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| 1 | Can I just share, ever since embracing the single life I don't have panic attacks caused by arguing. No one triggers my flight or flight unless I allow them. I'm starting to realize, how easily my significant others affect me.The mango analogy is a response with zero emotion and zero internalization of anything someone else says (LVM or sucky emotionally abusive parents). No matter what they say, there should be nothing that can make you feel emotion. He will try. You will refuse to feel his stupid forced emotions/emotional abuse. Removing yourself emotionally to the degree that no matter what comes out of his mouth, you couldn’t care about anything less. It isn’t easy but it sure beats dissecting what he said and wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 06:22 AM |
| 1 | FDS with Neighbor?That makes sense! Thanks for the heads up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 08:59 PM |
| 7 | Ladies, how did you move on from being the other woman?If you want to get over it, then act as though the other person literally does not exist or is dead. Would you call a non-existent or dead person? Nope! Would you want to tell a funny story to a non-existent or dead person? Nope! Would you try to see a non-existent or dead person? Nope! Would you try to spend time with a non-existent or dead person? Nope! Try to relegate him always to being either non-existent or a dead person. It’s the best I ever told myself when self control was running thin … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 04:04 AM |
| 58 | This the FDS energy we love. No sending paragraphs or explaining. Just pure boredom: “I’m just less interested.”Oh how I love the next generation of women we are raising up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 03:49 AM |
| 1 | I am in need of sincere advice [possible TW: assault]If it makes you feel better, my tween daughter does that to me too. I will share some little detail from my terrible past, not even trying to bring anything up or be a martyr and she always asks me to tell her more about it later. It is always hard but her therapist tells me that she wants to know me. Clearly it is different between my daughter and your bf. Just thought I would chime in, just in case you wanted it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 01:29 AM |
| 19 | Can I just share, ever since embracing the single life I don't have panic attacks caused by arguing. No one triggers my flight or flight unless I allow them. I'm starting to realize, how easily my significant others affect me.My therapist tells me that anything anyone (especially the LVM Ex-husband) says should be me with the same emotional reaction from me as though they just said “I like mangos” and my only emotional response should be “I like mangos too!” I am not 100% there yet but it helps in the small moments of emotional response to tell myself that I like mangos too!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 01:21 AM |
| 4 | Underneath it AllFor me, it is Lady Gaga’s The Cure 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 03:23 AM |
| 9 | Ladies, I created a faker than a pickme orgasm profile to show how men lie about their intentions on OLDI don’t see any pics/screenshots. Have fun with this! Note patterns for research purposes! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 03:16 AM |
| 1 | I guess now it is a walking date into a Netflix and chill. Reminds me of limbo...How low can you go?That was my thought too. So much for wholesome! 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 12:28 PM |
| 21 | Breaking a Generational CurseI found that there is almost nothing more offensive you can say to your PickMe mom who has stayed with your narcissistic, selfish father and put up with low value stupidity than to tell her that you are pro-divorce and don’t think how long they have been married is anything to brag about... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 12:01 PM |
| 6 | Officially done with r/datingoverthirty.You could always lurk and PM the ladies you would want to see the FDS light | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Can I be approved please? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:55 AM |
| 9 | MeN aRe VeRy ViSuAL CrEaTuReSAgreed wholeheartedly!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 01:41 AM |
| 11 | Love her content so much! It really is putting all those level up lessons into words. Wonderful viewpoint from a wonderful woman!This is the best analogy ever!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 01:16 AM |
| 16 | The scrotacity of these NVM negging drain scrotes 😂They don’t know what to do when we don’t play into the 1 mind trick they know!! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 01:13 AM |
| 26 | MeN aRe VeRy ViSuAL CrEaTuReSUnfortunately I find myself agreeing with his opinion and want to punch myself for saying that, especially on this sub!!! I think all people should be expected to be looked at to some degree but his singling out tightly clad ladies is certainly misogynistic. I think it applies to all and no one deserves harassment for the way they choose to dress. And I say that whole heartedly as an avid lover of theater, crazy hair colors/cuts/styles, sparkly red tight jeans on Labor Day, boobs out, less boobs… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Any other ladies who had LV fathers who affected how they looked at men and what kind of spouse they potentially want?The sad part is when your mom is such a damn PickMesha that she defends the behavior as normal and even brags about how long they have been married. 🤢🤮 And worse when my sister “finally lands a man” my mom sticks up for his LVM behavior. It’s disgusting and ridiculous! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Any FDS attorneys? Please chime in! FDS references website for men?? Feasible?It could be one of the many features on the new FDS website!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Any other ladies who had LV fathers who affected how they looked at men and what kind of spouse they potentially want?Same here! I found it strange for my divorce to make me so angry with my father. If he had been better, then I would have sought better. Now on to protecting my 2 daughters from this same trap/cycle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 12:18 PM |
