall partner to preserve his tall gene. But, men are not programmed to worry about this stuff I guess. So long as women do the choosing, things tend to work out okay for us humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:36 PM
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Women select men for "markers of future success". - Ambitious - Purpose driven - Goal oriented / knows what he wants - Confident / Leader / commands attention - Speaks purposefully, says what he means, means what he says - Dresses and acts "for success" - Takes command in social situations So you take men who have these qualities vs. ones who do not. Compare their mean incomes. Voila. She is biologically attracted to men who will, by virtue of their very nature, earn more. It's like me saying "W…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:59 PM
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When a restaurant owner says "I don't get it. I make amazing food at great prices, but I still can't attract any customers", I don't interpret them as wanting to force people to eat at their restaurant. Watch Kitchen Nightmares. Lots of restaurant owners think they are 'da bomb'. Then they serve from-frozen micro-waved crap with pre-made sauces. Ramsay says "Is this fresh?" Owner: "Yes." Ramsay: "You mean this is fresh and was never frozen or microwaved?" Owner: "Yes. It was fresh when it was fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:10 PM
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"I don't care what he makes (has), I care how he makes me feel!" Exactly. And how he makes her feel is tingly all over.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:06 PM
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I have a little sister that has dated a rapper/street dude. But when they broke up she seems to have found an issue with every guy thereafter. Classic case of a young lady getting tingles for a thug/bad boy. Now all normal/average guys will seem like "nice guys / losers" to her. Next step: be baby momma for bad boys kids. And that's ok. Plenty of simps running around that will bankroll her. All of these relationships with bad boys end in drama (and sometimes abuse). And she thinks she's the only…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:04 PM
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This cartoon says it all: https://digitalsynopsis.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/smartphone-addiction-funny-sad-images-17.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:28 PM
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A loyal dog will try to fend off a bear. There is no such thing as a loyal cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:18 PM
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It could be just me, but I've definitely noticed a declining level of interest in getting to know people through real life settings, which is supposedly the preferred medium for meeting people according to this sub. It's because she managers her social life on her phone. People in "real life" are just actors on her "Me Show" stage. And most of these actors are "extras" aka npc's. I've sat and entertained women while they plan the rest of their evenings on their phones. It's a waste of time. Get …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:53 PM
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I think most of us guys on here that are hyper focused on red pill blue pill debate need better social lives. Had a social life recently. It does not replace the "phone game" with women - you need to get into her electronic social network. You have to get into her little phone world. Being "in person" doesn't mean you are not still a npc. I've met women who treat people in person with no more consideration than the people pinging her phone. When I was young, customers in a box store who took the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:52 PM
2

I'd rather have one mediocre dog than 9 excellent cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:48 PM
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Necessity. Women are the choosers and men need to cast a wide net. Women likely chose men unconsciously to attempt to compensate for their own genetic shortcomings. Just a theory of mine I want to look into. For example, we know short women have openly admitted to dating the tallest men possible because they don't want short offspring. And this is conscious! Imagine all the other stuff going on with hair and eye color, pheromones... etc. We might have less to do with our own preferences than we …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:46 PM
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Company A: We do the best work for a fair price (Company A is super busy) Company B: We do the best work for a fair price (Company B has no customers) If Company B doesn't get out of it's narcissistic self-assessment they will go bankrupt. In a free market economy, everyone needs to believe they are rock stars and strive to be #1. But, There is a difference between being #2 and #222. If you've ever watched "Kitchen Nightmares" you can see how pride, arrogance, laziness and greed can make people …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:40 PM
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"Pull out" isn't even a "method" worth considering. Condoms break all the time and when you go from low sensation to high sensation after the thing breaks you come almost immediately. Lots of "Daddy wore a condom" babies out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:37 PM
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I want to make it clear that this is not a misogynistic "women have it easier in life" type of post. Anything that doesn't paint women as either heroes or victims today is misogyny. Edit: And anything a progressive liberal disagrees with is "hate speech".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:34 PM
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Men GAF whether they like it or not in the form of taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:16 PM
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Men either follow it, or are socially isolated virgins. Fixed that for ya. ;-)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:38 PM
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Is the guy who backs down from a challenge feminine because he isn’t willing to fight, or is he a real man because he knows there is nothing to gain and much to lose. The ultimate man is one who walks away despite having the ability to cripple his opponents. Sadly, I knew a very "dangerous" martial artist who was engaging two men outside of a bar and the third man put a knife in his back and killed him. Whether you walk away because you're noble, or because you were afraid to fight doesn't matte…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:30 PM
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YouTube is predominately male viewership. Tic Toc, Twitter and Snap Chat are what the ladies like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:10 PM
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God no. But teen culture isnt necessarily mainstream dating culture, nor are your particular boys necessarily representative of all teenagers. I'm talking about adult world. Give them three years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:07 PM
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Once a baby is born both parents are responsible. How about making the one person with sole control over the outcome responsible? Her body, her choice, her problem. Don't like it? Don't have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:33 PM
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So when society doesn't GAF about men... It's still men's fault. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:31 PM
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Using my DNA to create human life should require my consent. Doesn't matter where I (ahem) happen to leave it. Women have birth control and abortion options now. It's not 400 B.C. Consenting to sex should not mean consenting to reproduce. We just need an app. There are check boxes for both people. Consent to sex Y/N and Consent to reproduce Y/N. Birth control can fail, and it can also be faked. If a man taking off a condom is "rape" then a woman lying about being on birth control (or not taking …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:29 PM
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This is delusional. It's fringe. Do you have teenage boys in your house? ​ You realize, blue pill isn't really a thing. Blue Pill = mainstream society. Mainstream society isn't a thing? Oh wow, you ARE in the matrix deep here...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:19 PM
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LOL. It takes a special blend of narcissism (delusions of omniscience) and solipsism to believe you and only you are capable of experiencing real love, or simple naivete to believe that just because someone's marriage didn't work out they never could have. This is so very common in Blue Pill land. It all stems from the "loser who can't get laid" shaming strategy. These strategies have never worked, and never will.... buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:18 PM
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And yet people who think they have this come home to divorce papers or their partner humping some strange person in the spare bedroom. It's all a fairytale until it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:16 PM
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I can do chemicals by myself and save hundreds of thousands.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:05 PM
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Red Pill is mainstream now. My own kids (who will NEVER hear me breathe a word of any of this stuff) are already parroting Red Pill concepts they are learning from their peers. Blue Pill has things to hide and Red Pill unveils these lies and drags them into the light of day. It can't be stopped now. "Just be yourself and some gal will like ya." has been replaced with: "Unless you can make her life better in every way imaginable she'd rather settle for cats than the likes of you." It's good progr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:04 PM
