WW_D Archive

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1	A male professor said this women-only study lounge is sexist and illegal. The school shut it down Are you seriously trying to pretend that you haven't heard the word Patriarchy before? Or that it's an extremely popular viewpoint that basically amounts to a massive male conspiracy to keep women (and by some definition minorities) down? Female preferences are supposed to be a result of this patriarchy. My comment was discussing what I view as hypocrisy of the MRA movement(s). MR types tend to say that the forces keeping women out of male-dominated fields are due to women's instinctive preferen…	/r/MensRights	02/08/16 07:39 PM
–	A male professor said this women-only study lounge is sexist and illegal. The school shut it down These arguments are what drives me nuts about the MR movements. You can't have it both ways, you can't be simultaneously against the excesses of SJ movements for groups other than men, and then turn around and act exactly the same. Women are vastly outnumbered in STEM, by far more than 60/40 odds, and this is put down to "female preferences". But, when men are outnumbered between 55/45 and 60/40 in higher ed as a whole, it's the result of some vast feminist conspiracy. You can't argue both of th…	/r/MensRights	02/08/16 03:07 AM
–	A male professor said this women-only study lounge is sexist and illegal. The school shut it down You're right, it wouldn't have much misogyny in its culture. It would have a boatload of misandry instead. Yet you seem to only view misogyny as negative. I never said that. I said that sexism against women would be obviously not an issue if the vast majority of the government was women. I didn't say anything about sexism against men at all. Same with the gays. Homophobia is obviously no longer an issue if most people in charge are gay, but that doesn't mean that the majority of leaders should b…	/r/MensRights	02/08/16 02:49 AM
1	A male professor said this women-only study lounge is sexist and illegal. The school shut it down I'm just here from r/all, I don't claim anything haha. How am I pushing stereotypes though?	/r/MensRights	02/08/16 12:04 AM
–	A male professor said this women-only study lounge is sexist and illegal. The school shut it down The point is that if, for example, 75% of the people in charge are gay we probably already have gay rights being taken into account and protected. If a society had a woman president and a congress that was 85-90% women, it'd be doubtful that that society had much misogyny in its culture, and so on.	/r/MensRights	01/08/16 10:50 PM
–	A male professor said this women-only study lounge is sexist and illegal. The school shut it down Anecdotal, but at least at my uni professors were pretty evenly split and most management positions were men, including the vast majority of the board.	/r/MensRights	01/08/16 10:48 PM
1	A male professor said this women-only study lounge is sexist and illegal. The school shut it down Many people find it difficult to study in their bedroom. If that's where they sleep and relax, it can be easier to be in a studying mode somewhere else.	/r/MensRights	01/08/16 06:52 PM
–	A male professor said this women-only study lounge is sexist and illegal. The school shut it down Because the vast majority of administrators are male. From a power standpoint, men are well-represented in the university structure, so they wouldn't generally be thought of as a minority group. I wouldn't say women are discriminated against either, but men largely are doing ok.	/r/MensRights	01/08/16 06:49 PM
–	Iowa teacher, 24, says it's 'school's fault' that she had sex with teenager Just to play devils advocate, the difference makes a little sense in that a woman can't physically force the average 17 year old boy to do anything he doesn't want to. It's still very suspect, but the aspect of predatory coercion seems less, so we tend to take it less seriously as a knee-jerk response.	/r/MensRights	31/07/16 04:55 AM
–	Iowa teacher, 24, says it's 'school's fault' that she had sex with teenager It honestly does matter for how fucked up it is though. She's 24 and cute, he was seventeen when it happened. Sure, it's statutory and it's pretty messed up, but it's obviously consensual, so I'm not gonna claim she's a predator. If it's than some leathery 55 year old and a 14 year old freshman, that's a totally different story, so I'd say the pictures are relevant information to the story. Hell, if they coulda stayed out of each other's pants until he graduated nobody would've given a shit at a…	/r/MensRights	31/07/16 04:51 AM
2	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster Colloquially, many use the term rape to refer to all sexual assaults. I can understand how this is an issue though, so my apologies.	/r/PussyPassDenied	09/01/16 12:32 AM
3	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster That I agree with entirely. I found that some people genuinely don't think we should be talking about consent though, and that's who my posts were addressing. IMO, these discussions should be part of school sex-Ed, but asshole Christians are never going to let that happen haha	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/01/16 08:59 PM