| 7 | Some pickmeishas are too far gone... Speechless.The nest can also refer to their general habitat. It could be their gaming area (computer or tv), bedroom generally is a big one or any other place they tend to spend a lot of time in filth. The area is rarely cleaned, if ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:23 AM |
| 4 | What wall?!Agreed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 09:38 AM |
| 24 | What wall?!I don’t know about her personal life. None of my business. If she wants to be with whoever she is with and looks this youthful and happy, who am I to judge or even have an opinion on it? The point though is that we are told we age terribly but then it turns out we don’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:34 AM |
| 12 | Scrotes & PickMes attack 21 y/o girl for not wanting to date a 30+ manTrue!! It just sucks when the only voices around you tell you that you are crazy and that you should expect a certain amount of bad behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:21 AM |
| 21 | What wall?!The real tip is ALWAYS in the comments!! Good call u/feminologie_!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:18 AM |
| 0 | HVMs Don't Help With HouseworkAnd the thing with having “dinner” ready is that quarantine/COVID brings about having 3 f’ing meals a day ready!! Still, I prefer doing it on my own! I feel like I am finally starting to find my stride in single momming and life is next to its hardest right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:21 AM |
| 21 | Scrotes & PickMes attack 21 y/o girl for not wanting to date a 30+ manRight?! I soooooo want to tell these people to fuck off! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Law Queens, Lawyers, and Policy Lovers of FDS: can you give us some guidance? A thread on best practices and protecting ourselves from LVM, NVM, and potentially HVM from exploiting us during the dating process with legal protections...ie: prenups, lease drafts, etc. Let's discuss!It’s all family law. You could have a contract drawn up for pre-marriage things (like of you plan to live together for 2 years and the house is in his name but you are helping pay the mortgage, a court will not restore anything to you or give you any ownership of the residence beyond title. Additionally, retirement and anything else that is built during this time is only his or yours. Not joint. You and he could enter into a contract that you plan to live together and you would receive x$ back i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:44 PM |
| 5 | Law Queens, Lawyers, and Policy Lovers of FDS: can you give us some guidance? A thread on best practices and protecting ourselves from LVM, NVM, and potentially HVM from exploiting us during the dating process with legal protections...ie: prenups, lease drafts, etc. Let's discuss!IANAL, but I do work in law. You need a family law Atty. Ideally the same one you would call if it is ever time to divorce. You want this person to specialize in family law. If they do any other type of law as well, then they likely are not good enough to draft a prenup. There are resources available to find great lawyers. You can google SuperLawyers and you state. There will be a listing of the top attorneys in each field of law. Avvo.com is also a great resource. Just be sure to scroll passed … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:10 AM |
| 2 | I think I was taken advantage of.If you were BOTH so drunk, then why does he remember you “promising” to lay with him and you barely remember anything. It definitely sounds like he took advantage of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:00 AM |
| 3 | My cousin 18F has been talking to this 28M guy and I think it's gross for him to have matched with her in the first place. She says he's looking for a relationship and seems trustworthy but to me, this is predatory behavior. I need FDS arguments to convince her that he's shit and not to meet him.My bet is that he is older than 28... Have you online stalked him yet? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:32 AM |
| 31 | Truer words were never spoken 💛When I took my daughters to to Paris, we were hanging out by the seine river and this man who was jogging just stopped and walked over to the wall to pee, then continued jogging. Mind you, had he moved over about 25 ft then he would have been behind a cargo public bathroom container/trailer that have at least given a small shield from his selfish ways. The sad part was that he was dressed in top of the line everything for jogging. It’s one of the many many reasons we cannot think a man is HV bec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:37 PM |
| 98 | Saw this on another threadSo true! The saddest part is usually their mommas are the ones who raise them to be men who can hardly take care of themselves and treat their women like slaves. Then their mommas continue to enable their behavior. The next step is gaslighting the girlfriend/wife that his behavior is totally normal. It is a huge red flag of his mother is ever trying to justify his behavior!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Want to try something new with your girlfriend? How about less porn?It is supposed to be like a ouija board (https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ouija). Thanks me letter is added at a time until an “answer” is provided. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 11:09 AM |
| 2 | Want to try something new with your girlfriend? How about less porn?Interrupted? On that subreddit one letter gets added at a time until it creates an answer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 12:09 AM |