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Love is a bunch of brain chemicals that make men do stupid things for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:00 PM
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Read more then I guess because it's literally common knowledge here. It's said over and over that unless he can make her life demonstrably better across the ways life satisfaction can be measured, she'd rather be alone with cats. Men get with women to be with women. Women get with men to get stuff from men. No stuff? No relationship. Briffault's law states: “The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:57 PM
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Hope you find a better one. Can't find what you're not looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:54 PM
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Red Pill is simply a consortium of men's lived experiences. The fact this is problematic at all is proof that it's needed. The anecdotes one of or two get drowned out by the stories of tens of thousands. And of course, NAWALT. Until... they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:51 PM
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Red Pill is not a cult. It's a philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:46 PM
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Try to make a woman happy? That's a feat for a man much braver (or dumber) than I. I have better things to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:45 PM
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What about expectations for men? PPD "If he doesn't make her life better in every way, then he's not worth having around." That's what he's there for? Not for a relationship with her clearly. It's to make her life better. In that light, if she's merely a "sex object" then he's merely a "success object". It's clear women's only use for men is ultimately to improve her material situation and over-all social status. She can get her own money and sex whenever she wants. Kind of makes sense men would…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 09:05 PM
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There is a reason why we have to tell men not to stick their dick in crazy. Because men will stick their dick in crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:03 PM
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Because men want sex and relationships and women choose men. So, women think they get to define "real man" and "masculinity" despite everybody being able to see first hand the train-wreck that is boys raised by single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:02 PM
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Let’s say you’re right and you only have a 1/4 chance at a happy marriage. I think you have an even lower chance of a relationship lasting forever. It doesn’t mean it’s impossible or even very unlikely. In my world, "less than 50% chance" is unlikely enough. Would you go skydiving with a 38% chance of that chute not opening? How about working in a building where 38 in 100 collapse? I my case, 2nd marriages have an ever higher divorce rate. Why would I meld finances with a woman again if I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:59 PM
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Seems traits like the Dark Triad (Machiavellianism, Narcissism and Psychopathy) are panty soakers too. Ted Bundy killed college girls. He had a cheer-squad of college girls causing disruptions at his trial. I'll say again - he killed college girls. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kvEKhdkmSnk Yeah, un. fucking. real. "A mixture of fear, intrigue and sexual attraction."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:37 PM
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Yep. You can be a monster rapper child rapist but 'yoo cool' if you 'get dem bitches'. Women reward monsters with sex too. Lots of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:34 PM
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​ Everyone admits their marriage sucks. You must not get out much. I was at the BBQs and parties with all of the "other perfectly happy couples". 1/2 of marriages end in divorce. 1/2 of those that remain are probably miserable. That leaves 25% - where there are probably 50 shades of grey.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:32 PM
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In fact for some, marriage has gotten worse. The average marriage is worse than it was 40 years ago. Right, yet nobody admits their marriage sucks. So, thanks for proving my point. Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:46 PM
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I'm not saying all marriages are bad. I am saying (likely) most of them range from "not great" to "living hell". You're anecdotal sample of "one marriage" does not change the fact that married people are socially conditioned to misrepresent how well their marriages are actually going. And no, I do not have some "vested interest" in marriages being miserable and failing. However, I think it's important for men to realize what they face when the "little lady" decides to call it quits.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:38 PM
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PPD says: "Married people are happy because they say they are happy". I say: Married people have strong social incentives to report happiness where there is little or none. We can't take married couples at their word because they are incented to lie and lying is as easy as saying "We're happy."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:52 PM
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He's talking about married people lying about how happy they are. This would apply to hot and non-hot couples. They all lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:19 PM
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Well, I guess 100% of married people are happy then. Because that's what they always say. So then why do so many marriages fail then? Because married people lie. All of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:17 PM
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Soaps are male belief, they are designed to keep the viewer interesting. It’s called plot Soaps are design to capture women's attention. They are not male beliefs or male perspectives at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:14 PM
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I don't respect men who don't respect themselves. ​ Guys like that will never attract quality women unless they learn to respect themselves and stop dumpster diving for sex. Women will never understand because they can access higher value partners just by being easy. Never knowing what men face in the SMP means men don't care much whether or not you respect them. Respect of other men, well, different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:11 PM
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Take sex completely off the table and try the experiment again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:08 PM
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And would the reverse had been possible? We both know that answer to that one...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:55 PM
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If men and women impulses to cheat would be considered split to you, then doesn't that mean women are better at impulse control since more men actually cheat? Men apparently cheat more (20% admit to it rather than 13% of women) but that's what is reported. By people. Who have reason to lie. Women can re-partner far more quickly than men. Women also have this tendency to find someone new before leaving the partner they are with - Red Pill calls this "vine swinging". My own ex wife was slumming wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:53 PM
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Traditionalism objectified both genders equally. But because women have innate value and because elite men wanted to use women for sex, the part that disadvantaged women was removed under the guise that we lived in a supposed “patriarchy.” This. Feminism focuses on the 0.01% of men with actual power in this world, the true social alphas women lust for. Feminism is known for falling prey to the Apex Fallacy. 0.01% of men have "white male privilege" while the other 99.99% are totally disposable an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:48 PM
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PPD has taught me one thing. I realized the "female empathy" hype is just that. A lot of hype. Women "feel" alot sure, but their ability to empathize is really about relating to other people (mostly other women) who feel exactly the same way they do. After reading here, it's become apparent that women can empathize with men hardly at all, and in actuality, either minimize or ridicule men's challenges, fears and problems. The only people men can rely on for support, truly, is other men, but we're…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:46 PM
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It's ridiculous how many guys think child-support is somehow support for the mother - as if she isn't providing ALL services for the children on top of paying more than half of what it costs to raise a child. On top of the free labor that the father is not contributing. His is the failure. Then provide receipts to show it was spent on the children. Quite simple really. As for all this "free labor"... I get my kids 50% of the time. Nobody pays me for MY "free labor". I take care of my kids becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:23 PM
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Yeah, bingo wings protruding from a tent is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:42 AM