1	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster You could as well just put non-sex specific adds about situations where sex is not ok. I'd absolutely support this. Personally, I think we need to be educating people about consent as children, but since that hasn't been happening, it unfortunately has to happen for adults. I fully support educating both men and women about consent though, it's really infuriating that women who prey on incapacitated men are generally ignored. As for treating adults like children, that's somewhat true, but these …	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/01/16 08:53 PM
1	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster I'd certainly support education for everyone. I'm honestly pretty damn moderate on the issue, and I'm pretty confuse as to why everyone seems to think that supporting educating men about consent means that I don't support educating women as well. To be quite honest, we need to be talking about consent with schoolchildren, considering that some kids who get molested don't even understand why what's happening to them is wrong. No need to be sorry for your rant, I was unclear in my OP as to what I …	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/01/16 08:48 PM
2	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster This is an issue. Personally, I don't think it's very viable to bring the law into these matters, and so that's why there should be discussion about when sex should and shouldn't be considered ethically ok. Hopefully, these discussions would include pointing out that women coercing highly intoxicated men into bed isn't ok, and that if you're both so sloshed you can barely think that you're both dumb, but nobody is rapid anybody there.	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/01/16 08:45 PM
1	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster I'd say the majority of drunk sex that occurs in this country is almost certainly ok. It's just that some isn't, and there should be discourse about what's ok and what's unethical in these situations. I'm pretty moderate on the issue, I honestly think there shouldn't be legislation in some of these areas because it's so hard to enforce, and that's why there needs to be a climate of talking about what's right and wrong. In my OP, I was trying to refer more to situations where the person is very d…	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/01/16 08:40 PM
1	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster I absolutely agree with that. Criminalizing all drunk sex would be asinine and essentially impossible to enforce. I'll edit my OP to clarify my remarks, since I'd assumed most people would understand what I meant, but this was not what occurred. My bad for not being clear.	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/01/16 08:38 PM
3	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster I'd say it should apply to women as well. I also meant to say something more along the lines of extremely drunk, to the point of incapacitation. This isn't something that we can reasonably enshrine in law, since it's a fuzzy line, which is why there needs to be education about consent, preferably starting in middle school or whenever kids are fucking these days.	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/01/16 08:36 PM
0	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster I'm moving the goalpost because my OP was unclear. My apologies, I genuinely didn't mean to sound so uptight, I just thought it was more obvious than that.	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/01/16 08:34 PM
1	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster You realize that there are degrees of drunk right? I'm not one of those looks who says you can't get a little tipsy and take someone home or go home with someone, I mean drunk as in people who can't even walk straight. I'm not even saying we legally define that as rape, because it's completely unenforceable, but there should be some kind of conversation about what's ethical behavior in these fairly common scenarios.	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/01/16 08:33 PM
2	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster I agree. We should be teaching this to middle schoolers. The problem is that we haven't been, so we have to tell college kids and even some adults as well. I think that's the issue, is the guys who'd never do something like this feeling like they're being lumped in with morons who can't understand basic human interactions. The problem is that it's not their fault, it's the fault of the schools for not wanting to talk about sex, healthy or otherwise.	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/01/16 08:31 PM
1	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster And that's just as bad, I'm not sure why you think my support of one gender precludes supporting the other.	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/01/16 08:27 PM
4	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster Because the groups who e been spearheading awareness of this are generally women's rights groups. Personally, I'd be quite happy with teach women not to rape as well.	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/01/16 08:26 PM