| 3 | How to vet a therapist?I highly recommend looking for someone who you vibe with. For example, my therapist is in the same age range of me and was an engineer before her current therapy career, which is a fair amount of empath, mixed with analytical and a strange combination of careers. I find that we tend to have similar brains. I like it! You will spend a lot of time with this person so you want to be sure you are comfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Vera Wang turns 71 tomorrow!👑💝💝💝 Love the support we give each other here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 02:53 AM |
| 3 | When a man marries his mistress, he marries KARMA. $800 Million & NO prenup.What wall? We age so much better than them if we take care of ourselves and quit investing all of our energy into taking care of them!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 03:59 PM |
| 19 | Psych Today “Women who expect equality won’t sacrifice their personal happiness to save their marriage out of respect for the institution. They are particularly vigilant and will watch carefully how much their husbands contribute...When things are unfair and out of balance, they react strongly.”If you follow r/workingmoms, a lot of women apparently live lives like this then take to the internet to rant. It makes me wonder if it is part of their “awakening” to see that they don’t have a partner, just an extra child! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 05:57 PM |
| 11 | Thought about creating an app for us and all the radical feminist subs. Would you guys use it if I did? Also if anyone could help that would be amazing!I’m with Dennets - I don’t have any coding experience but happy to support mentally and however else I can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 04:26 AM |
| 16 | This has to be one of my biggest pet peeves. Do not allow a man to make himself feel superior by explaining your business to you. This is a form of negging to catch you off guard and make you doubt yourself. You know what's up, so put him in his place.It’s remembering thousands of little things like this that make me really glad for the “ex” before husband!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 01:59 AM |
| 30 | This has to be one of my biggest pet peeves. Do not allow a man to make himself feel superior by explaining your business to you. This is a form of negging to catch you off guard and make you doubt yourself. You know what's up, so put him in his place.The second part reminded me of my ex husband to the point that I almost spit out my wine in a laugh/“I know girl, right?!” Once he rented a fancy zero turn mower to mow our front field and threw a temper tantrum when I cut a couple of strips, saying how he did all the work to get the “fun” mower, then I stole it so I can just mow it all by myself and also figure out how to get it back on the trailer on my own too. Then legitimately held that position. I cut the whole thing and put it back on the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 01:52 AM |
| 18 | This has to be one of my biggest pet peeves. Do not allow a man to make himself feel superior by explaining your business to you. This is a form of negging to catch you off guard and make you doubt yourself. You know what's up, so put him in his place.This reminds me of a time when I was discussing my services with a gentleman and he told me how I was charging too much so he was going to take me to lunch to tell me how it all works. Meanwhile, I had already build a successful 6 figure business. Screw off dude! The nice thing is that it was at a trade show of sorts for my industry and all of the guys around me found it equally hilarious that this old guy was so ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 01:45 AM |
| 4 | This is some next level NVM bullshit. Could you imagine thinking your friends are more important than you wife in labour. Chuck him in the bin IMO.Can we start adding links to screenshot posts? I can’t find this post yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 05:52 PM |
| 9 | I’m just learning this exact lesson! OP is wise in her ways. Where are you ladies on differentiating the two?Agreed! This one hit real hard. Also, TIL I am a Porsche! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Oh lord how he shouldn’t put that out there about himself...Hinge | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 01:04 PM |
| 20 | Oh lord how he shouldn’t put that out there about himself...Right!?! Please have sex with me with exactly zero expectations of satisfaction yourself!! Wtf?! I mean really?!?!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 02:35 AM |
| 12 | Oh lord how he shouldn’t put that out there about himself...Oh so true!! 🤣😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 11:46 PM |
| 5 | This sub is turning into a LVM hall of fameThen be the change you want to see... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Dump Him.Is she tagged in this post somehow? If not, Can you send her a link OP? It is easy for us to talk about other women but I strongly believe we were all there in some way and we all have to learn how to do better. Plus, we all know how slanted the other subs can be on women with super basic entry level standards. We need to be able to ensure the OG posters can see the advice from FDS without making them feel attacked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 07:39 PM |
| 12 | How sad we are seen as the “Karen” for having confidence and standards...Keep preaching lady!I suppose “Karen” is synonymous with entitled to them 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 04:04 PM |
| 3 | My online dating experience in IsraelWhat an absolutely terrible, vile excuse for a human! I’m glad you ran fast! He is emotionally abusive from literal Day One. Wtf?! Who tells someone to smile less?! Smile big and bright awesome lady!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 11:17 PM |