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I know they really like sex. Met a woman who was on hormone therapy once which made her think about sex constantly. She spoke of thinking about sex many times per hour and having to masturbate when she got home from work. My friend said to her "Hehehe now you know what it feels like to be a man!" She said "No WAY!" as her eyes widened. Very very few women will ever have an true understanding of the incessant non-stop unscratchable itch that is the male sex drive. It's why we're all here, typing …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:41 AM
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Average guys with standards end up being 40 year old virgins. Having standards when you're average is a female privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:37 AM
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She hasn't rejected men. She still needs men. The men of Big Daddy Government and the money of men who pay taxes to support her choices and sexual failure. She "don't need no man." But she still needs 'his' money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:36 AM
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Maybe some people think all relationships kinda suck - just a matter of degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:35 AM
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I think you missed the joke there...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:31 AM
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That's what Reddit is about. Taking people's skewed views at face value. I never said people lie about their marriages on Reddit. I said all married people lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:30 AM
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These men would rather be miserable in a relationship with a woman they don't like than be miserable alone. That's because for most men a shit relationship with some sex is better than no sex. That's really all it comes down to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:31 PM
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That's because men will move a woman out of her mothers basement into his house but women will not move a man from his mothers basement into hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:30 PM
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The majority of women are losers too. But the difference is women don't need to be winners to find partners. Lots of patently average or below average women who are playing the "handsome baller or cats" never-settle game.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:29 PM
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A man married to the gym isn’t a man that has time for a relationship. She wants a guy who is shredded - without the gym time. She wants a guy who is wealthy - without that whole 100 hours-per-week running a company thing. Ever watch soaps? The guys have these mysterious jobs that make them rich. But they're never at work. They're at home, dealing with family drama. Written by women for women. You tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:27 PM
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It’s even better to be someone who’s excellent at lots of things C'mon. You can't be excellent at a lot of things. You can be excellent at maybe 2 things. You can be good at a lot of things, but not excellent. My friends who are excellent golfers do nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:25 PM
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My buddy on divorce: "Next time instead of getting married, I'm just going to find a woman who hates me and buy her a house."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:24 PM
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It takes 1-1.5 hours of gym per day to achieve body shape most desired by women. That's all I ever did. But I didn't drink and cooked quality food and didn't eat out much. Beer, pizza, Chinese food, take-away in general... frozen food section. It's all poison.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:22 PM
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Working 12 hours a day is insane. Work less and work smarter. When you start clocking out on time they give you more work. Trust me on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:19 PM
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It was with a rando I met on OLD. We skipped the whole dating thing and just did the sex thing. And it wasn't kinky so much - it was just good sex. She was into it, and liked what I did. But she was waaaaaay tooooooo crazy. So I ran away.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:17 PM
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I was banned from various subs for "spreading anti-vaxx sentiment". The information I posted was from the CDC and government websites. Inconvenient truth is bad. Those subs were leftist/progressive jerk-fests anyways. If you're not a super-hard progressive woke lefty, everything you say is "hate speech".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:14 PM
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Well, the best one is he ghosts after fucking you three times.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:12 PM
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SILENCE INFIDEL! Er... I mean... I don't... agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:10 PM
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10 pictures of one's head is not creative angles. It's hiding a fat body. Just saying. But everybody knows holding the camera up higher reduces chin magnitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:06 PM
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How many beautiful women will financially support their husbands forever? That boy must eat some mean pussy.... Sorry, you were serious. Zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:04 PM
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We have to. 99% of women don't find us dreamy. It's an ego defence. If we knew our real odds, most of us would quit. Then your daddies would have not pestered your mommies and you (and I) would not be here arguing on Reddit. Thanks Dad! You overconfident annoying bastard you!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:02 PM
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Oh, so your marriage failed and that means all marriages are miserable. Got it. Never said that. You said that. Oh, and when my marriage was sucking pure shit I lied to others too. "Oh, we're good! Great! Never better." And I watched other poor miserable bastards going through hell lie too. All I said was that married people lie about how happy they are and hide the problems they are having. Your way of rebutting this failed "Oh, so...." That's failure. Right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:58 PM
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You know what's funny? Some of the conversations I've had about this. Me: "How was your date?" Dude: "She was so fat." Me: "The one with the 9 face pics was fat? Huh. Go figure."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:55 PM
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He said married people misrepresent how happy they are. They lie. You can't take "most people I know who are married seem happy" at face value because they lie and put effort into hiding their misery. Why? Social pressure to be "happily married".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:53 PM
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but....what does a 1/42 man want with a 40+ year old swinger.......? Who cares what he wants? She needs a bailout. It's like those cryptic OLD profiles... "I really like to travel a lot but I haven't been able to that much lately...." Because I'm Fucking Broke
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:51 PM
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​ Single Moms: Should Have Chosen Better 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:50 PM
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What do some of these women wanting a fit handsome guy with a good income bring to the table? Blue Pill says: "She is the table" and "Her SMV is that of the hottest guy she's ever fucked". Red Pill says no to the first one and laughs maniacally at the second one. The second one is where the "WHATGMG Beckies" come from. I actually met a real life WHATGMG Becky who said there were no decent men in this country so she went to another country and (wait for it) turns out there were no decent men left…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:48 PM
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OH YEAH? I'm going to accept you as you are and I'm going to fuck off! Don't tell me what to do!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:44 PM
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Men need to face reality. Keep trying in the hope that you might find someone (unlikely nowadays) or call it quits (the more sensible option) and focus on yourself. That last part sounds good... Chasing takes up too much resources and it all counts for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:43 PM
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(I've had sex four times in the last 12 hours). I'm not counting ours - I wasn't conscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:38 PM
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Maybe it's because men really like sex. Everybody is here in this sub for one reason only: All our daddies (a) like sex and (b) figured out how to do that with mommy. Kinda gross, but hey. It's what happened. This is why Blue Pill society is a clown word. We do everything possible to reward men for getting sex and shame men who can't openly. In one breath we say "loser who can't get laid" and in the other breath "all you think about is sex."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:37 PM