1	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster This is also very true. I've seen some campaigns that included posters for gay men, lesbians, and straight women as well, and that was pretty cool. As an aside, am I the only one who thinks it's kinda silly that we have different words for gay men and gay women? Makes it really time consuming to write about.	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/01/16 07:43 PM
1	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster Did you see my clarification on what I meant by drunk? It's not just somebody who was too shy to admit they thought you were hot until they had a couple beers. It's when girls who are so sloshed they can't walk are getting fucked by some guy who knows they're in no position to say anything about it. I'm not even saying there should be laws against that, because they'd be impossible to enforce, but there should be a general understanding that that's a dick move, which seems to be fairly lacking a…	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/01/16 07:41 PM
0	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster Some people are really dumb, and find it hard to put themselves in someone else's shoes.	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/01/16 07:33 PM
33	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster You mean sticking your dick in an unconscious women is wrong?! You'd be shocked to learn how many people don't know this. Sure, it's a tiny minority, but even 1% is a shit-ton of people. Especially given that this really isn't any more offensive than when we tell little kids that stealing or hitting is wrong. It's just that it happens to be generally seen as inappropriate to talk to children about rape.	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/01/16 10:32 AM
2	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster I completely agree with at. Those people are assholes who are making the whole thing worse. Hell, I'd even say buzzed sex is ok, it's more about common sense and good ethical judgement. The issue is that common sense isn't so common, and judgment is proven to be much lower when people are horny.	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/01/16 10:29 AM
0	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster I didn't compare them, I said that they were both situations where someone was having sex that they may not have wanted. One is certainly more harmful, invasive, and criminal than the other, but they're both unacceptable. The problem is that we don't have a "light" term, other than date rape. As for drunkenness, there's a difference between drunk and so drunk that she can't walk, and that's where the education needs to come in. Same thing with giving someone a drink because you're partying, and …	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/01/16 10:28 AM
21	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster mental or physical incapacitation drunk Sure, there might be a grey area for being a little tipsy, but I'm talking about sketchy house parties where some girl gets completely trashed and wakes up with no underwear. The thing is, most people don't point out that that's a distinction because it's obvious to them. A ton of MRA groups are also pretty intense about drunk sex being rape, since it also happens to men and are accusations frequently aren't taken as seriously, so there's that as well.	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/01/16 10:22 AM
66	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster I think the issue stems from many guys just not realizing that the "teach men not to rape" crowd isn't actually insinuating that most men don't know well enough not to drag someone into an alley and molest them. I don't think most of these guys have an alternative, because they don't actually realize that they agree a bit.	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/01/16 08:32 AM
277	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster Yeah, as bad as "teach men not to rape" sounds at first, they're not talking about the kind of rapists who drag people behind dumpsters or drug them at a bar. They're talking about guys who never learned that you shouldn't fuck a girl who's drunk, or get a girl drunk so that she'll fuck you, or grope someone who's passed out at a party. Edit: to be more clear, by drunk I'm specifically referring to being really drunk, not walking straight, not talking well anymore, etc. not just college or high …	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/01/16 08:01 AM
6	"Boys ARE boys" - Spot on. Let boys express themselves rather than trying to brainwash them with more feminine traits! Much more common in the 1980s and earlier. I've seen that argument used semi-frequently in more conservative areas of the US as well.	/r/MensRights	21/06/15 10:17 AM
2	There's a 4 year old boy from Florida who has been court ordered in a landmark case to be circumcised, explicitly against his will. Please sign and share this petition to show the judge you disagree with his his decision. Let's give this kid his body back. [X-post r/Intactivists] Men can get it. The clinic in my town recommended it for all boys, mainly to protect the girls who are at a higher risk of complications from HPV, but also to avoid the hpv infection in the first place.	/r/MensRights	11/11/14 07:28 AM