| 12 | Can you describe the ideal dating timeline from an FDS perspective?Exactly! Closing the sale on the porn watching! | /r/askFDS | 17/03/20 02:33 AM |
| 22 | Can you describe the ideal dating timeline from an FDS perspective?As Early and often as possible. I bring it up in a joking manner so I can get a more straight forward response. I find that if you show a negative opinion of it then they will just deny. I tend to ask, “How often do you watch porn?” rather than, “Do you watch porn?” Leave it to him to explain if he doesn’t and why (my next follow up question if he says he doesn’t), instead of giving him the easy “of course I don’t” out. I pose the question as though the answer is yes and see how they respond. It… | /r/askFDS | 17/03/20 01:02 AM |
| 6 | Can you describe the ideal dating timeline from an FDS perspective?You should continue to wait and as you said, then try to build platonic relationships where you know you want absolutely nothing from the relationship other than friendship and to be there for them just like they are there for you. It would be so refreshing for women to have men in their lives that don’t want sex from them. Man after man shows us that they are just playing a long game to eventually have sex. Put sex completely out of your mind and pursue friendship only. Maybe that looks like se… | /r/askFDS | 17/03/20 12:53 AM |
| 11 | Welp... even Oreo has to swerve the porn sickness too...In case anyone else is out of the loop like me. Google sent me to another subreddit, funny enough! Screenshot of Oreo/Pornhub Tweet Edit spelling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 02:20 AM |
| 4 | Reminder that men don't value women enough to support stopping violence against us. Be nice for what? Please keep working hard on filtering out those LVMI guess it is time for all of my fellow FDS ladies to move to Australia! We can make a big Golden Girls-esque compound. On the super bright side, we are all kick ass so we would bring something special and awesome to our FDS country. Now accepting applications for queen! Spoiler alert...it’s all of us! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 02:12 AM |
| 8 | You are a trainWhen I was in Paris, then NYC, the announcement would often be to step back because the train is now departing. I like that piece to go with your “train is now departing” as well. It’s kind of like MOVE! I’m a train. Get out of my way! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 01:58 AM |
| 4 | Airport LVM! Leave him hanging ladies!That just shows it is a power thing. Disgusting! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 02:31 AM |
| 41 | Airport LVM! Leave him hanging ladies!What’s sad is that I can only imagine that he will get to Pickmesha #15 on his list, she won’t realize she is #15 and will be so happy to go pick him up thinking it means something that he asked her to pick him up. Ugh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 03:36 PM |
| 4 | Airport LVM! Leave him hanging ladies!We have all been there, sis! Which is why FDS is so amazing and needed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 03:25 PM |
| 12 | Airport LVM! Leave him hanging ladies!Just joined! Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 03:14 PM |
| 35 | Airport LVM! Leave him hanging ladies!Omg! I actually lol’ed on this one! Reminds me of the meme on here the other day of her sending him the address to the humane society bc they take on strays! 😂🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 02:57 PM |
| 140 | Airport LVM! Leave him hanging ladies!I couldn’t make it up if I tried! There were 2 guys behind me and one said he texted Nicole about picking him up from the airport but he hadn’t heard back from her. His friend said, “Nicole is probably done with your shit man.” Then the first guy said, “I’ll just text Stacey or Christina and just keep going down my list.” (Chuckling of course!) The worst part was that I learned next that they are both teachers. They are literally teaching our next generation of men. Ugh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Ok.................😂🤣🤷🏻♀️ OMG! I’m dying! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 01:41 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, I really need your opinion/advice...Probably a lot longer than 6 months (from personal experience) and I have been in weekly therapy the entire time. My therapist also says I am pretty quick at processing things, making a decision and moving forward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 01:45 AM |
| 31 | Ladies, I really need your opinion/advice...He shared with a professional acquaintance that I was abused as a child and was broken in the bedroom and he didn’t know “what to do with me” and was theoretically seeking advice. I broke more listening to him say that than I ever was from my traumatic childhood. I separated from him that night. I knew it had to end but I didn’t begin to understand the depths of his unkindness toward me. I realized about 2 days later that he had been emotionally abusing me for years. The whole first half of 2019… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 01:41 AM |
| 16 | Dibs on this KINGRight?! I was ready to fight her for him. 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 03:00 PM |
| 58 | Seriously?! Of course! Locked because men can’t handle women having standardsThe best part is “as if any care.” True story...we don’t care!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 11:46 PM |
| 16 | For Valentine’s Day please act like the HVW you areI booked my own trip leaving for Europe on V-Day with my daughters. I don’t need a man to take me on an amazing trip on V-Day or any other day! It is my HVW post-divorce “I’ve got this” trip. I can’t wait! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 02:56 PM |