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Show me evidence that most married men are miserable. I can't because the participants lie. All married people lie about how well their marriage is. My ex's neighbours and neighbours before that. All lovey dovey when packing the kids into the car or cutting the grass. But, we heard the fights and the shit smashing off the walls. It’s better for women if you don’t marry them, if you’re red pill. Well, for me personally, I have kids - teenagers now. I don't want more kids. So... why would I get ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:32 PM
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Junk science. It's based on "happily married men". Not miserably married men or men who get divorced. Which is most men. You're quoting crap from the Trad Con marriage industry now. LOLOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:25 PM
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Stuff like this is why people view TRP as a cult. Yes, these Red Pillers come to my house to make sure I have been cut off from family and loved ones so they can better control my mind. lolololl. OR, I simply found a philosophy which neatly explains most of what I've experienced and already believed. Largely composed of frustrated men desperate for something empowering to believe in Well, society needs to believe that for whatever reason. Maybe it's a projection. I still have friends drag me out…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:23 PM
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Like, if you surround yourself with assholes, you might start thinking everybody's an asshole if you don't actively think about the fact that your environment is distorted. A big distortion a lot of people have is to believe their "locus of control" is more external than it really is. Most people are usually where they are because of a series of their own choices. Sure, some people had terrible childhoods and come from very bad environments, but even these people make positive change and get out…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:19 PM
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This goes without saying but men should also put in the effort to keep their weight within reasonable levels if they expect the same from women. Absolutely. Be who you want to attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:15 PM
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Oh yeah we're woke as fuck up here...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:13 PM
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I met one SSAHM (single stay at home mom) on OLD. She literally put "mom" as her job. She divorced a hard-working oilfield worker and she got full custody of the kids, so, she got so much child support she didn't even need to work. So I thought... When the kids are older and she doesn't get child support, who pays for her then? Or if this guy gets injured and can no longer do what he's doing? Total liability.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:13 PM
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LOLOL. The old blue-pill "die alone" thing. This is the absolute worst reason to want relationships with people. If a man is happy until his dying day, do you think he'll be devastated on his death bed? Even if it were so, I'd rather have one shitty day than give away all my freedom, for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:59 PM
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The women on OLD who only put pictures of their face on their profiles seem to disagree with you. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:57 PM
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It's all the other intensely cynical stuff that's the problem... Intense cynicism is what reality looks like to the deluded. That's why it's CALLED the Red Pill. When you wake up you're like "Holy shit."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:30 PM
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No man can ever be excused for stealing sex. How about renting it by the hour? 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:19 PM
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You either dance or die alone. Once upon a time, a prince asked a beautiful princess "Will you marry me?" The princess said no, and the prince lived happily ever after. And he rode motorcycles and fucked skinny, big-titted broads, and hunted and fished whenever the fuck he wanted, and went to naked bars, and dated women half his age, and drank whiskey, beer, Captain Morgan, and snorted cocaine off strippers' asses, and never heard bitching, and never paid child support or alimony. and kept his h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:51 PM
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Very few people are actually ugly to me. I'm an average guy, and I see most women my age and it's not their faces that would make me "pass". 9/10 times it's weight. Some guys seem to obsess with that blonde cheerleader look with the red lips and flappy eye lashes. I find a LOT more women attractive than these guys do. And conversely, it's surprising how a really pretty face (alone) does not compensate for a very large or obese body.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:10 PM
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Sex is the root of all evil. Hahaha. You sound like my dad. "The internet is the devil." Then he's like "Hey, can you look up this professor from such and such University..." Sex is a pain in the ass though. If you don't want a relationship and you don't want (more) kids then yes a raging sex drive is not very pleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:07 PM
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So your argument is that because you can't steal it, it's not a need. Interesting. Oh, and not condoning stealing it by the way...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:05 PM
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I mean, it's not a need for survival, but for most people it's a need for happiness. Individuals, no. The species, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:02 PM
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Title: The Reason I Think Most RPers are Unsuccesful in Dating I've been with a lot of women and eventually got married and had kids. Lots of Red Pill men have sexual success with women. And a lot of Red Pill just haven't had sex yet. Once they realise that rejection is just part of the game and stop fearing it and don't even react emotionally to it they'll be getting laid like tile. They'll be honest about why he's obsessed with her specifically and why that's probably just a bullshit lie. He'l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:56 PM
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No matter how pretty she looks, some man somewhere is tired of her shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:47 PM
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Exactly. Just because I don't wear flip flops and short shorts into tall grass in the country side doesn't mean I hate snakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:47 PM
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I DID IT ALL FOR THE NOOKIE! THE NOOKIE! So you can take that COOKIE.... And stick it up your 👀 And stick it up your 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:46 PM
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Women date/mate up and across social dominance hierarchies. Men date/mate across and down. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:44 PM
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No, but in a mating arena full of different men, who is attractive and who is not, comparatively, is fascinating stuff. And men, being aware some men are more attractive and thus more successful than other men also leads to some very fascinating stuff. Like this sub, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:43 PM
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Listen to women here: "Get a skin care regimen. Dress better than other men. Be more interesting than other men. Be more attractive. You can't negotiate attraction." Doesn't that remind you of a bunch of girl birds bobbling their heads while they watch the boy birds of paradise parade around and dance and show off their feathers? Ever watch historical dance during age-old human ceremonies and rituals and think: "Jesus Christ, this is Lek mating. We're as smart as fucking birds." In the voice of …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:40 PM
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OMFG I just laughed so hard. OP, you're too much. This is what I got from your submission. "Everybody in the dating pool is leftover for whatever reason and that includes you." In other words... Q: "Where have all the good men gone?" A: "Off to marry good women. So what's your excuse?" And the same applies to men too. Fuck, I love some ice-cold brutal honestly on a Saturday afternoon. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:34 PM
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Naw, blue pill (read: society in general) has some absolutely mind-numbing levels of cognitive dissonance and blind spots when it comes to the sexual marketplace. First off, a Blue Piller would never write a sentence like the one above. Here is my best offering of the Blue Pill beliefs society has- it's for divorce: Blue Pillers say the following two things to men every single time they hear of divorce: a) What did he do wrong (They wrongly assume it's 100% his fault) b) Oh, then he should have …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:26 PM
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I personally do believe that men who are 21+ and are still virgins should be classified as a loser. Do you also believe that all these young men scrambling to "get laid" for your social approval should be classified as creeps just for trying? I mean, if we make getting laid the goal, there should only be so much shaming for failed attempts. I like your model but then we need the "opposite of the Gillette commercial" where men tell other men to ignore women's protestations and just keep trying to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:19 PM
