| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Why Cold Approach/Red Pill destroying men | Conversation | WagerGoat | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 06:49 PM |
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| 4 | I approached two girls yesterday for the first time!Blocking is pointless, it’s either she responds or don’t move on. But Keep sniping and don’t have expectations with any girl you meet | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Where the hell can I meet girls?Outside | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | "Kiss and fuck"Yea right move don’t risk doing it while she drunk | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Has any of you tried the AMS (Alpha Male Strategies) cold approach?Just tell her what you want, if you’re really him then it won’t be a issue | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Has any of you tried the AMS (Alpha Male Strategies) cold approach?Oh lord my head hurts. Let me be clear on one thing… COLD APPROACH DOESNT EXIST. It’s called being a man and getting a girl number. Something your parents and grand parents did. I bet you they didn’t call it a cold approach | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 06:40 PM |
| 2 | How to ask her to be my GFIf a girl ever tried that with me I would just mess around with her sister or bestfriend for being this childish | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 06:38 PM |
| 1 | If i see a women checking me out is it ok to just ask her for her number right there?You just looking at her physically, you go up to her and she come off as a dummy or a girl who play lil games. My point being is you can find other girls like her don’t be so hung up on the IDEA of her. But good luck with that situation | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 06:22 PM |
| 1 | If i see a women checking me out is it ok to just ask her for her number right there?It’s possible if she a regular where you see her at but I wouldn’t be worried about one chick, if you see her again cool, but if not so what? There so many women in the world don’t cripple yourself being tunnel vision | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 06:17 PM |
| 2 | If i see a women checking me out is it ok to just ask her for her number right there?Just get her number, talk to her for a lil bit after y’all exchange contact, text her a lil then call later set up a link | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Need Texting AdviceTbh bro if a girl did all of that on the first date and didn’t let me hit I’ll usually move on, because I don’t let anyone play with me like that. Reason being because if she really wasn’t comfortable she wouldn’t put herself in that situation to begin with. But you seem to really like her so I’m still going to give you my personal advice, once y’all link and the vibes are right, I’ll let her know straight out don’t tease me or get undress if we aren’t gonna do anything because I’ll respect your… | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Help on how to approach and chat up girls in a Nightclub & Bar settingTbh bro don’t pay attention to the comments about you being chubby and short. Fitness helps a lot yea, but it’s more about how you carry and the confidence you have within yourself. So many guys I seen that are 200 plus overweight but get a lot of women. Reminder don’t get in shape for women do it for YOU | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 02:41 PM |
| 5 | Need Texting AdviceTbh you pretty much blew your chance by not laying with her when she was in her bra or panties. Unless she said no then you should had smoothly went with the flow and seal the deal. But you still can get your W, you already have a link set up so just don’t text her until the day y’all actually link. Tbh you should be busy with your goals besides worrying about texting her | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Best book on texting in 2022Text is like talking, I don’t like to text so I would call a girl up and see what she doing ask about her day, then set a link after that hang up and don’t hit her up until the day we agreed to link arrives | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Just went out and did about 15-20 approachesGlad you didn’t say Cold approach I cringe whenever I see people type or say that | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 02:30 PM |
| 3 | How useful is Instagram?Instagram is tricky, you basically fighting a ego because social media is filled with downbads who never touched a girl. That’s why it best to get phone numbers Vs shooting your shot via social media. But to answer your question, Instagram is a alright method if you going for a girl who actively follows and like your stuff and you build a connection or if she a mutual friend then you can have success. Now let’s go with what I said first and if the girl acting all bougie, dont let it shoot your c… | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 02:29 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being Needy and Desperate?That’s where self confidence and loves comes in at. You realize your worth when you don’t try and find validation from someone else. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 01:38 AM |
| 6 | seductive way to respond to compliments?Just be yourself, women can tell right away when you trying to be someone you’re not. Just don’t be creepy and you straight bro | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 03:17 AM |
| 3 | showing you are out with other girls on social mediaWho cares? You not in a relationship if that girl you want gets mad or feel some kind of way then you dodged a bullet. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 03:16 AM |
