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| 1 | How do you deal with it?I could've written this. I'm going through a very similar situation. The coldness, detached emotional state and lack of compassion or empathy really hurt. I've been caught in a self blame cycle for a few weeks now and can't quite shake it off yet. It's gotten better with time though. Even in the short time I've been dealing with this. My only advice right now is to reach out to as many friends as possible. Lean on them a little for support. The real ones will let you know who they are and the re… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/26 12:41 PM |
| 5 | So, this happens a lot? Women just leave out of the blue with 0 chance for reconciliation?Hey man, thank you for posting this. I'm in a very similar situation right now. Everything you describe is exactly as it has happened with me. I'm not sure from your message how you're handling it all but I hope you're doing alright. One thing I can say for sure is that I'd never put someone through this kind of stress and pain - let aline someone I supposedly love unconditionally. Let me know if anything has helped you so far. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/26 04:34 PM |
| 1 | How do you cope when you're still living with your ex, but they've already moved on?I'm in the very same position as you. 14 years married. Still living together for now. I still feel married in my heart. Shes seeing someone else. She has processed everything and has moved on before I've had the chance to. I'm sorry I don't have answers, I'm just hoping the confusion and sadness fade. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/26 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Your Divorce Spotify PlaylistHey same here! | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/26 02:01 AM |
| 1 | A new day, a new triggerMe too brother | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/26 11:01 PM |
| 1 | I knew this would be tough. But to see her immediately with another man…I feel you brother. Random flashes of intense emotional pain. Then numbness for a while and the lingering dread of the next attack. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/26 10:21 PM |
| 1 | How many of you thought you would never leave your spouses due to society but ended up leaving anyways and what reason triggered it?Just jumping in to say I'm in a similar boat. Married 14 years, together for 20. She decides one day she doesn't love me, over the following weeks she tells me she doesn't want to fix the marriage and then I find out about another guy. She blames me for being too dependent. I guess I could've given her more space but I had no indication that we were this deep in the hole until the dirt was being shoveled in. It's been a couple days since we agreed to end our relationship and the cruelty has real… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/26 10:04 PM |
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