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It’s a huge part of being human and good casual sex with the right person feels incredible. Casual sex, no matter how good it feels, used to cause social problems like disease, unwanted pregnancies and homeless single mothers with starving children in tow. That's why cultures used marriage and holding men and women to account for their sexual behaviour. Even today in the middle east people are whipped and imprisoned for sex outside of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:13 PM
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"sex sells" "Sex sells" comes from Hollywood, the fashion and modelling industries and Wall Street. But yes, actual sex sells too. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:10 PM
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Yep. In Canada they use the Nordic model. Sex is legal to sell, but illegal to buy. So, when a man and woman exchange sex for money, only the man is breaking the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:08 PM
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Me too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:59 PM
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I'm not saying you said that. lol I'm just making a comment on the concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:30 PM
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Impulse control? If men have riskier ideas or more aggressive tendencies, that doesn't mean they have "more impulse control" - if they have more impulses to begin with. Compare "impulse to cheat" between men and women and I bet it would be an even split. Compare "impulse to get out of the car when someone else does at a red light" - maybe not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:14 PM
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With more testosterone in our veins, things like sadness, loss, frustration, loneliness... all these things can likely manifest moreso with aggressive or even violent behavior in men. Men take more risks and are more open to experience. (Openness). But, this is why school shooters are almost exclusively males and we don't seem to see "femcels" shooting a place up or driving a van into a crowd of strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:08 PM
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Bur consciousness shows a better ability to control "neurotic" behavior. Men are way more likely to become physically violent, more likely to assault people, more likely to drive dangerously when upset, etc. So neurotic feelings don't matter as much as neurotic behavior You can be both conscientious and neurotic. Your premise is faulty because they are not mutually exclusive. 2nd, "men" are more violent but this is a very small percentage of men over-all. Arguably, men deal with emotions differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:06 PM
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Not really. "Becky The Degreed" thinks all the good men are taken. Or are her standards just too high? High value women marry high value men every single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:11 PM
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I said women were more agreeable. I thought conscientiousness was almost split. Makes sense though... "Now where did I put that baby..."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:08 PM
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This is a neat point. Women seem to have a more holistic approach where their feelings consist of a lot of things combined- work, friends, relationship, popularity, discord... Men tend to compartmentalize more and if that man is lonely (or just horny) he can get the proverbial "one track mind".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:07 PM
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I'm just saying there is no need for whatboutism and justification. If something "misogynistic" or "unfavorable to women" is said in a male only space and no woman was there to hear it... Tree falling in the woods, sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:48 PM
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Men's spaces shouldn't be subject to any of those things. But have you visited The Red Pill subreddit? The field reports are written like some male porn fantasy, where the OP is some jacked ripped dude making 6 figures a year and absolutely slays pussy by just using his silly push-pull game technique and holding rock solid frame. The whole sub has become this fantasy-land not based in reality. I stopped visiting the sub a while ago for that reason. All the stories in there sound over-exaggerated…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:41 PM
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When I was a kid the bullies called guys "fag" or "woman". Now the term is "incel". These people don't have any real idea of the things we discuss here. They're just mindless sheeple repeating "cool terms" they heard. They're all a bunch of blue-pill npc's shaming others to conceal their own insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:40 PM
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82.4% of all statistics are made up on the spot. ;-)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:37 PM
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Women statistically experience more negative emotion and are more neurotic than men and also statistically more agreeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:37 PM
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Troll blocked. BYEEEEE.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:35 PM
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Don't do either. I know how to drive. Assholes on the road for whom bullying worked on others doesn't work on me. You're just following me around and trolling now. Get a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:34 PM
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People shit test other people on the road all the time. They don't give a fuck if you think you have frame. They are testing to see if their behavior will be tolerated or if they can influence yours. Tale-gating to get someone speed up or move over is a perfect example. It applies to this and every other instance where I am shit tested in social environments. Then again, I'm not into this PUA/Neo Masculinity frame bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:32 PM
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"Settling" is a subjective term. When I bought a $30K Honda for my family, I was not "settling" for a Honda because I really wanted a Lambo. I was buying a car in my price range. Sometimes people shopping for a Honda think they're settling because they really wanted that Lambo. But they not settling at all. They're getting what they can afford.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:31 PM
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Men generally settle for a lot. Yes, they'll prioritize looks too much, but most men would be single forever if they had even the average women's list of expectations and deal breakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:35 PM
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When someone pulls in front of you, and brake checks you... That's them fucking with you. You may opt to believe that's not personal. I have kids in the car. It's my car, my kids and my safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:33 PM
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Welcome to how 90% of men feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:31 PM
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Red Pill should apply to anyone living in a society. It's helped me at work, even, to enforce boundaries, shove pushy people back, pass various shit tests and garner more respect. You can't be nice to everyone in the world and expect nice back. You have to play by the rules, bend them as necessary, and hand people's shit tests back to them. Hell, people will shit test you in traffic. Go watch r/IdiotsInCars
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:22 PM
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FDS has entered the chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:19 PM
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They called out misogyny for 20+ years but forgot about the cancer called "man hate". If you find yourself dealing with a man-hating women, stop, don't engage, turn, and walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:18 PM
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Feminism has been telling average ordinary young women exceptional and perfect they are. "Never settle" said feminism. This is the result. Systemic narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:17 PM
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False. "Stacy" just has a set of higher value men to choose from. If "Becky" thinks she too deserves such high value men, she has two choices: a) Bat in her league / stay in her lane and adjust her expectations b) Join FDS and figure out how to trick a HVM into a commitment ALL women (except for the absolute most heinous or obese) can have a line-up of men using OLD or Tinder. These lower-value women just think that "all the good ones are taken" when in reality, they're just not happy with what …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:56 PM
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WHAT? Women have the pick of the litter. That's all you need to do is choose wisely. Women's biggest complaint in life is that when they go on OLD, picking through hundreds (or thousands) of interested men is an onerous task. To which I say "Boo fucking hoo."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:03 PM
