W_JamesD Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	The Main Reason Why You’re Failing With Women! A Letter From a Genuine Player		W_JamesD	/r/seduction	23/04/16 12:41 PM

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1	Date this weekend, got some questions No problem, you're welcome. Have fun!	/r/seduction	26/04/16 05:11 AM
2	Date this weekend, got some questions First off you’re in a position a lot of men would love to be in. You’ve went past all the games, back-and-forth and run around some women do. Be happy about that! Your anxiety comes from two main things: (1) You think you have to do something impressive and (2) you have no knowledge of what you’re doing. Find you a book or video that teaches basic sexual techniques. Find something that stands out and memorize it. When it’s about to go down – slow things down. A girl who is ready to have sex alre…	/r/seduction	25/04/16 11:46 PM
2	Advice Needed - How to Handle Success? That is very true. Women translate many things you do (or don't do) as to how it revolves around them. It takes some balls to be upfront but it's better to be respected for telling the truth than to be accused of being a liar in the long run.	/r/seduction	25/04/16 11:09 PM
2	The Main Reason Why You’re Failing With Women! A Letter From a Genuine Player First off, congratulations on the smooth play! I see where you’re coming from but I guess I have a different definition of confidence than you. Confidence simply means to be certain and sure. I don’t view it as something emotional. When you’re certain and sure in who you are as a man, how you think and your decision making capabilities – I would say you were confident. I see that as being more logical and analytical. But that’s just my Perspective.	/r/seduction	25/04/16 02:44 AM
2	Advice Needed - How to Handle Success? Just be honest about it all. If they don't like it, then be a gentleman and hold the door for her as she leaves. You just got out of a long relationship and you've never lived this life before - so of course it's going to be weird and you'll be a bit unsure about it. As long as you are honest, you're doing the right thing - You aren't responsible for the way they choose to feel about your situation. Pretty much that. The way you start with a woman, must be the way you continue with her. So you m…	/r/seduction	25/04/16 02:38 AM
1	The Main Reason Why You’re Failing With Women! A Letter From a Genuine Player I agree, being a man is not going to help you seduce women. And the Game is in fact based on strategy. That's absolutely correct. What defining your manhood does is give you a foundation to work from. A house built on a weak foundation is going to fall over sooner or later. Just as an example: When you're facing a beautiful woman and she's nut-checking you (shit tests) what is she checking for? Your manhood; your overall behavior. In her own indirect way, she's testing to see how far she can pus…	/r/seduction	24/04/16 12:31 AM
1	The Main Reason Why You’re Failing With Women! A Letter From a Genuine Player Bottom line, if you want to hit the baseball well, you need to learn how to read a pitch and swing the bat perfectly. If you want to be good at chess, you need to learn how to open, how to control the center of the board, and how to mate. If you want to learn how to act, you need to take classes in movement, voice, and technique. Now, will you eventually reach a level where there is some tiny psychological sticking point that is getting in your way? Sure, but that's after thousands of hours of a…	/r/seduction	24/04/16 12:09 AM
1	The Main Reason Why You’re Failing With Women! A Letter From a Genuine Player Fair response and I appreciate you stating your position. But I disagree. Human beings don’t naturally try to work from the inside out. Human beings seek gratification and validation from external sources, not internal. This is why we wear the clothes we wear, listen to the music we listen to, follow the religion we do and buy into media drama. We want to “fit in” with our social circle or society in general. Human beings look outside of themselves to fill “gaps” within their psyche; for lack of…	/r/seduction	23/04/16 11:15 PM
1	The Main Reason Why You’re Failing With Women! A Letter From a Genuine Player You read the entire post and all you got from it was that I was bragging? I explained that working from the outside to the inside, is ineffective. It creates Game leaks (weak areas of Game). Weak Game breeds mistakes and failure. If that’s not substantial then I have to ask, what would you consider substantial? I’m not being facetious, that’s an honest question.	/r/seduction	23/04/16 10:10 PM
1	The Main Reason Why You’re Failing With Women! A Letter From a Genuine Player Far from it my friend. A Mack is what you're aspiring to be whether you realize it or not. He's the consummate "Ladies Man", but on his terms, not the woman's terms.	/r/seduction	23/04/16 06:01 PM
4	Single Parent Game How is having a child a disadvantage? It's actually an advantage. A woman who is worth something will respect you even more for taking care of your child and putting them first. Yes, even before her when it's necessary. Taking good care of your child shows a woman a few things about your character as a man. 1) You're responsible. 2) You take care of people you love. 3) You have patience and compassion as part of your character. 4) You possess leadership capabilities along with good judgment. The…	/r/seduction	03/05/15 09:59 PM
1	Girl in my neighborhood HELP Short answer: "You're in your head to much ABOUT her. And not in your head enough about YOU." Long Answer: The image you've built up about her in your head is breaking your confidence with approaching her. You weren't really clear as to your intentions towards her, but I assume you want a date or at least a phone number for further conversation. Put aside her attractiveness for a moment and what she does or doesn't do in relation to you. Instead think about what YOU want with her. Once that's cl…	/r/seduction	03/05/15 09:48 PM