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1	Looking through the wrong lense: Which issues do men and women get wrong because they assume the other sex thinks like them? I think that applies for most women but not the h0es. I was sexually assaulted by one within 5 minutes of meeting. She and her friends body count would be enough to make excel crash. The subreddit 'letgirlshavefun' also says the contrary about women that need sexual relations but I still believe the majority are as you described.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 09:23 PM
1	Men want women to have LOW standards, not consistent standards. I disagree it is that extreme but I believe you are speaking from your very real experiences. I'm not going to invalidate the pain of the cockroaches you've had to deal with. Similarly, I've been that guy that just wanted a little appreciation for paying for everything, driving 1 hour to her every time, cutting off my parents because they didn't like her. I did the flowers, letters, personalised gifts with her name on it.... never getting any of that back. Naturally, my opinion is going to be th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 08:21 PM
1	Men want women to have LOW standards, not consistent standards. You're just exposing women with standards that don't want them back. The message isn't lower your standards, it's align them to yourself. But more clearly, also make him feel like he is a catch just as much as he should be for you e.g. the flowers, gifts, adornment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 07:20 PM
3	Does the “victim” in a break up really glow up the most I'd add that the aggressor glows down, rebounds, gains weight, loses friends. Their primary problem was too much grandiosity and not enough empathy. So they end up spiraling more into those traits. The victim sees months on that they're not even going to get an apology but instead see the ex gallivanting and 'moved on' to hurt them. I think girls that make relationship Instagram/tiktoks are subtly hoping their ex will see how great they have it now. Again, not really changing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 05:52 AM
2	Typical dating advice for men vs typical dating advice for women shows who is really more entitled Love may open the door but alignment keeps it open. I binned a girl because I told her I wasn't okay with her liking EVERY single photo of her male gym instructor. His posts would have 3 likes and sure enough she is one of them. Am I entitled for expecting her to change or am I expressing a deal breaker? Did I know this about her on day one? Of course not because I can't know her entire life story and personality upfront. "She should change because I said so"? Yeah, pretty much or I'm out. In my…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 07:51 AM
2	Typical dating advice for men vs typical dating advice for women shows who is really more entitled It's because women are doing the posting on social media. At work, there was a big parade for women's day. But on men's day, nothing. Everybody asks why but then realised that the women were the ones supporting each other. I think the tide is shifting and more men are being educated now about how they deserve to exist also in the relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 07:48 AM
2	Male thirst is men's greatest enemy I really agree with this. It has felt like women have always needed to be in control of the relationship but as soon as you let them have that dominance, they lose attraction. Their greatest tool for control is their femininity (even if not sex). Similarly, I think a man's greatest tool is his power: assertiveness, connections, lifestyle, confidence, money. Give sex away easily and you're a cheap woman. Give dates, money and attention away too easily and you're a cheap man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/25 12:43 PM
1	Women do want a good man, just not enough. The more attractive a woman is, the more he'll forgive your other traits. The more money a man has, the more she'll forgive your other traits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/25 04:36 AM
1	Do (some) women realize what going after masculine men means? Part 2: You as a man that wants to be more masculine cannot now just start withholding empathy. You can't deliberately be cold. You have to embody the masculinity. Be on your mission and feel completely secure about your self-worth. Be the guy that can't be gaslit and manipulated. Be busy and be confident. She isn't attracted to bad boys because they're bad but it's because the bad boys are so self-secure that they know they can get away with being selfish. He turns up 2 hours late and forgets h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/25 06:35 AM
2	Do (some) women realize what going after masculine men means? I'm going to disagree with examples of what society labels as masculine. E.g. James Bond, Clint Eastwood, Rambo, Putin. Remember the terminator movie where he is taught how to smile and cry? The alternate personality in Fight Club? They're traits are strength, wit, courage but also they're of few words. They're cold, secretive. They don't yappp about feelings. You know he's effed up but he doesn't talk about him feeling insecure you followed a new guy on insta, he just replaces you. He disappear…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/25 06:09 AM
1	Onlyfans proves male hypergamy. Disagree. Those places may offer eye candy but I wouldn't let those women within 50 miles of my family. Imagine dragging those skets to your mother for afternoon tea and saying she's the one lmfaoooooo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/25 12:14 AM
2	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD I'm really going to have to disagree with that. It is only my perspective from my social circles but just because a guy isn't having casual sex doesn't mean he lacks sexual desires. My friends are horny af but they've mostly all only been with one partner that they are still with or married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 10:03 AM
–	Men need to wake up, women were never truly attracted to you like you thought I think they've just been burned very badly in a relationship. It's killed their idea of a woman's love being real and sincere. I've gone through the same arc but I have some hope left.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 08:58 AM
2	Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinity Interesting. My own views are probably warped since... I have no female friends. I get it now though by just looking at my married friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 08:36 AM
3	Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you? 100% same for me. She is emotionally unavailable, neglectful, abusive etc... and that describes my dating history. The more I heal and realise this, the more I can give to myself what my mother didn't. I'm learning to stop being insecure and seeking approval from women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 05:37 AM
2	Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinity 100% agree. Women don't know what they want. I thought being the perfect guy with no female friends, no flirting, no long history of exes would be attractive. It's what women say they'd want but their biology craves the James Bond type - traditional masculinity. The man that takes no nonsense. The man that can and does get every woman. She wants the challenge of being the woman that convinces him to settle down. Take a look at every romance movie - it's not the man that wins the woman over, it's…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/25 11:21 PM
2	Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you? The username is just saved on the computer. If someone glanced at it, they wouldn't be able to remember ;) I think people end up in relationships with that familiar parent figure even if they don't love them. Not because that's what they consciously desire but because they're hardest to let go of. It's like if we fixed the romantic partner, we'd fix what we didn't have in our parent figure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/25 09:34 PM
2	Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you? This is the best dating advice anyone can ever receive. Meet her dad, and you'll realise that she is unconsciously looking for the same person. If her father is weak, she seeks a man that is lax and soft on his boundaries. If her father is super masculine, you'll be expected to be the same. The same advice goes for women if you look at his mother.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/25 09:27 PM
2	Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you? It's very hard for a modern man to be expected to provide, protect, lead... While also letting her have autonomy and an equal say on things. 100 years ago, the husband would have been able to say they're sailing to New York tomorrow and she'd just follow because she is so dependent on him. The modern woman has her own salary, savings and standby options so the man must be many many levels above her if he wants to have this sort of leadership over her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/25 09:23 PM
3	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Her attitude comes across by the way she comments and shuts down other views. Why? Perhaps because it is a sour spot. A woman's past cannot be erased so she only has one choice: seek affirmation and validation for her past actions. Women will simultaneously say past doesn't matter but they'll also hide it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/25 12:51 PM
3	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD I think a man that doesn't have casual sex is a good indication of his faithfulness, security and commitment. If he is having sexual relations with you, that means you're important to him and he will treat you accordingly. A man giving you his time, effort and money is more valuable than having him for one night. A rental car costs $500 per day. The same car new and outright costs $50,000. If I swap the genders, no man is putting new tyres on a rental but if the car is his to keep forever, it's …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/25 12:34 PM