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Women now get twice as many uni degrees as men do. Young female grads are out-earning men their same age. "Wage gap" will be relegated to the pages of history soon enough. But, women will still want to be paid for "unpaid domestic child rearing services" but I've always thought that was between husband and wife. If "modern strong independent women" believe they "need no man" then they shouldn't need his (or anyone else's) money to be single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:00 PM
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100% pointless. I've been lurking on PPD for years. Women here are 100% incapable of comprehending the struggles men face in the mating arena. According to them, men have it easy and women have it tough. That's because the only "men" they have experience with are the ones who slide into their beds with zero effort and zero investment. They either think all men have it like this, OR, they just are willfully unaware that any other types of men exist. 100% pointless. The "empathetic" gender is also…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:39 PM
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Men enjoy life 10x more with 1,000 times less. Women need more to be happy, and are constantly worrying about how happy they are. They need to be on their phones every waking hour, pinging nodes on their feelings networks. Give a man football, bacon, beer and occasionally some boobs and he's happy. This is why I like a woman-free home. 1/10th the cost, I'm still really happy and I just bust a nut once in a while and I'm good to go. No drama. No going places I'd rather not go. No seeing people I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:31 PM
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1,000,000 times this. Women want a 3-page custom love letter from each of the 1,000 men they will swipe through. And it will do down something like this: "Meh. Boring. Gross. Creep. Boring. Wierd." In fact, most are going by picture first and just perusing the content if he's hot enough. There is an old saying. Do not cast pearls before swine. Until she shows some interest and meets for a cup of coffee, invest minimal time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:26 PM
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Men who bring life into the world should at least be helping their children financially. If not, we can have a rock quarry where they can break rocks all day and the money they earn at $15/hr goes 100% towards social programs for children of father absent homes. How's that for accountability. But, I also believe in male reproductive choice. So... yeah. There's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:21 PM
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How many school shooters are female? When it's about men not having enough resources, you say men don't reach out for help and it's a "men's problem". When we say we need to be more proactive and target the young men who become dangerous nihilists you call it gender discrimination. So... we do nothing, the left continues to lobby for gun control (which won't solve anything) and schools in the USA will continue to be shot up on a regular basis... Shrug.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:17 PM
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In the mental health institutions they need to be in? There are more cases where we care to admit these young men had a history with police and the mental health system. Severe antisocial behaviour, expressing interest in harming others, obsession with totalitarian leaders, severe narcissistic traits, fire starting, animal torture... it's like they're walking around with a sign that says "Hey I'm going to shoot up a school one day." And towards the end, days, sometimes weeks before the act they …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:15 PM
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Or they have really REALLY bad mommy issues. :-0
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:13 AM
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You're not going to weasel out of an existing friendship no matter how hard you try. No man asking out a woman he does not know will say no thanks but how about we be friends instead! That's insane. Look - I'll send out an e-mail blast to all couples who met, were friends, then became intimate that Sunning-Potatoe-1984 on Reddit said this was wrong and bad and wrong and that they need to break up and move to different cities immediately. Then we can all have a really good laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:59 PM
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They were friends , full stop until he put her in the relationship zone or fuck zone. Show where in OP's question this was stated. And own it. You're saying all intimate relationships start out as friends first. You would be wrong. Some do, some do not. And you're also wrong to suggest that a man who develops feelings for a female friend is a "twat" who has turned tables. Yet, you suggest that being friends is "the only way". So, men are essentially damned if they do and damned if they don't. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:20 PM
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We don't know. OP didn't specify. Why don't you ask? Everybody is obsessed with their own imaginary scenarios here. Tells us more about the people posting than provide answers to the OPs query.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:19 PM
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There was zero manipulation in the OPs query. Guy shows romantic interest in the woman, she rebuffs him, he passes on "relationship lite" or "just friends" because he's smart and doesn't want to suppress feelings of attraction and desire for a friend. You're talking about situations that the OP is not addressing. Maybe start your own post on this, because those scenarios don't really apply to this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:18 PM
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Asking a gal out of dinner. Down on one knee. Who can say, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:32 AM
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You're presuming the man in the OPs question did something wrong, but there is no evidence of that. You just made that up, because you either dislike men or you're afraid of them. And that's fine. But you're hijacking the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 02:46 AM
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How do you know only attractive women are approached? Quite a claim. Any data?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 02:23 AM
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Until then, yeah, getting approached by a stranger a woman is interested in is far more desirable than the opposite. Um, so if they are strangers how does he know?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 02:22 AM
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I say take boys away from single mothers. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 02:18 AM
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Showing romantic interest in women who aren’t interested is a lack of self control, yes. Absolutely. You can't find out if she' interested until you at least flirt in a way that shows you have romantic interests. All of these scenarios are irrelevant to the OPs question and make sweeping assumptions that the man in question merely did something else wrong. As telling as that is, it didn't answer the question. The answer to the question is: She's not owed the kind of relationship SHE wants after …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 02:16 AM
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I'm probably not younger than you. You just confuse your incoherent ramblings with some kind of wisdom. And now your ageism is showing... Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 02:13 AM
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He didn't misrepresent himself. He just got rejected and passed on the friend zone. Stop it with the made up scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 02:10 AM
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​ This is how it is. You have to stay on friendly enough terms to have basic social functioning around them if it is really needed. That's a social expectation. No, you don't and social expectations are for the weak. This whole thing is another straw man. Nobody's entire social world is going to collapse in this scenario. It just won't. Most people have multiple social circles and not one nebulous circle of 200 Facebook friends. ​ Look I've had friends nearly come to blows at funerals...not over…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 11:15 PM
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Teenage boys with autism don't interest me. Men have no problem approaching women in the right circumstances and taking rejection, if required, like a man. Yes, some men should not be allowed in public. But that's not what the OP was talking about, so people should really stop hijacking this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 11:00 PM
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She expects him to have self control like any other adult. Showing romantic interest is lacking control only in your sad little otherworld the rest of us don't live in. Do men want to be treated like children? Hmmm... Men take initiative, take the risk, face rejection, handle rejection like men (in the vast majority of cases) and we're saying men are acting like children? It's not men acting like children here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 10:34 PM
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It certainly isn’t women’s responsibility to get men laid. WHAT? Where did I say that? I responded to YOUR STATMENT: Not your call, is it? If women are getting laid, what they look like is none of your concern unless you are the man laying them. You derailed this thread and made it about sexual economics. The question was "Is it okay if a man denies a woman a friendship spot after being rejected romantically". And nobody here has the capability to address this simple question without flying off …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 10:32 PM