| 1 | got friendzone but girl gave ma a chance updateWhy you hate yourself? You allowed someone to enter your life and play with your emotions, she knew you wanted more than a friendship but you let her play with you and bs around for an entire year. At this point it not her fault it’s your fault for letting someone do that to you. Friend zone doesn’t exist it only exist if you stick around allowing her to control that field about what y’all are | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Any ideas on why I got ghosted after 3 messages hereOh boy this is a mess but everyone pretty much summed it up right so here my input. You allowed her to control the convo and narrative as a man with self respect you don’t let her play with you like that. You could had just responded then be like “I’m going to ft(or call) around this time” left it at that if she answered to the call set up the next link and leave it as that | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 06:40 PM |
| 2 | When you're rejected, would you prefer the real reason or given a cliche easy let down reason?Does she really know you or she rejecting because she thinks she knows the idea of you? | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 03:54 PM |
| 0 | Took a PUA bootcamp but it didn't change anythingI don’t get why it’s called “cold” approach? But it’s literally called going out and just trying to bag a girl, sorry that word just irritates me because it makes things more complicated for no reason. But the best way to deal with anxiety is just forcing yourself to go out, I’m the worst when it comes to public events but I learned how to put myself out there and it gets easier everytime, now when it comes to women don’t look at rejection personally it shouldn’t matter because that woman not re… | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Do girls get more attracted to us if we have a nice body and workout often?Yea physically you’ll get more open compliments and eyes on you. But tbh a lot of girls like average size men or even chubby guys. I think the clothes and hygiene stands out to them the most | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 03:47 PM |
| 4 | Am I a low status man?Appreciate it bro know everything will work out for you | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 11:02 AM |
| 3 | Am I a low status man?When it comes to attracting women, it should be first how you want people to look at you. For example, I carry myself with honor and let people know that I’m always gonna represent myself the best way I can, that attitude Carrie’s over to talking with women. You must not be afraid to lose her if she doesn’t respect or understand what you will or won’t tolerate. Best thing to do is change how you see yourself and understand I don’t need money to be the best thing that can happen to you but always… | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 11:00 AM |
| 5 | Am I a low status man?High value isn’t dependent on money, it’s about your morals, honor and how you can carry yourself. | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 10:48 AM |
| 2 | Caught feelings before meeting, fuckFlirting doesn’t mean anything especially in these times, but you basically answering your own question. It’s a waste of time then because when a girl actually likes a guy she really doesn’t tell him all the stuff she telling you. But maybe she a different case best of luck to you bro | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Caught feelings before meeting, fuckAlright have one last question for you then, you okay with JUST that? Being casual with her? | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Caught feelings before meeting, fuckTbh y’all have other things in mind, you want more with her and it seems like she just want to have sex and good vibes with no feelings attached, can’t tell you what to do but this all heading to you getting your feelings hurt | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Caught feelings before meeting, fuckWaste of time tbh, haven’t met her in person to even like her that much, once you start talking to women in your area and get that energy out you wouldn’t even care to speak with her trust me | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 01:26 AM |
| 1 | I [25M] can't act like a lover but only like a friendTbh bro I wouldn’t use your friend as a example, since you were her friend for awhile those usually don’t end well as far as asking her out, but the way can become a lover boy is being comfortable with rejection. What I mean by that is when you approach a girl and get her number or talking to her in person let it be known what your intentions are and don’t act all buddy buddy, if you want her in a way a friend shouldn’t want someone then build conversation that opens her mentally, with that you … | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Just got rejected…? After a lot of green flags, this feels offWell read what you said in the end. “Instagram dms” I have this rule, if I met you irl then I’m getting the number not a social media handle because when you get their snap,insta,etc. her interest level is not as high and you working your way up to get the number. This is what make men powerful, the ability to walk away and know your worth. Let’s say she said “I don’t give ppl my number who I just met” I would then not be interested to know her further, why? Because if she really liked you then … | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Today I lost my V-card to a super hot(9+) girl who mocked my inexperience. I dont know if I should be happy or sad about itYou got laid be proud, says more about her than you if she expected a virgin to be some porn star level warrior | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Second time going to a bar aloneTbh loyal girls not giving a guy her number so the fact she was entertaining it kind of tells you, but yea all I can say is see if she replies, if not I wouldn’t sweat it or anything. Just see this as a stepping stone for you to get more numbers whenever you approach a girl you find attractive | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Second time going to a bar aloneAhh I would say she playing games but at the same time she does have a bf so she probably thinking about that. But usually I would call right then and there to confirm then hit her up later. But hopefully it all works out for you bro | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 05:36 PM |