| 14 | But women are the ones with the wall!! LMAO!! I can’t even!!! 🤷🏻♀️😂🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 11:07 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, form an orderly line for your sexing up by this LVM!Girl! You better message him! Once in a lifetime opportunity! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 11:49 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, form an orderly line for your sexing up by this LVM!Aww damn! It’s like missing the lottery by one digit on each number! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, form an orderly line for your sexing up by this LVM!🤣 so true! My bet is his car is “in the shop” having some mods to make it better. BS!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, form an orderly line for your sexing up by this LVM!😂🤣🤫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 11:44 PM |
| 6 | Ladies, form an orderly line for your sexing up by this LVM!😂🤷🏻♀️ The audacity! It must be in their brain right next to thinking that we all have sex with each other during our lingerie pillow fight sleepovers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 07:03 PM |
| 7 | Ladies, form an orderly line for your sexing up by this LVM!I don’t know which way to swipe on Tinder for that 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 12:29 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, form an orderly line for your sexing up by this LVM!😂🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 12:27 PM |
| 10 | Ladies, form an orderly line for your sexing up by this LVM!I always wonder to myself who in the F would be like yes please! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 12:27 PM |
| 8 | Ladies, form an orderly line for your sexing up by this LVM!Probably all insta-girls that he claims are his ex’s! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 12:25 PM |
| 12 | Ladies, form an orderly line for your sexing up by this LVM!Probably whale-like noises 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 08:22 AM |
| 13 | Ladies, form an orderly line for your sexing up by this LVM!Right?! The only thing he is missing is to say that he wants kids “one day” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 08:21 AM |
| 12 | Ladies, form an orderly line for your sexing up by this LVM!😂🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 08:21 AM |
| 19 | Ladies, form an orderly line for your sexing up by this LVM!When you are a LVM, only cheap sales tactics will do! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 08:20 AM |
| 16 | Ladies, form an orderly line for your sexing up by this LVM!I’m sorry you had to go through that. What a terrible LVM! Sounds like you lost a catch 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 08:20 AM |
| 24 | Ladies, form an orderly line for your sexing up by this LVM!😂🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 08:18 AM |
| 15 | Ladies, form an orderly line for your sexing up by this LVM!😂🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 08:17 AM |
| 28 | Ladies, form an orderly line for your sexing up by this LVM!I bet you are correct! Smh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 08:16 AM |
| 9 | #FuckboyFree2020 #KickHimOut2020 # LevelUp2020 Report InI’m so in! Just cut my roster loose in the last week. None were good enough and none deserved to go into 2020 with me. If I truly mean that it is better to be alone than with some dumb boy then I need to practice what I preach. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Can’t get rid of this number!!It’s kind of perfect if you think about it. It’s not like you have tons of sweet messages or anything. Him draining you is what you have to remind you of him. It’s easier once we make the decision that the phone number could be anywhere but I’m not calling it. Good luck sister! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 02:37 PM |
| 2 | How do I forgive myself for dating my piece of sh%t, garbage lower than all the trash in this world exThis!!^ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Can’t get rid of this number!!Thinking about the hundreds of dollars you gave him over the months would piss me off enough to stay away. The literal only thing you still have of him in your phone is a reminder that he took things from your life. Is that what you want? You want someone who takes from you? And probably in more ways than money. Make that choice for yourself and it won’t matter where the number is...you won’t want to call it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 01:47 AM |
| 2 | My first FDS inspired clap back. How did I do?Are we allowed to do this as women though? Friday morning this guy asked if we could meet up. I said yes, bit had told him earlier in the week they my gfs and I were trying to get together. Then my gfs called in the afternoon and had made a dinner reservation for us girls. I cancelled on him (offering another night) and he asked if I got a better date. I did not feel the need to justify myself to him so I didn’t respond and he didn’t message. Was I a jerk? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 04:47 AM |
| 17 | Of course you aren’t stable. Wtf?! I’m not your dear when you have messages with me for 5 minutes.I get it often. VERY annoying!! Ugh! Thanks to this sub, I see it for the LVM attempt at whatever the fuck that is. Low effort and low value! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 04:32 AM |
| 2 | Married to a LVM, in an affair, and want to get out. Can I end both relationships?This is very similar to my life 6 months ago. I was the breadwinner and my husband hadn’t worked in a while and I was in a side situation with another man that I cared for deeply. I was so unhappy at home and we both knew that I had stepped out. My husband would later deny knowing but he absolutely knew. I travelled for work as much as I could and tried desperately to find happiness away from my husband. He was sucking the life out of me. I am so thankful for finding my way away and apart from h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 09:05 PM |
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