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Right. If men would just do all this right, the wrong men would know to never ask and the right men would always have an easy, trouble-free time. Sounds like you live in imagination land.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 10:30 PM
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And all this time she is COMPLETELY CLUELESS the guy is into her. LOLOLOL. Biggest blue pill lie ever written.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:52 PM
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Just stop lying. Done. Then you won't have to fake an entire ass friendship. Nobody faked a friendship. This is all in your head. Guy got rejected and noped away from the "friendship" consolation prize. This sub: REEEeEEEEeEEEe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:51 PM
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Except... all the men who report that reviewing Red Pill philosophy has improved their situation with women. You can deny things that make you uncomfortable all day and night. Won't make them go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:49 PM
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This is some pretty hardcore Blue Pill shit, for sure. "Don't even worry about the men getting laid. If you're not, please walk into the ocean."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:47 PM
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Not sure why this is a hard pill to swallow. The manosphere rated women like cattle while at the same time insisting that women should give men they aren’t remotely attracted to a chance. I don't think Red Pill is saying this. Red Pill laments the situation, but really only expects women - at best - to not be wishy washy when rejecting a man. ​ Women who posses a sex drive have physical preferences. It’s time men accept that. Until that happens, women are allowed to be annoyed by an unwanted sal…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 08:42 PM
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Men who have a social sphere are socially astute enough to wait for mutual attraction before hassling someone. 100% false. Men do not wait because they cannot wait. The only way it's "mutual" is after he passes the test and is not rejected. This is all Blue Pill shaming of men thought of as "too low value to complete" and nothing more. After being hassled since I was a teenager by pushy, obnoxious men, I enjoy the hell out of the videos. Revenge fantasy commonly held by the sought after sex. Not…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 08:39 PM
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Have you seen the standards and expectations of "meh" women these days? It's pretty amazing...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 08:37 PM
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No. I'm just trying to discuss the OPs claim: That it's simply okay for a man who made a romantic interest known and was rejected to simply move on without any further obligation. Apparently it's not. The strawmen, whataboutism and irrelevant scenarios (that seem to be designed to put men in a bad light) on this thread are nothing short of fantastic. Multiple posters including myself have seen it and have called it out. It's like Blue Pill has this knee jerk reaction to the fact men, like women,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 08:35 PM
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Help wanted ads. Recruiters. Head hunters. Nope. Still need to bring a resume to them and apply. ​ Get a social sphere, social activities and a social life. I've seen passive men in these environments. Being there is not enough. ​ Not without a clear indicator of mutual interest. Without that, men are pests. LOL. He can't know until he inquires. This whole argument of yours basically re-affirms what Red Pill says That Blue Pill says "Know in advance if you are attractive enough and unless you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:46 PM
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In studies, men have higher frequency of perceiving romantic interest. Women need to know this and be direct with men. Women should not assume all men approaching just want friendship. This is just an excuse to have no accountability for rejecting (and rejecting properly, I might add...) When a woman is saying "let's just be friends" or "Well, maybe we could go as a group instead" PROVES IT. A group instead of WHAT pray tell? A group instead of a couple, which means she is sexually rejecting the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:43 PM
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But you can't find out unless you apply. Because employers don't go around seeking out people. People need to find them and come to them. Perfect analogy. Men are expected to initiate and pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:37 PM
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Men who aren’t getting approached might have more success when they box their own weight. This is a logical fallacy. Men not getting approached are not boxing at all. That is my point. You were not clear, and won't clarify if "just any man" should approach at all, or if this "privilege" is only extended to really high value men. And we all know the truth - it's just a matter of whether or not people here will admit it to themselves or others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:36 PM
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I’m saying if men aren’t getting approached, they aren’t attractive and should adjust their expectations accordingly. and should accept they will be sexless and lonely forever and stop pestering people. There. Said what you meant but were unable to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:46 PM
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This might be how women perceive things. Men need to initiate contact and pretty much fuel attraction. This is PUA nonsense. Attraction cannot be manufactured and men who try just come off looking like clowns. No, it's not. It's a man's need to initiate contact, and garner interest. Think of it as an employee trying to sway an employer. You submit your resume. You go for an interview. You sell yourself. For men, it's a proactive thing that requires action. PUA link dismissed as a strawman. ​ So,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:45 PM
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Obviously not. OP didn't specify they were "friends" previously but that's the implication. No, that's just the strawman you're choosing to argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:42 PM
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So what are you saying? Men should be sexually inert until such time they are approached?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:42 PM
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Women complain loudly about this because realizing that someone you thought loved you and was a close friend was actually just pretending to give a shit about you because he wanted to get into your pants is one of the worst feelings ever. Women also give men shitty, lame "soft rejections" that say: "I am rejecting you but don't go away - stick around and be my friend or just try harder." To suggest it's just men's fault 100% for being deceptive is just a massive rationalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:40 PM
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Seems to be a reading comprehension issue in this thread. The OP scenario was "man was rebuffed and walked away". Not "man lead with friendship and it blew up in his face". I'm out of this dumpster fire of a thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:40 PM
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She speaks rationally and logically, so yes, she’s speaking for all women. Those are not valid reasons for speaking for an entire gender. Men claim to function logically but seem to collectively believe they can merely want a woman into reciprocating interest. This might be how women perceive things. Men need to initiate contact and pretty much fuel attraction. Average men who wait until women notice them and act on it will wait forever. This demonstrates a complete lack of understanding (and in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:38 PM
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Good Lord people. Is this fellow some "See? Gym doesn't Help!" rationalization? This guy seems like a combination of clinical depression and maybe a spectrum disorder. Seriously. Let's just not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:31 PM
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I might be a good candidate to answer this because I'm kind of an asexual and don't date women. There are a number of women I respect and admire. My doctor is a woman. My ex wife is a pretty damned good mom and successful business owner. I have a female friend who is a (paid) support person for my side-business. She's a very dependable person and good for a laugh too. The best dentist I ever had is a woman. I won't let anyone else go near my mouth. Men don't see women in terms of "potential sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:28 PM
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The man in the example did not lie. He showed interest and was rebuffed. This whole thread is a massive straw man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:26 PM
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Now you're speaking on behalf of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:25 PM
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So what you're saying is... https://miro.medium.com/max/1400/1\*jcADP4VATtBi6VIVOVVyXA.png
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:01 PM
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Valid point. The rejected guy who decides to orbit then whines about a friend zone. It's a real thing, and he puts himself there. But OP is talking a guy who walks away after being open about his intentions and getting rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:59 PM