| 1 | How many dates before throwing in the towelTbh if it a girl I’m dealing with me and her have a understanding what the intentions are. The longest I ever waited was a week to have sex with a woman, but I always give it a 2 week deadline | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Should I just go clubbing?Try going out to public places in general and you’ll see how you can meet women just by picking up your order from a curbside | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Second time going to a bar aloneTbh if she gave you her number then she expects you to use it, my experience if a taken girl gave me her number then she obviously know I’m not looking to be just friends. But if hookups isn’t what you trying to do with her then a job well done | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 05:27 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to girls at work who keep asking if/who I'm fucking?Easy to avoid their questions but you literally have so much luck with your situation you can easily turn that into game to get with a few of them. Whenever a girl ask me about any girls I been smashing I always flip it around on them and ask if they trying to add on that list. | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Personally, how do you balance seeing multiple women?Personally I know what kind of girl someone is and where I stand so it easy for me to talk to multiple, besides I enjoy being single so I know not to get too attached and tell them from the start I ain’t looking for a relationship | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 09:47 AM |
| 4 | Fall Back guy disguised as Male Best Friend?The friend zone doesn’t exist, it only exist if you let it. Tell her what you want, and if she still trying to pull the friend card just cut her off. Me personally would make sure it a fwb situation if anything | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 09:45 AM |
| 1 | First date cancelled twice - how to proceed?This recently happened to me and what I did was just move on to the next, funny enough once you do that she’ll eventually hit u up again but don’t do it hoping she’ll want to hang, do it for yourself and show your worth | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Do you think I'd have more luck actually going out?Shouldn’t rely on dating apps, you’re older than those apps just think about it. Our parents didn’t swipe left or right, they had to go out and meet each other | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 10:12 AM |
| 1 | How to talk about nothing?Just say what’s on your mind, let her talk(women can talk your head off) just pay attention and listen while getting to know her mindset. The key is to open her up mentally do that and you’ll get her to be opened to you physically. From my experience me getting to know a woman mentally and learning how they operate actually led the woman to iniate sexual conversations, but that shouldn’t be the only reason you do it, just that so many dudes try to openly fuck so when I come around it put me in a… | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 10:11 AM |
| 2 | Would you act seductively towards women you have no interest in dating seriously?Please if you are thinking about sticking around hoping he’ll change his mind, then do yourself a favor and don’t stick around. Speaking from experience as that guy who tell women I don’t want a relationship from them, I easily can still find them attractive and treat them like someone more because naturally I’m a man who flirts and know how to get inside the girl I’m talking to mind. But In the end it’s all depends how big of a deal is it for you to be in a relationship with him, if you can han… | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Why do women feel entitled of you as men taking them out to dinner on a first date?Tbh it only the way you carry yourself determines how a woman would try you. When I had no clue how to deal with women when I was 19, I always believed a proper date was to take them out to dinner. But fast forward to now I realized that if she really vibe with you and you let her know from the jump by actions you aren’t that guy that’ll put her on a pedestal, she’ll be so invested that y’all can even link at a park | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Girls ghosted me, after 6 months she asked to hang out twiceTbh I personally wouldn’t even deal with her but you can keep her as a option for pleasure if all goes well. Wouldn’t take her seriously | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 04:12 AM |
| 8 | The power of texting lessI find it weird to text a girl all day, have other things important to me. But the less you available the more she’ll be interested, me personally I text a girl 5-10 messages (depending how good the conversation is) then I’ll tell her I’ll call or ft her around 7 pm or 9. Talk for 30 to an hour, set up a date to link and hit her up when the date of the link happens | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 06:26 PM |
| 5 | I went from shy virgin to fuckboyGreat job, I was like that for the longest, scared to talk to girls, approach but all it take is that 1 good interaction with a girl and your confidence only going up | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 06:16 PM |
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