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Because average guys would remain in permanent loneliness if they didn't go out and test waters. Average guys waiting around for women to show interest will wait forever. He has to put himself out there, initiate contact, try and catch her interest, and face rejection. Women, needing to do none of these things, would say "control yourselves". How about we say to women: "Step up and approach men you find attractive"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:57 PM
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What is the problem is if you are rejected with kindness and fairness and then slide all the way down that scale...past being distant but on friendly terms if accidental contact happens (for example if you must attend the funeral of a mutual friend) and into hostility and aggression. So what about just walking away then. That is the scenario the OP actually presented.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:56 PM
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Men are not some monolith that wants to trick women into bed under false pretenses. This is just some toxic shit you personally believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:55 PM
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As a woman I don’t like being friends with men that I know don’t cut the contact with me because they expect something might happen in the future. It makes things awkward and it’s a toxic situation for both sides. This times forty million. It's NOT healthy to want friends in your life that you've rejected sexually who have lingering feelings for you. Men can be expected to shrug off the rejection but then do what? Turn off feelings and desires that were there? Wow. Just wow. (as they say).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:53 PM
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Having male friends orbiting her who are sexually attracted to her is useful for her. So long as the orbiter keeps his hands off and mouth shut about his genuine desires, that is. It's a game women have no problem playing, but complain so loud it echoes in the hills when it blows up in their faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:51 PM
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Men get chastised for not accepting women as friends after being rebuffed. Men get chastised for BEING friends with women we have romantic feelings for. Sorry, but WHICH IS IT? Sorry, have to choose one. Sounds like more "impossible world" scenarios from women. Dad always said: "Damned if you, damned if you don't." A man who is rejected romantically is WISE to not "friend around" with a woman he has sexual or romantic feelings for. Women here have said this on PPD 1000 times. You're suggesting m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:40 PM
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It's all mental gymnastics and hamsterbation at this point. I'm ignoring and moving on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:37 PM
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People know within 1 hour of knowing each-other whether it's "potential friend" or "potential relationship". Women know. They just hold their cards close to their chests and deny deny deny if ever called out. The "friendship" was for him to sleep with her. You've equated a man wanting a relationship with him only wanting sex. This is not the scenario we're describing here. He wanted a relationship, was clear about it and was rebuffed. Excuse me sir, that isn't a friendship, that's courting. We a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:35 PM
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Riiiight. But people today are nuts due to social media. One woman told a friend of mine "Ok, I'll give you a second chance but MAKE IT GOOD because I have 3,000+ messages here." aka, there is likely someone better than YOU in these 3000 messages so.... dance monkey dance. There is reason why some women will treat all men this way. Imagine a company that gets 1000 applications, goes through them all and then says "we couldn't find someone good enough"? Or maybe having that many resumes caused th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:21 PM
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If people still said OH SNAP I would say OH SNAP right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:07 PM
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Attractive women have always had their pick of the litter. It's the average women that are above average men now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:06 PM
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This is a strawman argument. The man wasn't trying to initiate a friendship he was trying to initiate a romantic relationship. Do women become friends with men who they pursue romantically and then reject them? Put the shoe on the other foot and then get back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:02 PM
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Well, when women protest this they're really saying: "You're not entitled to a relationship with me, but I'm entitled to your friendship." Sorry. If you rebuff a man, he at least has the right to walk away. If he doesn't have the right to walk away then she owes him something, and we already established that's really really gross. So yeah, this is one area where the hypocrisy needs to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:38 AM
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I also am dieting and exercising, planning to be within my goal weight within six months. So I'm looking at potential partners with that in mind. Height: 6'2". Hit you goal weight and put yourself out there and see what kind of women you can get with. The days where "making good money" excuses a guy for being really big are pretty much gone. High value women don't have to pick and choose between an ambitious/successful guy and a fit guy. At 6-2" - 200lbs you'll be in decent shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 08:03 PM
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Women's standards? They're fine by me. - Looks (Who doesn't want an attractive partner) - Presentable, reasonably dressed - Motivated, Ambitious, Educated - Sociable - Likes to do fun things, outgoing, adventurous - Confident, not a door mat, but not an ass. - Independent, nice place, clean car I mean... there is nothing wrong with any of the things women find attractive in men. In fact, these are good things because women are the sexual selectors for reproduction, so don't we (as a species) wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:13 PM
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I'm 180-190 pounds and between 6 and 9% body fat. Pretty lean by today's standards! I hit like Butter Ball. I only need one. Sometimes it's how well you can take a hit that matters most... But, I don't get into too many frays anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:01 PM
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Feminists date hypocritically. I've spoken to women who have said many of their feminist girlfriends drop equality/equity like it's hot and go for good looking high-earning men only once they are out of college. It's easy to wear a pink pussy hat and be on team-feminism when you and everybody around you is on student loans and eating Ramen noodles. When husband shopping starts, a lot of that goes out the window. And as a man you need more than a square jaw and a guitar and look good with your sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 06:50 PM
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I believe in what they call a "dual mating strategy". A) Genetics - good looking, tall, handsome... but substance? WHO CARES. That's one type of guy they want. B) Provider-ship - will trade off genetics for a guy who still stick around. The dream: a genetic hottie who will stick around. A + B = Bliss. The story: Genetic hotties have options and don't need to stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 06:48 PM
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I’m not sure what the problem is for men here that don’t want to step up their looks or jobs. Women have better options now. Some women do. And some just think they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 06:46 PM
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Trying to improve ones personality is not the same as being fake. Trying to be a better person can be done while still being genuine. I used to "mirror" someone but eventually realized it stifles passion. People don't want to date themselves. Relationships need differences and some friction for there to be heat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 06:17 PM
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By anything do you mean burgers and pizza too? I would just eat a lot of carbs, pasta, with lots of chicken breast. Lots of steak, protein... pork. Fish. Some fat is good but I found needless fat, trans fat and salt to be detrimental. When I eat well and work out, I grow like crazy. My ectomorphic pals hate me. They eat anything they want and can't gain wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 06:15 PM
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And looks don't help much in a barfight. ;-)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 06:12 PM
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Back in the day, I had a "farm boy" body. Not super thin, but really stalky with big arms. Like 20" guns. Never had an issue finding women who found me attractive. Many moons (and one divorce) later, I'm in a 38 pant now (tight) and want to be a 36 (loose) or even 34 before I ever got back on the market. Have to be what you want to attract. People tell me to get a scale. I just go by pants size.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 05:59 PM
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